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Why are extroverts so fucking annoying?

Me! Me! Me!

Talk! Talk! Talk!

Why do they think that everything they have to say is so fucking compelling???

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by Anonymousreply 23March 26, 2018 9:09 PM

Extroverts often hate introverts for not talking much and making them feel uncomfortable.

by Anonymousreply 1March 26, 2018 9:43 AM

Try going to college parties when there are extroverts from the theatre there! It's CRINGEY watching them all compete.

by Anonymousreply 2March 26, 2018 9:46 AM

[quote]Why are extroverts so fucking annoying?

Oh, shut up!

by Anonymousreply 3March 26, 2018 10:01 AM

[quote] Extroverts often hate introverts for not talking much and making them feel uncomfortable.

What are you on about? Extroverts LOVE introverts. They make a great, captive audience. Too polite (too scared, more likely *lol*) to just stand up and go, or even worse: Take the spotlight away from the extrovert.

by Anonymousreply 4March 26, 2018 11:31 AM

It sounds like an attractive extrovert stole your husband, OP.

FYI: you're not exactly looking good by starting this thread.

by Anonymousreply 5March 26, 2018 11:43 AM

It’s hilarious, these two distinctive traits. Extroverts blaming introverts for not joining in, introverts blaming extroverts for stealing scenes. I was in this training camp a couple of weeks ago, and we had an interesting session on personalities. All participants, about 75 of us excluding group tutors, were divided into two large groups according to being extro-or intro- ( we did an MBTI beforehand) and sent to opposite ends of the lecture room, and were told to list what you hate most about the other group. Of course the extroverts started right off, loud and exuberant, while the introverts didn’t start until after a dead quiet 3 minutes of looking at each other. By the end of the session, what each group had on the list was basically the hallmarks of the other group, and we all had a good laugh sharing the lists.

by Anonymousreply 6March 26, 2018 11:50 AM

IMO, It depends on if the extrovert is kind or nasty, OP. I have an ex who enjoyed making comments that offended people and loved to argue. It was exhausting and he turned people off (including me). My current partner, on the other hand, is warm and kind, and a fantastic storyteller. People are drawn to my him, his manner and smile.

by Anonymousreply 7March 26, 2018 11:55 AM

According to Carl Jung, the correct spelling is ExtrAvert. Apparently, extrOvert is just plain bad Latin.

by Anonymousreply 8March 26, 2018 12:05 PM

R8 speaks truth.

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by Anonymousreply 9March 26, 2018 12:38 PM

OP here, just a little introvert. No problems here. Just a smart, wonderful person who doesn't like noise and people. But loves doughnuts.

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by Anonymousreply 10March 26, 2018 12:42 PM

Shyness is usually sign of trauma. Humans are social beings and therefore made to socialize.

Annoying extroverts, like catty queens, are usually traumatic introverts hiding themselves.

Ideal is an extrovert like r7 is dating. If you hate humans so much go live under a rock and away from civilization.

by Anonymousreply 11March 26, 2018 12:53 PM

I dunno, R4. Several times on Twitter I saw those "unpopular opinion" memes go around, and more than once some extrovert would say their unpopular opinion was that introverts were irritating and made them feel uncomfortable and they didn't like hanging around them.

by Anonymousreply 12March 26, 2018 12:55 PM

I bet I can get my foot on your chin faster than you can get your hand on my foot.

by Anonymousreply 13March 26, 2018 12:57 PM

Extroverts and I get along wonderfully well. They talk and I listen. The problem comes when they suddenly turn on me and ask "So what about you?" That's when I have to break it off.

by Anonymousreply 14March 26, 2018 1:05 PM

Try finding a con man that is an introvert. More difficult. Extroverts are attention whores and have no soul.

by Anonymousreply 15March 26, 2018 1:10 PM

Entirely left out of this discussion is the ambivert. Introverts and Extraverts are BOTH so fucking annoying.

by Anonymousreply 16March 26, 2018 1:17 PM

As an ambivert, I would take an extronover an intro any day. Intros are boring drips.

by Anonymousreply 17March 26, 2018 1:19 PM

I sometimes feel as though some of the posts here are plucked directly from someone's thoughts. With things they would never mention otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 18March 26, 2018 1:20 PM

Ambivert is a pop-psychology term. Everyone has both extravert and introvert characteristics. No one is exclusively extraverted or exclusively introverted. Rather, individuals have a preferred way of directing their energy and attention.

by Anonymousreply 19March 26, 2018 5:17 PM

R2 no one says "cringey" once they get out of about 8th grade.

by Anonymousreply 20March 26, 2018 5:18 PM

For some extroverts it’s a “solution” to a control issue, avoiding the discomfort of not knowing where a conversation/situation is going.

by Anonymousreply 21March 26, 2018 6:43 PM

I hate extroverts and introverts

by Anonymousreply 22March 26, 2018 7:15 PM

R20 Well, grandma, we know where you're coming from.

by Anonymousreply 23March 26, 2018 9:09 PM
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