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Why do gay men have eurotophobia

I must admit, I have always thought that way. As a young gayling I always had girls coming onto me and it just terrified me. I had nightmares of being sucked into hell like the Sarlaac pit in Star Wars.

by Anonymousreply 43May 2, 2018 5:47 AM

They don't. I'm not afraid of women, I just don't want to have sex with them.

by Anonymousreply 1April 25, 2018 8:00 PM

Eurotophobia isn’t a fear of women.

by Anonymousreply 2April 25, 2018 8:03 PM

I'm not afraid of women OR their genitalia

by Anonymousreply 3April 25, 2018 8:04 PM

We are afraid of tops from Europe?

by Anonymousreply 4April 25, 2018 8:06 PM

It refers to an intense aversion or dislike of female genitalia. So yes you faguettes do have it based on the postings here.

by Anonymousreply 5April 25, 2018 8:09 PM

A very early memory - I was perhaps three years old - was of my mom telling me that "one day you're going to grow up and fall in love with a woman, marry her, and have kids" - to which I violently objected, "NOOO!" "Yes, you will," she insisted, seizing me in a hug and kissing me. "NOOO!" I repeated, starting to cry. "Oh yes you will," she repeated, tickling me, trying to get me to laugh. "NOOO, nooo, nooo!" I struggled to get away, but she persisted; evidently she meant to turn it into a game of "uncle," where at some point I would have enough and concede. But I didn't.

Decades later, after I had come out, I reminded her of it, and remarked, "Told ya."

She denied it ever happened, but then she always denied everything awful she'd ever done or said. Her mendacity and selective memory were routine.

by Anonymousreply 6April 25, 2018 8:11 PM

Because their parts are disgusting, maybe?

by Anonymousreply 7April 25, 2018 8:27 PM

The vagina can be disgusting, yes. But then again so can the anus.

by Anonymousreply 8April 25, 2018 9:04 PM

R5 Aversive therapy. In a way. Bisexual guys rarely have it, exactly because they have never felt as if male-female eroticism was being forced upon them. Lesbian women often feel the same towards male genitalia whereas bisexual ones don't.

Gay guys often feel a pressure from the society to sexually desire women, so they sort of transfer that feeling of being pressured onto women, seeing them as predatory.

There is also an interesting theory about the repressed threat of female sexuality in general. As in, female vagina represents a hole, but a hole is for the taking. not to be taken. You fall into a hole. It traps you. A whirlpool is sucking a ship in, the ship isn't conquering it. When you squeeze a pencil in your fist, your fist is the agressor and the owner there, not the pencil. Men repressed women socially and tried to deny it, presenting themselves as the domineering sexual force, but deep inside they know they are not. Gay men, not blinded by lust, see it as it is.

by Anonymousreply 9April 25, 2018 9:12 PM

Who abused you OP ?

by Anonymousreply 10April 25, 2018 9:41 PM

Don't be afraid of my vagina. It doesn't bite.

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by Anonymousreply 11April 25, 2018 9:52 PM

When I was 7 or 8, I used to have recurring nightmares about two hicks breaking into my house and trying to take me with them so I would marry their daughter.

No visible vagine, but still, it was terrifying!

by Anonymousreply 12April 25, 2018 10:23 PM

R6 Was your mother Joan Crawford? She sounds abominable.

by Anonymousreply 13April 25, 2018 11:09 PM

Haha.

by Anonymousreply 14April 28, 2018 5:20 AM

Vaginas look like soggy wounds - no other part of the body, male or female, looks like that unless you lost a limb and the hole is still open.

So yeah, if you're not attracted to it, it is as normal for you to be grossed out, just like it is normal to feel the same about anything else resembling open wounds in the body.

When I was young, vaginas truly disgusted me. Now, I'm more indifferent. But then again, I've also become rather indifferent to gore. And yes, I do think these two things are related.

I don't know why gay men's reactions to vagina elicits such strong passions in straight people and women. Straights are always saying how gross they find gay men and people seldom make a big deal about it, even though lots of deadly gay-bashings have taken place because of straights being grossed out by gay PDA, whereas I know of no case where a gay man beat, let alone kill, a woman for thinking her vage was icky.

by Anonymousreply 15April 28, 2018 5:40 AM

R6 actually it's interesting, I NEVER could stand metal hangers. I think it's the nadir of horror. I thought it was some bizarre phobia that I was the only one person to suffer, until I heard of that movie. I still cannot tolerate them in my house. I always buy beautiful wood hangers for my dressing.

by Anonymousreply 16April 28, 2018 6:48 AM

Metal hangers are perfect for giving yourself an abortion. I've done it several times.

by Anonymousreply 17April 28, 2018 7:56 AM

Vaginas are, I suppose, like penises. Some are pretty and nice to look at, while some are not. A pretty vagina is something to appreciate. Not all vaginas are the same, however. Sexually, though they all be slippery wet, some are HOT HOT HOT inside, while others don't seem to heat up at all. Cunnilingus is a great thing if you know what you're doing. Give it a try. Lick a vagina today!

by Anonymousreply 18April 28, 2018 12:22 PM

No vagina is pretty to look at for a truly gay man. They're all hideous disgusting smelly pits of bacteria, urine, and menstrual blood. Straight men don't seem to have that same aversion. Using a restroom commonly dominated by females, for example, there's always a nasty funky smell, whereas a straight man might inhale and sniff and eat from the trash can, a gay man would hold his nose and try not to look too closely at anything.

by Anonymousreply 19April 28, 2018 12:43 PM

Say hello to my octopussoi!

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by Anonymousreply 20April 28, 2018 12:47 PM

R19 <~~~~ says the guy eating ass

by Anonymousreply 21April 28, 2018 7:50 PM

r21 a clean ass is one thing, but a hideous, stinking vagina that cannot be cleaned lest you "disturb the natural flora and fauna" is another. Ew!

by Anonymousreply 22April 30, 2018 4:56 PM

R22 - So I guess retrieving a pair of used panties from the dirty clothes hamper to smell throughout the day is a definite NO NO?!

by Anonymousreply 23April 30, 2018 5:13 PM

People like what they like. There doesn't have to be a phobia involved because you of what you (don't) like.

by Anonymousreply 24April 30, 2018 5:21 PM

R19, Almost all women bathe or shower regularly. They menstruate only a few days a month. Some take birth control pills so that they only menstruate a couple months per year. So everything you said in your post is essentially wrong.

Perfectly OK that even thinking about, let alone seeing, a vagina would be a total turn-off for you. I get it. Just as I understand in Western culture most men keep their asses perfectly clean.

by Anonymousreply 25April 30, 2018 5:27 PM

I don’t mind the shaved ones that have had labioplasty, but I guess spoilsports here would condemn those as fake looking and example of male oppression since the women are submitting themselves to surgeries and hair removal treatments just to provide men with their thrills.

by Anonymousreply 26April 30, 2018 5:46 PM

Wow - this discussion seems to be going rather deeper than one might expect - Gay men, I ask: Why the hate and distaste concerning the vagina? - It was, after all, a vagina which enabled your conception, gestation, and BIRTH into the world - Why such animosity for that which gave you life?

by Anonymousreply 27April 30, 2018 5:59 PM

r25 is lying! Women can't fully wash "in the hole" because it will kill the natural flora and fauna and cause their vaginas to drop off! It's disgusting that you have to mislead people like this. If Sarah Huckabee Sanders is fired, you can take her place!

by Anonymousreply 28April 30, 2018 6:41 PM

Labia is somewhat scary but it's the clit I'm genuinely terrified of. It looks like a deformed proto-penis. Literally like a 3D printer died halfway through printing an actual penis. Why can't you just have either a hole or a pole? Why both?! And that discharge of unknown origin that happens with some women during orgasm... where the hell is *that* coming from?! It's just all so confusing.

Though I have to say, I've been watching more and more FTM porn lately (especially solos) for some reason and I'm kinda losing my aversion to it all. Some of those clits are fucking HUGE so it's helpful because I can imagine an actual penis in its place.

by Anonymousreply 29April 30, 2018 6:50 PM

Most of them don't.

F/F so OP can move on to the next Troll Post.

by Anonymousreply 30April 30, 2018 7:47 PM

R15 I think it looks about the same as a mouth, just sort of glossier/wetter looking.

by Anonymousreply 31April 30, 2018 7:51 PM

R19 LOL go back to school, urine comes from an entirely different hole in all females of warm-blooded species including humans.

by Anonymousreply 32April 30, 2018 7:53 PM

R29 A clitoris IS a tiny penis, they are formed from the same parts in a fetus.

by Anonymousreply 33April 30, 2018 7:57 PM

R29, that discharge is better than sour cream - it's what I dip my tater chips in - R33 is correct in that a clitoris is akin to a tiny penis - we all start out as unisex in the womb, and I think it's at the end of the first trimester that our gender is decided - it all comes down to hormones at that point - a lot of estrogen, then a clitoris is formed, likewise, testosterone overflow then a full penis will develop - R29 this is why we all (male and female) have nipples - there's a lot going on during gestation and any number of "anomalies" may develop including those of the sexual variety - this is one of the reasons to always used your own head for greater understanding so that you always know that "God" loves you regardless

by Anonymousreply 34April 30, 2018 8:29 PM

LOL R21 😂

by Anonymousreply 35April 30, 2018 9:16 PM

R11 It doesn't bite? Then why does the phrase "vagina dentata" exist? Many a man has lost his penis to a biting vagina but we just don't like to talk about it.

by Anonymousreply 36May 1, 2018 1:05 AM

Somebody, please shit in R17's mouth! They love it!

by Anonymousreply 37May 1, 2018 1:20 AM

R37 Trolls are 98% of DL, Lady Kaka. Suck on a big black dick.

by Anonymousreply 38May 1, 2018 1:43 AM

R27 What kind of brain dead logic is that? Only a female, religious, nutbag moron could conceive of something so stupid. These days more than half of all fetuses are delivered by C section thus avoiding the cunt altogether.

by Anonymousreply 39May 1, 2018 2:25 AM

R34 and one of these "anomalies" are the inclination to get sexual arousal with body parts whose structures and functions are unlike our own as well as the inability to differentiate between insemination by copulation and sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 40May 1, 2018 5:21 AM

My mom had to have a cesarean. No way was I going near that pussy. The closest I've come to pussy since then is opening a can of tuna.

by Anonymousreply 41May 1, 2018 5:27 AM

OP is just doling out the Hateorade.

Don't dignify the troll's bullshit opinions. MOST GAY MEN DON'T CARE. Only this troll made anyone think about it.

by Anonymousreply 42May 1, 2018 8:29 AM

R42 kill yourself, cunt.

by Anonymousreply 43May 2, 2018 5:47 AM
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