Confessions of a call bear Rusty McMann.

Allow me to let you in on one of the dirty little secrets of human sexuality: Hardly anyone (except for the very stupid and very lazy) has ever accepted the ideals of beauty and/or desirability as set forth by their respective cultures' Fashionable Intelligence. And for every type of attraction, there is a market to be tapped.

In gay culture I am what is known as a "bear": bigger, hairier men who favor some kind of facial hair and tend to embody a jeans-and-shirt version of masculinity. Of course there are also metrosexual bears who groom their eyebrows and wear black tie to the opera. Some of us are stocky but in generally good shape; others are what the American Medical Association considers morbidly obese. There are leather bears, muscle bears and polar bears (men whose beards or body hair are white). I myself have been called a "ginger bear" (a British expression, from their term for redheads) and, when I had shoulder-length hair, a "lion."

Because there are other woodland creatures to be found among the "bear community." (I strongly resist the ideas "of "community" among gays in general and bears specifically, but for the sake of expediency let's just roll with it.) Probably the most interesting sub-category of bear is that of "cub," because it has so many variations. For some, the term cub designates someone younger, who may or may not want to be mentored in the way of the bear; for others, it's more about relative stature or lack thereof, regardless of the guy's age; and for still others, it simply indicates a strong identification with the bear "culture" without such physical trappings as a furry chest.

Tall skinny guys with lots of body hair are "otters"; average-size men who are relatively hairy and, often, exceptionally horny consider themselves "wolves." In the old days, before we got all politically correct about everything, guys who were attracted to bigger men were called "chubby chasers," but no more. Nowadays, men who don't fit into any of the above categories who enjoy ursine company are called, simply, "admirers."

And that's just the Anglos. Many Asian bears like to be called "pandas," regardless of where their ancestors were born, though just as many find the term offensive. Smooth-skinned Latinos with short, compact physiques are often referred to as "toros" (or bulls), which also suggests a testicular prowess. The bear scenes in Spain and Italy are so popular that I'm sure they have their own lists of sub-categories. It's like how the Inuits have a million words for snow.

So, yes: I'm a Las Vegas call bear. But don't be fooled into assuming that all my clients come from the world of the bears. Far from it. The men who hire me run the gamut from 18-year-olds who want their first male-male experience to be with a man who knows what he's doing to men in their 80s who just want to be held by a lumberjack type for an hour. They might be fat, they might be average, or they might have bodies so perfectly sculpted they should be underwear models.

Among my regular clients are Jaime and Luis, 28-year-old Mexican boyfriends who barely speak enough English to make the appointment and spend the whole session crying "Ay! Papi rico!" Two or three times a year I spend a night with Nicholas, a charming Canadian businessman who discovered his homosexuality later in life and wants to get "caught up" on the basics of sex with men before he puts himself out there. And when I go to San Diego I love getting together with Bobby, a black mechanic with a beautifully muscled body and a smile that could put Tom Cruise to shame. He likes me to put on construction boots and stomp on his chest. Lucky for Bobby I earned a first aid merit badge in the Boy Scouts, so I know exactly where not to step to keep from breaking off his sternum and killing him.

Claims to be LOL 99.9% top but has bottomed on video for $$$. Also claims to be HIV neg but does bareback porn, and is not on PREP.

I think that is how a lot of Millennial guys end-up with lots of mysterious cash- when they don't seem to ever work. They're in some kind of sex work. It might be just letting some eldergay body worship him. Or mojobs. Or just online video clips. Or more (everyone has their price).

No, you did not fund that 2-week trip to Tibet on a Barrista's salary. Liar.

full article here.

R3 it's not just younger adult men, younger and even older adult women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s are into being hookers.

It's not just only in the United States, Canada, and in various European countries it also happens in Australia and NZ.

Some are delusional enough to think that having a sugar daddy and being paid for sex is not prostitution.

OP and R1 seems like a lot of TL/dr sans pictures.

OP - that article (and the original thread) are from 2010.

I wouldn't do that for free, much less shell out hard earned cash.

R6 there are pics on his site at R2. They are of course NSFW.

Here's his tumblr, obviously NSFW (not safe for work).

Agreed R8.

Fug. Just awful.

yeah he's gross, and his pierced penis is disgusting as is the barebacking and how he's probably HIV+ or has other STIs but just lies about it or does not tell someone until after he gets them to fuck him raw for cash R10.

Why did this guy move from NYC or the east coast of all places, to Vegas? I would not be surprised if he is into meth, or other drugs that maybe are not meth, since he's very fat?

I would willingly pay to have sex with so many of the beefy guys I see around NYC. But definitely NOT the guy at OP's link.

The guy in this picture, I would pay big bucks for, but there aren't many escorts like him around.

He looks...unclean.

Wait. I thought OP was Rusty. No?

I’d totally do him

[quote]It's not just only in the United States, Canada, and in various European countries it also happens in Australia and NZ.

Hey-- if it's good enough for the White House ...

He might not be poz but most of the guys he fucks in his videos are.

R14 given the number of men he's been a cum dump for and fucked raw he probably is HIV+ or has Hep C.

He looks like his anus would stink

He is good sex.

Bear Films one of the companies he does or did videos for was rumored to try and guilt/bully negative performers into having BB with poz performers after telling them they during the signup process they would only be paired with other negative performers.

Maybe if you have extremely low standards and don't care if you get STDs including HIV R22.

I googled his pics and who would pay to have sex with him?

R23 that's not surprising at all. Now with PREP I guess they all just fuck raw anyway, or are already HIV+ and don't care if they infect someone that's neg.

It was another time r24

Note that the PrEP queens never use the word "condom".

Unsafe sex with PrEP is not 100 percent safe. These Marys are in big-time denial. PrEP was never intended to be used without condoms, it's only intended to be added protection for accidents.

Avoid anyone who wants to have unsafe sex. PERIOD.

And it sounded so glamorous

There is no damn way I would ever pay money to have sex with this guy. There must be some pretty desperate people in Las Vegas if he's getting work as a paid whore.

He’s so.......No. just no.

I’m with R13 - who is that hot hunk of beef?

He's gross and so are the other human biohazards he works with.

There's no way this guy is neg. He has crix belly.

Eeww

One of his costars is a guy named Lobo who is poz and was rumored to host parties where he and his poz buddies would load up bug chasers...disgusting.

R34 this guy? Who else in bearfilms is poz? I know there was some younger man Pooch McGee who claimed he is "neg" but he has done a lot of bare porn as bottom and top, and probably fucked and got fucked raw as a hooker too like all porn guys do.

From what I've heard/read most of the guys over a certain age at Bearfilms are HIV+ as well sadly a large portion of the younger ones.

Ok - I get that people have different tastes - but isn't this just a grab for attention and to expand his business?

Not everyone finds 20 somethings to be what they want in bed. Seriously.

I'm not surprised R36.

I love bears but they need to be hairy, not just fat like he is

Sadly it seems most porn featuring older hairier men features mostly poz guys now.

yeah it's a turn off R40.

Fuck no. Who would pay to have sex with him?

How much money could he possibly make? Don't most whores do it as a side hustle? Can you actually live off of an unreliable amount of gentleman callers?

Plus it seems an awfully hard way to make $150 to $200 - EVERY night with God Knows What.

He's like most porn stars/escorts R43 He's a sex addict that found a way to make some money off of his compulsive/addictive behavior.

[quote]The men who hire me run the gamut from 18-year-olds

No 18 year old has ever paid that fat ugly OLD qaweeeen to have sex with them. He is full of shit in more ways than one.

Not a sane or sober one anyway R45.

Not really my type.

Thanks for letting know two years later R47! You've waited too long, he's gone from rusty to fully tarnished.

He's disappeared. No more ads. I think he found some rich guy who likes his type.

It makes me think I still have a shot as a world-class prostitute.

Bitch, please. "40-something" = 59

A 60yo HIV-positive queen who still turns a trick? We have to stan. Fill that void gurl.