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Bottoms wearing high heels

I've got a quandary, you guys. You see, I'm a strict bottom in his 50s, happily married to my husbear of two decades. I have a decidedly femmy wardrobe, while my husbear, who I can assure you is built like a sturdy shit brickhouse, is masc as hell. he wears unwashed leather jeans, singlets, and cowboy boots. I am decidedly more fey. I tend to favor spandex, short shorts, board shorts, midriff baring vests and thongs. Recently, I've been thinking about my footwear. I always used to be a flipflops and birkenstocks kind of guy, until I discovered that high heels did wonders for my bubble butt, which is unfortunately not as wide or as firm as it was in my youth when I was still a femmy chub powerbottoming for str8 or masc tops. Now my husbear is convinced that high heels are gross and unmasculine. He's ashamed to be seen outside with me when I wear hotpants and high heels. I think he may have a great deal of internalized homophobia he needs to deal with before he an accept how fucking fabulous I look. W

What does the DL say - should bottoms wear thongs and high heels, or is that borderline tranny?

by Anonymousreply 49August 19, 2018 11:06 AM

UPDATE: My husbear is telling me that our adopted son is also embarrassed to be seen around town with me. I'm very disappointed. We raised him to be gay, and he's currently also bottoming in his relationship with an older man. I would have expected him as a fellow bottom to be more understanding.

by Anonymousreply 1August 18, 2018 4:11 PM

0/10.

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by Anonymousreply 2August 18, 2018 4:12 PM

Does your father still point to your tiny cocklet and laugh, or does your son and husbear do that now?

by Anonymousreply 3August 18, 2018 4:13 PM

^^Blocked

by Anonymousreply 4August 18, 2018 4:13 PM

R3 - my husbear and son are much more understanding, compassionate, and decent than my awful father was. I went up to his cabin in Montana a few weeks ago with my brother. He denied the abuse flat out and demanded we get the fuck off his property before he gave us a cold steel enema. We left at roughly the speed of light, but it confirmed what a cruel and awful man he was.

by Anonymousreply 5August 18, 2018 4:15 PM

How, exactly, did you raise your son to be gay?

by Anonymousreply 6August 18, 2018 4:17 PM

God, I miss Windy Girl.

by Anonymousreply 7August 18, 2018 4:18 PM

*Wundy,* dammit

by Anonymousreply 8August 18, 2018 4:19 PM

"shit brickhouse" LOL, OP.

The Commod(e)ors were self-censoring with that 2-3 beat break between "brick" and "house". Most of my peers weren't familiar with the original expression, either.

Does he still own the cabin? Or was that the raping daddy that forced his 'son' to wear girls togs?

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by Anonymousreply 9August 18, 2018 4:19 PM

Trolling.

by Anonymousreply 10August 18, 2018 4:20 PM

Why do you deserve heel support? You should be in those ballet flats and hold yourself upon toes -es. Yeah, fuck you Safari. I'm misspelling and there's nothing autocorrect can do. Hah!

by Anonymousreply 11August 18, 2018 4:33 PM

If you were fabulous, you'd have a portable barre and staff to set it up for impromptu cheek-sneak hole presentation.

by Anonymousreply 12August 18, 2018 4:35 PM

I laugh at your story as though it were your puny cocklet

by Anonymousreply 13August 18, 2018 4:45 PM

If you raised your son to be gay then that’s child abuse. However, I think your whole story is bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 14August 18, 2018 4:59 PM

OP was a bed wetter - but it was more of a hobby than anything else.

by Anonymousreply 15August 18, 2018 5:01 PM

R14 outs itself as a homophobe. And likely one who thinks transing kids is the right thing to do.

by Anonymousreply 16August 18, 2018 5:23 PM

What size women's shoe do you wear?

by Anonymousreply 17August 18, 2018 5:30 PM

R16: How am I a homophobe? I’m against transing a kid as much as I’m against influencing a child’s sexuality when he’s too young to understand what he is. If you think that’s homophobic then you’re seriously messed up.

by Anonymousreply 18August 18, 2018 5:43 PM

You guys sound like you'd be great at parties...as long as you're caterers.

by Anonymousreply 19August 18, 2018 5:45 PM

This is more believable than 99 percent of personal stories posted on DL.

by Anonymousreply 20August 18, 2018 6:15 PM

This homophobe again?

by Anonymousreply 21August 18, 2018 6:20 PM

I am surprised that no one has demanded OP die in a grease fire yet

by Anonymousreply 22August 18, 2018 6:44 PM

Less is more when it comes to elaborate scenarios, OP.

by Anonymousreply 23August 18, 2018 6:45 PM

Just make all your shorts and skirts assless, OP

then people will look at your ass again

See, it's not about the heels

by Anonymousreply 24August 18, 2018 6:47 PM

This is why we can't have nice things.

by Anonymousreply 25August 18, 2018 6:58 PM

To those who ask why I raised my son to be gay, if str8s can raise their children to be str8, we can raise our children to be gay.

by Anonymousreply 26August 18, 2018 7:02 PM

Heels

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by Anonymousreply 27August 18, 2018 7:13 PM

That’s because they’re meant to be raised in a healthy environment that puts the child’s needs before your own, r26. If they are gay then they should be allowed to discover their sexuality in their own time. It shouldn’t be forced on them by some sick narcissistic, who thinks he has the right to impose his own sexuality and lifestyle on an innocent kid because it suits his own ends.

However, I still think you’re lying and are just trying to get a rise out of people on here.

by Anonymousreply 28August 18, 2018 7:30 PM

^Seconded. Fuck off, OP.

by Anonymousreply 29August 18, 2018 7:34 PM

R28 you don't undersand. Str8s RAISE their kids to be str8, and endorse the str8 lifestyle. I WANT my son to be gay, and raise him accordingly. That means lots of support for exploration of his sexuality. I try to reinforce positive gay role models, provide him with gay porn, and a safe environment in which to discover his sexuality. I have helped him hook up with experienced guys and get his ass cherry broken in and I'm pretty sure he's happy to be living a gay lifestyle.

by Anonymousreply 30August 18, 2018 7:40 PM

You “raised him to be gay”? FUCK YOU. Raise your kids to be decent humans, and let their sexual orientation sort it out as nature made them. Did I say FUCK YOU already?!

by Anonymousreply 31August 18, 2018 7:45 PM

Also, YOU don’t understand, Op. Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 32August 18, 2018 7:46 PM

There is much hostility to gay parenting here.

by Anonymousreply 33August 18, 2018 7:47 PM

It's your supposed husband who sounds like the real clown, traipsing around in unwashed low-rent clothing.

But of course you're just a weirdo troll trying to get a rise out of people. Don't bite, data lounge.

by Anonymousreply 34August 18, 2018 7:47 PM

Something for OP

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by Anonymousreply 35August 18, 2018 7:48 PM

R34 husbear, not husband

by Anonymousreply 36August 18, 2018 7:49 PM

It’s “brick shithouse,” not shit brickhouse, tard OP.

by Anonymousreply 37August 18, 2018 7:49 PM

[quote]To those who ask why I raised my son to be gay, if str8s can raise their children to be str8, we can raise our children to be gay.

I'll be so happy when these homophobic fraus pretending to be gay men find somewhere else to display their ignorance and hatred of gay men.

by Anonymousreply 38August 18, 2018 7:58 PM

R38 double standards . If str8s can wish for their children to be str8 then I can wish for my son to be gay.

by Anonymousreply 39August 18, 2018 8:05 PM

This homophobic cunt again?

by Anonymousreply 40August 18, 2018 8:08 PM

R33P: “much hostility to gay parenting here.” NOT AT ALL. But there IS to gay parenting “agenda” as much as there is to “straight parenting agenda.” Neither gay nor straight parents have the right to “guide” their children to the orietation they want their children to have. FUCK ALL OF THEM WHO PARENT OTHERWISE. Have we learned nothing??!! We don’t want straight parents to salt the mine just as we don’t want gay parents to do so. Let your children’s orientation settle itself out as it is meant internally to be. Otherwise, are you buying into the “not natural” agenda? If gay parents try to raise their children as gays, it plays RIGHT into straights’ arguments that gays shouldn’t adopt because they will only “corrupt” their children to be gay. Again, let nature takes it’s inborn course with your children!!! I can’t believe we are having this debate!!!!

by Anonymousreply 41August 18, 2018 8:12 PM

This mu'fuckah sick.

by Anonymousreply 42August 18, 2018 8:12 PM

Is R42 Dylan Geick?

by Anonymousreply 43August 18, 2018 9:17 PM

R37 is new to the Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 44August 18, 2018 9:22 PM

You go right ahead and wear your high heels with a thong, OP but don't be surprised if your "husbear" or anyone else you know refuses to be seen with you.

Op, out for a stroll.

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by Anonymousreply 45August 18, 2018 9:33 PM

ROFL, R45

That was my old avatar.

by Anonymousreply 46August 18, 2018 9:43 PM

How do you know the man in R45 is a bottom?

by Anonymousreply 47August 18, 2018 9:50 PM

Is enforced cross-dressing a bottom thing?

by Anonymousreply 48August 19, 2018 3:12 AM

Show us your ass in high heels, OP

Otherwise we can't tell

by Anonymousreply 49August 19, 2018 11:06 AM
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