Bottoms do you normally cum during a hookup?

I can’t cum while being fucked. I wish I could. I love the sensation of getting fucked but I have to jerk off to cum.

I'm a top who loves to see his bottoms cum also. The best thing in the world, frankly. As for myself, I rarely cum when I'm inside them; mostly always have to finish myself off afterwards.

Can't you do both at the same time. R1?

r2 Why?

R4 Probably addicted to masturbation, so he doesn't get too much out of sex.

R2 here. As much as I hate to admit it, it's primarily due to the fact that condoms pretty much kill all sensation for me, but I refuse to fuck raw, so I just have to live with it. But that's okay; I'm more concerned with the guy I'm fucking shooting his load than with myself, not because I'm such a nice guy but because if you leave 'em happy, they often come back for more.

r6 How do you stay hard if you don't get any sensation?

R7, staying hard is not an issue for me, thankfully. If the guy is hot and knows how to push all of my buttons (like being already naked when I get there, or wearing only some sexy underwear that he lets me slip off of him, and just giving in and being submissive, etc.), this drill could go through stone, trust me. And just pushing up into a wet, tight, hairy hole as he moans in my ear really turns me on to the point that all I want to do is split him in half.

By the way, I know what raw fucking feels like because the condom broke while I was fucking this guy once (my neighbor across the hall). We were going at it and my cock just burst right through it. I didn't realize it at first, just that the sex began to feel really fucking amazing for a few minutes there. Of course, when I finally figured out what had happened, we immediately stopped and I put on another condom. We were more careful the next time but yeah, it felt so good.

Never understood this condoms making you lose all sensation thing.

r9 He's probably overstating it. If he had no sensation, he wouldn't stay hard.

Anyway, I suspect r8 must be using the wrong condom size. Or, he's addicted to masturbation, which makes sex feel unsatisfying.

[quote]R9 Never understood this condoms making you lose all sensation thing.

Yeah...like we need tops to come FASTER??

I don't like tops who go and on. I'd have done my grocery shopping list in my head and find he's still be plowing at it.

Right....but they should last a DECENT amount of time. Enough time for you to adjust and enjoy it, and get off, too.

I'm sorry, this is not up for a vote at this time.

R6

So they come back for more of what you don’t get much out of?