People who won't take off their clothes during sex
What. The. Fuck?
I met a Grindr hook up last week, who I had been chatting with for over a month.
He finally came over, and we talked a little before fooling around.
He gave me a massage, and then I started to put my hands on him, and he kept pushing them away. I was like, "okay," so I just went with it. Then he started undressing me.
I was fine with that, but when I tried to do the same with him, he wouldn't let me. Not his shirt, not his pants. Nothing. Granted, he didn't have the best body and was on the stocky side, but I knew that already, and I was fine with it. Not a problem.
Finally, he ended up taking off all my clothes and then started to (I think) try to have sex with me. I said, "take off your clothes, too." And he said no!
By that time, I'd had it. I said, "if you're not going to take your clothes off, then I'm putting mine back on." He said, "do you want me to leave?" And I said, "yes." Then he stormed out.
Why are people so fucking crazy nowdays????
by Anonymous | reply 22 | August 13, 2018 12:31 AM
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Maybe if you turned the lights off there wouldn't be an issue...
by Anonymous | reply 2 | August 12, 2018 8:20 PM
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You don't have to take your clothes off
To have a good time, oh no
by Anonymous | reply 3 | August 12, 2018 8:23 PM
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ALl these Grindr stories sound so sad and sordid. Sad, mostly.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | August 12, 2018 8:24 PM
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Sounds like how my MD does an annual physical - with my clothes on!
by Anonymous | reply 6 | August 12, 2018 8:29 PM
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He's a giver.
But seriously, that's strange. He may have body/dick issues, but he has to realize that the other person is gonna want him to get naked too.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | August 12, 2018 8:30 PM
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First, stop using Grindr and change apps. Grindr by far has the largest number of crazy queens.
Second, didn't you exchange nudes before meeting? That's a fucking requirement if you're gonna have sex.
Well, it is to me...
by Anonymous | reply 9 | August 12, 2018 8:33 PM
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Who is the guy getting jerked off in r10?
by Anonymous | reply 11 | August 12, 2018 8:53 PM
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It reminds me of sex scenes in Hollywood movies where the woman keeps on all of her clothes
by Anonymous | reply 12 | August 12, 2018 8:53 PM
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[quote] Maybe if you turned the lights off there wouldn't be an issue..
The lights were off, except for a little night light.
[quote] Second, didn't you exchange nudes before meeting?
No, I usually don't. Dick size isn't of major importance to me, unless the guy has a micro penis. That might be a little weird.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | August 12, 2018 9:06 PM
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He was FTM trans and was going to fuck you with his strap-on.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | August 12, 2018 9:10 PM
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Still too much light, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | August 12, 2018 9:15 PM
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[quote] He was FTM trans and was going to fuck you with his strap-on.
[quote] You had a trannie.
R14/R16, you thought exactly what I thought. Here's the biggest reason I asked the question in my mind. He was wearing what felt like a bra - with straps. But he also had a fairly hairy body and a low voice. When I started putting my hands under his shirt, that's when I felt it, and he just sort of laughed and pushed my hands away. Being the somewhat naive person that I am, I just brushed it off, thinking that maybe he had moobs, and it was a way to make him look better under his shirt.
But it was only because I was buzzed and started becoming a bit frustrated, that I actually asked the question out loud. I came right out and said, "Are you trans?" And he asked me what that was. I said, "Trans. Transexual. Female to Male." And he said NO.
I took him at his word, but I still think that he was trans. The whole "bra" thing and wouldn't let me take off his pants, were just very suspicious. He's 26 years old, so I just wasn't expecting such weirdness from a younger guy.
In any case it was a strange encounter. If he/she was trans, that would have been a first for me.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | August 12, 2018 9:27 PM
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I don't mind being naked, but if I'm gonna be naked and you're laying down with me jacking me off or sucking my dick, then you have to be naked too. Otherwise, it's too weird.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | August 12, 2018 9:39 PM
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Post pictures, OP. You can scribble out the eyes if you want. You can usually tell by their face if a person is trans.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | August 12, 2018 9:52 PM
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Yeah, he was trans. on hormones (hence, the chest hair) but pre-op.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | August 12, 2018 10:37 PM
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