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Frottage as a masturbation technique?

I’ve always preferred frottage as a masturbation technique. While I can orgasm using my hand during sex, I find frottage more sexually gratifying and easier when getting off alone. This is especially true now that I have a PA. I’ve only met one guy who enjoyed frottage during sex and it was super hot.

Do you enjoy frottage as a way of getting off? What way do you find most pleasureable. I feel like there are more guys like me. Let me hear from you.

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by Anonymousreply 61July 20, 2018 9:19 PM

Me too bro

by Anonymousreply 1July 1, 2018 12:58 PM

This video gets me really hot with the sound off due to the shit music

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by Anonymousreply 2July 1, 2018 1:08 PM

R1 how go you frot to get off?

by Anonymousreply 3July 1, 2018 1:09 PM

I’ve fantasized about doing this with so many hetero and married buddies

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by Anonymousreply 4July 1, 2018 1:13 PM

It's the best way, and I have over 30 years of practical experience.

by Anonymousreply 5July 1, 2018 1:15 PM

a PA...are you a Hollywood producer or director?

by Anonymousreply 6July 1, 2018 2:00 PM

Yes, its's hot, OP, but unfortunately most guys aren't into it.

by Anonymousreply 7July 1, 2018 2:20 PM

I had an ex who only got off by humping something. It was usually an old t-shirt balled up.

by Anonymousreply 8July 1, 2018 2:43 PM

I love getting in bed, wrapping myself in a soft blanket, and humping. Using my hand just doesn’t provide the same pleasure.

Sometimes I’ll hump a guy through a blanket, taking it off just before it’s time to cum. The contrast of my hard dick against the softness of the fabric feels incredible.

by Anonymousreply 9July 1, 2018 4:31 PM

It's hot

by Anonymousreply 10July 1, 2018 4:32 PM

I’ve had a better orgasm via frottage on a bed ever since I was 13 or so. I thought it would lessen over time but nope. And using a rubber doesn’t lessen it, either.

by Anonymousreply 11July 1, 2018 5:35 PM

I read that frottage is a favored sex act by Jim Parsons.

What other famous men are into it?

by Anonymousreply 12July 1, 2018 9:34 PM

...and the byproduct is frottage cheese!

by Anonymousreply 13July 1, 2018 11:09 PM

Only if you're uncut, R13.

by Anonymousreply 14July 1, 2018 11:51 PM

I still don't know what OP means by "now that I have a PA"!!

by Anonymousreply 15July 1, 2018 11:53 PM

Prince Albert R15

by Anonymousreply 16July 2, 2018 12:02 AM

Thank you, R16!

by Anonymousreply 17July 2, 2018 12:08 AM

Yes. I had my most intense orgasm ever with frottage - my partner was grinding/rubbing on top of me.

by Anonymousreply 18July 2, 2018 12:10 AM

Great Frottage.

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by Anonymousreply 19July 2, 2018 12:28 AM

Similar.

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by Anonymousreply 20July 2, 2018 12:29 AM

Frottage has been my only masturbation method since childhood. And I carried a lot of shame around about not jerking off until I started to be able to do so easily with partners once I became sexually active. But even now well into adulthood, it’s still the most pleasurable method for me when it comes to masturbating. To each his own I guess. (Shoulder shrug)

by Anonymousreply 21July 2, 2018 12:52 AM

As a form of mutual masturbation, yes. Hot, hot, hot. I don't enjoy it solo, though. I'd rather use the hand for self-pleasure.

by Anonymousreply 22July 2, 2018 12:56 AM

No, I stopped humping pillows and switched to my hand as a teenager when I learned you can permanently damage your nerve endings that way. Took me about a week of shitty orgasms before I couldn't notice the difference and I never looked back. I also found I could recreate the same frottage sensation in the shower with some shampoo. I use olive oil for masturbation otherwise and it's definitely a different feeling. Not better, not worse, just different.

I'd definitely try frottage with a guy. Just, you know, with lube.

by Anonymousreply 23July 2, 2018 1:06 AM

Being uncut, humping a pillow with any real jarring force would hurt like hell.

by Anonymousreply 24July 2, 2018 1:09 AM

In the olden days we called it “the Princeton Rub.”

by Anonymousreply 25July 2, 2018 1:19 AM

R23- permanently damage your nerve endings? How? Is this true? Feels like an old wives tale but you tell me.

by Anonymousreply 26July 2, 2018 1:54 AM

r12, where did you hear that?!

by Anonymousreply 27July 2, 2018 3:19 AM

That’s stupid - you probably shouldn’t masturbate at all or you’ll go blind or grow hair on your palms 🙄

by Anonymousreply 28July 2, 2018 4:04 AM

R19 and r20 look like lap dances.

by Anonymousreply 29July 2, 2018 4:11 AM

One summer I was sent to summer camp for two weeks - the French kid in the bunk beside me, still recall his name was Charlie, would bounce up and down on his bed every night. I realized that he was masturbating, and was determined to figure it out when I got home from camp.

Upon arrival home was the first time I orgasmed and ejaculated. It was by humping the mattress, cock was not pointed towards bellybutton but the opposite. Wasn't so much the humping, but the tension building up that allowed me to have hands-free orgasms, sometimes without ejaculation so I would then beat off a second time and shoot that time.

45 years later I can still duplicate that sensation and have hand-free Os using pressure/tension, and have derive immense pleasure from vibrators and hydro pumps.

by Anonymousreply 30July 2, 2018 6:37 AM

Frottage is boring as fuck, I am going in and you had better be ready.

by Anonymousreply 31July 2, 2018 7:07 AM

Frottage is OK, but sometimes I’m in the mood for fromage.

by Anonymousreply 32July 2, 2018 7:20 AM

Frottage feels so much better and is more discreet. I use a large towel because it’s soft but has substantial consistency. After you’re done you use it to clean up. No fuss no muss.

by Anonymousreply 33July 3, 2018 1:59 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 34July 3, 2018 3:32 PM

So hot

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by Anonymousreply 35July 4, 2018 5:53 PM

[quote] Being uncut, humping a pillow with any real jarring force would hurt like hell.

one of the elusive perks of being female🙃🙃 Labia are like inbuilt football pads for the clit.

by Anonymousreply 36July 4, 2018 6:08 PM

Fucking hot @ R35.

by Anonymousreply 37July 4, 2018 6:50 PM

R37 So hot when he shakes and moans as he cums

by Anonymousreply 38July 4, 2018 9:32 PM

R36 why did YOU have to post and ruin the moment?

by Anonymousreply 39July 4, 2018 9:40 PM

Used to do this with a bud in high school. Anyone know what porn studio this is from?

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by Anonymousreply 40July 4, 2018 11:55 PM

Can be quite "HOT"... Though I don't quite get frotting against fabric, against or with one's partner's cock can be amazing. Same goes for frotting a bloke's bum.

by Anonymousreply 41July 5, 2018 12:29 AM

I love fucking but I love frottage, too. Used to do it with a lover I had a little over 15 years ago -- we'd get naked and rub our cocks together much like the guys in R35's video until we'd both cum all over each other. We would fuck, too, but frot was definitely a favorite.

by Anonymousreply 42July 5, 2018 1:40 AM

I used to do this with a kid a couple years older than me every once in a while during the summer. We’d find a secluded swimming hole up or down the creek and go skinny dipping and end up frotting all afternoon. I remember we’d go swimming afterwards to wash off, swim and lay out for awhile, then start in again. I think we’d play “The Blue Lagoon” that was a popular film at the time because neither of us saw it as “gay”. He was bi so I guess that made me Brooke Shields lol

by Anonymousreply 43July 5, 2018 1:54 AM

Sounds like you have some great memories R43!

by Anonymousreply 44July 5, 2018 2:03 AM

I used to do this as a teenager. It felt great, but I think it reduced the sensitivity of the head of my penis.

by Anonymousreply 45July 5, 2018 2:25 AM

R43, nicely described. You are the gay Mark Twain.

by Anonymousreply 46July 5, 2018 2:27 AM

Several black guys ive been with have been into frot ... no white or asian guys .... just luck of the draw?

by Anonymousreply 47July 5, 2018 2:41 AM

There is also that whole “G0y” movement that considers anal sex disgusting and endorses frot as an alternative to penetration. Stupid. Both are awesome!

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by Anonymousreply 48July 5, 2018 6:24 AM

[quote]I’ve had a better orgasm via frottage on a bed ever since I was 13 or so. I thought it would lessen over time but nope. And using a rubber doesn’t lessen it, either.

Same here. Always intense and powerful. Good stuff.

by Anonymousreply 49July 8, 2018 10:08 AM

When I was 13, I was looking through my older sister's high school yearbook and came upon the wrestling team in action and was turned on by them in their singlets. I started grinding against the pillow as if I was wrestling against them in a match. Rubbing my crotch against their tree trunk thighs, legs, huge asses, crotch, etc. Had intensely powerful thrusting orgasms that summer. Man, I couldn't wait to get to high school to join the wrestling team an rub against them.

Never did happen of course, but the frot fantasy was there. I did play baseball in HS and I do have a baseball uniform fantasy then and now lol, but that's a different story lol

Flash forward now, ESPNU shows college wrestling and it brings back some nice memories....

by Anonymousreply 50July 8, 2018 10:17 AM

BORING. I am going to fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 51July 16, 2018 12:22 PM

To each his own. But if you're into frot, just make sure your furniture is slipcovered.

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by Anonymousreply 52July 16, 2018 12:45 PM

What R5 and R11 said.

by Anonymousreply 53July 16, 2018 12:53 PM

It's hot for sure.

by Anonymousreply 54July 16, 2018 1:36 PM

How about a how to video?!

by Anonymousreply 55July 16, 2018 4:22 PM

This thread needs more videos!

by Anonymousreply 56July 16, 2018 5:03 PM

R48, is that gOy shit for real?

by Anonymousreply 57July 16, 2018 5:58 PM

We want videos!!!

by Anonymousreply 58July 17, 2018 3:12 AM

What is it and how does one do it !?

by Anonymousreply 59July 19, 2018 9:26 PM

I'm female and have been doing this since 12. I make up the sex scenes in my head, while laying on my tummy in bed or on the couch.

by Anonymousreply 60July 19, 2018 9:58 PM

R50 did you end up wrestling in HS?

by Anonymousreply 61July 20, 2018 9:19 PM
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