Seems likely to be honest
Do gay men consider bisexuality a threat to their orientation?
by Anonymous | reply 32 | October 29, 2018 6:47 AM |
Yes.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | July 31, 2018 3:14 AM |
What a psychotic post. What others do in their private lives is none of your fucking business. So STFU.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | July 31, 2018 3:16 AM |
R2, you know you on Datalounge, right?
by Anonymous | reply 3 | July 31, 2018 3:23 AM |
Is R2 on medication?
by Anonymous | reply 4 | July 31, 2018 3:26 AM |
Yes and you should always shut the fuck up about what bisexuals do in their private lives and lesbians too. What the fuck does it matter to you?
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 31, 2018 3:27 AM |
Why does this seem likely, OP?
by Anonymous | reply 6 | July 31, 2018 3:27 AM |
Of course.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 31, 2018 3:28 AM |
Some of the best sex I've ever had has been with bisexual guys. I don't want to get emotionally involved with one, but I have nothing against hooking up with one.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 31, 2018 3:29 AM |
Not to my orientation. That's fixed. My sanity? That's another story.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | July 31, 2018 4:36 AM |
No (short and sweet).
by Anonymous | reply 10 | July 31, 2018 4:50 AM |
Just because we don't fall for some of the bullshit bisexuals try to sell it doesn't mean we consider them a threat to our understanding of our own sexuality.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | July 31, 2018 4:54 AM |
I feel sorry for their cowardice. For the bulk of them are lying to themselves and everyone in their lives. Yes, a percentage are bi, but many are merely dishonest men. It's that simple.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | July 31, 2018 6:05 AM |
No OP.
Exactly the same as we are not jealous of women and do not wish we were women.
But you knew that because you're trolling.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 31, 2018 6:57 AM |
I felt very threatened during 2 years with a bi/pan boyfriend. He constantly reminded me that he was "basically straight" and constantly mentioned his long relationships with women and how he liked to fuck women. Told me that he was going out on dates with chicks but they weren't working out. Finally told him to get the fuck out of my life.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 22, 2018 4:32 AM |
Please post in English op.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | October 22, 2018 4:40 AM |
A threat? It makes for a bigger dating pool.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | October 22, 2018 5:02 AM |
If you can't get laid, OP, it's not because people see you as a threat.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | October 22, 2018 6:02 AM |
....I don't know them
by Anonymous | reply 19 | October 22, 2018 6:06 AM |
R14 said it. I'm not threatened by bi guys in any way, just appalled by how badly many of them behave. I've never known one who didn't at some point raise the fact they fuck women as a signal of his 'superiority' to gay men. In other words, they're homophobic, even while having sex with a guy. I've found them to be cowardly: having gay sex secretly, but shunning any public recognition or acceptance.and always, always passing for straight, and eventually opting for a public relationship with a women; often while expecting gay men to provide them with sex on the side. I'm just tired of their cowardly homophobia, behind their protests of gay men being biphobic. They need to change how they behave towards us.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | October 22, 2018 6:19 AM |
I thought I was bi for a minute, but when I had to fantasize a cute boy to get off with a woman, I thought oh hell, why didn't I just screw a guy in the first place.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | October 22, 2018 6:29 AM |
[20]: Thank you for clarifying my position. I didn't feel threatened, but felt repulsed, confused and, yes, inferior. Always asked him why he was with me when he clearly preferred women; would never answer me. He would never go out with me and wouldn't even be seen with me at front door kissing him hello or good-bye. It was all a big secret and, of course, he wanted me to arouse, finger and fuck his "pussy"; yet he stressed he needed a woman every 6-8 months and eventually he wanted to marry one and have children with her. Snooped on his phone and found all of these tinder and match.com dating matches. He would always say the women he was interested in took time and effort to date whereas he went to bed with me on our first date.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | October 23, 2018 3:06 AM |
A gay man who is obsessed with outing anyone with the slightest bisexual tendencies is one to be avoided. It's a sign of an unpleasantly stupid personality. Some people are gay and some people are bi, that's reality.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | October 23, 2018 3:22 AM |
I ended about 3 months ago a many-monthed affair with a bi guy. Made the mistake of falling deeply in love with him. Always reminded me of the women he dated (fucked) in the past. Was very closeted and eventually asked me for an allowance which I agreed to. First read about that aspect of dating a bi guy here months ago and thought it could never happen to me. Did he hold me in contempt? Did he see me as weak? Very angry, on my part, melt-down; wrote some awfully horrible things to him. Have written to him many times very apologetically, but no word from him. I still love him, but I don't want to start paying him again.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | October 29, 2018 2:23 AM |
The question is stupid. The idea that any sexuality could be a threat to anything is idiotic
by Anonymous | reply 25 | October 29, 2018 2:47 AM |
Nope. Two of my regular buddies are bi, they’re a lot of fun. I don’t think anybody’s sexuality is a threat to mine. My sexuality isn’t a threat to them.
Why would it be?
by Anonymous | reply 26 | October 29, 2018 2:56 AM |
As a gay man, dating a bisexual man effectively makes women my competition. How am I supposed to feel about that?
by Anonymous | reply 27 | October 29, 2018 3:05 AM |
As opposed to other gay men being your competition? What's the difference?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | October 29, 2018 3:10 AM |
R27. That’s silly. If a guy is riding my cock and coming so hard he screams, there’s no woman competing for anything. Maybe when he gets home and he’s banging his wife hard he’s thinking of me. I don’t know and I don’t care.
What I do know is he’s back again and has been coming back for 3 years now. So tell me again who’s competing? Part of it is - I don’t care. He’s just a fuck bud and that’s how it’s staying.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | October 29, 2018 3:17 AM |
As my bi boyfriend said: "Sex is different with men and women." Always thought he was thinking about a woman when he was with me. Didn't want to fuck me, but wanted to get on top of me frottaging till orgasm with eyes tightly closed. Wonderful kisser, but always with eyes closed. Of whom was he thinking?
by Anonymous | reply 30 | October 29, 2018 3:17 AM |
Maybe you can deal with coming in second in his mind, R29, but I can't.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | October 29, 2018 3:18 AM |
I'm fine with cumming second in his ass.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | October 29, 2018 6:47 AM |