You weren’t attracted to them...until you saw their huge cock

Small dicks always chase big dicks.

It certainly can tip the scales favorably.

This thread is worthless without pictures.

I was molested.

But ya are, OP. Ya are.

I thought I was the only one. Yes, it’s totally superficial. I think behind it all is, not being so well endowed myself, it’s the feeling of ‘wow, you’re a real man and you want to fuck me.’ Damn, goosebumps just thinking about it.

A huge member is always a lovely finish after a nice dinner.

On the flip side, as someone who's blessed in the meat department, I know instantly when someone suddenly becomes flirty when they hear I'm endowed. Recently my on-again/off-again BF made a joke about it at a party. Out of nowhere, this cute but stuck-up guy who barely acknowledged my existence 2 minutes before was suddenly all attentive. No thanks.

A large penis is always welcome

Butcha' ARE, Blanche, ya' ARE!

Enough with the Baby Jane references and more of the cock talk

Those big slabs are nice lo look at but otherwise are a pain in the ass.

[quote]I thought I was the only one.

...seriously? You thought you were the only gay guy who is into big dicks? Were you raised on Antarctica?

Many things can sweeten a sour dish.

It depends on the person. Sometimes a big cock gives certain guys a wicked edge, for others it will never help.

I love Quick Time Harch!

Danny Dong has a meh face. Dumb chav-geek pot head with moles. But his big dick works well with his face and skinny body and cheesy enthusiastic attitude.

And Gay porn has plenty of guys with meh faces but stunning meat, that makes them oddly sexy overall.

It depends OP. How big is your dick?

[quote]I can’t deny it I was horny so went back to his just to fill a void.

Can we assume your void was indeed filled?

Whore!

Weird looking guys have the biggest dicks. Something about the disproportion. Body and face.

"Gay porn has plenty of guys with meh faces but stunning meat, that makes them oddly sexy overall."

It's known as BDF (Big Dick Face).

Some guys are just average-looking but they have BDF and it makes them oddly attractive.

There's a guy at work who has BDF. He wears loose-fitting jeans but you can usually see the big bulge. I always get a glimpse.

Dicks don't fill emotional voids. Or fix a broken psyche.

Another way I guess I just don't fit in, a huge dick is more likely to turn me off than turn me on. I am a face and personality guy, I couldn't care one lick about the size of a guys cock. Pun intended.

from soup to NUTS

I think it's brave and honest of you to refer to your gaping chasm as a "void," OP. Kudos.

r26 Oop!

“...just to fill a void”? What a user you are, OP. “No interest in you, just interested in myself.”

Disgusting individual.

'Oop!', for r28.

I don't care how big the cock is, if it's attached to someone I didn't find attractive in the first place both physically and as I person. It doesn't make a difference.

OOOOOO YES YES AND YES. Show me the beef.

R17 Different stroke for different folks. As I am more of a top (though not gonna sit here and claim to be a 'total top'), cock is pretty irrelevant to me. Body and face are more important. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder as I for one am partial to the chav/scally look. I grew up middle class, but I have always lusted after council lads for some reason. Danny D is like an 8 to me regardless of his penis size (well actually he is a 1, as any guy who fucks women is utterly gross to me).

Not sure if my link below will display. But if you're able to see the picture, some good looking men are handsome. And yes, a large cock gets my attention but it isn't everything.

Why does "Juliesha" feel the need to sign its pointless posts?

Thank you for your candor OP, I totally agree. As someone who’s always had a small cock (I’m around 3.5” hard) I can never carry myself with gravitas as I don’t feel like a ‘man’s man.’ I’ve even hired men who on the basis of assuming they have big dicks. It works in reverse. I was seeing a guy who had a beautiful body, face, was charming. I assumed he had a big black cock. When we finally got down to it I reached down and felt a small worm-like cock that felt like mine. I’m ashamed to say I ran out straight away as I’d almost lost all respect for him there and then.

I HOPE HE RIPS YOUR FLACID MUSSY TO PIECES.

r34 I understand that you are in pain.

My condolences for whatever great tragedy has befallen you in life.

you are a size queen and I prefer tiny meat.

Small weenies hurt! They poke.

Come on peoples. More please

I wonder why there isn't a truly great online forum for lesbians. Maybe because we wouldn't be having this conversation. Still. I really wonder.

OP you are a superficial bitch. Fuck you!

It can certainly happen. I worked with a guy I couldn't stand who reported to me. His work sucked and he plagiarized things. I wanted to fire him but for some reason my boss liked him. Our working relationship was always tense. He was also into me, but I didn't return the interest. Eventually he wound up reporting to someone else.

He wasn't my type at all. But one day in the restroom I saw his big, floppy cock. Suddenly the tension became sexual. One weekend at the gay bar, he asked if we could talk about our past work issues. I said sure and he suggested his place. It all led to me with my legs in the air while he pumped his 9 inch uncut dick in and out of me on his living room couch. Honestly, it really wasn't that good. Big dick but ultimately I just wasn't feeling it. I wound up fantasizing about another guy I was into so I could cum.

I was told once 'How can someone with such a big cock be so shy?'

I get a hell of a lot more attention on apps / websites where I can show my cock than those where I can only show my face. And it does piss me off that I'm only considered worthy of attention by some people because I have a big cock. I get told pretty regularly 'Hey you're not my type but I have to say that's an amazing cock'.

Gee thanks.

Nacho Vidal is the perfect example of a guy I'd ordinarily find fuck-ugly, but his cock makes me look at him and SWOON! Suddenly he's so attractive to me.

I'm in a similar situation. I'm very small framed, and get lots of "eh, he's cute" . but NEVER "he's hot."

I have a pretty big dick for a skinny guy. A big group of us went to a beach party once, and apparently my trunks were very revealing once they got wet. I did not know this at the time, and kept wondering why as the day went on, more and more young guys were coming over talking to me and hanging out. They wouldn't have given me the time of day before.

I have a bf now, so I guess it doesn't matter, but it was a weird feeling, and similar things had happened before.

Big dicks rule.

OP did you present hole?

Mary r43 = GRANDCANYON that could not feel a fat 9-incher!

I'd rather get with an ugly guy with a big dick than a short guy with a big dick.

Why “them”? When you’re talking cock, “him” is sufficient.

" I can’t deny it I was horny so went back to his just to fill a void. "

OP, you type Fucked.

I'm on a website discussing huge cock at 8am; I doubt I really really care about the attractiveness of their bodies.

Interesting story, R43. And did you end up talking about your past work issues?

I suspect two of my coworkers swing some heavy pipe, but they are sit-to-pee-ers. With youngsters, it's all about phone access. We can hear you unlock, you know.

Dicks don't fill emotional voids. Or fix a broken psyche.

Neither does pussy dummy

It takes 30 seconds to pee. They can't be without their phone for 30 seconds??

[quote]Juliesha

Chaim? Or pishik?

Jewish. NOT black.

Spoiled rich brat.

[quote] It takes 30 seconds to pee. They can't be without their phone for 30 seconds??

Go the men's room after the movies. Long row of guys taking a piss, all on their phones, furiously catching up because they've been off the grid for 90 minutes. No, they can't wait another 3 minutes.

What's the point of dealing with a big dick? It only gets in the way no matter how you apply it.

If a person doesn't look attractive to me, I don't give a fuck about the content of their pants.

R13 It is a curious phenomenon though. They say women fetishize cocks because they don't have any, but a man has his own, so it shouldn't really hold much of an interest.

Like the OP, I once hooked up with a guy from work. Cute face, tall and thin. A bit of a jerk. Nobody really liked him but he was really flirty so I went to lunch with him. He suggested we go back to my apartment after lunch (I didn't live too far from the office) so we did and when I pulled down his jeans out flopped this monster. I blurted out 'Hell, I didn't know this model came in white' and he just gave me this goofy grin.

I did my best to get it all in my mouth and then I grabbed a condom and started to put it on him. He said 'I really don't like condoms, they hurt' (duh) so I asked him if he was 'healthy' (this was 1988, I was speaking euphemistically). He said he was, so I applied a ton of lube and tried to get that thing in my ass. It hurt like hell and he wasn't very patient. My BF at the time also had a big dick and my 'technique' was to sit down on it s-l-o-w-l-y until I got comfortable, then go further and further down until he was all in. Office Guy just wanted to slam it in and get going, and the more time I took the more difficulty he had maintaining his erection. Finally we gave up and I jerked him off (two-handed) and we went back to the office.

We never hooked up again. We had a little gym at the office and, if I was working late, he'd sometimes parade past my desk in short shorts, or even just a towel and give me a glimpse, but I just didn't want to try again. Of course I told the other gays at the office about his big dick, but nobody seemed impressed. 'Yeah, it still doesn't make him a nice guy', was the usual reply.

I left that job and less than a year later I opened the Bay Area Reporter to see his obituary. Fucker died of AIDS. I have tried to give him the benefit of the doubt (he didn't know he was HIV+, he didn't come in my ass, etc) but it forever convinced me that men are jerks who just want to get off.

Lucky, R63. Glad you're still here.

R32 So you meet the hottest guy ever with a great personality, you have amazing sex, and then he admits he is bisexual and his ex was a girl. Grossed out much?

I get that DL is supposed to be mindless fun but this is part of the reason that so many gay men are unhappy. I'd take kindness, intelligence and a good sense of humor over ANYTHING physical attribute.

A big dick is not the only reason to appreciate a man, but it is one valid reason. There is much to appreciate about a big dick. So, if life serves one up to you, go ahead and be attracted to it. Enjoy it. But don't dis the owner.

Big cocks are overrated.

[quote] This guy at my work place was constantly hitting on me and asking me out on a date. I evenually gave in and went to dinner. He’s not particularly attractive, quite gawky and goofy. I can’t deny it I was horny so went back to his just to fill a void. I wasn’t expecting much and then it happened. He pulled out the most delicious and smooth cock I’ve probaly ever seen. When he was hard it was a good 9 inches.

That must have been some dinner for the other patrons at the restaurant.

R63 You cheated on your bf with a guy you didn't even like and the thought about jerks was a surprise to you?

I found out my friend has a huge dick. His dick pics sort of made the rounds after he sent them to a trick who is a friend of a friend. He is a fairly attractive guy, shaved head, deep voice, and nice. Now I find myself looking at his crotch and thinking about him when I jerk off. It just want to try it once.

I'll just offer this hilarious porn scene.

R66 Hell no I want my sex partners to be able to trigger aesthetic pleasure in addition to everything else.

But as I said above, a big cock isn't practical. I'll always take a medium size over a large one, and both the cock and the guy have to be good looking. Small one is no problem either. I also like perky, energetic cocks, and large ones tend to just hang there.

A wise eldersister once warned us as we began our second ill-fated marriage with a gorgeous 9-incher who also liked to fuck fish: "Remember honey, big dick means big trouble"!

Smaller cocks tend to shoot sperm further. I've noticed that.

I've always kept it in mind that awkwardly skinny dudes often have enormous dicks.

The Dax Shepard syndrome, as I like to call it. Lanky + weirdly angular face = double digit donger.

In my own personal experience, this has been true.

[quote]I know it’s only a cock

Bitch, please!

Wars have been waged over cock.

"Delicious and smooth" -- it sounds like you're describing Betty Crocker cake batter, not a phallus. All that's missing is the word "moist"

Hate those cakes.

Can't people bake their own cakes anymore? Geez.

Epitome

[quote] You cheated on your bf with a guy you didn't even like and the thought about jerks was a surprise to you?

R70 I'll go one further.

Not only was I cheating on my boyfriend with the Office Guy, I was cheating on my partner with the boyfriend.

Not particularly proud of any of it, but in my defense I will say that all relationships were mutually non-monogamous. But I will say, when it comes to degrees of jerkdom, I think there's a difference between having a little side fling and potentially infecting someone with a deadly disease.

BTW, I ended up leaving the partner for the boyfriend, and then 8 years later the boyfriend left ME for another (karma, party of one).

My head is spinning.

r78=fish

R80, body stubble is not your friend. Also, he has Satan-face.

who is that in r80 photo?

What on Earth do you need with a 9” cock unless you’re a chick?!! If you’re a dude, you must be really loose.

OP is just as shallow and self seeking as the rest of us.

Yeah - like a rape fantasy, it’s good to remember what is really pleasurable and fulfilling vs. momentarily exciting. I love a big dick but “dickmatization” is real. It can blind you to a lot of issues in the short term. And in general, picking a partner for purely sexual reasons is a mistake. Long term, personality is what matters.

R69: was it that hard to read and comprehend that one paragraph?

R65 Yes, total dick-wilter. But it wouldn't get that far; I dont fuck guys who believe they are bi. Not hating, turn them down nicely (I get hit up alot on grinder from bi guys who want to deepthroat my cock). No hate, people like what they like, its just a total turn off. I want a real focused, gay bottom. End of story.

‘I didn’t know this model came in white.’ You sir are my new hero. Wish we were friends!

Though I don’t enjoy a big cock sexually the symbolism of one is a different story. I have a smallish dick and when I know someone is larger than me (particularly if they’re huge) then I go into subservient mode with them, they’re the boss as they have the huge cock. I’m not talking about the bedroom here I’m talking about the boardroom. There’s no knowledge or intellect I could acquire that would be a match for that big cock. It’s a deserved king maker.

[quote]I have a smallish dick

How small is it?

It’s 5.3 hard

R90 A guy can lie, you know. It's possible to even enter a relationship while believing the lie.

R92 You must have a really hard time with female bosses.

[quote] I go into subservient mode with them, they’re the boss as they have the huge cock. I’m not talking about the bedroom here I’m talking about the boardroom. There’s no knowledge or intellect I could acquire that would be a match for that big cock. It’s a deserved king maker.

Bow down, you silly silly goose!

R44, thoughts and prayers.

R95 No shit sherlock. I could have fucked a guy who is married and has 10 kids, your point? Its if I KNOW a guy is interested in women that I am turned off. Sexual attraction is half psychological. I mean there are plenty of guys who are the opposite of me; very turned on by having sex with men who also sleep with women.

However claims I would date a bisexual without knowing isnt really true; unless they are a lying psychopath who pretends to be gay in order to date me; well then there are a million other issues surrounding that person in the first place isnt there?

R85, here.

I consider myself fascinated by size seeing as I'm small. Often the dick picks are great and you look at them and get that I just want to hook up feeling.

But then you see the face pic...

And no, that doesn't do it for me.

Rather be with a good looking guy with average (perhaps even small) than an ugleh with big cock.

Also, I find shape more appealing. Girth in the right spots is better than a long stick.

I honestly don’t care much about looks - all about a nice dick.

This reminds me of when I was in college and joined a new circle of friends. They were all twink types (early 20s, toned, stylish, etc.). All except for one guy, who was in his early 30s and was the epitome of an AWG. He also had a boring and dull personality, which stuck out in a group of quick-witted and funny guys. I just couldn't figure it out.

Well, I soon learned why they hung out with him. 1. He had a crazy big dick -- it was so thick you couldn't wrap your hand completely around it. 2. He had fucked (or was currently fucking) all the guys in the group.

The face matters the most to me. I’d take a really good looking guy with an average to small cock. Over the ugly guy with the big cock any day.

You got it!

OP’s hole.

R106 Sweet Mary mother of Jeezus!

And

That way stretched out sphincter in [R106] looks like Audrey II, in “Little Shop of Horrors!”

Ahhhh, R106 shows you all your ass could be, if you would only put in the time and effort!

Like the stingers in The Strain

I LITERALLY and happily fucked a horse hung freaky circus carny. Several times in his mini aluminum caravan in a traveling circus.

Wow

No more?

I don't see you posting anything, r114, either here or in the Hung Nerds thread.

I guess baby did cry the day the circus came to town R112

Is that Pizza Otter guy gay?

Never mind I found him, he's cute but he's an Only Fans whore.

So many men. I admit it. Such a size queen

Own it, gurl.

Ditto

I dated a guy with a big dick. That wasn't enough.

I like tiny cocks.

Usually, guys with huge dicks are huge assholes so I'm glad I'm a top.