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Am I attractive enough to get noticed by any guy?

I’m baring my soul, no false pretenses. This is me, I’m not perfect...may be a little socially inept but I mean no harm. I’m on the eve of my 30th birthday and I’ve never had a boyfriend

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by Anonymousreply 161August 13, 2018 5:57 PM

Sorry, no... Just being honest.

by Anonymousreply 1August 8, 2018 6:07 PM

Post your pic on the dimples thread, OP.

by Anonymousreply 2August 8, 2018 6:07 PM

Don't listen to R1. You are a cutie.

by Anonymousreply 3August 8, 2018 6:08 PM

R3, he said "any" guy. Seriously? Be honest with him.

by Anonymousreply 4August 8, 2018 6:09 PM

Your upper lip is a bit dark for my taste. Follicles are too dense, so it makes it too dark.

by Anonymousreply 5August 8, 2018 6:09 PM

Handsome lad who looks like he's got something going on upstairs.

by Anonymousreply 6August 8, 2018 6:10 PM

OP, you’re going to get slaughtered on here, but yes, of course you’re good looking enough to get noticed. I’ve seen unattractive/ugly guys with boyfriends, so that’s not your problem.

Do yo have standards?

by Anonymousreply 7August 8, 2018 6:11 PM

Are you from Australia, OP?

by Anonymousreply 8August 8, 2018 6:12 PM

Super cute!

by Anonymousreply 9August 8, 2018 6:12 PM

Handsome guy. Lose that style of shirt and go for classic crew. You don't need to show your body off because you're clearly not overweight, and you are attractive. Don't listen to the negative idiots on here. They look at a crotch first. Hope you find someone soon.

by Anonymousreply 10August 8, 2018 6:14 PM

Dick pics please

by Anonymousreply 11August 8, 2018 6:15 PM

You gullible fools....that is the picture of a tranny

by Anonymousreply 12August 8, 2018 6:15 PM

Unremarkable. Say what you like, bitches. You know it's true.

by Anonymousreply 13August 8, 2018 6:16 PM

You’ve had work done. Don’t lie

by Anonymousreply 14August 8, 2018 6:16 PM

You're adorable!

I hope you're ready for the onslaught of bitchy comments, through.

by Anonymousreply 15August 8, 2018 6:16 PM

Shave your face clean, that semi stubble does not work for you.

Then go out and meet men.

by Anonymousreply 16August 8, 2018 6:17 PM

OP, I'm the same as you. You are very cute and I would have fun/date you instantly.

by Anonymousreply 17August 8, 2018 6:17 PM

You must be poor lol

by Anonymousreply 18August 8, 2018 6:17 PM

Where you from? I want to be buried in your ass on your birthday.

by Anonymousreply 19August 8, 2018 6:18 PM

Your problem is obvious in your question. Get noticed? Get noticed?!

If you want a boyfriend then make it happen, quit waiting for some magical Prince Charming to fall from the sky, the real world doesn't work that way.

You have to be active in meeting guys and going on dates.

by Anonymousreply 20August 8, 2018 6:19 PM

Cute! Agree with poster about losing the tank top. Crew neck tee all the way.

by Anonymousreply 21August 8, 2018 6:19 PM

No, not the eight through ten crowd. I'm a good solid eight to eight and a half and I have to be honest. Unless you were exceptionally smart and in a field that interested me (medicine, science, etc.) I would not notice you. Now, if we were around each other and you were kind and good hearted then, yes, I would notice you, and your looks are not repellant by any stretch. You look short and small-statured and given that I'm six two . . .

by Anonymousreply 22August 8, 2018 6:20 PM

I don't know if this is really you - but OH YEH - you are very handsome. I'd do you.

by Anonymousreply 23August 8, 2018 6:24 PM

Guy in OP's photo is adorable. I'd fuck him for sure.

by Anonymousreply 24August 8, 2018 6:25 PM

I wanna make out with you. NOW. Yeh, you're cute. Come sit by me.

by Anonymousreply 25August 8, 2018 6:26 PM

Are you really allowed to post your pictures on here? I thought it was totes anonymous!...

by Anonymousreply 26August 8, 2018 6:26 PM

Yes and you have a very cute quality, which is better than 99% of the people working too hard to look good who end up looking like a plastic doll with no realness.

I'd go as far as saying those here being "honest" and saying they wouldn't date you are part of this fake (and catty) category.

Keep it real. <3

by Anonymousreply 27August 8, 2018 6:26 PM

When is it going to transition?

by Anonymousreply 28August 8, 2018 6:26 PM

Very handsome! And those eyes, and those lips.

Now, get out of this horrid place before people who say negative things have their field day. You could be the handsomest man in the WORLD, and many basement-dwellers on here will say - EEW, OMG, HIDEOUS, just because they are programmed to do so.

by Anonymousreply 29August 8, 2018 6:27 PM

ANY guy? No. You're cute, though. Some guys, yes!

by Anonymousreply 30August 8, 2018 6:27 PM

Agree with R22 on being smart. No matter how good looking someone is, if they aren't academically great, no interest. That's the most important thing. Next comes looks. And you're a good looking guy, and your eyes are great. I can imagine kissing you and looking into those eyes.......

by Anonymousreply 31August 8, 2018 6:28 PM

I think the facial hair idea may be good, but the way you have it now is sort of "in between", as far as I would be concerned, either shave or grow it a little longer. Your haircut is nice. I don't see why you couldn't attract a variety of men--as "they" say, there is a lid for every pot. You don't seem to be stuck on yourself and that's good. Just watch out for the users, finding a guy who will be good to you can be difficult.

by Anonymousreply 32August 8, 2018 6:28 PM

[quote]No matter how good looking someone is, if they aren't academically great, no interest.


by Anonymousreply 33August 8, 2018 6:31 PM

Some answers here tells me everything I need to know about those posting on DL. All of you criticizing tiny things like upper lips or even someone's shirt and trying to change the way someone dresses just reinforces the notion the majority of posters here are sad catty queens with no personality whatsoever.

No surprise so many of you whine all day long on how hard it is to find a date. You have unrealistic standards, are always looking for stupid shit to dislike on a person (upper lips, really?) and show once you meet someone they need to be changed completely so they can be approved by you.

You're basically control freaks with authoritarian tendencies.

OP, keep it real, don't change, you look fine, plus dimples are the cutest and the shirt is just black, why would any normal person care about that?

by Anonymousreply 34August 8, 2018 6:33 PM

You only need to consider the thre most important factors in getting a man: young, rich and thin.

by Anonymousreply 35August 8, 2018 6:37 PM

r33 I've sometimes thought there is a sizable subset of gay men who go for the big, dumb, friendly types, but I guess that only goes so far and/or doesn't last too long(??). Why, necessarily, would not being academically great be a handicap?

by Anonymousreply 36August 8, 2018 6:39 PM

You should used a poll and left out "any."

The "any" is problematic.

by Anonymousreply 37August 8, 2018 6:39 PM

[quote] No surprise so many of you whine all day long on how hard it is to find a date.

R34 I think many people on here complaining probably haven't had a "date" with someone in a lonnnng time. Others wouldn't give this guy the time of day because they'd be too intimidated by his looks. But, it's more fun to just criticize anonymously!

by Anonymousreply 38August 8, 2018 6:39 PM

Work out a bit more. You're very thin.

by Anonymousreply 39August 8, 2018 6:40 PM

I think the tank top is cute.

You’re attractive, but, you look timid. I’d walk past you because you seem needy. But, there’s no reason to be. Honestly, you don’t need to work out, or shave or whatever else they’re telling you. All you neeed to do is accept yourself.

Look, OP, as r34 says quite wisely, just be yourself. Dress as you want, style yourself as you want, and present yourself the way you feel comfortable. When I turned 30 (14 years ago), I decided that I’d stop caring about the opinions of others. All it was, ultimately, was noise. Up until that point I’d wasted so much time trying to be the sum total of what everyone else told me I should be to be that I was nothing.

Now, I’m something and I’m happy. And, men are interested in me because they can see that I’m comfortable with myself, confident and content.

Go out, be yourself, stop worrying about everyone else, and good things will come.

by Anonymousreply 40August 8, 2018 6:42 PM

Absolutely adorable. Any chance you could be into a woman? I have a few “minor” issues, but am otherwise hot!

by Anonymousreply 41August 8, 2018 6:44 PM

40 replies, OP, 41 including my own. You know the person in the picture is not ugly by any means. Why shouldn’t you be able to find someone?

by Anonymousreply 42August 8, 2018 6:44 PM

I want someone I can carry on a conversation with, R36. I'm doing my surgical residency right and don't have time for nonsense. And frankly, I bring a lot to the Relationship Table and expect my life partner to do the same. I don't care about money but I do care about intelligence--and not just smarts--I'm looking for someone educated. Yeah, I understand that some people want a Mr. Right Now instead of a Mr. Right but that's not me.

by Anonymousreply 43August 8, 2018 6:47 PM

What a sick culture that this obviously cute guy is begging for compliments! It is like my 5 year old daughter, asking if she is pretty enough to be a princess? So fucking sick.

by Anonymousreply 44August 8, 2018 6:47 PM

LOL at you ancient queens saying he looks smart because he’s Asian

by Anonymousreply 45August 8, 2018 6:47 PM

R36 This is why

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by Anonymousreply 46August 8, 2018 6:50 PM

Is the OP John?

by Anonymousreply 47August 8, 2018 6:54 PM

R45 lay off the dope. You're imagining things.

by Anonymousreply 48August 8, 2018 6:56 PM

Ha ha

by Anonymousreply 49August 8, 2018 6:59 PM

The guy in that pic (which may or may not be OP) is totally adorable - gorgeous eyes and smile. I have a thing for Asian guys (and by Asian I mean both East Asians as well as brown-skinned lads from India, Pakistan etc). Unfortunately I live in an all-white country so I don't get to see many men like OP walking around.

by Anonymousreply 50August 8, 2018 7:09 PM

Some people here are confusing ANY with EVERY. Or maybe be I’m the idiot who thought op’s ANY to mean “at the very least one.”

In any case, OP is attractive enough the get attention. Unfortunately, more than three quarters of the whole package as far as I’m concerned, has to do with issues not apparent in a picture - charm, personality, intelligence, and hygiene in the right places (and a lax attitude about it in some others).

by Anonymousreply 51August 8, 2018 7:11 PM

[quote] Are you really allowed to post your pictures on here? I thought it was totes anonymous!...

That recent thread where guys started postng pics of themselves got deleted pretty fast, so I guess it's only a matter of time before this one disappears too.

by Anonymousreply 52August 8, 2018 7:11 PM

Thread gone in 3, 2, 1 ...

by Anonymousreply 53August 8, 2018 7:13 PM

Yes. You're a good-looking guy.

by Anonymousreply 54August 8, 2018 7:15 PM

4th Man Out was above all funny, without having to resort to camp or bitchiness (which I also love, but not seeing it was refreshing). Chord Overstreet was surprisingly hilarious in a very understated way.

by Anonymousreply 55August 8, 2018 7:15 PM

Wrong thread

by Anonymousreply 56August 8, 2018 7:16 PM

Any guy ? I don't know about that but definitely the guy imaged is cute. Does not look like the type that will age well.

by Anonymousreply 57August 8, 2018 7:22 PM

You are hot, OP. While model types in their twenties will likely overlook you, you would be noticed by most. BTW, the model types often don’t even acknowledge each other due to narcissism and/or jealousy, so it is no loss.

by Anonymousreply 58August 8, 2018 7:39 PM

I find it hard to believe he doesn’t have a bf. does he live in a cave? He must be short or hung like a gnat, no personality, a nut job, unemployed, as ultra desperate ( huge turn off)

by Anonymousreply 59August 8, 2018 7:39 PM

OP, you look great and most of us here would sleep with you.

But clearly you're not good enough for r22, because rainbows stream from her asshole. Smell HER!

by Anonymousreply 60August 8, 2018 7:47 PM

R38 Didn't OP ask for opinions, genius? Didn't he also post a photo and not a psychological profile or Myers Briggs type? Given both, aren't we supposed to be addressing looks exclusively? And yet, only certain perspectives on those looks - the ones that square with yours - should be offered. You must live in a flyover because no one on either coast would be intimidated by the appearance of the person in that photo. He's not objectionable, but absolutely not what you're making him out to be. I suppose being Private (not even Captain yet) Save-A-Ho makes you feel less unfortunate in Kansas City or Duluth or wherever you're holed up. It does not, however, change the lack of impact. The person in that photo is wallpaper. Not too this, not too that. Whoever it is should focus on the intangibles.

by Anonymousreply 61August 8, 2018 7:55 PM

you are very cute/nice looking and I'm sure there are a lot of guys that would notice you. I am going to guess that you are shy and have a hard time meeting people. Are there any groups that you can join where you don't have to be outgoing but can just meet people?

by Anonymousreply 62August 8, 2018 8:03 PM

[quote] most of us here would sleep with you

Most of 'us' here are 2's and 3's, with some 1's, and would 'sleep' with any guy with a breath and a penis.

by Anonymousreply 63August 8, 2018 8:10 PM

Somehow I'm not surprised DLers rank people with numbers like pre-teens. Real men, mature individuals just live life liking what they do and looking for real people to connect with.

The fact several of you assign numbers to yourself and others is enough of a turn-off, add to it the fact some here want to date PHDs (however ridiculous major it would be) and we have a recipe for disaster.

Just keep the flow OP. You're better off with real men than the shitholes posting here.

R38 I concur.

by Anonymousreply 64August 8, 2018 8:24 PM

[quote] seem needy.

Really? You can tell this by looking at a still image? Mary!

by Anonymousreply 65August 8, 2018 8:28 PM

[quote] I bring a lot to the Relationship Table

I bet you do, like drama, control, moral superiority and shallowness. You're a hoot. People should be thankful to have the privilege to deal with you.

OH MY GOD, I'm shaking, just like your hand during a surgery.

by Anonymousreply 66August 8, 2018 8:32 PM

OP, first of all no man is attractive enough to attract "any" guy. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. And second of all you are gorgeous in my not so humble opinion. You have a very gentle yet handsome & masculine face. You have the look of a nice guy. A sweetheart. And third, pay no attention to anyone here who tells you otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 67August 8, 2018 8:36 PM

Miss R22 awaits her call from the Nobel Committee.

by Anonymousreply 68August 8, 2018 8:37 PM

R68 And you'll be bussing the tables when the drinks reception is over.

by Anonymousreply 69August 8, 2018 8:42 PM

I hope R22 is being facetious but given it's DL, I doubt it.

by Anonymousreply 70August 8, 2018 8:43 PM

If that is really you, OP, I think you're hot. I love guys with dark hair and features. You've also got nice full lips. Overall handsome face Those saying "nay" on here are probably into really WASPy looking guys, which I don't care for. I would say you are as hot as many of the porn stars that are posted on here. I would go out with you in a heartbeat.

by Anonymousreply 71August 8, 2018 8:45 PM

[quote] I bring a lot to the Relationship Table

Then what the fuck are you doing here blathering to a pack of lowlifes, mental cases, and unemployeds?

by Anonymousreply 72August 8, 2018 8:45 PM

Not to be catty, but are the ones noticing you the 12s and 11s out there?

Again, being catty, there are probably men out there who have shown you interest and attention and you have probably blown them off. I'm sure they were not "smart" or "educated" as you say you want, but are you being fair and realistic to them and yourselves.

At the end of the day, you decide what's sufficient for you. However, remember the same things you blow off in others they can do so as well.

Anyway, don't be afraid to put yourself out there - get rejected or even do some rejecting. You might surprise yourself with how much different what you really want is vs. what you think you want.

I'm 42 and in a relationship with someone who's path I would have never crossed as a 29 year old version of myself. So thankful.

by Anonymousreply 73August 8, 2018 8:54 PM

Super cute. I don't see what the problem is.

by Anonymousreply 74August 8, 2018 8:56 PM

Is OP Asian? Thought he was of the Latino persuasion. Cute just the same.

by Anonymousreply 75August 8, 2018 8:58 PM

R64 - OK, let me rephrase my comment - most of the men on Data Lounge are fucking repulsive, and can't be choosy whom they have sex with or date. Better?

by Anonymousreply 76August 8, 2018 9:24 PM

Fake pic.

by Anonymousreply 77August 8, 2018 9:30 PM

Is this some kind of setup? Shall I be honest?

It provides no stretch of the imagination that you could land someone. I see guys like you with partnered or with bfs all the time.

On the other hand, not being immediately caucasian-looking, and perhaps mistaken(?) for Asian is probably a check minus.

But now the questions of personality...masc/femme acting/demeanor...charm, humor, etc...

by Anonymousreply 78August 8, 2018 9:34 PM

"Any" guy? No. But it only takes one.

by Anonymousreply 79August 8, 2018 9:36 PM

You’re a little too fit-fat for my tastes but you look like you can help the neighbor kid with her math homework. So I’m sold.

by Anonymousreply 80August 8, 2018 9:38 PM

No Orientals for me.

by Anonymousreply 81August 8, 2018 9:40 PM

R75 how do you know what anyone on an anonymous site looks like?

by Anonymousreply 82August 8, 2018 9:42 PM

Meant that for r76

by Anonymousreply 83August 8, 2018 9:43 PM

You’re cute OP but I’m not too fond of your car interior color choice.

by Anonymousreply 84August 8, 2018 9:44 PM

I wouldn't look at you twice. Are you legal? I'm not willing to marry you just so you can get a green card and then rob/kill me, OP. Hard pass.

by Anonymousreply 85August 8, 2018 9:45 PM

If you're lucky, you can get someone as tedious and self-involved as R22!

by Anonymousreply 86August 8, 2018 9:48 PM

I've never even noticed the color of a guy's lips, r5! Wow some of y'all are picky AF.

by Anonymousreply 87August 8, 2018 9:48 PM

Back that ass up on me papi. I know you must be a Latino.

by Anonymousreply 88August 8, 2018 9:52 PM

Just alike most gay men, you guys are some jealous bitches. It's nothing but bitch, bitch, bitch.

I'm too old now, but some people like R22 just have higher standards than others and they've had the charmed lives (rich parents, brains, looks) to be that way. Can't really hate on em for that.

by Anonymousreply 89August 8, 2018 9:54 PM

You didn't ask for the Female Het opinion but I am gonna give one. I think you are very good looking. Remember they say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I find you very attractive. You also look intelligent and like there is a light on inside. I've been reading around here a while - and gay men are merciless on appearance. Its amusing but also - almost to the point of causing esteem pain from all the judgement. There are a lot of older gay men around here who are lonely, and not in any kind of fag hag way at all but I wish some of them were my neighbors so we could talk about art and other non small talk subjects. The thing is, and I guess I am just having a day. But I wish anyone who seeks it - quality companionship. Wish you the best OP.

by Anonymousreply 90August 8, 2018 10:03 PM

You've got a pretty face.

by Anonymousreply 91August 8, 2018 10:05 PM

[QUOTE]You didn't ask for the Female Het opinion but I am gonna give one. I think you are very good looking.

Like that means anything. You fraus will fuck anything. I don’t understand for the life of me how any straight man is out there lamenting that he can’t get a girl.

by Anonymousreply 92August 8, 2018 10:09 PM

You're cute as hell. I'd take you out if you're able to speak. I'm sexy too.

by Anonymousreply 93August 8, 2018 10:11 PM

OP, I'm not sure if the guy in the photo is you or not.

But, in either case, the guy in the photo is good-lookin', face-wise. (But then I'm half-Asian, so that look obviously appeals to me.)

As for other guys - depends on where you live. If in the US - nah, you can't get the hottest guys. The Asian look isn't top of the list since it's mostly a Caucasian country (with predominantly Caucasian beauty tastes). Visit Asia and you'll have better odds.

Can't see the body, so can't comment on that.

by Anonymousreply 94August 8, 2018 10:18 PM

I wonder if that picture is really the OP as he hasn't responded to any of the comments here. I think we've been hornswoggled.

by Anonymousreply 95August 8, 2018 10:23 PM

I'm with holding judgement until BILL TAYLOR weighs in

by Anonymousreply 96August 8, 2018 10:28 PM

Have faith and keep at it...there's someone for everyone.

by Anonymousreply 97August 8, 2018 10:29 PM

This man is hot - but why the fuck post on here??

by Anonymousreply 98August 8, 2018 10:38 PM

Isn't this PMBT? It sure sounds like him.

by Anonymousreply 99August 8, 2018 10:46 PM

Not any. But some

by Anonymousreply 100August 8, 2018 10:55 PM

You’re FINE, op. It’s the majority of these commenters that I’d be worried about. Sheesh!

by Anonymousreply 101August 8, 2018 10:55 PM

OP, If that's really your photo, then you're quite cute, cute enough to be hit on by other guys.

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by Anonymousreply 103August 8, 2018 11:04 PM

You re handsome...and i am a girl :)

by Anonymousreply 104August 8, 2018 11:05 PM

I think so, R103.

by Anonymousreply 105August 8, 2018 11:05 PM

My God, you people need to get out more if you think this is hot

by Anonymousreply 106August 8, 2018 11:07 PM

It's John, R106.

by Anonymousreply 107August 8, 2018 11:10 PM

you look like you have a small penis.

by Anonymousreply 108August 8, 2018 11:11 PM

R66, anyone using the word HOOT is immediately crossed off my list of prospective suitors.

by Anonymousreply 109August 8, 2018 11:13 PM

Sorry, but this is probably the wrong place to ask a sincere question. So many of the men here are mean spirited...sorry if you got some nasty feed back. You're a cute good looking guy that will certainly turn heads. Have fun!~

by Anonymousreply 110August 8, 2018 11:15 PM

[quote] No, not the eight through ten crowd. I'm a good solid eight to eight and a half

Oh, I'm afraid I'll have to be the judge of that.

Link to photo please.

by Anonymousreply 111August 8, 2018 11:19 PM

I agree with R40. You are certainly attractive enough, but if you are unhappy with yourself then many people will perceive you as desperate or needy and will be put off by it.

by Anonymousreply 112August 8, 2018 11:27 PM

You’re gorgeous; you have beautiful eyes and such sexy, kissable lips.

by Anonymousreply 113August 8, 2018 11:32 PM

Of course you’ll get noticed on DL. Sadly, you won’t get a pass on any other site. Poor, undereducated, fat gay men living in their mother’s basement will always be a catch to chunky, Asian Pacific men.

by Anonymousreply 114August 8, 2018 11:32 PM

Has the Go Asian troll commented yet?

by Anonymousreply 115August 8, 2018 11:35 PM

Do you shake your little tush out on the catwalk r93?

by Anonymousreply 116August 8, 2018 11:42 PM

You're cute. Go have lots of good sex. Don't bother getting a boyfriend its overrated.

by Anonymousreply 117August 8, 2018 11:52 PM

Are you asian or mexican? Anyway for either you are average looking, nothing special but not hideous..

by Anonymousreply 118August 8, 2018 11:53 PM

Honey, if you're that needy that you need approval from strangers, your exterior looks will never matter, not for a second.

Because nothing will ever be enough for you.

Seek therapy and learn to love yourself first, before you enter a relationship.

by Anonymousreply 119August 8, 2018 11:56 PM

I’d definitely date you based on your looks. You’re very cute, OP.

by Anonymousreply 120August 9, 2018 2:13 AM

[quote]I’ve never had a boyfriend

We can see why.

by Anonymousreply 121August 9, 2018 2:51 AM

You might have posted a video, OP.

by Anonymousreply 122August 9, 2018 3:52 AM

I think you're a hottie, but in my experience, posting pics of yourself on an anonymous message board never ends well. Lots of nasty queens out there.

by Anonymousreply 123August 9, 2018 4:17 AM

Very handsome, OP.

by Anonymousreply 124August 9, 2018 4:20 AM

Too Asian.

Also any adult wearing a tank top should have their arms ripped off and get beaten to death with them.

by Anonymousreply 125August 9, 2018 4:25 AM

I think you're hot. Are you Filipino? If yes I can tell you all the things Filipinos do to chase away men. All my bfs were Filipino.

by Anonymousreply 126August 9, 2018 5:19 AM

It’s a woman, bitches.

by Anonymousreply 127August 9, 2018 6:09 AM

Anyone criticizing your looks should be forced to put up their pictures, but they know they're ugly inside and out.

by Anonymousreply 128August 9, 2018 6:16 AM

he/she is cute.

by Anonymousreply 129August 9, 2018 6:18 AM


by Anonymousreply 130August 9, 2018 6:21 AM

Nobody wants an Asian with a hairy chest

by Anonymousreply 131August 9, 2018 7:39 AM

Only a troll or a masochist would post their picture on DL asking people for their opinion.

by Anonymousreply 132August 9, 2018 8:46 AM

If you really need to ask that, then you need to work on your self-esteem. You look quite nice and attractive as far as I'm concerned, and I'm around your age and have never had much trouble attracting my share of men. I've been in 2 relationships so far, one for 10 years. Work on your self-confidence, develop interests and good conversation. The physical side you've already got covered, although getting a bit fitter is always a bonus, especially because it also boosts your self-confidence.

by Anonymousreply 133August 9, 2018 8:59 AM

133 posts and we still haven't heard back from the OP. I'm calling it bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 134August 9, 2018 5:13 PM

Wow, very surprised by the feedback. Thanks to everyone who had nice things to say. Part of the reason I don’t put myself out there is because I come from a very religious Filipino family. My parents are constantly asking me if I have a girlfriend or if I’m getting married.

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by Anonymousreply 135August 10, 2018 5:21 AM

Adorable! Let’s have dinner.

by Anonymousreply 136August 10, 2018 5:27 AM

You're my type.

by Anonymousreply 137August 10, 2018 5:33 AM

I think you’re really hot.

by Anonymousreply 138August 10, 2018 5:44 AM

Didn’t realize there were so many rice queens here..

by Anonymousreply 139August 10, 2018 7:11 AM

And there goes the Wicked Witch of the West.

by Anonymousreply 140August 10, 2018 7:22 AM

Too thirsty.

by Anonymousreply 141August 10, 2018 7:30 AM

R135/OP - So by your own admission, you’re still in the closet?!?!

Solve that first.

by Anonymousreply 142August 10, 2018 7:34 AM

5.5/10. Although if you have a smooth bubble butt or 9" penis I could move you up to an 8.

by Anonymousreply 143August 10, 2018 8:21 AM

OP, I can't imagine that you could walk into any gay bar and not have men trying to connect with you. You have a handsome face, you're clearly no muscle Mary, but you obviously have a fit, better than average body. If your personality is as nice as the visual your date book should be loaded, if you want it to be.

Regarding your parents. STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT THEY WANT OR THINK! Live your life the way you want to live it. If they love you they won't desert you if they figure out at some point you're gay.

by Anonymousreply 144August 10, 2018 9:58 AM

S/H/B - I can't imagine that you COULDN'T walk into any gay bar

by Anonymousreply 145August 10, 2018 9:59 AM

Where I live there are literally dozens of better looking versions of this guy at every gay bar every night pouncing on all the semi attractive white guys.

by Anonymousreply 146August 10, 2018 10:53 AM

Oh, the thirst is real

by Anonymousreply 147August 10, 2018 3:43 PM

You look like, literally, every, single nurse I have ever had in a medical office.

by Anonymousreply 148August 10, 2018 4:58 PM

He's cute.

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by Anonymousreply 150August 10, 2018 5:19 PM

[quote]may be a little socially inept

This is your problem...not your looks.

by Anonymousreply 151August 10, 2018 5:33 PM

Kid, you're cute. Do you have a pleasant voice? I find that a mellifluous voice counts for a lot. A cute guy with a harsh voice is a real turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 152August 10, 2018 5:53 PM

I sense a raw sexual heat bubbling under the surface of that second snap

by Anonymousreply 153August 10, 2018 6:16 PM

For the record, asshole OP is the cunt fuck calling everyone faggot in the Janet Jackson thread.

by Anonymousreply 154August 11, 2018 2:45 AM

OP. You have very proportioned, balanced features, a finely structured nose, warm, well spaced eyes, lovely skin, cute dimples, full yet still masculine lips and an attractively shaped skull, generally. You look better in the first picture than in the second but I suspect that has something to do with the distance of the camera when you took the picture. The closer the lens the more distortion of facial features occurs.

Facially, I'd give you a solid 8 based on the first pic but I'd have to see you in person to make a truly informed assessment.

by Anonymousreply 155August 11, 2018 3:45 AM

[quote]Nobody wants an Asian with a hairy chest

Oh yes, this man is truly cursed---can't imagine ANYONE wanting to fuck him.

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by Anonymousreply 156August 11, 2018 3:48 AM

[quote]Nobody wants an Asian with a hairy chest

Are you fucking kidding? It would be the only time I *would* want an Asian guy.

Note: That actually goes for other races, too. I need a hairy chest to get turned on.

by Anonymousreply 157August 11, 2018 3:51 AM

R155, I've heard about your "Informed assessments."

by Anonymousreply 158August 11, 2018 3:52 AM

And that guy @R156 is hot as hell. I've never seen an Asian guy that hairy. Wow.

by Anonymousreply 159August 11, 2018 3:52 AM

Yes. Double woof.

by Anonymousreply 160August 11, 2018 4:10 AM

Sadly, I suspect that you’re not cut like our Lord.

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