Do You Have A Sexual Fetish?

I can't fuck unless my chihuahua is on the bed watching.

Hair, of any kind. And spit.

Cum is usually, technically, not a fetish, OP. A fetish is a non-living object or non-sexual body part, and it motivates and excites in a sexual way. Say, riding boots, or spandex, or humping vintage cars.

cum is a normal part of human sexuality and is certainly living when its shot out.

You could get over into it I suppose - say collecting strangers cum, or getting injections of cum in your ass before you are loaded by a guy. etc etc. How do you fetishise cum?

Cum tastes great. For me it's all about eating it.

Hairy armpits. Drives me crazy.

Spanking.

Bulges.

And the VPN threads here drive me wild.

Sexy feet

Feet, nice looking, well groomed, clean feet.

Fuzzy butts! I love to fuck a butt with a light coating of fine hair.

Rich guys.

Straight men.

Jockstraps.

Suits (shirt/tie) and guys in glasses

Omorashi

R7 here, meant VPL threads.

Uniforms, but especially cowboys with round asses in snug jeans. I love to spank and fuck that cowboy ass until those mancheeks are flattened.

[quote]And the VPN threads here drive me wild.

VPN...so nobody can detect where that dick-pic came from?

Sniffing and licking non-deodorized musky armpits.

Role play scenes and power exchange. Bellies that hang over a bit. When I was a kid, arm pits but I think that's because of that book from Spencer Gifts called HUNKS. I used to drool over that.

Long sessions with a hot man seated above me on my rim chair. I'm good for a few hours. Love it.

Men getting pantsed or accidental male nudity.

Sugar-free candy

I second R6 with spanking. Along with forcible (consensual roleplay obviously) undressing so as to administer the spanking...or have it administered to you.

Is talking dirty a fetish? Is it a fetish because I always love doing it? That it seems to enhance play? I love looking at a man and calling him a cock whore or a cum slut or an ass pig. When he's sucking my meat I talk to him about that... "want me to fuck your face?" "Yea, you like that stiff dick?" "C'mon fucker, lick my balls" "I said get in there and work my hole man, c'mon, eat my hairy ass!" "yea I bet you wanna smack my ass - go ahead"

I'm getting stiff typing this and there's more... I have a fuck buddy who i meet at a local hotel (he's a business traveler). We usually meet in the bar, have a drink, do some generic chatting. On the walk to the elevator, we'll talk and I'll whisper, "you hot fuck I to be sucking your stiff cock" and then pick up the conversation... in the elevator I'll look at him, ask if he's been sucking much cock on the road, etc...

Cum is a fetish? What are you doing with it, Rose?

Exhibitionism and Voyeurism is mine. Love an audience.

Food.

Asians

blond pubes....natural, untrimmed, summer sun-kissed omg I melt.

[r25] call me.

R25 = Jeff Stryker

No fetishes, but I love cocksucking so much I would happily do it full time and on weekends, too. Love, love, love sucking a man’s cock down to the root.

Bondage and total control.

I LOVE back, shoulder, and back of upper arm hair—usually what most other gay men hate.

Really into guys with nice biceps and pecks. By that I mean the muscular well shaped chest, not the type where guy enlarge their nips to unbelievable proportions or stretch them out so far they actully sag. Erase nubs are perfect.

I feel like some of these are more "turn-ons" than actual fetishes.

Jockstraps

My God this is a vanilla crowd. A fetish is something not usually associated with sex, like feet or animal costumes or bondage or wam or infantilism or cutting or crossdressing or restrained tickling etc.

The answer for 99% of these poseurs is no, they don’t have a fetish. Which is too bad for them because it’s awesome to have another entrance into the sex part of your brain.

Meh, I have a real fetish r38 (omorashi), and I wish I didn't. I really wish I could get off without thinking about my fetish.

Okay, R38, then tell us about your various entrances to the sex part of your brain.

My little dog "Fetish" begs to differ!

I don't have any, but I'm with R39; it seems as if it would be a pain. There's the very real possibility of rejection by partners who are not so inclined, for one.

What the hell is Omorashi? I don't even want to google that....

Bulges, jockstraps, hairy asses, short, thick cut cocks with flared glans.

R38: Um, no. Spanking is not a typical part of sex. I'm not talking about the ole ass slap during fucking, I'm talking about having my pants removed and put over the knee of a strong man who proceeds to spank my bare ass red. Maybe corner time so my red ass is put on display, or maybe he throws me on the ground off his lap and shoves his dick in my mouth to teach me how to be obedient. That's not vanilla by any definition, dear.

R24 This makes me want to teach you a lesson by paddling that ass in front of everyone.

Male ass. Always, don’t care much about anything else.

R46: Then you'd be combining my fetish with R26 and his exhibitionism. ;)

I think a big difference between a "turn-on" and a "fetish" is that people with fetishes can't cum independent of that fetish. "Muscular guys" may be an added bonus, and might get you harder faster, but it's probably not a *requirement* to get off.

I suppose they are fetishes but they aren't overpowering or vital, they are just things that really peak my interest.

Shoes, leather, feet, tall skinny guys, nerds, sideburns, bondage but without any pain, blondes, nose rings, boots, tongues and tongue piercings.

R36, I'm with you and I posted to this thread... a turn-on (for me it's talking dirty) is far different than a fetish (such as needing to spank a man's ass until it's red or needing to be humiliated by another).

Hairy arse, hairy chest, hairy legs all huge pluses. Hairy shoulders / back / toes - yuck.

Never done it but I've always wanted to fuck a rugby team on a muddy pitch.

Also love sniffing smelly socks - especially sports socks.

Hair is lovely anywhere. I love a hairy bear.

Piss

[quote]I feel like some of these are more "turn-ons" than actual fetishes.

I have no idea what the difference is.

r55, see r49:

[quote]people with fetishes can't cum independent of that fetish.

Filthy, stained, ripe jockstraps.

R49 is dead wrong in that assertion. Because people have a fetish does not mean they can't reach orgasm if they're not currently practicing that fetish.

If I have a fetish for, let's say feet, and my partner is very self-conscious about his feet and doesn't want to participate, that doesn't mean we can't have sex and/or climax. It may be heightened if we both partake in my fetish, but that doesn't mean you're incapable of cumming because you didn't do that particular thing.

People may fetishize exceptionally tall people and have fantasies about it. That doesn't mean they'll never have sex with a short or averaged size person.

FOOT FREAKS ARE REALLY GROSS. THEY ARE LIKE SCAT QUEENS.....ALWAYS “RECRUITING”.

r58 speak for yourself.

Also, r58, I have only had one sexual partner in my life with whom I have engaged in omorashi play.

But I cannot get off -- masturbation or with partner -- without THINKING about omorashi. I don't even tell my sexual partners I have a fetish anymore.

Take your own advice, R60.

Mine is tame: red satin soccer shorts

R45, would love to throw you over my lap, yank down your pants and briefs, and spank your bare ass until it’s bright red and glowing. Then, if I think you deserve it, I’ll let you swallow my big cock.

Hairy chested MWM businessmen in hotel rooms

R64: Dear Lord In Heaven!

.....Sounds rather nice actually. ;)

Voyeurism. Big time. The things I have seen!

Really low-hangers on skinny guys.

Watching guys dump

Chaka Khan

Yes.

R71 meet r69.

Chastity cock cage.

[quote]Chastity cock cage.

Why?

Those things make no sense to me. Don't they hurt if you get hard?

Fetishes don't make sense. That's what makes them fun.

Another feet slut

What do you do with someone's foot, fuck yourself in the ass with it?

R77 we have a winner!

[quote]Do You Have A Sexual Fetish?

As opposed to.... a nonsexual fetish?

There are fetishes other than sexual, R79.

Some people have food fetishes. Indeed, the dictionary defines fetish as:

"an excessive and irrational devotion or commitment to a particular thing." "He had a fetish for writing more opinions each year than any other justice"

Thanks, DL, I've learned that my preference and turn-ons aren't fetishes.

So dark skin, hairy legs, well-tamed nails and tanned feet - and the occasional piss play - are just preferences.

Fetishes, like doggie outfits, while somewhat tantalizing in the right kind of porn, leave me "out of the frame" in real life.

Spanking.