When did you lose your virginity?

I was 11 which a lot of people seem to be shocked by.

But it was with my best friend since we were toddlers and we always knew we were gay so if we were going to have sex with anyone it would be us. We continued to have sex till our early twenties when we drifted apart.

23...to a woman. Yuck.

9 to a 10 year old neighbor. We sucked, eventually fucked each other until I was 16. I will never forget the first time I thought he peed in my mouth. It was cum. I will never forget the first time I came- it lasted like 4 minutes and was epic. My body couldn't move. After that, it was the standard few seconds and done.

15 and he picked me up hitchhiking.

22, with a good-looking guy who didn't enjoy being fellated. Can you imagine, dying to suck cock for the first time, and then hearing someone say, "that does nothing for me?"

31. He was a marine so I think it was worth the wait.

When I was 10 with my best friend. We had frequent sleepovers in the summer and we played with each other all night.

I don't actually remember my exact age but it was somewhere around 10-12 years old with my neighbor, a boy of the same age. We sucked first, and then he fucked me.

21

I was, and am, such a prude.

Sex without emotional intimacy just doesn’t work for me.

Catholic School girl too...I waited until 18 but had to lose it before going to college. Found a cutie and don't really remember more. On the other hand lost it to a girl when I was 29 and I may not recall her name but I remember everything.

I GAVE it away, to as many people as would take it.

Geez - I can't believe all the pre-pubescent sex on this thread. Last thing on my mind at that age.

15 with a woman, 17 with a man. Neither were great. Glad I kept going until sex became good.

24. With a 19 year old big dicked nerdy boy. It was alright. I should've had him prep me a bit better, but we were both pretty eager. It didn't last very long. I didn't tell him he was my first. We dated for a few months- all in all a good experience.

Gay man here. I was 17, my first lover was almost 19, it happened at his grandmother's home, she was visiting relatives & he had a key. I was scared out of my mind...

We both came like two dollar whores.

When I was 18 or 19, I went and got a blow job off a personal ad in the back of a big city rag; it was awful; I shot like a rocket went off because I never whacked off much, believe it or not.

I wasn't attracted to the guy AT ALL. Just didn't spark so when it was my turn to service him I just froze and started to get upset; I looked like I was 15 or 16, I'm sure, so he just drove me back to the train station; I'm sure he was hoping a dad or uncle didn't show up and beat him up.

I don't consider my 'first' to be when I knew what I was doing and I like the guy. That happened years and years (and years and years and years) later.

I'm lucky to have found any satisfaction in life. It's so fragile.

R18 You "don't remember" because it was a trauma. For a woman, hetero "losing virginity" is a euphemism for a type of rape. You didn't actually have any desire but were acting on some kind of societal expectation.

Which one? Your mouth virginity, your ass virginity or your actual virginty

Never

18. At a fraternity house. One of the brothers asked me if I wanted to sleep over "instead of walking all the way back to your dorm."

14- a boy who’s family had just moved down the road . We had been touching each other in weird ways for a couple of months. But he came over one day. We were watching television, fell asleep and suddenly turned to each other and started touching again. That was the first time I ever came. It scared me at first because I thought I was going to piss myself. We continued for two years. I am 53 and earlier this year he suddenly died while getting gas.

18 isn’t a late bloomer you asshole

What a strange thing to call someone an asshole for, r21. I wish I could have started earlier.

You asshole.

I was in 7th grade, and me and a friend started touching each other's dicks one night, finally sucking on each other, then came pretty quickly. We did it off and on for a few years.

R10

OP here Holy shit are you me!! I lost it the a girl when I was 27 but she was a shitty bi so it didn’t end well

I was 18.

It is clear what "losing your virginity" is if you are a male/female couple: vaginal intercourse. But what counts for losing virginity when you're man? Is it the first time you came with another man? Is it the first time you got blown? Blew? Got fucked? Fucked? I was orally active from my sophomore year of high school, when I was about 13. I went to a private all male school, and there was a fairly large gay contingent, and, although we didn't use the word "gay," we certainly knew what we were. I did not have anal sex until I was in my late 20's, and, then, only a few times. So...when did I lose my virginity?

16- went to a gay bar, picked a guy, went to a video store, he sucked me off. I knew I was gay defintiviely.

At 14, had tried with a girl and didn’t work. I gave her oral sex until my tongue was exhausted because I couldn’t get hard.

Anal sex at 17. Horrible. Didn’t try again. Until 24. Now at 48, total bottom - how unfair.

R5 There's an art to cock sucking. If that was your first cock suck you clearly had no idea what you were doing. It's an ongoing problem among many gay men-simply putting ones lips over a cock does not make for a good blow job.

17 yo vacation in Portugal. Was walking in evening near Sintra Castle, instinctively knowing that this was where gay men were. Guy was 35. Handsome, not prepared for the sweatiness of the situation though.

r26, apparently when you were 13. I hope they sucked your cock, or otherwise made you cum to your satisfaction.

I was 16 and so was my boyfriend. We were both virgins (I am a straight woman) Barely got going and he came. I know my first blowjob left a lot to be desired, but at age 20, my gay best friend gave me pointers on sucking cock. (Thanks Danny!)

I was 8. A very hot boy up the street was 14. I was as horny and sexually aware as he was. We pretty much did it all, but particularly liked putting our fingers up each others' butts, eventually graduating to doing it with our dicks. Before I was 9, he had me cumming real cum. Our parents not only had no idea what we were up to, but they all thought it was great that we got along so very well with each other.

I've heard that super-early sexual experiences can be traumatic for kids, but I can attest that in no way did it adversely affect either of us. We both grew up to be nice, normal guys with no sexual hang-ups, guilt or feeling of shame. He wound up getting married and having kids, and, as far as I know, never had anything more to do with guys. In his case, I think his fooling around with me was an adolescent phase. I, on the other hand, am as totally gay as I was when I was 8 years old, and I wouldn't have it any other way. I never, ever felt I had been molested. I was fully as into it as he was.

Gay man here. Waited until age 21 before having sex, though I did jack a guy off before then just to see if his worked the same as mine (I kept my clothes on, so it was more like a science experiment to me). The guy I had sex with would eventually become my husband. And, yes, he's been the only one.

I lost my virginity at 36

How did people wait so long. I guess it matters where you live. I was close enough to a city to find a gay bar and men at 15-16. I wish I had a cute romantic first love in high school - but I was so closeted- and the out gay guys seemed so femme - it would never have happened. I do think it’s helpful to ha e an older guy the first time in a lot of ways though. Not too old - but at 16, I definitely needed a 24-30 year old to be patient and educational.

I'll let you know when it happens

R33 Lucky guys!

You're all such hos I don't believe it!

R26-- given that most 13 year olds are in 7th grade, how did you manage to make it all the way to 10th grade at that age?

I was 14, with a 16 year old guy from my summer job I'd been idolizing all summer. He freaked out after it happened and avoided me the remaining two weeks.

Was 19 with a woman because I thought that having sex would make me straight.

17. Prom night. It was cliche.

Gay male here. I was in sixth grade (so maybe 12?) and he was in seventh, although he was actually two years older than me. (He had been held back a year.) We were friends all through grade school and often had sleep-overs at his house. His mom and my mom were best friends. I was a tall skinny shy type and he was - even in grade school - a handsome blonde muscly jock type. He taught me how to jerk off and french kiss. (I remember vividly the first time he made me cum!) We played around until I was in high school and he "turned straight" and went exclusively with girls. I was sooo disappointed but went on to have sex with literally hundreds of men over the last 50 years.

My friend's father was a well know NFL player. He was retired and owned a fancy car dealership and did a lot of TV commercials. I remember in their basement was a huge rec room with a big bar, a pool table, a color TV (the first one I ever saw in the early 60's), even slot machines. His dad always had a lot of his jock friends over and I was probably less than subtle checking them out whenever I had the chance.

I recall the first time my friend french kissed me. I told him I thought it was gross. He replied "No it's not. My dad and I do it all the time". It was years later that I put two and two together and realized my friend was likely sexually abused by his linebacker dad all the time I knew him.

I was 21, and all my friends addressed my mail to the last living virgin.

More importantly, this thread is leading me to cancel all future sleepovers for my children.

I always forget how many fraus post on DL

I was 16. I’d been wanting to suck cock since I first heard about it a couple of years earlier. I finally got my chance, he was Cuban with a huge dick. I thought I’d died and gone to heaven when I had that huge cock in my mouth.

19. Freshman year of college. The girl was so hot you wouldn't believe it. Everyone said she was a spitting image of Nicole Eggert during her hot phase.

Then we fucked for a few months. Incredible. She was virtually untouched so she was clean and fresh and literally had the greatest cunt I've ever experienced.

23, PICKED HIM UP AT THE OLD PHARR LIBRARY.

For those of you who first had sex after 30- why did you wait so long? How did you know it was the right time? Did it live up to your imagination?

R48 I'd imagine finding someone gay to have sex with was not easy for a lot of them.

18– went to an adult book store and got sucked off by guy in the porn booths. He wanted me to suck him off but his cock was just too big.

When I told him it was my first time, he finished and said, “God, bless you.”

[QUOTE] Handsome, not prepared for the sweatiness of the situation though.

So in other words, his cock or ass smelled and tasted sweaty and bad?

I was a late bloomer, 21 with a friend. It was lame and we never really talked again.

Still a virgin at 24. But my first kiss was at 17, first time I had my breasts sucked was like 19? Same with first time giving and receiving oral. Kind of hoping my ex and I can pick up where we left off this month and finally have something since we're both in much more stable positions in terms of jobs and money etc. Fingers crossed that this month I'll lose it.

R54, If not , there's always the baths.

I was 10 and it was with a boy my age during a sleepover. We tried anal a couple of times, and having no lube, it wasn't too much fun. A couple of years later we jacked off together, then nothing after that. My first real sex was with my boyfriend at age 16. I still like sex, but now I'm more selective.

Who was the linebacker? You HAVE to spill now!

When I was 19. In a port-a-potty with a Bangladeshi sewage worker.

Blow job from a guy: 23

Intercourse with a woman: 28

Insertive anal intercourse with a man: 58

Receptive anal: not yet

And some of you thought YOU were late bloomers.

16 in a tent in the backyard.

One week before my 21st b-day. I was up late drinking with a guy in my frat house and just straight up asked him if he wanted to fuck. And we did.

R56, the name wouldn't mean much to people today, but in the 50's and 60's he was a big deal. I just Googled him. He played 11 seasons in the NFL and also served in the Navy. (Probably where he learned to french kiss!) My friend's older brother was also a jock / weight lifter and I always wondered if he and my friend fooled around, or if the father fooled around with the older brother as well. I grew up as an only child and loved hanging out at their house because the sons and their father often walked around the place shirtless.