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Why Young Men Have More Body Image Issues Than Ever Before

Hollywood is really screwing up these kids.

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by Anonymousreply 569November 29, 2020 5:26 AM

Well no shit, Sherlock.

by Anonymousreply 1March 9, 2018 3:44 PM

[QUOTE]“If you think about the changes over the last 30 to 45 years in how men are depicted in Hollywood, cartoons, magazines and action toys, you’ll see that men’s bodies today appear much more muscular,” says Dr. Harrison Pope, director of the Biological Psychiatry Laboratory at McLean Hospital in Massachusetts. These unrealistic media images have contributed to low body image satisfaction among men—usually just considered a problem for women. A study last year found that American men are just as likely as women to feel unsatisfied with their physiques, while another study found adolescent boys who are dissatisfied with their body shape may be more likely than girls to self-criticize and feel distress. Studies have even shown that men feel worse about their bodies after playing video games with ripped characters.

by Anonymousreply 2March 9, 2018 3:47 PM

It's a good pressure.

We need goals to strive for and bodies can be made.

by Anonymousreply 3March 9, 2018 3:51 PM

OP THIS ARTICLE IS A YEAR OLD

F&F

by Anonymousreply 4March 9, 2018 3:56 PM

I love how every generation thinks that a common issue is unique to them. The desire to be handsome and muscular has been around for decades - or do Millennials and Gen Z's think that we grew up under a rock?

by Anonymousreply 5March 9, 2018 3:58 PM

A year old, R4? I guess we fixed that problem.

Next!

by Anonymousreply 6March 9, 2018 3:59 PM

Bullshit

by Anonymousreply 7March 9, 2018 4:07 PM

[QUOTE]The desire to be handsome and muscular has been around for decades - or do Millennials and Gen Z's think that we grew up under a rock?

Are you kidding me? What teens “decades ago” were walking around looking like this?

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by Anonymousreply 8March 9, 2018 4:10 PM

Teens don’t walk around looking like that now.

Every once and while you see a high school kid obviously on steroids but it doesn’t seem like an epidemic except on Instagram

by Anonymousreply 9March 9, 2018 4:16 PM

Anus shaming has become rampant

by Anonymousreply 10March 9, 2018 4:25 PM

Is it really all Hollywood to blame though? Seems too easy.

by Anonymousreply 11March 9, 2018 4:40 PM

It's HW, tv, Instagram, music video, magazines, facebook, etc.

It has been an issue for women since decades, now it's an issue for men too. Maybe things gonna change a bit.

by Anonymousreply 12March 9, 2018 4:56 PM

So it is an old article. It is still worthy of discussion.

by Anonymousreply 13March 9, 2018 5:00 PM

Where are all these young men? All I see are fat cunts

by Anonymousreply 14March 9, 2018 5:04 PM

60's Batman, anything else to add?

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by Anonymousreply 15March 9, 2018 5:06 PM

A lot of these BDD guys are homophobic. Strangely enough.

by Anonymousreply 16March 9, 2018 5:10 PM

[QUOTE]Where are all these young men? All I see are fat cunts

How about the kid from R8?

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by Anonymousreply 17March 9, 2018 5:11 PM
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by Anonymousreply 18March 9, 2018 5:12 PM
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by Anonymousreply 19March 9, 2018 5:12 PM

Me think R17 doesn't get the point of OP's article.

by Anonymousreply 20March 9, 2018 5:13 PM

Welcome to our world

by Anonymousreply 21March 9, 2018 5:14 PM

The kid posted at R17/R18/R19 is NOT the typical 20 year old who plays video games all day and then posts on 4chan and (until recently) the incel section on Reddit. There are much more of THEM than guys who look like this kid.

by Anonymousreply 22March 9, 2018 5:21 PM

[QUOTE]Teens don’t walk around looking like that now.

Yes, many of them do. Instagram is not some obscure thing, it has 800 million users worldwide, most of them young. Practically every teenager has an Instagram account and guys like R8 are a dime a dozen on there for a reason. Those young men are a reflection of their peers, they’re not outliers like R22 claims.

You also have to take into account the young men who don’t look like them, but are exposed to those images daily and feel shameful because they don’t look like them. That’s partially what the article is about. Just because a kid isn’t jacked and shredded doesn’t mean he possesses no desire to be so.

by Anonymousreply 23March 9, 2018 5:23 PM

Just like there's more plain Janes than Supermodels in the world.

by Anonymousreply 24March 9, 2018 5:25 PM

If you’re a young man in today’s world, then society is telling you that this is what you’re supposed to look like so you can take selfies on Instagram. Even if they don’t look like this, they still may feel shame due to their failure to achieve the ideal.

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by Anonymousreply 25March 9, 2018 5:28 PM

I'm so happy to have been a teen in the 90's without Instagram, facebook and steroid famewhores.

by Anonymousreply 26March 9, 2018 5:30 PM

Ok. Clearly there are more shredded Instahoes than shut-in gamers in the 18-24 demographic. My mistake.

by Anonymousreply 27March 9, 2018 5:32 PM

Not to mention that young men/teens have grown up their entire lives on a steady diet of easily accessible online porn. So they are seeing these sculpted porn gods with enormous cocks, and probably feel inadequate or like they have to measure up.

by Anonymousreply 28March 9, 2018 5:35 PM

[QUOTE]Ok. Clearly there are more shredded Instahoes than shut-in gamers in the 18-24 demographic. My mistake.

There are also more women who look like Rebel Wilson than Kate Upton. Does that mean that women don’t suffer from body image issues? Has Rebel Wilson become the standard and therefore no woman feels shame for looking like her? How fucking dense can you be?

by Anonymousreply 29March 9, 2018 5:37 PM

Since apparently all the young men these days look like Instahoes, then this is a non issue.

by Anonymousreply 30March 9, 2018 5:41 PM

Believe it or not, shut in gamers are people with feelings who know what’s going on in the world. They’re capable of guilt and shame just like their female peers, and they know that the entertainment world and social media are telling them that they’re not really men unless they look like this:

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by Anonymousreply 31March 9, 2018 5:42 PM

I love how this has become a thread to plug instahos.

by Anonymousreply 32March 9, 2018 5:43 PM

[QUOTE]Since apparently all the young men these days look like Instahoes, then this is a non issue.

The problem with people like you is that you think of Instagram as this little box with most “normal” people quarantined from it. You can’t accept that it’s become a part of our lives and has enormous influence over human behavior.

by Anonymousreply 33March 9, 2018 5:45 PM

It's all about the Instahoes on Datalounge. They are DL gods and legends.

by Anonymousreply 34March 9, 2018 5:45 PM

[quote]I love how this has become a thread to plug instahos.

How exactly does that distinguish this thread from any other DL thread?

by Anonymousreply 35March 9, 2018 5:46 PM

Exactly, R35. Carry on.

by Anonymousreply 36March 9, 2018 5:48 PM

[quote]You can’t accept that it’s become a part of our lives and has enormous influence over human behavior.

We know, we know. DL was told in plain terms from a bisexual teenager that Instagram was specifically created to take selfies. Nothing else.

by Anonymousreply 37March 9, 2018 5:49 PM

Not every gamer looks like.....THIS.

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by Anonymousreply 38March 9, 2018 5:49 PM

Here in Italy all the teen boys i see are either rail thin (worse than Chalamet, like they never ate food in their life) or already obese. Where are these muscled boys??

by Anonymousreply 39March 9, 2018 5:51 PM

But they do, apparently! I want to believe!

by Anonymousreply 40March 9, 2018 5:51 PM

Instagram r39.

by Anonymousreply 41March 9, 2018 5:51 PM

Am I the only one who don't find those freaks attractive?

by Anonymousreply 42March 9, 2018 5:52 PM

[quote]Where are these muscled boys??

You're not looking in the right places (i.e. Instagram). Which is indicative of the real world, of course.

by Anonymousreply 43March 9, 2018 5:52 PM

the IG troll has been AWAKENED!

by Anonymousreply 44March 9, 2018 5:53 PM

[quote] and they know that the entertainment world and social media are telling them that they’re not really men unless they look like this

The hilarity of a sentiment like this being posted on DL where every man with 3 or more extra pounds on him is a fattie, and every thin man who doesn't take steroids is ugly and needs to go to the gym is simply beyond.

And no, R42, you are not.

by Anonymousreply 45March 9, 2018 5:55 PM

The IG troll is probably one of those who has less than a hundred followers yet follows thousands of hoes. I don't know where they find the time.

by Anonymousreply 46March 9, 2018 5:56 PM

[QUOTE]It's all about the Instahoes on Datalounge. They are DL gods and legends.

These so called “Instahoes” are just normal people taking pictures and uploading them, and their numbers are growing daily. They’re not some sub or superhuman entity the way you’d have us think. Instagram is a reflection of what hundreds of millions of people think and do in their daily lives.

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by Anonymousreply 47March 9, 2018 5:57 PM

Instagram is now the whole society? That's it, it's over.

by Anonymousreply 48March 9, 2018 5:57 PM

Yes, it is. 800 million users and counting.

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by Anonymousreply 49March 9, 2018 5:58 PM

More hoes..... MORE HOES!

by Anonymousreply 50March 9, 2018 5:59 PM

Instahoes are still the exceptions. A tiny minority.

Get outside a bit to see what most people look like.

by Anonymousreply 51March 9, 2018 6:00 PM

If you're not an Instahoe, you're not even a real person.

by Anonymousreply 52March 9, 2018 6:00 PM

They are not hoes. They’re guys who have been brainwashed into believing that they must look like this in order to be viable.

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by Anonymousreply 53March 9, 2018 6:01 PM

[quote] More hoes..... MORE HOES!

Here ya go, R50

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by Anonymousreply 54March 9, 2018 6:05 PM

Not enough abs.

by Anonymousreply 55March 9, 2018 6:09 PM

We should empathize with these young men, not belittle them.

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by Anonymousreply 56March 9, 2018 6:09 PM

Too fat, R54!!

by Anonymousreply 57March 9, 2018 6:12 PM

I'm sure the struggle is real.

by Anonymousreply 58March 9, 2018 6:12 PM

Yeah, I feel real bad for them.

by Anonymousreply 59March 9, 2018 6:12 PM

Believe it or not, they’re under a tremendous amount of pressure.

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by Anonymousreply 60March 9, 2018 6:14 PM

All that flexing takes its toll on one's mental health.

by Anonymousreply 61March 9, 2018 6:17 PM

R15,.that's a real man with a real man's body. I've seen pictures of West shirtless, and he has a very nice body. The same with George Reeves as Superman. Real men and not pampered boys who need steroids and artificial enhancements to make pretend.

by Anonymousreply 62March 9, 2018 6:20 PM

Do you downplay the self esteem issues that women suffer from as well, R61?

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by Anonymousreply 63March 9, 2018 6:20 PM

What will happen to these guys? Porn? Prison?

by Anonymousreply 64March 9, 2018 6:27 PM

Any grown ass woman who suffers from low self esteem because of Kim Kardashian or Nicki Minaj is ridiculous. But you only asked the question just to post another pic of a muscled teen.

R64, OnlyFans.

by Anonymousreply 65March 9, 2018 6:33 PM

[quote] What will happen to these guys? Porn? Prison?

Worse! They'll hit the wall of reality that is your thirties when their metabolism starts to change...

by Anonymousreply 66March 9, 2018 6:33 PM

It does seem like porn to me. Would an employer want to hire that?

by Anonymousreply 67March 9, 2018 6:36 PM

R65 are you a woman?

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by Anonymousreply 68March 9, 2018 6:40 PM

You're joking, R67? An office full of flexing young guys is a DL utopia!

by Anonymousreply 69March 9, 2018 6:41 PM

No, R68. Please post another typically muscled teen of today. Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 70March 9, 2018 6:53 PM

Instagram is not REAL people. I don't want to know how many filters have been used in those photos.

don't worry, those vapid instahios will face the real word when they turn 30, their dick will shrivel and grow bitch titties.

by Anonymousreply 71March 9, 2018 7:04 PM

Some very sexy bros posted here. Many thanks

by Anonymousreply 72March 9, 2018 7:04 PM

You're welcome, R72. I didn't post them but someone felt the need to with every reply to me. I know some of you can't go on without your Instagram fix.

by Anonymousreply 73March 9, 2018 7:13 PM

I'm a millenial. About half my friends who also game and spend time on reddit (all but one are straight) are in good shape. None are as buff as the muscle bros posted here but many have visible abs and I consider pretty attractive. Our generation is pretty health conscious generally I think. I don't think any of my male friends have low self esteem, even the overweight ones. I think the millennials that work out just like to look good.

by Anonymousreply 74March 9, 2018 7:22 PM

[quote] I don't want to know how many filters have been used in those photos.

Why don't you want to know?

by Anonymousreply 75March 9, 2018 7:22 PM

Yes, R71–I don’t see any of these same guys at my as they appear on their Instagram. They are really muscled out on instagram but not at all in the gym.

by Anonymousreply 76March 9, 2018 7:31 PM

*my gym

by Anonymousreply 77March 9, 2018 7:31 PM

[QUOTE]I don't think any of my male friends have low self esteem, even the overweight ones. I think the millennials that work out just like to look good.

Well looking good is apart of self esteem. You look good, you feel good.

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by Anonymousreply 78March 9, 2018 7:39 PM

R78 Sure, I more meant, I don't think any of the ones who work out have low opinions of themselves and that's why they do it.

by Anonymousreply 79March 9, 2018 7:41 PM

You never know what’s really going on inside someone’s mind. Sometimes the best looking people have the deepest insecurities.

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by Anonymousreply 80March 9, 2018 7:55 PM

Maybe R80 but I feel like I know my friends pretty well. Granted none look like THAT^^^ People who take it to that level have to be driven by something

by Anonymousreply 81March 9, 2018 7:57 PM

They are indeed driven by something. The question is what.

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by Anonymousreply 82March 9, 2018 8:34 PM

This is what manhood consists of today.

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by Anonymousreply 83March 12, 2018 1:13 PM

At least they aren’t obese.

by Anonymousreply 84March 12, 2018 2:30 PM

There’s plenty of room between those two extremes, R84.

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by Anonymousreply 85March 12, 2018 2:37 PM

Lol @ the irony of a thread about body image issues becoming a thirst trap. Never change, DL.

by Anonymousreply 86March 12, 2018 2:44 PM

R85 is an extremely sexy guy

by Anonymousreply 87March 12, 2018 2:47 PM

I just wanted to show examples of what the article was focused on since many insisted that young men aren’t under any kind of pressure.

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by Anonymousreply 88March 12, 2018 2:47 PM

Notice how this young man thinks lifting weights and being “aesthetic” is the only way he’ll be successful in life.

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by Anonymousreply 89March 12, 2018 2:53 PM

Dudes wanna be Alpha beasts like Ryan Spiteri

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by Anonymousreply 90March 12, 2018 6:46 PM

It's Jeff Seid and Zyzz. They weren't just about bodybuilding but also made lots of vids of them picking up girls and such. That's the ideal these guys are going for

by Anonymousreply 91March 12, 2018 6:58 PM

And where is Zyzz now? 💀

by Anonymousreply 92March 12, 2018 7:29 PM

Very good point R92

by Anonymousreply 93March 12, 2018 7:30 PM

Jordan Peterson's quasi-alt-right fortunes are rising among the gamers who can't/won't "get aesthetic"...

by Anonymousreply 94March 12, 2018 7:32 PM

[QUOTE]And where is Zyzz now?

For one, perhaps two generations of young men now, he’ll live forever. His name, message and image lives on through guys like this.

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by Anonymousreply 95March 12, 2018 7:39 PM
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by Anonymousreply 96March 12, 2018 7:42 PM

Whoever is posting all these instahos... thank you. Jay Cass is HOT

by Anonymousreply 97March 12, 2018 7:45 PM

If my 20-something kid was doing nothing but taking selfies, going to the gym, eating me out of house and home, and spending what little money he has on roids and supplements, I'd kick his ass to the curb.

by Anonymousreply 98March 12, 2018 7:47 PM

Even a lot of gamers and techie bros are jacked now. You should see our new IT hires. They look like Instagram fitness models.

by Anonymousreply 99March 12, 2018 7:53 PM

R99 is right. Here is shredded competitive video gamer and fitness model Doug Censor

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by Anonymousreply 100March 12, 2018 7:58 PM
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by Anonymousreply 101March 12, 2018 7:59 PM

The "fan" is hotter than Jeff Seid here.

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by Anonymousreply 102March 12, 2018 7:59 PM

And remember that most guys aren’t walking around in spaghetti tank tops. Someone like this may not appear to be an Instagram fitness bro when he’s wearing a shirt or a hoodie. They’re all over the place even when you can’t notice.

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by Anonymousreply 103March 12, 2018 8:00 PM

Name of the "fan" at R102 please!!!

by Anonymousreply 104March 12, 2018 8:01 PM

A lot of former/current geeks and nerds find weighliftling and supplements to be the easiest way to “cool bro” status. They are right

by Anonymousreply 105March 12, 2018 8:03 PM

The fan is boss yo

by Anonymousreply 106March 12, 2018 8:04 PM

I'd love to listen that guy on the right in R102 be interviewed on Fresh Air.

by Anonymousreply 107March 12, 2018 8:05 PM

That guy is Jeff Seid, R107. He’s one of the originators of the modern day “aesthetics” movement.

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by Anonymousreply 108March 12, 2018 8:12 PM

Jeff has gotten uglier over time. Roids do that sadly. Who is the guy next to him at R102 though???

by Anonymousreply 109March 12, 2018 8:15 PM

His bro is hot

by Anonymousreply 110March 12, 2018 8:18 PM

That's his brother? What's his name?

by Anonymousreply 111March 12, 2018 8:20 PM

He’s not his brother. His name is Daniel Rumfelt. R102 is just him and Jeff Seid photoshopped together.

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by Anonymousreply 112March 12, 2018 9:01 PM
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by Anonymousreply 113March 12, 2018 9:01 PM
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by Anonymousreply 114March 12, 2018 9:01 PM

Many thanks R112!

by Anonymousreply 115March 12, 2018 9:02 PM

Jeff was a work of art in his prime. Unrealistic for most guys to go for that

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by Anonymousreply 116March 12, 2018 9:06 PM

That’s not going to stop them from trying.

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by Anonymousreply 117March 12, 2018 9:24 PM

Mmmmm

by Anonymousreply 118March 12, 2018 11:29 PM

They need to build a bridge and get over it.

Women have had hundreds of years of it, with greater intensity.

by Anonymousreply 119March 13, 2018 12:16 AM

I love the juxtaposition of geekiness with muscled jock broness. All these geeky guys at my gym in glasses with python biceps and bubble butts are driving me wild!

by Anonymousreply 120March 13, 2018 12:33 AM

Adolescent males have been feeling pressured to buff up for decades now. It's the level of self-absorption in the instaho set that I find deeply unattractive.

by Anonymousreply 121March 13, 2018 1:11 AM

They have thousands of people telling them how good they look every day. Hard not to become self absorbed

by Anonymousreply 122March 13, 2018 1:15 AM

I love the male office muscled new interns dressed in their form-fitting shirts and pants. They look almost pornographic with jacked v-shaped sculpted torsos about to burst forth, thunder thighs, and huge bUbble butts. They to The gym every day!

by Anonymousreply 123March 13, 2018 1:22 AM

[QUOTE]It's the level of self-absorption in the instaho set that I find deeply unattractive.

But would things be any different without Instagram? Or would we just not see it?

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by Anonymousreply 124March 13, 2018 1:23 AM
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by Anonymousreply 125March 13, 2018 1:25 AM
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by Anonymousreply 126March 13, 2018 1:25 AM

Instagram is not the only cause, but it’s a huge accelerant and motivator. Gymspiration is headquartered at instagram

by Anonymousreply 127March 13, 2018 1:26 AM

My personal belief is that the problem would exist even without Instagram. This guy would still look the same even without Instagram.

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by Anonymousreply 128March 13, 2018 1:36 AM
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by Anonymousreply 129March 13, 2018 1:36 AM
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by Anonymousreply 130March 13, 2018 1:36 AM
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by Anonymousreply 131March 13, 2018 2:07 AM
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by Anonymousreply 132March 13, 2018 3:33 AM

The overdeveloped muscle and vascular definition is unattractive to me. The men start to look like lumps of meat rather than human beings.

by Anonymousreply 133March 13, 2018 3:50 AM

Beautiful

by Anonymousreply 134March 13, 2018 11:30 AM

You can’t just blame Hollywood anymore.

Yeah, every young actor now has to be an anabolic power lifter. That’s a given and a change from yesteryear. Yeah, every actor is now paid according to the size of his tit—er, pecs, as woman always have been.

But I’d wager a greater influence now is Instagram. The types of guys who DLers worship, even as you hate Kardashians for being famous for their asses, these Instagram “personalities” (naked people) are famous for their bodies and faces and nothing else. And so guys lift and starve themselves, take pictures, and either become grandiose or depressed based on their numbers of followes and image likes.

And most of the guys here love this and fuel it. I don’t like it. I grew up with serious body image problems for a number of reasons and as 40 approaches I care less than I ever have. I do think it’s fucked up that women have lived this way for at least centuries and instead of improving on that, it’s instead become more equal by giving young men feelings of inadequacy and self-disgust, too. Pretty fucked up if you ask me.

But I know: you’ll tell me to stop whining and shut up, and the here’s-a-bodybuilder-from-Instagram threads will keep appearing with greater frequency. You can’t change things that no one wants to change. People love to set up unrealistic expectations to make themselves and others always feel inadequate.

by Anonymousreply 135March 13, 2018 11:47 AM

R128 Chances are that he wouldn’t look like that without IG unless he is a professional bodybuilder or a porn star. Male models, actors, and everyday guys did not look like that even 15 years ago.

True story: I know a guy who works for a national radio station. He’s kind of an artsy geeky guy. 20, 15, 10 years ago he had a cute face and a slender body and he basically looked like a twinky gay guy. He used to say he had never seen the inside of a gym, sort of as an “in your face” to body-obsessed gay guys. Then Instagram came along. At first he posted pictures of himself hanging out with friends (lots of women), and then over time he started bulking up, the clothes started coming off, and almost all of his selfies now are at least shirtless (many in swimwear or underwear) and almost all of them with other shirtless/almost naked bodybuilder-type guys—lots of them, in groups. I am envious of the photos of his life on a certain visceral aesthetic level and I’m sure that is the point. On a more overt level, I’ve been sad to watch this transition. This guy went to a top toer university and he has what would be a dream job for many and now it seems showing off his pecs and ripped abs and showing off that his friends have pecs and ripped abs, most of their pictures looking like covers of gay porn movies, is his priority. Maybe that’s a gay dream for some but to me it’s sad to see an interesting person reduced to that following the advent of Instagram.

by Anonymousreply 136March 13, 2018 11:55 AM

Are you sure, R112?

by Anonymousreply 137March 13, 2018 12:47 PM

I don't think R112 is correct... The noses are different.

by Anonymousreply 138March 13, 2018 1:24 PM

Jeff has only a sister.

by Anonymousreply 139March 13, 2018 1:34 PM

[QUOTE]Chances are that he wouldn’t look like that without IG unless he is a professional bodybuilder or a porn star. Male models, actors, and everyday guys did not look like that even 15 years ago.

Your story was interesting but I disagree with this part. Social circles and peer pressure to conform would still exist without Instagram. Your friend might have eventually done the same thing without it, just minus the selfies.

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by Anonymousreply 140March 13, 2018 2:20 PM
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by Anonymousreply 141March 13, 2018 2:23 PM
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by Anonymousreply 142March 13, 2018 2:23 PM

Yes, I concur that the male aesthetics fixation has reached an unhealthy level. However, I am still strongly attracted to jacked dudes and don’t think it can be changed. It’s like telling folks eating bacon is unhealthy. People are going to still naturally be attracted to Buff dudes.

by Anonymousreply 143March 13, 2018 5:14 PM

Exterior versus sustainable

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by Anonymousreply 144March 13, 2018 6:19 PM

R144, he makes a good point. I think everyone should just aim for 10%, not 6-7%.

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by Anonymousreply 145March 13, 2018 6:21 PM

[quote] They weren't just about bodybuilding but also made lots of vids of them picking up girls and such. That's the ideal these guys are going for.

Then they’re idiots who don’t know the first thing about women.

When a female sees a body like the ones posted above, the first thought is rarely a drooling “wantwantWANT” as for many a gay man; it’s more, “this guy could so easily kill or maim me”. Whether it’s roids or narcissism these jacked guys red-flag for grown women, and it’s only naive horny little girls that think otherwise.

It’s also obvious to most women that men like this are into themselves and consequently will be poor listeners & conversationalists, which is another point against as women want to be wooed & charmed more than flexed at.

A man whose main priority is his body and impressing his gym buddies or his IG folllowers is not an attractive prospect to any woman, particularly not one who wants a relationship. Even the Thots find these guys tiresome, especially if they aren’t rich. It’s boring, dealing with men like that.

These RedPill idiots would get further with woman if they developed social skills, nurtured a personal talent, became stylish, and:or got involved in the Arts or business. Being interesting & engaged with the world is a really attractive quality, as is being able to make your own money doing something you love or that is beautiful or fascinating.

Authentic charm and seductive skill help, too. If morbidly obese or fug as a male, it’s wild how far good tailoring & good humor plus an attentive love style can take you straight women. No gym required.

by Anonymousreply 146March 13, 2018 8:59 PM

Bodd

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by Anonymousreply 147March 14, 2018 1:25 AM

Or gay men, R146. Well said. Brilliantly said.

by Anonymousreply 148March 14, 2018 1:28 AM

We’re trying to have a serious discussion here, R147.

by Anonymousreply 149March 14, 2018 1:30 AM

R149

by Anonymousreply 150March 14, 2018 1:36 AM

I’m really tired of the cookie cutter gym bodies. Whoever thought that would happen? They’re a dime a dozen, insipid and they spend their lives working out and making love to themselves through a smartphone camera and projecting their self-lust to anyone in the public who will click a little heart button. It’s deranged. People are not even living anymore. They can’t take their eyes off of themselves.

by Anonymousreply 151March 14, 2018 1:38 AM

How much time do they really spend “worshipping themselves,” though? It only takes one second to take a picture. Maybe this is just what gives them the self confidence to pursue other goals in life.

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by Anonymousreply 152March 14, 2018 1:48 AM

Hott

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by Anonymousreply 153March 14, 2018 1:49 AM

I’m happy with this pressure. Get thee to a gym!

by Anonymousreply 154March 14, 2018 1:53 AM

But they’re not just hitting the gym. They’re hitting illegal substances as they strive for “aesthetic” perfection.

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by Anonymousreply 155March 14, 2018 4:09 AM
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by Anonymousreply 156March 14, 2018 4:09 AM
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by Anonymousreply 157March 14, 2018 4:09 AM

Nice

by Anonymousreply 158March 14, 2018 11:00 AM

It’s called having goals

by Anonymousreply 159March 14, 2018 12:35 PM

I think it’s called peer pressure.

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by Anonymousreply 160March 14, 2018 12:51 PM
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by Anonymousreply 163March 14, 2018 2:16 PM

[QUOTE]Michael Webster, 35, from Commando Flow said young men unrealistically told themselves the perfect body was achievable overnight.

[QUOTE]“I can see why it’s an issue with social media ... people think they have to look a certain way,” the Vaucluse resident said.

[QUOTE]But trainer Dylan Rivier, 37, from Bondi, said most of his male clients simply wanted to look “lean and athletic”

[QUOTE]“Most guys will tell you they don’t want to be a big bodybuilder,” he said.

by Anonymousreply 164March 14, 2018 2:18 PM

Love these physiques

by Anonymousreply 165March 16, 2018 12:03 AM

I think these kids become obsessed with Instagram filters.

by Anonymousreply 166March 16, 2018 12:16 AM

[QUOTE]A man whose main priority is his body and impressing his gym buddies or his IG folllowers is not an attractive prospect to any woman, particularly not one who wants a relationship. Even the Thots find these guys tiresome, especially if they aren’t rich. It’s boring, dealing with men like that.

These guys don’t seem to have trouble finding women, however.

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by Anonymousreply 171March 16, 2018 12:37 AM

Exactly, chicks are throwing themselves at aesthetics bros. Hot chicks. Some people here are stuck in 1974.

by Anonymousreply 172March 16, 2018 12:44 AM
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by Anonymousreply 173March 16, 2018 12:47 AM

R172 they’re trophy boyfriends, though. These girls aren’t imagining marrying or building a life or starting a family with guys like this. They’re disposable man-candy.

For keeps most normal straight women want a wealthy attentive respectable man who will treat them like a lady, ‘do right’ by them and their kids, buy them a house and please their parents etc. They aren’t hoping for a ring from the trashy Insta-ho.

by Anonymousreply 174March 16, 2018 12:56 AM

So just because a guy lifts weights and posts pics on Instagram means he can’t be a respectable man who will do right by them? What exactly makes these guys “trashy”?

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by Anonymousreply 179March 16, 2018 1:38 AM

These guys are a huge, huge turn off now.

by Anonymousreply 180March 16, 2018 1:42 AM

Without reading the thread or the article,it makes perfect sense. Everyone is ripped in media and male fitness is celebrated. Tons of porn guys have six packs, a tight round ass and a big dick. Boys/young men can't help that you have to have this to get ahead in life, sex, relationships.

by Anonymousreply 181March 16, 2018 1:42 AM

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by Anonymousreply 182March 16, 2018 1:44 AM

SO many personal ads now say that you are not worthy of consideration unless you have ripped abs, huge pecs, and python biceps. It’s a necessity to date hot guys.

by Anonymousreply 183March 16, 2018 1:45 AM

[QUOTE]Everyone is ripped in media and male fitness is celebrated.

[QUOTE]SO many personal ads now say that you are not worthy of consideration unless you have ripped abs, huge pecs, and python biceps.

Exactly. Which is why I believe we’re looking at victims on Instagram, not perpetrators.

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by Anonymousreply 186March 16, 2018 1:53 AM

Qwin is smokin

by Anonymousreply 187March 16, 2018 9:51 AM

All my life, most of my female friends have dated jockish guys on and off (and gotten off on it), and then latched onto a schlumpy, decent guy and married him. Anything other than that has been an exception to the rule.

Today, I notice that the younger women I work with seem to be a lot more like guys always have been: they want a standardized version of ‘hot’ first, and then money, and then prestige, and they are very distressed over having a hard time finding this guy in DC. Several of the young women (25 - 30) I’ve worked with have been actual competitive weight lifters and CrossFit addicts who measure out their protein/carb/fat ratios and are super aggressive, and all of these women have had trophy boyfriends whom they seemed more bothered by than in love with; they act the way men in their 20s are expected to act. It’s very odd to me to witness this. The whole gender fluidity thing really is more than just how people dress; guys are becoming more self-conscious, image based, narcissistic based on appearances and self-involved, and the girls are becoming harder, more objectifying, career driven and overall have a harder time settling on a guy because they need someone Instagram-hot.

That’s just my read as an outside observer.

by Anonymousreply 188March 16, 2018 10:04 AM

This Instragam shit is fucking ridiculous. How do they get those bodies if they never leave their BATHROOMS. So all these twit fucks do is work out and take pictures of themselves? That sounds interesting.

by Anonymousreply 189March 16, 2018 10:50 AM

The sad truth is that people put themselves under stress and pressure to assimilate and fit in. It's not "I do this to feel better about myself / feel healthier /feels right for me / etc.", but "the only way I get accepted by others / my peers / etc. is by doing what they do".

Of course social media or the gaming community do not represent ALL of males, but they represent social norms that are being pushed or promoted.

by Anonymousreply 190March 16, 2018 11:01 AM

What amazes me is how you're all fooled by the packaging. The most important thing is that we raise kids to have values. If you work out and drink your protein shakes and look terrific, that's all wonderful but you should be a decent human being first and foremost. There are decent people who look like schlubs and decent people who look amazing. There are assholes who look like schlubs and assholes who look amazing. Appearance does not tell you everything about the person.

by Anonymousreply 191March 16, 2018 12:13 PM

Appearance does not tell you everything about the person.

With all due respect, R191, are you FUCKING KIDDING ME?

by Anonymousreply 192March 16, 2018 12:19 PM

Working out in the early AM at my gym is the best time because everyone there has white hair. Nobody is taking selfies, nobody is taking pics of you, they aren’t following you around—it’s wonderful.

by Anonymousreply 193March 16, 2018 12:25 PM

[QUOTE]There are decent people who look like schlubs and decent people who look amazing.

Exactly. Judging one by their weight lifting routine is preposterous. And Instagram selfies have become so commonplace that you can’t really judge someone for posting them, either. The days of “Instathots” being the only ones posting shirtless selfies is long gone. This is now a normal thing:

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by Anonymousreply 196March 16, 2018 12:34 PM

That's what you get when people are raised to seek validation from others. What else is Instagram but to seek validation through how many followers you have? And the things you do to get those followers.

These days it's not enough to be a good person. You need to show people how good of a person you are, because you being a good person doesn't mean anything when nobody else is validating you for being a good person. Same goes with having a super hot and / or healthy body.

by Anonymousreply 197March 16, 2018 12:55 PM

R193, that’s exactly why I don’t work out in the morning: no hot dudes. When I go in the evening, the gym is packed with hot, ripped jacked bros flexing in skintight compression wear. This is true gymspiration that keeps me working out and eating clean. Evenings are for hotties.

by Anonymousreply 198March 16, 2018 1:58 PM

[QUOTE]What else is Instagram but to seek validation through how many followers you have? And the things you do to get those followers.

It’s a social platform. Your goal may not be getting millions of followers. Many just use it to broadcast a message and image to the world while picking up a few friends along the way.

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by Anonymousreply 201March 17, 2018 1:01 AM

THere is an attitude that comes with the physique

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by Anonymousreply 202March 18, 2018 1:09 AM

^^Guess Cobra Kai never die, huh...

by Anonymousreply 203March 18, 2018 1:11 AM

Does no one recognize the irony that a thread asking why young men have psychological disorders related to body image immediately devolved into people posting gratuitous Instagram photos of half naked young men who almost certainly are either narcissists or have eating disorders in an effort to be hot enough to broadcast his abs daily?

by Anonymousreply 204March 18, 2018 1:13 AM

“1 in 10 men ages 18-34 (9%) have been teased, ridiculed, ‘trolled’ or ‘body shamed’ about their appearance or weight online or on social media.”

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by Anonymousreply 205March 18, 2018 1:14 AM

R205, that seems like an underestimate

by Anonymousreply 206March 18, 2018 1:16 AM

"That's what you get when people are raised to seek validation from others. "

It's not just INstagram. It's everything, including forums like DL. Whether on purpose or not, a lot of people constantly seek validation through the internet, social media, texting, etc. I see it in adults raised nowhere near such technology as well.

by Anonymousreply 207March 18, 2018 1:18 AM

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by Anonymousreply 208March 18, 2018 2:03 AM

[QUOTE]“1 in 10 men ages 18-34 (9%) have been teased, ridiculed, ‘trolled’ or ‘body shamed’ about their appearance or weight online or on social media.”

Is it any wonder why they strive so hard to look like this?

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by Anonymousreply 213March 18, 2018 2:52 AM

I'm glad all these hot young men have body issues. Hit the gyms then hit Mama's mussy.

by Anonymousreply 214March 18, 2018 3:13 AM

Way to revel in the misery of others, R214.

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by Anonymousreply 219March 18, 2018 4:04 AM

As long as the average American is grotesquely overweight, I don’t want to hear that the pressure to be fit is a bad thing.

More people not caring about diet and fitness is the widespread epidemic and much more dangerous.

by Anonymousreply 220March 18, 2018 4:06 AM

Show me some black And brown ones.

by Anonymousreply 221March 18, 2018 10:26 AM

r220, the problem is that some people see these ideals and get even more depressed and eat their feelings.

Our society throws a lot of shit at us. "You are only worth something when you are rich / powerful / look like a model / etc." We are not supposed to be happy about who we are, because we are supposed to compare us to others who are way more richer / powerful / prettier and - as a result - make us feel like shit. Making us easy pickings for snake oil salesmen selling us all kinds of bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 222March 18, 2018 12:05 PM

R198: pathetic, 58 y/o self described muscle queen who thinks by using all the right buzz words, (ripped, jacked, swole, etc.), the "gym bro dudes" will let him suck their cocks.

So sad.

by Anonymousreply 223March 18, 2018 2:57 PM

MOre!

by Anonymousreply 224March 20, 2018 1:54 AM

Actually R223 these guys seem to enjoy looks of jealousy and admiration from other males in the gym. So R198’s behavior is probably welcomed.

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by Anonymousreply 225March 21, 2018 12:33 PM

I really cannot get over the public encouragement of pathological narcissists today. These people are going to be as fucked in the head as Donald Trump is when they get older, and they’re going to fuck up a lot of things for a lot of people.

by Anonymousreply 226March 21, 2018 12:36 PM

But would it be any different without Instagram? They’d still be lifting weights. They’d still be narcissistic.

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by Anonymousreply 227March 21, 2018 12:40 PM

Good god...are any of them NOT on roids?

by Anonymousreply 228March 21, 2018 12:44 PM

I grew up in the 80s and 90s and the only gay role models I had were gay porn actors. Straight acting, muscular, etc. compared to the handful of out gay celebrities who tended to be more like Paul Lynde or Jm J Bullock. So, yes, I thought having a great body was my key to happiness. If I could transform, then I could get what I wanted, be respected, be fuckable. Needless to say, no matter what I did, I never felt that way. I didn't sense straight guys had the same issues until the last 10-15 years. Now it seems we all feel this way. I'm fucked up so I'm assuming it is the same for this generation as a whole now. Finally I'm normal!

by Anonymousreply 229March 21, 2018 1:04 PM

[QUOTE]Good god...are any of them NOT on roids?

I actually think that most of the guys posted in this thread just do it through dieting and weightlifting. They’re not really that big.

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by Anonymousreply 230March 21, 2018 1:16 PM

Our bodies have not evolved, our ability to locate , purchase and use PEDs has evolved exponentially. When these Facebook/Instagram bros hit 40 they will be faced with mental issues surrounding not being young/hot forever and deep, deep depression . Suicide rates will soar. Physically , after years of testosterone and GHB overuse their bodies will no longer make testosterone naturally, they will need to go on HRT to maintain a normal testosterone level. Bodies will shrink , cardiovascular issues and cancers will become pandemic. Wait until 2025-2030 you will start seeing this.

by Anonymousreply 231March 21, 2018 1:35 PM

But life has evolved. We have way more leisure time: many spend theirs on the couch racking up Netflix hours or in front of their computer watching cat videos and shopping and on Pornhub. What if people spent it in the gym? I think that’s what these guys are doing: showing that which the human body is capable if one dedicates all of their free time to weightlifting. Just like guys in prison who come out buff. Why? Because all they do is eat and lift weights.

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by Anonymousreply 234March 21, 2018 1:49 PM

r230, being on roids doesn't necessarily mean you have to be huge.

by Anonymousreply 235March 21, 2018 1:49 PM

R235 If you are on roids and work out everyday, you will swell in size even if you aren't trying to. Skinny guys who are just ripped but not particularly large almost certainly aren't on it. It doesn't produce that kind of look

by Anonymousreply 236March 21, 2018 1:52 PM

Well you need to have some kind of additional proof. You can’t just point at every guy who lifts weights and scream “Roidz!”

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by Anonymousreply 237March 21, 2018 1:57 PM

When you have a guy who is HUGE but still shredded, that's almost certainly roids. Nearly impossible to put on that much muscle cleanly. The one exception is very short guys, less than 5'9". Short guys put on muscle easier than taller guys.

by Anonymousreply 238March 21, 2018 1:59 PM

There are always signs

R237's pic is not likely roids

r232 = roids

by Anonymousreply 239March 21, 2018 2:01 PM

[QUOTE]When you have a guy who is HUGE but still shredded, that's almost certainly roids. Nearly impossible to put on that much muscle cleanly.

Yeah but they don’t put it on “cleanly.” They just rarely show you what they look like while they’re fat and bloated from putting the weight on. They take a bunch of pics and show off while they’re lean but when it’s time to bulk they’re wearing extra clothes and either stop posting shirtless or use some old pics from when they were still lean.

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by Anonymousreply 240March 21, 2018 2:05 PM

Men never had issues till the gays.

by Anonymousreply 241March 21, 2018 2:24 PM

excuse you R241? care to elaborate?

by Anonymousreply 242March 21, 2018 2:26 PM

I would not be surprised if, when the book on this male “aesthetics” period is written, the first few pages deal with gay worship of the male physique in its extreme form. Might R241 be onto something?

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by Anonymousreply 245March 21, 2018 3:20 PM

The Next phase will be the production of supplements that attain the results of steroids without the negative side effects. SARMS is less dangerous than steroids, but it still suppresses natural testosterone and likely has negative cardiovascular and carcinogenic effects. Companies are now trying to develop supplements that have supplements that will get Dudes ripped and swole in a much safer way than SARMS.

by Anonymousreply 246March 21, 2018 3:29 PM

Can you imagine the money to be made, R246? Wish I could invest in that crap...

by Anonymousreply 247March 21, 2018 3:32 PM

There will never be a supplement that can alter the makeup of human hormones without producing side effects.

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by Anonymousreply 248March 21, 2018 3:58 PM

Well even ordinarily medicine such as aspirin and Flonase has side effects, but I think the risks and side effects can be muted for at least modest aesthetic results. Already creatine and whey protein provide results a mass market that would have been unthinkable 50 years ago. I think there can be a class of supplements that go beyond creatine, BCAA, whey that is not much more harmful.

by Anonymousreply 249March 21, 2018 4:39 PM

Well if you’re right, this could be the beginning of a long trend.

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by Anonymousreply 252March 22, 2018 5:04 AM

Models recreate Calvin Klein advert to open up the conversation around men’s body image

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by Anonymousreply 253March 23, 2018 1:00 AM

Physique connotes power

by Anonymousreply 254March 29, 2018 6:46 AM

Supplement use is skyrocketing

by Anonymousreply 255March 30, 2018 1:16 PM
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by Anonymousreply 256March 30, 2018 1:20 PM

pits

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by Anonymousreply 258March 30, 2018 1:20 PM

[quote]Men never had issues till the gays.

Men, gays, same thing. But you wouldn't understand that, not having a male reproductive system, and all.

by Anonymousreply 259March 30, 2018 1:30 PM

Ken is hot

by Anonymousreply 260March 31, 2018 11:44 AM

Interesting names on all these muscle guys: Qwin, Xander, Lolo, Kamil.

by Anonymousreply 261March 31, 2018 12:10 PM
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by Anonymousreply 264April 4, 2018 3:23 AM

Muscles matter

by Anonymousreply 265April 6, 2018 1:33 AM

They matter a little too much to guys like this.

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by Anonymousreply 268April 10, 2018 11:55 AM

I just clicked this thread for the first time. Its a month old. Obviously it quickly morphed into an opportunity for sad DL Instaho trolls to post pics of Instahos. Predictable and pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 269April 10, 2018 12:08 PM

It is porn which influenced Hollywood, then instagram etc.

by Anonymousreply 270April 10, 2018 12:15 PM

Mathew Zeven is Boss, yo!

by Anonymousreply 271April 10, 2018 10:04 PM

Buff dudes get mad respect

by Anonymousreply 272April 11, 2018 3:17 AM

Part of what’s driving them is a yearning of respect from peers.

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by Anonymousreply 275April 11, 2018 3:48 AM

YEAh, and more guys than ever want to be Alphas or hotties. Physique is considered important to attwijg those goals. Also, guys want to date and have access to hotties, and you need to have the bod to mingle with hotties today, male or female.

by Anonymousreply 276April 11, 2018 3:51 AM

Alphas my ass. Fully bloomed body dysmorphia for a decade or two doesn't make one an alpha. Exceptional professional achievement does. As does being a brilliant and generous lover, friend, and son, for the long haul.

by Anonymousreply 277April 11, 2018 4:40 AM

R277, tell that to drooling Millennials and Gen Zers who proclaim swole fitness bros “Alpha,” “Zaddies.” Old timer definitions are not relevant.

by Anonymousreply 278April 11, 2018 6:55 AM

Millennials are fat af. Just because the hot ones are hot doesn't mean it's mainstream.

by Anonymousreply 279April 11, 2018 7:00 AM

Gen Z is even fatter, R279.

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by Anonymousreply 280April 11, 2018 7:03 AM

I ignore Hollywood and the types who run it. Anything for a buck my mom would say. She also says they'd rob the eyes out of your head if they could.

by Anonymousreply 281April 11, 2018 7:44 AM

OK thanks R278. So in their slang, Alpha just means big muscles. I suspect its the old gay DLers who are drooling the most.

Urban dictionary for Alpha:

"Usually used as a term for a badass male who attracts women without trying. His superiority and pure confidence allows him to achieve success. He does not WANT, because he is the WANTED. May also be used to describe a "manly" achievement or situation."

Even in the urban dictionary it seems to mean more than muscles, more like the general meaning - leader.

I don't know if girls and young women are automatically all over muscle bodies. Are they? Confident, handsome, and sure, fit. I thought girls liked pretty faces, fit bodies, nice asses and charm. I think a lot of people want a young man who is judged to be headed to or already in a lucrative profession.

by Anonymousreply 282April 11, 2018 9:08 AM

They wouldn’t be doing this if it resulted in negative feedback from girls.

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by Anonymousreply 288April 12, 2018 11:28 AM

They all look the same.

At any rate, I’ve always been hot for bearish types. Beefy with body hair.

So I’ve aged out of an IG phenomenon that was never for me in the first place. Sort of like dodging a bullet that was never aimed at me.

by Anonymousreply 289April 12, 2018 11:45 AM

R282, you realize Urban Dictionary has pages of definitions of Alpha? One is: Alpha A male person that is physically and mentally superior than most other males, making him a sexual target for females. The opposite of this would be a beta.

by Anonymousreply 290April 12, 2018 12:10 PM

After reading this thread I have more body issues than ever before.

by Anonymousreply 291April 12, 2018 1:16 PM

Blame Hollywood, R291.

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by Anonymousreply 294April 12, 2018 2:35 PM

It’s all about gains

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by Anonymousreply 298April 13, 2018 12:59 PM

I like that one

by Anonymousreply 299April 14, 2018 1:35 AM

I don't have any body image issues now, bitches.

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by Anonymousreply 300April 17, 2018 12:30 PM

Steroids aside, how healthy is it long-term to have that little body fat and the be consuming all the extra protein via shake or powder? I don't think all of the "natural" supplements are necessarily that good for you either.

I do like a nice flat stomach and can appreciate a nice six pack, but I think when you cross the line of being ultra defined where it no longer looks natural and is not as attractive to me.

by Anonymousreply 301April 17, 2018 12:43 PM

Cheetos are "really screwing up these kids."

by Anonymousreply 302April 17, 2018 5:55 PM

R301 No studs are doing it for you, babe.

by Anonymousreply 303April 17, 2018 5:58 PM

[QUOTE]Steroids aside, how healthy is it long-term to have that little body fat and the be consuming all the extra protein via shake or powder?

I’m not an advocate for the lifestyle that these young men choose, but it’s certainly not for that reason. Who gives a shit about the “long term”? A long term isn’t even guaranteed. You better live for today as much as you can. And for Justin here, this is how he’s living the dream.

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by Anonymousreply 307April 19, 2018 12:58 PM

I WAS talking to a Fitness bro who advised everyone to get a doctor who is “sports nutritionist” and will monitor my health as I take potent supplements

by Anonymousreply 308April 20, 2018 7:16 PM

What “supplements” did he recommend?

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by Anonymousreply 310April 21, 2018 10:13 AM

SARMS, r309

by Anonymousreply 311April 21, 2018 12:11 PM

The Male aesthetics community offers intense male bonding and adoration.

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by Anonymousreply 312April 21, 2018 12:25 PM

BROtherhood

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BOnding

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by Anonymousreply 314April 21, 2018 12:41 PM

It's usually the smaller guys, who become obsessed about getting buff . You don't see a lot of really tall guys who are bodybuilding fanatics.

by Anonymousreply 315April 21, 2018 12:50 PM

That’s because it’s easier for short guys to pack on muscle.

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by Anonymousreply 318April 21, 2018 12:55 PM

Tall dudes have a very hard time looking muscled

by Anonymousreply 319April 21, 2018 12:55 PM

MOre!

by Anonymousreply 320April 22, 2018 12:59 AM

They’re starting out so early now.

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by Anonymousreply 323May 2, 2018 3:00 PM

THe FDA needs to regulate supplements

by Anonymousreply 324May 5, 2018 10:01 PM

The sad part is, IF these guys reach old age, they will all look like deflated baloons....see Arnold and Sly for examples.

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Josh

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Josh rocks yo

by Anonymousreply 331May 7, 2018 1:14 AM

While our boys are taking selfies, wallowing in narcissism, and measuring their self worth through amassing Instagram followers, I have a sense that their Chinese equivalents are picking up the slack in AI innovation, engineering, and remaking the world from Africa to Hong Kong.

by Anonymousreply 332May 7, 2018 1:23 AM

You obviously haven’t been following the Hot Asian Muscle Dudes thread

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[quote] While our boys are taking selfies, wallowing in narcissism, and measuring their self worth through amassing Instagram followers, I have a sense that their Chinese equivalents are picking up the slack in AI innovation, engineering, and remaking the world from Africa to Hong Kong.

I have a feeling that there are plenty of American, pencil-neck nerds who couldn't bench-press the bar but who have been doing computer programming since they were kids.

by Anonymousreply 337May 7, 2018 1:48 AM

I fucking hope so.

They will have a much easier time of it turning thirty and forty, when the bloom is off and the repetitive motion injuries start to crank up.

I am guessing the phenomenon of Asian musclemen is more a US than an Asian thing, but the internet can spread an infection instantaneously.

Maybe everyone is destined to be like the human Ken doll in the future. A new aesthetic awaits.

by Anonymousreply 338May 7, 2018 1:53 AM

PLENty of geeks and nerds are muscle aesthetics bros.

by Anonymousreply 339May 7, 2018 1:56 AM

This guy’s a software developer.

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by Anonymousreply 342May 7, 2018 2:17 AM

Put down those carbs, dudes!

by Anonymousreply 343May 7, 2018 5:02 PM

University professor here, often ogling the cute guys in the cafeteria. The jacked 20 year olds are few and often the most obnoxious, kind of leveling out some gains they've made living at the gym in terms of getting positive attention from the girls [and guys] around them. From what I observe the pretty girls here are way more impressed by friendliness and "normalcy" though some do hang onto the gym crowd. The truly gorgeous men, as always, are those with great genes; while muscles help, nothing compares to natural hotness, often devoid of big biceps.

by Anonymousreply 344May 7, 2018 5:49 PM

344 here -- coincidentally to this thread one of the classes I teach is substance abuse, and we cover steroids for a week every semester. When students are sharing their high school and college experiences with steroid users, both in dating and social settings, the responses are uniformly negative..."at first he was hot but would get angry"..."he had no dick" [Really a reference to the common smaller balls among many steroid users which tends to shrink penis size a little]..."once he stopped it was obvious where he got his muscles"..."I helped inject them in his ass in the school gym"...[and my favorite quote from a former girlfriend] "he had a good complexion but tons of zits on his huge upper back!" Not sure if that last one was a steroids thing.

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Bump

by Anonymousreply 349May 18, 2018 6:25 PM

OTher dudes look up to you and say your physique is “goals.”

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by Anonymousreply 350May 18, 2018 6:27 PM

I love it how in the gym so many nearly naked dudes have other guys snapping pics of them flexing in the lockerroom. Never has the pumped male bod been so exalted.

by Anonymousreply 351May 18, 2018 6:29 PM

Dudes are so proud and fraternal about their jacked physiques. Aesthetics is family

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by Anonymousreply 352May 27, 2018 11:22 AM

Most guys wanna be Alphas.

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by Anonymousreply 353May 27, 2018 12:09 PM

All the men need to ripped while the women can be fat Cows. It's like bizarro world

by Anonymousreply 354May 27, 2018 7:35 PM

A lot of chicks are into bodybuilding now

by Anonymousreply 355May 27, 2018 8:01 PM

I always have to laugh at those instahoes . Even when they are so beautiful with perfect bodies I get bored to look at them after a while . They’re disposable and interchangeable with each other . Maybe it’s because I need something more than just astaethics ? Some shred of intellect maybe ?

by Anonymousreply 356May 28, 2018 11:41 AM

Aesthetics are hot 🔥

by Anonymousreply 357May 28, 2018 11:48 AM

Why do people keep referencing "supplements"? The majority of these pics are roids.

by Anonymousreply 358May 28, 2018 11:55 AM

Dudes today are afraid to even take their shirts off at the beach or pool if they aren’t jacked or ripped. Aesthetics have become just as big for males as for females, and muscles matter.

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by Anonymousreply 362May 28, 2018 12:08 PM

So many guys have Bodybuilding.com shirts on these days

by Anonymousreply 363May 28, 2018 12:11 PM

Trying to get chicks

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by Anonymousreply 364May 28, 2018 1:57 PM

R353 Not all, but I surely would like to have one in my bedroom

by Anonymousreply 365May 28, 2018 2:00 PM

Tight bods Rock

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by Anonymousreply 369May 28, 2018 11:57 PM

Oh, that bro is fine!!!!

by Anonymousreply 370May 29, 2018 12:31 AM
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by Anonymousreply 373May 29, 2018 12:48 AM

Never satisfied

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by Anonymousreply 377June 1, 2018 1:25 PM

Train legs twice per week for max gains

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by Anonymousreply 378June 1, 2018 1:27 PM

Some of these pics are kind of creepy. They are all obviously very fit - and some are hot, but some are so out of proportion that they look like caricatures. I would imagine with some it is also an addiction that is interfering with other parts of their lives. Plus, who knows what some are putting into their bodies.

by Anonymousreply 379June 1, 2018 2:26 PM

Uh okay r379. You are the type to see negativity in anything. Moving right along....

by Anonymousreply 380June 1, 2018 2:31 PM

Well - the thread did start out with an article about body issues and problems it is creating for young men. There are about twenty other Instagram threads where one can be negative free.

by Anonymousreply 381June 1, 2018 2:51 PM

Body dismorphia is a mental sickness that can be perpetuated through social media. It's all about taking things further in order to be (finally) really worthy of love and respect from others. Finally be that alpha dog.

by Anonymousreply 382June 1, 2018 3:09 PM

Smith

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by Anonymousreply 383June 1, 2018 6:41 PM

Creatine is Great

by Anonymousreply 384June 2, 2018 11:53 AM

Every time I see this thread I click into it, see R4's response and think what a massive cunt R4 is.

Every time.

by Anonymousreply 385June 2, 2018 12:01 PM

[QUOTE]Well - the thread did start out with an article about body issues and problems it is creating for young men.

Exactly. The focus needs to be on these young men who have been victimized by unrealistic body image standards.

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by Anonymousreply 391June 2, 2018 3:07 PM

I see elementary school kids lifting heavy weights now

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by Anonymousreply 395June 5, 2018 4:28 PM

No amount of working out will take away the ugly.

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by Anonymousreply 399June 5, 2018 8:27 PM

Is this really a thing?

by Anonymousreply 400June 5, 2018 8:33 PM

Yes it’s a thing, R400. In fact it’s more than a thing. It’s an epidemic plaguing young men across the world.

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by Anonymousreply 401June 5, 2018 8:42 PM
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by Anonymousreply 406June 20, 2018 3:15 PM

Beautiful

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by Anonymousreply 410June 26, 2018 3:24 AM

I need to cut my caloric intake and up my cardio.

I think a lot of guys need to do that.

by Anonymousreply 411June 26, 2018 3:33 AM
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by Anonymousreply 414June 29, 2018 6:54 PM

A lot of these steroid queens are in for a nasty surprise when the bad side effects, and health problems catch up to them.

by Anonymousreply 415June 29, 2018 7:34 PM

So hot. More!

by Anonymousreply 416June 29, 2018 7:39 PM

Triceps

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by Anonymousreply 417June 29, 2018 7:55 PM

Poor straight guys have to be a 9 to be able to get with a 4.

by Anonymousreply 418June 29, 2018 7:57 PM

Brendon Michael

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by Anonymousreply 419June 29, 2018 8:03 PM

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be the best version of yourself ... for yourself. It gets tricky when you do it to get other people's approval and praise. Because when you do it for yourself you can feel great pride in what you've accomplished so far. But when you do it for others all you see is that you still are not getting enough approval and praise and need to work harder.

by Anonymousreply 420June 29, 2018 8:04 PM

Gymspiration

by Anonymousreply 421August 11, 2018 6:23 PM

I love the male muscle show offs

by Anonymousreply 422August 27, 2018 3:35 AM

R39, I thought they all look like Andrea Occhipinti or Pietro Boselli or Michelangelo's "David."

by Anonymousreply 423August 27, 2018 4:22 AM

I thought this was a thread about the actual issue of body image.

by Anonymousreply 424August 27, 2018 11:51 AM

More!

by Anonymousreply 425September 5, 2018 8:18 AM

I recently spent two nights with a delightful 19yo E European chappie. Sweet as sugar. He works out A LOT but still has a decent amount of body fat which gives him squeezable, suckable tits and an arse that fans out when he bends over in a spectacular fashion. However, he's gone back to his home country for three months and showed me how he wanted to develop his body: shredded and 'anatomical'--my word for how blokes look when they're all muscle and no fat. I begged him not to. I don't want to spoon a marble statue. He's PERFECT as he is. Fingers crossed....

by Anonymousreply 426September 5, 2018 9:56 AM

They really look all the same . Nice bodies and fug faces you literally fall over them on Instagram . There are a few who have it all ! And now they will have the same issues as women had to endure for over 30 years . I’m glad I was born in the fifties and grew up in the sixties and seventies . No social media thank god . A magazine now and then and that was it .

by Anonymousreply 427September 5, 2018 12:53 PM

Their faces mostly are not unattractive

by Anonymousreply 428September 5, 2018 8:07 PM

They are hot

by Anonymousreply 429September 6, 2018 2:36 AM

Muscles matter

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by Anonymousreply 430September 6, 2018 10:54 AM

Muscles connote power, dominance. Most men want to be Alphas.

by Anonymousreply 431September 16, 2018 1:53 PM

I always hate how the soaps will hire 25 year old grown men with big muscles to play 15 year old boys.

by Anonymousreply 432September 16, 2018 2:35 PM

Body issues indeed

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by Anonymousreply 433September 27, 2018 1:30 AM

17 years old???!!!

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by Anonymousreply 434November 6, 2018 10:57 AM

Men : must be tall, muscular, deep voice, rich etc

Woman : must have a pussy thatts it

by Anonymousreply 435November 6, 2018 3:13 PM

a little unfair

by Anonymousreply 436November 6, 2018 3:14 PM

And completely untrue r435.

Do you actually know any women?

by Anonymousreply 437November 6, 2018 3:15 PM

Jake Elgie

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by Anonymousreply 438November 6, 2018 5:23 PM

Yummm

by Anonymousreply 439November 10, 2018 1:26 PM

Men have always faced pressure to meet beauty expectations associated with men; it is just that most of the wold has exclusively focused on women. It is like with baldness; the world and science field still think baldness only affects women psychologically.

by Anonymousreply 440November 10, 2018 1:54 PM

Alpha beta, what the fuck does it all mean? One of my good friends has been owner of gym for nearly 30 years. He laughed when I showed him this thread. He's seen guys like this come and go for years, it's like an assembly line. The only difference now is they have a self-congratulatory outlet in social media to take bows. In this population that you starry-eyed delusional teenaged sissies seem to worship, there is more doping, drug and alcohol abuse, mental illness, depression, bipolar disorder, NPD, BPD, HPD, laxative abuse, anorexia, and gay for pay than in any other. He advises them to take a look at some of the bodybuilding luminaries of he 1980s and 1990s who are now in their 50s and 60s and see what they look like today. No body in this world replaces professional achievement, education, intellect, empathy, compassion, and the ability to be a real human being, son, spouse, sibling, friend, and lover. Teenagers and young adults have a lot of pressure? Phooey! You put the pressure onto yourselves instead of onto ventures that can create a foundation of accomplishment, security, and stability that can last a lifetime. Being healthy and fit is a fine complement. Destroying your body and crippling your mind and heart to achieve a cosmetic effect that is TEMPORARY is the epitome of ignorance and stupidity. And most of you motherfuckers indulge it! These Instahoes aren't the role models. They need the role models. And they aren't here.

by Anonymousreply 441November 10, 2018 2:58 PM

Exactly, R441. These young men are killing themselves.

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by Anonymousreply 444November 10, 2018 3:38 PM

R443 R444 - Men. The new women.

by Anonymousreply 445November 10, 2018 3:42 PM

Muscles open doors. Even if you are not qualified enough for a job you could be hired only for your good looks.

Women's ideal body is easily achieved whereas men's ideal body takes harder work but that harder work pays off.

by Anonymousreply 446November 10, 2018 3:59 PM

R445 Open doors for what? Porn,. rentmen, drug dealers aka personal trainers, bartenders, bouncers, fluffers?? I would say construction, but they save their muscle for the gym, not the cinder block. Some of the guys hired in entry level positions, no shit, didn't even know how to address an envelope, and many of them are the epitome of laziness. Maybe some middle aged daddy will take them under wing, but even he'll soon get disgusted when they start pushing 30 and are no longer the peach of the day. Looks help, but successful careers and lives are build on education, training, hard work, character, and integrity. Not muscle. Unless of course you're a whore.

by Anonymousreply 447November 10, 2018 6:21 PM

More hotties please

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by Anonymousreply 449November 10, 2018 6:34 PM

By the time they're in their 50's, these Instahos, who have never bothered to learn any skill or trade, will be flat ass broke and dependent on food stamps and Section 8 housing to live out the rest of their miserable lives.

by Anonymousreply 450November 10, 2018 6:37 PM

Yeah, right... R449

by Anonymousreply 451November 10, 2018 6:56 PM

R451 - "Yeah, right." I wouldn't hire you unless it was to mop the floor. Muscles are needed for that. R450 A lot of people mistake muscle with handsome. and they're not necessarily the same thing. Most of these guys with shirts on are average to above average looking guys. Some that have naturally handsome faces and look good in a suit and have a brain to go with it might have an edge over the competition. I know a muscle guy age 39 who landed an interesting job after he failed miserably in IT. He worked as a caddy at a swank golf club. Hoping to land some daddy with bucks. Guess what? Season's over. Still single.

by Anonymousreply 452November 10, 2018 7:05 PM

Gym Life

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by Anonymousreply 453January 19, 2019 4:41 PM

So hot

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by Anonymousreply 454February 2, 2019 11:21 AM

Do it for the gains bro

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by Anonymousreply 455February 10, 2019 12:15 PM

Nice

by Anonymousreply 456March 3, 2019 1:17 PM

There is such a focus on being an “Alpha” or a “beast” among young men, and being swole is viewed as critical to this goal.

by Anonymousreply 457March 3, 2019 1:30 PM

Is it just me or do all these muscle bro-hos start to look alike. Even the black ones start to look the same as the white ones at some point. I miss the lean, fit, and hairy look that was common in the 1970s and 1980s and still existed at the beginning of the 1990s before soyboys and roidaholics replaced men.

by Anonymousreply 458March 3, 2019 2:44 PM

Thailand session. Dripping wet and dripping sweat

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by Anonymousreply 459March 5, 2019 11:31 PM

Be Alpha

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by Anonymousreply 460March 17, 2019 5:46 PM

Be best

by Anonymousreply 461March 19, 2019 4:39 PM

Well, big muscles don't necessarily mean exceptional strength.

by Anonymousreply 462March 19, 2019 8:03 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 463March 23, 2019 12:15 PM

r454 would be perfectly adorable if he had never lifted so much as a bag of sugar.

by Anonymousreply 464March 23, 2019 12:23 PM

Yes, r464. Quin Vitale actually looks weird here (the nameband on his underwear doesn't help).

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by Anonymousreply 465March 23, 2019 12:25 PM

Quin is hot

by Anonymousreply 466March 23, 2019 12:51 PM

The six pack is the male equivalent of breast implants.

by Anonymousreply 467March 23, 2019 1:09 PM

Torsos matter brah

by Anonymousreply 468March 23, 2019 1:30 PM

[quote]The desire to be handsome and muscular has been around for decades

More like since the '80s. For most boomer teens, unless you were on a team, gym was a barely tolerated requirement for graduation. I knew two guys who worked out. They were considered freaks by even the straightest guys I knew.

Slim was all you needed to be those days. GQ changed the whole thing in 1979-1980.

by Anonymousreply 469March 23, 2019 3:07 PM

Quin looks weird because of those gargantuan Poindexter glasses.

by Anonymousreply 470March 23, 2019 3:50 PM

I was talking about the texture of his skin, r470. Obvs. the glasses leave a lot to be desired.

by Anonymousreply 471March 23, 2019 4:03 PM

Even golfers weightlift now

by Anonymousreply 472March 23, 2019 4:13 PM

Dennis Nguyen

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by Anonymousreply 473March 24, 2019 12:59 AM

Who cares. Anyone stupid enough to follow or believe the media deserves whatever they get inc death. This is as stupid as a black person wishing they were white, you have bigger problems.

by Anonymousreply 474March 24, 2019 1:12 AM

I love it

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by Anonymousreply 475April 19, 2019 12:09 PM

r475 If they wouldn't get such shitty haircuts, they wouldn't have body image issues.

by Anonymousreply 476April 19, 2019 12:11 PM

Quin is so beautiful. Would it be possible for him to return to having a normal, slim, yet muscular body? He doesn't need to turn himself into a freak.

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by Anonymousreply 477April 19, 2019 12:14 PM

He’s boss

by Anonymousreply 478April 19, 2019 12:24 PM

You can’t blame Hollywood any longer. It has far less of an influence than it used to. It was once a carrier of the disease but the virus is self-perpetuating now.

A Tori Amos lyric is “And I thought that I wouldn’t have to be with you a magazine”—a reference to the pressure of a woman to have to look like an airbrushed supermodel. That was 1996.

Now it’s Instagram. Look around this site. Half the threads are just links to lookalike dudes with lumpy lean bodies and cosmetically altered facial features. The pressure to fit into this box just drove Aaron Schock to such madness that he ruined his life. He appears only to associate with other gays who are similarly body obsessed. All for the Instagram gods.

by Anonymousreply 479April 19, 2019 12:25 PM

It's not going anywhere. Men are finally realising that if they are good looking and built they can cash in. Here in England I've seen several sites for straight male escorts. These young guys now have wealthy older women to sell themselves to. It's like straight guys have copied gay men all of a sudden.

by Anonymousreply 480April 19, 2019 12:42 PM

Commerce. The fitness and food and druug industries realized there was a huge potential market for equipment, trainers, diets and supplements that could be sold by sex and vanity. Then the beauty industry realized the other half of the population, men, was equally vulnerable to being told they have no value without cosmetics and cosmetic procedures to standardize their appearances, and then social media platforms were invented to fuel and to be fueled by vanity and lust and greed—and voilà. Men have become as vulnerable to the influence of Barbie perfection as women have been for centuries.

by Anonymousreply 481April 19, 2019 12:49 PM

And straight buff dudes are loving all the attention they get from males and females for having brolic physiques.

by Anonymousreply 482April 19, 2019 12:50 PM

Dudes love being thirst objects

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by Anonymousreply 483April 21, 2019 8:40 PM

R483 That "dude" does not make me thirsty.

by Anonymousreply 484April 21, 2019 9:56 PM

Gym culture is homosexual in its roots and so is the athletic/muscular body as the ideal male body. It's our concept and heterosexual men follow our concept of male beauty.

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by Anonymousreply 485May 6, 2019 2:57 AM

Just look at this manly little fellow.

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by Anonymousreply 486May 6, 2019 3:06 AM

It’s all thanks to DL.

by Anonymousreply 487May 6, 2019 3:14 AM

inspiring

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by Anonymousreply 488May 6, 2019 3:19 AM

very slender despite the muscle

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by Anonymousreply 489May 6, 2019 3:23 AM

I like to drive past his house when he's alone in his room

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by Anonymousreply 490May 6, 2019 3:25 AM

More bro!

by Anonymousreply 491May 6, 2019 12:14 PM

ZoZo

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by Anonymousreply 492May 25, 2019 12:55 AM

Goals

by Anonymousreply 493July 26, 2019 1:13 PM

Ellis Kane

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by Anonymousreply 494August 3, 2019 10:58 AM

I just wish they'd stop captioning their thirst-trap seminudes with human potentialist coffee-cup bullshit. "If you can visualize it, you can do it." "See it. Be it!" Whatever. Shut the fuck up and show us your ass.

by Anonymousreply 495August 3, 2019 11:49 AM

Oh wow

by Anonymousreply 496August 3, 2019 11:51 AM

My type

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by Anonymousreply 497August 3, 2019 1:29 PM

Kevin Hejnas

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by Anonymousreply 498September 20, 2019 9:55 PM

Looking at all the Instahoes and the supplements they take and the filters and the editing and lighting just makes me appreciate the men who were muscular 60 years ago without any of the supplements and tricks. Clint Walker, Rock Hudson, Robert Conrad. I’m 29 so I’ve only ever known a world where guys are either fat and out of shape, stick thin and out of shape or obsessed hairless gym bros. I go insane for a fit body that looks like the guy hits the gym three times a week or does manual labor. His body hair is natural or trimmed a little and you know he can have a burger or a few beers and isn’t eating pre measured meals out of Tupperware or gorging himself because it’s ‘cheat day’. It’s really hard to find that these days. Vintage porn has become my go to.

by Anonymousreply 499September 21, 2019 12:59 AM

Gains Bro

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by Anonymousreply 500September 30, 2019 12:08 PM

But where's the transphobic angle?

by Anonymousreply 501September 30, 2019 12:19 PM

"I just wish they'd stop captioning their thirst-trap seminudes with human potentialist coffee-cup bullshit. "If you can visualize it, you can do it." "See it. Be it!" Whatever. Shut the fuck up and show us your ass. "

Exactly. I'm not ogling your god damned pea brain. I wanna see skin, I wanna see ass and most importantly I wanna see dick. If I want smart, I'll go to the library.

by Anonymousreply 502September 30, 2019 12:24 PM

It's just funny that semiliterate 19 year old jocks think they have some deep profundities to share.

by Anonymousreply 503September 30, 2019 2:01 PM

I loved how @davymuscle (who i guess is @davymichael right now) would give little lectures about how women should dress modestly because men gonna be men and then like...offers his underwear for sale.

by Anonymousreply 504September 30, 2019 5:43 PM

Yah, so stop calling circumcised penises "mutilated".

All penises are beautiful in their own way.

by Anonymousreply 505September 30, 2019 6:05 PM

Americans need more body issues. Until the day the majority isn't overweight to morbidly obese ...

by Anonymousreply 506September 30, 2019 6:15 PM

Goals

by Anonymousreply 507October 18, 2019 6:06 AM

...

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by Anonymousreply 509October 18, 2019 8:18 AM

It's amazing how video games are guilty of everything today. When they are guilty leaving fat and sedentary people are guilty of harming the body image of young people.

by Anonymousreply 510October 18, 2019 8:20 AM

231 - All these things happen naturally, bodies go down, heart problems and tosterone goes down. Older people are already the suicide band, all these problems that you pointed out happen naturally.

by Anonymousreply 511October 18, 2019 8:39 AM

Journalistic media always complaining about everything when not talking about obesity now complains that young people want muscles.

by Anonymousreply 512October 18, 2019 8:40 AM

Men have always liked muscles.

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by Anonymousreply 513October 18, 2019 8:43 AM

Shhh, don't say it. It makes the bodybuilding industry break into pieces R513

by Anonymousreply 514October 18, 2019 8:49 AM

Markham Heid are idiot obsessed with health.

by Anonymousreply 515October 18, 2019 9:08 AM

Markham Heid is an idiot who wants to pathologize everything. Let's stop living to be paranoid thinking that everything can be bad.

by Anonymousreply 516October 18, 2019 9:10 AM

Markham Heid what he does is these people who want to profit from the fear of people like this asshole.

by Anonymousreply 517October 18, 2019 9:13 AM

Markham Heid is hypochondriac.

by Anonymousreply 518October 18, 2019 9:14 AM

Stupid magazines telling how people should live.

by Anonymousreply 519October 18, 2019 9:16 AM

This Time magazine seems to have something against DC movies. Prime attacks the Joker movie and now uses Batman and Superman as bad examples to the young image because they look stronger?

by Anonymousreply 520October 18, 2019 9:57 AM

Magazines? In 2019.8? Dude...

by Anonymousreply 521October 18, 2019 3:54 PM

Swole is hotc

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by Anonymousreply 522October 18, 2019 10:35 PM

I saw some idiots here at DataLounge criticizing Sylvester Stallone and Arnold Schwarzenegger. Speaking of what years of bodybuilding made them "empty and sick"? They are still in the movies, events are in good shape and are active when most old people their age are vegetating sitting in a chair or in nursing homes.

by Anonymousreply 523October 19, 2019 1:08 AM

Another magazine selling pessimism and bad news to attract clicks.

by Anonymousreply 524October 19, 2019 1:10 AM

What does a magazine that put Hitler as "man of the year" think it can talk about society

by Anonymousreply 525October 19, 2019 1:11 AM

Superhero movies and video games? For, the Greeks and other cultures thousands of years already had muscles and strength that represented a healthy body.

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by Anonymousreply 526October 19, 2019 1:24 AM

Hum...

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by Anonymousreply 527October 19, 2019 1:32 AM

KKKKKKKKKKKKKK

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by Anonymousreply 528October 19, 2019 1:38 AM

Why do people marvel that dudes want to be powerful, strong, Alpha?

by Anonymousreply 529October 19, 2019 2:10 AM

Didn't Arnold use to refer to us using the the f* word when he was younger even though his beloved bodybuilding is a creation of our homosexual ancestors? R523

The ironies of life.

by Anonymousreply 530October 19, 2019 2:11 AM

too bad all the betas threatened by showcases of testosterone hate all things Snyder. Sadly reviewers at these left leaning sites helped hurt box office performances and triggered the equally stupid heads at WB so they began interfering in his vision. MOS represents the only non-tainted Snyder DC film and it's brilliant. I would have loved to have seen what he would have done if they just let him be instead of B v S and JL

by Anonymousreply 531October 19, 2019 5:34 AM

R531 has lots of thoughts about stupid fucking paper-thin superhero piles of garbage.

by Anonymousreply 532October 19, 2019 6:47 PM

Look! A forum idiot talking about celebrity gossip, gay porn, and other futile things talking shit about my taste for superheroes. Look yourself in the asshole mirror before criticizing others.

by Anonymousreply 533October 25, 2019 3:53 AM

Maybe R533 should read a book that doesn't have any pictures in it before he (and lord knows its a he) talks shit about anyone.

by Anonymousreply 534October 25, 2019 10:52 AM

[quote]What does a magazine that put Hitler as "man of the year" think it can talk about society

Poor R25 doesn't understand what Time's Man of the Year moniker actually stands for...

by Anonymousreply 535October 25, 2019 11:02 AM

Hot bodies are nice. But long-term steroid use can fuck you up.

by Anonymousreply 536October 25, 2019 6:05 PM

True

by Anonymousreply 537October 25, 2019 6:39 PM

It’s so gymspiring.

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by Anonymousreply 538October 26, 2019 5:59 PM

Sexy

by Anonymousreply 539October 27, 2019 2:29 AM

Why Are Comic Book Superheroes So Muscular?

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by Anonymousreply 540October 27, 2019 8:15 PM

Muscle connote power and domination

by Anonymousreply 541October 27, 2019 9:23 PM

....

by Anonymousreply 542October 27, 2019 10:52 PM

Guys like this can get other hotties

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by Anonymousreply 543October 28, 2019 2:02 AM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 544November 7, 2019 4:45 AM

Caleb Landry

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by Anonymousreply 545November 14, 2019 11:33 AM

All for the Gram bro!

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by Anonymousreply 546December 6, 2019 1:57 PM

Dudes respect muscle

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by Anonymousreply 547December 8, 2019 1:20 PM

It doesn't make sense that heterosexual men get so excited watching a bunch of nearly naked muscle men show off their muscles. There must be a degree of bisexuality in them.

by Anonymousreply 548December 24, 2019 11:09 PM

No, it’s a primal bowing down to Alpha indicia. It’s not new

by Anonymousreply 549December 24, 2019 11:42 PM

Why is this thread being dug up from March? Really? Why is it? Can someone answer that for me? Can you? I mean who is the idiot that just had to did this up again? Why did the insecure piece of shit feel they needed to bring this up again to have their ego stroked because he doesn't work out and has a shitty body? Seriously OP, go work out and do a diet. Put some serious work and effort into your life and quit coming on here and expecting us to hang on to your whining ways. You're so full of shit for posting this bullshit then dragging it up again. I hate you and I know you're just some big crybaby fatty sitting behind his computer in a fucking 4xxxx caftan. Fucking cow.

by Anonymousreply 550December 25, 2019 12:05 AM

Primal bowing down to alpha males my ass.

They like sexy male bodies. Plain and simple.

by Anonymousreply 551December 28, 2019 7:58 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 552January 24, 2020 6:40 PM

Competition

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by Anonymousreply 553February 1, 2020 3:39 PM

Bigger the better

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by Anonymousreply 554July 4, 2020 4:17 AM

Jumping in here. Did any Frau Cunts show up to scream about how women’s issues are worse and all men are rapist?

by Anonymousreply 555July 4, 2020 4:24 AM

This is a problem for both men and women. Thanks to social media, everyone wants to be perfect and be perceived as such by other people on these platforms.

by Anonymousreply 556July 4, 2020 5:42 AM

I'm not attracted to "perfect" shredded bodies. I'm just not. I love guys who look like they don't take themselves seriously. Slight doughiness or even a beer belly bro, whoosh!

by Anonymousreply 557July 4, 2020 5:49 AM

It gets hundreds of thousands of drooling followers

by Anonymousreply 558July 4, 2020 1:45 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 559August 12, 2020 10:46 AM

Stretch

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by Anonymousreply 560August 13, 2020 1:45 PM

Thirst trap

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by Anonymousreply 561August 14, 2020 12:49 AM

Jacob Shalvey

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by Anonymousreply 562August 23, 2020 9:59 AM

I love that all the Instagram selfie bros that the Instagram shill heavily spammed the thread with are gray boxes now.

by Anonymousreply 563August 23, 2020 10:11 AM

BUMP TROLLS BUMP TROLLS BUMP TROLLS BUMP TROLLS BUMP TROLLS BUMP TROLLS BUMP TROLLS BUMP TROLLS

by Anonymousreply 564August 23, 2020 10:33 AM

Austin Cole

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by Anonymousreply 565November 11, 2020 4:33 AM

Dreams of becoming Alpha

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by Anonymousreply 566November 14, 2020 3:22 PM

The goal is to look lit in underwear

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by Anonymousreply 567November 24, 2020 10:26 PM

They're just whiney little pissers is all.

by Anonymousreply 568November 24, 2020 11:07 PM

This is why

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by Anonymousreply 569November 29, 2020 5:26 AM
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