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Did Colton Haynes have a breakdown?

He returned to social media and posted about two former Teen Wolf stars making him cry by getting in his bed. His other friends, Jarrett Wise someone and Aisha something, were also there. This smacks of a welfare check.

by Anonymousreply 600October 10, 2018 5:52 AM

If only there were a link to verify this story! Or any evidence whatsoever!

by Anonymousreply 1June 9, 2018 10:04 PM

It's on his social media, bitch. He also mentions insomnia in another recent post, fucktard.

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by Anonymousreply 2June 9, 2018 10:08 PM

So post the fucking link with the thread, you lazy cunt!

by Anonymousreply 3June 9, 2018 10:09 PM

Colto

by Anonymousreply 4June 9, 2018 10:10 PM

How silly of me to ASSume you would know how to find it for yourself, shithead!

by Anonymousreply 5June 9, 2018 10:10 PM

R5: Proper etiquette and protocol call for all references to be linked where possible. It is your responsibility to post the link, OP.

by Anonymousreply 6June 9, 2018 10:22 PM

No one is interested in your opinion

by Anonymousreply 7June 9, 2018 10:24 PM

R7: You'll get my opinion where your want it or not, bitch!

by Anonymousreply 8June 9, 2018 10:25 PM

A cunty hair-trigger OP, just what we need. Someone else start a new thread with the same info so OP doesn't get credit.

by Anonymousreply 9June 9, 2018 10:26 PM

I utterly agree with R6. He is correct beyond all doubt. OP is lazy and inept.

by Anonymousreply 10June 9, 2018 10:27 PM

What the hell is this thread?

by Anonymousreply 11June 9, 2018 10:27 PM

Let us now turn our backs on OP and wish him into the cornfield!

by Anonymousreply 12June 9, 2018 10:28 PM

He definitely losing the weight. But those brows need work.

This has been a crap year for him, I hope things are turning around.

by Anonymousreply 13June 9, 2018 10:28 PM

R10: Aww thanks!

R12: I love you!

by Anonymousreply 14June 9, 2018 10:32 PM

No no no no nooo

by Anonymousreply 15June 9, 2018 10:33 PM

Aww I hope he's okay. I get the feeling he's a nice guy

by Anonymousreply 16June 9, 2018 10:40 PM

He died. The end.

by Anonymousreply 17June 9, 2018 10:41 PM

OP really fucked up this thread, sad.

by Anonymousreply 18June 9, 2018 10:43 PM

Colton seems like such a decent person who just wears his heart on his sleeve. But, like everyone else, he has some demons.

by Anonymousreply 19June 9, 2018 10:43 PM

Thanks, R2.

by Anonymousreply 20June 9, 2018 10:43 PM

I don't know him.

by Anonymousreply 21June 9, 2018 10:48 PM

Colton Haynes.I hope if you read this and know we are giving you well wishes.

by Anonymousreply 22June 9, 2018 10:49 PM

Colto.

Damo.

Chambo.

by Anonymousreply 23June 9, 2018 11:04 PM

[Quote] two former Teen Wolf stars making him cry by getting in his bed.

Surprise Double Anal?

by Anonymousreply 24June 10, 2018 12:50 AM

This guy should not be pursuing fame. He’s way too fragile. He needs to get out of the limelight and do some real work on himself. I doubt he will but then I’m not gonna have a lot of sympathy when he cracks like an egg and leaves the mess for everyone to look at.

by Anonymousreply 25June 10, 2018 1:59 AM

but honestly...is he still fat?

by Anonymousreply 26June 10, 2018 4:20 AM

Haynes has a disturbing lack of nude scenes for someone who gets by on looks.

by Anonymousreply 27June 10, 2018 4:05 PM

I love his nipples. They look perky and sensitive. I'd like to tease them while pounding his tight hole. But I digress....

by Anonymousreply 28June 10, 2018 4:11 PM

R28 Good to know.

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by Anonymousreply 29June 10, 2018 4:22 PM

Thank you r29. That's what I'm talking about! Gorgeous.

by Anonymousreply 30June 10, 2018 4:27 PM

Colton has been posting a lot lately. I think he’s in the midst of a full meltdown.

by Anonymousreply 31June 24, 2018 1:14 AM

He’s a has been.

by Anonymousreply 32June 24, 2018 1:16 AM

[quote]I think he’s in the midst of a full meltdown.

Gurl, he's about to turn 30 in a couple of weeks and is realizing what a lot people do, you better start getting your shit together

by Anonymousreply 33June 24, 2018 1:19 AM

Lickable

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by Anonymousreply 34June 24, 2018 1:28 AM

He’s an All-American white twink (for a few more months at least), who’s probably gotten through relationships based on his face and body. Not only did the body fall apart but the gravity of marriage crushed their shallow relationship from all angles.

by Anonymousreply 35June 24, 2018 2:13 AM

He should get back with jerreth...

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by Anonymousreply 36June 24, 2018 2:24 AM

I have never watched TW but his former co-workers are cute!

Poor Colto. Old and unfucked.

by Anonymousreply 37June 24, 2018 2:25 AM

Anyone who walks round in Paris wearing THIS you know isn’t the full quid. He definitely needs psychological counselling. Still, given he would be shacked up at the George Cinq given Jeffy does their flowers, dont weep for him.

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by Anonymousreply 38June 24, 2018 2:27 AM

Colton might have a chance of getting back with Jer if the Swede is up to no good with one of the old queens who took Dillon Gike, Troy Pez and Zander Hodgson to Europe...

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by Anonymousreply 39June 24, 2018 2:41 AM

[R38] It's for Vera Wang, he's in Paris doing some fashion shoots/modelling work. He posted some on IG, that was one of them. Not proof of psychological problems. Know you never know the full story, question things before you react.

by Anonymousreply 40June 24, 2018 3:00 AM

Alexander Wang, not Vera.

Is it a sure thing that it's for a shoot or is he, Ally and a photog friend just tagging the brands they're wearing during fashion week?

by Anonymousreply 41June 24, 2018 3:05 AM

R40 = Colto

by Anonymousreply 42June 24, 2018 3:54 AM

Datalounge could cause anyone to have a nervous breakdown!

Let's hope he doesn't read this thread.

by Anonymousreply 43June 24, 2018 4:46 AM

That's so sweet of his two (older) friends from his time on Teen Wolf, to come and cheer him up.

I wonder what happened to his two "besties," Dylan O'Brien and Tyler Posey.

Did they just forget about him? Assholes.

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by Anonymousreply 44June 24, 2018 4:48 AM

r38 obviously doesn't know who Vera Wang is. What a dunce!

by Anonymousreply 45June 24, 2018 4:53 AM

I’m so confused. No link... wtf are you even talking about your thread makes no sense.

by Anonymousreply 46June 24, 2018 5:18 AM

His friends from the show are the older straight guys.

by Anonymousreply 47June 24, 2018 5:24 AM

I only know Colton from DL but my impression is that if the Teen Wolf cast, he was close to Holland Roden, Hoechlin and the two dad types. I think he and Roden cooled for a while.

by Anonymousreply 48June 24, 2018 5:29 AM

[quote] His friends from the show are the older straight guys

Actually, JR Bourne and Ian Bohen are the two "older" guys from Teen Wolf in the photo at R2, and they're both gay.

by Anonymousreply 49June 24, 2018 5:55 AM

Here are the two hot daddies, Bohen and Bourne.

Colton is lucky to have them as friends.

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by Anonymousreply 50June 24, 2018 5:57 AM

Martouf is gay? Since when?

by Anonymousreply 51June 24, 2018 5:57 AM

He can be doublefucked by Bohen and Bourne.

by Anonymousreply 52June 24, 2018 5:44 PM

[Quote] I have never watched TW but his former co-workers are cute!

That's pretty much the focus of the show. Hot dudes and ridiculous plots.

[Quote] I wonder what happened to his two "besties," Dylan O'Brien and Tyler Posey.

I don't think they were ever besties with Colton, just each other.

[Quote] Actually, JR Bourne and Ian Bohen are the two "older" guys from Teen Wolf in the photo at [R2], and they're both gay.

Since when is Bohen gay??

by Anonymousreply 53June 24, 2018 5:55 PM

[quote]Since when is Bohen gay??

Since DL decided he was.

by Anonymousreply 54June 24, 2018 5:57 PM

R54 Lol makes sense.

by Anonymousreply 55June 24, 2018 6:06 PM

What went wrong in the marriage? Colton cheat? Seems like he is an emotional mess. He was the first to throw in the towel it appeared with him deleting everything from social media including the last name "Leatham". So much for trying to make it work.

by Anonymousreply 56June 25, 2018 7:13 PM

I second the "emotional mess" observation.

by Anonymousreply 57June 25, 2018 7:18 PM

Seems like there are a lot of Jeff the Florist fans on this thread.

Desperate to take digs at Colton, even though your friend Jeff is the cheating whore.

Real nice.

by Anonymousreply 58June 25, 2018 7:33 PM

I think one of them cheated (and they won't admit it to the public) or Jeff could not deal with Colton's emotional issues and his generally questionable work ethic. Jeff seems like a regular guy who works hard to make a nice for himself. Colton only likes to work sometimes and enjoys being a leisurely socialite.

by Anonymousreply 59June 25, 2018 7:47 PM

Wasn't Colton announced to return to Arrow before the split was announced? If you're trying to sell the narrative that Colton wanted to sponge off Jeff, I don't buy it. Colton could easily have ordered a baby and have Jeff on the hook for 18 years if he wanted.

by Anonymousreply 60June 25, 2018 8:07 PM

Colton didn't get all the attention and tending to his emotional needs. He acted out. Cheated. Kept the drama going by deleting all the social media photos losing the married name. He packed all his designer clothes and left while Jeff was at work. Completely blindsiding Jeff. Sorry guys Colton is the mess.

by Anonymousreply 61June 27, 2018 4:06 PM

[qoute] Colton is the mess

by Anonymousreply 62June 27, 2018 4:16 PM

Sorry R61, but I'm team Colton.

And none of your story can be verified, so it's just a nasty rumor.

by Anonymousreply 63June 27, 2018 4:20 PM

R61 Why wouldn't he just talk to Jeff instead??

by Anonymousreply 64June 27, 2018 4:52 PM

Easier to let play out on social media or sing songs trying to keep the public on his side. Jeff was the one who kept the Haynes last name before divorce was officially filed.

by Anonymousreply 65June 27, 2018 6:34 PM

[Quote] Jeff was the one who kept the Haynes last name before divorce was officially filed.

Yeah i noticed that.

by Anonymousreply 66June 28, 2018 5:05 PM

Such a shame that he and this hottie broke up. But the hottie has a cute Swedish husband.

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by Anonymousreply 67June 28, 2018 10:43 PM

Which of our DL brethern wrote this on Colton's IG?

jjr_82Douche bagjjr_82@

@kjmxi_ not yet but Jeff dodged a bullet this guy is a fake he’s disingenuousj

jr_82@andrearmzg I know they filed but are they officially divorced I hear Colton wanted alimony he’s such a douche bag

by Anonymousreply 68June 29, 2018 5:03 AM

Everyone else was allowed to plow his ass, why not me?

by Anonymousreply 69June 29, 2018 5:10 AM

[quote] Everyone else was allowed to plow his ass, why not me? -Dylan Sprayberry

Because you were 12 when Colton was on Teen Wolf, Dylan.

Now go to sleep. It's past your bedtime.

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by Anonymousreply 70June 29, 2018 5:16 AM

Does the Swede work for this guy? I hope he's not stepping out on Jerreth, who's had quite enough of ambitious whores, I imagine.

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by Anonymousreply 71June 29, 2018 5:19 AM

Oh please. That guy next to the Swede is the bottomiest bottom ever and a mutual friend of Jerreth and the Swede.

by Anonymousreply 72June 29, 2018 5:23 AM

Does he treat the Swede to trips away while Jerreth isn't along for the ride?

by Anonymousreply 73June 29, 2018 5:50 AM

I don't know why this is always my reaction when I'm around a camera. 007 wannabe vibes at @paulsmithdesign #pmfw

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by Anonymousreply 74June 29, 2018 5:04 PM

Beefy & teary

by Anonymousreply 75June 29, 2018 6:41 PM

Where is the evidence of this alleged "generally questionable work ethic," r59?

Colton has a ton of work recently from several different shows. Not many actors get that much work at the same time.

And that tennis thing was for charity, I believe.

by Anonymousreply 76June 29, 2018 7:00 PM
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by Anonymousreply 77June 30, 2018 6:30 PM

R72 I was just gonna say they both look like bottoms. I don't think R71 need to worry, lol.

by Anonymousreply 78June 30, 2018 7:04 PM

R77 I thought I read a line that says "I miss how you feel inside"

by Anonymousreply 79June 30, 2018 9:43 PM

Is he still fat?

by Anonymousreply 80June 30, 2018 9:49 PM

R45 I'm sure the t-shirt is referring to the Alexander Wang brand, since Vera Wang is primarily a formal wear/homewares brand.

by Anonymousreply 81June 30, 2018 9:54 PM

R80, In the words of Penny Casper Morse: "Thin?! HAH!!!"

by Anonymousreply 82June 30, 2018 9:54 PM

Tyler Shields' brand of "art".

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by Anonymousreply 83June 30, 2018 9:54 PM

He wants us to speculate as to who he could be missing. He knows the games he's playing. It seems like a cry for attention.

by Anonymousreply 84July 1, 2018 1:45 AM

He really seems to have mental/psych issues. People like that are exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 85July 1, 2018 2:38 AM

R79 LOL

R84 I assumed he was talking about his mother.

by Anonymousreply 86July 1, 2018 5:04 PM

He's an actor. They're all insane.

by Anonymousreply 87July 1, 2018 5:32 PM

So who gets to lick his perky, erect nipples these days?

by Anonymousreply 88July 1, 2018 5:49 PM

Colton retweeted this nonsense.

juliantoscanojr: Can the sequel to #CallMeByYourName have @ColtonLHaynes and @StephenAmell k thanks.

by Anonymousreply 89July 4, 2018 1:49 AM

R89 It's not the worst idea.

by Anonymousreply 90July 5, 2018 7:27 PM

R90 What? Colton Haynes and Stephen Amell in the CMBYN sequel? No thanks.

by Anonymousreply 91July 5, 2018 11:07 PM

Happy 5th of July!

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by Anonymousreply 92July 6, 2018 5:51 PM

I basically live in Paris now. I am so jetlagged & couldn't even remember my email lol

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by Anonymousreply 93July 6, 2018 5:51 PM

Poor Colton! At least he made it to Paris for the TW reunion. I am surprised because he’s such an emotional wreck and I feel really bad for him. I don’t think he even has a home in LA now because that house is Jeff’s so it seems like Colton is going from place to place until he goes to Vancouver for the summer to shoot Arrow. Jeff did not cheat on Colton and was completely blindsided like that other poster said and Colton was the one who was going to gay bars without his rings and telling people he was single because Jeff was always out of town working. He lead Jeff on to believe he was ready for marriage and kids, etc which wasn’t true at all. The age difference didn’t help either because Jeff didn’t realize how immature Colton really was. Several of Colton’s relative’s have been reaching out to Jeff and he finally started following Clinton again but from what I understand he’s done with Colton’s drama and I really don’t know what’s going to happen to Colton now but some counseling would probably benefit him greatly at this point. Jeff’s getting ready to open another shop on the East coast too which probably contributed to the divorce because they were always apart and Colton is high maintenance and needs constant emotional support and attention so that marriage never would have worked!!! Jeff’s a complete workaholic and Colton likes to play around but work not so much!!!

by Anonymousreply 94July 7, 2018 6:14 AM

I could totally see Colton going to clubs without his rings as some immature way to send Jeff "a message". Rather than just talking with him. He definitely needs ALL the attention.

by Anonymousreply 95July 7, 2018 3:59 PM

Lmfao

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by Anonymousreply 96July 7, 2018 4:19 PM
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by Anonymousreply 97July 7, 2018 4:19 PM
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by Anonymousreply 98July 7, 2018 4:20 PM

r96 That's fucking cringy.

by Anonymousreply 99July 7, 2018 4:23 PM

Colton in those shades and INSYNC t-shirt is also cringey.

by Anonymousreply 100July 7, 2018 4:25 PM

They were there for a gangbang.

by Anonymousreply 101July 7, 2018 4:28 PM

R99 I know! But i'm just glad Hoechlin wasn't involved.

by Anonymousreply 102July 7, 2018 4:29 PM

[quote] Colton in those shades and INSYNC t-shirt is also cringey.

Not as cringey as the way you spelled *NSYNC.

by Anonymousreply 103July 7, 2018 4:29 PM

Is he still fat?

by Anonymousreply 104July 7, 2018 4:31 PM

His beard looks like Michael Jackson’s.

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by Anonymousreply 105July 7, 2018 4:31 PM

r103 you didn't understand my subtle misspelling of the word. It was a trap.

by Anonymousreply 106July 7, 2018 4:34 PM

YES post 94 sums it up.

by Anonymousreply 107July 7, 2018 6:08 PM

Congratulations to all of you who got a good nights sleep...I'm mad at every single one of you. 😒

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by Anonymousreply 108July 7, 2018 7:03 PM

I'm brain dead/jetlagged but I'm having a blast at our Teen Wolf Con! Love y'all!

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by Anonymousreply 109July 7, 2018 7:04 PM

How odd in that picture at R98, that the main two cast members of Teen Wolf - Tyler Posey and Dylan O'Brien - didn't show up for the reunion.

There must have been a lot of disappointed fans.

I guess those two think they are such big stars now, and can't be bothered with the show that put them on the map.

by Anonymousreply 110July 7, 2018 7:44 PM

What a neurotic, narcissistic attention whore.

by Anonymousreply 111July 7, 2018 7:55 PM

R110 It's not a reunion, it's a convention. Posey's done a few but he's expensive and so is Dylan, who has only done one.

by Anonymousreply 112July 7, 2018 8:00 PM

r94 I'm still looking for a single, shred of evidence that Colton is a slacker.

He's doing 3 or 4 TV shows at a time right now, plus bit parts in movies.

by Anonymousreply 113July 8, 2018 12:54 AM

Yes, not getting significant, good quality work (e.g. his cameo roles in bad movies) is not the same thing as being workshy. Colton's tweeted enough about being passed over for work. He's never bern THE star of anything, but he's been a regular on two long running series. He's done better than the vast majority of actors.

by Anonymousreply 114July 8, 2018 7:05 AM
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by Anonymousreply 115July 8, 2018 4:19 PM

Daddy daycare ➖😎➖

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by Anonymousreply 116July 9, 2018 3:45 PM

You can't be a "daddy" if you're a bottom, Colton at R116.

by Anonymousreply 117July 9, 2018 9:49 PM

I don't see Colton being a gay-bar whore unless it was to get back at Jeff for ignoring him. He needs constant attention/reinforcement, so hitting up the clubs was probably the way he dealt with Jeff's absence. Of course this insatiable need to be loved is what gives you a heart for the guy. He's like that cute dog that follows you around everywhere, even to the bathroom, and when you shut the door on him, he looks at you like his best friend just died.

by Anonymousreply 118July 10, 2018 12:17 PM

The groomed brows are heading into Adam Lambert/Human Ken Doll territory.

by Anonymousreply 119July 10, 2018 12:37 PM

He's a mess. I feel bad for him especially after losing his mom and husband in such a short time period. I get why an intelligent adult wouldn't want to waste time on this kind of crazy.

by Anonymousreply 120July 10, 2018 3:11 PM

Y'all already know! 👌 #ArrowSeason7

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by Anonymousreply 121July 10, 2018 8:19 PM

[quote] He's like that cute dog that follows you around everywhere, even to the bathroom, and when you shut the door on him, he looks at you like his best friend just died.

Plus, he's always trying to hump your leg.

by Anonymousreply 122July 10, 2018 8:26 PM

So it seems like somebody always has to be with Colton now and he can’t be by himself anymore. Ally is busy filming, Travis is busy with his music so Josh is on Colton duty and in Vancouver with Colton and for some reason being ambiguous about his sexuality because Josh has always said he was straight!! Plus now according to Josh Colton is suddenly EVERYTHING!! It feels like a whole lot of games are being played by Colton right now and it’s wierdaf. I mean Colton is always kinda weird but whatever is going on is bizarre!! 👀👀👀

by Anonymousreply 123July 11, 2018 10:26 PM

Any chance of a Jeff/Colton reunion?

by Anonymousreply 124July 12, 2018 4:01 PM

If you look at Jeff's instagram pics and stories,he seems to be doing just fine without him.It could be misleading of course but I think Jeff had enough of Colton's neediness and wanted out.

by Anonymousreply 125July 12, 2018 7:19 PM
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by Anonymousreply 126July 13, 2018 1:45 AM

I don't know why, but I think its funny that Colton is trying to butch up.

by Anonymousreply 127July 13, 2018 1:27 PM

Colton's submission or the In my Feelings challenge.

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by Anonymousreply 128July 15, 2018 4:03 PM
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by Anonymousreply 129July 15, 2018 4:44 PM

Damn the ink is barely dry on the divorce papers and Colton is already shacking up with some new dude!?! I guess maybe the rumors were true after all and Colton really did cheat on Jeff when he was working out of town!! Seems like Jeff really did dodge a bullet and now seems to be living his best life!! Good for him and good luck to this new dude because he’s got his hands full with Colton!! Yikes!!

by Anonymousreply 130July 16, 2018 7:49 AM

What new dude ?

by Anonymousreply 131July 16, 2018 7:54 AM

There's a new dude who?

by Anonymousreply 132July 16, 2018 1:41 PM

Wrong, r114.

I believe he was the lead of that American Horror Story installment, where he played the blond, bisexual detective.

by Anonymousreply 133July 16, 2018 3:10 PM

I knew Colton's overall flakiness was going to be a deal breaker for Jeff...guys of a certain age like Jeff generally don't like all that drama and inconsistency gurl. You need to have your shit together...

by Anonymousreply 134July 16, 2018 3:49 PM

There's no proof of "flakiness" or inconsistency, hater.

There's no proof of who soured the marriage, either. With Colton dumping Jeff and making the cheating accusation on social media first, it suggests Jeff was in the wrong.

But where was it proven?

by Anonymousreply 135July 16, 2018 4:16 PM

r135 gurl we aren't hating on Colton ok? I actually like the bitch but the truth is the truth

by Anonymousreply 136July 16, 2018 4:34 PM

I’m not sure who the guy is Colton has staying with him in Vancouver but he doesn’t look like Colton’s type at all!! I’m guessing he’s some hook up and nothing serious but he took him to Whistler, Canada which looks pretty remote and kind of romantic so who knows with Colton anymore!! As for Jeff and Colton let’s just say people in West Hollywood like to talk and it’s a very small community and Jeff was out of town working constantly and supposedly Colton was desperate to get Jeff’s attention. Whether or not he actually cheated I’m not sure but Jeff didn’t realize how insecure and emotionally unstable Colton really was and Colton didn’t realize that Jeff was a complete workaholic. Truth be told those guys didn’t know each other well enough to get married considering they got engaged after only 3 months of meeting in Paris but I’m not sure it would have worked anyway because they’re two totally different people and seem to want different things in life!!

by Anonymousreply 137July 16, 2018 7:14 PM

R137 You love to stir the pot, don't you? I won't believe the new guy until I see pictures.

As for that clip of Colton dancing, the adorableness is killing me. He also looks better.

by Anonymousreply 138July 16, 2018 11:17 PM

All the blinds hinted that Jeff was the one cheating, not Colton.

by Anonymousreply 139July 16, 2018 11:38 PM

R126's pic answered my question, Colton is still fat. That double chin... yikes! Where did his jawline go? 🤔

by Anonymousreply 140July 16, 2018 11:40 PM

Jeff was not cheating and neither was Colton as far as I know but Colton did go to a couple of gay bars without his wedding rings claiming he was single. Nobody believed him and knew he was pissed off and lashing out at Jeff because once again Jeff had left Colton alone and was working all over the country like China, Switzerland, Ireland, etc. and Colton had just lost his mom and needed Jeff desperately. The big displays and everything Jeff sent to Colton while he was gone didn’t mean shit because he wanted and needed Jeff’s presence both emotionally and physically and Jeff didn’t take it that serious I guess and Colton went totally sideways while Jeff was gone packed up and moved out and filed for divorce completely blindsiding Jeff but by that time it was too late and there was nothing Jeff could do so he just filed his response and his own petition for divorce and walked away. Jeff should have been much more attentive to Colton especially after he lost his mom but Jeff can be pretty hardcore at times I guess and didn’t realize how bad off Colton really was. It didn’t help that Colton had pretty much isolated himself from his friends too and I don’t know if that was because of Jeff or not. They both seem to be great now and doing well which is awesome and I’m pretty sure the little elephant that Jeff posted was for Colton’s Bday. Good thing he disabled the comments. LOL! Hopefully they’re at least still friends because they really did love each other so much and it’s just sad they couldn’t work it out as a couple. 😔😥

by Anonymousreply 141July 17, 2018 1:08 AM

As far as the guy that’s staying with Colton is concerned that the other poster is talking about. That’s Josh and as far as I know he’s just a friend of Colton’s and has been for many years and he was actually at Jeff and Colton’s wedding along with Travis, Ally, Travis, etc and I’m pretty sure he’s straight. Not that that matters of course but just trying to clarify things. I’m happy to see Colton smiling and laughing again and spending time with his friends. 😊😊

by Anonymousreply 142July 17, 2018 1:57 AM

R141 R142 how do you know Colton?

by Anonymousreply 143July 17, 2018 3:55 PM

[Quote] Truth be told those guys didn’t know each other well enough to get married considering they got engaged after only 3 months of meeting in Paris but I’m not sure it would have worked anyway because they’re two totally different people and seem to want different things in life!!

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by Anonymousreply 144July 17, 2018 4:30 PM

I don’t know Colton (143) but some of Colton’s friends have a tendency to talk way too much about stuff they shouldn’t be talking about and in places that are far too public and when I heard about what was happening with Jeff and Colton and saw Colton’s erratic and strange behavior on social media like deleting pictures of Jeff and then putting them back again, posting pictures of he and Jeff missing him and begging him to come home and leaving comments on Jeff’s pictures begging him to come home and then deleting them and deleting the Leatham out of his bio and then putting it back again it all made sense to me and it was clear that Colton was struggling and hurting so badly and Jeff didn’t seem to be acknowledging him or taking him serious at all. He kept doing stuff like that on and off for about a month or more and it was just so incredibly sad and I have no idea why Jeff was so oblivious to what was going on but he seems to be very focused on his business which is kind of understandable considering he is the business but when you have a brand new husband and marriage you need to make that a priority obviously and I guess Jeff didn’t and Colton did crazy things to get his attention so it was just a huge mess. They were supposed to go on a honeymoon and then Colton ended up in Hawaii by himself instead but that wasn’t really Jeff’s fault because at that time we were having wildfires here that were out of control and their ouse was in the fire path so Jeff had to come back here instead of going and joining Colton in Hawaii. That obviously was a huge part of the problem was the fact they were never together and they were so cute together and Colton seemed so happy but I think when he lost his mom is when he realized it wasn’t going to work between he and Jeff. That part I don’t know I’m just speculating but Colton obviously kept trying because his mom passed in March and Colton didn’t file for divorce until May but Jeff was gone for like a month at that time so I can’t really blame Colton and I’m not sure because I haven’t heard anything yet but it looks like Jeff may be trying to make amends and fix things with Colton but I doubt very seriously that it will work but you never know. I personally would love to see them work it out because Colton was so incredibly happy with Jeff and I hate to see him alone even though he has his friends but that’s just my opinion of course. 🤞🏻🤞🏻😊😊

by Anonymousreply 145July 18, 2018 3:34 AM

😺😺😺

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by Anonymousreply 146July 18, 2018 2:38 PM

Awww Colton. I want him to find someone who will actually give him attention instead of leaving him for months on end knowing his anxiety and personal issues.

by Anonymousreply 147July 18, 2018 3:14 PM

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

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by Anonymousreply 148July 19, 2018 10:57 PM

his house in the hollywood hills is his house, not his soon to be ex s. He furnished it basically buying slightly used stuff from rich people getting rid of stuff in estate and moving sales.........

by Anonymousreply 149July 20, 2018 1:08 AM

That house they’re in right now Jeff and Colton bought back in February of last year. I’m not sure if Colton kept the other house he was in before he and Jeff moved into their new house but I doubt it. There were pictures that they posted about their new house back when they bought it but they’ve all been deleted now. Jeff is still living in that house currently but I’m not sure about Colton considering he just got back from Vancouver and it looks like Jeff may have gone out to see Colton for his birthday which doesn’t surprise me at all because I think he’s been trying to fix things with Colton for awhile now and he was seen at the airport arriving with Colton but apparently didn’t want to answer questions or be papped which who can blame him. I’m guessing he’s letting Colton completely take the reins with this and that’s probably really smart. I really hope they can work things out because they were happy together!!

by Anonymousreply 150July 20, 2018 2:02 AM

R150 I wish they could work it out too.

by Anonymousreply 151July 20, 2018 3:29 AM

Well according to E Online Jeff did in fact go to Vancouver for Colton’s birthday and they spent the weekend together and apparently there is talk of a reconciliation. I don’t know how to post articles on here but the article includes inside sources and comments from Colton’s friends so keeping my fingers crossed that they can work it out!!

by Anonymousreply 152July 20, 2018 5:03 AM

You are exaggerating a bit r152.

[quote]"Colton and Jeff got off a flight together at LAX. They were returning from Vancouver where they celebrated Colton's birthday over the weekend," a source tells E! News of the sighting. "Colton is filming Arrow and Jeff was visiting him. It definitely seemed like they had reunited at least for the weekend." The insider adds that Haynes and Leatham were walking together through the terminal, but seemed to want to avoid paparazzi attention when they spotted photographers.

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by Anonymousreply 153July 20, 2018 3:23 PM

Touched down in SD. Comic Con...get ready. #wutangforever @wuwearofficial

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by Anonymousreply 154July 20, 2018 3:38 PM

You have to read the rest of the article (153). It explains how Colton has been struggling with grief since his mother’s sudden death and put their marriage into turmoil causing Colton to impulsively end things with Jeff but they’ve stayed in contact off and on since their split and are now considering reconciliation. I hope it works out for them. Colton deserves all the happiness in the world!!!!

by Anonymousreply 155July 20, 2018 4:18 PM

[quote] Jeff was a complete workaholic.

Stuffing far too many bunches of tied stems into various containers counts as work nowadays?

by Anonymousreply 156July 20, 2018 4:23 PM

They were a handsome pair. I hope they can work it out. Each will have to concede something. Colton will have to work on his grief and other issues and Jeff may need to work just a bit less and be more in tune to Colton's moodiness. Its not that uncommon for people to struggle a bit in the first couple years of marriage.

And R156 Have you seen Leatham's work? He's an artistic genius! His massive floral art works blow my mind....

by Anonymousreply 157July 20, 2018 5:35 PM

Jeff does work a lot. He has a booming career that is important to him. Colton's lazy ass doesn't understand what that means.

by Anonymousreply 158July 20, 2018 5:36 PM

R158 I don't think Colton is lazy. I do think he suffers from some emotional issues and perhaps that keeps him from having the same drive as Jeff. Two people as high-strung and highly motivated as Jeff would never make it together. Equally, two people who are natured like Colton wouldn't be likely to survive in a marriage either. They are yin-yang. It can work out...but it will take effort. I think it would be worth for them.

by Anonymousreply 159July 20, 2018 5:46 PM

He lost his mother. That's devistating if he didn't feel like his husband was there for him 100 % I don't blame his anger and emotional repsonses. Jeff seems like a workaholic and maybe doesn't undertand what someone needs. Flowers won't always cut it.

by Anonymousreply 160July 20, 2018 6:33 PM

[quote]Jeff seems like a workaholic

Colton seems very needy.

by Anonymousreply 161July 20, 2018 6:35 PM

I think Colton has emotional problems and they became deep after he lost his mother. He needs support and maybe professional help to get back on track.

by Anonymousreply 162July 20, 2018 6:55 PM

Maybe he also needs a colonic to purge all his unprocessed fecal material, R162:

by Anonymousreply 163July 20, 2018 7:06 PM

Day 1... #sdcc done...bring it on day 2

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by Anonymousreply 164July 21, 2018 3:32 PM

Back at #sdcc ! thx to @audi for gettin me this race car! #RS3

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by Anonymousreply 165July 21, 2018 3:33 PM

I think Colton looks great. Looking stronger.

by Anonymousreply 166July 21, 2018 3:36 PM

He looks good on Jensen's shoulder.

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by Anonymousreply 167July 21, 2018 4:50 PM

R167 I agree with you.

by Anonymousreply 168July 21, 2018 4:52 PM

Is he still fat?

by Anonymousreply 169July 21, 2018 9:42 PM

R169

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by Anonymousreply 170July 22, 2018 7:10 AM

It looks like he's been wearing a cross for a couple of days, is it Jeff's ?

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by Anonymousreply 171July 22, 2018 7:46 AM

Jeez hard to believe this was him just about a year ago That bloated face, nose looks bigger, those eye bags, the hot went away fast with this one.

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by Anonymousreply 172July 22, 2018 7:59 AM

There is no evidence that Colton is lazy.

r158 is just slinging random Hatorade.

by Anonymousreply 173July 22, 2018 8:05 AM

OMG, R170!

Colto is BLOATO!

by Anonymousreply 174July 22, 2018 8:20 AM

Today was a doozy. Thk god for @wuwearofficial & @soniayoungstyle . I got hella sea sick on 2 docked boats lol. #lightweight #Ihateboats also I just said hella & im proud of it

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by Anonymousreply 175July 22, 2018 4:37 PM

Extremely blessed to be with this group of ppl. #Arrow Season 7 is gonna be so special. I'm a lucky guy. Thk yall for comin to #sdcc to support us & show us ❤️

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by Anonymousreply 176July 22, 2018 4:38 PM

R170 that photo has been manipulated. He is losing weight, no matter what you bitches say.

by Anonymousreply 177July 23, 2018 12:38 AM

Why’s it going so slow then? He’s young & fit enough that it should come right off with a couple weeks of effort

by Anonymousreply 178July 23, 2018 12:41 AM

Is he wearing eyeliner?

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by Anonymousreply 179July 23, 2018 12:44 AM

No mincing words.

“I’m fat bitch! Suck my tits!”

Froy came swooping in with the support as well.

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by Anonymousreply 180July 23, 2018 12:47 AM

R179 That face is beat. The guyliner is just noticeable.

R178 He keeps drinking it back on, but he'll have to lose weight permanently or he'll look like a stuffed sausage in that red Arrow outfit.

by Anonymousreply 181July 23, 2018 12:52 AM

People are acting like the person who made the comment was being rude. The person didn't @ Colton. If Colton don't want to know what people think of him he needs to not search his name on Twitter or visit DL.

by Anonymousreply 182July 23, 2018 12:58 AM

I LOVE Rick Gonzales!!!!!!!!!

Colton’s makeup is very noticeable.

I can’t believe that he does Twitter searches of his name!

#Sad

by Anonymousreply 183July 23, 2018 1:07 AM

Is there anyone on earth more likely to search for their own name and respond bitchily than Colto?

by Anonymousreply 184July 23, 2018 1:10 AM

He must certainly find the threads here in his searches.

by Anonymousreply 185July 23, 2018 1:14 AM

The person who tweeted the question put their account on private. Who knew an MTV/CW actor had people who cared so much about him to go after Twitter posters?

by Anonymousreply 186July 23, 2018 1:16 AM

He posts here. Who else is defending his fat ass from the jealous bitches?

by Anonymousreply 187July 23, 2018 1:17 AM

R187 How do you know Colto posts here"

by Anonymousreply 188July 23, 2018 1:27 AM

I wish he'd have enough of a breakdown to release some amateur porn.

by Anonymousreply 189July 23, 2018 1:31 AM

Wow, that is quite a change in a year. The guyliner is cringy. What is causing all the facial bloat? What is his family ethnicity? For ex, people from the British Isles tend to age horribly and very quickly.

by Anonymousreply 190July 23, 2018 2:05 AM

He lookalike Boy George with guy liner

by Anonymousreply 191July 23, 2018 2:55 AM

You bitches need to slow down. Colton is looking great.

by Anonymousreply 192July 23, 2018 3:09 AM

He never looked like that when he was with me.

by Anonymousreply 193July 23, 2018 3:22 AM

Remember Trey and Colton's business endeavor that never happened?

HI8US is a refined collection created by Colton Haynes and Trey Alligood. The collaboration between the two started with their love of travel and given both of their backgrounds in fashion...HI8US was conceived. Colton and Trey share a vision for a brand that will focus not only on the essential classics but also impactful pieces that compliment and elevate every man's style. The brand is focused on quality, fit, exceptional fabrics and will be made in the USA. Currently in development, HI8US will launch in the fall of 2017.

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by Anonymousreply 194July 23, 2018 3:27 AM

It’s just like a real housewife to start some business venture based on fuck all.

by Anonymousreply 195July 23, 2018 3:42 AM

[quote]I LOVE Rick Gonzales!!!!!!!!!

I'd love for him to sit on my face.

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by Anonymousreply 196July 23, 2018 10:18 AM

So he did Anna's podcast with Stephen.

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by Anonymousreply 197July 23, 2018 3:52 PM
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by Anonymousreply 198July 23, 2018 3:53 PM

Truth r182, the person didn't even tag Colton in that tweet.

by Anonymousreply 199July 23, 2018 3:54 PM
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by Anonymousreply 200July 23, 2018 3:54 PM

I never realized Colton wore earrings before but this weekend he was wearing a really pretty diamond stud earring but it looked like it was only in one ear. He was also wearing what seems like a new diamond encrusted cross. I think he looks great and seems really happy. He also shaved and cleaned up really well and his wardrobe was amazing. What a difference between HATM2 in Paris and ComiCon. Maybe he and Jeff really are trying to put things back together and the new jewelry came from Jeff for his birthday because Jeff wears diamond earrings all the time and I think he got a diamond encrusted cross when he was in Hawaii, maybe he bought one for Colton too. Whatever is going on I’m really glad to see Colton so happy again and interacting with everybody. He seems like he’s almost back to his old self!!!

by Anonymousreply 201July 23, 2018 6:42 PM

Colton Haynes is such a fucking mess. He doesn't intensive therapy and to be comfortable with himself being entering a relationship, let alone a marriage.

by Anonymousreply 202July 23, 2018 10:29 PM

He does look pretty in make-up. His reference to Linda Evangelista makes me think he's watching Pose.

by Anonymousreply 203July 24, 2018 1:27 AM

He really does look like Boy George with makeup.

by Anonymousreply 204July 24, 2018 1:31 AM

Colton is just dealing with his grief. And I think he is doing better lately...so good for him. It seems he is geared to be a more emotional person and thats ok.

by Anonymousreply 205July 24, 2018 4:43 PM

Colton- don't get back with Jeff. I'm here for you! I'll give you everything you need. You're perfect!

by Anonymousreply 206July 24, 2018 5:08 PM

That's a wrap! Thk yall for showing us so much love at #sdcc once again!!!

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by Anonymousreply 207July 24, 2018 5:09 PM

This photo makes me laugh so hard & I don't know why. Gonna post it just in case I forget my own name 😂

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by Anonymousreply 208July 24, 2018 5:10 PM

That marriage was never meant to be.

In sickness and in health...and yet Jeff dumped him in a hot minute all because Colto couldn't keep his hole clean.

by Anonymousreply 209July 24, 2018 8:20 PM

"My brother Jensen Ackles." Oh, so Jensen is his brother of the week this time? I guess when Jensen told him to go read Leviticus 18:22, he must have thought it was just a book recommendation.

by Anonymousreply 210July 25, 2018 2:10 AM

Lol 210. I love this bitch’s drama. Every friend or coworker has to be a “brother” or some deep emotional bond. Every upset is some devastating emotional gut punch.

by Anonymousreply 211July 25, 2018 2:15 AM

r200 he will be downright fugly in 2-3 years.

by Anonymousreply 212July 25, 2018 2:29 AM

It is a shame a little weight completely fucked up his looks. He'll get it back. He is a beautiful man. I'd take him and his drama. I know how to take care of men like this.

by Anonymousreply 213July 25, 2018 4:01 PM

Yeah Colton Haynes is a textbook drama queen r210, everything has to be so exaggerated with him. Even at his peak hotness I'd think I'd get tired of him and walk away.

He seems like he would be a lot of fun to hang out with occasionally, but the the type of personality you want to deal with all the time.

by Anonymousreply 214July 25, 2018 4:51 PM

[Quote] Every friend or coworker has to be a “brother” or some deep emotional bond.

That hurts.

by Anonymousreply 215July 25, 2018 5:12 PM

This lil angel @emilybett 's Birthday is...TODAY!!! The second we met we became family. Traveled the world together & laughed about things only we understand cause we r a bunch of weirdos. Love you Em. You'll always be my wife even if I have to share you 😘😘😘Also fun fact...u share a birthday with the *NSYNC "Celebrity" Album. Love you lol ❤

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by Anonymousreply 216July 25, 2018 5:12 PM

He's cute and I want him back with his ex-husband, who is hot.

by Anonymousreply 217July 25, 2018 8:22 PM

[quote]He's cute and I want him back with his ex-husband, who is hot.

Jeff don't play with no dirty hole.

Colto should have cleaned himself better.

by Anonymousreply 218July 25, 2018 9:28 PM

She’s a famous painter.

by Anonymousreply 219July 25, 2018 9:37 PM

What happened to his BFF Ally Macky

by Anonymousreply 220July 25, 2018 10:30 PM

Ally has a series so she doesn't have time to babysit Colton.

[quote] . Love you Em. You'll always be my wife

Excuse me?!

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by Anonymousreply 221July 26, 2018 2:37 AM

R221 That's a cute photo.

by Anonymousreply 222July 26, 2018 3:42 PM

I don't hunt but I'm down for the gear @wutangclan . I also love that for those who know me know this is fake Pose Colton lol...it's just my go to yall! If y'all need posing classes I'll be avail soon 😂 Comin to a Dicks Sporting Goods near you lol

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by Anonymousreply 223July 26, 2018 3:43 PM

Meditating in AZ. Breathtaking.

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by Anonymousreply 224July 27, 2018 4:21 PM

Pose and Dicks. Coincidence? I think not.

by Anonymousreply 225July 27, 2018 11:06 PM

R225 ???

by Anonymousreply 226July 28, 2018 5:40 PM

Omg don't you guys just love Winter? ❄️

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by Anonymousreply 227July 30, 2018 3:17 PM

He sure knows how to work those skinny angles

by Anonymousreply 228July 30, 2018 4:14 PM

He has lost weight and looks great. He's in the gym now and I think its making him feel better emotionally.

by Anonymousreply 229July 30, 2018 5:21 PM

His face still looks fleshy , and he just looks tired all the time. Never will be as hot as he was just a few years ago he is ovee.

by Anonymousreply 230July 30, 2018 5:36 PM

Fat.

by Anonymousreply 231July 30, 2018 5:38 PM

He isn't fat! My lord people. I think he looks great!

by Anonymousreply 232July 30, 2018 5:38 PM

R232 he is bloated looking. He looks like the pig at a luau at r227 , he just needs an apple in his mouth.

by Anonymousreply 233July 30, 2018 5:44 PM

R233 You must be a self-loathing bastard. Colton Haynes is gorgeous by any standards. Even when he has not been his thinnest, he's still hotter than most guys. And look at all he's been through! His mother's death along with the break-up of his marriage has been overwhelming for him, I'm sure. Give him space to get sorted out! I'm still hoping he and Jeff can re-connect some way. They were good together. I just think Colton was going through a terrible time and Jeff was off working and not really able to be present for him. I felt bad for both of them when the marriage ended.

by Anonymousreply 234July 30, 2018 5:58 PM

[quote]His mother's death along with the break-up of his marriage has been overwhelming for him

Agree that the guy doesn't deserve all the invectives but let's not pretend like he doesn't have a lot to do with the break-up.

by Anonymousreply 235July 31, 2018 12:06 AM

Why doesn't he date Shawn Pyfrom, again? seems like they complimented each other well

by Anonymousreply 236July 31, 2018 12:17 AM

Is Pyfrom well-off, enough to sustain Colton in the lifestyle he's become accustomed?

by Anonymousreply 237July 31, 2018 12:21 AM

She’s already 30. Let’s wrap it up folks.

by Anonymousreply 238July 31, 2018 12:24 AM

Time to sashay away to the Timmy threads, R238.

by Anonymousreply 239July 31, 2018 12:29 AM

If Colty is fat I'd take him any day.

He and Shawn Pyfrom dated?

by Anonymousreply 240July 31, 2018 12:45 AM

Colton and Shawn were practically inseparable during the Camp Podwall orgy days. I'm pretty sure they grew apart because of Shawn's drug addiction.

by Anonymousreply 241July 31, 2018 1:19 AM

Shawn Stryofoam did drugs?

by Anonymousreply 242July 31, 2018 7:57 AM

R236 isn't Shawn still part of Camp Podwall?

by Anonymousreply 243July 31, 2018 3:01 PM

What is Camp Podwall? And I googled Shawn and gay and it said he is a straight actor who portrayed gay on DHW. Not that I doubt he is really gay.

by Anonymousreply 244July 31, 2018 3:10 PM

[quote]What is Camp Podwall?

Oh dear.

by Anonymousreply 245July 31, 2018 3:12 PM

R245 I know I know but I don't know so help me!

by Anonymousreply 246July 31, 2018 3:15 PM

R246 here

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by Anonymousreply 247July 31, 2018 3:17 PM

And furthermore here, a little profile on Eric Podwall and how he manages his clients

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by Anonymousreply 248July 31, 2018 3:19 PM

He has carb face, fat cheeks and double chin. Which is what is making him look fat, his body is pretty thin.

by Anonymousreply 249July 31, 2018 3:33 PM

R247 Many thanks!

by Anonymousreply 250July 31, 2018 3:41 PM

R250 You're welcome.

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by Anonymousreply 251July 31, 2018 4:31 PM

You should also know that some have concluded that Podwall was Colton's bf for six years.

by Anonymousreply 252July 31, 2018 4:40 PM

Colton and Shawn were never inseparable. They were pictured together at Camp Podwall events, that's all. And when Shawn came out about his drug issues, against Podwall's wishes, He was ghosted. Colton did what he was told.

by Anonymousreply 253July 31, 2018 5:38 PM

I haven't had a chance to listen to this but Drama King Colton, Stephen Amell and Grant Gustin were on Anna Faris' podcast and he talked about his divorce.  He was asked about his current relationship with Jeff and he said they're keeping things private.  I know some people on Twitter said Colton and Jeff are following each other again on IG.  Did they ever stop following each other?

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by Anonymousreply 254July 31, 2018 7:48 PM

R254 Yes they did. But I noticed Colton liked one of Jeff's IG posts from two days ago. I am pulling for them. I think they made a handsome couple and with a little give and take, they could make things work.

by Anonymousreply 255July 31, 2018 7:51 PM

[quote]Did they ever stop following each other?

That is how DL called that they were getting a divorce way before the media started reporting it.

by Anonymousreply 256July 31, 2018 8:02 PM

I can’t tell from that podcast if Colton and Jeff are actually divorced or not because Colton said past relationship but then talks like it’s in the present too so ..... but Colton said that he made Jeff a victim because he told everybody their business and that Jeff was actually very supportive of Colton although there were problems but he’s learning to be more positive. It seems like Jeff is a very positive person and Colton says he’s still going through some shit but it does sound like they’re trying to fix things and obviously now keeping it private. I also think Colton moved back into the house with Jeff when he got back from Vancouver and now he’s talking about getting a cat to expand his family??? What family??? I’m rooting for Jeff and Colton to make it through this and I hope Colton continues to get stronger and more positive because he does tend to be very negative which is sad!!

by Anonymousreply 257July 31, 2018 8:49 PM

Weren't there pictures of the two of them going to the lawyer's office to finalize the divorce?

by Anonymousreply 258July 31, 2018 8:56 PM

A positive or negative personality tendency is set pretty early in life. It can be tough to change a negative outlook but if you are aware of it, you can work on it. Jeff does seem very positive in all of his SM and that is probably just his way. I hope Jeff and Colton can stick it out.

by Anonymousreply 259July 31, 2018 9:14 PM

(258) I never saw any pictures of them together to finalize the divorce and I think Jeff was actually in Ireland when Colton filed for divorce completely blindsiding Jeff while he was working out of the country. I don’t think Jeff actually responded for awhile until he got back into the country but I never heard whether it was actually ever finalized or not. Actually I think Jeff held out even doing anything because he was still hoping for a reconciliation when he got back considering he didn’t change his hyphenated last name for a couple weeks after Colton had already filed for divorce.

by Anonymousreply 260July 31, 2018 9:33 PM

That's not true, their divorce filings were very coordinated r260.

Colton files for divorce May 8th, and Jeff filed his response May 10th. Both citing the same date of separation, irreconcilable differences, and asking the court not to award any spousal support.

by Anonymousreply 261July 31, 2018 9:42 PM

I think Colton needs a traditional "wife". Someone who'll move to Vancouver or wherever, when Colton gets a series (he's back as a regular on Arrow, right?), and make a home for them there.

Two career minded people whose work takes them away from home from extended periods of time? I don't see it working.

Once upon a time, I thought Colton could become a househusband to a wealthy guy. I don't think that now. His tendency towards depression, coupled with tendency to isolate himself... being a homemaker would allow those tendencies to mushroom. He's probably better working outside the home.

He lost his father to suicide. He moved in with his sister subsequrntly. He was estranged from his mother for long periods and she died of liver failure not long after they reconciled. He's been through it. I expect that he has huge abandonment issues. He may work on them but he may never be self sufficient enough to cope well without "the one" to hold him at night, every night.

Michelle Pfeiffer gave up far flung acting gigs (any that would take her away from home for more than two weeks) when she got married. She raised a family and she's still married to the same man.

by Anonymousreply 262July 31, 2018 10:25 PM

I don’t think Jeff responded to Colton’s petition until the 15th but I heard Colton completely blindsided Jeff with the divorce papers and he wasn’t even in the country. But apparently that was part of the problem and one of the reasons Colton filed was because Jeff was ALWAYS gone out of town working especially after he just lost his mom. I think Jeff was supportive of Colton but probably not as much as Colton wanted or needed him to be. It sounds like he’s doing better with that though which is great!! Keep staying positive Colton!!

by Anonymousreply 263July 31, 2018 10:25 PM

R262 I will volunteer to be Colton's "wife" any time any day he needs me.

by Anonymousreply 264July 31, 2018 10:30 PM

Wow, that pic at R254, his eyes just look so sad! The contrast with Jeff's eyes twinkling and beaming smile is striking.

by Anonymousreply 265July 31, 2018 10:40 PM

That podcast was pretty revealing in that Stephen seemed to be in agreement that Colton made Jeff into a victim and talked about their business way too much to everybody. Colton seems to be at a boot camp in AZ right now and meditating and getting healthy so I hope he can gain some more perspective and clarity and figure out what he really wants going forward. Jeff seems to be supporting Colton in whatever way he can but they definitely are keeping things private and I could also tell in that podcast that Colton was being careful of what he said and how much he revealed and said “this person” instead of saying Jeff’s name which is smart and progress even though everybody knew he was obviously talking about Jeff and he’s clearly still struggling but that’s to be expected after everything he’s gone through. I’m actually glad that they’re keeping things private between them now because it will make things easier for Colton in the long run and Jeff won’t be under such scrutiny anymore from Colton’s fans which want really, really ugly after they separated.

by Anonymousreply 266July 31, 2018 10:52 PM

How is saying "this person" clever?

by Anonymousreply 267July 31, 2018 11:18 PM

Is Trey seeing anyone?

by Anonymousreply 268July 31, 2018 11:19 PM

[quote]Once upon a time, I thought Colton could become a househusband to a wealthy guy. I don't think that now. His tendency towards depression, coupled with tendency to isolate himself... being a homemaker would allow those tendencies to mushroom. He's probably better working outside the home.

ITA. Being a male wife is not for him. Therefore I don't see him having success with any marriage until he is much older and is comfortable with himself enough

by Anonymousreply 269July 31, 2018 11:25 PM

[quote]That podcast was pretty revealing in that Stephen seemed to be in agreement that Colton made Jeff into a victim and talked about their business way too much to everybody.

That goes along with Colton's IMO, juvenile, attitude that everyone he interacts with is his brother/his wifey/his bff.  It's understandable to tell your close friends about what is going on in your life, but I'm sure he was popping off to everyone about their troubles. When you do that you're only giving your perspective which is  not always what is factual. Already you're poisoning the well because the ones you're confiding in have the relationship with you; not your partner.

[quote]Colton seems to be at a boot camp in AZ right now and meditating and getting healthy so I hope he can gain some more perspective and clarity and figure out what he really wants going forward.

He truly needs to work on himself because when he was glass closeted that caused him angst; coming out stressed him out so much he had to be hospitalized; then getting married then divorced. He needs to get deeply introspective about what he views being content means  instead of thinking "This One Thing/One Person will bring me happiness".

by Anonymousreply 270July 31, 2018 11:27 PM

(267) I didn’t say clever I said smart because apparently Colton was talking to everybody about Jeff and turning him into the victim and I mean everybody not just his close friends and if he really is trying to work things out with Jeff then keeping his name out of the press as far as their personal issues goes is probably a pretty good idea especially considering who Jeff is and who he’s associated with. He doesn’t strike me as somebody who wants their dirty laundry broadcasted all over dodge.

by Anonymousreply 271July 31, 2018 11:34 PM

That article that links to the podcast is about Colton and... Jeff.

Colton didn't talk at length publicly about Jeff around the time of the split. What he did was put out that song about Podwall, which lots of people thought was about Jeff. That was truly shitty. Colton isn't a drama queen. He's a stunt queen. Trey, Jerreth, and even Podwall, got off easy in comparison.

by Anonymousreply 272July 31, 2018 11:39 PM

They are together but staying private which I think is a good thing. Jeff was with him in Arizona. Coltons trainer commented on one of Jeff's IG posts about bringing things with him to boot camp. On one of Colton insta stories u can see Jeff in the background at the gym but never on purpose.

by Anonymousreply 273July 31, 2018 11:40 PM

Colto is all kinds of fucked up. I never knew blond twinks had it so hard.

by Anonymousreply 274July 31, 2018 11:48 PM

Everyone is also assuming they are divorced. The papers were filed but it takes 6 months in California for a divorce to be approved. I wouldn't be s uprised if Colton retracted his papers. I think he was in a really bad place emotionally after the death of his mom. When she first got sick which was right after he filmed for arrow it seemed like him and Jeff were fighting. His rings were off while he was in Vancouver (january) and Jeff was posting pics of their house before they moved in with words from chers "if i could turn back time" as an apology I'm guessing. Soon after Colton put Jeff's last name back on his page. They need to actually spend time together. Once they were married they were rarely in the same country. That's hard on any marriage.

by Anonymousreply 275July 31, 2018 11:50 PM

The Swede has it hard at least twice a day.

by Anonymousreply 276July 31, 2018 11:52 PM

Many fangurls on this thread clucking about what they think they know.

It's funny.

by Anonymousreply 277July 31, 2018 11:55 PM

I typically enjoy the DL gossip gals who are allergic to receipts. It’s been kind of fun in this thread. It’s getting a bit repetitive in the numerous Markle threads. I guess you take the bad with the good.

by Anonymousreply 278August 1, 2018 12:04 AM

You know what's not fun? People who claim to be in the know but only share that apparent fact rather than the actual juice.

by Anonymousreply 279August 1, 2018 12:05 AM

Colton sounds super gay on this podcast. I didn't realise that he butches up his voice.

by Anonymousreply 280August 1, 2018 12:15 AM

Everybody needs a hobby, R279.

Come on “insiders”, share more with us. How does Colton really feel?

by Anonymousreply 281August 1, 2018 12:18 AM

Stephem Amell talking about missing his ex is awkward. Though in talking "about" her, he only mention circumstantial things (cottage, boat, sunset), nothing particular to her.

by Anonymousreply 282August 1, 2018 12:25 AM

What are you talking about R282? SA's "ex"? He's married still.

by Anonymousreply 283August 1, 2018 12:27 AM

Stephen Amell is twice married.

by Anonymousreply 284August 1, 2018 12:32 AM

Well looks like Colton isn’t in AZ anymore and that’s the backyard of the house he lives in with Jeff so I hope they’re working on their relationship. I agree with (275) and I think it does take about 6 months to get a divorce in California and with all the things they have between them probably even longer than that. Colton seems like he’s okay again although trying not to show the actual full backyard of the house and only the side view which is interesting. Keeping positive thoughts for those guys. I think if Jeff has the patience and understanding that Colton needs about his depression and anxiety issues then they might just have a chance of making things work because it seems like Colton did have a sort of break through and wants to have a more positive attitude about things.

by Anonymousreply 285August 1, 2018 12:38 AM

[quote]Colton isn't a drama queen. He's a stunt queen

I have seen his stunt queen ways from day 1. Honey, if you are filing for divorce, a dramatic and serious action in a relationship, after just 6 months, then that means trying to make things work is futile. The fact that he is even trying to reconcile is a stunt waiting to happen, because we all know (and deep down he knows) he is just going to leave again.

by Anonymousreply 286August 1, 2018 12:44 AM

So out of curiosity I did some research and Colton and Jeff are not legally divorced. They only filed for divorce but California is the one state where it takes 6 months from the date you actually serve your partner with divorce papers and not from the date you file for divorce so they won’t be divorced until around November if they actually go through with it. Apparently California wants to be able to give the parties filing for divorce a chance to change their minds and work things out so hopefully Colton and Jeff will be able to fix things before that 6 month period ends!!

by Anonymousreply 287August 1, 2018 3:47 AM

How many times can one say they hope Colton and Jeff will be able to fix things? Judging by the recent dozens of posts here, the sky is the limit.

by Anonymousreply 288August 1, 2018 6:01 AM

I don't know him.

by Anonymousreply 289August 1, 2018 6:02 AM

I wonder if anyone here is pulling for them.

by Anonymousreply 290August 1, 2018 7:59 AM

Newly Single Colton Haynes Says He's 'Learning to Be More Positive'

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by Anonymousreply 291August 1, 2018 8:19 AM

I can’t wait for his next crash and burn.

by Anonymousreply 292August 1, 2018 9:12 AM

His new Instagram story posts are increasingly unhinged from about 3AM PST this morning. He is going after some “journalist.”

“Enter FUCK YOU emoji here. You vile press know how you are even tho I’m extremely nice to you. Hope u enjoyed ur slow news day. Also if I didn’t say it before ... fuck you 😘. Sad u couldn’t be there for me during during these trying times. Oh... there’s plenty more to come...get ready 😇”

“My new favorite thing will be exposing the ‘journalists’ that that say mean/untrue things about ppl & letting them explain what made them do so. Times are changing & bullying will not be tolerating in any sense.”

“Y’all fake press wanna fuck with me hahahah...baby let the games begin! I’ve waited too long for this 😇”

by Anonymousreply 293August 1, 2018 1:11 PM

That Instagram post certainly answers the question of the title of this thread. He needs to get back to meditating.

It's not quite at the Javier Munoz level of meltdown but I can see it getting there.

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by Anonymousreply 294August 1, 2018 2:02 PM

What is he even bitching about?

by Anonymousreply 295August 1, 2018 2:05 PM

What article(s) ?

by Anonymousreply 296August 1, 2018 2:38 PM

I'm surprised DL's professional sleuths have not already solved these enigmatic posts yet. You guys are slipping. Who is Colton referring to?

by Anonymousreply 297August 1, 2018 2:49 PM

Is he talking about TMZ or.....???

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by Anonymousreply 298August 1, 2018 2:49 PM

R298 I'm not sure, as their last post about Colton was a month ago and addressed the divorce. He's sure got his boy panties in a wad about somebody though.

by Anonymousreply 299August 1, 2018 2:54 PM

He wrote "slow news day" so he's referring to outlets that picked up on his comments on Anna Faris' podcast. His Google alert on himself must have picked up on unflattering sites.

by Anonymousreply 300August 1, 2018 3:03 PM

Hasn't he learned? Don't put your personal life out there for public consumption. They way they falunted their "what movies are made of" romance was a huge mistake. It seemed they loved the press and fame of it all. Now he's pissed becuase people are talking about him then stop putting it out there. Showcasing your marriage for publicity is your choice and now that it's done you can't just think it's no longer a shit show for everyone to comment on.

Learn your lesson. Shut your mouth. Don't put it all out there.

by Anonymousreply 301August 1, 2018 4:04 PM

Famewhores gonna whore, R301... there's no reining them in.

by Anonymousreply 302August 1, 2018 4:08 PM

This suspense is terrible. I hope it will last.

by Anonymousreply 303August 1, 2018 4:09 PM

HIs reappearance at the end of the "Arrow" season was … let's just say he was looking VERY puffy. I was shocked that his normal chiseled good looks and strong jaw line had practically turned into a moon-pie-face.

Since he's going to be a regular on the next Season of Arrow for some reason, I hope he returns to working out and gets back to his good-looking glory. Because yeesh.

by Anonymousreply 304August 1, 2018 5:08 PM

[quote]Sad u couldn’t be there for me during during these trying times.

Does this bitch think it's a privilege to babysit him?

by Anonymousreply 305August 1, 2018 5:25 PM

He already took the posts down, he either woke up and realized he shouldn't of said it OR Jeff made him remove them lol. You can't ask for privacy by attacking the ones u want privacy from. I like Colton, I'm sure he will be fine but sometimes ya just gotta think before typing.

by Anonymousreply 306August 1, 2018 5:29 PM

I was like Colton once and would post my true feelings and then remove the posts when I thought better of it. If one is an honest person, it's hard not to be honest about one's feelings, but one must realize the world is built on artifice, and realness not only is not valued, but also is not wanted.

I imagine it is hard for Colton to stuff his feelings, but he needs to realize people will prey on him and exploit him if they know he's vulnerable.

It's a quandary since most of his "fans" appreciate the fact that he is honest and on the level - it makes him different/real, but at the same time it also makes him subject to the whims of the press.

by Anonymousreply 307August 1, 2018 6:15 PM

A guy who was in the closet for AGES, even when part of a very pro-gay show like Teen-Wolf, where every guy there was comfortable pandering to gay fans and "playing gay".... is hardly honest.

I respect that he FINALLY came out, but for a guy who started out as "Out" with his XY photo spread and public boyfriend, it's a little hard to take that it took him so long. But beyond that, things like what he posted aren't actually "honest", they're heat of the moment ramblings. Even the most honest person shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff.

by Anonymousreply 308August 1, 2018 6:24 PM

[Quote] A guy who was in the closet for AGES, even when part of a very pro-gay show like Teen-Wolf, where every guy there was comfortable pandering to gay fans and "playing gay".... is hardly honest.

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by Anonymousreply 309August 1, 2018 6:35 PM

None of the guys on Teen Wolf were out.

Colton Haynes, Charlie Carver, JR Bourne.

by Anonymousreply 310August 1, 2018 6:41 PM

twitter is laughing at Colton for his meltdown

by Anonymousreply 311August 1, 2018 6:44 PM

Who is this incessant Jeff fan at r285 who keeps "rooting for Jeff and Colton to see it through?"

What if Jeff is an asshole?

Why did they break up in the first place?

Why did Colton Haynes settle for a florist, anyway?

On what planet is Jeff "hot" without confirmation of sizemeat?

Why are you rooting for a marriage to last when you don't know the details?

by Anonymousreply 312August 1, 2018 6:52 PM

[quote]Why did Colton Haynes settle for a florist, anyway?

Are you the poster who always says things like that? As if Leatham wasn't the one bringing home more money.

by Anonymousreply 313August 1, 2018 6:55 PM

Money isn't everything.

by Anonymousreply 314August 1, 2018 7:00 PM

I think it's funny how people act like Colton is poor. The guy is a millionaire, does it really matter which one has more millions? When I listened to thwnsing he put out it was clear it wasn't about Jeff but maybe in a way it was a message to him. He's not going to travel around with him while Jeff works. He did that already and he hated it. I don't think either of them cheated. I saw a pic or 2 of guys at their house when Colton was away. I think they both liked to make eachother jealous.

by Anonymousreply 315August 1, 2018 7:01 PM

r312 I mentioned in one of the threads about Colto getting divorced that there was one incessant fangirl that was constantly shitting up his threads with cutesy supportive messages. I think r285 is probably her.

by Anonymousreply 316August 1, 2018 7:28 PM

Maybe he's pissed at being newly single while he and Jeff may still be trying to work out.

He needs to learn that social media is about promoting his work. Post some cute pics, silly stuff - whatever keeps his relateable factor up - but don't speak on things that involve other (living) people in his personal life. It's not that difficult.

by Anonymousreply 317August 1, 2018 8:28 PM

*pissed at being referred to as Newly Single by a journalist

by Anonymousreply 318August 1, 2018 8:47 PM

I don't think 'Arrow' will recreate the storyline of Roy Harper becoming addicted to heroin because, well, you know why.

by Anonymousreply 319August 1, 2018 8:58 PM

I think he is pissed at being called “newly single” because I don’t think he is considering he’s obviously moved back in with Jeff. When he said past relationship I was wondering if he might have been talking about someone else and not Jeff? That podcast was kind of confusing and he never actually mentioned Jeff’s name. But where did he get being bullied out of any of what was said in those articles? That doesn’t even make any sense.

by Anonymousreply 320August 1, 2018 8:59 PM

I noticed that he said they'd been talking for an hour yet the interview was only around twenty minutes in, so they cut most of it out.

by Anonymousreply 321August 1, 2018 9:05 PM

Colton is very thin skinned. Why is he worried about what some journalist is saying about him? The way he writes makes it look as if he’s a teenager, not a grown man in his 30s. Embarrassing.

by Anonymousreply 322August 1, 2018 9:07 PM

My impression from these threads is that the press do not go hard on Colton. I guess he views speculation about his relationship status as an added stressor while he's trying to decide for himself...

The comment about them not being there for him... Yikes. Get off social media, Colton. The press will never be there for you. They're not your friends.

by Anonymousreply 323August 1, 2018 9:12 PM

He has Tyler Hoechlin and Stephen Amell as buddies and he's whining about random people in the press not offering shoulders to cry on!

by Anonymousreply 324August 1, 2018 9:16 PM

I didn't think he was talking about Jeff in the podcast. It sounded to me like he regretted releasing the song bc it made the other person out to be the bad guy when he had just as much to do with it bc he can be pretty negative. I honestly think he's afraid to be 100%happy, one foot in one foot out of a relationship in his mind stops him from getting hurt. I hope he works on that bc let's be honest that doesn't work for anyone.

by Anonymousreply 325August 1, 2018 9:29 PM

I don’t really understand why Colton would get so pissed off about someone calling him “newly single” unless maybe Jeff got upset by Colton talking to the press but I doubt that considering it’s part of Colton’s job and Jeff knows that. Then again maybe he wasn’t talking about Jeff and the press assumed he was and printed unconfirmed bullshit. But I mean come on that’s what those rags do. I did feel sorry for Colton though because he said he was fired from the biggest job of his career because he looked dead in the eyes or something like that. He’s clearly struggling with a lot more than just his relationship issues with Jeff.

by Anonymousreply 326August 1, 2018 9:41 PM

If it's the six year guy, I doubt it. Colton was cheated on by that guy.

And Colton had Jerreth untag him when Jerreth posted a prom pic of them.

And then there's Trey, where Colton wiped theirs pics from his Insta and put the kibosh on their business venture.

Jeff is the only one who's gotten heat from Colton's social media messiness. It would be hilariously lacking in sense if Colton were thinking of X, Y, Z before Jeff.

by Anonymousreply 327August 1, 2018 10:44 PM

[Quote] I did feel sorry for Colton though because he said he was fired from the biggest job of his career because he looked dead in the eyes or something like that.

What gig was that?

by Anonymousreply 328August 1, 2018 10:47 PM

I don’t know (328) that’s just what he said in that podcast he did with Stephen.

(327) I kind of think he was talking about a lot of different things and nothing specific. He even apologized for trying to turn that podcast into a therapy session and that he’s just going through some shit right now. He had to have been talking about Jeff in some context I’m sure but making him a victim? I don’t think Jeff would stand for that at least for very long anyway. As for Colton talking about their business with everybody I can certainly see that happening and I agree Jeff has gotten a lot of heat and drama from being Colton’s husband, probably more than he was ever expecting. LOL!! I like Colton and I hope for the best for him and I wish Jeff luck but I think if anybody can make it work with Colton it’s probably Jeff because he seems really positive and grounded and clearly has his shit together and that’s what Colton needs to balance out his emotional issues. It’s just my opinion of course.

by Anonymousreply 329August 2, 2018 12:23 AM

Jeff can afford to be "positive" if he flits all over the place and send flowers in lieu of actually being there in for someone in person. We know he's good at grand gestures but what about the nitty gritty?

And how grounded and "shit together" can he be when he was the one who proposed after 5 minutes of "whirlwind romance"?

It's makes complete sense that Colton was the most "together" under Podwall.

by Anonymousreply 330August 2, 2018 12:50 AM

I agree. Jeff didnt need to leave for 3 weeks after coltons mom passed, he has employees and people he sends in his place all the time. Not everyone is good at comforting others, me included but there is some stuff u gotta stick around for...even if your just in the damn house. Grand gestures get old.

by Anonymousreply 331August 2, 2018 1:58 AM

[quote]Jeff didn't need to leave for 3 weeks after Colton's mom passed,

Colton didn't need to party a few days before and a few days after his mom's death. His brother need not beg for Gofundme for post-hospital care for 20 K when Colton spends thousands of dollars every month on his vacation.

It is hilarious to see that Colton's fangurls were defending him [at the time ] when he was partying when his mother was in death bed and he did again just after her death.

But Jeff should not go out for 3 weeks for his work related stuff

by Anonymousreply 332August 2, 2018 3:03 AM

I don’t know how to post pictures here but Colton looks great tonight and really happy. Kind of sporting a different look then I’ve seen before but he’s with Travis and Ally, etc., celebrating his Birthday and he’s wearing a diamond earring, diamond cross and a ring of some sort but I think it’s on his right ring finger and not the left. I’m glad to see him out and about with his friends after his almost meltdown last night. It’s nice to see that he didn’t isolate himself like he usually would do. So that’s progress!!

by Anonymousreply 333August 2, 2018 7:07 AM

Colton should not be out partying last night when his mother is dead and his brother is poor. He should send that partying money to his brother. And if I see him at an amusement park within the next five years...

by Anonymousreply 334August 2, 2018 7:31 AM

[Quote] I don’t know how to post pictures here but Colton looks great tonight

Where did you see them?

by Anonymousreply 335August 2, 2018 7:38 AM

R333 lies! He’s a bloated mess

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by Anonymousreply 336August 2, 2018 7:46 AM

He’s lost weight?

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by Anonymousreply 337August 2, 2018 7:47 AM

Corpulent

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by Anonymousreply 338August 2, 2018 7:48 AM

What's with the Kevin Federline cubic zirconium studs from 2005?

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by Anonymousreply 339August 2, 2018 1:21 PM

Didn't he begin hitting the gym for Arrrow? He doesn't seem to have made much progress in getting back in shape. Either he is being lazy or is on antidepressants and can't shake the weight.

by Anonymousreply 340August 2, 2018 1:22 PM
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by Anonymousreply 342August 2, 2018 1:23 PM

[Quote] And if I see him at an amusement park within the next five years...

Oh that's definitely going to happen. Why is that a bad thing?

[Quote] What's with the Kevin Federline cubic zirconium studs from 2005?

Lmao

by Anonymousreply 343August 2, 2018 3:39 PM

I think the diamond earring is one of Jeff’s because he wears diamond stud earrings all the time but he wears them on both ears whereas Colton only seems to wear one. It matches the diamond cross he’s wearing too and that looks identical to the one Jeff was wearing in Hawaii a few weeks ago. So what now he’s trying to match his husband? Although I think the cross may have come from Jeff for his Birthday because he wasn’t wearing it at HATM in Paris and it seemed to show up for the first time at ComicCon after he got back from Vancouver. Whatever is going on Colton seems to be really happy and all about kids and cats which is interesting!!

by Anonymousreply 344August 2, 2018 6:51 PM

He's had the cross since Christmas which was a gift from Jeff. When they broke up there are pics of Jeff wearing 2 crosses, one of them being Coltons.

by Anonymousreply 345August 2, 2018 7:20 PM

The cross was a Xmas present from Jeff, when they broke up Jeff started to wear both crosses. Looks like he gave it back to him when they reconciled in vancouver.

by Anonymousreply 346August 2, 2018 7:23 PM

[quote] He should send that partying money to his brother.

Should he? I mean sure that would be nice of him, but Colton's brother is an adult, and it is not Colton's responsibility to pay for his life.

by Anonymousreply 347August 2, 2018 7:23 PM

I think Colton is looking great....

by Anonymousreply 348August 2, 2018 7:52 PM

(345) (346) That’s awesome and thanks for the information but how do you guys know for sure that the cross came from Jeff for Christmas? I did see Jeff wearing 2 crosses a few times but I didn’t realize one was Colton’s. I’m happy to see that they reconciled and didn’t go through with the divorce. I really love them together and they both seem to be happy again!!

by Anonymousreply 349August 2, 2018 7:52 PM

Have u not noticed that u don’t know how to respond to a previous post?

Just type a r then the number.

by Anonymousreply 350August 2, 2018 9:21 PM

It is two extra letters to type "you" r350. I believe in you, you can do it.

by Anonymousreply 351August 2, 2018 9:27 PM

I think Colton is looking really good. I mean for the longest time all he was wearing was what looked like the same ripped jeans and black T-shirt with Gucci loafers and smoking like a fiend. It’s nice to see him so much more put together now and obviously back to working out. It would seem that reconciling with his husband has made a world of difference for Colton!

by Anonymousreply 352August 2, 2018 9:57 PM

Don't set your expectations too high, R351. Those people aren't the brightest flash in the camera phone.

by Anonymousreply 353August 2, 2018 10:05 PM

Colton is what Dylan Geick will become.

by Anonymousreply 354August 2, 2018 10:26 PM

Why do so many gay actors become so effeminate after coming out? Is that a trend? I'm seriously curious. Most gays I know who came out who were masculine remained as such, including myself. Is that a front to garner followers?

by Anonymousreply 355August 2, 2018 10:33 PM

R355 colton was always a fem little bitch

by Anonymousreply 356August 2, 2018 10:37 PM

Colton's masculinity was a front, not his natural personality. He even talked about that in interviews, how Podwall would try to make him hide his real personality.

A lot of actors are that way, I remember Matt Dallas during the "Kyle XY" era trying to act all masc, when the truth is that isn't him at all.

by Anonymousreply 357August 2, 2018 10:37 PM

Or maybe he queens out. It doesn't have to be either/or.

by Anonymousreply 358August 2, 2018 11:31 PM

LA HEATWAVE 🔥

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by Anonymousreply 359August 3, 2018 3:54 PM

To whom this concern?

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by Anonymousreply 360August 3, 2018 3:57 PM

R360 Some thought Colton was talking about his mom, others said he was talking about Jeff. Either way, it fits.

by Anonymousreply 361August 3, 2018 4:03 PM

Clearly, R360, it was and will ALWAYS BE about moi!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 362August 3, 2018 5:13 PM

Very happy to see Jeff and Colton are back together and Jeff is finally where he should be right beside his husband supporting him and loving him through what had to be the hardest and most painful day of Colton’s life instead of running all over the country even though I know it’s part of what he has to do for work but I’m so glad he was there this weekend for Colton!! My heart is breaking for him & his family right now!! What a beautiful tribute to his mom on her Birthday and how wonderful to see that the whole family was able to be there!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

by Anonymousreply 363August 5, 2018 6:59 AM

?

by Anonymousreply 364August 5, 2018 10:08 AM

It's not going to last R363.

Sooner or later Jeff will have to work and poor Colty will be alone, having another meltdown. Again.

by Anonymousreply 365August 5, 2018 11:31 AM

Happy Birthday Momma. The whole family is celebrating you today. We miss you so much. I can barely breathe. I miss & love you too much ❤

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by Anonymousreply 366August 5, 2018 3:26 PM

Spreading my mom's ashes on her birthday with my family. What an emotional/beautiful experience. Words can describe what happened today. #JennyLake ❤❤❤

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by Anonymousreply 367August 5, 2018 3:27 PM
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by Anonymousreply 368August 5, 2018 3:27 PM

JEFF with the Family!

by Anonymousreply 369August 5, 2018 3:32 PM

Duckface for dead mom. Nice [R366]

Colton is hot, but I don't know how anyone could put up with him longterm. He'd be a great fuckbuddy, but girl is a mess. Constant meltdowns, co-dependence, etc.

In college, I had a friend who OD'd because her boyfriend was at work. He worked at a pizza place across the street. People like this can never get enough love or reassurance and sooner or later, they'll suck you dry.

by Anonymousreply 370August 5, 2018 4:08 PM

Duckface AND Gucci shirt.

by Anonymousreply 371August 5, 2018 4:54 PM

Shit, maybe Podwall slept with someone else just to get a rest from Colton. A couple peaceful hours was the real attraction, not simply playing in someone new.

by Anonymousreply 372August 5, 2018 7:42 PM

I think Colton is going to be fine. So he's had a hard time. But he's coming out on the other side being stronger and trying to learn from past mistakes. What else can we expect from someone? And I think Jeff is right for Colton, I really do. People don't get everything right on the first or second try. That's life.

by Anonymousreply 373August 7, 2018 12:23 AM

I agree and it looks like Jeff is in it for the long haul this time whereas before I don’t think he even realized how bad Colton’s anxiety and depression issues really are. He certainly does seem to love Colton a lot and has stopped all the grand gestures and started being physically present which is what Colton needs and I think it speaks volumes that he was there along with all of Colton’s family members for his mom’s memorial service. Colton does seem to be getting stronger and wanting to better himself and I’ve also noticed where they’re no longer sharing their relationship on social media which considering what they were doing before is probably really smart because that was pretty insane. The more private the better especially because Colton has a tendency to go sideways just like he almost did the other night but thankfully he was stopped or he stopped himself before it was turned into a circus. That’s progress for Colton!!!! Plus Colton and Jeff aren’t actually divorced so hopefully they stopped all the divorce proceedings and bullshit and are keeping everything private now and working on fixing their marriage!!!

by Anonymousreply 374August 7, 2018 2:08 AM

Colto is looking really trim and fit these days. So masculine, too.

by Anonymousreply 375August 7, 2018 2:13 AM

Aww it’s nice to see Colton supporting his husband again and the family pictures are so sweet. Those outfits that Colton and Jeff are wearing are amazing. LOL!! It’s wonderful to see them in such a great place again and both guys seem very happy!! Hoping that Colton keeps getting stronger and continuing to communicate his feelings rather than isolating himself which is what he normally does. He looks really good!

by Anonymousreply 376August 8, 2018 7:15 PM

He hasn't looked this good in quite awhile.

by Anonymousreply 377August 8, 2018 8:13 PM

See y'all in Toronto! ❤❤❤

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by Anonymousreply 378August 10, 2018 12:12 PM

Mon petit ami est tres beau, n'est pas?

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by Anonymousreply 379August 11, 2018 1:46 AM

Ok I liked this photo more so all of yall better relike it 😂 It's Yeezy like Friday morning...I mean...afternoon? I don't know what day it is. But I'm lovin these shoes for real...I mean Pharrell. Ok I'll stop now lol

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by Anonymousreply 380August 11, 2018 12:50 PM

Colton needs some reassuring, I guess.

[quote] I am actually extremely insecure. I've always been. Even when at my best I was very modest.

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by Anonymousreply 381August 13, 2018 2:04 PM

R381 Sounds like he's been reading Datalounge, lol.

by Anonymousreply 382August 13, 2018 2:16 PM

Currently streaming.

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by Anonymousreply 383August 13, 2018 2:19 PM

How can anyone be in a relationship with someone who needs CONSTANT reassuring?

by Anonymousreply 384August 13, 2018 4:33 PM

I'm sure that's common with alot of actors R384

by Anonymousreply 385August 13, 2018 4:43 PM

[Quote] How can anyone be in a relationship with someone who needs CONSTANT reassuring?

By becoming their manager and getting paid for your time.

by Anonymousreply 386August 13, 2018 4:56 PM

[Quote] I am actually extremely insecure. I've always been. Even when at my best I was very modest.

Modest?

by Anonymousreply 387August 13, 2018 4:58 PM

I'm surprised he still has any bowel control.

by Anonymousreply 388August 13, 2018 5:05 PM

Why R388?

by Anonymousreply 389August 13, 2018 5:07 PM

I almost admire how transparent he is about his neediness. Almost.

by Anonymousreply 390August 13, 2018 5:38 PM

Colton, honey, the reason you haven't booked a lot of work isn't because you're gay. It's because a) you'd rather be on vacation and b) you're a fragile flower who keeps quitting jobs.

by Anonymousreply 391August 13, 2018 5:56 PM

[Quote] b) you're a fragile flower who keeps quitting jobs.

Well he's going back to Arrow now. And he went back to Teen Wolf too.

by Anonymousreply 392August 13, 2018 5:59 PM

Going back to work doesn't erase the quitting. Who would want to put a show or a franchise on someone unreliable?

"Hey everybody, 16 episodes is really hard. I need to go spend 8 weeks on a beach and maybe I'll be back"

by Anonymousreply 393August 13, 2018 6:15 PM

Colton is a supporting player. He's never been THE star. The fact that both shows had him back suggests he's not poorly regarded. He worked something like a decade before stepping back. His professional reputation doesn't seem to have taken a hit.

by Anonymousreply 394August 13, 2018 6:20 PM

It's all good now, but i think Jeff Davis was pissed when he left Teen Wolf. I don't know about Arrow.

by Anonymousreply 395August 13, 2018 6:33 PM

Jeff was pissed. Colton and Podwall went about as if they had a deal for a return then announced Colton's departure to the press before Davis. Davis' intent was to kill off Jackson but he didn't based on Podwall and Colton's desire to stay on the show.

I think Berlanti was fine because he presented Colton's departure as something that was always intended to be a 1 season role. Maybe it's true; maybe he said that to shelter Colton.

by Anonymousreply 396August 13, 2018 6:39 PM

[Quote] Jeff was pissed. Colton and Podwall went about as if they had a deal for a return then announced Colton's departure to the press before Davis. Davis' intent was to kill off Jackson but he didn't based on Podwall and Colton's desire to stay on the show.

Yeah i remember that. I think Jeff found out through twitter? And he'd already started writing for 3A which is why that season was messy.

by Anonymousreply 397August 13, 2018 6:46 PM

Colton held up whether he would be returning, not telling Jeff til the last minute he wasn't going to return for Season 3. And yes it caused lots of headaches trying to rewrite 3A without the character (Jeff had to deal with actors leaving many times though).

Teen Wolf pays poorly and has long hours of night shoots. At the time they thought Colton could do better, he needed to strike while the iron was hot. Of course he never actually landed those movie roles.

by Anonymousreply 398August 13, 2018 6:54 PM

[Quote] (Jeff had to deal with actors leaving many times though).

Lol Colton was the first domino to fall. The number of actors that came and went on that show was ridiculous. I'm still kind of pissed off about Gage and Sinqua. I gave up after season 4. Hoechlin leaving was the final straw.

[Quote] Teen Wolf pays poorly

Not surprising.

[Quote] At the time they thought Colton could do better, he needed to strike while the iron was hot. Of course he never actually landed those movie roles.

I remember him tweeting about a franchise. I can't remember which one it was. It obviously didn't work out.

by Anonymousreply 399August 13, 2018 7:05 PM

I think it was Divergent.

by Anonymousreply 400August 13, 2018 7:19 PM

R387 He had me until he wrote "modest." I had to reread it a second time to make sure I wasn't seeing things.

by Anonymousreply 401August 14, 2018 1:09 AM

Seriously, why does he look like he's been crying in R2's pic?

by Anonymousreply 402August 14, 2018 1:27 AM

R402 You must be new to the Colton community.

Colton cries...a lot. It is one of his most charming and irritating traits.

by Anonymousreply 403August 14, 2018 1:42 AM

Pretty much all the actors from AHS' last season are returning for the new season except Colton.I wonder if he was hard to work with.

by Anonymousreply 404August 14, 2018 1:44 AM

Colto is looking lean, trim and in charge!

by Anonymousreply 405August 14, 2018 2:08 AM

R404, AHS: Apocalypse and Arrow are both shooting now.

by Anonymousreply 406August 14, 2018 2:27 AM

Colton is still handsome, even with that lousy haircut.

by Anonymousreply 407August 14, 2018 2:51 AM

Surely AHS is finished? It’s coming out in a few weeks :/

by Anonymousreply 408August 14, 2018 4:31 AM

Like butter. #Butter350's #yeezy

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by Anonymousreply 409August 14, 2018 1:26 PM

Keep the pounds on if it makes his ass look like that!!!

by Anonymousreply 410August 14, 2018 2:33 PM

R409 is why I love Colton. He's not just a pretty face; he has a personality! I imagine its why Jeff fell in love with him.

by Anonymousreply 411August 14, 2018 10:09 PM

R4111 R410 yes photoshop is an amazing thing.

by Anonymousreply 412August 15, 2018 5:24 PM

Mimicking one of his idols, a Kuntrashian.

by Anonymousreply 413August 15, 2018 5:28 PM

When ur bored in ur trailer...it's protocol to take douche bag selfies. It's an old Hollywood rule. #guccigang @gucci

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by Anonymousreply 414August 16, 2018 2:12 PM

Can't wait for y'all to see season 7! #Arrow . Can't describe how amazing every single one of the ppl are ❤❤❤

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by Anonymousreply 415August 17, 2018 2:49 PM

Emily is getting tough. She's more muscular than me!

by Anonymousreply 416August 17, 2018 10:58 PM

Ppl always ask what my skin reg is...& it's honestly nothing besides going to @simonourianmd1 a few times a yr for cool laser which is the most magical thing that's ever been invented. This isn't an ad...just answering yalls questions 🤗🤗🤗 Happy Saturday!

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by Anonymousreply 417August 19, 2018 2:26 PM

Very happy to see Jeff and Colton back together and their wedding rings back on both of them and they are both wearing their crosses too! So glad they decided to fight to keep their marriage together instead of just giving up! I really believe that Jeff is the perfect partner/husband for Colton because he seems so strong and grounded and really loves Colton because he never gave up on him even after Colton filed for divorce and totally blindsided Jeff and I’m glad to see him being so supportive and loving Colton the way he needs to be because I see Colton becoming stronger every day and that seemed to happen after he and Jeff finally got back together! I’m hoping Colton just continues to communicate with Jeff and not isolate and shut down like he normally does. That poor guy has been through so much and I’m really truly rooting for their happiness!!!

by Anonymousreply 418August 19, 2018 8:13 PM

Strong and grounded people don't get engaged after 6 weeks R418

Jeff is going to have to give up his business and hold Colton's hand 24/7 if he wants the relationship to work

by Anonymousreply 419August 19, 2018 8:21 PM

I'll stick to pimping out my daughters. Pimping men has been more problematic than it's worth.

by Anonymousreply 420August 19, 2018 8:25 PM

Lol R420. Poor Rob.

But yeah, having a fucking Kardashian as your officiant...great choice.

by Anonymousreply 421August 19, 2018 8:52 PM

"Colton you little shit...I will come back & haunt you if you don't follow through on your dreams. My love to my 4 beautiful children. Mom" My moms last written words. I got u mom. Are they ready? Haha...this town has never been ready for us Kansas folk...get ready. ❤

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by Anonymousreply 422August 21, 2018 2:20 PM

I hope Tyler and Colton get a few scenes together in the crossover.

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by Anonymousreply 423August 23, 2018 2:23 PM

#tbt Diesel • @nicolaformichetti • @nick_knight • I was trying to not to crack up cause I was the only person in clothes on the shoot 😂

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by Anonymousreply 424August 24, 2018 2:06 PM

^^new pictures? He looks very good.

by Anonymousreply 425August 24, 2018 2:11 PM

R425 Nope. Not new.

by Anonymousreply 426August 24, 2018 2:17 PM

I have never seen someone go from hot to fugly camp queen so fast.. Miss Mendes and that ski slut make him look so hideous.

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by Anonymousreply 427August 27, 2018 1:15 AM

That is a very unflattering photo of Colton r427, you know he was kinda pissed that Gus Kenworthy posted it.

by Anonymousreply 428August 27, 2018 1:19 AM

R427 He won't age well. Looks like he's been using fillers.

by Anonymousreply 429August 27, 2018 1:19 AM

Meanwhile, his hot ex is still hot.

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by Anonymousreply 430August 27, 2018 1:21 AM

The comments at the pic at r427 will either get Colton to get himself together or make him give up and turn into Elizabeth Taylor in her latter years.

crazybitchpostingmemesIs it only me or Colton actually looks a little bit like Ursula from the little mermaid here? wwfmikeSomeone needs to keep Colton away from the plastic surgery. He looks awful. aqven94Why Colton has aged 20 years all of the sudden? billc312When did Colton Hayes turn into a drag queen nickaroo747Why does Colton look so puffy... dugi___Colton needs to lay of makeup mrjaimecesarHoly moly, Colton Haynes easy on the makeup, gurl johnnyf0rtune@coltonlhaynes girl, what’s happening with your makeup? brandonj93@coltonlhaynes ruined this pic olivertwistedcraigEwww. Did Colton get his face done?

by Anonymousreply 431August 27, 2018 1:24 AM

Have you ever seen an Instagram account with as many “throwbacks” as Colton’s? It’s like he just sits around fantasizing about the past.

by Anonymousreply 432August 27, 2018 1:24 AM

[quote]Have you ever seen an Instagram account with as many “throwbacks” as Colton’s? It’s like he just sits around fantasizing about the past.

He's fantasizing when he had a snatched waist. It's much easier for him to reminisce than get to the gym. It's not the end of the world for people to gain weight but obviously it bothers Colton, as does the comments from people.

by Anonymousreply 433August 27, 2018 1:26 AM

R427, did Colton & Gus plan to go to Toronto together?

Did they know Shawn would be there?

by Anonymousreply 434August 27, 2018 1:42 AM

Colton probably regrets that he wasn’t openly gay when he was young and hot. Spent his best years in the closet only getting about 1/4 of the dick he could’ve gotten if he wasn’t so worried about being outed. Who knows, the love of his life might have ended up with another guy instead of Colton since he was busy being “straight.”

by Anonymousreply 435August 27, 2018 1:52 AM

Colton WAS openly gay when he was young and hot. Did you not see his XY photoshoot with Jerreth? After Jer, he had a six year relationship.

He prefers eating in bed and farting to fucking. Leave him be.

by Anonymousreply 436August 27, 2018 1:57 AM

I hope Gus and Colton had a three way with Shawn. That would be worth seeing. I think Colton would be the eager recipient of a spitroasting in that scenario.

by Anonymousreply 437August 27, 2018 1:59 AM

Shawn's fans are mad at Gus for tweeting a mockup of their pic because it's mean because it's disrespectful because "Everyone knows he is irritated by all these people assuming he is gay and constantly calling him gay slurs."

Mendes better come out of that closet before he ends up like Colton!

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by Anonymousreply 438August 27, 2018 2:03 AM

To Mendes credit, he doesn't seem to let speculation affect how he interacts with famous gay men in public. He's pretty gracious.

by Anonymousreply 439August 27, 2018 2:10 AM

He’s Canadian. What the hell did you expect?

by Anonymousreply 440August 27, 2018 2:15 AM

Goddamn, Colton barely turned 30 and you bitches have put him out to pasture. Cruel homosexual world!

by Anonymousreply 441August 27, 2018 2:19 AM

When I think Canadian, I think Joni Mitchell... That should answer your question.

by Anonymousreply 442August 27, 2018 2:23 AM

R441 have you seen him lately?

by Anonymousreply 443August 27, 2018 2:50 AM

R437 three bottoms in a threeway has that ever happened?

by Anonymousreply 444August 27, 2018 2:51 AM

I'd like to be in a 4 way with them. Any day.

by Anonymousreply 445August 27, 2018 2:59 AM

That would make it four bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 446August 27, 2018 3:04 AM

r446 Well I never!

by Anonymousreply 447August 27, 2018 3:08 AM

He needs to stop smoking NOW.

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by Anonymousreply 448August 27, 2018 3:12 AM

r448 I still would

by Anonymousreply 449August 27, 2018 3:20 AM

I'm a bottom, I love bottoming, I love seeing other hot bottoms. I'm fucking sick of all the bottom shaming on a fucking GAY site.

by Anonymousreply 450August 27, 2018 3:23 AM

R427 If you told me 4 years ago Colton would be worst looking guy in the pic I would have thought you were crazy

by Anonymousreply 451August 27, 2018 3:23 AM

R450 types bottom.

by Anonymousreply 452August 27, 2018 3:50 AM

There is a fierce rivalry b/w bottoms. Other bottoms hate bottoms because there aren't enough tops.

by Anonymousreply 453August 27, 2018 3:52 AM

Black/white bottoms? I thought black guys are only ever tops... Has porn lied to me?!

by Anonymousreply 454August 27, 2018 4:03 AM

He facetunes the hell out of his pictures. He looks better in kenworthys pic than his own. He is clearly insecure and I'm sure the nasty comments don't help the situation. Yes, he's in the business of being judged but damn.....

by Anonymousreply 455August 27, 2018 11:43 AM

#fbf • @vman • @stevenkleinstudio • @nicolaformichetti •

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by Anonymousreply 456August 27, 2018 2:29 PM

That Dr Pepper commercial when you did the eyebrow thing?? I still haven’t recovered from that. I’m gonna need the use of my knees back please

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by Anonymousreply 457August 27, 2018 2:30 PM

He really was so fucking beautiful. It's a shame that he's dumb enough to resort to plastic surgery when all he needed was a change in diet and maybe a decent Moisturizer.

by Anonymousreply 458August 27, 2018 3:07 PM

thank goodness there arent any gus posts on this site

by Anonymousreply 459August 27, 2018 3:16 PM

What procedures do you think he's had done?

by Anonymousreply 460August 27, 2018 3:16 PM

Anal bleaching for starters.

by Anonymousreply 461August 27, 2018 4:18 PM

Lol they're going in on him.

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by Anonymousreply 462August 27, 2018 5:24 PM

[quote]He really was so fucking beautiful. It's a shame that he's dumb enough to resort to plastic surgery

I agree.

Colton's plastic surgery does not look good in that photo with Shawn & Gus.

by Anonymousreply 463August 27, 2018 10:57 PM

He got botox?

by Anonymousreply 464August 27, 2018 11:08 PM

R464 Whatever it is. It doesn't look drastic.

by Anonymousreply 465August 28, 2018 3:12 PM

I've never been a big Colton fan, but I feel a little sorry for him.

His looks were the only thing he had, and now they're fading away.

And on top of that he has to read hundreds of nasty comments by a group of bitchy queens.

by Anonymousreply 466August 28, 2018 10:40 PM

I disagree. He also has his cat lady qualities.

by Anonymousreply 467August 28, 2018 10:44 PM

Colton is still young enough to get himself together. He is just having a very rough year. When he does he will probably do another interview where he talks about how vicious some people on a particular gay message board are.

by Anonymousreply 468August 28, 2018 10:45 PM

R468 that face is beyond repair! Stick a fork in him

by Anonymousreply 469August 28, 2018 10:47 PM

He really needs to stop the photoshop shit. It makes him look worse.

He needs to stop fillers, plastic surgery, photoshop....go cold turkey on it all.

If he's on medicine that's making him bloat (taking care of himself) then he should just say so. Otherwise, the merciless flaming will continue.

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by Anonymousreply 470August 29, 2018 12:19 AM

[Quote] Otherwise, the merciless flaming will continue.

It won't make a difference. They'll just find something else to talk shit about.

by Anonymousreply 471August 29, 2018 2:11 PM

#tbt . My shirt says "Snorkeling is Sexy" & I think it's from my @abercrombie days. It's the funniest shirt I've ever seen so can someone pls find this for me??? 😂 Also this hair...what the hell 😂

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by Anonymousreply 472August 31, 2018 2:47 PM

Excited about this cool collab I got to do with @sadwestcoast ! On sale now! @jshmln is so freaking talented! Sadwestcoast.com 🍊🍊🍊

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by Anonymousreply 473August 31, 2018 2:48 PM
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by Anonymousreply 474September 1, 2018 5:20 PM

Colton should also know that if he doesn't want to read bad things about himself he should refrain from searching his name on Twitter and/or figure out a way to keep people from tagging him in critical tweets. Crying on Twitter about people bullying him is a waste of his energy.

@ColtonLHaynes · Aug 29 Being a bully isn't something I think you will be happy about when you get older. There's no need for it so I hope you take this advice and grow. Sending nothing but love ❤️ RT @idkitsjosh: im convinced if colton haynes got ugly with age none of us are safe

by Anonymousreply 475September 1, 2018 5:42 PM

I love people like that R475. They obsessively look themselves up and then are SHOCKED when they find ugliness.

by Anonymousreply 476September 1, 2018 5:48 PM

Colton needs the motivational words of Chris Crocker.

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by Anonymousreply 477September 1, 2018 9:10 PM

R476 I remember when Tyler Oakley blocked me on Twitter. Granted, I did talk shit about him, but it was on MY Twitter. I never tweeted at him, or replied to his tweets. He obviously searched his name and blocked me when he didn't like what I had to say. What a pathetic person. You will always have haters, deal with it. Don't go on searching sprees and block people who don't worship your ass. If people tweet horrible things at you, I get it, that's different. But I didn't do that. I just gave my opinion of him on my own Twitter. He still blocked me, lol. That was years ago and he still has me blocked. I wonder how many times he did that and how many he blocked. Must be exhausting to search for your name and block people just because they say some not so nice things about you. Newsflash: there will always be people in this world who don't like you. Deal with it, especially as a social media person. Fine, block bullies, but don't block people just because they give their opinion. It makes you look pathetic and weak.

by Anonymousreply 478September 1, 2018 9:19 PM

That person didn't even tag Colton r475, and Colton is calling him a bully?

Colton man, you are one who is clearly going searching about what people say about you online.

If it was a comment left on his social media, or he was tagged on, I would get his point.

by Anonymousreply 479September 1, 2018 9:21 PM

R479 Exactly! It's your own fault if you go searching for your own name. If people were tagging you saying shit about you, that would be different. THAT would be bullying, not expressing something on your own Twitter. Like I said, this exact same thing happened when Tyler Oakley blocked me. I never replied to him or tagged him. He clearly searched his own name and didn't like what I had to say. That is NOT what bullying is.

by Anonymousreply 480September 1, 2018 9:25 PM

Much of Colton's career seems to be social media rather than film and television.

by Anonymousreply 481September 1, 2018 9:33 PM

R481 He was early on a Teen Wolf fan fave and many of his fans knew he was gay. They still loved him. His fans were heartbroken when he quit Teen Wolf.

by Anonymousreply 482September 1, 2018 9:36 PM

[quote]Much of Colton's career seems to be social media rather than film and television.

True, R481.

But that's true for a lot of young "actors" of Colton's generation.

by Anonymousreply 483September 1, 2018 9:37 PM

If I were a celebrity, I'd totally look up my name too. I'm sure it's much more common among celebrities than we would think.

But how stupid and/or shameless do you have to be to expose that habit by replying to the negative comments?! It's like eavesdropping on the entire world and then confronting the ones who weren't nice. That's the whole main consequence for eavesdropping!

by Anonymousreply 484September 1, 2018 10:10 PM

[quote]If I were a celebrity, I'd totally look up my name too. I'm sure it's much more common among celebrities than we would think.

Absolutely, but as you say, don't expose the habit. He retweets or tweets at the person, which gets Colton's fans to pounce in support of him. It's almost like he wants the validation from his friends and fans so he responds to those tweets.

by Anonymousreply 485September 1, 2018 10:14 PM

[Quote] He was early on a Teen Wolf fan fave and many of his fans knew he was gay. They still loved him. His fans were heartbroken when he quit Teen Wolf.

He was?? I thought the main faves were Stiles and Derek. But it did suck when he left the show. I'm glad he came back for the finale.

by Anonymousreply 486September 3, 2018 3:06 PM

I once got into a Twitter battle with that DJ who wears the mouse or cat head. He's ridiculous for even replying to such mild criticism.

by Anonymousreply 487September 3, 2018 11:45 PM

Since he and Jeff are back together, does that mean Colto is keeping his hole nice and clean now? Is that in his contract for Arrow? Wardrobe mistress requires hole to be clean so as not to leave skid marks in Arsenal costume?

Didn't Jeff realize that Colto's love of McDonald's would lead to farts and stained bed linens?

by Anonymousreply 488September 4, 2018 12:54 AM

Uh, R488, you sound like you've put a little too much thought into this.

by Anonymousreply 489September 4, 2018 2:31 AM

Colton and Jeff probably haven't had sex in months.

by Anonymousreply 490September 4, 2018 2:37 AM

R488 Why don't you ask him at his next con. It's this weekend.

by Anonymousreply 491September 4, 2018 2:43 PM

I'm baffled that, if they are back together, Colton is able to survive without documenting every second on Instagram

by Anonymousreply 492September 5, 2018 2:43 AM

I think Colton is afraid of the criticism he will receive from DL.

by Anonymousreply 493September 5, 2018 2:53 AM

[Quote] I think Colton is afraid of the criticism he will receive from DL.

I'd say he's more worried about what Jeff thinks, which is more important.

by Anonymousreply 494September 5, 2018 2:28 PM

maybe he's actually learned something since his first expose

by Anonymousreply 495September 5, 2018 5:39 PM

Throwin it back to when @champagnepapi Drake aka Aubs tried to challenge us Kryptonians. We haven’t won 4 gold medals for nothin! Can’t wait for our next dance competition!❤️ @damarri_eddie wasnt having it haha. Also... @ovogelo ...where is my merch 😒

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by Anonymousreply 496September 7, 2018 2:58 PM

I can’t believe I’m on the cover of @popstarmagazine September Issue 😺 I used to buy this every single wk! Childhood dreams come true haha! Next stop...Vogue

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by Anonymousreply 497September 7, 2018 2:59 PM

I can see Jeff now. After a long hard day of picking and posing petunias, he heads home ready to plow some Colto hole. As he opens the door he is greeted with a foul stench that makes hot water come up in his throat.

As he makes his way to the bedroom where the vile odor is emanating, eyes burning, he finds Colto seated on the loo.

"Oh Christ...I shouldn't have had that McFlurry with my Big Mac and Double Quarter Pound combo."

Another explosion of diarrhea is heard hitting the toilet water. "Oh hey Jeff. How was work? Ya hungry? A new Burger King opened up on Pico. What do ya say we get some Whoppers, onion rings...maybe a few Oreo pies and eat dinner in bed tonight?"

Jeff just slinks down to the floor knowing he made a huge mistake.

by Anonymousreply 498September 7, 2018 3:41 PM

R498 You should write a fanfic about it.

by Anonymousreply 499September 7, 2018 3:57 PM

Why a fanfic ? It totally happened.

You just know it.

by Anonymousreply 500September 7, 2018 4:01 PM

The cover could be Colto's Instagram photo where he is laying in bed shirtless with a half dozen McDonald's sausage biscuits on his chest/neck.

by Anonymousreply 501September 7, 2018 4:04 PM

R500 Lol

R501 I forgot about that photo.

by Anonymousreply 502September 7, 2018 4:06 PM

CARBING UP: DEEP INSIDE COLTO'S DIRTY HOLE or How McDonald's Ruined My Marriage.

by Anonymousreply 503September 8, 2018 6:09 AM

Jeff is 47 today. He thanks to his parents and friends, nothing specific about husband.... Truly to say, I am a bit sorry for him. Just imagine, you are 46, pretty rich, successful and want to settle down, have family, kids. Better with young (and famous) guy, that everybody could see how cool and hot you are. AND... You meet Colton, edition 1 years ago. He looks like a dream which come true. Of course, you thinks that you found that you want and immediately do that you think you must do - proposal, marriage. Because this hot young and famous guy could run away and you cannot lost him... And Thanks God it was no surrogate kid created in the day of proposal, because it will be a total mess now. So, you think that you found THE ONE, and just a few months after marriage you have all this.... Paper for divorcing, macdonalds, a fat guy which almost look unrecognized now (in comparison just a 1 year ago), hysterics, deleting of marriage names from tweeter and instagram, a lot of gossips and pretty bad public appearance, etc And you enter your 47 almost destroying everything that you have created before. I am just wondering, would be Jeff starting a conversation with Colton in this airport and continue his approaches if he know all this before....

by Anonymousreply 504September 8, 2018 3:32 PM

I would hope that I have enough sense in my 40s not to propose to a 20-something I don't know very well. I sincerely doubt I'd have a woman officiate who's infamous for brokering her own daughter's sex tape.

by Anonymousreply 505September 8, 2018 3:45 PM

I guess Jeff figured at 46 he didn't have a lot of time to waste if he was ever going to settle down and start a family. But yeah, didn't work out so well.

by Anonymousreply 506September 8, 2018 3:47 PM

Cripes, he looks like a Eurasian dyke in R470

by Anonymousreply 507September 8, 2018 4:02 PM

Did not see that coming.

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by Anonymousreply 508September 8, 2018 4:08 PM
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by Anonymousreply 509September 8, 2018 6:13 PM

Who was the bigger and more desperate famewhore before this whirlwind marriage/divorce episode -- Jeff or Colton?

by Anonymousreply 510September 8, 2018 6:19 PM
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by Anonymousreply 512September 8, 2018 8:07 PM

Looks like Colto just spotted the golden arches in that pic.

by Anonymousreply 513September 9, 2018 3:31 PM

[Quote] Looks like Colto just spotted the golden arches in that pic.

Which Hoechlin could do with.

by Anonymousreply 514September 9, 2018 3:41 PM

I thought he was a loyal Taco Beller. Is he a traitor now?

by Anonymousreply 515September 10, 2018 11:42 AM

When u & ur #Arrow bros dress to impress & also feel like falling on the floor after a convention. 😴

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by Anonymousreply 516September 12, 2018 12:55 PM

Excited for y’all to see what’s to come from @nicholasferroni & I! I may or may not be getting my teaching license...so y’all kids better be ready! #PrincipalColton

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by Anonymousreply 517September 12, 2018 12:55 PM

Today is this baby angel’s Birthday!!! Too many amazing times with my brother @tylerhoechlin (He’s gonna punch me for the last 2 photos 😂) ❤️

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by Anonymousreply 518September 12, 2018 12:56 PM

Colton in Bigger

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by Anonymousreply 519September 14, 2018 2:45 PM
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by Anonymousreply 520September 14, 2018 2:45 PM

I was hoping Colto WAS bigger.

by Anonymousreply 521September 14, 2018 3:49 PM

I can’t promise I didn’t swing back to land cause the water was so cold but I at least swung on the rope so leave me alone lol

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by Anonymousreply 522September 16, 2018 2:55 PM

Why does always dress in such awful footwear?

by Anonymousreply 523September 16, 2018 6:07 PM

Gus Kenworthy out there telling people's business.

Friends know best! Gus Kenworthy opened up to Us Weekly about where he thinks his pals Colton Haynes and Jeff Leatham stand in their relationship following their split.

“I mean, I don’t know if it’s really my place to speculate,” the 26-year-old Olympian told Us at the 5th annual Harper’s BAZAAR ICONS by Carine Roitfeld event at The Plaza in New York City on Friday, September 7. “I believe [Colton] told me that they’re working on things.”

The athlete continued: “I think that they’re in a good place. I don’t know if they’re back together or if they’re not going to be together, but I think that they’re in a good place.”

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by Anonymousreply 524September 18, 2018 6:09 AM

Run Jeff, RUN!

by Anonymousreply 525September 18, 2018 6:20 AM

[quote]“I mean, I don’t know if it’s really my place to speculate,”

Gus has become very pushy lately.

Don't forget the way this bitch accosted me on the red carpet last month!

by Anonymousreply 526September 18, 2018 6:29 AM

Well he's been wearing his ring again, i think that's a good sign.

by Anonymousreply 527September 18, 2018 2:32 PM

Gus K. isn't saying anything more that the social media sleuths and Colton obsessives are saying. 'They are working on things" isn't exactly spilling any secrets.

by Anonymousreply 528September 18, 2018 3:07 PM

R522 He's so fuckable in this pic. I don't get why some of you find him ugly.

by Anonymousreply 529September 19, 2018 11:26 AM

Why does he look SO shocking in R516? It's a completely different person!

by Anonymousreply 530September 19, 2018 11:29 AM

R529 she heavily retouches her photos

by Anonymousreply 531September 19, 2018 11:35 AM

[Quote] Why does he look SO shocking in [R516]? It's a completely different person!

A different person??

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by Anonymousreply 532September 19, 2018 2:16 PM

I can see what R530 means.

In the photo at R516 he looks older and his face looks fatter.

by Anonymousreply 533September 19, 2018 6:52 PM

Colto is heavily touting Bomer as the next Superman.

Someone should clue Colto in that Bomer isn't into fast food farts or McSkid Mark's in undies.

by Anonymousreply 534September 20, 2018 1:16 AM

[Quote] Colto is heavily touting Bomer as the next Superman.

I'd like to see Bomer give it a shot too.

by Anonymousreply 535September 20, 2018 2:12 PM

[quote] In the photo at [R516] he looks older and his face looks fatter.

He IS older and probably fatter. Colton is the most discussed D-list celebrity in DL history. I think he purposely tanked his marriage just to keep these threads going. For a minute, it looked like things had shifted to other younger, prettier boys but Colty is back with a vengeance. A perpetual figure of Datalounge envy, interest and intrigue. He's doing something right.

I salute him -- get it, guurl!

by Anonymousreply 536September 20, 2018 3:13 PM

Have a sausage McMuffin on me, Colto.

by Anonymousreply 537September 20, 2018 11:30 PM

You bitches are mean.

Fattie Colton needs our love & understanding at this difficult time.

by Anonymousreply 538September 20, 2018 11:50 PM

Does Colton know Chris Crocker? they seem like they would be good friends, they have a lot of similarities

by Anonymousreply 539September 21, 2018 1:44 AM

Those two are always so great together, R512... Man, I'd love to be in that sandwich.

by Anonymousreply 540September 21, 2018 2:25 AM

Do you think Hoechlin is a Big Mac or Quarter Pounder type guy?

by Anonymousreply 541September 21, 2018 3:45 AM

Totally a quarter pounder guy.

by Anonymousreply 542September 21, 2018 4:17 AM

With cheese?

by Anonymousreply 543September 21, 2018 4:24 AM

Is there any other way?

by Anonymousreply 544September 21, 2018 4:27 AM

Colton posted this old photo on IG today:

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by Anonymousreply 545September 21, 2018 6:45 AM

Reflecting on how thin he was in the past. Poor Colto.

I know the CW hooked him up with a trainer so he can get back into shape for Arrow but it's apparently not taking.

by Anonymousreply 546September 21, 2018 6:51 AM

Why did they hire him back for Arrow if they're worried about his weight?

by Anonymousreply 547September 21, 2018 7:17 AM

R540 They usually are.

R547 Who says they're worried about his weight?

by Anonymousreply 548September 21, 2018 2:24 PM

[quote] I know the CW hooked him up with a trainer so he can get back into shape for Arrow but it's apparently not taking.

Colton is very handsome. He needs to let go of his desired self-image as an underweight, malnourished twink. He can get fit and still be lean, but he doesn't have the physiology to have the same jawline he did when he was 21.

by Anonymousreply 549September 21, 2018 4:14 PM

World...meet Phillip. My new anxiety/sickness bear. He’s helping me through walking pneumonia right now & he will be my plus 1 to every single event from now on haha 😍

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by Anonymousreply 550September 22, 2018 2:22 PM

Surprised he didn't name it Tyler.

by Anonymousreply 551September 22, 2018 6:35 PM

I kinda love that pic, R550

by Anonymousreply 552September 22, 2018 6:56 PM

Poor thing, pneumonia is no good.

by Anonymousreply 553September 22, 2018 10:04 PM

colton is the definition of "brittle spirit".

by Anonymousreply 554September 22, 2018 10:22 PM

R548 Actually, they are worried about his height. Apparently he's too short for his weight.

by Anonymousreply 555September 22, 2018 10:27 PM

[quote]Poor thing, pneumonia is no good.

Has his immune system been weakened by all the anxiety about his weight?

by Anonymousreply 556September 23, 2018 1:27 AM

Colton probably has anxiety about a lot of things, one of them being his appearance because that's how he makes money

by Anonymousreply 557September 23, 2018 3:30 AM

Appearance ? Is this autocorrect for "hole" ?

by Anonymousreply 558September 23, 2018 10:05 AM

[Quote] Surprised he didn't name it Tyler.

Maybe he does in private.

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by Anonymousreply 559September 23, 2018 2:30 PM

Is he going to do something about his struggle beard?

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by Anonymousreply 560September 23, 2018 6:23 PM

Colton posted a video clip with his new doggy:

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by Anonymousreply 561September 24, 2018 1:07 AM

R560 Maybe it's for Arrow....?

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by Anonymousreply 562September 24, 2018 2:19 PM

That's really weird facial hair.

by Anonymousreply 563September 25, 2018 2:49 AM

Was such an inspirational night at @imagine.la honoring my baby sister @serenawilliams . Also so happy for @valvogt for putting on such a beautiful evening 😘❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

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by Anonymousreply 564September 25, 2018 2:03 PM

Does anyone else think this Jeff guy posts here?

Why are some people so invested in keeping their marriage together?

How can you possibly know they're right for each other?

by Anonymousreply 565September 25, 2018 4:36 PM

How can people here say shit like, "Colton normally isolates," "Colton has a tendency to go sideways" and "Colton is lazy?"

How the fuck would you know?

by Anonymousreply 566September 25, 2018 4:39 PM

Stalkers and rabid fangurls know all, R566.

Or rather, they fantasize that they know all.

by Anonymousreply 567September 25, 2018 4:41 PM

r418 has to be Jeff, right?

Desperate to use Datalounge to get through to Colton because he's been cut off in real life. Every other post sounds like r418.

by Anonymousreply 568September 25, 2018 4:46 PM

The 522 pic is another "throwback" from younger days.

DUH

by Anonymousreply 569September 25, 2018 5:09 PM

God. Remember when these threads filled up quick? Now he's a fat, bloated, drunk mess. Don't even need to bother starting a followup thread. Interest has dwindled.

by Anonymousreply 570September 25, 2018 5:12 PM

[quote]Don't even need to bother starting a followup thread.

Bitch, you a lie! You know you want to see the evolution of Colton

by Anonymousreply 571September 25, 2018 6:58 PM

[quote]Desperate to use Datalounge to get through to Colton because he's been cut off in real life.

Don't you think you're reading too much into some of the posts here?

by Anonymousreply 572September 25, 2018 8:51 PM

R568 Colton tagged Jeff in one of the set of pictures with Serena Williams.

by Anonymousreply 573September 25, 2018 8:57 PM

FACTS:

1. Colto loves McDonald's

2. Colto loves to blast his ass gas

3. Colto barely wipes/cleans himself up after taking a wicked dump

by Anonymousreply 574September 26, 2018 5:48 AM

R573, in the last pic of the set Colton gives her one of Jeff's vase.

by Anonymousreply 575September 26, 2018 9:26 AM

[Quote] Stalkers and rabid fangurls know all, [R566]. Or rather, they fantasize that they know all.

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by Anonymousreply 576September 26, 2018 2:46 PM

He's so sappy. Why put this on social media when he could text it to him?

Talking to @StephenAmell is always the best medicine. I love you to the moon and back my friend ❤️

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by Anonymousreply 577September 27, 2018 7:41 AM

If its not on social media, it didnt happen, duh!

by Anonymousreply 578September 27, 2018 8:16 AM

R577, it's quite common for actors to send each other messages on Twitter & Instagram.

I see it all the time.

by Anonymousreply 579September 27, 2018 8:17 AM

so when colton is coming up with his #metoo story?

by Anonymousreply 580September 28, 2018 1:36 PM

R580 Why do you ask??

by Anonymousreply 581September 28, 2018 4:10 PM

Watching him on Cult right now. He looked hot, but now, of course, he's dead.

Anyone think he's channeling Adam Lambert these days?

by Anonymousreply 582September 29, 2018 12:24 AM

[Quote] Anyone think he's channeling Adam Lambert these days?

Is that bad?

by Anonymousreply 583September 29, 2018 4:55 PM

Is Lambert a huge fan of McDonald's and farting?

by Anonymousreply 584September 29, 2018 5:00 PM

Coltp ex is doing a lot of nude shoots these days

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by Anonymousreply 585September 30, 2018 7:06 PM

Another Jarreth

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by Anonymousreply 586September 30, 2018 7:07 PM

another

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by Anonymousreply 587September 30, 2018 7:08 PM

Felix is a lucky guy.

by Anonymousreply 588September 30, 2018 7:33 PM

Jerreth keeps his body insanely tight, of course he enjoys showing it of. Hey good for him, takes dedication.

by Anonymousreply 589September 30, 2018 7:34 PM

They should be Colton's couple goals.

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by Anonymousreply 590September 30, 2018 7:46 PM

Look at Jerreth.

No way he'd ever go for McDonald's and farting.

by Anonymousreply 591September 30, 2018 11:49 PM

Is it me or does Felix look a lot like Avicii?

by Anonymousreply 592October 1, 2018 12:36 AM

La vie en rose

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by Anonymousreply 593October 7, 2018 10:48 PM

Birthday wishes for Holland.

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by Anonymousreply 594October 7, 2018 10:52 PM

Happy Birthday to the love of my life @hollandroden . What you’ve done for me this year cannot be compared. U mean everything to me & I love you so so so much. ❤️ #Jydia for life

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by Anonymousreply 595October 8, 2018 1:29 PM

It would be great if he could step away from social media for a few months. Unfortunately, I know that will never happen.

by Anonymousreply 596October 8, 2018 1:46 PM

Colto's ex-has a really hot ass.

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by Anonymousreply 597October 8, 2018 6:16 PM

[Quote] It would be great if he could step away from social media for a few months. Unfortunately, I know that will never happen.

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by Anonymousreply 598October 9, 2018 1:44 PM

That instagram account is filled with different guys doing the same pose R597. It's weird. And hot.

by Anonymousreply 599October 9, 2018 2:42 PM

The only thing that broke down was Colto's colon.

by Anonymousreply 600October 10, 2018 5:52 AM
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