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Would you be able to tell hes trans?

Hes a music star and insta famous. He has a lot of fans as well

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by Anonymousreply 290February 22, 2018 2:43 PM

midget lesbian

by Anonymousreply 1February 4, 2018 3:07 AM

No, but I can tell he's EXHAUSTING.

by Anonymousreply 2February 4, 2018 4:43 AM

Didn’t you try to make him happen a few weeks ago?

by Anonymousreply 3February 4, 2018 4:45 AM

Him? Her

OP has been repeatedly posting about her for over a year.

by Anonymousreply 4February 4, 2018 4:46 AM

Beautiful

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by Anonymousreply 5February 4, 2018 5:30 AM

You can often tell an FTM by looking at the eyes. You can't see it so much in OP's pic, but you definitely can in R5.

by Anonymousreply 6February 4, 2018 5:38 AM

Shirtless

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by Anonymousreply 7February 4, 2018 5:39 AM

[quote]Would you be able to tell hes trans?

Don't know. But I can tell that OP is an illiterate moron. H E ' S

by Anonymousreply 8February 4, 2018 5:40 AM

The lack of a cock and balls gives them away every time OP

by Anonymousreply 9February 4, 2018 5:41 AM

please r7, what could she possibly be reaching for in her shorts?

by Anonymousreply 10February 4, 2018 5:41 AM

Please "she's" more hotter than you all are and any guy who's ever touched you

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by Anonymousreply 11February 4, 2018 5:49 AM

R9 LOL.

by Anonymousreply 12February 4, 2018 5:50 AM

Maybe under closer scrutiny. But tbh I wouldn’t have guessed.

by Anonymousreply 13February 4, 2018 5:58 AM

No she's not "more hotter" than me or any guys who have touched me and the guys who have touched me have cocks. Are you a woman? You can't be gay man if you are considering this chick.

by Anonymousreply 14February 4, 2018 5:59 AM

R14 is ugly and triggered

by Anonymousreply 15February 4, 2018 6:43 AM

R15 is a 47 year old mother of 2 who wishes she was a gay man.

by Anonymousreply 16February 4, 2018 6:57 AM

I would know the minute I reached for his dick.

by Anonymousreply 17February 4, 2018 7:08 AM

I’d butt fuck her

by Anonymousreply 18February 4, 2018 7:20 AM

I wouldn’t be able to tell without the 3 other DL threads about him, OP.

by Anonymousreply 19February 4, 2018 7:24 AM

Donglessness is not a quality I hope to find in a man.

by Anonymousreply 20February 4, 2018 7:25 AM

OP is that annoying vegetarian friend who keeps trying to push that "unbelievable veggie burger."

No thanks, lady. We like meat.

by Anonymousreply 21February 4, 2018 7:31 AM

R11 Bitch please.

That’s a woman who had her tits cut off, taken some testosterone, and gotten a boy’s haircut. She can lie to herself, but absolutely no one is obligated to agree with her delusions.

by Anonymousreply 22February 4, 2018 7:40 AM

R21..... Way the fuck to go! Brilliant fucking analogy! You made tears run down my face.

by Anonymousreply 23February 4, 2018 7:47 AM

I assume she had chin & jawbone surgery. Very few females have such an extremely sharp jawbone naturally.

Plastic surgeons can use fillers & instruments to cut, break up & re-arrange the jawbone. Similar to underbite / overbite correction. It’s a very bloody procedure with painful recovery.

by Anonymousreply 24February 4, 2018 10:56 AM

There has always been a market for butch women and "bois"

That market is a subset of lesbians.

Is she trying to market herself as a "gay man"? It's sad that social media provides so much "validation" in the form of followers and likes. There's also no medical voice to tell young girls that what photographs well in 2018 will be a completely different story in 2028. Be a healthy happy dyke! Gay men want real dick and there's no shortage of it.

by Anonymousreply 25February 4, 2018 11:26 AM

In other news, ‘straight’ male Justin Bieber could totally pass for female / lesbian. It’s probably the delicate, femme features. If he grew out his hair & plucked his eyebrows - most people would assume he’s female.

The kicker is he’s not even trying hard like most MtFs!

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by Anonymousreply 26February 4, 2018 11:28 AM

Wow he is really hot. I would never guess that he wasn't a cis male. Has he had surgery to give him a penis yet?

by Anonymousreply 27February 4, 2018 11:30 AM

I never would have guessed except for the scars at the bottom of the breasts. The (as you guys call them) "cum gutters" make her/him look awfully authentic.

by Anonymousreply 28February 4, 2018 11:37 AM

I bet he's like 5'2"

by Anonymousreply 29February 4, 2018 11:44 AM

There's no real evidence this guy is actually trans. I don't know why OP is so intent on spreading this rumour.

by Anonymousreply 30February 4, 2018 12:11 PM

I could tell by the eyes in r5 and I don’t know why. I didn’t think eyes varied between the sexes but there is something very feminine about his eyes that even light butch lookalike Bieber doesn’t have.

by Anonymousreply 31February 4, 2018 12:17 PM

"Donglessness"

by Anonymousreply 32February 4, 2018 12:24 PM

It's not a quality I would want, r32, and it's not something I look for in another man.

by Anonymousreply 33February 4, 2018 12:27 PM

Honestly, if I saw the pic at r5 out of context, I would wonder if they were trans simply because of the odd shape of their pecs.

by Anonymousreply 34February 4, 2018 12:31 PM

I would top for him, once. Have that pussy bounce on my dick

by Anonymousreply 35February 4, 2018 12:32 PM

R30, AFAIK, Tucker identifies as T, though never published any before-after photos. There’s a (very poor-quality) pic floating around of some girl with longer hair in soccer uniform who looks like him / her.

There seem to be some white marks underneath the pec area. Could be scars from boob-cutting surgery, or could be just natural marks (some people have weird pigmentation areas).

The world is so crazy (with stupid hoaxes, fake news & mentally unstable attention-seekers). I don’t know what to think anymore. Though this one is probably FtM, if that’s what he/she says.

by Anonymousreply 36February 4, 2018 12:36 PM

I'm an FTM. I couldn't tell he was trans from the initial picture you posted, OP.

by Anonymousreply 37February 4, 2018 12:37 PM

Some women have jaws like that, but it's not that common. The testosterone might have contributed to that flared jaw, but it is very pronounced for a woman... and also flared. It could be an implant too.

I read that male steroid users get thicker jaw bones over time...not sure if it is true or bro-science... but it would make sense, since estrogen causes MTFs to have feminine changes.

Brooke Shields has a jaw like that. Maria Shriever does too.

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by Anonymousreply 38February 4, 2018 12:42 PM

I don't know. Not at first. He looks male, but there is something off about his face. Not off in a bad way, just off.

by Anonymousreply 39February 4, 2018 12:51 PM

Must every FTM grow out those pathetic attempts at beards? We get it, you're a big "man" now and your testosterone makes you grow facial hair - but it looks like I just took my armpit hair and glued it to your face. SHAVE! You won't "turn back into a woman" I promise (because you still are, blanche!)

by Anonymousreply 40February 4, 2018 1:28 PM

[quote] Brooke Shields has a jaw like that.

R38, that’s an unfair comparison. You’re comparing the jawline of Shields, a nearly 53-y.o. person (who had countless surgeries & fillers to boot), with the jawline of a 19-20-y.o. girl/boy (that’s how old OP’s person is).

Brooke Shields actually did not have an overly male-looking jaw when she herself was a young girl of 19-20. It was comparatively softer than OP’s person’s male-like sharp jawline.

The jaw position changes as we age. That’s why there are a lot of old grannies & grandads with lower jaws & chins sticking out (more prominently than in their youth). That’s partially what happened to Shields. Her bone structure was rather dainty as a late teen & in her early 20s. But it kept developing, her chin started growing out / protruding, making her look more manly as she matured.

Look at the photo below: Michael Jackson has a sharp, square jawline & head shape. Whereas Shields (20 y.o. here) has a comparatively softer, more oval shape & frame.

Having said that, there are some younger females with big ‘man-jaws’, even though it’s not very common. Shriver was indeed one. Olivia Wilde also springs to mind.

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by Anonymousreply 41February 4, 2018 1:43 PM

A few years back, even before this trans stuff was trendy MTV did a "True Life" episode about two trans people-one MTF, the other FTM who after living as the opposite sex for a while they realized they weren't trans after all and wanted to go back to their birth sex.

Anyway, the face shape of the FTM changed with her testosterone use. It gave her a more masculine jaw. She was a cute girl before and she permanently screwed up her face because it wasn't going to change back once she stopped the testosterone and wanted to go back to being a girl.

by Anonymousreply 42February 4, 2018 1:43 PM

[quote]The testosterone might have contributed to that flared jaw,

No, it didn't. You're thinking of human growth hormone, which taken to excess (like Rich Pena below) will cause bones to grow.

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by Anonymousreply 43February 4, 2018 1:53 PM

Oh that's so weird...r41 I did not remember her face looking that narrow in her younger days. Wow... so weird. But anyway, it could be the T injections or an implant or something. But this is definitely a female... the mastectomy scars are in the exact spot they are supposed to be.

I was not thinking of the age aspect. I thought bones receded with age. Maria Shriver's daughters don't even have that square, flared jaw like she does... and arnold does. They are more rounded.

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by Anonymousreply 44February 4, 2018 1:58 PM

So I decided to bite & check out Wesley Tucker’s Instagram (which OP seems to be shilling hard).

Tucker’s entire IG stream is photos of himself. Almost no photos of any fun memories (friends, family, landscapes, concert gigs, etc.). Just photo after photo of him (alone) staring into the camera.

Sorry, OP, but he/she seems vapid, self-absorbed & no fun. There are far more interesting & attractive personalities, singers & models on IG to follow, who at least intersperse their selfies with shots of fun life impressions, quirky observations & group photos with friends.

Also, he’s from Scottsdale, Arizona... Ugh. Not Tucker’s fault per se. But it’s such a cesspool of crazy wannabes & attention whores there. With that kind of environment, no wonder Tucker already cheaply tatted up all his 10 fingers and hands. Tattoos near the knuckles make him/her look like an ex-con - which is a hopelessly popular ‘thug-life’ look in Phoenix.

by Anonymousreply 45February 4, 2018 2:13 PM

Maria Shriver had that famous Kennedy jaw before she had work done.

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by Anonymousreply 46February 4, 2018 2:17 PM

She looks like a frau in training @ R11

Her music video is embarrassing

by Anonymousreply 47February 4, 2018 2:17 PM

R45 the reason why she’s always alone: other people would dwarf her. She needs to keep the illusion of height

by Anonymousreply 48February 4, 2018 2:20 PM

I think he’s cute.

Do FTM tend to be bottoms? As a top, whatever he’s got going on downstairs wouldn’t really phase me so long as his asshole is open for business.

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by Anonymousreply 49February 4, 2018 2:26 PM

I wonder what percentage of these trans people will de-transition over the next few years. A lot of them seem to think the grass is greener on the other side and are in for a rude awakening.

There's a fetishization of this whole thing and 'transitioning' seems to be an end in and of itself. That's why you don't hear the end of it. They will belabor the fact that they've transitioned till kingdom come. It's as though that's the centerpiece of their life and they don't want to blend in and move on.

by Anonymousreply 50February 4, 2018 2:32 PM

You can always tell for trans guys. Some are hot and very masculine but no cock so what's the point? Hopefully I'm not being insensitive but I like dick sue me.

by Anonymousreply 51February 4, 2018 2:37 PM

R49 He looks like a woman there. It’s the T zone, eyes and nose. This is what lots of young lesbians in SF looked like during the 90s.

by Anonymousreply 52February 4, 2018 2:39 PM

[quote]Hes a music star

It's the shitty mus-ICK of the 21st century, amelodic, rhythmic, autotuned garbage. Don't give up your day job, Wesley Anne.

by Anonymousreply 53February 4, 2018 2:41 PM

She's cute but I'm a gay man, so I'll pass.

by Anonymousreply 54February 4, 2018 2:42 PM

Not really, but for some reason trans people want you to know they changed sexes. I would never tell anybody after the surgery; I'd move to another area, have my driver's license changed, etc.

If asked I would just give an ambiguous smile and say, "I'm sorry, you're invading my space".

by Anonymousreply 55February 4, 2018 2:45 PM

She looks more like a male with that wispy non-beard shaved off in the other, later pics...

Female skulls have a different shape than male skulls, and I think that's where the "something is off" comments are coming from. It's like a more rounded shape of the head with more masculine features in the front of the face...so it's a bit "off"

by Anonymousreply 56February 4, 2018 2:53 PM

R6 - because there's no brow ridge.

by Anonymousreply 57February 4, 2018 2:54 PM

Why all the hate? I'm.a bottom so I wouldn't do him because I love dick and a facial sue me again. But tans is a biological reality. I'm appalled at the of igbirance level of gays on this board.

There are two things going on right now. One is that trans are a biological reality that happens most likely due to developments in the womb. Unlike what some idiots claimed around her on another posts there are fundnetal differences between brains of women and men and there's peer revised evidence that trans people hold.a brain of the other gender. Anyone who knows how to research peer reviews papers can check that.

Now there's another trend and that has to do with identity politics. There's an epidemic of non trans people taking hormones and transitioning regardless of a true trans diagnosis. That's totally butch Judith butlers fault.

by Anonymousreply 58February 4, 2018 2:55 PM

Wow, people are dense here...she’s a (self-loathing) lesbian. She’s not interested in dick.

by Anonymousreply 59February 4, 2018 2:58 PM

[quote]igbirance

mmmm-hmmm

by Anonymousreply 60February 4, 2018 3:05 PM

I’m so confused and the trans thing makes me feel so old. So trans men who like men were gay men trapped in women’s bodies and the FTMs then style themselves on redneck macho men with wife beaters and tattoos. I can’t be the only one who’s confused. FTMs who like women were straight men trapped in women’s bodies but end up dating lesbians.

Just like MTF never look authentic neither do FTM. Even the Thai ladyboys were take hormones to prevent puberty have masculine skulls, hands, wrists, shoulder width.

by Anonymousreply 61February 4, 2018 3:09 PM

Many of them pass quite well until you put them next to other males. This is why they are obsessed with social media and selfies.

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by Anonymousreply 62February 4, 2018 3:15 PM

R62, all of those guys in your pic look like cis men.

OP's guy does not look like a lesbian AT ALL, nor is he a lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 63February 4, 2018 3:21 PM

Let's hear the speaking voice. Sometimes you can't tell by looking but the voice gives it away. If Caitlyn Jenner wasn't famous and I was just meeting her, hearing that deep voice come out of her would be jarring.

by Anonymousreply 64February 4, 2018 3:29 PM

R63 second from the left is a female man. The height disparity becomes very clear in a line up, not to mention the tiny legs.

by Anonymousreply 65February 4, 2018 3:31 PM

No op, I honestly can't tell. He certainly looks like a twink and if I didn't know any better I would think me he's gay.

by Anonymousreply 66February 4, 2018 3:43 PM

r58 is not quite accurate.

One of the latest studies has shown that there are differences between male and female brains but there are also many areas of overlap. Where there are differences (or tendencies we should say), there is little evidence yet that this influences real-life behaviour and currently we can't really tell. We are certainly not at the stage of drawing any sort of conclusions yet alone male brains in female bodies type thinking. It's early days.

The study I've linked, itself, says there is a flaw in that all the brains analysed were from people 40 years up so that some of the findings might be due to maturity and the elasticity of the brain as it adapts to its environment.

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by Anonymousreply 67February 4, 2018 3:50 PM

Anyone who thinks the scone from the left in R62 is a cis male is delusional. It’s not even about the height. Just look at that face. Put a ponytail on that face and she looks like a young girl going to prom. But whatever if he’s happy now I could care less. My only problem is MTF competing in professional sports as women. I’m a track coach and it will finish women’s sports.

by Anonymousreply 68February 4, 2018 4:15 PM

Second from the left*

by Anonymousreply 69February 4, 2018 4:15 PM

That’s a conversation we had here during the Olympics. It’s further complicated because right ringers generally couldn’t care less about women’s sports and a significant portion of those who do have their head in the clouds. During the Olympics numerous female bloggers were saying they would support eradicating gender separation in track and field. Clearly many people missed the day they covered biology in school. Likewise FTM would never be able to compete with male athletes but nobody cares if they try because the men’s competition won’t be impacted.

by Anonymousreply 70February 4, 2018 4:22 PM

R67 please share with us the peer revised papers to back your silly claim. Don't forget their respective IF so we can judge your claim based on real science.

Please spare me websites. I want names and their impact factor so we're certain were dealing with real science.

Of course you being an wise man of science it'll be easy to link high IF papers here to justify your ridiculous claims.

I'm waiting your reply. Because next I'll list 30 current peer revised papers with high IF to back what I say. Not that you'll be able to even read them.

by Anonymousreply 71February 4, 2018 4:52 PM

I'm best his/her pussy stinks and you don't have to get that close to know.

by Anonymousreply 72February 4, 2018 4:58 PM

bet^^

by Anonymousreply 73February 4, 2018 4:59 PM

... and there's Maude

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by Anonymousreply 74February 4, 2018 5:06 PM

I'm tired f people here acting like right wing bigots. A bunch of narcissistic average joes that can't barely read a scientific article putting down transgenderism as a fad. I have no problems admitting I wouldnt date a trans guy because I need dick in my ass but I'm through with ignorant gays with barely a high school diploma linking to websites with third grade level interpretations of science claiming they have proof of their bigotry.

Face it, most of you never passed at the door of a science lab let alone would know the difference between a theory a hypothesis or an evidence. So shut the fucck up and go educate yourself.

Trans can be cunts, they can be authoritarian and even evil but all modern neuroscience and biology points to the reality they are born with the brain and processes of the opposite gender. No banter will change that.

Instead of acting like idiots using the fact some people are mistabkly misdiaguinising themselves as trans for ideology you should work on perfecting your reading and comprehension cause most of you have a third grade level grasp of science and the real world. There I said it.

by Anonymousreply 75February 4, 2018 5:12 PM

im addicted to ftm porn

by Anonymousreply 76February 4, 2018 5:25 PM

No. But he’s young.

Do we know how these people age? With the hormones and all.

by Anonymousreply 77February 4, 2018 5:27 PM

[quote]There are two things going on right now. One is that trans are a biological reality that happens most likely due to developments in the womb. Unlike what some idiots claimed around her on another posts there are fundnetal differences between brains of women and men and there's peer revised evidence that trans people hold.a brain of the other gender.

This is such a fucking lie. There is no science that shows that trannies have the brains of the opposite sex.

Oh, and go educate yourself, R75.

by Anonymousreply 78February 4, 2018 5:29 PM

r75 says "that can't barely read a scientific article..." right, stop talking now, you're an idiot too. Wesley in r49 writes stupid shit like this on her vapid ig page, "who dat boy who him is" Yeah, lots of mental giants and not at all attention whores. I wouldn't like Wesley the girl or Wesley the man, he's shallow and narcissistic, and yeah, short.

by Anonymousreply 79February 4, 2018 5:30 PM

Gurls, it's peer REVIEWED, not peer revised.

They review the paper and provide you with 30 pages of cunty critique - they do not actually revise anything for you.

Kinda like DL.

by Anonymousreply 80February 4, 2018 5:31 PM

I don't know. I think he's very cute. If he used to be a girl, then I'd need to to think about it.; But I won't try to de-humanize him.

by Anonymousreply 81February 4, 2018 5:33 PM

Yummy

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by Anonymousreply 82February 4, 2018 5:37 PM

This rape-tastic.

by Anonymousreply 83February 4, 2018 5:38 PM

[quote]This is such a fucking lie. There is no science that shows that trannies have the brains of the opposite sex.

He's slightly misstating it but it's not a "fucking lie." There is, in fact, science that is looking for the "trans gene" in much the same way that scientists have been looking for the "gay gene."

[quote]Oh, and go educate yourself, R75.

You first.

by Anonymousreply 84February 4, 2018 5:40 PM

[quote]I'm appalled at the level of ignorance level of gays on this board.

It's not the "gays on this board." It's just the usual small group of obsessed anti-T loons who post the same shit over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again, without once conveying an original thought or any connection to reality. Just ignore them and their threads, as most of us do, and move on.

by Anonymousreply 85February 4, 2018 5:43 PM

LMAO @ the terrified girl in r82

"Stop taking selfies you narcissistic tranny - drive the fucking car!"

by Anonymousreply 86February 4, 2018 5:43 PM

how do you know hes driving the car? you transphobic whore

by Anonymousreply 87February 4, 2018 5:47 PM

The condition is called gender euphoria for a reason. It's a form of mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 88February 4, 2018 5:48 PM

Ut oh, R87 is triggered. Are you new here, dear? That was about a 2/10 of the cuntiness you can expect on this site.

by Anonymousreply 89February 4, 2018 5:48 PM

I wasn't being serious...................... . . . .. . . . ..

by Anonymousreply 90February 4, 2018 5:50 PM

Ok good... cuz obviously either was I (this isn't England - the driver is not even on that side)

by Anonymousreply 91February 4, 2018 5:51 PM

lmao - gender euphoria

by Anonymousreply 92February 4, 2018 5:52 PM

R77 a lot of them go into looking middle aged very quickly. One of the testosterone shots they take causes male pattern baldness, and unlike biological men they can’t take propecia to block the hormone that causes hair loss because it block the T they have to inject.

by Anonymousreply 93February 4, 2018 5:53 PM

Buck Angel didn't look too bad bald. He looked a bit like a penis though...with that bald head... go figure

by Anonymousreply 94February 4, 2018 6:02 PM

I don't think that anyone questions there are people who suffer from genuine dysphoria, where what they see in the mirror causes them agony as it doesn't fit with their self-image. But that's not limited to gender dysphoria, there are people with all sorts of body dysphoria. Why are people with body dysphoria treated with counselling and medication whilst people with gender dysphoria affirmed with hormones and cosmetic surgical procedures? What is the fundamental difference between wanting to cut off your penis or wanting to cut off your leg because, in your mind, seeing this particular body part in the mirror causes you psychic anguish? Why is one seen as crazy and the other sane? This is a genuine question because, fundamentally, I don't see a difference, but maybe someone more will versed in this subject can educate me.

by Anonymousreply 95February 4, 2018 6:04 PM

Exactly r95! Why is Rachel Dolezal mocked and these people are lauded?

by Anonymousreply 96February 4, 2018 6:06 PM

probably smells like baloney though wqasmzX

by Anonymousreply 97February 4, 2018 6:06 PM

OMG lLOL

R97 reminds me of when I was in my late teens and I asked my good friend who was dating another good friend (female) at the time.

I asked him what it tasted like when he ate her out, and he deadpanned, "Kinda like ham."

by Anonymousreply 98February 4, 2018 6:11 PM

Lmao, oh nooo r98

by Anonymousreply 99February 4, 2018 6:14 PM

Cher's daughter ruined herself.

No one cares about the long-term effects of ingesting testosterone on the female body.

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by Anonymousreply 100February 4, 2018 6:20 PM

Prostate cancer

by Anonymousreply 101February 4, 2018 6:39 PM

Cher's daughter like many ftm, thinks that being fat and having a beard = masculinity. It's not true.

by Anonymousreply 102February 4, 2018 6:40 PM

a hideous* beard

by Anonymousreply 103February 4, 2018 6:44 PM

[quote]Very few females have such an extremely sharp jawbone naturally.

Does this mean "facial masculinization" is easier to get right than "facial feminization"?

by Anonymousreply 104February 4, 2018 6:46 PM

[quote] A few years back, even before this trans stuff was trendy MTV did a "True Life" episode about two trans people-one MTF, the other FTM who after living as the opposite sex for a while they realized they weren't trans after all and wanted to go back to their birth sex.

That wouldn't happen now.

by Anonymousreply 105February 4, 2018 6:51 PM

Back in the day, dykes would just go to the barbershop, throw on a baggy sports jersey and get all girls.

Too bad these young girls are destroying themselves with surgeries and chemicals.

by Anonymousreply 106February 4, 2018 7:01 PM

[quote] I'm appalled at the level of ignorance level of gays on this board.

Oh, I am too. For example:

[quote] Please "she's" more hotter than you all are

"more hotter than"????

by Anonymousreply 107February 4, 2018 7:06 PM

Lack of adam's apple, lack of brow ridge, lack of bulge and small stature are pretty dead giveaways for this person.

by Anonymousreply 108February 4, 2018 7:07 PM

I know I’m in the distinct micro-minority here but as a top guy who finds men’s faces & bodies much sexier than their cocks I’d have vaginal sex with a hot trans-man in a second - and this one qualifies.

I did have sex with women before coming to terms with the fact that I was much more sexually attracted to men - and I don’t consider myself bi / I’m guessing I’m a Kinsey 4.5 or 5. But the idea of fucking a sexy trans guy is very appealing.

Now I don’t find the majority of trans-men to be all that sexy, and I think there are more than a few who do not want to have vaginal sex - and that is certainly their right. But if the opportunity ever presented itself I’d be all over it. Or him. Or her - depending on your point of view.

by Anonymousreply 109February 4, 2018 7:16 PM

But would a real man want his vagina fucked? And fucked by a GAY man???

by Anonymousreply 110February 4, 2018 7:21 PM

[quote]mistabkly misdiaguinising

R75's third grade level grasp of the English language is very much in evidence.

by Anonymousreply 111February 4, 2018 7:24 PM

r75 was doing one of those "i hope autocorrect will fix it... no? fuck it.. i ain't spelling"

by Anonymousreply 112February 4, 2018 7:26 PM

Men like R109 give FTMs a false sense of validation. They make FTMs believe that "if a gay man fucks me, I must be a gay man."

In reality, there are men that will fuck a room temperature cantaloupe.

Females can never be males.

P.S. Make sure to wrap it up. FTMs are contracting HIV and getting pregnant.

by Anonymousreply 113February 4, 2018 7:27 PM

[quote] FTMs are contracting HIV and getting pregnant.

Men can't get pregnant silly!

And str8 sex doesn't give you HIV!

by Anonymousreply 114February 4, 2018 7:32 PM

Go ahead and humor an FTM all you want, but be prepared to pay child support 9 months later if you fuck one bareback.

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by Anonymousreply 115February 4, 2018 7:48 PM

Jesus fucking christ r115, what a fat sack of shit, both of them! Nice that they care not about the effects the fatness and hormones will have on the kid but let's face it, that kid is doomed to wash it's "dad" on the porch with a hose in 15 years anyhow.

by Anonymousreply 116February 4, 2018 7:52 PM

From the article: "Thomas, born Laura, underwent sex reassignment surgery last year. "We were so happy, we did what all gay men do when they get excited - we went shopping," he told the newspaper."

women supposedly shop when they're excited too, get your fucking 50's gender stereotypes straight, fatty.

by Anonymousreply 117February 4, 2018 7:54 PM

[quote] His parents eventually paid for him to have his 36DDD breasts removed, the paper reports, but he could not afford the high cost of full sex reassignment surgery.

The whole pronoun game adds another level of absurdity.

by Anonymousreply 118February 4, 2018 8:00 PM

r118 And they make it sound like she therefore got pregnant by accident, but no, they got the sperm from a friend so the whole thing was planned because they are fat attention whores.

by Anonymousreply 119February 4, 2018 8:04 PM

R113 - R109 here.

Yes there are men who fuck cantaloupes / learned about that one when I worked In the produce dept at the A&P in high school.

It wasn’t a customer shopping for the perfect partner that clued me in, but my manager talking to another worker. “Better than a woman” he said. I was shocked - but not shocked enough to not try it a few weeks later. Pro tip - you need to cut 2 holes in the cantaloupe - otherwise you create a vacuum when you insert your cock and it gets stuck in there till you go soft. I speak from first hand experience.

As to “validating” then or not - you do have a point - and another poster mentioned what I did - many of them don’t want their vaginas fucked. But vaginas do feel quite nice & I’m at the point where labels and rules interest me less and less. If I thought s/he was hot and down for it we’d both have fun.

by Anonymousreply 120February 4, 2018 8:06 PM

They may have gotten the major "breast" off but the side boob fat was not taken care of.

by Anonymousreply 121February 4, 2018 8:19 PM

I am fascinated by men like r109/r120. You know that you are sexually attracted to both men and women (with a preference for men) but you reject identifying as bisexual. Why is that?

I just find it fascinating and ironic because it always seems like the same people who talk endlessly about sexual fluidity and how limiting labels are, are the same people who will twist themselves in knots to avoid saying they are bisexual and come up instead with some new term (homoflexible, sexual, fluid, homo dominant, etc.) - all in some perplexing effort to avoid the word bisexual. But then these same people will decry the lack of visibility for bisexuals. I mean, take some responsibility for your own actions. If you want visibility and representation then that is on you.

by Anonymousreply 122February 4, 2018 9:14 PM

[quote] there are fundnetal differences between brains of women and men and there's peer revised evidence that trans people hold.a brain of the other gender.

[quote] all modern neuroscience and biology points to the reality they are born with the brain and processes of the opposite gender.

[quote] Face it, most of you never passed at the door of a science lab let alone would know the difference between a theory a hypothesis or an evidence. So shut the fucck up and go educate yourself.

R58 / R71 / R75, you 'educate' everyone, but keep using wrong terminology and concepts.

No person (straight, gay, T) is born with any "GENDER". People are born with a particular biological SEX (determined by their DNA). Gender is a social construct - it's taught and learned, and used as a façade, as a tool to interact with the world, to fit into a social framework.

Gender is not hard-wired into anyone's brain. Theoretically, society can decide to gradually phase out gender in formal education, social interaction and TV entertainment (which subconsciously teaches ppl gender habits): raise all children to dress in unisex clothes, teach them unisex hairstyles, make universal cosmetics for everyone, or discourage everyone from using cosmetics, eliminate pronouns "he / she", etc.

Gender is "monkey-see, monkey-do". E.g. if you see most bio-sex males wearing short haircuts - you will generally learn and mimic, as part of your developing gender portrayal, to cut your hair short too. Even though short hair has really nothing to do with being biologically male.

Gender is how the sexes portray themselves to attract a mate. And the roles they play to be accepted & not ostracized by society. E.g. if a female suddenly shaves her head like a male, bucking gender rules - people will think she's crazy. Or if a man grows his hair out to his buttocks - people will look at him weird.

That's what the T often overlook - they think they're "born" to play opposite gender roles. But those roles themselves are arbitrary, ridiculous and built on quicksand. They can flip on their head in the future, as they did in the past (men before wore tights, cosmetics, heels, skirts, dresses, had long hair).

As for body dysmorphia - other people are afflicted with aspects of their bodies that make them look and feel deeply "not right" & not portraying the "right identity", to the point of depression: e.g. severe hyper-pigmentation (e.g. when you're born black but slowly turning white, in random growing spots across your whole body). In the past doctors tried surgery - but now they advise acceptance (like Winnie Harlow).

Moreover, a lot of normal males & females (not Ts) are themselves uncomfortable (sometimes even repulsed) by their own healthy bio sex traits. A lot of men get depressed when their hair thins & they become bald (due to high testosterone). Some women seem to gag at photographs of their own pussies and are disgusted by their periods. But many learn to cope and carry on.

The T can try acceptance too - there's nothing wrong with have a cock or a pussy. Either can be workable for a satisfactory lifestyle. And if they're not fond of it - everyone (male & female) has an anus, they can use that instead.

by Anonymousreply 123February 4, 2018 9:42 PM

[Quote]Gay men want real dick and there's no shortage of it.

Sorry, but there do exist gay men who would have no trouble ass fucking a FTM. I know a few selfish bastards that would refuse to service (no jerking, no blow job, nada) another guy's penis. They want you to suck them off and then lay on your belly and let them do their thing. Once they cum and slap you on the ass, you know you've been dismissed. And did I mention the subset within this subset who actively hunt nelly bottoms?

by Anonymousreply 124February 4, 2018 9:45 PM

Gay men want real dick AND real ass. And there's no shortage of either one!

Any total top looking for a service-oriented bottom could post an ad on Craigslist and have a dozen gay guys knocking at his door within the hour.

FTMs who consider themselves "gay men" are trying to push a product to the wrong audience. It's so funny that we've reached a time when we have to sit down and explain to deluded heterosexual women that gay men aren't interested in sticking our dicks in their pussies.

Aside from a handful of freaks, of course.

by Anonymousreply 125February 4, 2018 9:59 PM

You can tell when the trans brigade arrived in this thread, shit went downhill fast.

by Anonymousreply 126February 4, 2018 10:16 PM

Can the stomach be removed too R118? That should've been the first to go.... Possibly get rid of the prolapsed uterus too.

by Anonymousreply 127February 4, 2018 10:19 PM

^ pic in R115...

by Anonymousreply 128February 4, 2018 10:20 PM

“It was presented, at first, as a simple case of injustice in the prison system. The Observer ran the story with the headline “Transgender woman in male prison ‘nightmare’ on hunger strike”. The facts given were these: Marie Dean, 50, is refusing food in protest at being held in HMP Preston on an indeterminate sentence for burglary without access to “hair straighteners, epilator or any makeup”. The report linked to a Change.org petition demanding that Dean be “moved into the female estate as quickly as possible”. Some detail, though, seemed to be missing. If you wondered why a burglar would receive an indeterminate sentence, the answer wasn’t here.

But a cursory Google explained it. Before she transitioned, Dean, aged 42 in 2009, was convicted of over 30 offences including voyeurism, aggravated burglary and assaulting police officers. Dean broke into homes, dressed in teenage girls’ underwear, and filmed herself in their bedrooms engaging in what the court reporting coyly called “sex acts”. “Your victims,” said the judge, “undoubtedly regard you as being a dangerous man within the community and the sort of dangerous person that will give them every reason to be careful or worry when things go bump in the night.”

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by Anonymousreply 129February 4, 2018 10:24 PM

Why is the wife's head twice as large as the husbands at R115 ?

Is the little teddy bear in the corner because they consider themselves "bears"?

by Anonymousreply 130February 4, 2018 10:25 PM

All good ?'s R130..... I'm wondering if "she" regrets his mastectomy, as now she cannot nurse her son. These odd trajectories never seem well thought out. Very odd couple, not to be mean, but the children of these couples are going to be awfully confused about a lot of things.

by Anonymousreply 131February 4, 2018 10:37 PM

[quote] an indeterminate sentence for burglary without access to “hair straighteners, epilator or any makeup”.

lmao!!

For a biological woman, wouldn't that be a relief?

by Anonymousreply 132February 4, 2018 10:38 PM

r132 Ain't that the truth! Women don't want to fuck around with that, just like men hate to shave. But fake men and women like Chaz Bono and ftms love to play at it. Chaz Bono in her doc would literally sit around all day doing nothing but shaving her face and talking about it.

by Anonymousreply 133February 4, 2018 11:23 PM

A hair straightener can be a pretty serious weapon in a jail. I can't imagine how female inmates would be allowed to have it either.

by Anonymousreply 134February 4, 2018 11:26 PM

Ewww ewww ewww

by Anonymousreply 135February 4, 2018 11:29 PM

Those pics with "him" sticking out "his" tongue and grabbing/reaching for a non-existent dick are ridiculous. Why must all those claiming to be trans be such fucking stereotypes? That would never have been a pose before "he" transitioned, so why now? Maybe some of you guys can answer this...is there something inherent in testosterone that makes you stick out your tongue and grab yourself?

by Anonymousreply 136February 4, 2018 11:46 PM

R136 So irrelevant

by Anonymousreply 137February 5, 2018 12:02 AM

So there's no shorter men with small statures, R65?

by Anonymousreply 138February 5, 2018 12:38 AM

In R62, persons #2 and 4 look biologically female to me... but only # 2 is? It was not just due to the height (which r138 points out - it can't really be since the other guys are like 6'4 probably) but the tapered chin / jaw area... or something around the eyes too. Hard to be that definite with a pic that isn't very big. 2 and 4 also don't really have much of a calf muscle.

by Anonymousreply 139February 5, 2018 12:43 AM

Why is R136 irrelevant R137? Splain!

by Anonymousreply 140February 5, 2018 12:43 AM

I doubt R137 knows what irrelevant means. Simplistic and reactionary SJWs aren't the most highly educated group.

by Anonymousreply 141February 5, 2018 6:04 AM

Of course there are R138 but it's rare that men are as short as most women. What is thought of as short for a man is mostly still in the range of tall for a woman. Next time you are in a mall or other public place have a look at the stature of most women you see (taking into account heels).

by Anonymousreply 142February 5, 2018 6:58 AM

How have we gotten to the point that we have to teach people that overall females are shorter than males. Males have broader shoulders and narrower hips. Females have softer jawlines. Men have larger skulls etc..

How can anyone who isn’t visually impaired make it to adulthood without noticing this? We are a sexually dimorphic species. You can tell the biological sex of a skeleton.

by Anonymousreply 143February 5, 2018 11:55 AM

Not by that photo, OP. But photos aren't real life. And people generally don't post photos of themselves that are unflattering. Just ask Kim Kardashian and her cellulite.

by Anonymousreply 144February 5, 2018 11:59 AM

He’s hot. The perfect blend of masculinity and femininity. If I saw him on the street, I’d be eye fucking him like “You want some dick tonight?”

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by Anonymousreply 145February 5, 2018 12:09 PM

OP post a photo of Wes standing next to an actual guy. I thought Gigi Gorgeous was passable until I saw Gigi sitting next to Katy Perry.

by Anonymousreply 146February 5, 2018 12:31 PM

Good God, R43 - even when the name is right in front of you, you still can’t get it right. PIANA, not PENA.

by Anonymousreply 147February 5, 2018 12:34 PM

Anybody who says they’d look at this guy on the street and say “He’s trans” is lying through their fucking teeth. Half of you are natural born men and look more like women than Wes does, with your estrogen-filled doughy bodies, man boobs and carb faces.

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by Anonymousreply 148February 5, 2018 12:36 PM

“Half of us” didn’t have surgery and take a truck-load of hormones, R148.

No need to compare people living clean lifestyles with those taking hormones and going under the knife.

by Anonymousreply 149February 5, 2018 12:41 PM

This thread is littered with people comparing him to “real men” and now all of a sudden the comparisons must stop? 😂

by Anonymousreply 150February 5, 2018 12:53 PM

R148 Sorry but he looks feminine around the eyes. On the street, as he looks in that picture, I would think it was a pubescent 14 year old boy. If he was wearing a shirt that said 21 today, I would think he looked very, very young for his age and was perhaps a late bloomer. I certainly wouldn’t see a sexually mature man who I have any attraction to. I’m a blacksmith by trade and two former boyfriends have been jockeys. Both were under 5’5” and 110 soaking wet so it’s not because I’m only attracted to big men.

by Anonymousreply 151February 5, 2018 12:57 PM

It's real men not "real men" no need to put it in quotes. People with XY chromosomes and penises are men. No prefixes or any other caveat needed.

by Anonymousreply 152February 5, 2018 12:58 PM

This is why trans is both a choice and a war on gay people and women, and why the concept of "toxic masculinity" is a joke if women are willing to have their breasts cut off and force testosterone into their bodies to grow beards.

by Anonymousreply 153February 5, 2018 1:01 PM

[QUOTE]It's real men not "real men" no need to put it in quotes. People with XY chromosomes and penises are men. No prefixes or any other caveat needed.

Yeah right. So it’s just a psychological disease, Vice President Pence? Should we lock them up or just start executing them? Maybe settle for banning them from taking their hormones?

You fucking hypocrites are pathetic. Can’t believe so many gay men are sitting there wagging their fingers like they’re the arbiters of morality and human physiology.

by Anonymousreply 154February 5, 2018 1:08 PM

R154 I don’t care what they do but they can’t force me to find them attractive and they have to accept the limitations of their biology. As someone else said MTF cannot compete in women’s sports no matter how they “feel” and I would appreciate if they let go of the 1950s gender stereotypes. A

by Anonymousreply 155February 5, 2018 1:12 PM

Sometimes I will dip into the transgender forum on reddit or fall down a trans rabbit hole on twitter. These people are unwell in their heads and need psychiatric intervention, not hormones and plastic surgery. They argue that in the future the will be able to transplant their brains into the bodies of the other sex so they can fully transition. A well known trans activist posted on twitter recently about womb transplants and boasted about her the radical feminist lesbians (you know, actual women) are going to be so mad and couldn't quite contain the smug. Another well known trans activist recently posted rules before a women's march in London- telling attendees to not discuss periods and female reproductive systems as its triggering for the trans women at the event.

It's almost scary that this is now almost become mainstream norm.

by Anonymousreply 156February 5, 2018 1:19 PM

Testosterone seems to age FTMs. I have seen a few that look like boys that have just gone through puberty, like OP's guy, but with heavy facial wrinkles, it's odd. And some may pass in photos, but in person, you see how slight they are. And no matter what they do, they can't change the fact that they were not socialized as boys, their gestures and mannerisms give them away.

by Anonymousreply 157February 5, 2018 1:22 PM

The mastectomy scars always give it away.

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by Anonymousreply 158February 5, 2018 1:25 PM

I don’t think Wes has that problem.

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by Anonymousreply 159February 5, 2018 1:25 PM

The point of gay liberation is that we no longer have to apologize for our same sex attraction. We don't have to answer to anyone suggesting that "if we just find the right one" we would learn to love pussy.

Gay men are an accepting group of people, but the trans community needs to learn some respect. If trans-apologists have noticed the tone of the conversation has become more aggressively "anti-trans" it's because we're sick of your shit. For decades, lesbians have been sick of your shit too. They've had to endure creepy male chauvinist pigs-in-wigs stalking and harassing their community.

FTMs and MTFs are free to search for someone to love them. But, what they won't do is harass, bully, and shame gay men and women for our SEXUAL preference.

by Anonymousreply 160February 5, 2018 1:37 PM

Does Wes have a boyfriend? If not, is it because he is just too darn picky?

by Anonymousreply 161February 5, 2018 1:39 PM

I heard he likes girls unfortunately.

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by Anonymousreply 162February 5, 2018 1:43 PM

R154 People are entitled to do what they wish with their bodies just don't expect the rest of us to change our language or dismiss biological reality in the face of ever shifting trans goalposts.

by Anonymousreply 163February 5, 2018 1:43 PM

Ah OK, R162. Just another straight man - DL loves them!

by Anonymousreply 164February 5, 2018 1:45 PM

He's cute. I'd be proud if he were my brother. He's a hero to all good, accepting men. Go Wes!

by Anonymousreply 165February 5, 2018 1:45 PM

“Biological reality.” 😂 Shall we force trans people into conversion therapy, R163?

by Anonymousreply 166February 5, 2018 1:47 PM

No R166 but other people are allowed boundaries as to how they see someone and whether they accept them as a sexual or romantic partner.

It could also be argued that suggesting very young gender non conforming children are trans when many would grow up to be gay otherwise is an actual form of conversion therapy. Trans ideology seems okay with that one funnily enough.

by Anonymousreply 167February 5, 2018 1:54 PM

No r166 but MTF cannot expect women not to discuss childbirth, contraception, abortion and periods around them. We should be allowed to say women with periods or pregnant women without having to put in a disclaimer that not all women have a uterus. Women should be allowed to have their sports protected from MTF athletes. FTM cannot expect gay men to be attracted to them. They cannot compete with men in sports competition, The cannot protest movember because not all males have a prostate.

by Anonymousreply 168February 5, 2018 1:57 PM

Cisnormative thinking will pass away. Soon enough trans women will be able to make full biological transition. Within a generation. What will the cis-nazis say then? Will they enforce genetic test? A scarlet Y? All women are women. It has always been this way. Evolution is in process and the best is yet to come!

by Anonymousreply 169February 5, 2018 2:05 PM

R167 and many grow up straight. Plenty of straight women were tomboys. If the parents don’t freak out lots of little boys will enjoy “girl activities”. My straight brother is an architect and painter. As a child he was attracted to everything colorful and pretty. He loved playing with mom’s lipstick, he decorated cakes, he made elaborate Halloween costumes (by 80s standards!). Today some parents would be convinced he was gender non confirming and of course on the other end of the spectrum some parents would think he was a gay in the making and try to toughen him up. My parents just left him alone and in his teens he started messing about with cars and motorbikes and more male pursuits but he still painted and baked. I was horrified when I saw a documentary on children transitioning. A little tot of about 4 was wearing a princess outfit and the parents were leading him on saying “do you feel like a girl?” , “what’s your girl name?”, “would you like to be a girl?” Of course the kid nodded and said yes. Why wouldn’t? He has no idea what it means for the rest of his life. I’m sure there are genuine cases but parents can’t be given the power to transition a kid who doesnt know his balls from his elbow.

by Anonymousreply 170February 5, 2018 2:07 PM

Just this morning, I saw a FtT in a suit. It was very subtle, but I could tell. Was thinking about something else and did a double take. I know we are coming a long way with AI and facial recognition, but it’s hard to fool the eye and the lizard brain. Something was “off”. It was a split-second call, but something around the mouth and the shape of the skull made me think “that’s a woman”.

I’m a woman and find MtT scary on a visceral level. FtT don’t bother me at all.

by Anonymousreply 171February 5, 2018 2:12 PM

Who is this annoying FtT-lover fuckwad trying to "make them happen" on this board? It is not going to happen!

Makes me sick to my ass.

You and the monsters you support MUST BE DESTROYED!

by Anonymousreply 172February 5, 2018 2:26 PM

[quote]Yeah right. So it’s just a psychological disease, Vice President Pence? Should we lock them up or just start executing them? Maybe settle for banning them from taking their hormones? You fucking hypocrites are pathetic. Can’t believe so many gay men are sitting there wagging their fingers like they’re the arbiters of morality and human physiology.

r154, are you just saying outrageous things to avoid addressing valid concerns? Because that sure seems like the case. Where do you see on DL people advocating for the incarceration and execution of trans people?

And yes, it is a psychological issue. Trans people suffer from a psychological condition know as Gender Dysphoria.

by Anonymousreply 173February 5, 2018 2:32 PM

[QUOTE]Too dramatic?

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by Anonymousreply 174February 5, 2018 2:33 PM

R169 How exactly is evolution going to turn (for example) a 6ft, broad shouldered, narrow hipped man into a 'full biological transition' that no one notices?

Or are you talking about catching them young and giving 16yr old males uterus transplants? Because uteruses need to be fixed to something - they don't just sit in a hollow cavity doing nothing, they need a complex endocrine system to support their functioning. Also where are these organs coming from? Harvested from poor women?

You seem delusional.

by Anonymousreply 175February 5, 2018 2:33 PM

[quote] How have we gotten to the point that we have to teach people that overall females are shorter than males. Males have broader shoulders and narrower hips. Females have softer jawlines. Men have larger skulls etc..

Overall yes, but there is also a wide variation of size within each sex. The smallest adult I know is male, he's 4'11 and 107, which would be tiny, even for a female. Some posters were saying that they could tell Wes was female simply because he is shorter than the men he's standing next to. There are plenty of guys who are short, and plenty of women who are tall. Height, overall stature isn't the giveaway that Wes is FTM in R62's pic.

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by Anonymousreply 176February 5, 2018 2:42 PM

She’s lucky she transitioned (if that’s true).

Judging by the alleged “before” photos, if he really is female - then he was a very plain-looking and ‘meh’ female.

The big features (big nose, big jaw & forehead) already made her look like a guy in a wig. She didn’t even need to transition - she could just cut her hair and many would mistake her for a guy.

So OP is being a bit coy. A man-like woman will obviously look like a man (whether she’s Trans or not). And a very small, delicate-featured guy can pass for a girl. All that’s needed is to change their clothes and hair - and voilá!

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by Anonymousreply 177February 5, 2018 2:50 PM

There are too many bottoms on this site. Not every gay man is obsessed with cock.

He's super cute and has three fuckable holes. Front hole, back hole and mouth. As a top that turns me on.

by Anonymousreply 178February 5, 2018 2:50 PM

r178 Then why not just be straight and fuck chicks?

by Anonymousreply 179February 5, 2018 2:52 PM

Because that's exactly what you'd be doing. Fucking a chick.

by Anonymousreply 180February 5, 2018 2:53 PM

Another mentally ill self absorbed twit.

by Anonymousreply 181February 5, 2018 3:01 PM

[QUOTE]He's super cute and has three fuckable holes. Front hole, back hole and mouth. As a top that turns me on.

He doesn’t have three holes. He had the surgery.

by Anonymousreply 182February 5, 2018 3:08 PM

Breitbart trolls back with their psychiatric diagnosis. Do you think homosexuality is a psychiatric issue too?

I'm for ALL PEOPLE. Why keep posting hate? Your world is passing away. Genie not going back into bottle. Grow up.

by Anonymousreply 183February 5, 2018 3:09 PM

Sorry, but trans people fall into the uncanny valley territory for me. Romantically, sexually, they do less than nothing for me.

by Anonymousreply 184February 5, 2018 3:11 PM

r183, I know you won't answer this but I'll ask it anyway: what do you consider Gender Dysphoria to be?

by Anonymousreply 185February 5, 2018 3:13 PM

at R158 Wes reveals that xe is really a Gopnik

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by Anonymousreply 186February 5, 2018 3:15 PM

Because R179, I like men. Guys. Who look manly. I like to fuck them. Their cocks are mostly of no importance.

Why is this so hard? The guy in this thread is mega hot. I would absolutely have sex with him

by Anonymousreply 187February 5, 2018 3:15 PM

Trans men and women are not dysphoric. They live their true gender. Gender is not about birth anatomy. Never has been. Never will be. Your binary myth is fading away. Do you believe in the Tooth Fairy too?

by Anonymousreply 188February 5, 2018 3:23 PM

She/he (whatever they are) actually looked more masculine in the pre-transition photos. (If they’re correct.)

S/he now looks like a cheesy boybander. But before the ‘transition’, s/he looked like a PROPER long-haired (male) drummer for a heavy-metal band. Even seems to have dressed all in black.

Gurl always had the face of a dude. S/he probably had more trouble passing for female, then for male.

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by Anonymousreply 189February 5, 2018 3:24 PM

They have to be diagnosed with dysphoria to get the surgery they need to live their 'true gender', R188.

by Anonymousreply 190February 5, 2018 3:26 PM

Wow I am humbled by your knowledge of medical coding. You think the insurance industry's current view is the final word, Truth Fairy? So do you agree with how Alan Turing was medically castrated for being gay?

You are looking at a snapshot. The view ahead is my view. Adapt or be left behind, dear.

by Anonymousreply 191February 5, 2018 3:39 PM

Hey, OP, I have a question for you:

If Wesley Tucker wasn’t T (as he/she claims) and just a regular female - Would you be able to tell in her alleged pre-transition photos @ R177 and R189 that it was a female? (Disregard the give-away long hair for a minute & just look at the face).

Because even if she identified as female and wasn’t Trans, I’d still confuse her for a boy. A boy with long hair.

by Anonymousreply 192February 5, 2018 3:51 PM

What the fuck has Alan Turing got to do with being trans?

Trans ideology needs to make up it's mind. Either you will need insurance pay out for the aforementioned 'full biological transition' that is apparently the next frontier of science or continue with the bullshit notion that penis is female and vagina is male. You can't have it both ways.

by Anonymousreply 193February 5, 2018 3:55 PM

just a simple nose job at R189 would have saved her a lot of trouble!

by Anonymousreply 194February 5, 2018 3:58 PM

R193, dear heart. Gender is not about birth anatomy. Get over it.

Alan Turing has everything you do with it. It made perfect sense to someone that his homosexuality was a criminal sickness. Their certainty doesn't look so good now. So check your certainty. It is not your friend.

by Anonymousreply 195February 5, 2018 4:05 PM

OP how many times do you have to bomb us with your insta account?

by Anonymousreply 196February 5, 2018 4:07 PM

Being transgender is not a criminal offence. Stop appropriating gay history.

Still not answering any of the difficult questions I see.

by Anonymousreply 197February 5, 2018 4:30 PM

Very wholesome and Hanson-esque

by Anonymousreply 198February 5, 2018 4:45 PM

R197's certainty is blinding him. Like the certainty of those who medically castrated Alan Turing leading to his suicide. That's the history of foolish old views hurting living human beings. Meaning evolves. Attitudes change. Language develops to capture them. Interracial marriage and same sex marriage are an example. Maybe you don't think that it's not real marriage. You wouldn't be alone.

by Anonymousreply 199February 5, 2018 5:13 PM

I thought of Taylor Hanson too, R198.

He could pass for female sometimes in his youth.

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by Anonymousreply 200February 5, 2018 5:16 PM

This man may have been born female but they look like a man and I would have no idea that they were FTM unless it was obviously pointed out such as either the way he speaks, or his lack of penis if I got that far. If that happened, I'd just tell him to cover up his vagina or keep his jock strap on; I'll flip him over and fuck him in the ass. He wouldn't be a good fit for me romantically wise but I can definitely see using him as a fuck boy.

by Anonymousreply 201February 5, 2018 5:19 PM

Thank you R178 / R187 - R-109 here

As I said above I’d totally fuck him - I’m also pretty indifferent to another guy’s cock - I reciprocate because I want him to feel good too, but sucking cock does absolutely nothing for me sexually. So a hot masculine looking person with a pussy / that’s a win win.

I understand I’m in the minority here - and I’m fine with that. I just find it odd that for most of my life most of society was telling us gays that we were sick and disgusting and now many here seem to not be able to let others just live the way they want to.

That doesn’t mean we need to agree, or celebrate them. We certainly don’t need to find them attractive or want to date / fuck / associate with them. Just respect them as fellow humans who are trying to live in a way that they feel makes them happy.

I do agree that some trans activists are annoying - and I think gender non-confirming kids should just be allowed to grow up and decide for themselves later what they want without pressure from the Trans or Traditionalist sides. But if someone wants me to call them “he” I do - I don’t see it as affirming their delusions - just as being polite.

by Anonymousreply 202February 5, 2018 5:20 PM

He's such a cute boy.

by Anonymousreply 203February 5, 2018 5:20 PM

In Thailand culture, there are Toms(females who present and live as men but still identity as being woman; they don't consider themselves lesbians but straight as a resort of them taking on the lifestyle of a typical Thai man.). Toms get hotter girls apparently.

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by Anonymousreply 204February 5, 2018 5:22 PM

R202 some people are attracted to certain body anatomies, and you just happen to be attracted to humans who appear man above the waist yet have a vagina. Just like some people are attracted to humans who appear woman above the waist but have a dick. It is what it is...life goes on.

by Anonymousreply 205February 5, 2018 5:25 PM

Though I wouldn’t say Wesley Tyler looks “wholesome”, R198. He/she ruined it with the ugly prison tattoos. And he sure likes flipping the bird at every opportunity.

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by Anonymousreply 206February 5, 2018 5:26 PM

*Tucker, not Tyler

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by Anonymousreply 207February 5, 2018 5:27 PM

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by Anonymousreply 208February 5, 2018 5:29 PM

I wonder how he fucks. Is he straight, bi...I doubt gay?

by Anonymousreply 209February 5, 2018 5:29 PM

It's already been established that he likes women. He's a red-blooded, all-American, mascbro heterosexual guy. Thus he gets an adulating thread on Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 210February 5, 2018 5:31 PM

Smn upthread mentioned s/he’s looking to date women.

They can have him. He’s a bit too white trash for DL.

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by Anonymousreply 211February 5, 2018 5:33 PM

Yes 204. Many cultures see past gender binary myth.

by Anonymousreply 212February 5, 2018 5:34 PM

Will the trans know-it-all define gender for us? And please tell us how trans people help the gender binary 'fade away'? Thrill us with your acumen.

by Anonymousreply 213February 5, 2018 5:36 PM

Are we sure he's trans because he's been doing Youtube for a very long time and he appears boy in all of them. Yes, there are rumors and the scars...but I'm not convinced he was trans. As he officially said, 'hey, I'm ftm'? Does he address it in his Q&A because I didn't watch all of it?

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by Anonymousreply 214February 5, 2018 5:38 PM

More appropriation R199 and still not answering any of the questions asked about complexities.

Unlike Alan Turing nobody forces adult transgender individuals into surgery they don't want. They have free choice to have it or not.

You seem not to care about harm done to women who don't want penises in their gym showers though or young children put on Lupron because they like masculine/feminine toys and activities. Is it okay that Jazz Jennings is stuck with a pre pubescent body which is too under developed to perform the surgery they hoped they could have? Leaves Jazz in a bit of a predicament but never mind at least everyone who championed it is woke!

by Anonymousreply 215February 5, 2018 5:43 PM

R214, s/he may be T. Or it may be his ‘shtick’, as part of a PR hoax. Whatever the case, xe seems ‘loco’ & self-obsessed.

I’m more interested in him as the encapsulation of Phoenix, AZ culture. How does that desert shithole city keep producing such wacky, trashy people? Is it b/c the harsh desert sun fries their brains?

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by Anonymousreply 216February 5, 2018 5:56 PM

R199, dear heart, it's not appropriation to demonstrate that attitudes change. And language evolves. The binary gender myth is not present in all civilizations. The First Nations on this continent did not believe in it.

Your brain is stuck. You remind me of Rick Santorum who thinks that marriage can only be between a man and a woman. I can't change his mind. But he's living in the past.

by Anonymousreply 217February 5, 2018 6:06 PM

R217, stop appropriating indigenous culture to support your bullshit. I’m surprised someone like you is guilty of cultural appropriation. Don’t you practice what you preach or are you just totally in love with the debunked two spirit bullshit to care?

You’re free to do whatever you want but your analogy to gay rights doesn’t hold water. Homosexuality requires zero medical intervention for one. This chick is free to do whatever she wants, but the question is can you tell she’s trans and the answer has been a resounding yes.

Why don’t people ever just transition and get on with their lives? You people are basically creating a third gender of mutilated delusional men and women. And it ain’t pretty. I have so much respect for the non activist trans people who love a full life not obsessing with themselves.

I fully support your right to trans even though I think it is a dangerous and stupid thing to do but I must refuse to fuck you. I will even take you seriously if you have half a brain but I won’t let you misrepresent history (when you lie about Stonewall), statistics (when you lie about trans murder rate), biology (when you deny it), and I will never support pronoun laws and trans children.

And, nut job, stop pretending that there is a tiny cabal of Breitbart-reading anti-trans DLers trolling. The majority of DL: gay men who support trans people while simultaneously thinking trans activists = crazy and annoying at best.

by Anonymousreply 218February 5, 2018 6:35 PM

[quite] Many cultures see past gender binary myth.

Seeing past the gender binary myth means that gender, as a social construct, is pure nonsense. Fair enough, R212. But the T actively buy into the gender binary myth - hook, line & sinker. Moreover, they support archaic gender stereotypes & clichés. B/c without a gender binary their transition would lose most of its meaning.

by Anonymousreply 219February 5, 2018 6:38 PM

*quote

by Anonymousreply 220February 5, 2018 6:39 PM

Interesting. Check this out!

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by Anonymousreply 221February 5, 2018 6:46 PM

Thanks 221. Are Native Mexicans appropriating themselves? Or....is R219 merely mistaken? I forgive you.

by Anonymousreply 222February 5, 2018 6:49 PM

r222, could you please explain how you define 'gender'? Maybe that will help clarify things.

by Anonymousreply 223February 5, 2018 6:53 PM

Classic pose. For all his loving fans.

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by Anonymousreply 224February 5, 2018 6:55 PM

There is no Stonewall without trans women of color. No gay right. No gay marriage. They were the heroes, the first wave pioneers. I thank them for making history!

by Anonymousreply 225February 5, 2018 7:02 PM

Merry Xmas, everyone!

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by Anonymousreply 226February 5, 2018 7:05 PM

Great resource! Thanks CBS News! This should clear things up!

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by Anonymousreply 227February 5, 2018 7:07 PM

So classy. So Scottsdale.

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by Anonymousreply 228February 5, 2018 7:12 PM

r187 Would you fuck KD Lang? Phranc?

by Anonymousreply 229February 5, 2018 7:16 PM

I hate when douche millennias stick their tongue out and doing the middle finger. He really thinks he is a badass for been intolerable. This fake male is giving trans people a bad name. The gays can have him we have enough straight douchewads.

by Anonymousreply 230February 5, 2018 7:17 PM

Mentally ill female.

by Anonymousreply 231February 5, 2018 7:17 PM

[Quote]There is no Stonewall without trans women of color. No gay right. No gay marriage. They were the heroes, the first wave pioneers. I thank them for making history!

You are so full of shit. First of all, people didn't id as transgender back then. Second, most of Stonewall's patrons were white gay men. Third, white gay men have been leading gay organizations and the fight for equality for decades. Now kindly fuck off.

by Anonymousreply 232February 5, 2018 7:19 PM

[Quote]I won’t let you misrepresent history (when you lie about Stonewall), statistics (when you lie about trans murder rate), biology (when you deny it), and I will never support pronoun laws and trans children.

👏👏👏👏

by Anonymousreply 233February 5, 2018 7:22 PM

I survived the era when homosexuality was considered a mental illness. I hate to see gay men turn their backs on their brothers and sisters. Trans rights are human rights.

All the anger on this site is a tragedy. Gay men forget the struggle and the pain. They take their acceptance for granted.

by Anonymousreply 234February 5, 2018 7:23 PM

The hands give it away. Did she get hand surgery yet?

by Anonymousreply 235February 5, 2018 7:23 PM

And.....roll out the cisgender white supremacy. That didn't take long, R232. Turns to race every time for alt-right trolls.

by Anonymousreply 236February 5, 2018 7:26 PM

I’ve never seen a person as enamoured with his middle finger as him.

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by Anonymousreply 237February 5, 2018 7:35 PM

r237 It's a penis substitute.

by Anonymousreply 238February 5, 2018 7:39 PM

Does any group really want to claim him as their own? Can anyone handle this level of desert douche-bro?

Maybe it’s best if we agree he’s a straight bio male and let them deal with this...

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by Anonymousreply 239February 5, 2018 7:43 PM

Sylvia Rivera. Trans Stonewall veteran getting painting at National Portrait Gallery at Smithsonian. I guess the white supremacists on DL are in denial? Or actively deceiving others? For what purpose?

by Anonymousreply 240February 5, 2018 8:06 PM

*applauding r219*

You said that beautifully. They are very strict about gender stereotypes.

Why are MtT always parodies of femininity? Where are the MtT wearing overalls and short hair like real women do? Where are the MtT who go about barefaced in yoga pants and flip-flops the way real women do?

I know very few women who dress the way MtT do; very few who wear as much makeup and jewelry. It’s insulting that their idea of being a woman is reduced to giant stiletto heels and bad implants. That’s all we are to them.

by Anonymousreply 241February 5, 2018 8:19 PM

It's time for the trans to have their own TGTOW movement instead of them taking over both the gay and women's movements. The things that are of the most interest to trans advocates have little relevance to LGB people and women and most of what they are advocating is actually harmful for LGB people and women.

How is it in the interest of women to have men in dresses invading their safe spaces (bathrooms, locker rooms, women's shelters)? How do women benefit from sidelining talk about birth control and reproductive rights so that trans don't feel excluded? We have biological males competing with girls and women athletics so that real girls and women don't stand a chance of winning their own sporting events. How is that good for girls and women?

As if that wasn't enough they are taking little girls and boys who are not gender conforming and they are telling them that they are trans, further reinforcing gender stereotypes. They are subjecting them to medical interventions that are permanent, irreversible, and have not even been studied long term! Physical and mental damage is being done to these children, most of whom are likely gay and gay people are supposed to support this?

I believe in treating people with kindness and respect (at least until they demonstrate they don't deserve it...) and I have a lot of compassion for the non-activist trans people who are quietly just trying to do what they think is right for themselves, but in general I can't support this movement. It's anti-women and anti-LGB

by Anonymousreply 242February 5, 2018 8:28 PM

So when the trans allies say we want erase the T from LGBT, they would be correct.

I've seen such resistance here when this erasure is pointed out. And yet here we are.

I support my trans brothers and sisters. There is not LGBT without them.

by Anonymousreply 243February 5, 2018 8:39 PM

She looks great, except for the fact that she has a vagina, I’d have no clue.

I’d be very disappointed to start hanging out with him, and find out that we both have vaginas. I don’t want to date a man with a vagina. Just like I don’t want to date a man with boobs. If I were a gay man, even a top, I’d want to see a penis. If I were a lesbian, If want a butch or femme lesbian who had her vagina a boobs, and looked like a woman, regardless of being femme or butch.

As a straight woman who is sexually active, I need a man with a working, real penis. Why would I want a man with a vagina? It makes zero sense for a gay man or a straight woman, to end up with a man who has a real vagina.

by Anonymousreply 244February 5, 2018 8:49 PM

R244 has missed the point. Enjoying 1955, honey? Another MAGA troll.

by Anonymousreply 245February 5, 2018 8:53 PM

Fuck off r245, she hasn't missed the point at all, as a fucking straight woman she wants a dude with a cock. Go dilate.

by Anonymousreply 246February 5, 2018 8:57 PM

Hey R246, dear sweet angel. 244 misgendered Wes. Then made it all about birth anatomy.

That, my dear gentle friend, is missing the point. Your coarse language reveals your weakness.

by Anonymousreply 247February 5, 2018 9:12 PM

So what's the deal with this chick? Did she get a fake peen or what?

by Anonymousreply 248February 5, 2018 9:28 PM

Bump for Wes. We love him.

by Anonymousreply 249February 5, 2018 10:01 PM

R245, R247. I haven’t misgendered anything. And if you feel that I did based on your interpretation or perception of this, then I suppose I did.

But here’s the deal: I am of the opinion that this is a psychological disorder. I have nothing to back that up. It’s just an opinion that I, and others hold.

I don’t understand how you are able to take out the very premise of anatomy and biology from your point of view. The point of this thread, and the question proposed by OP is whether or not this person looks FtM. The answer to that is : no, not at first sight vis a photograph.

If this person were to take photos of themselves, while disrobed, the answer would be: yes!

The idea that a man can transition and become a woman, or that a woman can become a man, is a delusion that is being forced down every rational and logical persons’ throats.

Just because you think you’re a woman doesn’t make you one. Nether does thinking that you are a man, however, are a woman. You and a million people can contradict this with me until the end of time, however, at the end of the day, only one of us is right, with an exception to hermaphroditism. Trans is a social construct, but it is not a biological reality, because one’s true sex is impossible to change with hormones or social norms.

All of the above being said, I am not opposed to sharing spaces with trans, whether it be a public restroom, or other things. Trans men and women should be protected under the law, just like other groups.

by Anonymousreply 250February 5, 2018 10:16 PM

Because sexism and homophobia are at the root of trans, R95. That and the pharma indu$try are the engines behind Trans Inc.

by Anonymousreply 251February 5, 2018 10:29 PM

Tucker seems to think smoking cigarettes & vaping e-cigs will help him look “cool”.

He keeps blowing smoke like a chimney on his IG.

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by Anonymousreply 252February 5, 2018 10:35 PM

Science weighs in.

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by Anonymousreply 253February 5, 2018 10:38 PM

Very important study. Scientists ahead of DL. I'm shocked. Leave the 20th Century behind, dears.

So R250, you are entitled to your own opinion, but not your own facts.

by Anonymousreply 254February 5, 2018 10:42 PM

If we thought millennials were bad the generation after them is going to be even more fucked up.

by Anonymousreply 255February 5, 2018 10:42 PM

Improving the air quality inside his car.

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by Anonymousreply 256February 5, 2018 10:44 PM

He is a hottie.

by Anonymousreply 257February 5, 2018 10:46 PM

She was a cute sporty girl

transmania is responsible for this

these young people are not being helped

It is all about eliminating androgynous girls/women or boys/men. It is all about eliminating homosexuality.

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by Anonymousreply 258February 5, 2018 10:46 PM

I was reading a thread about Jazz on some other forum and someone said their mom had problems with gay people and then they saw Chaz Bono on dancing with the stars and the person explained to their mom that Chaz was now a heterosexual and the mom is okay with Chaz now.

by Anonymousreply 259February 5, 2018 10:49 PM

He tries to be ironic too. How edgy.

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by Anonymousreply 260February 5, 2018 10:51 PM

Aw, thank you, R257!

Wanna make out? Let me just finish this cig...

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by Anonymousreply 261February 5, 2018 10:55 PM

In all the vaping pictures he looks like a teenage girl especially when the smoke covers some of his face. Why do I still see a female, is it because I read the thread title and I can’t be unbiased now, or is my brain picking up on subtle clues. It’s annoying me actually. I think it’s his eyes but I can’t logically explain what’s different about them.

by Anonymousreply 262February 5, 2018 10:57 PM

No, but I really wouldn't care either.

by Anonymousreply 263February 5, 2018 11:00 PM

[QUOTE]f I were a gay man, even a top, I’d want to see a penis.

You’ll see a penis. It won’t be anything to rave about but neither are most of the ones I’ve seen on “real” men.

by Anonymousreply 264February 5, 2018 11:18 PM

R253, Not sure what you deem to be science in your link--what it shows is rather than being something innate, gender dysphoria is A) linked to other mental health issues and B) there's an issue with social contagion among teens, who are, of course, particularly susceptible to that.

It's very odd to me how Trans types think that hormones and some clothing changes will turn them into the other sex--or, if it won't--then the idiotic pronouncements that biological sex somehow doesn't really matter/exist.

There are always "tells" with trans individuals--the angle of the jaw, brow ridge, shape of forehead, width of shoulders--particularly in comparison to the hips, angle of the femur to the hip, size of hands. All sorts of things really if you know what to look for.

Our reproductive systems are a big deal--and they're complex. So no, there won't be some magical transformation of wannabes into the other sex. Medicine's not close to that stage. Like so much of trans ideology, that's just magical thinking. In some ways, it's not surprising that in an era where so many people live online that we'd have this kind of mass trans hysteria.

Fortunately, there's begun to be some real pushback by parents of these poor deluded kids. That will help as will popular focus shifting to other groups.

by Anonymousreply 265February 5, 2018 11:19 PM

Still confusing gender with anatomy, eh R265? Your little essays are not advancing your cause.

You continue to miss the point. But it's cute that you try. I bet you think you're smart. That's what makes me laugh.

by Anonymousreply 266February 5, 2018 11:38 PM

Are you saying that trans don't conflate gender with anatomy r266? If that's the case then why did Wes lop off his tits? Why did you get fake ones put on and lop off your dick? You're the one who has "gender" in your title and you seem to think adding or subtracting parts of your anatomy will change said gender, eh dear?

by Anonymousreply 267February 5, 2018 11:51 PM

He needs to get a new gimmick aside from smoking and fingering the camera.

by Anonymousreply 268February 5, 2018 11:58 PM

I see you're still here hours later R266 and still not answering anyone's reasonable, pertinent questions with anything other than word salad. Do carry on, you will no doubt be bringing numerous reading lurkers to peak trans bullshit.

Let me redirect you to my earlier (ignored) question about the harm done to children like Jazz Jennings who are facing adulthood with under developed bodies and a life long medical dependence.

by Anonymousreply 269February 5, 2018 11:59 PM

R254, we are both entitled to our own opinions, but opinions and facts can be the same things, or, as in this case, are two different things.

Opinion: The FtM in OP’s post looks like a male.

Fact: The FtM in OP’s post who looks like a male is not a real, biological, anatomical male, but is indeed a woman, with a uterus, ovaries, and Fallopian tubes.

by Anonymousreply 270February 6, 2018 12:12 AM

"gender" = stereotypes about clothes and behavior about men and women = not real

anatomy, biology = facts, real, science

by Anonymousreply 271February 6, 2018 12:29 AM

go away transys

u have gootten too much attention

go rest in ur trans home

go plan ur next surgery

yet gads

by Anonymousreply 272February 6, 2018 12:43 AM

what fugs wont do to attract attention

hand fug tatts anyone?

git ur face done all tatted up dearie

by Anonymousreply 273February 6, 2018 12:45 AM

I've never met a f to m that didnt act like a redneck .

soo weird.

like get out of my way lady

by Anonymousreply 274February 6, 2018 12:47 AM

R269 and R272 on same transphobic page. Hey if you two are so sure of yourselves....go turn the tide. You're so smart. Go turn the tide.

by Anonymousreply 275February 6, 2018 12:56 AM

turn tide of what?

eating tide pods?

by Anonymousreply 276February 6, 2018 12:59 AM

[quote] the study looked at students in the 9th and 11th grade

[quote] Very important study. Scientists ahead of DL. I'm shocked. Leave the 20th Century behind, dears. So [R250], you are entitled to your own opinion, but not your own facts.

The study @ R253 wasn’t just about Trans kids - it was about “gender-nonconforming” kids in general. This includes kids who reject all gender concepts & labels (which would by implication also reject the T’s gender claims). It’s kids saying they want to be “gender-neutral” (neither girl or boy) and don’t want to refer to others by gender either.

This study is not exactly “science”. It’s a questionnaire for kids in the 9th and 11th grades. The issue is some kids will just complete the questionnaire with stuff they think is funny, cool or edgy.

For instance, in the 90s some school and college girls would claim to be “lesbians”. Many of these girls were actually straight. It was often all talk, to get male attention.

Then in the OOs, a new ‘hip’ trend arose - identifying as “pansexual”. Rejecting the labels “gay” and “straight” and just calling youself “sexual”. That was considered very ‘new-age’, ‘hipster’, ‘spiritual’ and ‘avantgarde’. But it didn’t always reflect reality - people would boast to the world they’re “pansexual”, but in private life they’d be exclusively gay or straight.

There was also a rise in identifying as bisexual - both real and fake. Some ppl thought it’s edgy to call themselves bisexual. Some women also thought just b/c they’d theoretically kiss another female they could claim to be bisexual (when actually they weren’t turned on by pussy and would never perform oral on it).

The current phenomenon in the late 10s is to identify as “gender-nonconformist” (for example, rejecting gender and identifying just as a “human” or “person” - neither girl, nor boy, dropping all labels). Some of the kids seriously feel this way, and some are just playing with these concepts during school b/c it’s a fun & rebellious game to them.

Real “science” and a more conclusive scientific study would be to monitor how many of these kids continue to identify in adulthood as they did in their 9th-grade questionnaire. Will the Genderless kids still continue to identify as “they” instead of “he” / “she”? Will the “gender-fluid” 9th-grader still reject all labels in their 40s? Or will some of them revert to labels over time, as they mature (like many faux-pansexuals)?

by Anonymousreply 277February 6, 2018 1:15 AM

oh maryjane.....

only brain surgery can cure the pan psychopathia of some creatures...

by Anonymousreply 278February 6, 2018 1:26 AM

R266, I actually only wrote that one post--so, no I haven't been writing "little essays".

But, no, no one's ever shown that there's some innate gender identity that's separate from biology. We are biological beings. A male who wears a dress and takes hormones to sprout secondary sexual characteristics doesn't become female. Or a woman.

I see nothing wrong with men who want to wear pink or women who want to wear buzz cuts and a tool belt. It's kind of offensive to me that these rather superficial things should be used to determine whether one is a man or a woman, while basic biological facts are dismissed with the wave of an oversized hand.

Though I don't really care that much about that--but a couple of things concern me--first, there is an issue with social contagion among teens (I've seen it in action), which has serious consequences--there are women who have detransitioned post-masectomy who are now breastless and have permanently altered voices. There are detransitioned males who are now eunuchs. Puberty blockers followed by hormone treatment results in sterility. That's a hell of a thing to do to a minor.

Second, the bathroom/locker room issue needs to be really discussed--there's nothing to keep a perv from identifying as a woman to get access to locker and dressing room. Not cool.

Third, the attempt to censor anyone who questions trans politicial ideology via no-platforming. Not cool. If you're right, you shouldn't fear genuine debate.

Oh, yeah, fourth--an MtoF should not be eligible for female athletic scholarships.

by Anonymousreply 279February 6, 2018 7:22 PM

r279, yes to all of this.

by Anonymousreply 280February 7, 2018 12:04 AM

No I find the F2Ms are usually more convincing than m3fs.

by Anonymousreply 281February 7, 2018 12:06 AM

Wes is a hot boy. Trans deniers here are like the Flat Earthers. Evolution is happening. I like my opposable thumbs and my trans brothers, sisters, and otherkins.

Be brave! Tune out the haters. WE SHALL OVERCOME.

by Anonymousreply 282February 7, 2018 6:21 PM
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by Anonymousreply 283February 7, 2018 6:24 PM

Ha! Yaaaaaaas! Stand up for the T, hiiiinnnnnnny!

by Anonymousreply 284February 7, 2018 7:09 PM

his grindr profile says "no fats no fems" Just as I thought... trash

by Anonymousreply 285February 22, 2018 11:53 AM

Overcome WHAT exactly R282?

by Anonymousreply 286February 22, 2018 12:00 PM

He has no dick op.

by Anonymousreply 287February 22, 2018 1:39 PM

r279, at least the FtM who detransition can get breast implants and they still have their genitalia intact but a dude that snips the penis, there is no return. Unless they an save them are re-attach, Can medicine do that?

by Anonymousreply 288February 22, 2018 1:42 PM

Why do they even try to “pass”....

Why not be T & proud?

Passing is the opposite of being out.

Being out is what protects us...straights need to see us and know us so they can accept us.

Lesbians of the 70s wore buttons that said “we are everywhere”. People should not immediately assume anyone is straight. Nor should they assume everyone is not T.

But the Ts are trying to “pass” rather than be seen.

by Anonymousreply 289February 22, 2018 2:41 PM

Celibacy, r286

Ts shall over cum the cotton ceiling 🙄

by Anonymousreply 290February 22, 2018 2:43 PM
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