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Public cruising places

I know this was a thing years ago.

I wondered if any of them still existed? I was mildly curious about exploring one, as many of the elderrgays I know rave about their experiences there, but I don't think any still exist?

I was just wondering if anyone here had actually done that in the last year or two - in a public restroom? Or any of those places?

by Anonymousreply 29July 10, 2018 11:48 PM

Once someone names the site in the internet and it is easily discoverable it's more likely to stop being a beat.

by Anonymousreply 1July 8, 2018 2:44 AM

I used to read the Bob Dameon's guide books for fun as a kid. Lol I enjoyed the minutiae directions to the locations. The most obscure places - it was fun to know that this all male secret society existed.

by Anonymousreply 2July 8, 2018 3:06 AM

It was "Damron Guide" and they would have codes like AYOR after certain listings that were deemed "at your your own risk", for cruisy areas where you could get stopped by law enforcement of harassed by fag-bashers. And then during the internet era, cruisingforsex.com was all the rage, to be replace by squirt.org.

by Anonymousreply 3July 8, 2018 9:54 AM

And they still exist and probably always will. Much less places to go now than say, 20-25 years ago, but they are still around. And if you get caught, you will probably get your name released by law enforcement and reported to the local news media. Very embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 4July 8, 2018 9:59 AM

Most of Manhattan should qualify especially west 23rd st and Broadway in the 70's.

by Anonymousreply 5July 8, 2018 11:03 AM

[quote]Broadway in the 70s

Still?

by Anonymousreply 6July 8, 2018 11:06 AM

I know there was apparently a web site too but the more a site was talked about the more it was raided by police.

It all seems sort of exciting to me.

by Anonymousreply 7July 8, 2018 11:55 AM

The entire country of Spain, including churches and royal palaces.

by Anonymousreply 8July 8, 2018 12:04 PM

As long as gay men exist secret cruising spots will also.

by Anonymousreply 9July 8, 2018 12:35 PM

Do those of you that use cruise spots, do you ever think you might be killed? Is that part of the thrill?

by Anonymousreply 10July 8, 2018 12:37 PM

Pretty much every public toilet in the UK is a cruising zone.

by Anonymousreply 11July 8, 2018 12:38 PM

R3

They print your age, too.

by Anonymousreply 12July 8, 2018 12:39 PM

[quote]Pretty much every public toilet in the UK is a cruising zone.

I didn't know they had public toilets anymore. I never see them.

by Anonymousreply 13July 8, 2018 12:42 PM

Eldergays/old trolls ruin all the spots

by Anonymousreply 14July 8, 2018 12:45 PM

About 30 or so years ago Tammy Cruise got popped by Miss Blue while she was smoking pole in that famous T-room in the park across from the old Studio One in WeHo. Naturally it never was mentioned in the media.

by Anonymousreply 15July 8, 2018 12:46 PM

Every public toilet at every mainline railway station is famous for closeted men wanking at the urinals. You'll see signs up saying the police are aware of 'inappropriate behaviour' taking place.

Another public toilet I can think of that's a proper cruising zone is the old underground one next to Greenwich Park.

by Anonymousreply 16July 8, 2018 12:47 PM

Online porn (and economics and redevelopment) killed the X-rated movie theaters, many of them crumbling, where more than a little cruising - and often during the show, a lot more - happened. Boxes and balconies were not used as the architect intended.

The bushes and parks serve a purpose on a nice evening but the movies were a hotbed of activity in every kind of weather.

PeeWee Herman getting busted in the theater in Sarasota had a negative effect, too.

by Anonymousreply 17July 8, 2018 1:23 PM

I think there are a few reasons for public cruising's demise.

1. AIDS

2. Police awareness.

3. The Internet

4. Grindr.

by Anonymousreply 18July 8, 2018 1:30 PM

muddybrook park between williston and south burlington, behind BTV airport

by Anonymousreply 19July 8, 2018 1:42 PM

Wasn't looking for a list of places, but more curious if anyone had done this recently.

by Anonymousreply 20July 10, 2018 9:45 PM

[quote] The entire country of Spain, including churches and royal palaces

Seriously? Can you elaborate on this story?

by Anonymousreply 21July 10, 2018 9:55 PM

Cheesman Park in Denver is still somewhat known for that. I live close by and have driven through at night and seen guys making contact.

by Anonymousreply 22July 10, 2018 9:55 PM

[quote] Cheesman Park in Denver

What an unfortunate name for a cruising spot.

by Anonymousreply 23July 10, 2018 9:57 PM

Yes, OP. As recent as today.

Seriously.

by Anonymousreply 24July 10, 2018 10:00 PM

what about in NYC?

by Anonymousreply 25July 10, 2018 10:01 PM

Believe it or not, Greasewood Park, westside of Tucson is a hot spot.

by Anonymousreply 26July 10, 2018 11:39 PM

Does cruising still happen in NYC?

Sure there are momentary glances but no one seems to go further than that

by Anonymousreply 27July 10, 2018 11:44 PM

Is Central Park at night still cruisy or has that ended too?

by Anonymousreply 28July 10, 2018 11:44 PM

Hugh Macrae park in Wilmington, NC was infamous for this. Supposedly North Myrtle had a gay beach as well.

by Anonymousreply 29July 10, 2018 11:48 PM
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