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Penis Shrinkage

I'm definitely a grower, as opposed to a shower. I have a nice, thick one. BUT, when I'm just walking around during the day, you would think I'd been soaking in ice water. Why does my penis get so small and retracted when not in use? It's embarrassing. If I were to wear a small bathing suit, or bicycling shorts, it would look like I have a little peanut in there. Once I get 'fluffed out' and/or hard, I'm fine. Anyone else have this issue? It seems like it's only begun to do this in the last 4 or 5 years as I've hit late 30s, about to be 40.

by Anonymousreply 44September 4, 2018 8:05 PM

Same. My doctor said it was the medication I was taking. I quit taking the medication for a year - no change.

by Anonymousreply 1August 31, 2018 2:32 PM

Same... sometimes it looks great when flaccid but a lot of the time it just shrinks right up... With a little fluff it looks good but most of the time it shrinks...

by Anonymousreply 2August 31, 2018 2:34 PM

Pics please, OP. Thanks hon.

by Anonymousreply 3August 31, 2018 2:37 PM

Condoling you as I type this

by Anonymousreply 4August 31, 2018 2:37 PM

it just does.....

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by Anonymousreply 5August 31, 2018 2:38 PM

i asked my DR the same question. he said age and general "relaxing" muscles at the core because of aging, will make it look even smaller. my only saving grace is that when excited, the original length comes back.

by Anonymousreply 6August 31, 2018 2:43 PM

In my exp, most uncut guys look relatively bigger soft.

by Anonymousreply 7August 31, 2018 2:44 PM

OP = micropenis

by Anonymousreply 8August 31, 2018 2:48 PM

I have a lush 8x6 cock that bottoms adore.

When I’m soft, it’s tiny. I love seeing the surprise in their eyes when they see what it becomes.

by Anonymousreply 9August 31, 2018 2:51 PM

r8 not OP, but i have no cock at all soft, easily 6 inches up and hard.

by Anonymousreply 10August 31, 2018 2:51 PM

This thread is useless without comparison pics.

by Anonymousreply 11August 31, 2018 2:53 PM

OP, you fat, and not phat.

by Anonymousreply 12August 31, 2018 3:03 PM

No, I'm not the least bit fat (or phat, sadly). I'm actually in pretty good shape. Just shrinking.......

by Anonymousreply 13August 31, 2018 3:26 PM

Just messin' with you OP. You sound fit with a delish dick.

by Anonymousreply 14August 31, 2018 3:29 PM

l'm just jelly, as the kidz would say.

by Anonymousreply 15August 31, 2018 3:32 PM

What R9 said

by Anonymousreply 16August 31, 2018 3:45 PM

I never was huge to begin with, so ha, ha!

by Anonymousreply 17August 31, 2018 3:51 PM

OP and two friends

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by Anonymousreply 18August 31, 2018 4:08 PM

its a shame that so much of a man's worth is vested in the size of his cock. that doesn't make the man. but damn, i do love to play with the man with the big one!

by Anonymousreply 19August 31, 2018 4:39 PM

This happened to me also....49 now. Tried the www.stealth.com sleeve for about a year...that kinda worked...but it was tiresome to wear it all the time. Now take a hit of levitra to counter the turtling....it seems to work well. Tried cialis, but the back pain in too much for me.

by Anonymousreply 20August 31, 2018 6:17 PM

Nothing hotter than seeing or feeling a soft cock get big and hard

by Anonymousreply 21August 31, 2018 6:23 PM

A prostatectomy can take away about a half inch in length but some poor fellows report they've lost 2.5 inches flaccid! Some of that is supposed to return in the fullness of time.

by Anonymousreply 22August 31, 2018 6:29 PM

My gut and my butt constantly collude to hide my pecker, forcing me to use these tiny hands to track it down.

by Anonymousreply 23August 31, 2018 7:00 PM

The older you become the fewer erections you have. Your testosterone levels shrink concomitantly so you really don’t care. When you’re young you think that is the great tragedy, but actually it’s a bit of a relief. That “itch” drove me crazy in my twenties and thirties. I had some good times but I can’t say any of it made me happy. My life is bigger, fuller and happier since I’ve aged.

by Anonymousreply 24August 31, 2018 7:15 PM

this "itchy" person is in his 70s, and i still have no desire to lay down and die (sexually) boners no loger greet me every morning, but put a sexy man near me and he had better be on guard. erection will commence!

by Anonymousreply 25August 31, 2018 7:34 PM

Sorry, dear, but 4" hard is NOT big. I don't care what your mother told you.

by Anonymousreply 26August 31, 2018 7:43 PM

Good for you R25!! Attitude!

by Anonymousreply 27August 31, 2018 7:44 PM

OMG, r20, that Stealth sleeve is ridiculous .... I just watched their videos...

by Anonymousreply 28August 31, 2018 11:40 PM

Maybe carry a dick pic on your phone of your hard cock and whip it out when you meet new people to set the record straight?

by Anonymousreply 29August 31, 2018 11:47 PM

Why do you want your dick to look big when you're just walking around? Do you typically walk around naked?

by Anonymousreply 30August 31, 2018 11:49 PM

Maybe your underwear it to fitted and tight. Buy a size larger

by Anonymousreply 31August 31, 2018 11:58 PM

R30:

It’s all about that BDE

by Anonymousreply 32September 1, 2018 12:02 AM

Mine's not very big (a little over 5" hard) but luckily it's about 4" flaccid.

by Anonymousreply 33September 1, 2018 12:09 AM

[quote]This happened to me also....49 now. Tried the www.stealth.com sleeve for about a year...that kinda worked...but it was tiresome to wear it all the time. Now take a hit of levitra to counter the turtling....it seems to work well. Tried cialis, but the back pain in too much for me.

I'm confused, you take a drug to not look small while flaccid? Why?

by Anonymousreply 34September 1, 2018 1:26 AM

Put a sock in there, op and others.

by Anonymousreply 35September 1, 2018 1:34 AM

like that current tv ad (for Harry's?) where the guy at the end wads up a bunch of toiletpaper and shoves it down his underwear.?

by Anonymousreply 36September 1, 2018 2:12 AM

(R34) ...you're in your 20's aren't you?

by Anonymousreply 37September 4, 2018 2:05 PM

Have you gained weight lately? Sometimes PAF (pubic area fat) can tend to envelope your penis, causing it to kind of shrink into the extra blubber around the area.

by Anonymousreply 38September 4, 2018 2:08 PM

[quote]you're in your 20's aren't you?

What does that have to do with someone taking a drug to not shrink FLACCID. Never heard of it and seems bizarre.

by Anonymousreply 39September 4, 2018 2:09 PM

Could it be blood pressure issues?

There are actually some blood pressure medicines (alpha-blockers) like Terazosin that supposedly counteract turtling, but they can sometimes have negative, erection-related side effects, as well.

It's September, so you should still have your "Summer Penis". It's a real phenomenon.

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by Anonymousreply 40September 4, 2018 7:31 PM

i have outstanding BP numbers for an old fat man 128/82 but still evedry year the turtle crawls further into his shell. i'm sure if i lost a lot of weight it might be better. but even in my well toned youth i still had men do double takes when they saw me at full erection sizw and again in the after state.

by Anonymousreply 41September 4, 2018 7:56 PM

evedry = every ^

by Anonymousreply 42September 4, 2018 7:57 PM

OP, you type flaccid.

by Anonymousreply 43September 4, 2018 8:00 PM

My wealth is increasing and my dick is deflating.

by Anonymousreply 44September 4, 2018 8:05 PM
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