I'm at the library getting hit on.

Dear, that homeless fellow is asking you to buy him a coffee.

No. I go to various libraries frequently and most of the people there are sketch. Turn him down, but politely.

Hon, he's homeless. He wants you to buy him coffee. He probably just shit up the library bathroom.

Are you at the Senior Citizens resource Center ? Then by all means.

Op is 59 so why not?

OP is 58 but looks 32.

No he's not homeless.He's kind of cute and funny.Said he wasnt an ax murder just a old guy who wanted a little company.And hes buying.Said he would spring for a dounut too. Should I stay or should I go? I very tempted.He seems very nice.

[quote]Should I go for coffee?

Only if you want to end up in a planter.

I'd hold out for real estate, OP, but you do what you want.

He must see you as close to his age. Go, why not.

Well you are safe then since he said he isn't an ax murderer, and ax murderers never lie about not being an ax murderer.

But, wait! Just because he said he isn't an ax murderer doesn't mean he isn't A STRANGLER!!!!!

Run, OP, Run!

You in danger, gurl!

Hi John

Do it.

For 20 minutes max.

Have you asked. “What’s in it for me?”

Hmm, 60--does he still have a nice ass?

This sounds like something that would have happened to one of the Golden Girls

How big is his dick? Ask him.

Don't start something you can't finish.

Only an axe murderer says they aren’t an axe murderer.

Jeffrey Dahmer: “Hi, I’m not a cannibal, I just want to get some coffee.”

Whatever you decide, try to get back and tell about how it went OP.

Oh, come on. He’s probably not an axe murderer and almost certainly not a cannibal.

Are you going?

Flirt with him! Bend, and snap!

Well you're both so tragic you need to go to a library to access the internet so you're probably perfect for each other.

R24 you forgot to sign your name. I will do it for you.

How old are you? is it possible to skip the coffee and just get a blowjob in the bathroom?

He's buying you a donut because he wants to finger your donut hole, Rose.

This is very unlike me.I'm at the coffee shop .I will let you know if I get murdered. Oh boy.

HELLO MY FRIEND--LOL IT SEEMS YOU WRITE ON THE DATALOUNGE WEB PAGE TOO. MY OFFER STILL "STANDS"...COFFEE AND A DONUT. AND ALSO ARE YOU A "TOP"??? WAITING FOR YOUR ANSWER...BLESS,BILL

BILL, please post a picture of this young man from your Cingular typewriter phone!

Tell him he needs to put a ring on it first!

If you agree to go for coffee, he will escalate and try to entice you to his house for a sheltering bubble bath, cocaine, porn, and foot-sucking.

[R32] Whatever DID happen with the homeless guy who got to do lines AND get his toes sucked?

OP, can I have the donut when he kills you?

This bloke's 60. If anyone's going to die, it's going to be him from a heart attack.

Bill, is he aware you’re a homosexual?

Go get a coffee OP.

Verificatia of sizemeat and/or bank balance?

Ask him if he is willing to perform analingus on you for 75 to 90 minutes?

Seems like OP was done in. I wonder if it was his library admirer or a blobfish.

Can he play the 'Macarena'on his dentures?

I can.

Donut is a code word for his prolapsed anus. As for the coffee you don't even want to know!

It's a free coffee and donut. Go!

If he wants to swipe his library card in your asscrack, it's time to leave.

They are going to find him in multiple pieces in the book return drop off slot.

How largth ith hith thcock?

No library worth it's salt would let anyone access Datalounge on their computers.

Dear OP, I recommend you donate 20 minutes of your time to this eldergay (providing he's clean and not obviously crazy).

They can be interesting if you ask them questions (but they can also be boring).

Show some sympathy because it is in inevitable fact of life that people lose friends as they mature in our impersonal society (people can lose friends through misunderstanding, death or natural attrition).

Bless your heart. You're desperate for attention.

OP, Go on, throw the ol' boy a bone!

Get the cash upfront

OP have you ever had surprise anal?

Sorry it tool so long to get back to you all.Coffee with this guy was very nice. He's a very interesting man. We had a good time talking for about 2 hr. We are going to meet again tomorrow morning for coffee.This is so very unlike me but I'm going to meet him again and see were it goes.

R53 But what did you talk about? Was he as entertaining as DL?

Shhhhhhh!

Bless you both.

It's so easy to find reasons to say No to connections in modern society. Despite all the technology, people are getting lonelier all the time in the over-developed world.

I always find it interesting to talk with people with different life experiences.

You made the right choice, OP.

R53 is not OP. It’s the blobfish trying to throw us off the scent. As if, blobfish. We can smell you through the internet.

Did he present hole?

I'm at the coffee shop.He should be here in about 20 min. He seems like an OK guy once married with two kids. Now lives up the street from the library and dotwn the street from the coffee shop.Im kinda hoping this becomes a friendship or even more.I don't think he's an ax murderer. Just a lonely guy like.

Is he a top or bottom?

Is this one of those EST things?

If you hear the words "Amway," "Dianetics," or "time-share," RUN AWAY!

Did you remember to log off the library computer??!?

Run to the bathroom and see if he follows. ;)

Be thankful!

It's not easy for men in their middle years to make new friends.

We have to force ourselves out of our comfort zones and (as Noel Coward suggested) chase every scrap of happiness we can.

R65 truth!

He wants you to accompqny him to his sex addiction group...hence, the coffee and donuts. Then, to the crawl space under his home.

Have a good time with the library guy yesterday. And we will be meeting again today for coffee and lunch the the park.We seem to have some things in common.Mostly loneliness. So off to the park with some guy I met at the library.So very unlike me but being murdered in the park might be better than being alone forever.I think.

But - how was the sex?

Was he hung?

Suck him, fuck him and steal his wallet.

RIP OP?

He dead.

Is this coffee at Starbucks or coffee at Denny's ?

OP ask him if has any cialis

We are going to hook up tonight.Dinner and some heavy flirting at his house.We both kind of like each other.So l told him if dinner was OK he could rape and murder me. I hope things work out it would be nice be with someone again. I'm kind of nervous.Ive never been rape and murdered before.

Is Library guy also Pizza Ranch Guy?

OP, you know DL and the type of comments here but I think this is a fabulous, fun adventure and I'm jealous (but in a happy way). Hope things continue to go well.

Well OP. We are waiting!

OP, I met the love of my life at the library over 30 years ago. He was working in the shelving department, and I thought he was too young to even have a job (he appeared to be very young and innocent) and he thought I was a young daddy looking for books for my (non-existent) kids. As Barbra once said, "listen kiddo, you can't fight a tidal wave." Lots of ups and downs and drama, but still very real love.

[quote]Is this coffee at Starbucks or coffee at Denny's ?

McDonald's.

OP and her paramour.

Lol, R82.

I have to admit, in the back of my mind, I was praying he wouldn't get fresh, And all of the while I was wondering why An illiterate girl should attract him. Then all of a sudden, he said that I couldn't go wrong with "The Way of all Flesh." Of course it's a novel, but I didn't know, or I certainly wouldn't have smacked him! Well, he gave me a smile that I couldn't resist And I knew at once how much I liked This Optometrist. "Optometrist?" Optometrist! You know what this dear, sweet, slightly bespectacled gentleman said to me next? He said he could solve this problem of mine, I said, "How?" He said if I'd like, he'd willingly read to me some of his favorite things. I said, "When?" He said, "Now." His novel approach seemed highly suspicious, and possibly dangerous too. I told myself, "Wait, think!" Dare you go up to his flat? What happens if things go wrong? It's obvious he's quite strong. He read to me all night long! Now how about that? It's hard to believe how truly domestic And happily hopeful I feel. I picture my Paul there, reading aloud as I cook. As long as he's there to read, there's quite a good chance, indeed, a chance that I'll never need to open a book! Unlike someone else, someone I dimly recall, I know he'll only have eyes for me, my Optometrist, Paul!

I have to admit, in the back of my mind, I was praying he wouldn't get fresh, And all of the while I was wondering why An illiterate girl should attract him. Then all of a sudden, he said that I couldn't go wrong with "The Way of all Flesh." Of course it's a novel, but I didn't know, or I certainly wouldn't have smacked him! Well, he gave me a smile that I couldn't resist And I knew at once how much I liked This Optometrist. "Optometrist?" Optometrist! You know what this dear, sweet, slightly bespectacled gentleman said to me next? He said he could solve this problem of mine, I said, "How?" He said if I'd like, he'd willingly read to me some of his favorite things. I said, "When?" He said, "Now." His novel approach seemed highly suspicious, and possibly dangerous too. I told myself, "Wait, think!" Dare you go up to his flat? What happens if things go wrong? It's obvious he's quite strong. He read to me all night long! Now how about that? It's hard to believe how truly domestic And happily hopeful I feel. I picture my Paul there, reading aloud as I cook. As long as he's there to read, there's quite a good chance, indeed, a chance that I'll never need to open a book! Unlike someone else, someone I dimly recall, I know he'll only have eyes for me, my Optometrist, Paul!

I have to admit, in the back of my mind, I was praying he wouldn't get fresh, And all of the while I was wondering why An illiterate girl should attract him. Then all of a sudden, he said that I couldn't go wrong with "The Way of all Flesh." Of course it's a novel, but I didn't know, or I certainly wouldn't have smacked him! Well, he gave me a smile that I couldn't resist And I knew at once how much I liked This Optometrist. "Optometrist?" Optometrist! You know what this dear, sweet, slightly bespectacled gentleman said to me next? He said he could solve this problem of mine, I said, "How?" He said if I'd like, he'd willingly read to me some of his favorite things. I said, "When?" He said, "Now." His novel approach seemed highly suspicious, and possibly dangerous too. I told myself, "Wait, think!" Dare you go up to his flat? What happens if things go wrong? It's obvious he's quite strong. He read to me all night long! Now how about that? It's hard to believe how truly domestic And happily hopeful I feel. I picture my Paul there, reading aloud as I cook. As long as he's there to read, there's quite a good chance, indeed, a chance that I'll never need to open a book! Unlike someone else, someone I dimly recall, I know he'll only have eyes for me, my Optometrist, Paul!

4.2

Marry me, R84!

A cautionary clip OP but rooting for you!

DAMN. R29 BILL TAYLOR BEAT ME TO IT!

BILL, MAKE A POINT OF LETTING THE STUD KNOW THAT YOU HAVE TOLD THE LIBRARIAN THAT YOU ARE GOING OUT WITH THE STUD.

R48, I prefer unnatural attrition.

Well I went to the library guys house for dinner.Boy o boy was I nervous.Dinner was good and then and then it happened off to the living room for ice cream. I didn't eat much too nervous. Then then it happened. He sat next me and asked if he could kiss me. And he did and then we had a very nice evening together. We had good time together. Its very unlike me to do something like this but l we are running out of time so we take a chance and it worked out well.And now that I know where he lives he will never be rid of me never ever I tell you never. We meet again soon.Happy. Llll

^Well, that's so nice, OP. Good for you, pal.

For OP:

It's like a John Waters movie, happy ending and all.

he is going to kill you.

I would go (I'm 41 fwiw). The guy might just be lonely for a variety of reasons. Doesn't inherently mean he is gay and hitting on you. That is a bit presumptuous. Even if he is interested in you romantically, you can always be more clear to him (politely and subtle) that you don't have an interest in him that way. I've traveled alone for work many times, and wound up striking up hours long conversations with straight married guys at the bar. One time I was at Zingerman's Roadhouse in Ann Arbor at the bar for lunch, and some married guy came in to place a takeout order for him and his wife. He decided to have a martini while waiting and we struck up a conversation. Long story short, we ended up chatting for hours and I ordered dinner as well after he finally left. I'm sure his wife was fuming though when he got home, lol. Another time, again traveling alone for work, I called a taxi to take me to the liquor store. We ended up at McDonald's to grab a bite to eat and chat - though he was considerate enough to call his wife to let her know.

R94 here as well. Another time when I went to Vegas, a taxi driver that picked me up at Gypsy (so he clearly knew I was gay) turned off the meter after a bit of conversation and gave me a free tour of the old Vegas area and was telling me all about the city. Again, he wasn't pinging to me at all, just wanted to chat. He was actually pretty cute and around my age, and I totally would have hit it, but I wasn't getting any gay vibes from him at all, just lonely and wanted to talk.

A reprise ... And there was this dear, sweet, clearly respectable thickly bespectacled man Who stood by my side and quietly sad to me - mam', don't mean to intrude, but I was just ondering are you need of some help, I said no, yes I am. The next thing you know I'm sipping hot chocolate and telling my troubles to Paul Whose tender brown eyes kept sending compassionate looks A trip to the library has made a new girl of me. For suddenly I can see, the magic of books!

OP, it's too late to do your kegels. He will have to accept you for who you are.

Did you tell him to hold up, 'til you heard back from DL? And when he said "for a coffee", did it come across as transactional like, an offer for the exchange of goods and services?

Prostitution whore!

R99 No receipt and it 'aint business, though.

R94, did you bother to read the thread? OP went for coffee not once, but twice. Then went to Library guy's home for dinner, had iced cream afterwards in the living room. Then Library guy asked for a kiss, and it was on! OP is a classy guy who only alluded to what came next. We're all glad for you, OP, and Library guy as well.

So was he hung?

Tell me more. Like does he have a car?

He sounds like a drag.

Who's the top?

But oh those summer ni-ighhhhhtss!

This thread is making my decimal system all wet and Dewey!

What brand and flavor of ice cream ?

It used to be gay bars and clubs. Now, it's libraries. Ye, GODS!

You watch your phraseology, R109!

I had a guy jerk off all over me in a college library in 1980, massive load !!

Any mementos left on books?

R107, thanks! Who dat? I know you chose that image because one of the books is titled "Disclosure."

Al over the Ruby Hat of Omar Khay-yi-yi-yi---I am APPALLED!

A coffee, not coffee. Sounds like a tard.

Sounds like a yuppy.

This story has really brought out the romantic in me. I told it to Suleiman who occupies the bunk next to mine in the UNHCR tent, his eyes welled up with tears! It reminded him of when Angelina Jolie came by and patted him on the head. He's never washed his hair since! Not that he can - no shampoo!

OP here.So many nice replys and some a little dirty. I like them. Thank you. Well after ice cream (strawberry) and some kissing we continued in another room.We had a very lovely time that evening I left very late.We got together for a coffee again two days later at his house.We had a very nice time again. I'm so glad I met him. He's am OK guy.I like him and he likes me.And all is good.And there isn't really a top or bottom,more like a side by side.OK got to go. Night.

"NICE"?!!!

That does not suffice!

Ain't this something.The guy who kidnapped me from the library said he would like it if i moved into his house.He has a very nice house and a very nice everything else but I just got a new place and roommate a short time ago and have to stick around.So so I will have to continue to walk a half mile to be raped and murdered on my days off by some stranger I met at the library. Have a nice day.

Have a nice murder.

I wish you both all joy!

"Love is for the daring", someone wiser than I once said.

You both took risks and have earned your good fortune.

(Glad you tuned out the negativity offered in abundance here.)