Am I attractive enough to get noticed by any guy?

Sorry, no... Just being honest.

Post your pic on the dimples thread, OP.

Don't listen to R1. You are a cutie.

R3, he said "any" guy. Seriously? Be honest with him.

Your upper lip is a bit dark for my taste. Follicles are too dense, so it makes it too dark.

Handsome lad who looks like he's got something going on upstairs.

OP, you’re going to get slaughtered on here, but yes, of course you’re good looking enough to get noticed. I’ve seen unattractive/ugly guys with boyfriends, so that’s not your problem.

Do yo have standards?

Are you from Australia, OP?

Super cute!

Handsome guy. Lose that style of shirt and go for classic crew. You don't need to show your body off because you're clearly not overweight, and you are attractive. Don't listen to the negative idiots on here. They look at a crotch first. Hope you find someone soon.

Dick pics please

You gullible fools....that is the picture of a tranny

Unremarkable. Say what you like, bitches. You know it's true.

You’ve had work done. Don’t lie

You're adorable!

I hope you're ready for the onslaught of bitchy comments, through.

Shave your face clean, that semi stubble does not work for you.

Then go out and meet men.

OP, I'm the same as you. You are very cute and I would have fun/date you instantly.

You must be poor lol

Where you from? I want to be buried in your ass on your birthday.

Your problem is obvious in your question. Get noticed? Get noticed?!

If you want a boyfriend then make it happen, quit waiting for some magical Prince Charming to fall from the sky, the real world doesn't work that way.

You have to be active in meeting guys and going on dates.

Cute! Agree with poster about losing the tank top. Crew neck tee all the way.

No, not the eight through ten crowd. I'm a good solid eight to eight and a half and I have to be honest. Unless you were exceptionally smart and in a field that interested me (medicine, science, etc.) I would not notice you. Now, if we were around each other and you were kind and good hearted then, yes, I would notice you, and your looks are not repellant by any stretch. You look short and small-statured and given that I'm six two . . .

I don't know if this is really you - but OH YEH - you are very handsome. I'd do you.

Guy in OP's photo is adorable. I'd fuck him for sure.

I wanna make out with you. NOW. Yeh, you're cute. Come sit by me.

Are you really allowed to post your pictures on here? I thought it was totes anonymous!...

Yes and you have a very cute quality, which is better than 99% of the people working too hard to look good who end up looking like a plastic doll with no realness.

I'd go as far as saying those here being "honest" and saying they wouldn't date you are part of this fake (and catty) category.

Keep it real. <3

When is it going to transition?

Very handsome! And those eyes, and those lips.

Now, get out of this horrid place before people who say negative things have their field day. You could be the handsomest man in the WORLD, and many basement-dwellers on here will say - EEW, OMG, HIDEOUS, just because they are programmed to do so.

ANY guy? No. You're cute, though. Some guys, yes!

Agree with R22 on being smart. No matter how good looking someone is, if they aren't academically great, no interest. That's the most important thing. Next comes looks. And you're a good looking guy, and your eyes are great. I can imagine kissing you and looking into those eyes.......

I think the facial hair idea may be good, but the way you have it now is sort of "in between", as far as I would be concerned, either shave or grow it a little longer. Your haircut is nice. I don't see why you couldn't attract a variety of men--as "they" say, there is a lid for every pot. You don't seem to be stuck on yourself and that's good. Just watch out for the users, finding a guy who will be good to you can be difficult.

[quote]No matter how good looking someone is, if they aren't academically great, no interest.

Bingo!

Some answers here tells me everything I need to know about those posting on DL. All of you criticizing tiny things like upper lips or even someone's shirt and trying to change the way someone dresses just reinforces the notion the majority of posters here are sad catty queens with no personality whatsoever.

No surprise so many of you whine all day long on how hard it is to find a date. You have unrealistic standards, are always looking for stupid shit to dislike on a person (upper lips, really?) and show once you meet someone they need to be changed completely so they can be approved by you.

You're basically control freaks with authoritarian tendencies.

OP, keep it real, don't change, you look fine, plus dimples are the cutest and the shirt is just black, why would any normal person care about that?

You only need to consider the thre most important factors in getting a man: young, rich and thin.

r33 I've sometimes thought there is a sizable subset of gay men who go for the big, dumb, friendly types, but I guess that only goes so far and/or doesn't last too long(??). Why, necessarily, would not being academically great be a handicap?

You should used a poll and left out "any."

The "any" is problematic.

[quote] No surprise so many of you whine all day long on how hard it is to find a date.

R34 I think many people on here complaining probably haven't had a "date" with someone in a lonnnng time. Others wouldn't give this guy the time of day because they'd be too intimidated by his looks. But, it's more fun to just criticize anonymously!

Work out a bit more. You're very thin.

I think the tank top is cute.

You’re attractive, but, you look timid. I’d walk past you because you seem needy. But, there’s no reason to be. Honestly, you don’t need to work out, or shave or whatever else they’re telling you. All you neeed to do is accept yourself.

Look, OP, as r34 says quite wisely, just be yourself. Dress as you want, style yourself as you want, and present yourself the way you feel comfortable. When I turned 30 (14 years ago), I decided that I’d stop caring about the opinions of others. All it was, ultimately, was noise. Up until that point I’d wasted so much time trying to be the sum total of what everyone else told me I should be to be that I was nothing.

Now, I’m something and I’m happy. And, men are interested in me because they can see that I’m comfortable with myself, confident and content.

Go out, be yourself, stop worrying about everyone else, and good things will come.

Absolutely adorable. Any chance you could be into a woman? I have a few “minor” issues, but am otherwise hot!

40 replies, OP, 41 including my own. You know the person in the picture is not ugly by any means. Why shouldn’t you be able to find someone?

I want someone I can carry on a conversation with, R36. I'm doing my surgical residency right and don't have time for nonsense. And frankly, I bring a lot to the Relationship Table and expect my life partner to do the same. I don't care about money but I do care about intelligence--and not just smarts--I'm looking for someone educated. Yeah, I understand that some people want a Mr. Right Now instead of a Mr. Right but that's not me.

What a sick culture that this obviously cute guy is begging for compliments! It is like my 5 year old daughter, asking if she is pretty enough to be a princess? So fucking sick.

LOL at you ancient queens saying he looks smart because he’s Asian

R36 This is why

Is the OP John?

R45 lay off the dope. You're imagining things.

Ha ha

The guy in that pic (which may or may not be OP) is totally adorable - gorgeous eyes and smile. I have a thing for Asian guys (and by Asian I mean both East Asians as well as brown-skinned lads from India, Pakistan etc). Unfortunately I live in an all-white country so I don't get to see many men like OP walking around.

Some people here are confusing ANY with EVERY. Or maybe be I’m the idiot who thought op’s ANY to mean “at the very least one.”

In any case, OP is attractive enough the get attention. Unfortunately, more than three quarters of the whole package as far as I’m concerned, has to do with issues not apparent in a picture - charm, personality, intelligence, and hygiene in the right places (and a lax attitude about it in some others).

[quote] Are you really allowed to post your pictures on here? I thought it was totes anonymous!...

That recent thread where guys started postng pics of themselves got deleted pretty fast, so I guess it's only a matter of time before this one disappears too.

Thread gone in 3, 2, 1 ...

Yes. You're a good-looking guy.

4th Man Out was above all funny, without having to resort to camp or bitchiness (which I also love, but not seeing it was refreshing). Chord Overstreet was surprisingly hilarious in a very understated way.

Wrong thread

Any guy ? I don't know about that but definitely the guy imaged is cute. Does not look like the type that will age well.

You are hot, OP. While model types in their twenties will likely overlook you, you would be noticed by most. BTW, the model types often don’t even acknowledge each other due to narcissism and/or jealousy, so it is no loss.

I find it hard to believe he doesn’t have a bf. does he live in a cave? He must be short or hung like a gnat, no personality, a nut job, unemployed, as ultra desperate ( huge turn off)

OP, you look great and most of us here would sleep with you.

But clearly you're not good enough for r22, because rainbows stream from her asshole. Smell HER!

R38 Didn't OP ask for opinions, genius? Didn't he also post a photo and not a psychological profile or Myers Briggs type? Given both, aren't we supposed to be addressing looks exclusively? And yet, only certain perspectives on those looks - the ones that square with yours - should be offered. You must live in a flyover because no one on either coast would be intimidated by the appearance of the person in that photo. He's not objectionable, but absolutely not what you're making him out to be. I suppose being Private (not even Captain yet) Save-A-Ho makes you feel less unfortunate in Kansas City or Duluth or wherever you're holed up. It does not, however, change the lack of impact. The person in that photo is wallpaper. Not too this, not too that. Whoever it is should focus on the intangibles.

you are very cute/nice looking and I'm sure there are a lot of guys that would notice you. I am going to guess that you are shy and have a hard time meeting people. Are there any groups that you can join where you don't have to be outgoing but can just meet people?

[quote] most of us here would sleep with you

Most of 'us' here are 2's and 3's, with some 1's, and would 'sleep' with any guy with a breath and a penis.

Somehow I'm not surprised DLers rank people with numbers like pre-teens. Real men, mature individuals just live life liking what they do and looking for real people to connect with.

The fact several of you assign numbers to yourself and others is enough of a turn-off, add to it the fact some here want to date PHDs (however ridiculous major it would be) and we have a recipe for disaster.

Just keep the flow OP. You're better off with real men than the shitholes posting here.

R38 I concur.

[quote] seem needy.

Really? You can tell this by looking at a still image? Mary!

[quote] I bring a lot to the Relationship Table

I bet you do, like drama, control, moral superiority and shallowness. You're a hoot. People should be thankful to have the privilege to deal with you.

OH MY GOD, I'm shaking, just like your hand during a surgery.

OP, first of all no man is attractive enough to attract "any" guy. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. And second of all you are gorgeous in my not so humble opinion. You have a very gentle yet handsome & masculine face. You have the look of a nice guy. A sweetheart. And third, pay no attention to anyone here who tells you otherwise.

Miss R22 awaits her call from the Nobel Committee.

R68 And you'll be bussing the tables when the drinks reception is over.

I hope R22 is being facetious but given it's DL, I doubt it.

If that is really you, OP, I think you're hot. I love guys with dark hair and features. You've also got nice full lips. Overall handsome face Those saying "nay" on here are probably into really WASPy looking guys, which I don't care for. I would say you are as hot as many of the porn stars that are posted on here. I would go out with you in a heartbeat.

[quote] I bring a lot to the Relationship Table

Then what the fuck are you doing here blathering to a pack of lowlifes, mental cases, and unemployeds?

Not to be catty, but are the ones noticing you the 12s and 11s out there?

Again, being catty, there are probably men out there who have shown you interest and attention and you have probably blown them off. I'm sure they were not "smart" or "educated" as you say you want, but are you being fair and realistic to them and yourselves.

At the end of the day, you decide what's sufficient for you. However, remember the same things you blow off in others they can do so as well.

Anyway, don't be afraid to put yourself out there - get rejected or even do some rejecting. You might surprise yourself with how much different what you really want is vs. what you think you want.

I'm 42 and in a relationship with someone who's path I would have never crossed as a 29 year old version of myself. So thankful.

Super cute. I don't see what the problem is.

Is OP Asian? Thought he was of the Latino persuasion. Cute just the same.

R64 - OK, let me rephrase my comment - most of the men on Data Lounge are fucking repulsive, and can't be choosy whom they have sex with or date. Better?

Fake pic.

Is this some kind of setup? Shall I be honest?

It provides no stretch of the imagination that you could land someone. I see guys like you with partnered or with bfs all the time.

On the other hand, not being immediately caucasian-looking, and perhaps mistaken(?) for Asian is probably a check minus.

But now the questions of personality...masc/femme acting/demeanor...charm, humor, etc...

"Any" guy? No. But it only takes one.

You’re a little too fit-fat for my tastes but you look like you can help the neighbor kid with her math homework. So I’m sold.

No Orientals for me.

R75 how do you know what anyone on an anonymous site looks like?

Meant that for r76

You’re cute OP but I’m not too fond of your car interior color choice.

I wouldn't look at you twice. Are you legal? I'm not willing to marry you just so you can get a green card and then rob/kill me, OP. Hard pass.

If you're lucky, you can get someone as tedious and self-involved as R22!

I've never even noticed the color of a guy's lips, r5! Wow some of y'all are picky AF.

Back that ass up on me papi. I know you must be a Latino.

Just alike most gay men, you guys are some jealous bitches. It's nothing but bitch, bitch, bitch.

I'm too old now, but some people like R22 just have higher standards than others and they've had the charmed lives (rich parents, brains, looks) to be that way. Can't really hate on em for that.

You didn't ask for the Female Het opinion but I am gonna give one. I think you are very good looking. Remember they say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I find you very attractive. You also look intelligent and like there is a light on inside. I've been reading around here a while - and gay men are merciless on appearance. Its amusing but also - almost to the point of causing esteem pain from all the judgement. There are a lot of older gay men around here who are lonely, and not in any kind of fag hag way at all but I wish some of them were my neighbors so we could talk about art and other non small talk subjects. The thing is, and I guess I am just having a day. But I wish anyone who seeks it - quality companionship. Wish you the best OP.

You've got a pretty face.

[QUOTE]You didn't ask for the Female Het opinion but I am gonna give one. I think you are very good looking.

Like that means anything. You fraus will fuck anything. I don’t understand for the life of me how any straight man is out there lamenting that he can’t get a girl.

You're cute as hell. I'd take you out if you're able to speak. I'm sexy too.

OP, I'm not sure if the guy in the photo is you or not.

But, in either case, the guy in the photo is good-lookin', face-wise. (But then I'm half-Asian, so that look obviously appeals to me.)

As for other guys - depends on where you live. If in the US - nah, you can't get the hottest guys. The Asian look isn't top of the list since it's mostly a Caucasian country (with predominantly Caucasian beauty tastes). Visit Asia and you'll have better odds.

Can't see the body, so can't comment on that.

I wonder if that picture is really the OP as he hasn't responded to any of the comments here. I think we've been hornswoggled.

I'm with holding judgement until BILL TAYLOR weighs in

Have faith and keep at it...there's someone for everyone.

This man is hot - but why the fuck post on here??

Isn't this PMBT? It sure sounds like him.

Not any. But some

You’re FINE, op. It’s the majority of these commenters that I’d be worried about. Sheesh!

OP, If that's really your photo, then you're quite cute, cute enough to be hit on by other guys.

John?

You re handsome...and i am a girl :)

I think so, R103.

My God, you people need to get out more if you think this is hot

It's John, R106.

you look like you have a small penis.

R66, anyone using the word HOOT is immediately crossed off my list of prospective suitors.

Sorry, but this is probably the wrong place to ask a sincere question. So many of the men here are mean spirited...sorry if you got some nasty feed back. You're a cute good looking guy that will certainly turn heads. Have fun!~

[quote] No, not the eight through ten crowd. I'm a good solid eight to eight and a half

Oh, I'm afraid I'll have to be the judge of that.

Link to photo please.

I agree with R40. You are certainly attractive enough, but if you are unhappy with yourself then many people will perceive you as desperate or needy and will be put off by it.

You’re gorgeous; you have beautiful eyes and such sexy, kissable lips.

Of course you’ll get noticed on DL. Sadly, you won’t get a pass on any other site. Poor, undereducated, fat gay men living in their mother’s basement will always be a catch to chunky, Asian Pacific men.

Has the Go Asian troll commented yet?

Do you shake your little tush out on the catwalk r93?

You're cute. Go have lots of good sex. Don't bother getting a boyfriend its overrated.

Are you asian or mexican? Anyway for either you are average looking, nothing special but not hideous..

Honey, if you're that needy that you need approval from strangers, your exterior looks will never matter, not for a second.

Because nothing will ever be enough for you.

Seek therapy and learn to love yourself first, before you enter a relationship.

I’d definitely date you based on your looks. You’re very cute, OP.

[quote]I’ve never had a boyfriend

We can see why.

You might have posted a video, OP.

I think you're a hottie, but in my experience, posting pics of yourself on an anonymous message board never ends well. Lots of nasty queens out there.

Very handsome, OP.

Too Asian.

Also any adult wearing a tank top should have their arms ripped off and get beaten to death with them.

I think you're hot. Are you Filipino? If yes I can tell you all the things Filipinos do to chase away men. All my bfs were Filipino.

It’s a woman, bitches.

Anyone criticizing your looks should be forced to put up their pictures, but they know they're ugly inside and out.

he/she is cute.

SHOW US YOUR BAREFEETS !!!!

Nobody wants an Asian with a hairy chest

Only a troll or a masochist would post their picture on DL asking people for their opinion.

If you really need to ask that, then you need to work on your self-esteem. You look quite nice and attractive as far as I'm concerned, and I'm around your age and have never had much trouble attracting my share of men. I've been in 2 relationships so far, one for 10 years. Work on your self-confidence, develop interests and good conversation. The physical side you've already got covered, although getting a bit fitter is always a bonus, especially because it also boosts your self-confidence.

133 posts and we still haven't heard back from the OP. I'm calling it bullshit.

Wow, very surprised by the feedback. Thanks to everyone who had nice things to say. Part of the reason I don’t put myself out there is because I come from a very religious Filipino family. My parents are constantly asking me if I have a girlfriend or if I’m getting married.

Adorable! Let’s have dinner.

You're my type.

I think you’re really hot.

Didn’t realize there were so many rice queens here..

And there goes the Wicked Witch of the West.

Too thirsty.

R135/OP - So by your own admission, you’re still in the closet?!?!

Solve that first.

5.5/10. Although if you have a smooth bubble butt or 9" penis I could move you up to an 8.

OP, I can't imagine that you could walk into any gay bar and not have men trying to connect with you. You have a handsome face, you're clearly no muscle Mary, but you obviously have a fit, better than average body. If your personality is as nice as the visual your date book should be loaded, if you want it to be.

Regarding your parents. STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT THEY WANT OR THINK! Live your life the way you want to live it. If they love you they won't desert you if they figure out at some point you're gay.

S/H/B - I can't imagine that you COULDN'T walk into any gay bar

Where I live there are literally dozens of better looking versions of this guy at every gay bar every night pouncing on all the semi attractive white guys.

Oh, the thirst is real

You look like, literally, every, single nurse I have ever had in a medical office.

He's cute.

adorable.

[quote]may be a little socially inept

This is your problem...not your looks.

Kid, you're cute. Do you have a pleasant voice? I find that a mellifluous voice counts for a lot. A cute guy with a harsh voice is a real turnoff.

I sense a raw sexual heat bubbling under the surface of that second snap

For the record, asshole OP is the cunt fuck calling everyone faggot in the Janet Jackson thread.

OP. You have very proportioned, balanced features, a finely structured nose, warm, well spaced eyes, lovely skin, cute dimples, full yet still masculine lips and an attractively shaped skull, generally. You look better in the first picture than in the second but I suspect that has something to do with the distance of the camera when you took the picture. The closer the lens the more distortion of facial features occurs.

Facially, I'd give you a solid 8 based on the first pic but I'd have to see you in person to make a truly informed assessment.

[quote]Nobody wants an Asian with a hairy chest

Oh yes, this man is truly cursed---can't imagine ANYONE wanting to fuck him.

[quote]Nobody wants an Asian with a hairy chest

Are you fucking kidding? It would be the only time I *would* want an Asian guy.

Note: That actually goes for other races, too. I need a hairy chest to get turned on.

R155, I've heard about your "Informed assessments."

And that guy @R156 is hot as hell. I've never seen an Asian guy that hairy. Wow.

Yes. Double woof.

Sadly, I suspect that you’re not cut like our Lord.