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Can Two Gay Guys Be Roommate Without Fucking?

An acquaintance who is also gay is looking for a place and so am I. He suggested we get a place together and it seems like a good idea because I'd save a lot of money and I know he's a stable person with a good job but I'm worried about the sexual tension. He has a boyfriend and I'm single but there is a mutual attraction and I'm worried we may end up in bed together. Have you ever lived with another guy without there being sex? I was fucked by a "straight" roommate of mine years ago who came here on a work visa and left his wife at home so I worry a little.

by Anonymousreply 16July 19, 2018 11:10 AM

If there's mutual attraction then you're probably going to bang. I've had sex with gay room-mates without it really affecting our friendship or develpoing into anything more, but I've also had share-houses implode after turning down smitten gay roomies. It's a crap-shoot.

by Anonymousreply 1July 19, 2018 5:16 AM

I did with best friend. One morning we both woke up with eachother cocks in our mouths in a sideways 69 after a drinking stopper the night before. When we came to, we had sore blistered soggy cocks! Very painful

by Anonymousreply 2July 19, 2018 5:17 AM

Works for Gio and Tommy.

by Anonymousreply 3July 19, 2018 5:47 AM

I lived with a gay friend for a year and we didn’t fuck at all. Not even a hug. And we never talked to each other after we moved

by Anonymousreply 4July 19, 2018 6:11 AM

I've had roommates I've fucked, and roommates I didn't fuck. It just depends. Is the attraction truly mutual? Talk about it before you decide.

by Anonymousreply 5July 19, 2018 6:56 AM

If they're both bottoms, then yes. Two holes don't make a pole.

by Anonymousreply 6July 19, 2018 6:58 AM

Arggh. This suggests that 2 gay men cannot become platonic friends or even colleagues without jumping each other. Learn a little self-control, and appreciate each other on a personal level without fucking, OP.

by Anonymousreply 7July 19, 2018 7:20 AM

It suggests no such thing, r7. What it suggests is that people who are mutually attracted to one another may well act on that attraction.

by Anonymousreply 8July 19, 2018 8:12 AM

My first gay roommate insisted I fuck him my first morning in our apartment. Nowadays, some would call it a little rape-y. But it was 1975, so I went with the flow. I hated the squishy sound and texture, and did not become a top.

by Anonymousreply 9July 19, 2018 8:24 AM

I had a gay roommate while at university (along with a straight couple) and we somehow managed not to bone.

by Anonymousreply 10July 19, 2018 9:01 AM

When there's mutual attraction it will happen, or the one-sided crush will ruin the platonic roommate relationship.

I had a couple of gay roommates and at first I thought "Oh-oh, something's going to happen!" but usually I got turned off by some nasty habit and it was "as long he's paying his part of the rent ...".

The biggest sexual tension I had was when we had the hots for the same guy and a threesome was a possibility. But it didn't pan out and the guy got too busy with his career and we lost contact and interest. But it was a nice bonding experience to talk smack about the guy who had the nerve to ditch us for work *lol*. Still friends with that roommate but we live in different cities now and nowdays I can afford a place on my own.

by Anonymousreply 11July 19, 2018 9:02 AM

Had a gay roommate for about six years. I had no attraction to him but found out thru friends he was into me. Ended very poorly when I discovered he habitually snooped in my room and even was stealing private photos and items from me.

by Anonymousreply 12July 19, 2018 9:34 AM

No - totally impossible. Two gay guys can't live together as roommates without fucking. Even if they are both ugly ...

by Anonymousreply 13July 19, 2018 9:55 AM

I've had several gay roommates that never developed into anything sexual. If they were into me I wasn't aware and I just wasn't into them.

by Anonymousreply 14July 19, 2018 10:17 AM

I had a straight roommate that wanted to have sex when he was between girlfriends. So there's also that.

by Anonymousreply 15July 19, 2018 10:35 AM

OP, at your age and appearance, there probably wouldn't be any sex. You're most likely viewing this as a sex opportunity and he views it as a place to live. You sound predatory in nature. You've lived a long life and ended up creepy. He's young and just starting out. Leave him alone.

by Anonymousreply 16July 19, 2018 11:10 AM
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