He's 37 and has been poz for 10 years.
On reading that, did you initially think 'whore' or 'hero'?
I'm ashamed to say what my reaction was.
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He's 37 and has been poz for 10 years.
On reading that, did you initially think 'whore' or 'hero'?
I'm ashamed to say what my reaction was.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | March 25, 2018 7:03 PM |
He’s a good guy. I’ve been following his career for a long time.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | March 24, 2018 7:42 PM |
Was he a bug chaser?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | March 24, 2018 7:43 PM |
OP you're quite binary and rather middling IQ. You can only imagine 2 words in your poll? Everyone could ONLY think whore or hero? How about meh.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | March 24, 2018 7:44 PM |
He can be both and so much more if only he would accept that he is a woman trapped in a man's body.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | March 24, 2018 7:48 PM |
????
by Anonymous | reply 5 | March 24, 2018 7:49 PM |
He's neither a shore not a hero. What he is is stupid. There is no excuse for contracting HIV, not even 10 years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | March 24, 2018 7:53 PM |
How did he get HIV in 2008? It takes a drug addict or a moron to let that happen these days.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | March 24, 2018 7:54 PM |
You judgmental queens need to stop. How do you know he was a whore? How do you know he was irresponsible? Maybe he had a partner who both tested neg and the other guy cheated on him. Maybe it was only one time. How many straight people have unprotected sex at least once in their life? Does anyone call them whores or drug addicts?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | March 24, 2018 8:01 PM |
Why does the world need to know his private health information? Is there going to be a #metoo movement for sero-convertors?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | March 24, 2018 8:07 PM |
He was a whore (and may still be) but what he does with it can make him a hero.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | March 24, 2018 8:13 PM |
I watch ABC news every night and I've never seen this guy before. What does he normally cover?
by Anonymous | reply 11 | March 24, 2018 8:30 PM |
His personal health information is none of my business.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | March 24, 2018 8:36 PM |
I knew he was a bottom.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | March 24, 2018 8:38 PM |
Isn't "Schmid" the name of the company that makes (or used to make) condoms? If so, rather ironic.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | March 24, 2018 8:54 PM |
R11 he reports for an LA affiliate station, not national news.
Maybe also he wants extra job security, as now it will be harder for him to get fired.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | March 24, 2018 9:08 PM |
It takes a lot of courage to admit that bare-backing just feels better.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | March 24, 2018 9:13 PM |
The great news is that he probably only gave AIDS to 10-100 guys before he tested positive!
by Anonymous | reply 17 | March 24, 2018 9:14 PM |
Great way to ensure job security. I'm just saying.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | March 24, 2018 9:17 PM |
He may have gotten from a long term boyfriend who cheated on him. That almost happened to me.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | March 24, 2018 9:23 PM |
[quote]He's 37 and has been poz for 10 years. On reading that, did you initially think 'whore' or 'hero'? [bold]I'm ashamed to say what my reaction was.
We know what your reaction was, because it was #1 on your poll. If you had sympathy Whore would not have been used Whore.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | March 24, 2018 9:27 PM |
R19 - I know of someone that contracted HIV from a cheating boyfriend also. However, most likely that's not the case here.
The vast majority of HIV+ people contracted it from irresponsible behavior. I'm sorry - but I do judge anyone who has contracted it since the early 90s.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | March 25, 2018 12:02 AM |
OP There's no reason he can't be both.
But seriously, I beleive most people who contract HIV today don't have good judgement.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | March 25, 2018 12:11 AM |
Whore.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | March 25, 2018 12:59 AM |
Well I think this thread confirms why he was so hesitant to go public with his status.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | March 25, 2018 1:33 AM |
He is a cutie. Even with AIDS I’d still smash.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | March 25, 2018 1:36 AM |
For those shaming him for being HIV Positive
Shit happens, that's life.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | March 25, 2018 1:38 AM |
Who cares. Why do we need to know? We're not his doctor.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | March 25, 2018 1:43 AM |
Who are we to judge the whore with a death wish?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | March 25, 2018 1:47 AM |
You need a slot for "mentally retarded 4th grader" because that's the only type of person who doesn't know how the fuck not to get HIV in this day and age.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | March 25, 2018 2:09 AM |
Adorable. ABC loves its gays.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | March 25, 2018 2:12 AM |
Neither option, OP. Just neutral. Include that next time.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | March 25, 2018 2:14 AM |
If I fell for him and he sprung the news on me, I’d find it hard to walk away.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | March 25, 2018 2:15 AM |
What's that brooch supposed to be?
by Anonymous | reply 33 | March 25, 2018 2:18 AM |
The self-righteous never get tired of telling others how wise, mature, restrained and noble they are and how they always have been according to them. I always feel so blessed that they let us mere mortals share the air they breathe.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | March 25, 2018 2:34 AM |
We're all whores, darlin'. Don't judge.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | March 25, 2018 2:50 AM |
Julius Schmid was the creator of the Sheik and Ramses condoms.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 25, 2018 3:16 AM |
R34 - do you drive while you're black out drunk? Do you shoot up crystal meth? Do you run across lanes in the middle of a highway?
No? Because it's dangerous and can kill you right? SAME FUCKING THING. It's not about being judgmental, it's about making safe choices. And clearly he did not.
Jesus - millions of gay men do NOT seroconvert each and every year. Millions.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | March 25, 2018 3:21 AM |
Id fuck him. With a condom like i always do.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | March 25, 2018 3:30 AM |
[quote]Why does the world need to know his private health information? Is there going to be a #metoo movement for sero-convertors?
Because HIV is still an epidemic and people with HIV are still marginalized and looked down upon as this thread demonstrates. That’s the same bullshit people used to say to keep gay people in the closet. “why do I need to see it, cant they keep that in the bedroom.”
by Anonymous | reply 39 | March 25, 2018 4:46 AM |
[quote]Who cares. Why do we need to know? We're not his doctor.
Because he is trying to help people who are in the shadows of HIV and as you can see here, without even knowing anything about him you throw shade like some entitled debutante just discovered the maid took a dump in your punch.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | March 25, 2018 4:49 AM |
He is not known to me OP.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | March 25, 2018 4:51 AM |
[quote]His personal health information is none of my business.
You are not a gay man, you are a stupid Russian Frau. OK, then lets do it your way. Why do I need to hear about breast cancer, female problems are not my business. Stop with the pink ribbons and t-shirt. I dont need to know.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | March 25, 2018 4:51 AM |
Condoms are not 100% effective. Give the guy whore a break.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | March 25, 2018 4:53 AM |
I'd fuck him in a NY minute.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | March 25, 2018 4:56 AM |
What's with the weird pin?
by Anonymous | reply 45 | March 25, 2018 4:59 AM |
I don’t know her.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | March 25, 2018 5:01 AM |
R45 it looks like those Christmas cookies with the dyed green and red maraschino cherries.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | March 25, 2018 1:27 PM |
I'm assuming the only reason someone with HIV would go public is because someone was about to blow the whistle on him, which is disgusting. Good for him. If this is his situation, his new found courage in doing this will help him. However I do not feel the need to know the health status of anyone, just as I don't feel I need to share my health information. It's the most personal and private information and should be kept that way and safeguarded.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | March 25, 2018 1:54 PM |
He's a hero. There is still a lot of stigma surrounding this disease. (The comments on this thread prove that.) Maybe there's a kid out there who's just been diagnosed, and he feels desperate, hopeless, and possibly suicidal. If he learns that Schmid has the same virus and he's doing alright, then maybe the kid will have hope for himself. People make mistakes because they're human, not whores. Someone could practice good judgment about safe sex for years, and then after a bad day at work, a little too much to drink, can impair his judgement. Then, one hour of fun and stress relief will change everything. Or like, someone pointed out, a man can be in a relationship with a cheater or someone who's dishonest about his status. No one should die or even be scorned because they had consensual sex.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | March 25, 2018 3:09 PM |
He is neither.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | March 25, 2018 5:48 PM |
Uncut kangaroo meat
by Anonymous | reply 52 | March 25, 2018 5:50 PM |
Only bottom sluts get hiv
by Anonymous | reply 53 | March 25, 2018 5:58 PM |
This whole discussion is idiotic and makes me embarrassed to be gay.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | March 25, 2018 6:01 PM |
I've never seen a DL poll so equally split before.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | March 25, 2018 6:02 PM |
Was he already out as gay because he didn't seem to mention that in his statement - I assume it was already known but odd he didn't mention as it as transmissions are rising sharply for young gay men. The old strategy of insisting that HIV/AIDS is not a "gay" disease was technically true but it has also made education and interventions targetting gay men more complicated for fear of backlash. We have moved beyond that as a culture and community and need to refocus efforts on prevention...
by Anonymous | reply 56 | March 25, 2018 6:03 PM |
I have lived so much of my life in fear of HIV and AIDS that I've refrained from putting myself out there; then again, I live in LA where everyone's a nut and selfish and came here to fix their shitty childhoods.
I wish this guy well and I hope he helps younger people make smarter choices and/or gives them hope.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | March 25, 2018 6:03 PM |
[quote]I have lived so much of my life in fear of HIV and AIDS that I've refrained from putting myself out there
Same.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | March 25, 2018 6:11 PM |
He probably turned down a clean, average (maybe even minority) guy, in order to get barebacked by some douchey musclebro 10 years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | March 25, 2018 6:14 PM |
[quote] I wish this guy well and I hope he helps younger people make smarter choices and/or gives them hope.
Unfortunately, all that's going to happen is dumb young gays seeing him looking healthy and thinking- See! HIV is no big deal! I'll get fucked bareback.
It's too bad that 41 year old theater composer who recently died didn't do this instead. THAT would have actually been a lesson that would have stuck.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | March 25, 2018 6:17 PM |
R60, that was a crazy story. He had everything and yet look what happened.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | March 25, 2018 6:23 PM |
Anyone under 40 who is HIV positive is an idiot, on the same level as smokers.
This isn't 1980, when it came out of nowhere and took a while to figure out. We have known for decades what causes AIDS and how to prevent it--while this assmunch was still in diapers.
No sympathy.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | March 25, 2018 6:33 PM |
my father died of cancer (he smoked) and our mother -- who on the outside looks all demure -- said to me and my brothers: "If you ever smoke I'll push your face into the ground."
by Anonymous | reply 63 | March 25, 2018 6:47 PM |
I am his age. I was pretty slutty 10 years ago too. And I was a bottom 90% of the time. I used condoms. It wasn't that complicated.
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