Researchers: 1/4 of Straight Dudes Get off to Man-on-Man Porn

I "hooked up" with six of my fraternity brothers while I lived in the house. It's amazing what can happen with a loosening of inhibitions and some rarely-used rooms.

R1, you think everyone should be slutty?

We know, ass wipe. Your last thread about this tanked.

Just like you, if you put lipstick on a pig, it's still a pig.

[quote] if you put lipstick on a pig, it's still a pig.

Sounds just like your mother, R3!

Zing!

Yay!

Still an underestimation

Ummm, your frat brothers were homersexuals like you.

Homiesexuals

Actually, it’s BROsexuals.

R10 Nope, heard it's Bromosexuals.

The real masc dudes don’t like bromo because it sounds too much like “homo.” They prefer “brosexuals” because it lacks similarity to homosexual or gay identity, and emphasizes the “Bro.”

I'm straight and I have difficulty believing straight guys would watch guys having sex. I also don't believe anyone is bi. Straight guys want to hurt gays. The idea of gay is distressing.

Why the fuck are you on this board then, R13?

I believe it. If you like to see affection between bros, you can’t beat modern gay porn.

There must be a flaw in the study. Has anyone read it? Because 1 in 4 is a very high number.

[quote]I'm straight and I have difficulty believing straight guys would watch guys having sex. I also don't believe anyone is bi. Straight guys want to hurt gays. The idea of gay is distressing.

You sound delusional, although I agree that obviously some straight, bi or even gay men are total homophobes. BTW, are you a woman?

Bisexuality is very real. In real life things are more like this:

I’d like to know who they asked for this poll. As if a straight guy is going to admit to watching gay porn!

Bullshit. These are closet cases.

You can't be attracted to both a dick and vagina. The idea of bi exists as euphemism to protect gays who are in denial. Many gays commit suicide. I only know of one study that suggests bi exists. Studies can easily be flawed. There are a lot of crazy ideas around. Acupuncture, chiropractory, psychiatric treatments, stretching etc have all been proven to be worthless but most people think they Are effect. Not to mention religion.

They like watching big black dicks destroy vaginas.

[QUOTE]You can't be attracted to both a dick and vagina.

Utter nonsense. I’m a bi male and I like both. What gay man do you know who could place his tongue on a vagina? Because I do. So what does that make me?

[quote]There are a lot of crazy ideas around.

Oh, do tell, great oracle!

R24, makes u a gay in denial. Straight guy wants intercourse. Gay guy has to think of a guy to get erection.

R24, I just listed some. Lots of studies to prove me right. Religion of course is the craziest idea.

R1 I am pretty sure I had similar opportunities but was so closeted. Put this in the "ones that got away" thread!

I believe in bisexuality. But no straight male has any romantic or sexual interest in another guy or in watching gay porn.

Absolutely none.

Sad but true.

[QUOTE]makes u a gay in denial.

🙄 What gay man can perform fellatio on a female?

Yeah, you freak R13...What R14 said. And more: Your comment "straight guys want to hurt gays" proves you're a loon. My straight mates don't wish to hurt anyone. Speak for your sick self. You're a bloody closet case.

R31, are u that naive???? Lots of people were friends with the Jews but still killed them. Hitler saved some of his gay friends. Lots of people are looking for scapegoats. Don't forget all the gay serial killers.

R30, scientifically impossible. Next, the idiot Will claim gays can get females pregnant

You're a sick fuck too R32. As a Jew I'd like to kill you about now.

The age old question: Can men be bisexual? I dunno, I crave both men and women. Always have. Equally. Really. What happened to having the freedom not to identify? Do I secretly hate myself? I don't think so but I do post of DL.

Sorry, I meant hitler saved some of his jew friends not gays. Hitler was a typical leader who engaged in tribal warfare. Human tribes have been fighting from the very beginning. Hitlers close employees had only good things to say about him after the war. Hitlers main aim was to defeat communism. We all know who was behind communism. Hitler had to occupy Europe before Stalin did. Hitler is very popular with Palestinians.

[quote]proven to be worthless but most people think they Are effect.

Okay, Xenu.

Interesting how that graph is a reverse Bell Curve. It's sort of a confirmation of how few bisexuals there really are. A lot of straight men are hypersexual and engage in "situational homosexuality" which occurs in prisons and on ships at sea, and in single sex boarding schools and seminaries, but go back to regular when back in the real world.

SHUT up you dolt

I don't think there is such a thing as situational homosexualality. I sure hope not. I know the hells angels use it for initiation. And some use it to show dominance. Pretty sick. Some rape sheep. Some get the death penalty for this crap. So don't do it.

R35, crave? Who do you fall in love with? U crave females because that let's u escape the Shame of being gay.

[quote] I believe in bisexuality. But no straight male has any romantic or sexual interest in another guy or in watching gay porn.

Bisexuality is not a matter of belief, it's a real thing. I'd also argue that even if Kinsey zero guys really don't want to have sex with other men they still could in a way fall in love with them. There can be very deep feelings between two straight guys even if it's not really sexual. That said it's possible those guys could very well be Kinsey ones even without realizing it. I've personally loved some of my male friends deeply without ANY kind of sexual interest going on but yes, that wasn't the kind of romantic love you're talking about. And on top of that I'm Kinsey 5 so not straight at all.

I've had quite a few straight friends over the years, though, and one thing's for sure: Most are not the emotionless simpletons some people like to believe them to be.

If only more of us here could dismiss our false sense of mastery over others' feelings and motivations, there would be much more peaceful coexistence in the world. We're often wrong with our absolutism, and sweeping generalisations. IMHO, bisexual people do indeed exist, to the chagrin and consternation of many gay and straight people. From my empirical evidence, I've known many, and have had sex with two.

Yepp

[QUOTE]From my empirical evidence, I've known many, and have had sex with two.

WHORE!

Queen, please! It’s how you identify and which gender you are romantically attracted to that dictates your sexuality. NOne of these coveted straight men want to marry or date any of you swishy ladies. They’re straight, period!

[quote]Queen, please! It’s how you identify and which gender you are romantically attracted to that dictates your sexuality. NOne of these coveted straight men want to marry or date any of you swishy ladies. They’re straight, period!

r46, a person can 'identify' as anything, that doesn't make it so. I can 'identify' as straight that doesn't make it so.

When did the notion that romantic attraction has anything to do with sexual orientation take hold? Because sexual orientation is, as it says, about your sexual attractions. The idea that your romantic attraction can be determined by the sex of your partner, if one is truly bisexual, makes no sense. Think about it. You constantly hear bisexuals (and maybe some of them on this thread can comment) say 'oh I am sexually attracted to both but I only fall in love with one'. But fundamentally that makes no sense because, if there is genuine sexual attraction, then the only other factor in terms of whether you fall in love with someone is how well you connect with them on a personal level, and personality has nothing to do with the sex of a person.

For example, I'm a gay man, I can love a woman but I can't fall in love with one because there is no sexual attraction. The content of a woman's personality (character, sense of humour, outlook, temperament, etc.) have nothing to do with her biological sex, these are individual characteristics. I can love a woman's personality and totally connect with her but I can't truly romantically fall in love with her because there is no sexual attraction there.

But what bisexuals indicate is that they are sexually attracted to both but somehow the biological sex of their partner affects whether or not they fall in love with them. Clearly other factors are at play here because the sex of a person can't affect how much you match with them on a personality level. The most common example (but it does happen in reverse) is a bisexual man who will say he's sexually into both but can only fall in love with women. But think about what he's saying, which is basically that regardless of how well he and another guy connect on every level, both sexually and personality-wise, he could never fall in love with a guy because, well, reasons. But clearly those reasons have to be self imposed and socially influenced because the only two factors that determine whether one can fall in love with another person are sexual connection (which, as bisexuals, is present) and personality (which is independent of someone's sex).

Now, I would welcome the input of bisexuals on this because I'd like to hear their point of view. Kindly note, I'm completely aware that some bisexuals are more sexually attracted to one sex over the other, that's not what I'm commenting on. What I am saying is that the argument that you are unable to fall in love with someone that you are genuinely sexually attracted to, based solely on their sex, makes no sense on its face.

I'm gay but if when we were both young Cybil Shepard wanted to make love to me I would have done it happily but it would have been impossible for me to have fallen in love with her.

R47, like I wrote in R42 I'm Kinsey 5, and although I'm hugely more attracted to men I still dated and had sex with women when I was younger. I did fall in love with girls as well but it felt different, even physically. I vaguely remember that when I was with women the feelings were centered around my chest and stomach, which felt warmer, but with guys the lust was ten times stronger, which probably drowned other emotions to a point. Not that I hadn't crushed on guys since like 10 but I was almost 30 when I finally fell deeply in love with a man, in every possible way, and at that point I couldn't really tell any difference in my emotions any more.

[quote]But what bisexuals indicate is that they are sexually attracted to both but somehow the biological sex of their partner affects whether or not they fall in love with them.

I assume you're talking about the guys who fuck men but then get back home to their girlfriends and wives? I've always thought those guys are probably Kinsey 1's and 2's. They are horny enough to go after men every now and then but they just want women more. I totally get it. Just like I can *really* fall in love only with men they only fall deeply in love with women. Obviously I loved my girlfriends, especially the one I dated for over a year (and who was totally aware of my bisexuality), but the emotions were never as deep as they were with guys. And that's why I understand what Kinsey 1 and 2 guys are going through.

BTW, I should point out that even though I see myself as Kinsey 5 now I was probably around 3 or 4 when younger. And most certainly it was the pressure from the hets that forced me to date girls. I have no idea would I ever have been with women had it been totally ok to be gay at the time. But still I did like girls enough to date them, and have sex with them. When I was 19 I was seriously thinking about marrying my girlfriend and getting kids, which probably would've worked to a point. I'm sure there are tons of guys like me who really did end up getting married to their girlfriends, and would then come out 20 years later. Thankfully me and my gf both realized neither of us would be satisfied enough in a marriage.

Everyone is bisexual.

R12 that’s Channing-logic if I ever heard it.

I respect your thoughts and feelings R49/R42. I had several girlfriends even after being out. (My family asked me if I was gay; very easy, little effort on my part other than being honest) In my years at University, I just wanted to "experiment" and make sure I got to experience everything I was curious about. Each woman knew of my nature. I would like to add there exists a different energy in each relationship. Masculine energy is quite different from female. Men and women's touch feels different to me too. I however only feel romantically toward men. I can understand and have no qualms believing bi and straight men who may have had a one off or a few hook ups with guys when they share that they only "love" women. Sure there may exist love and respect in a platonic way, even possibly an infatuation, but they feel romantic only toward the ladies. I've known more than a few bi or straight identifying women who have enjoyed the company of another woman on occasion, but still need, desire, and only feel romantically fulfilled by the male energy. I've never really understood why so many gay men cannot accept the subtle nuances of sexuality. They're downright threatened by it. One of the two bi men I've had experiences with told me he was aroused by sex with men because it was kinky or taboo.... He was quite selective in what acts he enjoyed sexually, but always enjoyed himself with me. Thanks for sharing! I've enjoyed reading your comments on some other threads here too.

HMMM

Average people are not responding to porn surveys. Ever hear the term "sample bias"? Most ordinary guys are not interested in gay porn, which is why it doesn't sell what straight porn does.

It’s a survey of straight-identified porn watchers. Porn watching is a majority activity among men, so the bias is not that great here

"Porn watching is a majority activity among men, so the bias is not that great here"

But how many are going to want to take porn surveys?

Kinsey’s scale is garbage. You either prefer pussy or dick. End of story. I’m so sick of the labels and “fluidity” bullshit. It’s not that complicated.

I have to laugh at all the fraus that swear up and down that Bisexuality is not prevalent in men. Child please, stop looking at men through women's eyes. Well, actually you can't because you're not men. Besides, that's a possibility doesn't mean they'll act on it.

Then again ALL men are whores.

"I have to laugh at all the fraus that swear up and down that Bisexuality is not prevalent in men."

I have to laugh at the wishful thinkers who want to believe bisexuality is prevalent in men to convince themselves they have a chance with straight guys.

"Child please, stop looking at men through women's eyes."

You're the one looking at men through women's eyes! It's women who "fall in love with the person" - guys fall in love with body parts (tits if they're straight, dicks if they're gay)

I fall in love with big biceps and ripped abs

R59 thinks that just because she loves black licorice that everyone else does. I know you probably have suspicions that your husband wants to boink your nephew and...

Moreover a recent study had almost identical results

r61, sad queen who thinks every straight man wants him. Truth is, even Kinsey 6 gay guys aren't interested in him. r62, I'm guessing that "recent study" was equally unscientific.

R63 true, straight men don’t want me but that’s neither here nor there; there are more than enough bisexual men willing to entertain me. And so many with hot girlfriends; if I were bi I would be in heaven from all the MMF threesomes!

"if I were bi I would be in heaven from all the MMF threesomes!"

Wait, you're not bi? I thought you believed all men were.

You’ve got me confused with the actual wishful thinkers in this thread.

When I was in my late teens I was getting fucked by firemen and cops. These guys were taking steroids.

All good looking straight men like me need to watch hole being presented in the name of Xenu.

Boksburg

I wonder why type of male porn they like.

R13 is a liar and an idiot. Both. At once.

A lot of women will go crazy and paranoid if they hear about it, even though they likely watch lesbian porn. Their hypocrisy and of make homosexuality is strange

Of course. Women get upset when they learn a masculine man is even curious about male homosexuality. It’s very unsettling for most women.

[quote] There must be a flaw in the study. Has anyone read it? Because 1 in 4 is a very high number.

It sounds about right, 10% gay + bi of the general population plus 25% of the remaining straights is close to 40%.

Good lord, is R59 a woman ? She types female.

IMO, one's extreme aversion to homosexuality and lesbianism is PURELY a learned and conditioned response - learned from society, it begins very early in childhood - for example, if a girl child foregoes dolls in favor of Tonka trucks and a football, then no big deal - however, if a male child does the same but in reverse, the parents, and especially the father are bound to have a melt down about it - the male child is made to be felt that there is something wrong with him early on - and so it begins - I believe that we are all bi-sexuals to an extent, and therefore the PROPENSITY for same sex attraction exists in us all - Completely "straight" men will not even entertain the thought of homosexuality SPECIFICALLY so that they can say they never have - societal norms - you can look up the following at your own leisure, I don't feel like performing the task to support the following claim: Some University or Institute performed a study whereby they had a few hundred men, regardless of sexual identity, fill out a sly questionaire with the intent of indentifying HOMOPHOBES - with that endeavor, they then continued the study by placing a rubber-band type device around the shafts of each of these men's penises, showing them gay pornography - sure, some straight men weren't the least bit affected (I can just hear the cries in their heads while watching "I WILL NOT GET TURNED ON!!! I WILL NOT GET TURNED ON!!!! I WILL NOT..............") - What's interesting is that a very high percentage of those who were identified as "homophobes" DID get turned on, and in a mighty BIG WAY, ha ha - Humans are very complex - Humans are very horny species - You will identify the individual who has his (her) own internal struggle regarding their own sexuality by the FEROCITY they employ to deny ever having been interested in same sex sexual relations - the question to ask here is what would happen if all things concerning were permitted to develop completely naturally without any sort of stereotypical persuasion/CONTROL mechanism ie how prevalent would homosexuality/lesbianism become if it were actually accepted, encouraged, even lauded as a great thing? We'd see a hell of a lot more of it, I do believe

Paragraphs are your friends, R76

Ah, but you DID read it, now DIDN'T you?

"A lot of women will go crazy and paranoid if they hear about it, even though they likely watch lesbian porn"

Most women don't watch porn they read cheesy "erotic novels" like Fifty Shades

True

Fascinating

[quote] There must be a flaw in the study. Has anyone read it? Because 1 in 4 is a very high number.

I'd say it is on the low side. It wouldn't include those who can't bring themselves to admit it. If 40% men have had gay sex, as I read somewhere, even more must've watched gay porn.

You read somewhere a fake statistic

I have stated it before, and I will state it again for the sake of posterity: An individual's extreme aversion to homosexuality and lesbianism is PURELY a learned and conditioned response. Those who become proponents for all the ridicule and such are clearly echoing what society has demanded they think and believe concerning the matter. In short, they drank the cool-aide. Regardless, we all share the same propensity for it - it's right there on the menu - right there before them on the buffet table, and THAT'S why they have to hate both IT and YOU!

[quote] You read somewhere a fake statistic

It's ok. Come out. Admit it. We won't judge you.