Can an older man on Grindr find sex with a younger guy, without a money exchange?

If you're an aggressive top, OP, then yes. Even if not you still can, but it's a little harder and you need to be in decent shape.

Yes, OP, there is. 61 here, average looks, no $$$. Grindr works ok for me.

OP here. I find Grindr weird because a few days can go by with no one texting, but then you can get 4 or 5 in a matter of a few hours. I always remind myself it is a hook up app, nothing more. The first guy I hooked up with was recently out of college and had a boyfriend about the same age. This guy had a great gym built body and he told me that his boyfriend rarely fucks him anymore and has trouble keeping an erection. This floored me. I rode him hard and he enjoyed himself. He reaches out every so often when he is bored, which is ok by me. I know not to look for him because of the boyfriend situation. I consider this guy beginner's luck on Grindr as there has been nothing as good since.

Don't be shy. I've just learned to lead with "Into older?" if they ignore you or say no, it's not like you've missed your opportunity. You'll never interact with them again anyway. The second the say Gen? hit delete.

I'm 56 and I just had an incredible hook up with a 24 year old. Only because I told him what I was up front.

Btw, he spent the entire time writhing "Oh, my fucking God" before he came LOADS.

Sure, OP. I accept jewelry, stocks,cars...