I feel like a cheap, used whore

No, I love being a cum dump for hotties.

As long as you don't abandon important matters, I do the same thing.

And the problem is.....?

That pretty much sums up all of my hook ups.

And I like it that way.

Still, it doesn't mean that you're not a cheap whore.

R2, my lack of self respect. I've ended dates just to accommodate him. When I tell him I've been on a date with a guy, he gets real jealous, nevermind that he has a wife and a kid on the way.

OP, you need to get the wife's number, call her, and tell her that you absolutely will not put up with being the #2 Other Woman!

Well, you ARE a cheap used whore!

And that's ok.

Oh yeah, R5, that will go over REAL well.

Sure..., um, what's-her-name

I don’t see the problem here.

This situation will not end well.

You feel like a cheap, used whore, and the wife feels like an unpaid, unloved servant.

What a prize that guy is.

How old are you, OP?

[quote] I've ended dates just to accommodate him. When I tell him I've been on a date with a guy, he gets real jealous, nevermind that he has a wife and a kid on the way.

Oh, and you just love when he gets jealous. Don't you, whore??

That's just part of the thrill.

I know your game.

Blackmail and/or extortion. That always works in these situations. Take hidden video.

R12, I'm 36.

R11, I've spied on his wife's Facebook and she doesn't put out that she is unloved. In fact, her entire FB page is gushing selfies of them with hearts and emojis and talking about how in love she is with him and their upcoming baby.

Well if you make a thing out of it or cause a stink you will be dropped and he will just find another trick who isn’t a hassle.

You need to state your boundaries.

Sounds like a match made in heaven

Don’t mess with an Italian wife OP!

[quote] We met on Grindr, he's a guido, just my type... tight muscled body, hairy in the right places, masc. Anyway, he came over to my place and he's a great fuck. We had sexual chemistry, so he took my number and texts me whenever he is around and horny, which is pretty damn often.

[quote] Usually he comes over though when he is drunk, barges in, fucks me or fucks my mouth and has me rim him, and then after he cums, he washes up and leaves. I rarely cum. He just gives my cheek two slaps and says, "Thanks, that was good."

And then you woke up, and released you had been in Kansas all along.

A whore gets paid.

[quote] A whore gets paid.

That means the op is just cheap and used, lol.

R19 is right. You in danger, girl! There are few things more frightening than an enraged Italian woman!

You should be ashamed of yourself, OP. Carrying on with a man with a wife. Don't you feel guilty?

Demand that he takes you home to meet his momma for gravy one Sunday. He can introduce you as a friend or coworker.

He gets jealous? Why? Also, is he sharing his semen with you? That could explain the hold he has over you...

Next time you see him, stroke his hair and tell him: "Your girl is lovely, Hubbell!"

No, OP. You're pathetic for making this up.

R26, yes. I swallow and take his loads.

You're living the dream, what's the problem?

I have a hot hairy Italian guy who comes over at least once a week and I'm the same way, I will drop what I am doing to make myself available for that perfect Guido dick. It's just me going down on him and thats totally fine with me. Stop complaining about it, because one day that situation will end and you'll be sad you don't have access to that dick anymore

Cheap or expensive, a whore's a whore. Nothing wrong with that though.

Do you live in Wrigleyville?

I actually gave him a key to my place, too, so that he can barge in at night and surprise me.

Yasss! ^

You are destined to be the next Amy Fisher.

At least have him take you to a motel every now and then Op. Even Joey Buttafuoco did at least that.

Describe his dick please.

Don't listen to these sex negative nellies OP. I've done the same thing for guys. I've cancelled important business meetings and events just to hook up. Enjoy it while you can. I'm not a push around bottom either , I'm a top. But I've had fuck buds that I just couldn't get enough of regardless of their's or mine circumstances or lifestyle. A couple of them ghosted me cause they said they were falling in love and knew I wasn't available (I'm in a relationship). Enjoy! You'd be surprised how long this can go on for.

Fuck describing it, R38. Pics or it didn’t happen.

And links to his wife’s FB page.

Do you live on Staten Island, OP?

R38, his dick is around 8.5 and THICK. One of the thickest I've ever taken up my ass. Hurt like a bitch the first time.. in a good way

Not on Staten Island, R41, but not too far off based on location or demographics.

You have him a key to your place? Oh, darlin’.

You are going to hell OP

Does he bring you flowers?

A big fat, resounding NO on the FB page, R40. When I scrolled through her FB page on my phone, my finger accidentally 'liked' one of her pictures, and I immediately 'unliked' it. I was worried as hell that he would somehow find out. He'd kill me! Nothing happened thank god, but I have not been on her FB page ever since.

R19 and R23 - Karen Hill was Jewish.

[quote] I actually gave him a key to my place, too, so that he can barge in at night and surprise me

Have fun sleeping with the fishes, op!

R48, whatever, Karen was Italian-adjacent; Italian via semen injection

Hate these bi/closet cases who cheat on their wives and this one is expecting a baby! I hope he has at least the decency to wear a condom.

Op, you are the one in control here. He's the closet case who is too ashamed to be out to his wife and family, so you have that on him. Use your leverage wisely.

"[R11], I've spied on his wife's Facebook and she doesn't put out that she is unloved. In fact, her entire FB page is gushing selfies of them with hearts and emojis and talking about how in love she is with him and their upcoming baby. "

Oh honey, nobody puts their real feelings on FAcebook! What you see there is what you want people to believe!

In real life, she's probably pricing hit men.

Only if you don't like it OP. Just don't be shocked if he drops you with no warning. I might secretly film him just in case to send it to his wife in such an event, he sounds like a user asshole.

I'm kind of an asshole too.

R54, do your tricks bring you roast beef sandwiches?

[quote] I actually gave him a key to my place, too, so that he can barge in at night and surprise me

Surprise!

BANG! BANG! BANG!

..and you were all there..

I am so hard now

I’m in the same situation. I’ve been hooking up with a high school friend since we graduated. It’s been going on for 10 years now. He got married last year to a girl so I seen him less these days. Every few years I think about ending it but I always seem to go running back. Ive long past accepted that he’s using me. And I’m ok with it.

R54, I'm prepared for when she actually has the kid that he will drop off and not have so much time anymore. I hope not though! As it is, she keeps tabs on him, and I have the feeling she maybe thinks he's straying... with a woman. Not a man though!

As far as feeling guilty about her, yeah, I do, a little bit, but since I don't really know her, I figure that's not my problem..

It really isn't your problem, OP. My guess is she's just completely in denial and wants to portray the perfect marriage. I think you're actually doing her a favour by not getting emotionally involved.

OP, can I have your stuff for when Guido or Guido's wife kills you?

You guys don't get it. She's happy OP is doing the hard work.

LOL @ R55. Always nice to see the the old time DLers posting here.

Now describe his hole.

OP, she probably suspects something. You don’t think she has probably seen one of your pubes or ass hairs on his dick? Or sniffed another man’s ballsack all over him? Italian wives are not stupid!

OPs self esteem is practically subterranean! And all the advice y’all are giving him, basically to be grateful that he at least has a fuck buddy ...speaks volumes about the demographics on datalounge...😒🤮🤢

This issue is perplexing to me, and here's why. Granted, I will agree that there are plenty, and I mean PLENTY of heterosexually married men having gay sex on the side. At issue, however, is the fact that his penis can regularly be found inside his wife's vagina. As gays have such an obvious distaste for the vagina, how then do you reconcile orally servicing said penis on a regular basis? On the flip-side, however, is the fact that you have no qualm about devouring a penis which has been buried in someone's ass. Explain this to me, please.

[quote]Ive long past accepted that he’s using me.

Oh, dear!

R64, he has a hairy but very clean hole. His crack is lined with dark, black hair. He loves getting rimmed!

R66, fair enough point. I'm fair haired. Any hair of mine that ends up on him would obviously not be his. I trust that he is very diligent about keeping his story straight. He's very good at hiding this part of himself from others though.

What R68 said. Tell us, OP. Does his wife's pussy stink? hahaha

His dick always tastes and smells clean to me, R71. Except when he comes directly after work, in which case he is a bit musky.

He zhounds like a verry romantic man. Lucky youski.

....

[quote] Does his wife's pussy stink? hahaha

I’m sure her pussy smells like lasagne.

I hear shania Twain in he background somehow

As someone up thread posted, whores get paid. You, OP, are just slutty - well, since you're gay and this guido's bottom bitch, I'd call you a cum dump.

Now, if that's how you like to see yourself, continue to fall to your knees, fall on your back with ankles to Jesus and take it.

Don't bitch, just keep hovering in one place for a married man who cheats on his wife.

Tell him, “beat me, daddy, beat me daddy, I’ve been Baaad!”

I'm curious. Does it matter to you that he likely has others besides you and his wife? Cheaters cheat. If not, good for you. If so, I suspect you're imagining there's some kind of relationship when there's not. Just my .02USD.

Does he look like this, OP?

And I thought I had problems!

^Is that one of the Gotti boys?

[quote]I feel like a cheap, used whore

Go with the feeling.

R80, not totally but not too far off. No gold chains, no tats though. Sometimes a wifebeater when it's hot out. He has a beard and more built up pecs. Same skin tone.

R82 that is an actor from the Sopranos I think

R79, it doesn't bother me that he may or may not have other sidepieces. I don't see where he would find the time though.

You have no shame, OP. Your mother would not be proud.

The following should be OP's personal anthem:

Just make sure you are looking for something better, OP. Fuck him if you want, but do not stay home waiting for it. Keep focused on your longterm future - he is not going to be part of that.

Are you Eyetalian, too, OP?

Let me tell you what's going to happen, OP. The wife is going to find out, and then she's going to call you or show up at your house and berate/threaten you for sleeping with her husband. Next, the guido is going to call you or show up at your house and blame you for all his problems (If it weren't for you, my wife wouldn't be...). Then, one of two things will happen: 1) they will never speak to you again 2) they will plot your death. They will kill you and bury your body together, thus reconciling them to one another. They will go on to live long, productive lives as the worms gnaw away at your flesh.

Good Luck.

R91 Glad you lived to tell.

R90, no, not Italian. Scot-Irish, generic white mix.

R87, no I don't think my mother would be proud of my situation. Fortunately she doesn't know, so what she doesn't know can't hurt her.

I am going to guess that you are really not okay with this or you wouldn't be asking.

I know I will get bombarded for this but there is more to life than just sex. If this is making you feel in anyway negatively then maybe rethink it. Who wants to feel cheap or used? You are worth more than that.

R87 must be an Eyetalian to lay the “what would your mother think?” guilt trip!

OP, you forgot the part about him having a huge, mushroom-headed, uncut cock. And that he lives in NJ. And that he's a cop who also does construction work. And that he swears a blue streak when he comes.

He does have a big cock. Cut though. Not NJ... LI. Not a cop. He works for UPS. He does swear when he cums though.

Gina is going to stab OP with a pizza cutter.

This is hot.

His cock is average, but at least it's uncut. Lives in Canarsie. Not a cop, but he does wear a jock.

[quote] I’m sure her pussy smells like lasagne.

I bet wifey’s pussy [italic] feels [/italic] like a warm tray of lasagna when he’s fucking her!

Hey, OP, how about you think about that the next time you’re blowing him? You’re tasting her lasagna leftovers!

OP, what do you think will happen if you start seeing someone else and he finds out?

R102, he would not like it. He already doesn't like it when I've mentioned other guys I've dated or hooked up with.

Yes, OP. You are a cheap slut sex poodle.

Don’t smoke around him. We wouldn’t want you to start a grease fire!!!

Does he have any brothers?

Two brothers, younger than him, and an older sister.

OP, you blew it saying he's uncut. NY Italian? No way.

R108, I did not say he was uncut. He's cut, with a thick cock.

R109. Yes he did @ R100.

^^Yes, YOU did. Didn't know R109 was also OP.

Op is a fraud.

Damn, this was starting to be a really good thread, but R111 exposed him.

R100 is not me. You can block that person to see it isn't.

R97 is though.

Jealous.

OP better enjoy it now while you can. You’ll be getting long in the tooth and young cumdumps are a dime a dozen

I’ve had a few of these. Definitely the best sex because uncomplicated and no emotional involvement. I know some are wired where sex=love but I’m not. Sex is hottest without commitment obligation or need to worry about a big picture. Pure lust and erotic stimulation in the moment works best if there are no emotional ties. For me.

And you look like your feel OP

You are, Darlin’.

1 - You drop everything for this married guy and has the nerve to ask if you're a cheap whore? Do you really need an answer?

2 - The number of guys here seeing no problem on fucking a married guy is staggering. Then you complain about loneliness..

3 - Sex positive is the new " I have no morals" and need some stupid excuse to exist. Nothing positive about cheating on people (yeah, you ARE part of the cheating).

Maiden Auntie Brigade alert at R119

Op you're probably a fat, old, undesirable gay, who has not been touched in years, who saw a hot Guido in a supermarket, which makes your depends so wet that you have to rush home to type up your fantasy on the DL

OP -- Did your kitten disappear too?

R91 = Keith Morrison.

Just a note to clarify the terminology: a whore gets paid for what s/he does. A slut gives it away because s/he can't help him-/herself.

OP is not a cheap, used whore.

OP is a free, used slut.

OP, are you hot? Hot people don’t engage in this bullshit, and call the shots. He should be begging YOU!

You and the wife must be average as fuck.

R91 isn’t too far off. Never, ever fuck married men, especially married men who are married to Italians, Colombians, or to women who have family members who belong to gangs, like MS-13, Latin Kings, Bloods, or Crips.

This is authentic and VERY good advice, trust me.

OP, trust R126, who speaks from beyond the grave.

I don’t date or fuck married men, R127. One of the reasons I’m still alive and well.

OP first of all is the guy Bi or a Closet Queen? Have you spoke to him about this. Second of all you should feel ashamed sleeping with a married man with a baby on the way is awful it shows you have no morals. Yes you are being used for sex. You are his side bitch get out of this situation and go and find a decent guy that actually wants to be with you.

R129, I think gay but tries hard to convince himself he only has a few bi tendencies. When I first started hooking up with him, he was not married and had no kid on the way.

Feeling "used"....oh brother. Which Lana Turner movie are we talking about here?

I don't believe a word of it, OP, but it's a nice hot fantasy you have going....Evidently it gets a lot of people going.

But you are, OP. You ARE a cheap, used whore.

Cum dump for a hot guy? I don’t see the problem.

Enjoy it while it lasts. Getting as many Italian loads while you can.

He fucks you raw, I take it?

Perfect R27!

Not until you said he was "straight and/or married". That part makes you pathetic, especially the fact that you're dumping everyone around you just to fuck something that doesn't really want you around in the end.

[quote]something that doesn't really want you around in the end.

No, OP said the guy like to be rimmed.

There's a wife.

We know that already R137.

R133, yes.

R125, I don't have the same body I had when I was 25, but I can still get guys pretty easily on Grindr.

Sorry, I actually have to get work done today, so answering more sparingly today.

Find your own God damn man!!

I was in a similar situation years ago. The sex may be good but these things never end well for any of the parties involved.

If you have to ask if something is pathetic, then it’s pathetic.

Try to steal him away from the wife. Bake him a tray of killer lasagna or meatballs. Show him you can be a domestic goddess, too.

^^^^lydia bastianich

Probably Giada,R144, that's more her style.

Too bad OP can’t get pregnant.

Try as he might....

Jealous of that hot Italian spunk sloshing around the OP’s guts

The best option is to quit him. Quit him, op! You can find better Italian guys ( if you still want to go Italian) who can cherish you or at least give a damn about your feelings.

Does he feel he’s gay or bi?

[quote]if you still want to go Italian

Sounds like deciding where to go out to dinner.

R150 that was the point!

OP, I know exactly how you feel given today's events.

2/10 but only because you made the new wifey preggers. Nice touch.

Win him over with home baked casseroles? Get pregnant? Is this frau advice from 1960?

How the hell can he get pregnant!?

Whoever replied that Karen Hill was Jewish, that was brilliant. Once you said it, it hit like a ton of bricks and I was like, “oh fuck yeah. He’s right!”

I’m sorry I don’t remember your R# and I couldn’t find it with a cursory scroll. I just didn’t want it to go unnoticed.

R143, that's funny but anything involving cooking would be a no go. I'm not the most capable cook. Plus, he is always bragging about how good of a cook his mother and wife are. I could never compete there.

OP, hundres of queens would love that arrangement.

Either

(a) Enjoy it for what it is, and don't expect anything more

OR

(b) If you are all "I'm tired of whoring and want a relationship" stop fucking him.

Easy peasy.

Will he stalk you (or worse) if you just end it cold turkey, OP?

R159, he gets mad if I'm not available for a hookup or don't respond to one of his texts for some reason. Like I said, he's sorta possessive, which in a weird way, I find hot. I don't think ending cold turkey would be a good thing at all. I don't want to end it either though. Sex with him is the best I've ever had.

At least the Guido won't eat the turkey meatballs you're saving for yourself OP.

This will end in tears. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

WTF, R160. You said earlier you never come. You're an idiot if you think this is the best it gets. You must be a self-abusive asshole on top of being a really bad liar.

1/10 now for the fucking contradiction or outright stupidity.

R163, I rarely cum, but getting pounded by him feels great. He knows what he's doing. I also get off more on giving pleasure than reciprocation.

[quote]he is always bragging about how good of a cook his mother and wife are. I could never compete there.

Ok, so here's a way you can even the playing field a bit. Tell him no more hook ups unless he brings you some of their amazing pasta dishes.

Really, dude? You are on HERE talking about us? You know what, go fuck yourself. I am going to stay home with my pregnant wife and you will never see me again. Holy shit. Cannot BELIEVE you came on here and exposed me. FUCK.

See you tonight after the fat wife goes to sleep. Leave your door open.

If sex guido has a key to your place, do you douche every night before going to bed, just in case?

Does he take off his MAGA hat when he's pounding you OP?

OP, R164, NOW THAT’S PATHETIC. You never cum, and you just want to give?

Just become a nun. Marry Jesus, and get it over with.

He lives in Canarsie. I didn't know any quidos were there anymore. I thought it was all West Indian these days. I grew up in the area too and it used to be mostly Italian. I thought they had all fled as the place has really gone down hill. Where do you live OP? It's hard to imagine a Canarsie guy leaving the area for anything, especially to go to "The City"

It’s hard to imagine an Italian leaving Italy to move to the US, but okayyyy.

OP = Vairst Leddy

R167, I'm pretty OCD about cleanliness back there.

R170, he doesn't live in Canarsie.

LOL, R166.

Look, bitch, I know people. Next time my Joey is out late, expect another visitor after. Your fucking last visitor on this earth.

Op, you messed up by liking one of the wife’s photos. No matter if you undid that “like” afterwards, Facebook still automatically sends a notification to her that you liked her photo.

She knows your name and your face.

Che si dice, Carmine?

R176, GUYS, IS THAT TRUE?!?!?!

I think so, r178, but I'm not on FB. It's impossible to do anything online without leaving a data trail, though.

R156, R48,r50 Karen Hill was JEWISH?!?! I thought that movie was all about Italians.

Just remember this when she finds out, OP:

The wife is probably asking Guido if he knows this random guy who liked her Facebook picture.

R170 speaking of Canarsie, Grindr has this new option where you can click on any city in the world to see who's on it. There are some HOT guys in Canarsie . . . that is if you go by the profile pics,

OP, this is for you. One of a handful of what are imo good Madonna songs.

Change the type of guy and leave out teh anal sex, OP, and I'd want exactly that. I'm envious.

There's only one way that I'd be jealous of op, and that's if his fuck buddy looks like Frank Grillo.

He's my ideal Italian man.

You'll die alone.

R131, it's a Susan Hayward movie--"Back Street," with hot John Gavin and, IIRC, Vera Miles as the vindictive wife. Vera was once married to Tarzan Gordon Scott, so knows her manmeat.

[quote] OP, you need to get the wife's number, call her, and tell her that you absolutely will not put up with being the #2 Other Woman!

Shirley Brown once found herself in a similar situation and she sorted that sh*t out. Go right to 0:17:

Why do I imagine OP ending up like Diane Keaton’s character in “Looking for Mr. Goodbar?”

This never happened.

OP got paid?

Paid in cumdumps maybe.

OP shoots all over herself repeating this story!

Tell him you love him.

That always works so well, R194.

OP, you didn't do the many people reading your thread any justice my omitting the three most important words which you had justifiable cause to include. The title of your thread should have read:

"I feel like a cheap, used whore....AND I LIKE IT!"

Exactly. You are a masochist, OP and you're needing more and more to get your thrills, hence this thread. You're going to need to escalate soon. Will it be a pair of trampy pumps, a frilly apron, or being exposed to your entire neighborhood as a pathetic receptacle? Keep us posted. We are here for you.

But you are, Blanche, but you are....

ummm R186 everyone dies alone....

R176 only if she has her settings to do that. If she’s a beautiful narcissistic Italian woman, then chances are she probably does. But you don’t know for sure. Don’t be scaring our OP!

R176, I accidentally liked the wife's pic over a month ago and he's given me no indication of knowing anything, thank God.

He was supposed to come over yesterday evening, but couldn't. He'll likely be over on Monday though.

You will never be his wife, OP. You will always be the other woman. Years from now, when he passes away, you won't even be allowed to view his body at the wake or funeral. Your best bet is to cover your entire face with a black veil and sit in the back pew, quietly mourning to yourself.

Do you think he loves me?

post a pic of his cawk

That’s vulgar.

Our love is not cheap. It’s like a hope chest full of caftans.

[quote] He works for UPS.

So your paramour is busy delivering his package and deliveries all over the cities? He sounds like a man slut. I would not be surprised if you’re not even his sloppy seconds. Maybe you are #3 or 4?

OP has nothing to worry about regarding his trick delivering for UPS. Those dudes don't have time to take a piss let alone anything else.

Well, R208, he finds time for OP.

OP, does he use condoms? I’d be really pissed off if some asshole was fucking me, and sticking his dick into someone’s hole, with a condom.

She’ll probably end up with a nasty UTI, or Vaginitis, or some other fucked up bacteria. This shit always happens to women that end up with cheaters. It doesn’t matter if he’s fucking another woman, or another man, she’ll end up with some weird itch.

How should we break the news to r68 that some people take showers?

r119 = hysterical frau who didn't get hurt by this, just like the buddy's wife.

OP, I feel like a cheap, used whore too. Have you got any phone numbers?

OP, what you should do is surprise your guy at his family’s Sunday gravy dinner. Just walk in there and demand a plate of food and that he acknowledge you and your importance in his life. You deserve it.

He is married and a liar.

Italian-American men are notorious man sluts. Trust me, Op is not the only one who he has been spreading his pizza grease around to!

Wife probably suspects already.

OP: Don't you want to cum once in a while? If so--and if you never do, you will always feel used. Ask him to suck your dick so you can cum. Otherwise, he's a user and not interested in any kind of mutual pleasure. If he doesn't suck you or allow for your pleasure, then it's his way of staying in the closet. You have a one-sided relationship. You ultimately get nothing.

If OP doesn’t, or rarely cums, he should see a doctor or a therapist. It’s either a physical or mental problem. And I’m not trying to be rude, I’m trying to be helpful. Most guys can cum pretty easily. Maybe you have low T levels? Do you have a sex drive?

Does OP sound exactly like an alpha top to you, R318?

That’s disgusting how many people think it’s OK for him to cheat with a married man.

R220 = frau

It’s not OP’s fault if his lover is cheating.

[quote] He just gives my cheek two slaps and says, "Thanks, that was good."

How degrading!

All men cheat R220....sorry to be the bearer of reality frau.

Your father cheated on your mom. You son will cheat on his wife. And your husband cheats on you, because you, despite what you do to keep him sexually interested in you, it’s not enough because strange pussy, and especially strange ass, will always be more alluring than your desiccated twat.

Which cheek does he slap twice before storming off into the night? Face or ass?

It makes a huge difference.

I was messing around with a "straight" married man and at least I got hand jobs out of it.

OP’s guy is using him for all the things his wife won’t do. Like rimming his ass?

Good for you, R226.

bump

....

R230, that's VERY sobering. I'm rethinking things!

Why has this EST earned 232 posts, with mine here. Its of cretinous creative quality. Masc? Downlow Guido? Whore? A philodendron has more imagination than OP.

OP you claim your guy is gay because he doesn't show bisexual traits I would think fucking his wife on a regular basis and knocking her up is a bisexual trait.

R232, it's because it ticks off so many boxes that get DL mussies all wet.

Guido, yes. Masc, yes. Downlow, i.e. "straight", yes. Add in the oblivious wife and delivery driver aspects, and OP is living the DL dream. This is a thinly veiled humble-brag.

OP isn't looking at this from the right angle. He thinks his problem is that's he's "cheap", meaning "a whore for perma-fucking a guy who's married".

However, OP's true problem is that he is "cheap" for selling himself to someone he can't blackmail or bargain with. He targeted a straight Italian family man willing to cheat who has a low-paying low-status gig at UPS soon to provide for a screaming mouth to feed. It is doubtful OP's hook-up even has anything to bet with, much less lose, should this laundry air. OP SHOULD have targeted a straight Italian family man willing to cheat who is idle-rich & world-famous with his own tv show and at least a couple if not more big beautiful houses in an upscale area. That is someone worth creeping with and someone who could give OP a big cheese-wedge of dollars or a beautiful suit or any number of exclusive passes to events to keep him quiet.

Naming no names, this has happened before to some lucky gal (or guy?) in the LI area so it's hardly an impossible dream. OP, you deserved better.

R234 & R235, I admit I'm into the rough type of guy. That's sort of the appeal that has kept this going for around a year now. I don't know that an actual relationship between us would ever work because we don't exactly have all that much in common, or that much to talk about. He did come over yesterday and really unloaded on me. I think he's not getting much sex with the wife right now that she's pregnant.

Please confirm something for me OP; Italian men can't ever fucking shut up, even in the sack, right?

He is married and a liar.

You are a slut, not whore. Whores get paid. If sex is all you want and you don't mind feeling cheap and used, Go for it! By the way, all italians live at home until married. ALL.

Let him read all the comments on DL. Maybe he will fuck you harder for being so stupid. Maybe he can pound some sense in you.

R237, he does swear a lot right before he is about to cum.

R239, he is married now. He was engaged when I met him, and still living at home then. I think his parents, and maybe her parents, helped set them up with their place, and it would make sense considering their salaries. It sounds like they live very close to where her parents do.

^^^italians are very close to family and anti gay. I dated too many of them.

[quote] I'm pretty OCD about cleanliness back there.

You need to put the power washer up in that cooch, whore.

If they live near her family, OP, chances are that her family helped them out. Maybe her family is connected? How well do you think it will go if her father ever finds out his son-in-law is cheating on his daughter with a guy?

You're in way too deep. Get out while you still can!

Well, you got the cheap and used part right at least!

No mob ties, R244. If they were, I think they would both be set up with better jobs. I do get the sense that she is a bit of a princess though, and needy. She is always texting him that she needs such and such from the store or just checking in with him.

You’re a whore AND you have no self-esteem.

If this guy’s a ups guy. He’s banging people all over he place. You are but one of twenty other guys and girls.

Dear Lord in Heaven! The UPS guy is a finook!!!!!

^^^wait, I thought it was "fanook"? Are there regional variations across the Shore? Is it ganol' or ganool'?

I’ve seen it spelled finook, R249.

R244, I don't know about her dad, but his dad sounds pretty old school. That might be why is he is so closeted not just to his family, but even to his friends and himself.

Having sex with a married man and a pregnant wife, and not just doing it once, but multiple times? How much lower can you go!

Errr, calm down Mary Mother O'Reily R252. Your nun's habit is on too tight. You need to unclench a little bit!

I can't offer you marriage R235 (as is traditional on DL when someone's post gives you a hard-on), because.....frankly, you sound like an asshole. But will you come work for me? I love the way you think.

OP should be disgusted in himself.

I think it’s funny that OP ends his post with “Am I pathetic for putting up with this?” As if this situation is ripe with other opportunities!

You’re allowing it to happen, OP! You choose this! It’s not like it’s a relationship or anything. You allow someone to come over and use your mouth for sex. It’s not about what he thinks of you, it’s about how little you think of yourself.

Putting up with this...that’s hilarious. Like it’s a relationship! Ha!

From your description he sounds like a terrible fuck unless one happens to be a masochist.

Care to update us, OP?

[quote] I'm not a push around bottom either , I'm a top.

Mary!

Yes. You're a cumdump.

Own it and look for love elsewhere.

Good Morning Goomah

unless he gives you money, slut, you're not a whore, OP

I KNOW I'm a cheap, used whore