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Married guys who get banged on the downlow

You just know that there are tons of them, scattered all over America. Living their phony little lives in suburbia with the wife and kids, then getting banged senseless by power tops, when the family is away.

This video just reminded me of that little fact. (NSFW)

When I'm traveling, or just walking around the streets of the city, I try to imagine which one of these straight-laced "family man" types are getting turned out by other men.

All I know is that if this was my father, I'd be mortified, and quite embarrassed. Again, NSFW!

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by Anonymousreply 175July 25, 2018 1:51 PM

Ask the DLer banging the married UPS guido.

by Anonymousreply 1July 19, 2018 12:59 AM

That video is hilarious. In the kid's room, no less.

What a creep.

by Anonymousreply 2July 19, 2018 1:01 AM

Can you imagine your father being fucked senseless by a hung Puerto Rican stud, and moaning like a woman?

*faints*

by Anonymousreply 3July 19, 2018 1:02 AM

Link doesn't work

by Anonymousreply 4July 19, 2018 1:04 AM

Funny that this thread pops up bc my married fuck buddy just caught an STD. Now I've got to head to the doctor's office. He thinks he got it from me, but then tells me about three other guys he's hooked up with since he and I met a month ago. Safe to say he a hoe and I hope his wife doesn't catch anything. I'm over it all and cross my fingers for negative results.

The vid is hot!

by Anonymousreply 5July 19, 2018 1:07 AM

It does, R4.

Not sure why it doesn't work for you.

by Anonymousreply 6July 19, 2018 1:08 AM

Disable the link previews in the DL settings and it'll work.

by Anonymousreply 7July 19, 2018 1:09 AM

Someday the need that even straight men have for physical intimacy with other men will be accepted and commonplace.

by Anonymousreply 8July 19, 2018 1:09 AM

well actually that video is SFW if you work at an LGB Center, or GMHC

by Anonymousreply 9July 19, 2018 1:10 AM

I used to be so naive thinking that a married man couldn't possibly be into guys on the down low. But after reading ads on the old craigslist, I couldn't believe it. Like, OP, now every married guy I see, I wonder what they're secretly into.

by Anonymousreply 10July 19, 2018 1:13 AM

So fake...he runs up and instantly inserts himself with no fumbling around?

And what's that on his head, a doo rag? How ghetto is that.

by Anonymousreply 11July 19, 2018 1:14 AM

Is OP:

1) A gay guy?

2) turned on by straight men who fuck on the downlow?

We assume yes.

So why the moralistic tone and the silly vid? Is a humiliated downlow married dude what excites the OP?

I think this is just a J/O thread. There's no point to it.

OP just post a couple dozen videos of your fantasies.

by Anonymousreply 12July 19, 2018 1:18 AM

My married father had affairs with men in secret and died of AIDS in early 1991. It almost destroyed my life, and it certainly destroyed everything at the time, I rarely talk about it, and tried to tell someone I thought was becoming a friend yesterday and was brutally rebuffed and told she didn't want to hear it. It opened up such enormous pain about all the secrecy and isolation since then.

by Anonymousreply 13July 19, 2018 1:19 AM

I have no idea why the OP thinks we'd be interested in seeing married men bottoming.

by Anonymousreply 14July 19, 2018 1:29 AM

[quote] why the moralistic tone and the silly vid

There is a larger point here about how HURTFUL closet cases are, not only to their families, but also to themselves.

Sorry that you're too stupid to understand it, R12/R14.

In case you needed a real life lesson, please read R13.

by Anonymousreply 15July 19, 2018 1:33 AM

Wow, R13. You've really been through some tough stuff. It appears that you are doing reasonably well. You sound resilient. GOOD FOR YOU!

by Anonymousreply 16July 19, 2018 1:33 AM

r13 I don't get how it hurt you besides his death. I'm sure he was just trying to get his rocks off not destroy his family. Was he homophobic or something? I don't get how it affected you so much.

by Anonymousreply 17July 19, 2018 1:35 AM

#13 = Anne Heche- DeGeneres-Lafoon-Tupper

by Anonymousreply 18July 19, 2018 5:07 AM

Getting turned out and getting they booty holes all hemorrhage and hemorrhoided up! Then they gotta secretly depend on using douches in order to take a decent shit. Got dads out here sucking cocks then coming home to kiss their wife and kids. Nasty and sad!

by Anonymousreply 19July 19, 2018 5:14 AM

R19 = Miss Alexyss K. Tylor

by Anonymousreply 20July 19, 2018 5:25 AM

Is this a thing with young married husbands these days now? Why do they still feel the need to be closeted and married to a woman in this day and age?

by Anonymousreply 21July 19, 2018 5:29 AM

Here you go R20.

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by Anonymousreply 22July 19, 2018 5:30 AM

You're absolutely disgusting and one of the many justifiable reasons you people are hated.

by Anonymousreply 23July 19, 2018 5:30 AM

Fake, fake, fake... Just because someone says they're married to a woman doesn't mean it's true. Jesus you people are stupid. I've only known of two guys I fucked around with who were for sure married to women. I knew because I saw them out with wife and kids and things got weird. I ended it quickly. This is out of a lot of guys I hooked up with. I believe the percentages are quite small and usually is just some perverted fantasy..

by Anonymousreply 25July 19, 2018 5:36 AM

[quote]I have no idea why the OP thinks we'd be interested in seeing married men bottoming.

DL is rife with posts and threads fetishizing and fantasizing about sex with straight men who they consider to be preferable to gay guys (and, according to posters, [bold]all[/bold] of whom are able to be had).

by Anonymousreply 26July 19, 2018 6:07 AM

I have fucked/topped plenty of (happily?) married men. I think that we still underestimate the number of men who are so horrified to be openly gay that they live a lie for most of their life. I grew up Pentecostal, so I get that it is hard to come to terms with losing your family, friends and place in the community. Plenty of men are "masculine" enough to carry off playing straight to outsiders. The sex life between these men and their wives must be limited and awkward to say the least, but it is a thing - and more commonplace than you would expect. They do not bother me, but I do not necessarily seek them out either - I do like "masculine" bottoms though and most of this demographic fits the bill. Not all do however..

by Anonymousreply 27July 19, 2018 6:10 AM

[quote] The sex life between these men and their wives must be limited and awkward to say the least, but it is a thing - and more commonplace than you would expect. They do not bother me, but I do not necessarily seek them out either - I do like "masculine" bottoms though and most of this demographic fits the bill. Not all do however.

"Straight" Todd Chrisley with his wife and 5 kids definitely comes to mind.

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by Anonymousreply 28July 19, 2018 6:13 AM

My father had a relationship with a guy in his early 20s. They still keep in touch over the past 40 years. My father told me his story on the day I came out to my family . That’s prob why he accepted me being gay cuz he never had a chance came out

by Anonymousreply 29July 19, 2018 6:18 AM

R24 you are an ugly, hateful beast.

by Anonymousreply 30July 19, 2018 6:19 AM

I hope the little tyke who sleeps in that bed doesn't find spunk or santorum. Dad's feet looked filthy too. Really gross on so many levels, but the top's cakes are where it's at.

by Anonymousreply 31July 19, 2018 6:36 AM

[quote] I hope the little tyke who sleeps in that bed doesn't find spunk or santorum. Dad's feet looked filthy too.

That dad is so tacky and gross for even having sex on his kid's bed. So wrong on SO many levels.

I doubt he even cared to wash the sheets. He was too busy worrying about getting his hungry hole plowed by that stud.

by Anonymousreply 32July 19, 2018 6:38 AM

R28 - Ha! Whenever I see that Chrisley guy I think of the expression, "hiding in plain sight"!

by Anonymousreply 33July 19, 2018 6:40 AM

There have been bisexual guys for decades that were married with kids and hooked up with guys on the side. It’s because being out as bi wasn’t exceptable in society. Being bisexual is also something that both gay and straight people think doesn’t exist. So I understand why the bi guys choose to keep it on the DL. But in the last few years with the under 25yr old crowd...being bi is ok and nothing to be embarrassed about. So change is coming for the bi guys with a less judgemental younger generation.

by Anonymousreply 34July 19, 2018 6:42 AM

Really, R28? I see Paul Lynde.

by Anonymousreply 35July 19, 2018 6:49 AM

I've fucked 3 straight married guys- all bottoms. And all liked it rough.

by Anonymousreply 36July 19, 2018 6:49 AM

I’ve got several long term, married bi men I see. Some I’ve known for 10-15 years - others a year or two.. It works for me. They wanna get fucked - I wanna fuck. I regularly check for sti’s - and I have a place to meet that’s centrally located. And I don’t wanna push them for more than they wanna give time or affection-wise.

How they deal with their life outside of the bedroom with me - is totally their business.

Over the years I’ve met many others as well. A couple of them were ridiculously promiscuous! Like - these guys (who were hot!) - were looking for - and finding! - one - but usually more! - cocks each and every day. One in particular. He was incredible! Very nice looking and built. Worked night shifts. Seemed to have unlimited opportunities to hookup with other guys at his place before work after his wife and kids had left for the day - and after work at saunas, adult bookstores and parks - on his way home. This was a while ago before apps had appeared and made connecting even easier.

I always swore that guy got more cock than any gay guy I knew of in our city. It was extraordinary. If somewhat pathological! But at the very least - his time management skills were incredible!

by Anonymousreply 37July 19, 2018 8:44 AM

Gross and sad

by Anonymousreply 38July 19, 2018 9:04 AM

As a 19 yo one of my first encounters was with a guy in his mid 30s, gorgeous, hung and into twinks. I was a novice. Went to his beautiful house and proceeded to have sex on the marital bed, while his 4 kids slept in the adjoining rooms. Wifey was a high powered business woman and was out of town. Met him 25 years on, and had just gone through nasty divorce after she found a collection of gay porn on his computer. He was also HIV+ and had been having sex with the wife, but talk about good luck, she was uninfected. They were very wealthy, and he could not understand the depth of her betrayal of her, and the risk he had put her at, and he fought tooth and nail over property and holiday homes etc. Very strange guy.

by Anonymousreply 39July 19, 2018 9:14 AM

I hooked up with one married guy and he turned out to be a fucked up Republican who didn't think to clean out before I fucked his fat ass...thankfully I was wearing a condom.

by Anonymousreply 40July 19, 2018 9:33 AM

I don't think having gay sex on the side isn't necessarily a negative thing. Most of the married guys I know who fool around with men are quite happy with their lives. Their first priority is their wives and kids. They like being a family guy and like being part of the heterosexual world. They don't want to live openly gay lives and they don't feel repressed.

by Anonymousreply 41July 19, 2018 9:45 AM

All my johns are married w/ kids and republicans.

by Anonymousreply 42July 19, 2018 10:23 AM

Your johns, R42? Are you a paid whore?

by Anonymousreply 43July 19, 2018 10:38 AM

And OP would be the first in line if a hot married guy came on to him.

by Anonymousreply 44July 19, 2018 11:26 AM

I worked for a well-known cable giant twice in the past. I was a cable installer in my former life during those two gigs. The first time, I worked a system in an adjacent city an hour away, and the second time I worked in my hometown area. I was good-looking. I cannot tell you the number of times that I was propositioned by married family men while performing the work - ranging from a very subtle suggestiveness to an undeniable, blatant come-on. Installing cable boxes, you scout the home and the location of the televisions to plan your work. This is just an example: I determined the course of action to install a DCT for a living room television with nothing amiss. I'd then go to my truck to get what I needed and come back to find a gay DVD laying on the TV stand where there wasn't one before. Another guy was helping me run the wire at his TV stand and told me "Just stick it through the hole, and I'll suck it up for you real good!" That was the thing: They always wanted to help with the job - always hounding you while you went about your work. When they were with you in their basements, they really got aggressive for some reason. Two scenarios which come to mind: One married guy was with me in his basement, and flipped an old mattress onto the floor which had been standing up against the wall. He placed his foot on it after turning it onto the floor and just stared me down. Another came on to me as his little three or four year old daughter stood at the top of the basement steps out of our view calling down the stairs for him. He grew visibly agitated with her, rolling his eyes as he stepped into my personal space facing me "I could create an issue (with the install) after you leave if you'd just like to "hang out" instead." I stepped back and continued with my work. They were really, very suggestive in their bedrooms as well. Some of them climbing onto their beds to lay there while you worked - watching. Inappropriate. The freakiest situation in which I found myself? It happened in the city. A mid to late 40's guy and his adult son were the only ones home - son was maybe 19 or 20 years old and looked like a kid enrolled at his local community college, and in fact he sat on the couch with a text book in his hands. They had mentioned that Mom wouldn't be coming home after work so they'd be ordering out. All of the sudden, the father starts all this blatant sexual innuendo with me - lots of double entendres and such. Shocking. At one point, I looked over to the son on the couch as if to say "Do you HEAR this guy and what he's saying?" only to find the son breathing very heavily, his chest rising and falling with these sort of shuddering breaths - anticipation. I though "Good God, Almighty - get me the fuck out of here NOW!" I was installing a cable modem, and as soon as I got everything connected I went out to my truck and waited for five minutes allowing black-sync to occur on the modem. I went back to the house and could see immediately as soon as I entered that the job was done, so I had Dad sign the work order at the door and left. I could go on and on and on. If you're wondering, NO, I never responded in these situations. I always played dumb.

I believe that humans are innately bisexual by default, and from that point personal attitudes and opinions regarding sexuality are heavily influenced by societal norms. Likewise, I believe that one's abhorent and extreme aversion to homosexuality is purely a learned and conditioned response. I know that I'll get many of you dudes to call foul on that notion, but I assert that just because you don't and won't have sex with a woman doesn't necessarily mean that you couldn't.

by Anonymousreply 45July 19, 2018 12:13 PM

I prefer married men and have had a lot of them in my time. A wedding ring is a turn on to me.

I'm having a thing right now with a guy who lives down the block. Married. 2 kids.

I'm not in the US.

by Anonymousreply 46July 19, 2018 1:15 PM

R45 Uh...after reading that, I'm excusing myself to go jerk off.

by Anonymousreply 47July 19, 2018 1:22 PM

Men like sex. It's very often not about attraction. This is not a gay vs straight thing.

by Anonymousreply 48July 19, 2018 1:35 PM

It has a lot to do with the town they are in. I live in CT and everyone is in everyone's business here. You must play sports in high school so your parents can brag. If you are good looking they keep reminding you about girls. You can't go too long without a girlfriend or they start talking immediately. Is he gay? And it's not looked good upon here. You graduate high school, go to a good college the parents can brag about and get married and start a family ASAP. If you don't do those things, the rumors start right away. A lot of people can't handle people talking about them like that. I know a husband who is interested in me but he inherited money from his dad. His dad was a big shot here so he is known. Had a big home built. Two blonde kids. Everything is picture perfect. His wife catches him crying sometimes and he won't tell her why. He's not gonna throw away his life of comfort he's known all his life. Sad and weak. He would have to give up everything he has known. That takes so much strength and not give a fuck attitude. Unfortunately, most men are weaker than we think.

by Anonymousreply 49July 19, 2018 1:51 PM

R45 Did you fuck any of them? Any hot ones? Please share your top 10 encounters in details. I love your writing.

by Anonymousreply 50July 19, 2018 2:10 PM

That's pretty grim, R49. No judgement here, but I don't understand having anything to do with the mess that is married men. I get the fantasy element, but not seeking them out.

by Anonymousreply 51July 19, 2018 2:25 PM

If I had a nickel for every married guy I had sex with I could afford a stable of hustlers now that Im past my sell by date. I always said a six pack and a joint was pretty much all you needed to persuade a guy to "try" it. I love how a few posters say it never happens,not only does it happen,it happens way more than most women would want to believe.

by Anonymousreply 52July 19, 2018 2:28 PM

I know a young tradesman — huge dick — who only has sex with straight guys. Gay culture - admittedly banal - holds zero interest for him, and he has nothing to do with it: he finds gay guys too narcisstic, fem & complicated. He says straight guys are much more straitforward and innocent.

by Anonymousreply 53July 19, 2018 2:29 PM

This is far more prevalent than most straight women think. R49 makes some good points.

My sister and I both believe my 2 brothers and my estranged father have lived their life in the closet. I am a gay male and none of the men in my family speak to me.For one, my brothers engaged in sex play with me and each other starting at young age - never touched my sister.. Of course, they both swooped into the closet with the sports/college/wives bullshit. My sister was engaged long ago to best friend of oldest brother and she found solid and frankly, quite funny for us and highly damaging for him evidence of his sexual relationship with the fiance. Sister was being groomed to beard.

I have been propositioned by numerous straight guys - just not into it probably due to family history. But hey party on fellow DLers!

by Anonymousreply 54July 19, 2018 2:34 PM

Videos please

by Anonymousreply 55July 19, 2018 2:47 PM

Just my experience, but a combination of a highly misogynistic attitude, blatant homophobia, and near constant references to "mos" and "fags" fucking usually add up to a closet case. Not that I haven't seen plenty of so called gay friendly closeted men - hi James Franco!

My father called me a fucking faggot who was swapped in the hospital and called my sister from age 10 on a fucking whore(?). Needless to say, she and I ran away to NYC at an early age..

by Anonymousreply 56July 19, 2018 2:54 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 57July 19, 2018 2:56 PM

Wonderful video! Excellent lighting and choreography

by Anonymousreply 58July 19, 2018 2:57 PM

Truth r52

by Anonymousreply 59July 19, 2018 2:58 PM

I know of at least two white DL bottoms who got pozzed. One caught the bug from this large, nasty trucker. Ended up giving it to his wife. The other was involved in a ganbang up in Fresno. That was a fucked up case. He got the fuck flu, but kept cruising. Next I hear he'd moved away from my neighborhood. Never heard of him again for about two years. Then a mutual acquaintance lets slip that he's full-blown, and his son (13 at the time) was also poz. That had a chilling effect on the evening. I simply put down my glass and drove home.

by Anonymousreply 60July 19, 2018 3:03 PM

R50, no I didn't fuck any of them. I admit, however, that there were a few times I was tempted - I even grew a raging hard-on once where the job was completed, and I was sitting in a chair at the foot of the bed while married man was sitting at the foot of same bed, looking dejected and disappointed while staring at the floor. I was on hold with dispatch forever attempting to call the job in as completed. The sexual tension hang in the air like a smothering fog. I covered by crotch with my clip board. I was involved with someone at the time, but like I said, I was tempted a few times. Interestingly, it was my experience while working these cable gigs which propelled me toward an attraction for significantly older men. I was in my late 20's and early 30's at the time. I mean, if I was going to do something with a man, then it would be an older one.

I'm not going to give a blow-by-blow (no pun intended) account of my top 10 scenarios, but while I'm typing, I will say that there were even situations where their wives were present and this fact did not seem to matter to these men one bit. I'll tell you about two of them: One was an older guy in his mid 50's, I'd say. Obviously, he stuck like glue to me the entire time I was there doing the install. I had to run some cable in a room upstairs, and while laying on the floor do do my work, he actually came and lay down beside me uncomfortably close to assist. He watched me like a hawk, and hung on my every word. He looked like he wanted to DEVOUR me sexually - it was weird, and again it was undeniably in the air. So I got the work done, and it was time to go through my short demonstration concerning the features the new cable box offered to them as customers. I sat down on the end of the couch, and married guy came and sat down right next to me while wife took a seat on the other end of the couch. I'm using the remote to go through some of the features, and in my left peripheral vision I see that NEITHER one of them are looking at the television screen the entire time. Married guy is fixated on my left facial profile checking me out while his wife was fixated on HIS face, checking him out at he checked me out - again, it was weird.

Another scenario which played out while the wife was present occurred because I had to go back to the house later that evening after having been there earlier that afternoon. He showed interest the first time I was there, but nothing too blatant to the point where I might have become guarded. I could not get the cable modem to sync with the system no matter what I tired, checked, or rechecked. This was during a time when our managers were coming down hard on us for shoddy work, and leaving the job without having verified the equipment was up and running properly. I had other jobs to get to and knowing that I'd be passing the vicinity of his home later, on my own time as I was going to a party, I just told him that I'd come back then to see if I could get it working then. I did that, arriving in my nice clothes and such. Right away, I noticed that he was clean shaven and freshly showered, wearing cologne, changed his clothes as well. The wife was there. He was a big, bearish guy about 6'4" and it was during a moment I had my back turned to them both that I heard whispering, and I turned around to see the wife going out the front door while they were whispering to one another, making hand gestures and such - I even saw the guy give his wife a thumbs-up. After she left, there was a point where I had to get down on the floor to fiddle with the cable modem as I had set it in the cabinet next to the CPU earlier. I scooted back from the desk cabinet after doing my thing to find that he had laid down next to me on his side - he was propped up on his left elbow and winked at me - totally obvious. No, nothing happened and I just expressed my sorrow that I couldn't get it to work saying that I'd report the issue the following morning as it might be an issue at the pole or node. The point in this scenario is that his wife KNEW!

by Anonymousreply 61July 19, 2018 3:30 PM

^R45, and DAMN! R60, that is FUCKED UP!

by Anonymousreply 62July 19, 2018 3:38 PM

[quote]It’s because being out as bi wasn’t exceptable in society.

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 63July 19, 2018 3:43 PM

This teacher at my secondary school was downlow getting ploughed by another teacher. His wife also thought at my school. I didn't find out about it until years after I had left school. He was kind of hot in the tall.

by Anonymousreply 64July 19, 2018 3:47 PM

The married guy I play with is definitely married because 1. He said so, and 2. I can taste the stale pussy on his cock.

by Anonymousreply 65July 19, 2018 3:54 PM

R45 again. R64's post brought back a memory. I was a senior in high school, and one of my male teachers actually came on to me once. I don't remember how the discussion was even initiated, but for some reason the class was discussing marital infidelity - inappropriate, I know. I recall with perfect clarity as two of the girls were walking at the head of the class that I told the teacher "Come on, Mr Blank, you know you probably cheat too." He pointed at the two girls and said "Not with those I don't." I said to myself "Hmmmm." Fast forward a year later. I'm 18 or 19 years old, and I'm living in my very first apartment which was situated on a corner. I was outside sitting on the stoop in front of my front door as I looked to my left to see a car coming to a stop at the stop sign. I noticed immediately that it was Mr. Blank. With complete surprise, I gave out a "Hello, Mr Blank! How are you?" He motioned with his right hand for me to approach the car, and as I drew near to the passenger side of his vehicle, he stuck his hand toward the opened window for me to shake it. I took his hand and shook it, but when I was through shaking it, he actually held on while looking me in the eyes, smiling. I just smiled back and continued to shake his hand until it grew uncomfortably long. I attempted to retrieve my hand, and the harder I tried to take it back was the harder he held onto it until I managed to snatch it back to where it actually hit me in my chest while blurting "GIVE ME BACK MY GODDAMNED HAND, MR. BLANK!!!!" He just continued to smile, gave me a wave good-bye and drove off.

There were quite a few male teachers in my school system who were rumored to be gay, and the students talked about them from time to time. First thing in the morning, before the first bell rang it was common for a good many students to sit in the lunch hall/study hall after arriving at school to wait for that first bell. I remember being there one morning while some of these teachers were also sitting at a table as I walked past another table with some jock types sitting at it. I saw that they were staring at the teachers at their table which was at a distance, and I distinctly heard one of the male students say to the others "Can you imagine all those mother-fuckers naked and fucking each other?"

I've typed what I've typed knowing damned well what's up. How YOU doin?

by Anonymousreply 66July 19, 2018 4:17 PM

R45/R61, your stories are AWESOME!

I could never have the self-control that you did. Especially if the guy was hot and making an obvious pass.

And I don't doubt for one second, that some of the wives not only know about their husbands, but are in on it.

Some strange shit goes on in suburbia. Stranger than even our Datalounge minds could conjure up.

by Anonymousreply 67July 19, 2018 4:27 PM

R61 You must be, or must have been, exceptionally handsome.

by Anonymousreply 68July 19, 2018 4:55 PM

[quote] You must be, or must have been, exceptionally handsome

Never underestimate the power of a man in uniform.

There's a reason why so much porn involves "service" men, cops, or firefighters.

by Anonymousreply 69July 19, 2018 5:00 PM

I'll tell you truly, R68. There actually was a time in my younger days when I was told often that I was an attractive man. Equally true was the fact that I didn't really care for some odd reason. Physical attraction was a basic factor for me as much as it has been for anyone, but beyond that - and QUICKLY beyond that was the other, more important things I might find attractive in someone: Intelligence, conversation, the sound of someone's voice and it's tone, etc. We are ALL good looking to someone(s) else when we are young, eh?

by Anonymousreply 70July 19, 2018 5:05 PM

One of my good friends only has sex with married men. Because he's extraordinarily cute, many, many married men come on to him, particularly when he travels for business.

This fetish of his started when he lost his virginity at age 15 to his summer job boss, a married man.

by Anonymousreply 71July 19, 2018 5:30 PM

I love having sex with married guys. My fav is a guy from Boston who travels for work and has male FBs in every city. He swears up and down that he's bi. But if he were truly bim wouldn't he also have affairs with women?

by Anonymousreply 72July 19, 2018 5:35 PM

I wonder how many married guys have caught STDs along the way AND passed it on. That must be a fun conversation.

by Anonymousreply 73July 19, 2018 5:38 PM

R60

He molested his son?

by Anonymousreply 74July 19, 2018 5:52 PM

I want to get fucked by the top in the OP.

But not in a children’s bed.

by Anonymousreply 75July 19, 2018 5:56 PM

Ha, what a coincidence!

Someone created a thread about married husband and father, actor David Deluise, posting his nudies on Grindr.

Get it, gurl!

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by Anonymousreply 76July 19, 2018 9:16 PM

And David Deluise presenting hole...

Don't ever say that married guys don't fuck around with other guys. Because that's total bullshit. They do. They ABSOLUTELY do.

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by Anonymousreply 77July 19, 2018 9:18 PM

Gay like his daddy (Dom), then!

by Anonymousreply 78July 19, 2018 9:20 PM

DeLuise is divorced, apparently.

by Anonymousreply 79July 19, 2018 9:24 PM

Who!!?

by Anonymousreply 80July 19, 2018 9:25 PM

There are plenty of Daddy types who are unmarried. I get that the taboo is the fetish for many, but unlike those who say only the married bloke is guilty of something, I disagree. I don't want to be complicit, or a catalyst in someone's misery. I'm with R51 on this one. I have had the opportunity numerous times, even when the wife gives permission, and I have posted about it before on the bi threads, but have always decided it isn't worth the trouble.

by Anonymousreply 81July 19, 2018 9:27 PM

r60, that is one of the most shocking things I’ve heard on DL. That father deserves to get his ass beat with a bag of nickels.

by Anonymousreply 82July 19, 2018 9:30 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 83July 19, 2018 10:18 PM

R74, I can't say for sure. I didn't know him very well, but that's the most plausible explanation. The weird thing is that he was a complete bottom. He took miles of dick on the DL. It seems strange that he topped his son. Maybe, to be charitable, one of his tricks was doing the son on the side?

by Anonymousreply 84July 20, 2018 12:04 AM

I wish I was the married guy on the bottom, getting my ass reamed by that stud with the jiggly ass!!!

by Anonymousreply 85July 20, 2018 2:38 AM

Is r12 an 11-year-old girl?

If she’s an adult, she should know that fucking the truth out of a closeted person is a turn-on for many.

by Anonymousreply 86July 20, 2018 2:52 AM

[quote] she should know that fucking the truth out of a closeted person is a turn-on for many

Especially when he's moaning like a WOMAN, like the closet case in the op's video.

by Anonymousreply 87July 20, 2018 2:54 AM

Stop letting these married guys nutt in you!!! Prep has definitely caused an incline in STDs. Everyone one is lying about being on it just to get a raw nutt off.

by Anonymousreply 88July 20, 2018 3:16 AM

R30, I had to click on your comment to view that made by 24. Because I had him blocked. Reading that last comment, I now know I was justified.

by Anonymousreply 89July 20, 2018 6:46 AM

Where can you see the rest of David DeLuise's pics full sized?

by Anonymousreply 90July 20, 2018 7:15 AM

[quote]That dad is so tacky and gross for even having sex on his kid's bed. So wrong on SO many levels. I doubt he even cared to wash the sheets. He was too busy worrying about getting his hungry hole plowed by that stud.

That clip seems so fake. Do straight guys wax or shave their balls? From what I could see, the 'married' guy seemed to have hairless balls. The straight married dude didn't noticed his trick was setting up his cell or whatever he used to film them?

The entire story seems far fetched, the married guy didn't think his wife might come back to get something she forgot?! How long did take her to drop off their kids, hours? What if the grandmother lived close by?

Mostly, why fuck on your kids bed? Have a little respect.

Why do these closet cases even get married to women? I'd never get involved with a married guy. A friend did, the guy was a doctor and insane. He used to call my friend from home, with his baby crying in the background! My friend broke it off.

by Anonymousreply 91July 20, 2018 7:25 AM

One drunken evening not long before she died, my mom shared stories about my dad. She told me that it was difficult being married to him, because everybody wanted him, including men. She told me his best friend, Jack, came out of the closet at age 63. My dad and Jack were inseparable for years. She told me another of my dad's friends, Roger, who had 8 children (my dad also had 8 children), was widely rumored to be gay. My father also regularly screwed his secretaries and women he met while on business trips.

It explained a lot about my dad, his alcoholism, his reticence, his careful but not overtly fussy concern about his weight and appearance, and his frequent fishing trips with his buddies Jack and Roger. My mom's explanation made my dad seem more real, sexual, and normal. I'm pretty sure all of my dad's sons (there are 6 boys) are bisexual like he was.

I'm pretty sure my dad was a top.

by Anonymousreply 92July 20, 2018 7:35 AM

David DeLuise is the son of the late comedic actor Dom DeLuise, another closet case.

by Anonymousreply 93July 20, 2018 7:39 AM

R91 they like the sex with men but want to seem “ normal” to their friends and family , some may also want children Coming out to their friends and family and having children with a male partner is too much of a hassle especially when they can easily get sex with men with no strings attached while the wife is either completely clueless or turning a blind eye.

by Anonymousreply 94July 20, 2018 7:49 AM

[quote][R91] they like the sex with men but want to seem “ normal” to their friends and family , some may also want children Coming out to their friends and family and having children with a male partner is too much of a hassle especially when they can easily get sex with men with no strings attached while the wife is either completely clueless or turning a blind eye.

So in your estimation, it's perfectly OK to fuck up the woman's life? Guess you sure aren't seeing it from any other perspective other than the guy getting his rocks off?

Unless the wife is bisexual and has a lesbian lover one the side, seems doubtful many straight women would be fine with their husband banging men. Believe me most straight women sure aren't going to turn a blind eye, unless the man is a very rich celebrity or a multi-millionaire.

by Anonymousreply 95July 20, 2018 8:12 AM

R95 who said I was perfectly okay with it Mary!

by Anonymousreply 96July 20, 2018 8:31 AM

[quote][R95] who said I was perfectly okay with it Mary!

Cut the crap! Don't call me Mary either. I can't stand when gay men justify this down-low behaviour. How about these closet cases don't involve innocent people in their bullshit, because that what closet cases do. There are a lot of straight women who have no idea their husbands are gay, there are lots of naive women to there.

Most gay men have moms, sisters, female cousins, female friends. You know damn well you would not be happy seeing any female you are very close with having to deal with the shocking news that their husband is gay and has been living a double life. As a gay man I don't believe men are bisexual. A man who has sex with a man and claims bisexuality is full of shit.

Do these guys ever think about passing some STD or HIV to their wives?

by Anonymousreply 97July 20, 2018 8:44 AM

R54. You had sexual play with your brothers??? I hope you’ve all had counselling.

by Anonymousreply 98July 20, 2018 9:06 AM

R60. That’s thoroughly FUCKED UP.

by Anonymousreply 99July 20, 2018 9:08 AM

R64. A teacher ‘thinking’ at school? What a rarity.

by Anonymousreply 100July 20, 2018 9:12 AM

R66, that’s gross. We had a lesbian P.E teacher (yeah, not at ALL fitting the stereotype) who started a relationship with a vulnerable 15 year old student who was from a shitty home, and in and out of welfare. She should have been fired.

by Anonymousreply 101July 20, 2018 9:18 AM

Kudos to you, R81.

by Anonymousreply 102July 20, 2018 9:21 AM

[quote]As a gay man I don't believe men are bisexual.

You really need to (a) break out of your little bourgeois gay circle (b) start mixing in circles where flagrant sex is the rule of the day (c) read history.

Report back to us in a year.

by Anonymousreply 103July 20, 2018 10:36 AM

One of the most memorable things ever said to me.

Breathtakingly handsome blond guy whom I'm trying to chat up....

"Just so you know: my fiancée thinks X is my father. She doesn't know he's my lover."

by Anonymousreply 104July 20, 2018 10:41 AM

I like how the link displays an image of two naked men on top of each other, with the warning [bold]NSFW[/bold]

by Anonymousreply 105July 20, 2018 10:57 AM

I fucked too many members of the Mississippi and Tennessee Bar to remember. All " Conservative Christian Values" types.

by Anonymousreply 106July 20, 2018 11:10 AM

Those David DeLuise pics are fresh - apparently they leaked within the last 24 hours.

Not sure how someone IDed them as him unless they recognized him upon hookup and then raced home to spill the beans.

by Anonymousreply 107July 20, 2018 11:33 AM

R41, if they can’t tell the world they’re bi, then THEY’RE REPRESSED.

by Anonymousreply 108July 20, 2018 3:05 PM

R108 No one is obligated to tell the world anything.

by Anonymousreply 109July 20, 2018 3:08 PM

R45 sounds gorgeous.

And the Father/Son duo sounds like child abuse with incest.

by Anonymousreply 110July 20, 2018 3:12 PM

I love hooking up with Mary guys because I just want some fun sex with no strings attached

by Anonymousreply 111July 20, 2018 3:16 PM

Ha *married

by Anonymousreply 112July 20, 2018 3:22 PM

r91, Yes, straight guys shave their balls. They've been doing it since the late 90's.

by Anonymousreply 113July 20, 2018 4:15 PM

Actually, r95, a LOT of women are in on the sham and don't mind if the husband is gay and getting some D on the side.

They go for the money and security, even at middle and working class wages. Women honestly don't care about sex as much as men and most heterosexual marriages become largely sexless, anyway.

I could point out the famous ones like Cole Porter's wife or Dianne Von Furstenberg. But you're wrong to think they have to be rich.

by Anonymousreply 114July 20, 2018 4:48 PM

r97 should take it up with homophobic society.

When you refrain from all sex, relationships and tithing until all society stops denigrating homosexuals, then I'll let you blame the closet cases, too.

Fraulein.

P.S. There's this thing called safe sex.

by Anonymousreply 115July 20, 2018 4:52 PM

That doesn't mean they're not repressed, r109, or that the world isn't fucked up, or that I will shut up about it.

by Anonymousreply 116July 20, 2018 4:55 PM

The main problem is that both of the men in the video are fug.

by Anonymousreply 117July 20, 2018 4:58 PM

^LOL

by Anonymousreply 118July 20, 2018 5:18 PM

[quote]That doesn't mean they're not repressed, [R109], or that the world isn't fucked up, or that I will shut up about it.

The Church Lady has spoken.

by Anonymousreply 119July 20, 2018 5:52 PM

This is R45, R61, R66 and R70 again. I wonder if we might have a rather serious discussion regarding those married men and their penchant for illicit gay sex and the exact reason(s) why. I find this to be a fascinating topic of discussion for the implications involved. As stated previously, I do believe that this issue is NOT so uncommon or foreign in nature as most would like us to believe. So then, I ask "Why DO so many married men seek to have sexual relations with other men?" I also ask the pertinent question (for which I have NEVER found a valid answer) "What's REALLY going on during the sexual act?"

by Anonymousreply 120July 20, 2018 6:11 PM

The David Deluise photo montage is hot!

I’m not sure his two children or his octogenarian mother will be as happy as me to see his displays, however.

by Anonymousreply 121July 20, 2018 6:11 PM

Uhh, r120, most people want sexual variety rather than being stuck with the same sex partner their whole lives.

Statistics show that something like 60% of all American women want variety too, despite the fact that they're usually monogamous.

And yes, some men are closeted using the wife as a beard or they want kids and they enjoy both genders. But they're not all closet cases defrauding the women -- Google "marriage of convenience."

by Anonymousreply 122July 20, 2018 11:11 PM

Right on R122. Es la verdad.

by Anonymousreply 123July 21, 2018 7:34 AM

Well, I get that R122. Barring their predisposition to it, however, I wonder if the strong "forbidden fruit" aspect of same-sex encounters actually incites an equally strong desire for it. It's considered to be taboo for many of them, and therein lies their attraction for it. Sort of like being told that you should NEVER look behind a curtain which made you want to look all the more.

by Anonymousreply 124July 21, 2018 11:14 AM

[quote]r120 I also ask the pertinent question (for which I have NEVER found a valid answer) "What's REALLY going on during the sexual act?"

Well, wouldn't it be dufferent in each situation? .

by Anonymousreply 125July 21, 2018 11:50 AM

[quote] r124 It's considered to be taboo for many of them, and therein lies their attraction for it. Sort of like being told that you should NEVER look behind a curtain which made you want to look all the more.

Um, No. Otherwise we'd all be driven to have sex with pets or family members, as there's strong taboos against those practices, as well. .

by Anonymousreply 126July 21, 2018 11:53 AM

^^ and DEAR GODDESS IN HEAVEN, why isn't my quote markup working ? ?

by Anonymousreply 127July 21, 2018 11:54 AM

So many were on Craigslist. What a same.

by Anonymousreply 128July 21, 2018 12:00 PM

Okay, I think you went off the rails with that last post R126. Dare I insinuate the notion of a REASONABLE taboo. Come on, dude - there has to be more to it than just a basic and primal need for "sexual variety." I'm thinking that the demand by society that they denounce it early on in their development, maintaining that stance of it being an horrific abberation which actually excites them at some point. Perhaps. Maybe their forced hypocrisy gets the better of them, throwing all caution to the wind. Although it happens with more frequency than anyone is willing to admit, the fact remains that a heterosexually married man having sex with other men is engaging in rather "dangerous" activity if he considers his marriage to be a valuable and intricate part of his very existence.

by Anonymousreply 129July 21, 2018 12:12 PM

Married guys should get banged more often.

Maybe they'd be nicer, all around.

by Anonymousreply 130July 21, 2018 8:29 PM

It's a bit of a myth that people who cheat do so because of a lack of sex. Sometimes their relationship is bad, sometimes they're closeted, sometimes they make a mistake. Most often, it's because they want what they want and they don't care about the consequences.

by Anonymousreply 131July 21, 2018 8:36 PM

No, r124. Taboo turn-ons are real but a very small factor for small number of people.

Gay orientation is something we cannot choose and it forces people to put up with ALL SORTS of society bullshit, bigotry, persecution and ostracism that would never be worth "taboo arousal" for all the gays and lesbians who suffer through it.

You belittle and ignore sexual orientation.

by Anonymousreply 132July 21, 2018 9:01 PM

NO. I do not "belittle and ignore sexual orientation." I do not even sit in judgement of those heterosexually married men who are betraying their wives and children to satisfy their homosexual needs. That's not what this is about. I initiated the discussion with true wonder at how these men find themselves risking all they hold dear to engage in indiscriminate sexual practice with other men. In most cases, these men stand to lose everything if they're ever found out. So then, how do they rationalize such enormously risky behavior? How is it that they lose or completely abandon their self control? I'm sure that there must be MANY who were discovered and actually cursed their secret lives when their worlds then fell apart. Again, the subject of the discussion is heterosexually MARRIED MEN.

by Anonymousreply 133July 21, 2018 9:32 PM

Men are either gay or bisexual. There are no straight men. It's a myth.

They'll ALL fool around if the conditions are right.

Sex is not black or white... there are a million shades of grey.

by Anonymousreply 134July 21, 2018 9:42 PM

r129 is an idiot.

Genital stimulation feels good -- that's mostly why men pursue sex. You would never understand, because you're a frau and you have 60 to 80 times less of a sex drive than men because of less testosterone.

Horniness is a hunger and different people taste, feel and behave differently during sex. So the primary reason people, especially men, want multiple partners or to cheat IS INDEED the desire for sexual variety, when it's not a case where their lover at home not providing for their needs.

And NO, there is not JUST ONE REASON for everybody like you moronically want to reduce it to. There are a variety of reasons and people harbor multiple reasons at a time.

Are you an idiot, or a lawyer? Which simpleton are you?

by Anonymousreply 135July 21, 2018 9:45 PM

[quote]You belittle and ignore sexual orientation.

I respect however anyone wants to define themselves. If a man considers himself to be straight but sucks a little dick now and then... who cares?

by Anonymousreply 136July 21, 2018 9:46 PM

I miss my married DL guys from Craigslist. I hope this is just a temporary thing. I loved no-commitment fun hookups with them.

by Anonymousreply 137July 21, 2018 9:46 PM

Same here, R137.

I figured I was doing them a service by either satisfying a curiosity, or giving him what his wife or girlfriend wouldn't.

by Anonymousreply 138July 21, 2018 9:54 PM

Because the risk was worth it.

Affairs aren't usually caught and most people don't have STD's or can practice safe sex.

And men want sexual variety.

by Anonymousreply 139July 21, 2018 9:57 PM

No, I do believe that YOU'RE the idiot, R135. AND and complete fucking asshole, too. YOU are the one "reducing it" to a simple matter of primal urge entirely dictated by the genitalia. The BRAIN is the PRIMARY sexual organ and therein lies the basis of my completely valid foray into WHY MARRIED MEN ARE HAVING SEX WITH OTHER MEN. It couldn't possibly he as simple as you make it - that's way too easy. See my other post at R133, and try to think much more deeply. Adrenaline addiction - maybe THAT'S part of it. YOU, as an out and proud gay man, can get away with claiming the mere need to satisfy your sexual nature. It goes a hell of a lot deeper for a married man with children, and extended family, mortgage and altogether another life completely at odds with the one he lives SECRETLY. Asshole.

by Anonymousreply 140July 21, 2018 10:05 PM

R139 And women are often a chore and complicated.... a lot of guys just want to get their rocks off and be done with it.

by Anonymousreply 141July 21, 2018 10:06 PM

R140 Men have an incredible capacity to compartmentalize things. They don't analyze, they don't think deeply about all of this.

And for a lot of men, sex with another man is actually less risky to their marriage: they won't get emotional involved as they might with a woman.

by Anonymousreply 142July 21, 2018 10:11 PM

It is time for r140 to prove that no man on earth wants "sexual variety," and that was his primary reason for cheating on a spouse.

If you're so right, my explanations have no merit and you're not the simpleton, PROVE IT.

by Anonymousreply 143July 21, 2018 10:12 PM

^Are you attempting to assert that there are no men who remain faithful to their wives and children by respecting the boundaries of the marital union to which they committed themselves? I assure you that there are plenty, and there is my proof.

by Anonymousreply 144July 21, 2018 10:16 PM

[quote] attempting to assert that there are no men who remain faithful to their wives

I didn't see anyone say that?

by Anonymousreply 145July 21, 2018 10:23 PM

^"It is time for [R140] to prove that no man on earth wants "sexual variety,"

by Anonymousreply 146July 21, 2018 10:26 PM

The truth is that r140 thinks she is SO UNBELIEVABLY AWESOME that no man could possibly want somebody else.

The typical female fantasy is undying, monogamous devotion and the truth is interfering with her fantasy. So she attacks anyone or anything that threatens her fantasy-dependent worldview.

Still waiting for proof that no MARRIED man on earth wanted sexual variety.

And F.Y.I., closeted gay men actually NEED gay sex. So if they married a beard to placate society or wanted children, they NEED sexual variety for fulfillment and hunger for it constantly. That's the second time you ignored sexual orientation.

by Anonymousreply 147July 21, 2018 10:30 PM

^I am a man. My very first post on this thread occurred at R45.

by Anonymousreply 148July 21, 2018 10:34 PM

Nope, r144. That's not what I'm trying to assert.

YOU asserted @ r129 that "sexual variety" is not a true motive for men to step outside the marriage for sex, and you have yet to prove it.

by Anonymousreply 149July 21, 2018 10:35 PM

Now the idiot thinks that no married, monogamous man ever wanted sex with somebody different.

WOW.

by Anonymousreply 150July 21, 2018 10:36 PM

The truth hurts, and this lady Can't Handle the Truth.

by Anonymousreply 151July 21, 2018 10:36 PM

Oh dear, R148, did you disparage DL's fetish for straight married men? That was unwise.

by Anonymousreply 152July 21, 2018 10:42 PM

[quote]Actually, [R95], a LOT of women are in on the sham and don't mind if the husband is gay and getting some D on the side. They go for the money and security, even at middle and working class wages. Women honestly don't care about sex as much as men and most heterosexual marriages become largely sexless, anyway. I could point out the famous ones like Cole Porter's wife or Dianne Von Furstenberg. But you're wrong to think they have to be rich.

Let me get this straight, if a gay men doesn't agree with down-ow sex with a married closeted man, I'm a frau? Some here do need to give it a rest. I'm gayer than Gay Gayerson and no, I would never have gotten involved with a married man or a closeted man. I've been in a longterm relationship, I don't even think about straight men. DL seems to have a bizarre fetish for straight men, I don't get it. Endless posts of down-low sex with 'straight' men, it's laughable.

I do have friends who had 'affairs' with married men, it brought them nothing but misery. It might be fine for gay men who simply do not care about having long term relationships. If some of these gay men think they can get their lovers away from their 'straight' lives, good luck with that!

You know ALL women? You assume women marry gay men for security, money and a cushy life? Some straight women might marry a gay man who needs a green card or is truthful about being gay., while the woman has her own affairs. Most straight women would not knowingly set themselves up in a situation with a man they suspected of being gay. What bollocks!

I work in a creative field, not all women are boring suburban hausfraus worried about their kids and scrapbooking! Most of the women I know from my field are as horny and wild as men, they are always talking about their BFs and their hookups.

You need to stop stereotyping straight women, they all aren't repressed fraus! Your post sounds like something out of the 1950s or 1960s! Women today have very good jobs, multiple degrees. Most don't even need a man to support them, they are as independent as men. Your views are archaic.

by Anonymousreply 153July 21, 2018 11:10 PM

R153, you are boring.

by Anonymousreply 154July 22, 2018 12:47 AM

There are way too many gay men on DL who are obsessed with straight men, honestly, who gives a fuck. You all need to get out more often.

I reckon most of these guys have little to no sex and live vicariously through these sad tales of closeted men and their tricks. Pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 155July 22, 2018 7:24 AM

[quote][R153], you are boring.

Wow, what a comeback! Is that the best you can do?

by Anonymousreply 156July 22, 2018 7:26 AM

I hooked up a few times with a married bloke who said that he was completely gay but found the ‘gay lifestyle’ unattractive. He was high ranking military, had two sons. His wife knew but the sons did not. He enjoyed everything that his career and marriage brought him - except for sex.

He was in his early 60s, very fit, handsome and very well hung. Complete alpha male type. The sex was great but his whole approach to life was all about him and his appetite. That and the clandestine behaviour it necessitated became offputting really quickly. Friends of mine couldn’t believe it when I stopped seeing him as they were all after him but I tried to explain that living as part of some one else’s lie gets really wearing. It worked for him, fine. But honesty and openness can’t be overrated.

by Anonymousreply 157July 22, 2018 11:34 AM

[quote]The sex was great

Well?

Why in the world would anyone hook -up with a married man for any reason other han sex? Perhaps a lasting friendship might develop but it's nothing to count on.

You have to enjoy these experiences for what they are. When you get tired of the sex, you move on. Or perhaps he'll have had enough. You don't go into these hook-ups looking for love.....unless you're really stupid.

And the clandestine behaviour is an internal part of the deal. Some people find that exciting in it's own way.

Hooking up with married men, men with girl friends or men who identify as straight isn't for everyone.

by Anonymousreply 158July 22, 2018 12:06 PM

Here's what i know from personal experience :

1) my straight married friends love their wives and have no intention of having extramarital sex or doing anything that might jeopardize the relationship.

2) I've known 2 women who discovered that their husband/boyfriend were gay. Both women were deeply traumatized and needed lots of therapy to get over it.

3) the married man that I know that has sex with guys is a huge, flaming queen and I think the wife must be retarded.

by Anonymousreply 159July 22, 2018 12:43 PM

I agree, R131. Often those who are getting laid the most still wander. It harkens back to that old, archaic hetero attitude - if you keep him happy at home *wink wink* in the kitchen AND the bedroom, your man won’t wander far! You need to look purty, and put together when your man comes home, his dinner ready, kids bathed and ready for bed, and the fresh sheets in a made bed waiting for your man.

by Anonymousreply 160July 22, 2018 1:13 PM

[quote]1) my straight married friends love their wives and have no intention of having extramarital sex or doing anything that might jeopardize the relationship.

Do have them sign something ?

by Anonymousreply 161July 22, 2018 2:54 PM

*Do you have them sign something ?

by Anonymousreply 162July 22, 2018 3:44 PM

It comes down to male homosexuality and bisexual still be viewed by the majority aka straight people as something wrong or disgusting

This is what happens

Lesbianism and female bisexuality are ENCOURAGED by the same people who hate in male male sex. It's bizarre

by Anonymousreply 163July 22, 2018 3:50 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 164July 22, 2018 10:29 PM

[quote]Friends of mine couldn’t believe it when I stopped seeing him as they were all after him but I tried to explain that living as part of some one else’s lie gets really wearing. It worked for him, fine. But honesty and openness can’t be overrated.

I posted something similar upthread about a friend seeing a closeted man, then, I got attacked by a few posters.

My friend's lover was closeted surgeon, the doctor needed a shrink! He was clearly not happy in his marriage to a women, then he goes and knocks her up. This guy kept calling my friend from home, with the wife and baby in the background! Getting involved with someone else's drama and lies is never a good idea.

There is nothing great about having sex with a closeted man, because sometimes the out man in the relationship might actually end up falling in love with their closeted lover. No one ever thinks about such things? I don't understand why so many gay men can only be about sex.

There are way too many people in this thread who are not seeing beyond the sex aspect of fucking a closeted man.

by Anonymousreply 165July 22, 2018 11:03 PM

[quote]There are way too many people in this thread who are not seeing beyond the sex aspect of fucking a closeted man.

Most of us are only after the sex. Not looking for a relationship, especially knowing the guy is married.

by Anonymousreply 166July 22, 2018 11:29 PM

I had an affair with a guy who told me he was "bi with a gf". He as total bro-dominant type which was a huge turn on, very psycho sexual head games for both of us. He was super hot..... 6 pack, told me he was a model (and he had the body to back it up).

After a few months he stopped hooking up with me but would call me all the time, usually for phone sex but not always.

I got really frustrated cuz I didn't see him in person anymore so I did some sleuthing... and discovered he was in reality MARRIED with 2 kids and a high ranking C level executive of a Fortune 100 company. Ironically, in his "work life" videos (interviews he did were often on youtube) he came across way more "gay" and "faggy" then he did with me. It was this huge irony........

PS he was a total top though he always wanted me to rim him but I never did

by Anonymousreply 167July 22, 2018 11:48 PM

"1) my straight married friends love their wives and have no intention of having extramarital sex or doing anything that might jeopardize the relationship."

Well you certainly do have some incredibly straight-laced, pious, Christ-like, wimpy little straight friends there don't you? Perhaps if they are over 40 yoa I might believe that (sex drive decreases along with the desire to gamble with one's future over a quick fuck). I would say that if these friends are particularly unattractive then this might be the case as well - but I have known really unattractive straight guys who were absolute dogs. I have heard this "love and devotion and I will NEVER cheat" BS from many over the the years - usually from straight, married, Evangelical Christians.....the same ones who I fucked in the ass when they did stray. Yes, I too have many straight/married friends and while most are great husbands and wonderful fathers - the vast majority of them have strayed at least once with other women and have told me as much (one or two I caught out at a bar or restaurant with a girl). If we were told the honest truth (and only a percentile will tell you that) - most men cheat. They can be gay, straight, bi, etc. - but at some point it happens.

by Anonymousreply 168July 25, 2018 2:13 AM

I don't understand why a married man getting fucked on the DL while wifey is away means his family life in the suburbs is a miserable.

Maybe he craves a sort of sex which he cannot get otherwise; but he values his life and family too much to leave them.

by Anonymousreply 169July 25, 2018 2:20 AM

All you high brow queens with your "Id NEVER date a married man" have lost sight of what its truly all about. Dick,dick and more dick! Who gives a shit if its attached to a married man or a fucking republican? Get ahold of yourselves and remember what being a gay man is all about. Aping straight people with their morals and marriage crap aint gonna get you into heaven ,bitches!

by Anonymousreply 170July 25, 2018 2:23 AM

Let's get to the important things here. Has the top in OP's post made videos on xtube in recent years? His vids were hot as fuck. I think he used to fuck his neighbor/friend while his wife was away too. That queen sounded like a straight up woman while he got slayed to pieces by this fine piece of trade

by Anonymousreply 171July 25, 2018 2:47 AM

Married men are usually fucked in the head and not worth your time or effort...unless you're a dumb whore that lives for drama.

by Anonymousreply 172July 25, 2018 4:01 AM

Sounds like most of the guys in this thread are addicted to strange cock. Few seem to be in actual relationships, so they seek cock anywhere and everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 173July 25, 2018 4:10 AM

[quote]r172 Married men are usually fucked in the head and not worth your time or effort...unless you're a dumb whore that lives for drama.

Plus, their wives can come after you.

Then you're dealing with TWO crazy people!

by Anonymousreply 174July 25, 2018 6:05 AM

Love you R170.

by Anonymousreply 175July 25, 2018 1:51 PM
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