Is there a difference between a bossy bottom and a power bottom?

IMHO Power bottoms know what they want and know how to get it. They've got skills.

Bossy bottoms like to backseat drive but don't have a clue where to go.

I think Bossy Bottoms initiate and tell the top how to fuck (what position, "fuck me harder", "do it like that",e tc.)

Power Bottoms take it deep, rough and hard and can take really big dicks/dildos and probably fists.

Bossy bottoms are just bitchy! A power bottom is skilled!

Bossy bottoms tend to be bitchy complainers.

Both the same. I'm a top and won't do 'em.

Trying to figure out which one I am, technically. I’m pretty verbal, and can take a decent hammering, but within reason. I didn’t know there was a power bottom. Had never heard on bossies...

What about Timid Tops? I used to have a fuckbud who was hot as fuck, a huge uncut dick (white) but he was so passive. Took him forever to get started..... though once he did, he could give a good deep fuck.

But it was so tiring. I later learned after me he had a boyfriend who he let bulldoze all over his life, move in with him, take advantage of him etc.

ANd he is a smart, talented, really goodlooking man.

This song and video are a mess

I share R3's view.

R7 I've got a buddy I hook up with when I get the itch to bottom (every other month or so) He's a sub top. HUUUUGE cock. Ideally he likes getting tied up or handcuffed so he can't get away. He just lays there and I use him like a human dildo. It's hot. And because of the power dynamics, I still "feel" like a top even with his massive schlong up in there.

R10, where do you live? wonder if it's the same guy??!

This

R11. I'm in Manhattan, he lives in BK.

R11 not the same guy. Mine's single.

“Fuck that pussy! She’s been BAD!”

I bet Chrissy Metz is a bossy bottom

Bossy bottoms are the types who claim they're the best bottom ever while bitching about their competition. They also tend to reveal their insecurities about being a bottom. When it comes to the time to act, they're the ones make you chase them around the bed for the same position, have no rhythm whatsoever and will complain to anyone within earshot that there are no good tops.

Power bottoms have no insecurities about being a bottom, and their actions show that receiving penetration and being aggressive are not mutually inclusive or exclusive. A power bottom can give commands without being bitchy. There's always a grey area, and they enjoy exploring all options. And if you're participating in group sex, they're the ones who aren't trying to hold court but you exchange numbers with them because they were great sex with no silly hangups.

Oh, and because of bossy bottom's big mouth, he unintentionally helps power pottoms find and keep the prize tops. So if you're a top looking for a great power bottom, pick a guy who comes across as a bossy bottom. They're viral campaigners on dating apps. Idiots.

Power bottoms are really into being fucked good and hard and making it a good experience.

Bossy bottoms are super annoying and best dealt with by a gag in the mouth.

Bossy bottom - left.

Power bottom - right.

Andy Cohen is ALL TOP.

Trump would be a bossy bottom. Pence would be a power bottom.

Thanks, R19 and R21.

R3 is correct and R17 has explained it well...Now as for R5..you are either Not a good top...Not an experienced top or a small dicked top.

[quote][R11]. I'm in Manhattan, he lives in BK.

Im in manhattan too. He is single now but moved to Wash Heights.

I answer to either.

Yeah, I'm going to go with the clip (with my favorite Richard Ruccolo).

A power bottom does all the work. They aggressively, rather than passively, take it and do most of the work - essentially a top who is being penetrated instead of penetrating.

A bossy bottom, as someone upthread noted, is a backseat driver. They've got all sorts of rules and requirements and insist on certain things being done to them in a certain why.

Is that Ricky Martin in R19 ??? BAD picture!

What does one call a bottom who is neither "bossy" or "power"?

In my experience these guys are usually quiet and sensual, are always immaculately prepared, condom ready and can take it a LONG time without needing to cum. And even if it's a one night stand they want to "make love" and not just get plowed.

You also have to have a lot of patience and stamina for this type. They're very romantic and want to kiss and stare into your eyes while you're inside them. They can make even getting fucked in the backseat of a car seem erotic and always bring out the lover in me.

They're also the type that if you hit it just right they'll want a callback and seem to be relationship minded. I wonder if most of them are Taureans?

R28 what do you call the top version of that?

Power bottoms get fucked, bossy don't.

R27 He's almost 50, smoked, probably did hard drugs in his youth, and is so stranger to alcohol so really that is one of the better recent pics of him.

[QUOTE]what do you call the top version of that?

A sensual top.

Bossy bottoms just need to sit on a dildo on top of the washing machine during the spin cycle.

Yes power bottoms are an inverted top, which can be hot. Bossy bottoms are just silly demanding bitches during sex. Total turn off.

bossy=attitude

power=technique

sexy sluts are in both categories

aggressive

A power bottom will gladly fuck after he cums.

A bossy bottom is done once she cums.

Power bottom is a description of physical skill and proactive physical engagement - may be bossy or not.

Bossy bottom is an attitude/communication type - may be "power" bottom or not.

Would Connor Jessup be a bossy bottom or a power bottom?

Agree with most of what has been said already, there is definitely a difference.

Power bottoms are superior to bossy bottoms, absolutely. Bossy bottoms tell you what to do and what they want, usually in an annoying kind of way - power bottoms just pile-drive their ass onto your dick and milk you dry.

Must admit I'm not generally a fan - sometimes I am content to lie back and be ridden, but generally I want to do the pounding.