Singer Max Bemis comes out as “bi-ish” or “a straight guy who can also like boys”

Not sure why it didn't post the link. I personally haven't heard of him but thought it was an interesting article. Even if I'm not a fan of people who don't use conventional labels.

It’s called “mostly straight,” or brosexual.

Who?

He's not cute, so I don't care.

All that blather and convoluted language just to basically tell us that he likes cock? OK, Max, you're so special - can we touch you?

Fat and ugly. Your services are not required, sir!

[quote]Say Anything is retiring in the sense that Jay-Z did

Oh, honey...

So messy.

I don't know but then again I didn't know Jason Mraz or Panic at the Disco! either.

* I don't know him

It was all so simple then, when you were gay or straight. But now the young's are too special to have to accept such straightforwardness.

I hope their inner turmoil makes their day-to-day life hell.

R4 I disagree. Certainly his looks are variable, and he’s prently a tad too over-upholstered for my liking , but slimmer, like pic below, he’s not too far off my bloke-next-door ideal. Personally, I prefer that slightly carb-faced/Str8-face over ya typical pinched-faced cookie sniffer, sculpted brows fembot.

Presently*

He looks like a real man with the predator alpha wolf in his eyes (in this case probably due to mental illness, alas)

He used to be kinda cute.

nine pages letter?? wtf

The things I would do...

He's very cute to those who like men, not fey twinks.

Blakey s exy here. But some pics he appears to be deficient in the chin department so probably a pass

Blokey sexy*

[quote] This is a statement about my current status as a dude

He literally opened his 9 page (!!!!!!!!!) letter to come out with this.

Bi curious ?

Top or bottom? Or vers?

They would make more sense if they simply stated percentages: "I'm only 60% straight."

He bears Marcel Proust on his left arm.

He is "queer" because he sometimes has the feels for boys. So now every mastrubatory fantasy is part of your identity. Yeah, it seems like identity politics is really opening doors.

I have a thing for Joe Rogan (still just about) so yeah..

I'm actually enjoying the letter. This dude I never knew existed till a minute ago says he wrote some famous record where people thought it was about him, but it was rather about a character banging some chick senseless because he was a virgin back then and it was meant as a musical...

Well, the part that really matters

[quote] Again, I wrote it as a character. For the first time since “the Pinocchio record”. It’s basically what I realized to be a literal sequel to …. Is A Real boy in many ways. This record is the story of what would happen to the Real Boy many people thought I was. His band did well but then fell off, hard. He’d be my age, of course, but he’d still be living in Brooklyn, struggling with financial woes, single and strung out. Which leads me to liking guys.

[quote] GAY STUFF I have always been bi-ish or queer or a straight guy who can also like boys. I always talked or joked about it with my friends and found it to be blatantly clear I was. I was bullied for it and called a “fag” (without irony). This is, sadly, common. I’m not special. I even went so far as to tell people I was also attracted to guys repeatedly. They chalked it up to my bipolar shit, which was hurtful. They also minimized it because I found true love early in life, and saw that as a negation of my sexuality, or at least a minimization of my right to even identify as bisexual or queer. Because I don’t want to hook up with guys. But I also didn’t hook up with a lot of girls. Iwanted to fall in love with a woman, so I did. I’ve always been somewhat of a monogamist and my queer experiences were limited and remain mostly emotional ones. I don’t feel threatened or scared because I grew up with some amount of privilege in that regard, coming from a supportive, liberal family. So I’m not minimizing how hard that can be for other people. I get that I have it easy.

Ok, I'm done here.

So is Jason Mraz

This unfamous singer sounds as self-absorbed as Tearful Don Lemmon.

[quote] I don’t want to hook up with guys.

All you need to know.

This guy is a textbook oppression olympics enrollment form. Errr. I'm straight, but I like dudes, but not really, but I suffered like gays, blah blah blah blah.

And he has the nerve to call himself a Christian punk rocker. That, my dear friends, is why Rock is dead.

Major gay voice. Problem solved.

[quote]an emotional nine-page letter

that's the gayest thing I read on the Internet this week

So to cliffs note it: I think about peen all the time, but I don't want to be 'a gay' so I won't try it, because once I do I won't be able to go back to vag.

He must be utterly exhausting to be around anything more than casually.

That doesn't sound like "gay voice," r33.

He writes comic books for Marvel and others. I wonder if any of them contain homo themes? He does look like a sterotypical comic book nerd. Unless they’re all blue-haired non-binary anarcho-communist transbians now

R32 doesn’ he identify as Christian Jewishi or something. He refers to the holocaust a lot. This queer Jew Christian bipolar man has known suffering

No idea R38 this is literally the first time I've ever heard of this person.

He wants to be everything to everyone, bi, queer, straight, Christian, Jewish. Ugh. No one cares THAT much about your inner confusion, whoever you are.

What list do you have to have been on to even have noticed this?

Neither do we, Mariah.

Sounds like he's a guy married to a woman and wants cock but for whatever reason doesn't go out and get any (probably because he's either terrified or maybe, just maybe he's a married guy who actually honors his marriage vows). He probably masturbates thinking about guys, or while watching gay porn. No biggie. Lots of "straight" men do that on the sly.

Where are the songs ?

Queerty hails him as “popular singer” but seems more like an emo also-ran who never made it across this side of the Atlantic. Anyone keeping score on these emo types coming out? Isn’t that My Chemical Whatever dude* a tranny adjacent?

He's was cute and fuckable when he was thinner.

I bet that fat whore has hooked up with men before though he's lying about it in that letter.

Mraz also tried to say at first that he was bi, but had never been with a guy. Only later did he admit that not only he has been with men but was also having sex with them while dating his wife.

There's a weird culture in Hollywood where guys downplay their homosexual experiences even after admitting they're not at all straight.

Didn't Colton Haynes also try to say he was a virgin when he came out as gay?

Mraz is such a complete wanker he makes this guy seem less so.

Dude is 34, way to old for this teenage nonsense.

Y’all are so old and bittter

Just admit you're gay. Sheesh. These people who try and to parse every word and definition to describe their sexuality are so tedious. You're gay. Bi-ish, my ass.

He'd be gay if he hadn't met the love of his life first

R51, kick rocks dude.

He scares me. If I had to spend a day with him I'm sure he would put me on edge all the time.

These people who spend their whole life trying to define their “unique” sexuality are a bore. No one else is that that invested that you’re a part time straight guy with a hint of gay and pansexual rating of 34%

Bump

Beamish?

^ Honestly, only on DL could Beamish be a recognized element in conversation.

Nine pages to say you like having it off wit girls AND boys?

Okay.

"bi-ish or queer or a straight guy who can also like boys.”

How did Millennials (and younger) develop this horror of saying "gay"?

The word will eventually disappear form the English language.

Miss the days when it was just Straight, gay (or lesbian) or bisexual.

[quote] But some pics he appears to be deficient in the chin department so probably a pass

What a horrible thing to say.

I like his look, and don't really care what words he uses to describe himself. Some individuals do struggle, or keep things private. Basically I see him as a straight leaning, but most of the time bi bloke.

9 pages? Mary.

Just another bottom.

[quote]How did Millennials (and younger) develop this horror of saying "gay"?

Because they grew up with their peers saying "that's so gay!" or "GAYYYYY!" all throughout high school.

I think he's really cute, esp. when he was younger and thin.

Coming soon to your local Grindr.

I have always loved Max. He is so hot when he has meat on his bones. I love his music. Met him twice. His wife is talentless trash. Yoko style.

Physically, he's just my type. But, God, that personality and the bending over in a pretzel to come out as... something, I guess... is SO insufferable.

It's the it thing