Grindr block unveiled...and he wants to meet?

Woah! Red flags! You sound thirsty/stalker!

Nobody cares about your pathetic dregs of a sex life, OP.

No. Body. Cares.

R2 hasn't had dick in ... years? Or are we into decades now?

I think you met up.

Ahhh, the sordid life of whores

I am thirsty R1. I got this beefy masc top twice, and he had a hot face too. I live in a dick desert.

Ahh the useless comments of the sexless (r5)

You met up after 3 p.m. After the hookup, he hung out to talk for a while. It gradually dawned on him that he had ghosted you previously.

Awk. Ward.

hot!

I recently saw a profile that listed the guy's favorite coloring book.

We hooked up in the Winter. He was into it. He was very hot. Shot huge loads both times. It was just very strange that he blocked me, but something was wrong. I'm almost positive he's married though I don't know for sure. It has to do with when he's free. He's also a little strange after sex - like he wanted to shake hands really hard on the way out the door to "do something manly" after what we just did.

Anyway, he ghosted at 3 PM. I'm only slightly surprised because he asked again if I still wanted to meet at 3. I assumed he was gonna stop talking the second I reminded him of who I was but then he made up the whole "I blocked the wrong person" BS. Gurl bye. You blocked me for some reason & whatever it is is fine - I don't really care. But don't waste my time. I could've done other things at 3.

You told him “with a new phone all these people pop up now”??

His extra manly handshake is too funny, OP.

R3 = methed out bareback cum dump.

The shaved pubes and sunken chest would have been instant deal breakers. AND he looks short.

R14 - couldn't possibly be more inaccurate. What is wrong with the sad prudes on here who see someone getting laid (or NOT EVEN getting laid in my case) and start having a melt down over it? I've never barebacked in my entire life or done meth.

He's 6'1 R15 - and there's no "sunken chest" happening. He's reddish brown hair so he has to clip the fire crotch. How is that a red flag? Everyone clips.

OP/ R16 I've had a similar'ish experience. Mine was a military guy from the Army. He was 27 and liked to deny people who "wanted" him. He didn't remember me until I did this distinct nibble on the inner thigh. He waited until we were done to be like..... didn't we hook up like a year ago and I was like... "oh honey I have no idea I only remember the really good ones. He didn't do the handshake , but he did bro fist/air box me.... like wtf O.o!?

Post more pics, OP

" What is wrong with the sad prudes on here who see someone getting laid (or NOT EVEN getting laid in my case) and start having a melt down over it? " - OP/R16

Because sharing the sad tawdry details of your torpid sex/non-sex life has been offered up as fodder on a gossip site, you, slutty dumbass. Not a prude, but I keep my sexual activity (many more than you) to myself.

This isn't "Give a slutty millennial twink total approval-Lounge."

Grow a spine, slut. You're a whore having a meltdown (and that's one word, illiterate twit).

There are a lot of strange people on Grindr, OP. You're right, he could be married. Or just self-loathing.

You messaged him back three times after he acknowledged blocking you before. Made you look desperate which totally turned him off.

There are a lot of strange people on Grindr, like OP.

Wondering, why does everyone here think a hot guy just out for sex , married or involved elsewhere, is "self-loathing" when he just fuks and wants to leave. he got what he wanted, goes on with his life, you're just not in it.

I voted for “ghosted at 3 pm” ...but I’m still sorry that happened to you, OP. It’s not you, it’s him. Unless is IS you, in which case it’s STILL him, because he’s not communicating his truth to you like a normal mature person.

why would you have to use a new email address just because you got a new phone?

[quote] I could've done other things at 3.

Done other people, you mean!

"communicating his truth "

Somebody's spent a bit too much time reading O magazine.

[quote]why would you have to use a new email address just because you got a new phone?

Try reading the actual post. He said he forgot his original grindr password

R28 there's this cool feature called "forgot my password" and/or "reset my password."

true. I guess he was just a stalker

R14 / R19 = unhinged sexless troll. Honey, there have been anthology threads about guys fucking their cousins on here. I can't even count the number of threads about people lusting after various guys (doorman was next) and/or hooking up with them. I guess they all trigger you so much that you block them out mentally? Is it a coping mechanism for your sexless life of undesirability?

[quote]Write an Obscure and Banal Blind Item About Yourself!

[quote]This near-eldergay hasn't had a steady boyfriend in years, but who was he smooching with at Boxers last Friday? None other than a certain partnered administrative assistant to a leading obscure start-up, that's who!

That's all you need to know about r14 / r19.

So much for "Not a prude, but I keep my sexual activity (many more than you) to myself." - r19, right? It took 1 click to see your bullshit. Funny. "Near-eldergay" LMAO - so what does that make you - 49? How many years have you been 49?

^ R32 R33 = OP stalker queen on another rage binge... and still trolling apps for cock, and failing.

"This guy blocked me on grindr after 2 hook ups " - That's all we need to know about OP.

Unhinged and a stalker. Glad that guy got away from you.

I'm not the OP, r34... good try. I just caught your bullshit and it was HILARIOUS. Admit it.

R34 / R14 / R19 / Near-eldergay kissing someone else's boyfriend, do you not know how EASY it is to see another person's posts? How is that stalking? Your vitriol was so over the top that I was curious - sue me.

OP, you're quite a freak show. R33 R36 etc is just the same queen on another meltdown.

Boxers bar is in NYC - why are you on DL at 3:30 AM defending yourself in this thread, R34 / r14 / r19 - especially at light speed? You posted within minutes of r32. At least I am on the West Coast where it is only 12:25 AM at the moment.

GO TO SLEEP - maniac! Who is up till 3:30 AM (EST) on a Thursday night defending themselves on an anonymous website? lolol wow you must have no life if you care this much & react with such hostility. Sad!

American Horror Story: OP, R38, R39 (and all night, apparently)

P.S. How do you know where I live now, you dumb shit? I could be in Hawaii watching a lesser meltdown for all you know, you psycho.

OP is so cray-cray!

"on a Thursday night defending themselves on an anonymous website?"

Pot. Kettle. Freaky deranged tint of black.

Revealing your (totally hypocritical) post history is not a "meltdown" - Miss R37. It happens all the time, especially with trolls. And you deserve it for the nasty shit you spewed out ( for absolutely no reason.

Now take your Xanax, calm down, and go to bed. Or don't. You're actually making me laugh out loud with your hysteria.

[quote]How do you know where I live now, you dumb shit?

You said it in your other post "dumb shit" - seriously are you this stupid? " This near-eldergay hasn't had a steady boyfriend in years, but who was he smooching with at Boxers last Friday? None other than a certain partnered administrative assistant to a leading obscure start-up, that's who!"

BOXERS = Gay sports bar in NYC or Philly.

Yes, because everything typed on DL is fact!

Idiot. Still freaking out like a meth head. Go back to Grindr, slut. You can surely score a snort of two.

R41, don't selectively quote. 3:30 AM is very different than 12:30 AM on a weeknight. The unhinged, likely unemployed, self-identified eldergay r14 / r19 / r34 (etc) is just providing us late night entertainment with his hysteria. Keep going queen, you might immortalize this thread with your psychosis.

What's with the repeated "meth" accusations? You did it at r14 too (8 hours ago - sad). Is it projection?

[quote] Yes, because everything typed on DL is fact!

Good try to back-peddle on that one Kellyanne. You said what you said. Boxers. Like someone in San Francisco is gonna randomly pick that name out of thin air?

I guess you'll need extra meds to go to bed tonight because you're in a manic psychosis now. I'd be entertained by it if it wasn't so sad. You need a better doctor, honey.

OP at R11: "It was just very strange that he blocked me, but something was wrong."

honey, your deranged obsessive behavior is exemplary of a drug addict, whether you are one or not. You're ranting like a loon at anyone who dares to call you a slut.. in a thread where you're bsessing about an old Grindr hookup!

It was not strange that your hookup blocked you. Anyone with a sense of self-preservation would. You're clearly displaying a ranting manic psychopathic obsession. with [R14] / [R19] / [R34] (etc)

This thread is hilarious. Is this what the inside of mental asylums is like?

OP/R44 "don't selectively quote."

OP the cray-cray is now making demands! And we must obey!

" Your vitriol was so over the top" Like yours isn't? - Oops, I did it again!

"you're in a manic psychosis now" - You, OP. You. Can't deal? It must be unbearable for you! Ha!

Oops, I did it again! Come at me, bro!

LOL !!

Hehe.

R51, just to be clear - the GIF I posted in R50 was making fun of you (r49).

It's funny - as soon as I read R19's post, I thought he was unhinged. And ... alas...

Just to be clear OP, R46 (and nearly every other post here), more than one person thinks you're a loon.

R53, OP's crazed rants aren't providing a clue? Sad.

Posting a nude photo of a less than attractive hookup/victim without permission was an early sign.

But do share some thread links to your stalkee, OP (and your multiple personalities). He's much more entertaining than your deranged rants.

OMG - Let it go!

"Nearly every other post here" is made by the same person (you)! The ignore feature isn't that complex.

A little gif? How quaint. Here's better version forR55, OP and his multiple personality ranting screeds:

It's strange that R19 couldn't just admit he was caught out as a total hypocrite with his post in the "blind item" thread in R32 - and instead went on a hour long ape shit tirade.

No, what's sad is your deranged attacks on another stupid thread. You clearly stalked your sex hookup, and you're doing the same thing here, endlessly, to a complete stranger.

"I'd be entertained by it if it wasn't so sad. "

Well put, about you.

Triggering R19

[quote]what's sad is your deranged attacks

While you post:

> OP and his multiple personality ranting screeds:

>Your hookup was lucky to escape you mania.

>You, OP. You. Can't deal? It must be unbearable for you! Ha!

>honey, your deranged obsessive behavior is exemplary of a drug addict, whether you are one or not. You're ranting like a loon

> Idiot. Still freaking out like a meth head. Go back to Grindr, slut. You can surely score a snort of two.

And on and on and on... to multiple people posting here, as if nobody has ever posted about a date or hookup gone wrong in the history of DL.

What will happen at 3pm tomorrow?

r49 - Selectively quoting changes the meaning of the original quote, which is what happened when r41 erased the time zone references.

"Selectively quoting" which is exactly what the deranged OP aka R60 did as well.

Again, freak. You're the nutbag here. You're not a psychopath, Apologies. You're a sociopath.

Goodnight, obsessive OP! Enjoy ruling a sad pathetic thread about your lousy sex life!

"What will happen at 3pm tomorrow?"

OP will be back on Grindr, stalking old failed hookups, then reporting back here and expecting nothing but fawning adulation.

Wth.

This thread is a case study of the unhinged freaks on Datalounge. R19, faced with a mundane story about S-E-X looses his mind & posts a screed laden with over the top insults and profanity, when the entire answer to OP should have simply been, "he's just not that into you."

Then, when R19 gets called out for being a hypocrite based on his posting history (pointed out at r32 and r59) - he literally stays up all night to get the last word in to make sure everyone knows HE'S NOT THE CRAZY ONE!! OP IS THE CRAZY ONE!#!%#%!*$

I am guessing that his screeching only stopped when his Seroquel finally kicked in and knocked him out cold. Or maybe he required Thorazine at that point.

For fucks sake, how do some of you bitches function when you are this crazy on an ANONYMOUS forum? Nobody knows who the fuck you are. You don't have to prove anything or win a case in front of random people who know nothing about you. What prize are you trying to win with this constant hysterical posting R63, R47, R49 (same person)? I would just love to know your motivation because your kind is constantly stinking up other threads with your histrionics. What exactly do you get out of it?

[quote]You told him “with a new phone all these people pop up now”??

That stuck out for me, too. I would have blocked OP's ass so fast after that.

The grindr drama is real

Grindr logs you out occasionally (used to be worse - not as much anymore), but this is why so many people post "lost all chats" - because they don't remember what email they used or they used a fake one & had to create a new account. When you get a new phone - especially if it is another brand, it will log you out. If you used a fake email to make your account (or an email you don't remember), you'll have to create a new account. It's not that complicated. Why you'd give your real email to a company like Grindr who is Chinese owned and sold HIV status information is the real question.

And when you make a new account - all the people you blocked (or who blocked you) pop up again.

[quote]Gurl bye. You blocked me for some reason & whatever it is is fine - I don't really care. But don't waste my time. I could've done other things at 3.

Yet you still tried to hook up with him. You speak with forked tongue.

R70 - he said "don't waste my time" and "I could've done other things at 3" in response to the guy saying "still wanna meet up after 3 today?" when that guy really had no intention of meeting and certainly did not have to say that. He could've just stopped talking or said he wasn't interested - not made plans again (that he knew he would flake on)

It's really not that hard to understand. You speak with a forked brain.

R71, in the same post he said

[quote]Anyway, he ghosted at 3 PM

Which means if the guy didn’t ghost him at 3, he still would’ve tried hooking up with him. It was only after he ghosted that he feigned indignation at originally being blocked.

R72 - read the original text block posted from the app. They agreed to meet at 3. Then the other guy blew OP off. So, yes, they still were going to hook up if the other guy didn't blow him off.

[quote]It was only after he ghosted that he feigned indignation at originally being blocked.

The guy also claimed he blocked him by accident & wanted to hook up at 3. That all turned out to be a lie, based on the fact he never replied after 3. I'm not sure if you know what "feigned indignation" means but that's not what is in that post. You seem very confused. Are you reading this outside of an English speaking country?

"your kind is constantly stinking up other threads with your histrionics."

Types R65, the shrill ranting queen who types an entire essay of "j'accuse!" like a babbling fool foaming at the mouth.

But this closes the case on deranged OP: "looses his mind "

Hon, your mind's quite loose, more than a slot in Reno.

"I recently saw a profile that listed the guy's favorite coloring book."

All the online cruisers are passive aggressive Arrested Developments. And compulsive liars. Naughty little bois.

Unfortunately, this is the bulk of gay men. They finally found a venue in which to be themselves. If you're looking for a monogamous relationship or marriage, forget about it; ain't no one out there.

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

OMG - Block R74 and look what happens to this thread. That is some deranged shit. What an unhinged mess! Why are you calling everyone in the thread the OP just because they are pointing out what a lunatic you are? Do you think the OP has been awake for the past 20 hours straight (and overnight) talking about a guy on grindr?

There were many valid points in the post at R65 & you were also asked a pretty clear question that you obviously can't seem to answer.

Let me guess what your reply will be: "R76 / OP - crazy freak psychopath." Right? Don't even bother, nut job.

Oh I already had r76 on block... hence the incorrect numbering.

"Do you think the OP has been awake for the past 20 hours straight (and overnight) talking about a guy on grindr? "

Wouldn't be surprised.

[quote] Wouldn't be surprised.

That's because you're thinking from YOUR deranged perspective - of someone who was up to 4 AM arguing over this - then woke up 6 hours later and jumped on DL first thing to check this thread.

[quote]the online cruisers

I know you identified yourself as an eldergay in another thread, but that term made me LOL. Just HOW elder are we talking?

R79 why are you still posting in this thread? You already said this 20 hours ago:

[quote]Nobody cares about your pathetic dregs of a sex life, OP.

[quote]No. Body. Cares.

Yet you're still posting here? Do you know how to click the eye icon to take this out of your thread watcher?

R80 R81, you're very needy. You also have serious control issues.

If you don't like what someone types, click Ignore, bitch. You really are unhinged, feeding off my every typed word like a junkie. Go back to Grindr and expose someone else who blocked you. There must be hundreds.

One of the early symptoms of dementia is this omnidirectional rage with absolutely no self-awareness, so I don’t expect to get my questions answered

Keep obsessing over my spelling, nutcase. You have a "loose" grasp on realty R74. There, is that better?

"You have a "loose" grasp on realty"

Ha ha. No. Just no.

R84, why are you still posting here? Your post at r2 was pretty clear:

[quote]No. Body. Cares

Reality* was a typo. Get over it. But why are you still posting here after your reply in r2 20 hours ago? You were already asked once.

The olds are too helpless with computers to understand how their posts can be tracked so simply... sad!

Oh, I see - the same person who posted at R2 and R84 is also R74 and all authored the insane posts under there too, going back to r19. Also, they appear to have forgotten they were pretending to be separate people initially & they just started just replying as the same person from the two different devices they are using.

WOW you are INVESTED! The USA should really bring publicly funded sanatoriums. You and your 3 devices would take up a whole wing!

R85, R86, R87 = obsessed much?

Sad little slag. The 'olds' started this website, little "loose realty" (sic) cunt crumb. Ignore/search that.

OP, aka the virulently needy queen, R85, etc, etc. is in violation of DataLounge's terms of service on these pints:

Please do not post material that infringes copyright or other intellectual property rights. (posted someone else's nude pic and texts without permission, or Grindr's)

Please do not post information that you know to be confidential or sensitive or otherwise in breach of the law. (ibid.)

Please do not use this Site in an unlawful manner or to promote unlawful conduct or in a manner likely to give rise to civil liability. We think that's a bit obvious but sometimes you just have to smack people upside the head with the obvious and even then. (fraud, stalker, etc.)

Please do your best to keep all comments relevant and "on topic" to the particular thread. We know how trying this can be, but sometimes you just have to put the pen down, peg. (OP to R87 frantically copy-pastes others' irrelevant fictional posts, and doesn't even know who Peg was, so the newbie can just fuck off.)

Spot the typo above, Grindr addict. I gave you that to feed on, Miss Needy.

[quote]Please do not post material that infringes copyright or other intellectual property rights. (posted someone else's nude pic and texts without permission, or Grindr's)

As a lawyer, you need to be set straight about a few things. Your bullshit posts have gone on long enough & now are crossing a line where you're accusing someone of illegal activity and or violating TOS of this site.

Fist of all, if DL enforced that provision, they'd have to ban every person who copies and pastes articles from the New York Times, Forbes, and so on... THAT is what "infringing on intellectual property rights" is, though I suppose this simple concept is over your head. In those cases, those publishers can have a claim against the site for republishing their content, but they do not waste their time with lawsuits that would cost more to file than they would win in damages. You know nothing of the law or civil liability. Stop pretending that you do.

What damages does Mr. Headless Torso have, in dollars? None. Why? Because (a) he is unidentifiable and (b) 1000 people saw the pic (or less). Furthermore, DL itself has no liability due to Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act which puts the liability on the person who posted those pictures, not the host (if there were any privacy laws covering them, which there are not). Of course it is far too much to expect a lunatic like you to know anything of basic internet, IP, and copyright laws - so perhaps you shouldn't try to cite something you know NOTHING about and go back to correcting typos. That appears the apex of your education.

Furthermore, this linked site (below) has been posted and discussed numerous times on here. There is no expectation of privacy when you put your photos on an app where anyone can take a screen shot at any time. There never has been an expectation of privacy despite guys claiming to be "discrete" (sic). Also, notice there's no face picture posted, so your pretend outrage is a joke and your legal "arguments" (if they can even be called that) fail.

R19 GET HELP. Or not. This shit is hilarious.

R65, I was in tears laughing while reading your take down of R19. He's definitely going to need the thorazine injection. Seroquel just wouldn't control this level of batshit fast enough.

WW92

But... but ... HEADLESS TORSOS HAVE RIGHTS TOO!!

OP and his multiple-(device) personalities are still butthurt from my R2.

Sad. I should feel sorry for him, since he lives in San Francisco, where the hookup options are so apparently lowbrow.

But do go on, Crystal, you obsessed queen, now that you're off your shift as a shop girl. Enjoy your weekend hunting down more in your self-described 'dick desert.'

wtf happened to this thread???? it's gone way off course

^^Yeah, but it came with legal advice!

Win!