Group masturbation and jack-off clubs

A friend of mine took an acting class where everyone was required to get naked as an exercise on losing inhibitions.

It was called 8th grade.

I heard from a reliable source that this was a common practice in the 1990s at military school VMI every night. Don't know if this tradition has survived.

Do men generally need more awareness of their dongs?

I found this article when doing a google search on masturbation at VMI

Group sex is nasty. There is always some old fat disgusting troll who shouldn't be there. Do you want to watch a 300lb fatso jackoff? An 83 year old man? An extremely ugly guy? An FTM jerking her shenis?

If its not spontaneous its not worth getting involved.

R6 - This is Data Longe. Many here would find it rather arousing to watch a 300 lb,, or 83 year old man jerking off. There are whole adoration threads for ugly Jewish grandpa, David Peversner. The standards are really low here. Old, hairy, chubby, mutilated, homely are all 'hot' to the geriatric shut-ins of Data Lounge.

R8, speak for yoirself.

Sounds incredibly boring, unless you're some poor unfortunate who's never had any sort of sexual contact with another human being.

Gimme Dick!

[quote]There are whole adoration threads for ugly Jewish grandpa, David Peversner.

LOL. Thanks for that. I saw the thread, he is not a good looking guy and older than dirt.

You lost me at "An FTM jerking her shenis? "

Only if it’s full of hot closeted married dudes.

I love my jack off club.

I went to a jerk-off party once, in my early 30's. There were eight other guys there, and all of us were average to better-than average looking. Straight away, I noticed the faint odor of stale urine and, um, uncut dick smell. Off-putting to be sure, but not a deal breaker. The bigger problem was, once the lights were dimmed and we were sitting around on the floor, I started to smell fucking poppers. I tried like hell to psych myself up, but after a few minutes, I had to get up and leave.

Poppers make me nauseous. Poppers mixed with piss and mansmell is volatile and toxic. To me.

Invite me next time.

Group jack offs are only good in porno.

Sounds so boring

It’s extremely exciting

[quote] I heard from a reliable source that this was a common practice in the 1990s at military school VMI every night

You may be misinterpreting instruction on NEVER call your rifle your gun. It's a big no-no.

Equinox steam room.

[quote] Sounds incredibly boring, unless you're some poor unfortunate who's never had any sort of sexual contact with another human being.

Sometimes less is more. Not everyone is into giving rim jobs.

I've always wanted to join one of those men's groups where they go camping and romp around together completely nude in the forest beating on drums. Has anyone ever gone to one of those?

A friend of mine loved going to these and bukkake parties (esp because he has irrational fears of disease through anything but JO thanks to Midwestern breeding homophobia).

Personally I want some skin on skin. JO is boring. Even oral can be boring as most men suck (pun intended) at it.

Besides there is usually 1 or 2 fuegos/weirdos who ruin it for everyone.

Back in the 90s I used to work at a Borders bookstore. We'd often have "over-nighters" where we would stock the shelves with merchandise since we didn't have time during business hours since this was located in a very busy area on Santa Monica's 3rd street. Many of us were gay (or assumed to be gay). We'd drink and have a good time. Our manager was also very cool. So one night, when it was just a group of guys doing the over-nighter we ended up pulling our dicks out when it started to get late and in the midst of having fun. At this point, one guys who was straight and worked upstairs in the music department came downstairs, saw the fun going on and ended up pulling his pants down too and doing some helicopter action with his dick before pulling his pants back up and getting back to work. I was so turned on by that action that my dick immediately got hard. When others saw that I was hard, they were turned on and got erect as well, so at that point all, but a coupe of us, ended up jerking off together and sucking each others cocks right on the floor of the store. It was one of the best group experiences I've ever had.

R26 Was your next job writing Penthouse Letters?

I love jacking off with friends

R25 Even though I've had some great, physical interaction with partners it's the foreplay and nudity that tends to turn me on most, especially in unlikely situations.

R28 Yes, and co-workers too. The hottest moment was when my straight co-worker dropped his shorts and bounced his meat around, not even giving a shit that many of us might be gay. I hadn't seen any of my co-workers dicks before, so it made the moment especially erotic.

I went to a Boston Jacks party at Larry Basil’s townhouse in the mid 90’s with about 50 guys present. Boston men at the time were uptight so it took awhile for guys to get down to action, no actual sex. It was a handful of hot guys and the rest were hungry older guys acting like shoppers at a Walmart on Black Friday pushing and shoving.

The place got raided by cops halfway through, police snatched the guest list, and I managed to shuffle out the door under a stairwell, telling the arriving cop “I was just borrowing a cup of sugar”.

My roommate called me to post bail, they arrested everybody. I’m hesitant to go to any of these since.

When this happens are the guys are allowed to get dressed before being taken away?

They round them up all nude and put them in the paddy wagon.

[quote]Boston men are Always and forever uptight so it took awhile for guys to get down to action, no actual sex.

I fixed it for you

I grew up fat so no.

R30. I’ve been in Boston since 1985 and know Larry and was never invited to any kind of party. I’m depressed now! But glad you didn’t get arrested.

New York Jacks is a lot of fun.

r30 what was the crime you were charged with?

r26 is the reason Borders went out of business.

Back in the early 90s my co-worker in Chicago used to tell me about going to safe sex jerk off parties in Wrigleyville.

New York Jacks meets twice a week, OP, if you're in NY. A few other cities have a groups tho I don't know if the are affiliated with NY Jacks.

Has anyone seen anyone famous or semi famous at one of these parties. While I doubt an A-lister would be there, someone less famous might.

I tried maybe a half dozen times to do this when I was younger. I loved watching and while my dick isn't a baseball bat, I did have a little something in my column (I cum a lot and it shoots very, very far. Or at least it did then. Maybe only one 'very' now.)

Every group JO thing I ever went to in my 20s ended up always being the same mix of men:

There would be three of us who were normal-ish. (I am no centerfold but I fall into AWG territory.)

There would be another twenty/thirtysomething or two that had a bad case of the severely socially awkwards. Like, Aspergery, probably. Very Beavis and Butthead.

There would be ONE black man, undetermined age, who was the size of a small house.

And then EVERYONE else there was sixty or older.

I went to a few that I was invited to by reasonably hot hookup buddies - or ones they suggested. Different hosts & orgs. Always the same.

If there was another hot younger guy, some seventy year old would walk up and be all "Pissssssssssss in my mouthhhhhh! Shit for me!!!!" These old fuckers would never, ever, ever, EVER take no for an answer.

Most of my attempts were in not-super-big cities, but I was disappointed when I tried in Chicago and STILL it was the same.

Either I was B minus at best in all my AWG-ness, or I didn't hang out with the more drug fueled crowd enough to go to the A list parties.

(I actually had more fun, and landed a way hotter level of men, once I started hooking up with str8 men on CL, advertising my voyeuristic fantasies.)

r41, I've bumped into Louise Lasser a few times.

Karen Pence is a regular at the D.C. and Indy parties.

r44 I always figured Karen was more into bukkake. She's got a face that's just made for it.

If only real life was more like a Joe Gage film.

R46 what film is that?

R30 - As R37 asked, I want to know what the crime was?

The '90s was not the '60s...and this was in someone's house. I don't get it.

Here ya go, r47

OP,

The Sure, Jan GIF never gets old. It's so hilarious every time is see it in every thread, please don't stop posting it.

I don’t even see how the ‘Sure, Jan’ gif applies to OP’s post who was just asking the question. R26, maybe, but not OP.

I would go to this place on 14th st in NYC on Sunday which had a group JO party. It was in an old triangular shaped building. Some of the sessions were hot there was a variety of men so there was something for everyone.

I think it can be very benefitial for some guys like incels to raise their self esteem when they receive positive, appreciative feedback from others for their bodies, masturbation technique, the moaning (or other noises they make during jerking off), the amount of semen and how far they can shoot.

I remember reading about groups where the participants just cuddle and hugging / embracing each other (while still wearing their clothes).

I believe more than ever we suffer from intimacy issues that turn us into introverts who feel uncomfortable socializing in person. We get agitated easily and resort to actions that lead to anything but hilarity ensues moments (at leasta for the parties involved).

The hottest group jo scenes I’ve encountered were in public restrooms or cruisy spots. I guess it was the risk factor and spontaneity that added to the fun.

R51 is the obsessive POS who has now even posted a thread about her issue.

Keep jackin' lads. Until you pop!

Back in the mid 90s (I was in my late 20s) there was an amazing cruising bathroom at NYU off Waverly Place, I believe a science building. Security never came by. You could walk into this particular bathroom which had 3 stalls and 2 urinals, and sometimes encounter 6 or 7 nice looking guys, some totally nude having sex. It was surreal. the stalls all had glory holes. There was only a security guard at the lobby and he never checked for student ID, I would carry a bookbag with gym clothes inside. The janitorial service must have been aware of something going on, but it was never addressed. Maybe NYU preferred it contained to one area.

it seems hard to believe that gay men would just leave it at jacking off. No oral? No anal? No rimming? A lot of them would try to do more.

I'm uncomfortable in crowds so I'll have to pass.

NY Jacks is usually pretty fun. I visit when Im in NYC on business. Variety of types, but Ive always shot a huge load and left feeling great. I prefer Tuesdays to Sundays as the space permits more walking around and there are separate areas. Sundays are pretty much a big room and seems to encourage more posing. Ive also been to Philly, Seattle and SF ... all different, all fun.

I love jerking off. I can go for hours

r16 I hate poppers. I've had a number of guys try to get me into them when I was a teenager hooking up with older gentlemen. I'm no bottom so I have no use for that crap. It smells toxic.

Atlanta's is lame. Space is super small. Mostly out of shape elders or backwoodsy types.

Does everyone wander around naked, or can one be clothed?

I want to find one because after going to more than 7 sex parties over that past 2 months I swear I have giardia.

R64, 99% are naked except for the occasional first timer who walks around in his underwear and looks like an idiot.

I would have to at least wear a smoking jacket and slippers.