gay men who don't care for anal: DL vs real life

I am skeptical about anal because I don’t like shit and I refuse to go bareback despite my partners claims of using Prep.

It’s an effort.

[quote]yet if you listen to DLers, everyone is obsessed with it?

DLer are whores.

Those who are obsessed with anal tend to go and on about. Those who don;t like anal tend to keep quiet about it--it's considered not the quite in gay culture not to be into anal.

Who’s got the time to prep? Mouth and hands are always ready to go...

[quote]Who’s got the time to prep?

Those vicious wanton power-bottoms who stay ready to take your man. You better take time to give up the cootch cause if you aren't somebody else is doing it for him

I know a lot of people who aren't into anal and who admit that begrudgingly. It's a lot of prep and cleanup in a way that oral is not.

@r6 darlin’, which can you live longer on, a fat dick or fat wallet?

DL has a disproportionate percentage of slutty, promiscuous, sex obsessed older men who don’t accurateky reflect the overall bi and gay male population. There are a lot of Old School reckless slutty types here.

"Those who don't like anal tend to keep quiet about it"

Have you visited her before? Those who don't like it can't shut up. Anytime anybody discusses anal, the anti crowd jumps in and says "ewwww - i hate that". ,

Maybe because their partner's dick is just too big?

R6 What's in there for them? You can't do it more often than a certain number of times anyway, otherwise health problems will follow.

A life of nothing but foreplay and masturbation just seems so depressing to me. Like why even be gay? Oral is one-sided. You will never have a mutual orgasm as deep and connected as is possible with penetrative sex.

My ex wasn't into anal OR oral. Bye Felicia.

There, there, Mary at r13: calm down. No one is preventing you personally from getting as much anal as you want.

It just seems a little juvenile to avoid something as natural and fundamental as sex because you are scared of a little poop or santorum.

Not into anal because it hurts like hell.

There, there now... no one's making you do anything... shh, shh...

R13 I'd say if you enjoy penetration, then being non-gay is the way to go. No matter what gay men say about fish, pussy is made for it. It self-lubricates, needs zero preparation and if the woman didn't have too many children, it's tightly muscled. Though if you enjoy being penetrated, then well, no easy way.

Exactly. Plus I can’t stand touching a person’s anal region. Grosses me out.

[quote]Oral is one-sided.

You've never heard of 69?

There is always frottage, too. (Rubbing cocks against each other).

The expectation at present is guys want to get fucked almost exclusively. Oral guys have to emphasize their preference. Many buttsex guys will lure you in with a blowjob, then in various ways talk you into fucking them. The first butt profile I saw in a profile was about 2005. Now it's butthole selfies everywhere.

I used to love anal, mostly as a bottom, but as I reach my mid-40s I find that I’d just rather jerk off.

Just try and go to Egypt and tell the gentlemen you are not into anal. You would be thrown off a roof for that.

Nevfer been into it. Bottoming hurts and Topping is too much work.

R14 I had a relationship with a man like that. He was really only into frottage. Raised Catholic and uptight, but he was a musician, sensitive, smart, and handsome. Amazing what you can make do with when you love someone.

Tell us more, R19!!!

Frottage is magnicent while piching nipples, kissing, looking into your partners eyes. I love it but sometimes you gotta flip that bitch over and pound it good.

Everything in its place R29!

The thought of an over-used, torn or damaged sphincter is just eww!

I don't like getting fucked, either.

I stopped seeing the last guy I was with because he kept trying to fuck me and I couldn't relax enough to let his thick uncut cock up my butt, especially if he couldn't allow my average cock up his butt.

There is nothing better than pumping a boitwat/mussy/puss-he/manhole/asshole. You don't get the guy pregnant and willing bottoms cum from it. As for the post that mentioned, the non gays....I don't like knocking up a Khloe Kardashian type and have my baby named some dumb trashy name.

Was never my thing, probably the reason I am still alive. My youth was not a good time to experiment in that department.

^ how vivid!

^ meant for R33

R34 You're right. Look what it's done for that person known as Conchita Werst.

Just thinking abt me and my friends I really don't know no one whose into anal. Kinda gross when ya think abt it. Me and my friends are mostly into oral and JO. Maybe anal is an eldergay thing.

What is JO?

Who is Jo?

[quote]Just thinking abt me and my friends I really don't know no one whose into anal. Kinda gross when ya think abt it. Me and my friends are mostly into oral and JO.

Gurl those hoes are lying to you, they buss it open every chance they get

I suggest mussy

Time for a show of hands, and be honest : how many of you posting to this thread are women, uptight gayfrauen, or members of some fucked up fundamentalist sect? How many who don't fit those categories think anal is gross because you yourselves think everyone else has the same poor anal hygiene habits as you ?

We do seem to have this discussion every month

I get this worrying feeling I might be a gayfrauen whatever that is.

^ you mean a prude?

I think the infusion of fluid, mostly straight, and bi men into the m4m Scene has meant the growth of men who exoerienve sexual activity with men but with strong limitations and boundaries.

R38 is not into anal.

Or speaking English above the 2nd grade level, apparently.

I've never had a man who didn't beg for it once I got him ready.

And I did find a photo of R38.

From 20 years ago.

More cushion for the pushin'!

Hey OP bot, where's Gregori, Svetlana and your other Russian hacking comrades?

I dated a guy for about a year and all he wanted to do was get fucked. Clean as a whistle, but I got bored.

Gay friends I am female, and I used to be a dominatrix.....OP/ R38 are straight men (more than likely douche bag bro's). I've dealt with these types, you see they jerk and suck each other off. THEY REALLY WANT ANAL (give/receive) but there homophobia overrides their lust. They like to bother the gay men in their gay communities because try as they may, they to want to understand what it's like. They serve/call someone like me (" it ain't f***** if a woman orders me to bend over and uses her strap on).....but alas this is never good enough. THEY HATE YOU WITH A PASSION.....but they want what you have. Straight women keep these boys in line because they try so hard to impress us ("yo my abs are like sick!) AND THATS WHAT THEY HATE. We should automatically surrender every whole. They figure they're "hawt" so why wouldn't a gay man want ALL THIS? Douche bag bro's are best suited with the "self hating" crowd. **I hope I didn't offend any of you (gay men), if I did I'm sorry as that wasn't my intention. I've dealt with these types and yes they both hate and want to be you.

Jews for Anal!

This thread is so apropos to my day today. I too am a gay who doesn't enjoy bottoming. I actually tried this toy out today with plenty of lube that vibrates. I couldn't get it in. I hurt too much. I tried relaxing, different positions, deep breathing, but I couldn't get it in. Then I watched some porn of guys getting pounded and was so jealous of how easily they took it. How amazing some of their orgasms looked, or how hot it would feel to have a man deep inside you.

There is something else I've strongly considered as well, which is fascinating to me. Enjoying anal sex for a man is completely physiological and not based on sexuality at all. So given the number of straight men to gay men in the world, given that as we see here a lot of gays don't even enjoy bottoming - the number or straight men who could actually enjoy and orgasm from anal sex is MUCH greater than the number of gay men in the world. The unfortunate thing for them is that they will never know because anything anal as related to men, is seen as extremely gay. But more and more straight men, I think are learning that their ass can be a huge erogenous zone for them.

Another thing I've learned as well is that there is a natural propensity by people to want to be dominated, taken, used, ravished - whatever. It's the Alpha/Beta syndrome. There are more and more beta men in the world who are becoming comfortable with being used completely by another more assertive male figure. A lot of "str8 boys for gay Alphas" out there. They want to be over powered. And a huge part of this is being fucked in the ass, being degraded - in their mind. They associate being fucked with being degraded. And they love it. They don't want to kiss a guy, they don't want to go to dinner, they aren't really turned on by men at all, outside of the cock that is going to fuck them. Women with strap-ons just don't do it for them because there is a conceit, in the back of their mind, that they still hold all the power and are letting this happen. They need to feel powerless to what is happening to them and another guy is the only way to achieve this.

Meh, the ass is always tighter, R19. Plus with vagina you have to deal chunky period gore, caustic antisperm secretions, and whatever it is that makes their underwear turn white and crusty. Let's not even get into how nasty saliva and the mouth are. No orifice is completely unproblematic.

"chunky period gore" and "caustic antisperm secretions" R56. Wow. I have no words....

I'm bi and I've hooked up with guys alot of times, but I've never done anal either way, it just doesn't do anything for me. I don't like anal with women either, even though some of the younger ones in college preferred it, to preserve their virginity.

There's a reason it's called The Difficult Brown.

R55 Dude. It's porn. They are faking it.

R55, welcome to the new world of porn. I'm not watching studio porn or pornstars getting fucked for money. I'm doing about the guy down the block who set up the came while he fucks his boyfriend. There are tons of amateur porn videos out there showing real people having real sex. Those are the guys I'm talking about who are taking dick no problem. Even still you can't fake easily taken a cock up your ass. It's written all over your face if it hurts like hell.

....

I love to fuck. I am fortunate to have a fuckbud currently with a tight body and tighter little bubble ass. I slam and grind my dick into him for over an hour at a time while he wiggles and bucks against me. He says he cums on average 3X while I'm fucking him.

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I’m a millennial and I’m into bottoming. (27 and from Los Angeles) What other guys and friends are telling me (Tops that are hookup buddies or acquaintances) is that some of you whore out there really don’t take the time to clean out / douche properly. Plus a lot of guys are just letting Tops bust there O rings out when they’re not even used to the physical act of being penetrated. You have to buy dildos and practice opening up. Your hole does get used to opening and you actually gain more control over you sphincter muscle....well at least I have over the years. It’s like my hole is even tighter than it was when I was in high school. All I’ve got to say fellas is....Being a Bottom is a mindset and it’s not meant for everyone, if you haven’t discovered the modern day salt water douche trick then you definitely shouldn’t get fucked.

[quote]even though some of the younger ones in college preferred it, to preserve their virginity.

You've never been with a woman, young or otherwise. No woman prefers anal or even likes it. Why would they? They get nothing from it but pain (and messiness). If they do it at all it's usually to please someone who's pressuring them for it. Low self esteem.

Anal "to preserve vaginal virginity" is a myth that has been repeated over and over in a loop so often that it becomes fact in the minds of gullible people. No virgin teenage girl is going straight to ass sex. How ridiculous. That's WAY down the road for hetero couples, most never getting there at all.

r66 no offense but do you know any young women? They are more freaky than ever before and are giving gays a run for our money. Many of them do back door (and love it) and a lot of them are eating out their guys too.

It's hot in porn but in real life I can do without it.

Women having anal in order to preserve their virginity is a common practice in the Middle East.

I'm not crazy about it. Part of the problem is tops not realizing that porn is a fantasy and not a documentary. In the words of Dionne from Clueless, I keep my man satisfied.

I'm a straight female and in my circle of gay friends I'm the only one whose every done anal, lol.

When I was 13 yoa or so, I knew that I was rabidly turned on by a desire to shove my penis into a hot male butt. After a handful of wet dreams (likely due watching early internet porn in the later 1990's) - it was clear that my lot in life was to find guys who wanted me to do that to them at an age where all of us were confused, down low, closeted, etc. I found out very quickly that after exercising a little cautiousness - finding VERY hot guys who were interested in getting anally molested was a rather easy task. Interestingly, about 3/4 of the boys that I fucked early on are now happily married with children and never did settle down with another man. Who cares, we had wonderful times back then. I was never into scat and never will be, but my obsession with boy ass was a raging desire despite the use of his oraface and I could not wait to penetrate him right up the ass. So oddly and maybe luckily - I almost NEVER had a young guy "chili dog" my dick....literally NEVER back then (ages 14 to around 23 or so). I never had any dirty dick issues until my mid to late twenties and when fucking guys my age or older. Teens tend to be clean - pun intended. I guess that they are just extremely regular? No clue. I digressed... I only know anecdotally, but most boys, men, gay/bi/straight, etc. that I have come into contact with were very into anal - one way or the other. It is "dirty", exciting, "wrong", deviant, hot, sexy...add your description. Most guys want it - either in their ass or in the case of the smaller majority that I fall into - want to put it into yours..

For whatever reason, and my doctor said it's not unusual, I have no feeling in my prostate. It's immune to stimulation.

R66 This is incorrect. Some women enjoy receiving anal sex genuinely. Two reasons. 1)tPsychological. The same as a gay man sucking a dick. Your mouth doesn’t have the ability to orgasm, right? But the process is erotically arousing so it feels good, and it can be awesome to touch yourself while doing it. 2)tPhysical. In some women, the pussy and the rectum are situated very close to each other inside their bodies. So during anal sex their sexual inner parts are getting pleasant sensations too.

Women are generally smaller than men, so oftentimes a dick just fine enough for a man can feel too large for a woman’s ass, that also matters. But some women do enjoy anal sex. Some women like both bottoming and topping (with a strap-on, which can be worn in a way that pleasures her as well.)

[QUOTE]I almost NEVER had a young guy "chili dog" my dick....literally NEVER back then (ages 14 to around 23 or so). I never had any dirty dick issues until my mid to late twenties and when fucking guys my age or older. Teens tend to be clean - pun intended. I guess that they are just extremely regular?

Yet another reason why young ass is superior. Thankfully I’m still fucking 20 year olds.

I am the only one who Never does anal in my circle of gay friends. My ex left me because of it.

Why don’t you do anal, R76?

Some guys love it; some guys hate it.

I've found that the guys who won't have anything to do with ass have, without exception, other sexual issues as well. Either they don't enjoy oral sex, or they don't like French kissing , or dirty talk disgusts them, or they had no idea what masturbation was until their late 20's ( I know four poor souls like that) or they think cum is gross (!) or they don't like actually seeing a penis, or they have bad hygiene, or they're just generally unimaginative and sexually retarded. Can't exactly expect sexually crippled guys to understand why insertive sex is fucking hot when they can barely grasp the fundamentals.

I had a tendency to assume it’s related to some sort of bowel disorder. Seems like everyone has one. IBS, IBD, Crohn’s, ulcerative colitis, diverticulitis. It must be hell to do anal with one or more of these conditions. It’s like you’re never completely empty.

I find it interesting people say anal is an eldergay thing. Because of HIV, if I lived in the 1980s I'd never have had anal sex. It would be more logical if young guys were more open to it and the eldergays remembering their fearful youth too well.

I think people today are generally more squeamish about hygienic and health issues, and buttsex triggers recoiling reactions

Because they’re pussies r82

Butt sex and eating man ass are the reasons that I was born

Well, I'm a 22 yo and I've only had anal once (received) However the guy was stupid and wanted to push it in fast, fucking retard! It did work out though, and it was thick. I have orgasms out of this world with it, so yeah whatever I don't care about how much I hate prepping. Plus the idea of satisfying my partner just takes it to a whole new level. Frottage? Yes I love it but I wouldn't consider it the main act.

I can't imagine being gay and never wanting the connection of penetrative sex with another man. I never cease to be amazed by what I see in this forum.

I think dry-humping is a far bigger turn-on, especially if the guy has a bubble-but.

Believe it or not, I never cared for oral sex, giving or getting, but seemingly that is how gay sex is most often initiated. I always liked penetrating a guy anally but never liked getting it. Also the point was made that being a top during anal sex involves a certain amount of work, which is true (balancing and all that), plus if the bottom is actually a bitch who whines alot then the whole thing is killed and I end up walking away. In my advanced age I seem to like just playing with a guy's ass and/or spanking him then jacking off. I did meet a guy once who liked being spanked while getting a hand job (standing up)--it took some coordination on my part, but I got him off with him cumming all over my hand plus he had a red ass too after it was all done.

After 20 years of trying to like it, I finally gave up. Don’t like bottoming. Too much prep and hurts. Don’t like topping. It’s hot to watch and I’ll happily be the other end of the spit roast.

R66 you are an idiot, and I have been with several men AND women, all millennials, a few of the girls I met in church type groups, I'm talking about when I was in college a few years ago. I'm from the Bible Belt and believe me there are alot of messed up girls, who wear their purity rings and call themselves virgins, even though they give more blow jobs and have had more cock up their ass than a San Fran street hustler. Because, they believe it doesn't count as sex as long as the dick doesn't go in the vagina. I even know young guys who are the same, they too took the pure until marriage pledge, and they believe they are fine as long as they just get blowjobs or anal from a girl. One of them had their mind blown when I pointed out that He should therefore be fine with homosexual sex, because by his definition it wasn't sex. I'm Christian but I'm not a "fundie," they warp everything and turn themselves in to illogical hypocrites trying to justify their beliefs, so yeah it shouldn't be hard to grasp that it is going on.

I have topped on occasion, and enjoyed it, though it makes me come too fast. I have never bottomed, and never wanted to. Truthfully, I never thought of the anus as a sexual zone till I was well into my 20s, and I was totally grossed out when my first boyfriend asked for anal sex. I got over the revulsion and have topped a handful of other guys in the years since, but anal is something I can well and truly do without. I don't rim either.

I was laughing at that too R57

I’ve never been able to cum from topping. And no it’s not because the guy wasn’t tight. Don’t know why, maybe it’s psychological.

If I'm with a professional bottom the sex can be awesome and I can go for a really long time, just fucking him crazy.

But semi-pro or amateur bottoms don't clean out well enough. Sometimes it's not even the shit, it's just the smell.

I've enjoyed bottoming maybe three or four times in my life, have to be in a particular mood.

Nothing is as big an ego stroke as making a bottom cum hands free.

Honestly I’ll let most any guy get it, but I get off better with my dildo. It has a suction cup and I put it on the hardwood floor and ride it. Can get instantly hard once it’s all the way inside. Sometimes even hands -free orgas. I also like to taste the precome.

I hate doing anal - it’s messy, a hassle to prep for

I do like getting rimmed though

So you can't be bothered to get your asshole clean inside and out, but you still expect some guy to stick his tongue in it?

I agree, OP. According to DL, "everyone" does anal and it you don't, you're flat-out weird. Also, every gay man mentioned on here is a bottom.

The first response you hear on D L when someone reveals that two guys are a couple is: "Who's the bottom?" Crazy.

I'm in my early 50's, been out since my early 20's and have always hated anal, both top and bottom. Have been in long-term relationship for 22 years and we have NEVER done anal sex.

OP, there are plenty of gay guys who don't like anal, so ignore what DL has to say.

DL has always had a healthy population of gays who don't do anal. Do we need to continually pretend it's surprising that different people have different sexual preferences and turn-ons? For me, good butt-sex is one of the great joys of life (and I get mind-blowingly great butt-sex) and while I feel slightly sorry for those who don't get the pleasure from it me and bf do, I don't think there's anything weird about enjoying it or not.

I’m sick of being made to feel like a pariah because I just do not find anal sex—giving or receiving—remotely hot or enjoyable at all.

I’ve never, ever been into and I’m 32 now. I am OBSESSED with sucking dick, though.

My aversion to anal has made my dating life difficult because men so seem to expect it, and if I meet the perfect guy will do it to keep him happy, but even then it’s not something I will ever enjoy.

The ass does smell often.

I suppose that we should all have the sex that we enjoy participating in and not have the sex that we dislike - it seems a rather simple concept.

[quote]My aversion to anal has made my dating life difficult because men so seem to expect it, and if I meet the perfect guy will do it to keep him happy, but even then it’s not something I will ever enjoy.

A true top can tell you're not enjoying it, even if you just go through the motions like you are. A lot of guys will fuck you just to get a nut, but they know you aren't really giving it up.

The fact that he’s not really enjoying it but enduring it as an act of submission would actually turn me on.

This thread is the work of Nazis. OP goes on about the mess, when any proper queen knows that this is a rarity because we douche. Really-these Nazi types are obsessed about anal sex just like the dominatrix says. They want it so bad and are jealous because many of us enjoy it.

That hole was designed for outgoing, not ingoing.

Its a shithole, literally, that's what it was designed for. And you put your peenie in your poopie?

R55 you're out of your fucking mind.

R105- Mel Gibson

I’ve written this before on one of these anal sex threads, but usually there’s no need to douche. I used to do it for years, thinking that if I didn’t, there would be a mess. When i realized my partner never douched and there was not any residue or anything, I decided to try bottoming without douching. That was over 3 years ago and I haven’t gone back to it. We have anal sex about 3x/week and things have always been perfectly clean with no odor. We eat a lot of fiber and avoid junk food, we don’t have any hemorrhoids, so maybe that all helps. We also don’t use toys or fist, etc. so only go in avoid 7 inches.

^^about

R105 your typical would be Nazi appalled, but also fascinated by gay sex.

[QUOTE]We eat a lot of fiber and avoid junk food, we don’t have any hemorrhoids, so maybe that all helps.

Good thing I’m a top. 😂

There is NOTHING appealing about anal sex! That is an exit cavity, it was not meant to be probed by ANYTHING. DUH!

Those of you like it, you have shitty smelling dicks. And your sheets and bedrooms smell like shit.

I'll top if my partner enjoys it but even then only with a condom.

Alligators are more of a threat now than they were in the 80s. They are getting displaced. The more they get displaced the more they show up in "suburbia"

Tried anal a couple of times 12 years ago and never did it again. Top and bottom. It's disgusting and hurts. If I'm watching porn and the guys start fucking or start sticking a dildo up his ass i lose my boner and all respect instantly. ORAL ONLY. A clean guy is so sexy to me. Nothing says dirty gutter slut like a torn up asshole.

In other news, R115 must have respect for his porn actors.

R115 When do you actually have respect for porn actors? I actually have more respect for prostitutes than porn actors, at least I know they are working harder.

Sorry Boys. Alligator comment was supposed to be on Golden Girls thread.

- R114

Here I thought “alligator” was some sort of new slang that I missed. 😂

You don't have any hemorrhoids YET R108

LOL 😂 R119

[quote]gay men who don't care for anal

I wonder if George Clooney cares what we think of his wife.

Wow who knew so many DLers were so stingy with the man puss. That explains so much of the aversion and frustration towards sex and ass related topics here, yall ain't getting none!

Reality check everyone: a penis goes into a vagina, not into an anus. Semen is supposed to be mixed with eggcells, not with fecal matter. : )

[quote]Semen is supposed to be mixed with eggcells, not with fecal matter. : )

Many agree with your approval of condoms.

Reality check r124: the penis wants what it wants and sometimes it wants anus

how nature works > human sexual desire

Supposed to be, R124? Can you site your authority, please? Or, did you just make that up? Are you spouting received bigotry you have not examined and do not understand?

I find taking a cock to be only an okay experience when it is in the context of casual sex. The prep can be enough to defeat the whole exercise.

But with an actual lover in an on-going lover's relationship, having his cock up my ass is essential. As is having mine cock buried deep in his ass. Absolutely essential.

I'm not spouting 'received bigotry'. I'm just repeating what I learned in my biology class back in high school. :) Anyway, it's funny how homos always get defensive when I write 'a penis goes into a vagina, not into an anus'... You could have written something else, like 'My boyfriend and I don't do that!' :)

"I'm not spouting 'received bigotry'. I'm just repeating what I learned in my biology class back in high school."

What you learned in Biology and received bigotry are one and the same thing. You don't see that?

So saying that a penis is supposed to go into a vagina is bigotry?! PWAHAHAHA!!! xD Oh boy... You people are nuts. :P

It can go into a vagina. It can go into a mouth, too. Or a butt. Or a melon. Some liver. Many toys.

The idea that is "supposed to" go into a vagina is bigotry.

No candle for you, bigot.

Nature is on the side of bigotry. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Nature allows my dick to go all sorts of places. You're an idiot, R133. Worse than that, for believing this nonsense you are posting here, you are a fool.

Just keep sending your 10% to your preacher.

The smell of shit makes lose my erection.

Nope, nature wants people to procreate, period. That's why men have penises and women have vaginas. I'm not Christian and I can post where I want, period. Freedom of speech. It's funny how you get defensive when I mention 'women' and 'vaginas'... Huh, maybe Eminem was right when he accused homosexuals of being heterophobic... Huh...

R72 Oraface? Oh queer.......

R116 Fabulous comment. I want to fuck you up the ass for it! Bravo.

R136 You so-called Hets engage in oral sex tons of times. Don't be shy. You are on the DL as well and have cocks in your mouthhole. Not to mention your mussy.

I never had the opportunity of engaging in oral sex with another guy and I doubt I will be skilled in it... :) Apparently, the ancient Romans frowned more upon 'cocksuckers' than 'ass-fuckeds': if you take another man's penis up your ass, they will laugh at you but if you put it in your mouth, they will refuse to let you dine at the same table as them... Other times, other mores...

Can I suggest that everyone just not reply to that "blah nature blah penis in vagina blah biology" person since it's a total waste of time and effort?

Arguing with fags is a waste of time. :P

A penis can go anywhere you want. A vaccum is the best. The perfect suck and you control it. But that's a no from me on the butt fucking. Maybe i just haven't found the right bottom. 🤔

R142 = 'Princess' Lee Radziwill.

The Princess has dementia. Her DL days are long gone.

To Mr. Homophobe R124, R136, R142:

If you hate "fags" (your word, not mine) what are you doing on DATALOUNGE? How did you find us, and why? Obviously you are curious and questioning your own sexuality.

Heterosexuals have plenty of butt sex as well of course. Straight porn is nothing but anal these days (have you watched any??) and plenty of the married guys that I have topped anally were curious about getting fucked in the ass due to the porn that they watch. Most wanted their holes licked as well (if they are hot and they are clean/showered - sure, I oblige). Do not think that anal sex is only a "gay" thing - that is far from the case in this day and age. I do not know that many women who claim to enjoy it, but I know very few women who refuse to give it to their male sex partners. When they give up anal - they get anything that their hearts desire - in some cases it is jewlery/cars/etc., in some cases they snag men 3 times hotter than they would otherwise, or in other cases they simply find a man kinky enough to do amazing things for them also (like eating them out for hours on end or taking a strap-on up his ass). Anal is really so commonplace now that it is hardly taboo for normal, sexual people - no matter the preference.