I have a boyfriend who is a very hot bottom. We've been dating for a couple months now. We are moving in together next month. The thing is I'm very attracted to him. And I have a high sex drive. When we live together, I think I'm going to want to have sex with him everyday, twice a day even. My boyfriend is all for it. Will it be safe for him though?
Is it possible to have anal sex everyday?
by Anonymous | reply 89 | March 31, 2018 12:17 PM |
yes!
by Anonymous | reply 1 | March 24, 2018 11:59 AM |
Is "prolapse" just a DLism?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | March 24, 2018 12:04 PM |
of course its possible. however, if he is cleaning his ass twice a day to take your dick, that's not the best for his fuck hole. You're going to have to get used to fucking unwashed ass, or he's going to damage his ass flora prepping for you.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | March 24, 2018 12:09 PM |
Who wants to have anal sex everyday? Even porn stars take a break now and then.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | March 24, 2018 12:16 PM |
Maybe not every day? A little bit of self control...
by Anonymous | reply 5 | March 24, 2018 12:19 PM |
Give it six months. You'll be down to twice a week.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | March 24, 2018 12:24 PM |
It won’t even take that long, R6.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | March 24, 2018 12:27 PM |
you do not need to fuck his asshole everyday. you need to get a fleshjack.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | March 24, 2018 12:29 PM |
Agreed, guys. It's just the anticipation over living together. That's sweet, but be careful OP: Moved-in hole can quickly become lived-in hole, not to mention sore cum gutters and sensitive skin for yourself at the very least.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | March 24, 2018 12:33 PM |
One week and you will be sniffing at new men's holes. A new man esp with a round or square very firm ass is the most beautiful part of men 18 to 65.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | March 24, 2018 12:55 PM |
Leave his fuckhole alone, OP! Once a day is more than enough. Just channel the excess sexual energy into exercise, hobbies, work etc. Your boyfriend - and his fuckhole - will be grateful. Also, it's only polite to leave something for the next guy.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | March 24, 2018 1:16 PM |
Not if he's not ok with starting to wear diapers.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | March 24, 2018 1:20 PM |
You don’t have to fuck every time you have sex. Pound his hole frequently, but take advantage of the fact he’s always around and do lots and lots of non-anal stuff as well. Shoot loads down his throat, or masturbate while he plays with your feet or nipples. Or have him jerk you off while your hands are tied. That kind of thing.
His hole will be there for pounding tomorrow. Play with sexuality today.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | March 24, 2018 1:23 PM |
[QUOTE]Or have him jerk you off while your hands are tied.
If he does this then he must not be a top. No pure top would ever allow a bottom to tie him up.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | March 24, 2018 1:28 PM |
R13, DL EST fetishists don't do variety. Sheesh!
by Anonymous | reply 15 | March 24, 2018 1:28 PM |
If he dies, he dies. But help him go with a smile on his face.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | March 24, 2018 1:35 PM |
DO what I did, OP. Get it all done over one weekend.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | March 24, 2018 1:37 PM |
Yes - everyday - takes planning, and dedication. I changed my diet to please my husband.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | March 24, 2018 1:37 PM |
[quote]DL EST fetishists don't do variety. Sheesh!
No wonder they have no sex life.
[quote]No pure top would ever allow a bottom to tie him up.
Damn you sound dull in bed.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | March 24, 2018 1:45 PM |
Where does OP say he’s a “pure top”?
by Anonymous | reply 20 | March 24, 2018 1:47 PM |
Depends...
by Anonymous | reply 21 | March 24, 2018 1:55 PM |
What does EST stand for, please?
by Anonymous | reply 22 | March 24, 2018 2:00 PM |
"Everyday" anal is as boring as it sounds. As in run-of-the-mill anal.
To have anal every day is not only fun, but grammatically correct.
Everyday--ordinary. Every day--occurring on a daily basis.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | March 24, 2018 2:02 PM |
Do you have a big one, OP? Is he doing his stretches for you?
by Anonymous | reply 24 | March 24, 2018 2:03 PM |
[QUOTE]Damn you sound dull in bed.
I am quite conservative, yes. But durable and efficient.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | March 24, 2018 2:07 PM |
Efficient? Who desires efficiency in bed?
Blecccch.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | March 24, 2018 2:13 PM |
Twice a day? Yeah, that'll last.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | March 24, 2018 2:16 PM |
And you're bragging, Il Dullardo R25?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | March 24, 2018 2:16 PM |
OP, you do know that your boyfriend's ass has been photographed from space, right?
by Anonymous | reply 29 | March 24, 2018 2:18 PM |
everyday, I want to go up into the man.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | March 24, 2018 2:18 PM |
Suggest to him that he constantly presents hole, so he'll always be at your ready disposal.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | March 24, 2018 2:21 PM |
Pure tops and pure bottoms are both boring in bed.
Be versatile, or get the fuck out.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | March 24, 2018 2:25 PM |
Is your boyfriend still tight?
by Anonymous | reply 33 | March 24, 2018 7:39 PM |
Is he a good looking journalist? Is he pooooooz? So he's a STI riddled WHORE, right?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | March 24, 2018 7:56 PM |
Frottage is also a thing.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | March 24, 2018 8:04 PM |
R27 I'm in my thirties and I want sex once or twice a day every day (jerking off also works), it's not about your partner, it's about your temper.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 24, 2018 8:06 PM |
"We are moving in together next month."
What ugly flyoverille berg do you live in, OP?
Not that we need more fuel to malign your idiocy.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | March 24, 2018 8:15 PM |
[quote]We've been dating for a couple months now. We are moving in together next month.
LOL!
by Anonymous | reply 38 | March 24, 2018 8:21 PM |
OP, just pound him as much as you want. You're the top, you're in charge. If he complains or his pussy stretches out, trade 'em in for a new one.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | March 24, 2018 8:26 PM |
R22 EST = Elaborate Scenario Troll. There are a few here in the DL. There are also a lot of people called an EST when they aren't. I was accused of being one twice, for the last several years, I look over my posts to see if anything seems unbelievable about them. I can't stand to be accused of lying when I'm telling the truth. I've always been one who's lies were by omission.
That said, a "Straight" former coworker and I fucked for three weeks a few years ago. (We had already not worked together for a couple of years.) He insisted on topping only despite the fact that his best feature was his ass. He had a rather thick dick too, but I've told all about that before. There were probably 18 out of 22 days that I bottomed for him at least once. and I still needed to be worked open before he could get in again. But I subconsciously do kegels all the time, so I think that has something to do with it. I ended the arrangement for other reasons.
I will say that I had to monitor my food intake and drink fiber a few times a day to make sure I stayed clean. I still don't think . I could have kept it up much longer. Anal 2-3 times a week should be enough for any couple. Oral and face fucking can be done daily. Well, assuming that no one has TMJ.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | March 24, 2018 9:15 PM |
Just be careful, OP. I knew a girl who had anal every day. But then she died.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | March 24, 2018 10:05 PM |
I'm too damned tired for that shit anymore. I'll pass....
by Anonymous | reply 42 | March 24, 2018 10:07 PM |
His body will tell him when it's time to lay off a day or so. I just hope he has the guts and the brains to tell you "no hon, sorry, my pucker is too sore tonight"
by Anonymous | reply 43 | March 24, 2018 10:09 PM |
Divorce within the next 3 months
by Anonymous | reply 44 | March 24, 2018 10:25 PM |
There is also the old Grecian thing where the bottom holds his thighs pressed hard together and the cock goes between them. Hand job. Blowjob. Frottage. Just good old heavy petting. Having sex just a couple times a week is way too rare but there are many things to do, all of them enjoyable.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | March 24, 2018 10:30 PM |
[QUOTE]Efficient? Who desires efficiency in bed?
Efficient as in sturdy erection quality that never fails.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | March 24, 2018 11:28 PM |
by Anonymous | reply 48 | March 24, 2018 11:32 PM |
No worries he probably takes dick on a daily basis already
by Anonymous | reply 50 | March 25, 2018 12:48 AM |
Buy yourself a Fleshlight OP. Or at the least a Pocket Pussy.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | March 25, 2018 12:58 AM |
Been living with my partner for 4 years. We have sex every night like it was the first night. Staying clean is not hard.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | March 25, 2018 1:04 AM |
[quote]Staying clean is not hard.
I agree. Just eat healthy so you shit regularly, then wash before each use (or better yet, after each shit, but that’s not always possible).
by Anonymous | reply 53 | March 25, 2018 3:22 AM |
We can't answer that, OP unless we see your cock.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | March 25, 2018 6:03 AM |
We had sex with our gorgeous third husband twice each day: The first time he would cornhole us (NO rubbers!) with his fat magnificent perfect 9-incher and the second time we would blow him in front of the mirror, swallowing every drop!
by Anonymous | reply 55 | March 25, 2018 10:09 AM |
"Staying clean is not hard" is typical undersexed DL eldergay bullshit.
Also depending your anatomy, dicks above 7 could easily be opening the sigmoid colon and a bottom who gets fucked 2 times a day is going to want deep fucking. And the top is going to want to do it when he wants to do it. So the bottom is not going to be 24/7 ready for a shitless fuck.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | March 25, 2018 10:35 AM |
That is why someone like Caitlyn should be the logical choice.
Her love canal is odor/poopoo free and there is zero pregnancy risk!
by Anonymous | reply 57 | March 25, 2018 10:42 AM |
[QUOTE]So the bottom is not going to be 24/7 ready for a shitless fuck.
I see bottom boys on chaturbate who get fucked everyday without shitting. So you’re wrong.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | March 25, 2018 12:11 PM |
OP, your boyfriend already uses his butthole every day to take a shit. His rectum, too. It's a busy little part of the body, made for significant activity.
If the two of you work together on the timing of the ass fucking, there's just not going to be a problem.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | March 25, 2018 12:18 PM |
Will OP still want him when he has to learn about his bowel movement protocol and see his douching materials in the bathroom? Will the flame die out when, despite all the prior proper planning, he inevitably ends up with shit on his stick?
by Anonymous | reply 60 | March 25, 2018 12:22 PM |
r59, makes me wanna puke.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | March 25, 2018 12:25 PM |
r56 -typical basement dwelling fat nerd response. If you are getting it more than once a day I applaud you but I am guessing you get it once a decade.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | March 25, 2018 12:29 PM |
Don’t make fun of r56 and his bowel disorder.
It must be awful to live such a shitty existence.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | March 25, 2018 4:54 PM |
"I see bottom boys on chaturbate who get fucked everyday without shitting."
That's because they're on meth and haven't eaten in days.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | March 26, 2018 1:22 AM |
I was kidding around, R64.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | March 27, 2018 2:03 AM |
Oddly enought this topic was on Howard Stern today - both the anus and the vagina are basically muscles and yes they can be stretched out but dr who called in said it would have to be something very large and very frequent like more than once a day. There is vaginaplasty where they can tighten up a lady's pussy but there is not anus plasty or anal rejuvination...yet.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | March 27, 2018 3:42 AM |
Soon he won’t realize he sharted, thanks to you OP!
by Anonymous | reply 67 | March 27, 2018 5:05 AM |
Google "prolapsed anus." That's what happens.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | March 27, 2018 5:08 AM |
Many interesting points above...
I had anal sex everyday with my first bf for 6 years. More accurately, we took turns bottoming, being versatile, so every other day. Before bed. More on weekends. We didn't douche often. I don't remember having a problem except once.
It shouldn't be a problem to have sex daily. Routine sex is best. Holes adapt and learn to expect a certain dilation, style and duration.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | March 27, 2018 5:14 AM |
I am a total bottom. I had anal sex every day for about 3 months when I first started dating this guy. It tapered off to 3 times a weeks, but it's possible. Because of my diet, I don't really have the cleanup issues that a lot of people do. I love getting fucked and would have no problem taking cock every day if I could. I am always surprised at the number of myths surrounding anal sex, even on a gay website.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | March 27, 2018 5:16 AM |
R70 he must have had a tiny dick.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | March 27, 2018 5:19 AM |
YES!!!
by Anonymous | reply 72 | March 27, 2018 5:26 AM |
I just like a finger up me bum. Once my prostate gets tickled, I'm good to cum.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | March 27, 2018 8:26 AM |
We've been dating for a couple months now. We are moving in together next month.
GOOD LUCK WITH THAT
by Anonymous | reply 74 | March 27, 2018 8:50 AM |
Dear Lord in Heaven!
by Anonymous | reply 75 | March 27, 2018 9:01 AM |
I pictured R73 as a gay leprechaun.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | March 27, 2018 11:00 AM |
R70, can you explain your diet? Genuinely interested. Thx.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | March 27, 2018 2:36 PM |
Most of you are not even gay, or have never had any sex....of any kind, that much is clear.
Still, you guys are cracking me up. lol
by Anonymous | reply 78 | March 27, 2018 2:40 PM |
The only issue I see is that the anal sphincter, after lots of stretching, does NOT bounce back the same way cunt muscles do. So after a while, fucking the little butt-slut will be like throwing a hot dog down a hallway.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | March 27, 2018 2:42 PM |
if you're getting fucked everyday by one cock your sphincter will conform to expanding to its girth. Muscle memory.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | March 27, 2018 3:03 PM |
You’re speaking from experience, R80?
by Anonymous | reply 81 | March 27, 2018 3:26 PM |
R81 Yes. I'm R69 who had anal sex everyday for 6 years.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | March 27, 2018 3:30 PM |
Amateurs!
by Anonymous | reply 83 | March 27, 2018 4:11 PM |
20 times a day is possible
by Anonymous | reply 84 | March 27, 2018 4:14 PM |
[quote]Is it possible to have anal sex everyday?
I did for many years.
Although never with Ike.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | March 27, 2018 4:20 PM |
Oh Mamie, my sides!
by Anonymous | reply 86 | March 28, 2018 7:23 PM |
R77 - not that poster but same experience.. Mostly raw vegan. Lots of water and I take a fiber sup.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | March 28, 2018 9:42 PM |
"I pictured [R73] as a gay leprechaun."
Oh, I wish!
by Anonymous | reply 88 | March 30, 2018 4:31 AM |
I see two dudes on Chaturbate ass fuck everyday for hours at a time.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | March 31, 2018 12:17 PM |