Why so much bias against Asian men?

"Asian" is often shorthand for pretty femmes. That's what causes issues.

No yellow cock

Fuck off r2. I have dated great Asian men.

He is cute.

Oh boo hoo hoo. Hot Asian model tired of micro-aggressions by people who don’t find him attractive. I would understand if it was William Hung doing this video, but this guy is a piece of work. Maybe it’s your personality they don’t like?

Dude is adorable. I love shorter guys and know a lot of women who won’t date Asian guys or short men. I find shorter stockier guys sexy so I’m like great—more for me! But I still think they discount a lot of great men.

I have a friend who is a solid seven on a good day but won’t look at anything less than a ten and then of course bitches because he’s perpetually single.

White people are assholes. That's your answer. (See R2.)

The small cock thing is a total myth too. Not sure I’d thst’s why white women aren’t interested. There are just as many small white cocks.

13 Reasons Why - right here...

Me no rikey

R11 Did you want a Scooby Snack instead?

I have slept with cute Asian guys but only because there are good looking and ugly men of every ethnicity...not in the "yellow fever" icky racial fetish way.

Anything, r12.

The guy in the OP is acceptable because he is masculine and hot. Many Asian men look neotenous, vaguely feminine, asexual. This is perceived as less hot by some.

I prefer my own race and my own sex for sexual activity, thank you--I personally just don't find Asian and Black men attractive. Why is that so hard to understand? It's nothing against them, I just don't want to have sex with them. It's like the episode of Frasier where he simply couldn't be satisfied with the simple answer that someone on some panel evaluating him didn't especially like his radio show but had nothing against him personally. Frasier had to pester him for a further explanation and ended up burning down his business which was a newstand.

I don't get it. Asian men can be hot and muscular and smooth with gorgeous skin, thick nipples, ample butts, great cocks. It's just strange that they can be dismissed as a race. Sure some are ugly or trolls but it's not due to thei ethnicity.

I think they can be very attractive - some don't even look "Asian different" to me - but I have a tiny bit of the genetics. Its interesting the Variety especially in the Japanese. I have been watching old Godzilla movies and really, some of the men are a spectrum of light to heavily mongol featured.

Some Filipino guys are really hot. Not into the Twinky Asians or the mole ridden but a regular to beefy looking handsome Asian guy gets my attention. Some Asian guys eat too much onions, cabbage or garlic which can be an issue as well.

Asian men have small penises because Asian women have small vaginas.

I've had 3 deal breakers for the past 40 years - No Asians, no redheads and no uncut cock.

Because they are annoying.

I don't get it either. Hot is hot. I have fucked a few asians guys - one was hot as fuck, greatest ass I have ever seen . He was shorter - ripped to shreds, his skin was so smooth and his ass oh man I get hard thinking about his ass. I would have married the fucker if he wasn't such a whore.

Most of what westerners picture when Asian men are mentioned, are too smooth, which is boring and girly and/or childlike, too sallow, which is as appealing as the belly of a mackerel, and smaller than average in stature, which isn't interesting, especially when combined with the pre-pubescent hairless skin, and the straight pubes with grey meat, are seriously unappetizing. Even worse when there's a slimy grey foreskin that comes with it.

There are some hot, virile, hairy, ruggedly handsome Asian guys out there with chiseled features and vibrant complexions and non-grey meat who are appealing. But not many.

I would never say no to Harry Belafonte nor Toshiro Miffune - but in general I don't get aroused by blacks or Asians, the same way as with whites and Latinos. Nothing to do with anything , just a matter of one's preference ...

I love my Japanese husband.

There is bias all right but it's not against Asian men. It's against unattractive or average looking Asians. HOT Asian men will ALWAYS attract other HOT men of any skin color and ethnicity. That's "hot" privilege". You consistently get to have sex with the kind of men that MANY, if not most men never get to experience. In other words, if you are an average or unattractive white man you will not have the privilege of getting to fuck a HOT white guy, unless you pay, find a blind one or the one in a billion that doesn't give a shit about looks.

HOWEVER, if you are a HOT and HANDSOME Asian man (and I see them ALL the time) then you WILL have the opportunity to have incredible sex and embark on serious romantic relationships with the best looking white men evolution has to offer on a fairly regular basis. Now, the grievance this resentful narcissist has is that the exact SAME number of hot white Alphas who might find other hot white Alphas desirable don't always find hot Asian Alphas just AS desirable. Although plenty DO.

And I guess he wants us to believe he's always DTF guys that aren't hot because he's just so totally ABOVE rejecting people based on their looks. BULLSHIT!

All I can say is:

Bitch,you are VERY spoiled.

Both fish and sisters avoid tinymeat, unless there is substantial $$$$ involved.

Most Asian gay men are notorious snow queens.

Ok. so apparently he's straight. This makes everything I said at at R27 even MORE true. Unless the dude was rich,famous or powerful a gorgeous white female would OVERWHELM INGLY choose to fuck a handsome , hot Asian over an average looking man of ANY ethnicity. ANY day!

Only on the Huffington Post would a great looking , well-built model have the temerity to complain he was "sexually discriminated against" and "romantically oppressed".

I can't fucking stand the self-victimization of identity politics.

I don't read the Huffington Post.

It's funny how it's only the ugly Asian guys who start talking to you with "do you have a problem with Asians?".

Black, brown, red or yellow, they're all subhuman mongrels to me.

You are soooo not an A list white guy R34.

Asian men really don’t do a thing for me. I can’t explain it. Even the ones who I appreciate as being good-looking are not my type. (Like Ken Watanabe or going way back, Toshiro Mufane.) Something is missing in the bone structure from what I’m attracted to.

The only ones who I think are hot turn out to be part Asian, like the first Asian guy I ever noticed, Russell Wong (half Chinese, half Dutch).

I’m sure there could be an exception to the rule, but it hasn’t happened yet.

Knew I should have looked up his name before posting. *Toshiro Mifune. (Still a pass.)

[quote]Oh boo hoo hoo. Hot Asian model tired of micro-aggressions by people who don’t find him attractive. I would understand if it was William Hung doing this video, but this guy is a piece of work. Maybe it’s your personality they don’t like

Man, you said it all...Hot Asian model PISSED that Chris Hemsworth look-a-like doesn’t want him. I would beat the Asian guy with a tiny violin

[quote]13 Reasons Why - right here...

Why do people on DL insist on posting photos of models and actors as representations of ethnicities? It's like..."Indian men are hot" and then someone posts a photo of Sidharth Malhotra. Meanwhile, he has white features and looks like maybe 5 percent of their population.

You're right r35. I'm morbidly obese and live with my mother but I'm still not remotely interested in untermensch.

Fear.

[quote]Black, brown, red or yellow, they're all subhuman mongrels to me.

Brown or yellow black or white they are precious in MY sight.

[quote]Man, you said it all...Hot Asian model PISSED that Chris Hemsworth look-a-like doesn’t want him

Even though the NEXT Chris Hemsworth doppelganger would.

DO NOT piss off an Asian twink. You'll regret it.

I’m really bored to DEATH of this topic--as a Black gay-- but R27’s post got my attenion--as harsh as it is. Unfortunately, it says a lot about our vaccous “Community.” In fact, gays are THE WORST when it comes to general acceptance and civility--but that’s a whole ‘nother topic. One of the many things that bugs me about his post is the complete lack of awareness that some people just aren’t interested in people of color AND vice versa--no matter how “Hot” they are--so I take issue with the word ‘ALWAYS’.

Take this guy in OPs post. He’s good looking, in shape and VERY aware it. So either his personality must really be shit OR he’s not looking for a one-night stand--I’m thinking both actually. So I doubt this topic even applies to him.

Furthermore, your intensely cynical take on getting laid in our “Community” irked me because of your bleak outlook on the lives of gay people who don’t look like models. Like the ONLY thing gay people want to do is bang a hot guy--then we can die. But it took me back to when this one time, I was talking to a white former dick dancer in a bar I go to. Good looking guy in an extremely douchey, dick dancer way (in other words very popular) BUT he had recently dried up and put on “Weight.” He was eye-fucking a specific dancer and was asking what I thought about him. I was a little taken aback because he seemed...insecure, which blew my mind because I’m always shocked when a really hot guy is insecure. As we talked more, he told me what he used to do and that he put on some weight and wanted to fuck that dancer. That’s something that has never really crossed my mind. I’ve always stayed in “My Lane” so to speak.

I was like go for it--because he was getting annoying and there’s nothing worse than a sad sack, insecure, good-looking man. Then he said, “Nah, man. If a guy that looks like me wants to fuck a guy that looks THAT...I gotta pay him.” I mean...there was like only a 15 pound difference between the two, he still had muscle and was equally--if not more--handsome than the dancer. And I thought he was kidding, but he REALLY wasn’t because I watched as he approached the dancer, then he would come back and give me a running commentary that I honestly enjoyed. Then they left. And I got a little bummed but it gave me some perspective.

As a community, I think we’ve just been mugged and beaten down by vanity, porn, and straight white male standards of beauty. It will always be that way. It sucks. It ain’t fair. It just is. Recognize and keep it moving because no amount of bitching and posting on a message board is going to change it.

Sorry this is so long...lots of coffee.

Maybe you should ask the same question to Asians who seem to only chase white guys instead of other Asians. Yes, I know its racists, but come on, so are the Asians complaining they cant get white guys. Whats wrong with other Asians? I am talking about western culture here like America or Europe. 9 times out of ten, if I meet a gay coupe and one is Asian, the other one is white. Never see Asians chasing after black guys.

Jesus fucking Christ, when did actual Nazi pieces of shit like R34 start posting here? How much do you wanna bet he's some fat, ugly slob who nobody would ever want to get within 10 feet of, much less actually fuck.

Ironically, it's an Asian guy who owns the odious 4chan where these fucktards come from.

Gooks are quite aggressive, especially at the tubs, according to a tall handsome and hung friend of ours.

Yes r46, I am a fat slob. I'm not a nazi, i'm actually a democratic socialist. I'm also a garden-variety racist that won't fuck Asian trash. If you mongrels weren't so desperate for white jizz you wouldn't fucking care.

R46 If you weren't so desperate to stand out from the crowd you wouldn't be denigrating a large chunk of the world's population.

I meant R48 not R46

Someone will always treat you unfairly for some reason, but the bottom line is, when it comes to personal relationships, no one owes you anything. You can demand that someone be your friend, like you, be attracted to you, have sex with you, etc. It reminds me of that idiot faux populist making political ads where he refers to Asians as “China people”. I can be mad all day about it but it doesn’t change his attitude towards Asians or the words he and his constituents use to refer to them. Same goes for gay population that is biased against men of color. I can’t mandate their acceptance, and being mad about it just makes me pissed off.

*can’t demand

No one owes anyone anything in personal relationshipsYes and my racist friends can't demand that I take their general opinions seriously and they can't demand I spend any more quality time with them on the weekends when I'd rather be banging some more Asian power bottoms.

Because the Japanese are at heart a deceitful and bloodthirsty people. You’d need to sleep with one eye open.

I want to ask how many parents of these Asian guys would disown them or have a major issue with them marrying outside their culture.

Some Hawaiian men are incredibly hot.

Dated and married a Thai man. I’m 50, he’s 48.

He is wonderful. Sexy and an amazing lover. This man is handsome and smart. My sex life has taken a new direction. Was a total top, now I’m verse. His cock is not big, but it is perfect.

He’s a wonderful cook and passionate man. Why someone would write off entire race is beyond me.

R55, the world is changing rapidly. When I met the parents of my Japanese husband, they completely embraced me.

Mind you, they wrote him a letter on his birthday stating that they think that their son is making a choice in lifestyle by being gay, but they support his choice, and they still completely accepted us and still do.

Not everyone is mindless and slavishly homophobic. Most people are reasonable at heart, especially when they see love in front of them.

As very handsome black guy, who gets lots of positive feedback on my appearance by all races, but especially white men and women in person, but then is blocked or ignored on gay apps at a rate higher than average white friends, I can somewhat relate.

But, at the end of the day I have little to no sympathy for gay Asian men. Most gay Asians look down on other men of color, especially black men, and lash out because they feel entitled to white mens bodies, and are aghast that unlike straight Asian women, they have very low sexual marketplace value with white men.

In essence, these gay Asian men are only complaining because they are incredulous that they can’t benefit from white privilege the way white-passing Latinos can.

At the end of the day, the poster above is right in that a good looking minority WILL have options to hookup with the best looking white men. I certainly have. But the vast majority of black and Asian men are NOT considered good looking by most white mens’ standards, and thus will feel the ping of rejection magnified in gay white spaces.

In summation, I have not had the best experiences with Asian guys at all. Many are racist, hypocritical, and aggressively go after white men out of their leagues, and then conveniently claim “racism” when they get turned down.

You twinks don't like me because I'm fat.

[quote]At the end of the day, the poster above is right in that a good looking minority WILL have options to hook with the best looking white men.

I will NEVER get used to this idea that the ULTIMATE goal for many people of color is to hook up with a hot white guy. That saddens me on so many levels. I know this word gets used so much on the DL that it has lost its impact BUT...that is a bucket full of self-hate.

IMO Asian men are no different than any other race. Some are not sexy looking and some are beyond gorgeous (like the guy in the OP's image). Unfortunately it seems that more Asian men than not are the types I wouldn't find sexy. They're rather small, with very underwhelming bodies. I don't find any other race of men who look like that sexy either.

Don’t blame men of color for viewing white men as the ultimate status symbol, when images of white male beauty pervade the media, and especially so within the gay community. M

Speaking personally, I can trace my attraction to white men back to a very early age, so in my case at least, while the media definitely had some part of solidifying my interest, there was some innate early attraction to white men that I cannot explain.

And although some hot, young white guys will hook up with a hot black guy, few are interested in a relationship. It’s rare that a match with a young white guy of equal attractiveness on Tinder.

I get plenty of likes on Tinder, but those are usually from overweight Latinos, dark, ghetto black guys, or below average white guys. I do much better on Grindr with my intended demographic, but those are just hookups.

Trying to date as good looking black or Asian is a challenge. You do question your attractiveness a lot, and you will get used to and accept that your race is a liability, and severely limits your dating options (not just with white men, but with other races, too).

Sad.

slanty eyes

As a lifelong bottom and a slavish devotee of cock,no matter who its attached to,I offer 2 observations...Ive been with a good dozen or so of Asian men of all ethnicities,and between them they didnt have a foot of cock. Ugly,tiny little uncut peckers to the man. I dated several black men in my day,and to the man THEY were the ones who went on and on about racial issues.And this was way before racial politics. One in particular I really liked but he never let it go that we were a "mixed" couple ,and everything was fraught with hidden meaning. It got old very quickly. I personally have always felt black guys would have a much easier time dating (not just fucking,but dating) if THEY would learn not to see color.

Sex, find cock. Want a relationship, focus on the person, not the cock or race.

R66, you’re totally out of touch, and your experience with black men is, for lack of a better word, colored, by your own white privilege.

Black people, and particularly black men, are aware of race, and discuss it often, because society reminds us, everyday that we are black.

I can understand why a white guy, who’s never had to think about his race, and how that affects how he moves through and interacts with society, can not understand the black male experience.

But I also understand that if you’re white, you may not want to deal with all this, and just stick with dating other white dudes because it’s easier.

The late (and gay) Yukio Mishima had a gorgeous face or body and (to quote 'Harold') could talk intelligently about art, but still doesn't do a thing for me, even all oiled up and smouldering. Beautiful man, though.

China people have average to small penises, with above average being less common. They also tend to have more slender penises and smaller testes. I think if this were different there would be less bias.

Asians are hot sluts.

He's SUPER hot. He can fuck me anytime.

As if someone like Daniel Henney would have ANY problem pulling any guy or girl his heart desire.

[quote]White people are assholes. That's your answer. (See [R2].)

Oh so when black gay men also don't like Asians, that's also because white people are assholes? That's a convenient reason.

Trust me, NOT all Asians like whites. I was rejected many times by good looking asian guys. Only not-so-good-looking ones were interested in me, unfortunately.

I am Asian and have no trouble finding sex. Guys tell me I'm sexy, but I only feel like that sometimes.

OP = Connor Jessup

Do certain Asian countries have better looking men/bigger dongs?

[quote]Don’t blame men of color for viewing white men as the ultimate status symbol, when images of white male beauty pervade the media, and especially so within the gay community

Uh...those images are in EVERY community. If you want to spend your life chasing hot white men while ignoring or passing up other opportunities--knock yourself out. Godspeed. But don’t expect sympathy from me, a person of color--or the white men you give all your power to because that's bullshit. And I don't care how handsome other races tell you that you are because...frankly, it's a little odd that you've kept track of that.

Once we recognize that this is what the media does-- it should no longer have that "Power" over us, you know...

Listen, I went through the same bullshit that you're talking about--when I was YOUNGER because those very same images were being shoved down my throat. But as I got older--and my head out of my ass--I realized exactly what I was doing. I was at the club surrounded by all of my gay white friends chasing another white boy. And this handsome Black guy asked me If I only dated white boys. I thought to myself, “You don’t know me! What do you mean do I ONLY date white boys”? I got really defensive and he looked at me like I was crazy--appropriately--and excused himself. But you know why I was so defensive...because I knew he was right. So I just started questioning shit. Why have never even thought about going out with a Black guy? Why don’t I have any Black gay friends? What's MY problem with MY skin color? Blahblabhlbhalaha

And I would like to be very clear that I didn’t post this as fodder for some asshole to use against people who complain about "Sexual racism"--because that does exist.

Sorry, I'm getting all cathartic up in here, but I think this is an interesting topic. Especially, when posters aren't pushing their agendas.

I believe Asian people are beautiful, certainly more beautiful than white people.

I used to date Asian guys but they can be very cheap. I know that’s a stereotype but I decided all things considered it was a dealbreaker.

This guy at op is likely a model or actor, and is bitching not because he is discriminated by women, but because he wants to get his name out there. Even no-name, Z--list actors want publicity, and their share of any spolight. Don't fall for it.

Anyway, it's HuffPost. So it's all super "woke" shit to make other people feel bad, and clickbait.

These Southeastern Asian guys are sexy as hell! I was ready to start a thread about them.

Is it true that Koreans and Mongolians are usually well-hung?

What's the story with that video. Are the two of them a thing?

The problem with the bias, like any bias, is that it's rooted in ignorance. Sure, a few gaysians out there are desperate for White Cock to take care of them, and are aggressive in their pursuit of it and have very sad lives. The vast majority of gay "Asians" are actually not like that at all. Many of them are "sticky rice", many of them are opened minded, and have self respect, and many of them are handsome in a way that is unlike the model featured in OP's post.

...and I put "Asians" in quotes because there are many different cultures in Asia, with very different values between them. It's sad that many guys can't just see them for who they are.

No one likes a whiny bitch. That is guy at op's problem.

I am still in love with the one who always beat me at solitaire!

R84 NO.

LOL?

I meant "LOL!" Didn't mean to sound so indecisive.

Small, cunty and boring. The End.

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