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Ben Stiller Brings Gay Teen Comedy “Alex Strangelove” To Netflix

Riding the wave of Love, Simon’s success—and just in time for Pride—Netflix is premiering its own gay-teen romantic comedy this June.

Alex Strangelove tells the story of Alex Truelove (Daniel Doheny), a well-rounded senior with a wonderful girlfriend named Claire (Beach Rats’ Madeline Weinstein), and a bright future ahead of him. But as Alex works towards achieving one last teenage milestone—losing his virginity—he meets Elliot (Antonio Marziale), a handsome, charming gay kid from the other side of town.

The new arrival sends Alex on a rollercoaster ride of emotions as he explores his sexual identity and navigates the pitfalls of high school. Joanna Adler, Isabella Amara, and William Ragsdale also star.

Director Craig Johnson (The Skeleton Twins) describes the movie, produced by Ben Stiller, as “a fun, funny, and flirty film located down the street from Pretty in Pink, around the corner from Superbad, and right next door to new neighbor Love, Simon.”

Strangelove will be released in selected theaters and on Netflix June 8.

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by Anonymousreply 180July 6, 2018 9:34 AM

So is the actor actually gay this time?

by Anonymousreply 1April 10, 2018 6:30 AM

Does it really matter, R1? It's called "acting" for a reason.

And good for Ben Stiller, who has always been relatively G&L friendly,, and all the others behind this project, regardless of their own sexual orientation.

by Anonymousreply 2April 10, 2018 6:42 AM

Don't be silly r1, gay actors in gay projects? That is crazy talk.

by Anonymousreply 3April 10, 2018 8:10 AM

[quote]Does it really matter, [R1]?

Yes.

If you see gay men constantly asking this questions about gay movies, then it probably means it does matter .

by Anonymousreply 4April 10, 2018 8:18 AM

question*

by Anonymousreply 5April 10, 2018 8:19 AM

Ugh! Daniel Doheny is probably straight but certainly Canadian.

So not only did he beat out some poor young gay actor for the part, no American was even given the chance. It just never stops.

FF Ben Stiller for being a cunt !

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by Anonymousreply 6April 10, 2018 8:32 AM

Will it show more skin than Love, Simon?

by Anonymousreply 7April 10, 2018 10:26 AM

Ben Stiller will do a lot better job than Greg Berlanti's milquetoast B.S. story about a shady gay kid who skeeves the audience out like Simon.

by Anonymousreply 8April 10, 2018 3:28 PM

Gay, Canadian, potato, po-tah-to...

by Anonymousreply 9April 10, 2018 3:35 PM

If Greg Berlanti isn't involved, neiter is any openly gay actor. Berlanti is the only one giving any opportunities to newcoming gay actors.

by Anonymousreply 10April 10, 2018 5:18 PM

R10 e.g. KJ Apa

by Anonymousreply 11April 10, 2018 5:23 PM

R10 Greg B AND Ryan M

by Anonymousreply 12April 10, 2018 5:32 PM

Well, Antonio Marziale is gay so there's that. He was just in Altered Carbon and it's nice seeing him get more work.

by Anonymousreply 13April 10, 2018 5:45 PM
by Anonymousreply 14April 11, 2018 5:56 AM

[quote]. Berlanti is the only one giving any opportunities to newcoming gay actors, [bold]but only as supporting characters.[/bold]

Fixed it.

by Anonymousreply 15April 11, 2018 6:27 AM

The more gay content, the better. I won't bitch about who plays the gay characters just yet.

by Anonymousreply 16April 14, 2018 3:52 PM

Mondrian? Mondrian? You don’t deserve to sit in that chair

by Anonymousreply 17April 14, 2018 3:53 PM

Will this be the theme?

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by Anonymousreply 18April 14, 2018 4:03 PM

In what universe is Antonio Marziale considered handsome?!?

by Anonymousreply 19April 14, 2018 4:08 PM

What is the concern studios have with gay actors playing gay characters? Is it the relationships these gay actors will get involved in off screen? The hand holding? The kissing?

by Anonymousreply 20April 14, 2018 5:45 PM

Must we suffer through yet another gay coming of age story? Doesn’t anyone have interesting or compelling ideas anymore?

by Anonymousreply 21April 14, 2018 6:16 PM

There are many good or mainstream ones. So good for this one!

by Anonymousreply 22April 14, 2018 6:23 PM

I meant there are not many good mainstream ones.

by Anonymousreply 23April 14, 2018 6:23 PM

Hopefully it'll have a happy ending

by Anonymousreply 24April 14, 2018 6:26 PM

If the movie doesn't include explicit sex scenes with lots of nudity, Datalounge will hate it. For reference, see any thread about the movie Moonlight.

by Anonymousreply 25April 14, 2018 6:31 PM

Yet, old prissy DL trolls whine about hot Instagram fitness models dudes and porn models posted here.

by Anonymousreply 26April 14, 2018 7:39 PM

[quote] Must we suffer through yet another gay coming of age story? Doesn’t anyone have interesting or compelling ideas anymore?

How about a monogamous adult gay male romance set in the United States with a happy ending?

by Anonymousreply 27April 14, 2018 8:29 PM

r20 I guess the casting people simply chose the one who had the best audition. I'm pretty sure inquiring about his sexual orientation or denying him a job because he's straight would be inappropriate and also discriminatory.

by Anonymousreply 28April 14, 2018 8:54 PM

[quote]Will it show more skin than Love, Simon?

[italic]Silver Spoons[/italic] showed more skin once Ricky finished puberty.

by Anonymousreply 29April 14, 2018 9:23 PM

[quote]How about a monogamous adult gay male romance set in the United States with a happy ending?

Oh, please. Who in the world would believe that kind of fantasy fiction?

by Anonymousreply 30April 14, 2018 9:46 PM

[quote]Oh, please. Who in the world would believe that kind of fantasy fiction?

Don't project your own inability to commit onto every other gay man alive.

by Anonymousreply 31April 14, 2018 9:49 PM

R29, why are you thirsty to have nudity and sex depicted among children or underage characters?

by Anonymousreply 32April 14, 2018 9:55 PM

R32, why aren't you in the CMBYN threads asking that?

by Anonymousreply 33April 14, 2018 10:07 PM

Very gay and very cute.

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by Anonymousreply 34April 14, 2018 10:16 PM

Tom of Finland tank!

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by Anonymousreply 35April 14, 2018 10:20 PM
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by Anonymousreply 36April 14, 2018 10:23 PM

I wish they’d do a show with a homely lead. Gay characters always have that Disney cutie pie look, which is popular and wonderful, but a little stale.

by Anonymousreply 37April 14, 2018 10:36 PM

People don't want to watch ugly people on TV or in movies.

by Anonymousreply 38April 14, 2018 10:47 PM

I beg to differ, r38.

by Anonymousreply 39April 14, 2018 10:50 PM

r34 Is he out as gay, or "blind item" gay?

by Anonymousreply 40April 14, 2018 11:26 PM

OK, I think r35 answers my question.

by Anonymousreply 41April 14, 2018 11:38 PM

Omg, I hope he really is gay!!

by Anonymousreply 42April 15, 2018 2:51 PM

Here's a spoiler-ishy review.

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by Anonymousreply 43April 15, 2018 2:57 PM

Something (not) surprising from the review-

[quote] While it’s nice that the girl isn’t simply brushed aside as a bothersome obstacle, it’s curious that the film spends far more time on Alex and Claire than Alex and Elliott. One would hope for a little more boy-on-boy action to go with all that R-rated teen spirit.

by Anonymousreply 44April 15, 2018 2:58 PM

Nice that it’s not going to be as wholesome as Love, Simon. Gay boys need raunch too.

by Anonymousreply 45April 15, 2018 3:00 PM

r44 Eurgh. Of course.

Love that one comment from Andrew Garfield under the review. Has he [italic]seen[/italic] the most recent photos of himself posted here on DL?!

by Anonymousreply 46April 15, 2018 3:05 PM

So it's gay, but not too gay

by Anonymousreply 47April 15, 2018 5:16 PM

I cannot wait for you all to see #AlexStrangelove. Coming this June to your ex-boyfriend’s Netflix account that he still hasn’t changed the password to not that u mind 🏳️‍🌈

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by Anonymousreply 48April 16, 2018 3:56 AM

Trailer.

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by Anonymousreply 49May 9, 2018 6:31 PM

Looks sweet R49.

by Anonymousreply 50May 9, 2018 8:14 PM

It's nice to have some feel good gay teen movies for a change instead of all the sad drama stuff about Aids and Greek tragedy death.

by Anonymousreply 51May 9, 2018 8:25 PM

Premieres June 8th and the preview trailer looks pretty damn good, actually.

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by Anonymousreply 52May 12, 2018 3:54 AM

Hopefully it's not as cheesy as it seems

by Anonymousreply 53May 12, 2018 3:55 AM

r52, thank you for sharing the date. Looks great. Funny, it's available on 8th of June and Love, Simon DVD & Blu Ray will be released on 12th of June.

by Anonymousreply 54May 12, 2018 10:33 AM

Heteronormative version of Love, Simon. (also that fucking homophobic whore from beach rats)

Bad parody of Love, Simon.

Yep, not gonna watch this

by Anonymousreply 55May 12, 2018 12:09 PM

Ew who let these helix models become actors

by Anonymousreply 56May 12, 2018 12:11 PM

....

by Anonymousreply 57May 18, 2018 2:33 AM

Drops tonight!

by Anonymousreply 58June 8, 2018 1:49 PM

Does it have any hot dudes?

by Anonymousreply 59June 8, 2018 2:08 PM

It has fairly positive reviews. Look forward to watching it this weekend.

Seems to be a "Love, Simon" type movie if the characters behaved like real teenagers and not Disney-teens.

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by Anonymousreply 60June 8, 2018 2:29 PM

Not all teens are vulgar hellions. In fact, surveys show Gen Z is much less likely to engage in drugs and sex than previous generations

by Anonymousreply 61June 8, 2018 2:36 PM

How obtuse r61.

People don't have PG-13 conversations in real life. I'm not talking about doing drugs and sleeping around, I'm talking about them talking them using profanity and talking about sex/masturbation. Which real teenagers do. The benefit of not being restricted to being a family-friendly movie.

by Anonymousreply 62June 8, 2018 2:40 PM

It really depends upon the group of teens, and where. Some don’t use profanity, often for religious or cultural reasons. That’s true in general. Now, specially for Love, Simon, I’m not sure what would be true to life for them. They might not have been Socially conservative, but they lived in small town Georgia. As a southerner, I can tell you that openly using profanity is still thought of as crude, immoral, or uncouth. In fact, it’s still often technically illegal in many places.z

by Anonymousreply 63June 8, 2018 3:53 PM

[quote]Ben Stiller will do a lot better job than Greg Berlanti's milquetoast B.S. story

He didn't.

It's fine, but the hetero action gets more attention (and skin) than the gay action, which we all should have seen coming. I think the guy who starts Alex down his path of coming out has a total of three scenes.

by Anonymousreply 64June 8, 2018 5:01 PM

Yeah, the movie is ok (love the best friend and his sister bickering at each other), but if you watch for the gay content, it's probably - if you are generous - 1/3 of the movie. The main plot is the relationship between Alex and his girlfriend Claire. Hell, I believe Alex's friends have more screen time than Elliot (Antonio Marziale).

But I do like the movie and the soundtrack is ace (features The B-52s classic Dance This Mess Around).

by Anonymousreply 65June 8, 2018 5:47 PM

I'll say however, that Alex and Elliot did have really great chemistry. Probably more than Nick Robinson and Keinyan Lonsdale, although that wasn't for lack of trying on the latter's part.

The actress who played Claire was quite good. As was Katherine Erbe as her mother.

Have there been howls of "bi-erasure!" from the usual quarters yet?

by Anonymousreply 66June 8, 2018 5:57 PM

Erbe is in another gay film called Dating My Mother, so I guess that's her thing now.

by Anonymousreply 67June 8, 2018 5:59 PM

Shouldn't there be howls of "gay erasure" instead, if the gay content only takes up a third of the movie?

by Anonymousreply 68June 8, 2018 6:01 PM

No, because Alex spends some time wondering if he's bi before realizing that he's full on gay.

by Anonymousreply 69June 8, 2018 6:21 PM

Oh, I see. Well, that's a very common experience at that age so I hope there isn't any blowback to that plot from the bisexuals.

God, I sound like a scared hostage, even though we belong to the same community. How did it come to that?

by Anonymousreply 70June 8, 2018 6:28 PM

There is a nice scene where Daniel Doheny shows off his bulge wearing underwear on a hotel bed while waiting for his girlfriend to come out of the bathroom.

Doheny plays a hilarious, socially awkward dork in Adventures in Public School.

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by Anonymousreply 71June 8, 2018 6:52 PM

But he’s skinny, so meh

by Anonymousreply 72June 8, 2018 7:05 PM

Creating a fantasy world, where in reality LGBTQ people will be denied service in businesses.

by Anonymousreply 73June 8, 2018 8:21 PM

Video review by two movie critics - a straight frau and a gay guy.

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by Anonymousreply 74June 8, 2018 11:56 PM

The one negative review (although a few of the positive ones are lukewarm) on Rotten Tomatoes says "Just watch Love, Simon" again.

by Anonymousreply 75June 9, 2018 1:55 AM

Daniel Zolghadri is so cute, more so than the actors playing the gay boys. I loved the scene where he showed his cock at school.

by Anonymousreply 76June 9, 2018 2:00 AM

I started to watch but the bad acting and stupid dialogs were too much

by Anonymousreply 77June 9, 2018 3:04 AM

I love Madeline Weinstein.

This is her second movie sleeping with a closet gay. She's getting typecast. ha ha ha

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by Anonymousreply 78June 9, 2018 3:18 AM

"Stupid Dialogs"??

by Anonymousreply 79June 9, 2018 3:46 AM

I just watched it and enjoyed it very much. Well made. Much better than a lot of gay themed films.

by Anonymousreply 80June 9, 2018 4:19 AM

I loved how they basically took every YouTube coming out video and used it for the final scene.

by Anonymousreply 81June 9, 2018 4:44 AM

Really wish they'd cast Nik Dodani as a gay character, he always seems cast straight. Oh well.

Plus Antonio Marziale is cute. Wish he'd lose the hair though. He was also on The Gay and Wondrous Life of Caleb Gallo, not sure if he's gay in real life though.

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by Anonymousreply 82June 9, 2018 4:47 AM

Antonio Marziale looks like a Greek God with the curly hair.

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by Anonymousreply 83June 9, 2018 9:57 AM

He is white and "cis-gendered." We are not interested.

by Anonymousreply 84June 9, 2018 10:18 AM

Spoilers:

So the gay lead fucks (or attempts to fuck) two separate girls, with requisite sex scenes. But with the boy he likes? One kiss at a dance. There are naked breasts but not so much as a male butt cheek. Oh, Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 85June 9, 2018 10:51 AM

Thank you, r85. My plan to skip it shall proceed apace.

by Anonymousreply 86June 9, 2018 11:00 AM

[quote] But with the boy he likes? One kiss at a dance.

That's not all. Alex attempts to have excruciatingly embarrassing sex with two girls, but he also spontaneously initiates a kiss with that same boy while they are on the boy's bed. It's just a kiss, but it's the most sexually electrifying moment the movie will generate, and it scares Alex.

by Anonymousreply 87June 9, 2018 12:44 PM

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by Anonymousreply 88June 9, 2018 1:25 PM

[quote]It's just a kiss, but it's the most sexually electrifying moment the movie will generate, and it scares Alex.

It's a good kiss. And Alex having to imagine Elliot shirtless to get it up to even attempt to have sex with Claire is probably familiar to a lot of gays.

I just don't buy that in 2018, it never occurs to Alex that he might be something other than straight until he meets Elliot.

by Anonymousreply 89June 9, 2018 4:07 PM

The straight making out scenes are, imo, played up for laughs. As r89 mentions Alex has to think about Elliot in order to be able to put on the condom.

The film is about Alex's struggle to figure out whether he is gay, bi, or straight.

[quote] I just don't buy that in 2018, it never occurs to Alex that he might be something other than straight until he meets Elliot.

Spoiler:

There is a scene close to the end where he almost drowns in a swimming pool and he remembers a repressed memory of getting a boner while showering with other boys when he was a boy himself. Which helps him to finally admit to Claire that he is gay.

by Anonymousreply 90June 9, 2018 5:09 PM

Funny that in the early parts of the movie, when he's going through various types of animals and their mating rituals, he's not quite sure what animal he would be, and settles on a penguin. Given that it's one species that has well documented homosexual behaviour (even made it to storylines in Will & Grace and Parks and Rec).

Not sure I liked the use of "strangelove" in the title but overall it was an ok teen comedy/rom-com. Like a lighter less indie version of Perks of a Wallflower. Perfect stay-at-home date movie for young gaylings to "Netflix and chill" if they still call it that.

by Anonymousreply 91June 9, 2018 5:35 PM

I miss gay films with dong. Maurice, Come Undone, Stranger by the Lake.

by Anonymousreply 92June 9, 2018 5:37 PM

Have you seen God's Own Country r92?

by Anonymousreply 93June 9, 2018 5:45 PM

R93, I forgot to add that one. Very good.

by Anonymousreply 94June 9, 2018 5:47 PM

THIS MOVIE IS AWESOME!

It's SO much better than LOVE, SIMON -- Ben Stiller is actually cool and he knows what he's doing, unlike that lame-o-zoid Greg Berlanti.

Strangelove is in pretty much in the same situation -- but he is MUCH less of a douche than Simon and much more likable. No over-the-top, high school movie cliches like embarrassing people in front of the whole school, which plagued SIMON.

Daniel Doheny is absolutely adorable. Most of the cast is. And there are ACTUALLY FUNNY jokes, like you'd expect from Ben Stiller and comedians who know what they're doing.

3.5 OUT OF 4 STARS!!! This is the movie that should have been in theaters!

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by Anonymousreply 95June 9, 2018 5:59 PM

R6 is a homosexist discriminator and aTrump-style protectionist.

FF her, please.

What ever happened to "the best one for the job?" We need to judge people and professionals by the content of their character, not how they were born. And r6 is a shit-guzzler.

by Anonymousreply 96June 9, 2018 6:02 PM

Nick Robinson is STRAIGHT, idiot @ r10!

by Anonymousreply 97June 9, 2018 6:04 PM

R97, he wasn’t when I was fucking him.

by Anonymousreply 98June 9, 2018 6:06 PM

Now there has to be ugly actors, r37?

FYI there are tons of indie, mostly FAILED shows with ugly leads just for you. Watch CUCUMBER from the BBC or GUY DUBAI.

And just to show pity on your mis-thinking mind, I'll tell you the name of a GOOD gay movie with ugly leads: the Spanish Bear epic CHUECATOWN. It even has a "hot guys are evil" theme, just for you!

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by Anonymousreply 99June 9, 2018 6:15 PM

Then what is this "Opiod Crisis" I keep reading about, r61?

by Anonymousreply 100June 9, 2018 6:18 PM

Obviously the movie was going to be straight-washed which is sad seeing this is 2018.

With that out of the way, I thought Ben Stiller made a better coming out story than Greg Berlanti.

by Anonymousreply 101June 9, 2018 6:21 PM

WRONG, r85.

The boys also kiss in their bedroom. There is no nudity, but ALEX STRANGELOVE has more scantily clad people than SIMON, including the guys who show off their limbs/bodies/underwear.

by Anonymousreply 102June 9, 2018 6:29 PM

Alex Strangelove is about the struggle of figuring out your sexuality. Once the lead finally figured it out the whole coming out process (to his friends) was skipped.

In Love, Simon the struggle of figuring out your sexuality was skipped and the movie is about the struggle of coming out to your friends and family.

In both movies they end up with the guy they love.

by Anonymousreply 103June 9, 2018 6:30 PM

r89, the movie shows that Alex is lying to himself and everyone else. The girlfriend Claire (Madeline Weinstein) addresses your exact concern in the movie to bust him.

by Anonymousreply 104June 9, 2018 6:31 PM

SPOILER:

Alex eventually admits that his attraction to guys was "always there," but he was trying desperately to overcome it.

by Anonymousreply 105June 9, 2018 6:32 PM

They need to make a sequel. Maybe one where he actually comes out to his family.

by Anonymousreply 106June 9, 2018 6:33 PM

I will never understand the "struggle to figure out your sexuality". It's kind of obvious what makes your dick hard, and who makes your heart skip a beat. I knew I was gay since before my 11th birthday.

by Anonymousreply 107June 9, 2018 6:33 PM

If only gay actors should play gay parts, does that mean only straight actors should play straight parts?

by Anonymousreply 108June 9, 2018 6:33 PM

[quote]I will never understand the "struggle to figure out your sexuality". It's kind of obvious what makes your dick hard, and who makes your heart skip a beat. I knew I was gay since before my 11th birthday.

You should understand not everyone has your same experience.

by Anonymousreply 109June 9, 2018 6:34 PM

Dear r91,

I don't think the title is labeling gayness as "strangelove."

It's labeling a closeted, gay man's pathetic attempts to be straight as "strangelove."

by Anonymousreply 110June 9, 2018 6:35 PM

r103 misinterpreted the movie, r107.

Alex DOES EVENTUALLY ADMIT that his attraction to guys was "always there."

by Anonymousreply 111June 9, 2018 6:37 PM

Which is a pretty normal response, in hindsight it was obvious I was gay, but denial ain't just a river in Egypt as they say. I was older than Alex when I finally consciously admitted that to myself. And like a lot of gay boys, I did think I was bi at first.

by Anonymousreply 112June 9, 2018 6:40 PM

R109, please explain to me how you can not grasp what makes your dick hard, or who makes you swoon with romantic feelings. How can you not TELL? It's unfathomable to me.

by Anonymousreply 113June 9, 2018 6:40 PM

Ben Stiller didn’t write or direct this movie — let’s stop giving him the credit (or blame) for it. It was written and directed by Craig Johnson, who also made The Skeleton Twins with Bill Hader and Kristen Wiig.

by Anonymousreply 114June 9, 2018 6:41 PM

It's disappointing that some people on this thread have no interest and place no value on a show just because it's "only focused on the gay romance 1/3 of the time."

You are dependent upon straight people. The way straight people treat gays and interact with us should still be important to you.

If you're such a Philistine that it has to be gay sex all the time, then just stick to porn and quit whining about movies -- which are supposed to be for everyone.

It's like you think that straight people can't enjoy gays or interacting with them. You really think there should be no movies for straight people exploring how they interact with gays?

Pigs/dumbasses.

by Anonymousreply 115June 9, 2018 6:43 PM

PRODUCERS CHOOSE TALENT AND SCRIPTS, r114.

Ben Stiller and his partners have good taste and wisdom of selection that Greg Berlanti does not.

by Anonymousreply 116June 9, 2018 6:44 PM

[quote] Pigs/dumbasses.

Morons!!!

by Anonymousreply 117June 9, 2018 6:45 PM

Very gay, Tom of Finland tank.

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by Anonymousreply 118June 9, 2018 6:52 PM

[quote] please explain to me how you can not grasp what makes your dick hard, or who makes you swoon with romantic feelings. How can you not TELL? It's unfathomable to me.

LOL. Are you serious? Even in 2018 some people are still under that spell that being gay is WRONG and they can't trust their own feelings and urges and have to ask others for advice, or seek their guidance, because they believe others know them better that they know themselves. They need others to tell them what is right and what is wrong and push their own treacherous feelings aside.

by Anonymousreply 119June 9, 2018 6:53 PM

R118 meet r35.

by Anonymousreply 120June 9, 2018 6:54 PM

Boys kiss boys, God smiles

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by Anonymousreply 121June 9, 2018 6:54 PM

I couldn't get passed the opening credits. I was appalled by the font they used.

by Anonymousreply 122June 9, 2018 7:19 PM

This is not good. I loved The Skeleton Twins but to liken this movie to a gay Superbad? It's not funny and the majority of the movie is about his annoying girlfriend.

by Anonymousreply 123June 9, 2018 7:43 PM

Love the Muna song I Know A Place.

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by Anonymousreply 124June 9, 2018 10:09 PM

[quote]I will never understand the "struggle to figure out your sexuality". It's kind of obvious what makes your dick hard, and who makes your heart skip a beat. I knew I was gay since before my 11th birthday.

r107, you are, of course, correct. I don't believe actual homosexuals have to 'figure out' their sexuality, rather, we struggle with accepting it in the face of societal disapproval.

Bisexuals usually go through the process of 'figuring out' their sexuality, as it relates to sexual and romantic preferences between the two sexes. Apparently many gay-leaning bisexuals will misidentify themselves as gay (for varying reasons) and that's why this idea of gay people 'figuring out' their sexuality persists.

by Anonymousreply 125June 10, 2018 12:32 AM

Was Shawn Mendes up for this role too?

by Anonymousreply 126June 10, 2018 12:33 AM

[quote]Hey friends, I recently watched and loved the film Alex Strangelove, now available only on Netflix. I thought it was so fun and relatable to my experience as a confused and quirky teenager. I was recently back home a couple weekends ago, and I couldn’t help but think back to my days as a high schooler. I remember being so quiet and insecure. I was definitely not popular, but also never really bullied. I just blended into the crowd as a nice guy, trying so hard to be liked. I remember love was always so confusing, and how my biggest fear was that people would find out or think that I was gay. I held onto this insecurity throughout college and into my mid twenties, before finally mustering the courage to come home and tell my family. I actually told my Mom while sitting around this pool. I was so afraid, but I remember being so relieved after the words left my mouth. I think it is so cool that there are now movies like Alex Strangelove that have leading characters who are gay. It would have meant so much to me to see characters like myself in the media as a high schooler. The film is all about figuring out who you are, whether queer, nerd, jock etc., and that it is ok to be yourself and have quirks. I’m really happy with who I am today, but I also wish I could’ve found this confidence much earlier. This film is so fun, and it is now available only on @netflix .

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by Anonymousreply 127June 10, 2018 1:31 AM

Who is she at R127?

by Anonymousreply 128June 10, 2018 1:33 AM

Just a random guy on Instagram praising the movie

by Anonymousreply 129June 10, 2018 1:40 AM

It has a hashtag ad, and I have never seen this guy discussed on DL before. Why it was posted here, I do not know, makes me suspicious.

by Anonymousreply 130June 10, 2018 4:09 AM

R124 when I first saw the song title on closed captioning I was expecting Petula Clark lol.

by Anonymousreply 131June 10, 2018 4:36 AM

[QUOTE] I couldn't get passed the opening credits.

Oh, dear.

Are you sure it wasn't just that your English isn't good enough to understand the dialogue?

by Anonymousreply 132June 10, 2018 10:00 AM

Watching it right now. With 20 minutes to the end, I’m calling it:

It’s utter garbage.

by Anonymousreply 133June 10, 2018 6:19 PM

Ok except for the real-life masc jock at the end

by Anonymousreply 134June 10, 2018 6:30 PM

Antonio Marziale has stated he's straight, yet at the age of 21 he's only done gay roles. Is she taking a cruise down the River Denial?

by Anonymousreply 135June 10, 2018 11:10 PM

Where did he state he was straight? R135

by Anonymousreply 136June 10, 2018 11:17 PM

No way Antonio is straight

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by Anonymousreply 137June 11, 2018 2:00 AM

Yeah why is everybody referencing Ben Stiller? He only has producer credits (which anyone with a name can get with very little effort).

by Anonymousreply 138June 12, 2018 6:29 PM

Loved the ending with the real life videos, very moving.

Agree pretty much with everyone else that the girlfriend is the best actress in the bunch, Truelove Is adorable, and his best friend is the breakout discovery.

From the candid shots seen in some links here, it looks like the Indian (Pakistani?) supporting actor is very gay and very out.

The soundtrack and cultural references, from Keith Haring to the B-52s to Sixteen Candles, we’re all much geared towards their parents generation. I guess they want people of all ages to enjoy this film.

Finally, I can’t believe a Dusty Springfield song made its way into the soundtrack, especially at such a crucial moment. That was a pleasant surprise

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by Anonymousreply 139June 12, 2018 6:38 PM

I finally watched this. It is cute, but there is no getting around this is not a gay love story. It is primarily about Alex and Claire's relationship, with the gay love interest playing a supporting role.

Though Alex's coming out journey reminded me a lot my own in certain respects, I also had a great highschool girlfriend who eventually called me out for behaving like I wanted to have sex with her.

The main cast (Alex, Claire, Dell) were all pretty likable and talented.

[quote]There is a nice scene where Daniel Doheny shows off his bulge wearing underwear on a hotel bed while waiting for his girlfriend to come out of the bathroom.

I noticed that too. Alex seemed to have a nice sized bulge in those underwear, maybe magnum condoms weren't so optimistic.

by Anonymousreply 140June 13, 2018 3:12 PM

not behaving* obviously

by Anonymousreply 141June 13, 2018 3:13 PM

Interview wit Craig Johnson, he has been trying to get this movie made for 10 years.

[quote]The spark that I was talking about was actually lit in 2008, when I went to a concert for the British pop singer Mika. I was at his concert and I was blown away by the number of out-of-the-closet teenagers that I saw there, just living out loud, mingling in groups and holding hands, with no shame. I just thought, “Wow, high school is a different time!” That’s when I thought, “What if I took my coming out story and did it as a high school movie?” Then, I just saw the whole movie. I wrote the first draft, in 2008, in two months. That was 10 years ago, and I have been trying to get it made, ever since. It’s been my passion project for the last 10 years, and I would pretty consistently update it. The biggest rewrite happened in the last couple of years, just as high school life has gotten a little more progressive. Kids have gotten more open-minded. Coming out in high school is now not only an option, but there’s the option to come out as gender queer, or trans, or asexual, and everything in between. I thought that was a fascinating world to set a story of sexual confusion in because that makes everything more confusing. When you have all of the options available to you, you have to be really honest with yourself about what you want, which is Alex’s struggle.

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by Anonymousreply 142June 13, 2018 4:06 PM

wish they’d called the movie Alex Truelove.

by Anonymousreply 143June 13, 2018 5:10 PM

Wish there had been twink nudity. What a waste!

by Anonymousreply 144June 13, 2018 5:14 PM

[Quote]Antonio Marziale has stated he's straight,

Link or it didnt happen. He doesn't pretend to be straight at all, quite the opposite.

by Anonymousreply 145June 13, 2018 6:10 PM

Dell seemed like your typical high school movie cómic side kick until he had that great scene in which he read Dophie for filth, for stomping on his emotions.

by Anonymousreply 146June 13, 2018 6:52 PM

Sophie

by Anonymousreply 147June 13, 2018 6:52 PM

I loved Dell. Best part of the movie.

by Anonymousreply 148June 13, 2018 7:05 PM

meh.....an ok coming of age movie,a bit better than Samuel but they're both nothing special. I actually thought it was the same actor. Overall more tongue-in cheek and better acted than Simon. It's a cute movie and that's it.

by Anonymousreply 149June 13, 2018 7:09 PM

Daniel is straight and Antonio is gay according to this

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by Anonymousreply 150June 16, 2018 9:39 AM

^^OMG they are BOTH adorable playing Gay Taboo. Also, both seem to be decent impersonators.^^

by Anonymousreply 151June 16, 2018 10:48 AM

its edgy fun and cute/sexy

check it out

by Anonymousreply 152June 16, 2018 11:09 AM

That is so adorable at R150.

by Anonymousreply 153June 16, 2018 12:24 PM

R95 obvious troll 😶

by Anonymousreply 154June 16, 2018 2:21 PM

Elliot's actor follow a lot of gay people on social media and also follows Grindr. At least the hot one in this movie is gay, I hated Alex, he looks like Andrew Garfield

by Anonymousreply 155June 16, 2018 2:49 PM

[quote]Elliot's actor follow a lot of gay people on social media and also follows Grindr.

Well yes, as r150 has just shown the dude is openly gay.

[quote]At least the hot one in this movie is gay

Haha, no doubt Antonio is reading this thread and happy to hear someone thinks that.

by Anonymousreply 156June 16, 2018 2:53 PM

[quote]No over-the-top, high school movie cliches like embarrassing people in front of the whole school, which plagued SIMON.

Yes, the ending of Love Simon was ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 157June 17, 2018 2:30 PM

The problem with the ending is that the producers picked the wrong guy for the Blue character. It really should have been Miles to play Simon’s love interest. I just didn’t feel the chemistry between Simon and Bram. No, I have nothing against mixed relationships, I just think the producers wanted things to be diversive and surprising. But, I wasn’t surprised by the ending, I had a feeling that it was Bram in the emails.

by Anonymousreply 158June 17, 2018 2:42 PM

...but it’s Bram in the book.

by Anonymousreply 159June 17, 2018 2:44 PM

Shh r159, it was the totally filmmakers just wanting to force evil SJW diversity!!!111

by Anonymousreply 160June 17, 2018 2:45 PM

I didn’t read the book, r159...sorry!

by Anonymousreply 161June 17, 2018 2:46 PM

[quote] I just think the producers wanted things to be diversive

I read an interview with the author of the book who was very happy with the completed film. She indicated that the one non-negotiable aspect of the book when she talked with the writers/director was that Blue had to be Bram, a mixed race boy, just like in her book. The filmmakers agreed with her.

by Anonymousreply 162June 17, 2018 3:08 PM

Can we get back to Alex Strangelove? Really not interested in discussions about Love, Simon as I’m sure there are plenty of threads for that.

by Anonymousreply 163June 19, 2018 7:34 AM

Didn't care that much for Daniel in Alex Strangelove, but in r150's clip he looks damn hot.

by Anonymousreply 164June 19, 2018 7:42 AM

So I enjoyed this more than Love, Simon. Mainly due to the raunchiness of it all and because I identify more with goofy characters. I couldn't get past the Helix looks of the lead at first but I quickly forgot about that because of his acting chops; he's so in control of his face and his body, which is perfect for comedies. He looks like a taller, narrower KJ Apa, but actually competent when it comes to acting. I liked the lead actress quite a bit as well.

I made a gif out of this awkward cute moment.

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by Anonymousreply 165June 19, 2018 3:03 PM

And the resolution.

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by Anonymousreply 166June 19, 2018 3:03 PM

And this one. He's so goofy.

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by Anonymousreply 167June 19, 2018 3:04 PM

I didn’t like the beginning. I thought it started too snarky, vulgar, and hipster social justice warrior jargonish. It seemed to lack the quaint all-American Appeal of Love, Simon. However, I thought it ended strong, with a more mainstream charm.

by Anonymousreply 168June 19, 2018 3:11 PM

Just saw it, it's a good movie.

by Anonymousreply 169June 30, 2018 10:16 AM

They could have updated the script a bit more from 2008 - the reference to WWJD bracelets was out of place

by Anonymousreply 170June 30, 2018 10:30 AM

Watched it last night - it's OK. I really wanted to know more about Elliott (e.g. he had graduated high school already, so what is he doing now?) so that was a wasted opportunity in order to focus almost solely on the guy-girl relationship so that straight audiences won't run for the hills. Some of the dialogue was very clunky and forced (how many high school kids would even know what NAMBLA is?) and the guy playing Alex looked like a young Bill Hader (who was in the director's much better SKELETON TWINS).

by Anonymousreply 171July 1, 2018 9:28 PM

Looks like my reference to a rightly notorious and destructive pedophile group was censored in brackets, so hopefully people here will know what I was talking about.

by Anonymousreply 172July 1, 2018 9:30 PM

It's strange because that acronym gets automatically censored and then uncensored shortly after. Happened to me in the past as well. The moderator probably approves of it manually or something.

by Anonymousreply 173July 1, 2018 9:38 PM

I wish I liked this more than I did... the opening scenes were excruciatingly overwritten and overdone. But, it did get better and although I initially wasn't too into the gay love interest, he grew on me as it went along - although the B-52s dance scene was over the top. The girlfriend was fine but the storyline was ridiculous and impossible to buy. Either he has a raging hard-on or he doesn't, it doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out if your boyfriend isn't rock hard 100% of the time when he is around you, let alone kissing you, that he just isn't into you and 99% chance he is gay (especially 17-year-olds). Please.

Commendable effort, but LOVE, SIMON was genuinely moving and entertaining whereas this was just a stupid comedy with a dash of sincerity/"message". 5/10.

by Anonymousreply 174July 1, 2018 9:50 PM

I just watched Strangelove, and it was wonderful. Loved the B-52’s scene.

by Anonymousreply 175July 5, 2018 1:57 PM

Alex Strangelove was much better than the other recent Netflix teen movie Kissing Booth, based solely off the lack of cringe induction. Although Doheny is waaaay less fuckable than thick bodied twink Joel Courtney.

by Anonymousreply 176July 5, 2018 2:04 PM

Lovely movie. But, the ending was kind of bittersweet, because you feel sorry for the girlfriend who was left behind.

by Anonymousreply 177July 5, 2018 2:06 PM

Is Kissing Booth a gay movie? Haven't heard of it.

by Anonymousreply 178July 6, 2018 4:05 AM

No, The Kissing Booth wasn’t gay at all, R178. I watched it solely for the hot actors who played brothers.

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by Anonymousreply 179July 6, 2018 8:54 AM

It was good, but I still have my gripes with it. This is the second mainstream gay movie that we have gotten this year that has been completely devoid of gay sex. Because, you know, gay teens don't have any.

by Anonymousreply 180July 6, 2018 9:34 AM
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