What trashy things and trends do they love?
Number 1. Ugly Tank Tops, possibly from Aeropostale or American Eagle.
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What trashy things and trends do they love?
Number 1. Ugly Tank Tops, possibly from Aeropostale or American Eagle.
by Anonymous | reply 275 | February 22, 2020 3:23 PM |
Star tattoos, bad posture
by Anonymous | reply 1 | January 28, 2018 9:17 PM |
that's the best example of gay face i've ever seen!
by Anonymous | reply 2 | January 28, 2018 9:18 PM |
An abundance of tattoos to the extent that one's body looks like an Etch a Sketch come to life.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | January 28, 2018 9:18 PM |
Madonna, Cher, Britney and other trashy pop stars
by Anonymous | reply 4 | January 28, 2018 9:20 PM |
What with the star tattoo ?it's everywhere. Can a straight guy have one ? My fitness coach looks more and more like a young daddy Rocco. Used to be clean and shaven. He has one now. Is very sweet with me ? Always assumed he was straight.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | January 28, 2018 9:22 PM |
Orgies
Atlantis cruises
Circuit parties
by Anonymous | reply 6 | January 28, 2018 9:23 PM |
My last boyfriend was bi and had one, R5.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | January 28, 2018 9:23 PM |
r5 shake his hand and wiggle your index finger, he'll know what that means with his star tattoo. K!
by Anonymous | reply 8 | January 28, 2018 9:24 PM |
R7 what is the meaning behind that tattoo? Or just "oooo that look cool!"?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | January 28, 2018 9:25 PM |
A five-pointed star is the sign of Baphomet.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | January 28, 2018 9:27 PM |
The oeuvre of Andy Cohen.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | January 28, 2018 9:28 PM |
Ubiquitous beard/goatee, spiky haircut, faux tans/spray tans, a general look and feel as if he's been swimming in a toilet full of poo for a few days
by Anonymous | reply 12 | January 28, 2018 9:29 PM |
Musicals. Network Tv, in particular reality TV, televised award ceremonies. Fast food.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | January 28, 2018 9:29 PM |
Only a basic bitch uses the term basic.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | January 28, 2018 9:30 PM |
The bear version, which means bear paws on any and everything.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | January 28, 2018 9:31 PM |
Paints when he bottoms, they love to do that!
by Anonymous | reply 16 | January 28, 2018 9:32 PM |
R14 is that Abercrombie tank top a little too tight?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | January 28, 2018 9:32 PM |
What is baphomet?
by Anonymous | reply 18 | January 28, 2018 9:33 PM |
Tea
by Anonymous | reply 19 | January 28, 2018 9:33 PM |
He actually kisses me on both cheeks now, we don't shake hands anymore
by Anonymous | reply 20 | January 28, 2018 9:34 PM |
LOL!
by Anonymous | reply 21 | January 28, 2018 9:36 PM |
Giggles like a girl.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | January 28, 2018 9:38 PM |
A need to show off their body all the fucking time. Enough with the tank tops and being shirtless.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | January 28, 2018 9:43 PM |
only the BIG gworls think that! r23
by Anonymous | reply 24 | January 28, 2018 9:44 PM |
Those high-pitched nasal voices that make them sound like Peter Brady going through puberty.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | January 28, 2018 9:46 PM |
Talks like a black lady but is a big racist.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | January 28, 2018 9:47 PM |
you cant talk a color, next caaaaase
by Anonymous | reply 27 | January 28, 2018 9:48 PM |
Rupauls Drag Race, although I secretly watch it so I guess I’m kinda basic too.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | January 28, 2018 9:48 PM |
[quote] Talks like a black lady but is a big racist.
Even worse if they look up "thug porn" but say the n-word in public.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | January 28, 2018 9:56 PM |
Meth
Barebacking while high on meth.
Sending hole pics to increasingly unattractive people on Grindr as the hour approaches dawn.
Not putting their age on Grindr profiles, as if anyone will actually be fooled into thinking some leathery-skinned, balding cum dumpster is <30 years old.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | January 28, 2018 10:05 PM |
Young guys wearing Gucci loafers, an Hermès “H” belt, carrying a Louis Vuitton tote/backpack while not having enough money to buy a car and living in a nasty apartment with multiple roommates. Trying too hard and so eastbound to spot and avoid.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | January 28, 2018 10:12 PM |
Dressing like the 40-year-old boy next door.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | January 28, 2018 10:13 PM |
^easy
by Anonymous | reply 33 | January 28, 2018 10:13 PM |
R31 yes, we don't want them to stop doing these things, because it makes them easier to spot and avoid.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | January 28, 2018 10:13 PM |
Lifestyle and fashion entrepreneurship, like a Real Housewife of Wherethefuckever
by Anonymous | reply 35 | January 28, 2018 10:14 PM |
Shopping for those trashy Hollister and A&F tees and tanks when they should really be getting stylish fashion and basics from Gap - of course.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | January 28, 2018 10:15 PM |
Never looking up from their phone.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | January 28, 2018 10:21 PM |
Regularly spends Friday and/or Saturday nights at "the club."
Spends more money on clothes, entertainment, liquor, drugs and travel than pays out in rent/mortgage, has 0 savings.
Shares a 4th floor walkup in Chelsea with 5 other queens in order to have a "fashionable" address.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | January 28, 2018 10:25 PM |
Accepting the most bland and boring porn scenes.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | January 28, 2018 10:32 PM |
by Anonymous | reply 40 | January 28, 2018 10:33 PM |
Hangs out at "the club" with women who refer to their tits as "my girls"
by Anonymous | reply 41 | January 28, 2018 10:37 PM |
r16, ...seriously, I've never heard of anyone painting while bottoming, I guess I've never had a top that inspired me to paint at that very moment.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | January 28, 2018 10:54 PM |
Healthy 401ks. Mortgages. Getting advanced degrees in middle age. Marriage. Kids. Home Depot.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | January 28, 2018 10:57 PM |
Only meal eaten on Sunday: brunch.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | January 28, 2018 11:19 PM |
Prole caps
by Anonymous | reply 45 | January 29, 2018 2:18 AM |
Baseball hats and hoodies in an attempt to appear straight acting.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | January 29, 2018 2:44 AM |
We all know you are speaking from personal experience R30....
by Anonymous | reply 48 | January 29, 2018 2:56 AM |
The word "basic."
by Anonymous | reply 49 | January 29, 2018 2:58 AM |
[quote]Talks like a black lady but is a big racist.
[quote]Even worse if they look up "thug porn" but say the n-word in public.
Or in private or online.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | January 29, 2018 3:06 AM |
Despite the smiles those two look like they’d be really mean to people they view beneath their station in the gay social pecking order.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | January 29, 2018 3:18 AM |
they drive a Ford Fusion or a Hyundai. Racist, tin tin haircuts, always behind the curve with last year’s music and clothes, wedges the fact they are a manger at their retail establishment when it’s totally off topic, sprays on half a bottle of dated cologne, smoke Newport’s, claims that they don’t really like the club scene yet are at several clubs per night, rude to the ‘help’, eat at Ruby Tuesday’s and drinks the colored drinks, flakey, jealous, disloyal, and does every drug in the book.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | January 29, 2018 3:39 AM |
Knee pads that dispense wipes and lube.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | January 29, 2018 3:47 AM |
[quote]sprays on half a bottle of dated cologne
"Fragrance."
To that you can add "product."
by Anonymous | reply 55 | January 29, 2018 4:17 AM |
by Anonymous | reply 56 | January 29, 2018 4:20 AM |
r53 is typing from 1997.
Neat trick!
by Anonymous | reply 57 | January 29, 2018 7:10 AM |
Clothing too tight, and one size too small... Short suit jackets and blazers, Thom Brown -style floods, pant legs rolled up, hard-soled dress shoes sans socks, too much hair product, frosted highlights in their hair, thumb rings, and hideous tattoos.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | January 29, 2018 7:27 AM |
And/or from Florida, r57.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | January 29, 2018 7:39 AM |
How true R59.... Or quite possibly a few other "choice" locations in the south!
by Anonymous | reply 60 | January 29, 2018 7:43 AM |
Cargo shorts
by Anonymous | reply 61 | January 29, 2018 7:49 AM |
Prada
by Anonymous | reply 62 | January 29, 2018 8:20 AM |
Best insight into the world of GBBs: Tommy DiDario's Instagram account, so beloved of this site.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | January 29, 2018 12:56 PM |
Chiclet teeth
by Anonymous | reply 64 | January 29, 2018 5:19 PM |
Waxes their hole before going to the sex club.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | January 29, 2018 8:26 PM |
Feigned ennui.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | January 29, 2018 8:53 PM |
Rupaul’s Drag Race
Real Housewives of Wherever
Tweeting about Celebrity Big Brother
Eurovision
Having roommates
by Anonymous | reply 68 | January 29, 2018 8:58 PM |
Smokes cigarettes - immediate trash identifier
by Anonymous | reply 69 | January 29, 2018 8:59 PM |
They glaze over when you aren't talking about them.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | January 29, 2018 9:07 PM |
[quote] What with the star tattoo ?it's everywhere. Can a straight guy have one ? My fitness coach looks more and more like a young daddy Rocco. Used to be clean and shaven. He has one now. Is very sweet with me ? Always assumed he was straight.
Six point star means he's a Jew. But peek in the washroom after your class. If he's uncut he's not.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | January 29, 2018 9:35 PM |
Not always R72... Can't be relying on that as definitive.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | January 30, 2018 2:32 PM |
OP, you should have titled this thread, "things other bottoms do that I don't like".
by Anonymous | reply 74 | February 3, 2018 2:39 PM |
Loud tank tops are atrocious and are the new silk Versace shirts of the 90s.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | February 20, 2018 6:57 PM |
Old gay men dress like a teenager = disgusting
by Anonymous | reply 76 | February 20, 2018 7:00 PM |
Thick necklaces and anklets.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | February 20, 2018 7:04 PM |
I never really encountered this type until I was invited to some random pride BBQ. The queens fit all of the above descriptions. Everyone was in a tank top that looked cheap, and a few were wrapped up in some Sophie’s choice between tank tops with their friends helping them decide. I don’t know why they even cared what they wore because they wouldn’t actually go to the parade. They were too busy gossiping about everyone & were “saving up” for the whole night out (energy or money - I don’t know. Maybe coke?).
There were no eaten carbs anywhere. There were full boxes / bags of brownies and cookies and hot dog buns etc. all they did was drink & have half of a hamburger (I think they found a straight guy or lesbian to turn on the grill - and squealed when fire came up).
They had absolutely no ability to have a conversation beyond saying what their names were. Oh perhaps they could say where they lived and what they did for work...but even that was like pulling teeth.
They all had the tats and the tans and the eyebrow tweezing etc. I was just grossed out and wanted to leave as soon as possible.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | February 20, 2018 7:27 PM |
Oh I forgot the massive lineup of empty liquor bottles - like a teenager with sports trophies (perhaps that is what they were making up for?)... but then oddly, Chopin vodka and Grey Goose (full bottles) were on these same shelves... out of reach, while Smirnoff was being served. Like - bitch are you seriously creating a tier system in your own damn apartment? Do I need to pay a $5 upcharge not to drink that Russian swill?
I think 4 people lived there too - in a nasty old 2 bedroom with peeling paint and peeling wood floor varnish....
and no hand soap or towel in the bathroom... mmhmm...
by Anonymous | reply 79 | February 20, 2018 7:43 PM |
R78 & 79 ur right. Those r the worst. I never want to b near them under any circumstances
by Anonymous | reply 80 | February 20, 2018 7:45 PM |
80 responses and no one has mentioned Starbucks? It's the first thing I thought of.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | February 20, 2018 8:06 PM |
Having your picture taken as the "hottest guy in the bar"
And then linking to it on your IG, FB, etc.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | February 20, 2018 8:47 PM |
Rainbow flag accessories, necklaces, bracelets, t shirts socks, this was back in the day.
cheap cologne
plastic flip flops
by Anonymous | reply 83 | February 20, 2018 9:43 PM |
r79 But I bet they were all wearing their Etro Merlino Printed Shirts.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | February 20, 2018 10:08 PM |
Thinking RuPaul and Drag Race are the height of culture. Tragic.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | February 20, 2018 10:12 PM |
They usually date their twin. They even wear the tank tops and shit like that into their 50s or (god forbid) their 60s. A lot of times, they look older than they think do.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | February 20, 2018 10:13 PM |
R78, was this in Toronto? It sounds like basic gays from Toronto.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | February 20, 2018 10:16 PM |
This thread makes me feel a whole lot better about being an out of shape dork.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | February 20, 2018 10:21 PM |
they talk in GIFS, 80% from DragRace, 20% Wendy Williams
by Anonymous | reply 89 | February 20, 2018 10:27 PM |
They still care about Britney, who basically shouted to the world in 2008 that she was a useless nutjob.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | February 20, 2018 10:30 PM |
They think Call Me By Your Name is a masterpiece (both the mediocre movie and the atrocious novel)
by Anonymous | reply 91 | February 20, 2018 10:39 PM |
I'm always on the hunt for a beach tank to rock!
by Anonymous | reply 92 | February 20, 2018 10:51 PM |
R91 unfortunately only the intellectuals can appreciate the movie. I understand where ur coming from 😂
by Anonymous | reply 93 | February 20, 2018 10:55 PM |
They have 50K plus followers on Instagram for being half-naked and a high school degree.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | February 20, 2018 10:55 PM |
The use of "bitch," "beeatch" "gurl" "like" and "cocktails" all said above normal volume while on their phone in the mall.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | February 20, 2018 11:02 PM |
Basic Gay Twitter is obsessed with Carly Rae Jepsen.
I don’t get it.
by Anonymous | reply 96 | February 20, 2018 11:03 PM |
Speaking of Toronto basic bitches, I still shudder when I think of a get together my partner and I were invited to, in spite of knowing the host only marginally: an ugly, nondescript row townhouse in East York, dinner catered from Ho Lee Chow, being subjected to the soundtrack of some shitty jukebox musical (Mamma Mia) while sitting in the garden waiting for the food delivery, followed by the viewing party for some shitty CW show... A bunch of annoying elderqueens squealing over some slab of meat on that show. Also, I'm assuming the host was the first one in the family who graduated from university since his diploma (business degree from York) was framed and displayed very prominently. I mean, it was surreal and not in a good way.
by Anonymous | reply 97 | February 20, 2018 11:15 PM |
Overly shaped eyebrows - guaranteed to turn the hottest of men into a complete dickwilter.
by Anonymous | reply 98 | February 20, 2018 11:44 PM |
Keep ‘em coming! Mainly so I know what to avoid doing, really.
by Anonymous | reply 99 | February 20, 2018 11:53 PM |
Makes fun of fatties, though he is becoming one.
by Anonymous | reply 100 | February 20, 2018 11:57 PM |
R87 - that all happened in Chicago.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | February 20, 2018 11:59 PM |
I love the term "basic bitch"
by Anonymous | reply 102 | February 21, 2018 12:24 AM |
The basic bitches in stories all sound like DC gays.
by Anonymous | reply 103 | February 21, 2018 1:08 AM |
Wearing anything rainbow outside of a Pride parade 🏳️🌈
by Anonymous | reply 104 | February 21, 2018 1:22 AM |
Air finger snaps....especially if followed by
by Anonymous | reply 105 | February 21, 2018 1:25 AM |
I third on that wearing gay rainbow paraphernalia is atrocious. The rainbow flag has become the trashy gays equivalent of white trash and the Confederate flag minus the hatred and racism.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | February 21, 2018 2:24 AM |
Any gay get together viewing party of a gay TV series or series popular with gay men—especially if there is any kind of related theme associated with it.
I once turned down a SATC movie viewing party where they were all going drink appletinis and mimosas together while watching. The thought of being trapped in a room with a bunch of cackling nellies with shit cocktails for 2 hours made me want to run.
by Anonymous | reply 107 | February 21, 2018 3:10 AM |
Cheesy gay novels the dumb queens treat like actual literature
by Anonymous | reply 108 | February 21, 2018 3:18 AM |
Doesn't read anything but trashy gay beach reads or self-help books.
Watches reality TV and talks about it all the time.
by Anonymous | reply 109 | February 21, 2018 3:19 AM |
Posting a picture on Instagram announcing/ celebrating a weeks or months-long anniversary with a couple photo and a long mushy dedication as if you’ve been together for years.
A straight friend showed me one of a co-worker celebrating his relationship’s 10-month anniversary.
I responded, “Happy Anniversary?! At 10 months? More like Happy Future Open Relationship!”
by Anonymous | reply 110 | February 21, 2018 3:30 AM |
Classic Gay Basic Bitch Signifiers:
1. He’s over the age of 30, and is hitting the gay bars every weekend, without fail. His entire social life revolves around going to gay bars, socializing at gay bars, and hooking up at gay bars.
2. He wears cheap, ill fitting clothing. There’s a stereotype that gay men are obsessed with fashion and dressing to impress, but for the basic bitch, this just isn’t the case. From his stretched, poly-cotton vests worn over faded, ill-fitting button downs,bell bottom jeans, and square toe boots, he looks like a caricature out of 2004. And these are his “best clothes”.
3. He gossips like a 12 year-old girl. He’s constantly trash talking his “friends” behind their backs, spreading vicious rumors, and causing drama. He loves confrontation and manufacturing situations where he can stand back and watch an argument take place. The basic bitch doesn’t just live in drama, he lives FOR drama.
4. He’s over 30 and has no skills, no career, and no prospects. He may work in retail, a service industry job, or some other low-paying, low-skill line of work. He has little to no desire to better himself, earn more money, or improve his station in life.
5. He regularly partakes in drug binges. Before going to the bar. At the bar. At after parties. These illicet substances may include a combination of meth, opioids, cocaine, and/or marijuana.
6. He’s constantly bashing other men for their alleged “nellyness”, while he himself flames from space. He just doesn’t realize just how girly he comes across, broadcasting to everyone, even in the most mundane of social interactions, that he’s the one taking it up the ass.
by Anonymous | reply 112 | February 21, 2018 3:44 AM |
R112 has a degree in sociology or anthropology... or at least a minor in it... I mean, come on - that was too good.
by Anonymous | reply 113 | February 21, 2018 3:57 AM |
This is one the best Datalounge threads ever.
It needs to be pointed out to the Fraus who say we only hate women.
by Anonymous | reply 114 | February 21, 2018 4:11 AM |
Just another anti-gay thread.
by Anonymous | reply 115 | February 21, 2018 4:13 AM |
Ha - we hate ourselves so much more astutely!
by Anonymous | reply 116 | February 21, 2018 4:13 AM |
R97 that whole scenario saddens me. Who would show up to that hellscape?
R51, the two in the pic in the OP's post are on a pecking order? Them? They both seem like sales bottoms.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | February 21, 2018 4:31 AM |
Trashes other gays on DL.
by Anonymous | reply 118 | February 21, 2018 4:37 AM |
R37 - Only when they see you in their peripheral vision.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | February 21, 2018 4:37 AM |
R112 Very well-said.
by Anonymous | reply 120 | February 21, 2018 4:48 AM |
R118 it's called Gay-Shaming
by Anonymous | reply 121 | February 21, 2018 4:49 AM |
The two in the photo: guy on the left came out of the closet and divorced his wife that he has two kids with. He is now tying to relive his 20s at 40. Guy on left is his boyfriend he met online. They spend their vacations traveling to white parties, taking designer drugs and hooking up with other guys as a couple. They go out to the clubs all the time, even on Monday night.
by Anonymous | reply 122 | February 21, 2018 4:49 AM |
People who have nothing to contribute to a conversation, so they turn a subject that other people are enjoying to eating ass or bottoming.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | February 21, 2018 5:00 AM |
R76 - That's not only Gay Basic Bitches, that's most of Data Lounge. The reactions I get when I suggest men over 40 stop wearing blue jeans, and wear Dockers, is almost vicious.
by Anonymous | reply 125 | February 21, 2018 5:01 AM |
R124....essentially right on cue.
by Anonymous | reply 126 | February 21, 2018 5:02 AM |
R124 - I hope that's a hairy ass crack, and not something else.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | February 21, 2018 5:05 AM |
enough shit in their "fancy" andrew christians to frost a cake with!
by Anonymous | reply 128 | February 21, 2018 5:12 AM |
r125 WHY would anyone wear Dockers?
by Anonymous | reply 129 | February 21, 2018 5:15 AM |
R129 - To not bring attention to your body. Blue jeans are designed to bring attention to your crotch, and ass. NO ONE wants to see that on your old, repulsive, saggy body. Thanks for asking.
by Anonymous | reply 130 | February 21, 2018 5:26 AM |
R130 LOL....enjoy your ugly old man baggy dad clothes, Pops!!!
by Anonymous | reply 131 | February 21, 2018 6:08 AM |
Some gay look like italian guys
by Anonymous | reply 132 | February 21, 2018 6:34 AM |
I can put up with a lot of Gay Basic Bitch stuff, but if he talks nonstop about Real Housewives, we're done.
by Anonymous | reply 133 | February 21, 2018 6:56 AM |
R131 - Here's the part that you just don't get - you are an old man. A deluded old man, but, an old man regardless. Read R76 again. You old queens at this site are as bad as Madonna. You're 20 years beyond trying to dress 'sexy'. Try to dress dignified. And that means Dockers.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | February 21, 2018 7:29 AM |
Block people on DL
by Anonymous | reply 135 | February 21, 2018 7:35 AM |
Copy all those aforementioned black woman mannerisms; jump when encountering a homophobic black person.
by Anonymous | reply 136 | February 21, 2018 7:40 AM |
So can we agree R112 is a classic gay bitch?
by Anonymous | reply 137 | February 21, 2018 2:14 PM |
I once stole a brassiere out of the laundry room of my building. It belonged to the special-ed niece of one of my new neighbors. lol
by Anonymous | reply 138 | February 21, 2018 2:28 PM |
I’m in my 30s and will be wearing jeans until I die. They are not teenager clothes and look good in most causal situations. When I wear pants, all I ever wear are jeans or suit pants, and that’s all I ever will.
I stopped wearing shredded jeans in my 20s, but good denim looks better than khaki.
by Anonymous | reply 139 | February 21, 2018 5:46 PM |
R112 is a classic gay bitch.
by Anonymous | reply 140 | February 21, 2018 9:05 PM |
Even worse, R112 is a petty Datalounger of the highest order. What a bitch!
by Anonymous | reply 141 | February 21, 2018 9:08 PM |
Could we add where we're from when we type descriptions? It would be more interesting to the readers.
(Also, I kind of like R66's shoes.)
Carry on!
by Anonymous | reply 142 | February 21, 2018 9:18 PM |
^the problem is not the shoes, it's the sock-less style.
by Anonymous | reply 143 | February 21, 2018 9:21 PM |
R143, oh, okay.
I don't know--as a lesbian, I know I'm hopelessly unfashionable, but I kind of like the look.
Question for the fashionable: right now, pants being cut as short as they are, you really think it's nice-looking to see 5 or more inches of sock?
by Anonymous | reply 144 | February 21, 2018 9:25 PM |
Tribal tattoos- the epitome of basic
by Anonymous | reply 145 | February 21, 2018 9:26 PM |
obvious vocal fry, chinstrap, back pocket chain
by Anonymous | reply 146 | February 21, 2018 9:29 PM |
Do they now say “hunnnny”? Or has it been going on for a while? I heard it for the first time recently. Grow the fuck up.
by Anonymous | reply 147 | February 21, 2018 9:31 PM |
R113 and R114: so easily impressed. R112 describes his co-worker at the MAC make-up counter and suddenly he's got a "degree in sociology or anthropology"? I can only wonder what sort of education YOU have.
by Anonymous | reply 148 | February 21, 2018 9:46 PM |
I clearly struck a nerve with my R140, R141, and R148 who see themselves the qualities I so eloquently described.
by Anonymous | reply 149 | February 21, 2018 9:51 PM |
Use of the word 'fierce' naming yourself Food God
by Anonymous | reply 150 | February 21, 2018 9:53 PM |
I AM NOT FAT, R100!
by Anonymous | reply 151 | February 21, 2018 10:16 PM |
I'm 54 and I LOVE my Calvins!!!!
I'm also wearing a Tom of Finland t-shirt and some raaaaaaal sexy 2 Exist underpannies!!!
by Anonymous | reply 152 | February 22, 2018 5:51 AM |
R152 - Anthony Varrecchia? The sexy legend in his own mind?
by Anonymous | reply 153 | February 22, 2018 6:06 AM |
Kim kuntrashian, paris hilton and dozens other talentless trashy cunt sluts, Beyoncé, rihanna, shitney and other no talents pop tarts.
by Anonymous | reply 154 | February 22, 2018 6:21 AM |
Truvada. 🤦🏽♂️🤷♀️🙅🏽♀️🧟♂️🧟♀️
by Anonymous | reply 155 | February 22, 2018 6:36 AM |
Stats:
Toned
Vers Bottom
Negative, On PrEP
Profile: No pic no chat
Message history Hi Fun? Pics?
by Anonymous | reply 156 | February 22, 2018 6:40 AM |
ADDICTED Jockstraps
by Anonymous | reply 157 | February 22, 2018 12:24 PM |
[quote]Try to dress dignified. And that means Dockers.
It's true that Dockers don't say "aging gay male trying desperately to look hip." They say "suburban insurance salesman whose wife complains if he doesn't mow the lawn and who's never done anything but missionary position."
by Anonymous | reply 158 | February 23, 2018 2:49 AM |
If an interior designer, it is basic to have my picture taken without shoes. We love to show off our feet. Why ? Who the fuck knows. Oh, and when we do wear shoes, please, no socks.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | February 23, 2018 3:01 AM |
Gay basic ? Gay basic has some infinity scarves in his wardrobe.
by Anonymous | reply 161 | February 23, 2018 3:03 AM |
Gay basic has had highlighted hair somewhere in his past if not currently.
by Anonymous | reply 162 | February 23, 2018 3:05 AM |
Oh my. This is the saddest picture I think I've ever seen. R161
by Anonymous | reply 163 | February 23, 2018 3:06 AM |
Gay basic is a poser and makes 'macho' faces.
by Anonymous | reply 164 | February 23, 2018 3:06 AM |
Gay basic would never admit that he's as vain as Zoolander.
by Anonymous | reply 165 | February 23, 2018 3:07 AM |
Gay basic thinks he's better looking than 99% of his friends.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | February 23, 2018 3:09 AM |
You forgot the instant head turn and look away when an average or unattractive person tries to meet their gaze . If it is an eldergay it is followed by ducking behind something to hide . Like I am really going to play hide and seek with you dude.
The honest and sad truth is at 21 years old in 1980 I was guilty of these same crimes .
by Anonymous | reply 167 | February 23, 2018 3:11 AM |
They watch shitty CW shows and listen to shitty pop music (Taylor Swift, One Direction) that is meant for teenage girls. Adult men who are into shit like this are just sad.
by Anonymous | reply 168 | February 23, 2018 3:12 AM |
Works retail but acts like he’s an heiress getting through a bad patch
by Anonymous | reply 169 | February 23, 2018 3:14 AM |
Lip syncs Britney Spears songs complete with memorized dance choreography from the music videos
by Anonymous | reply 170 | February 23, 2018 3:18 AM |
Chris Pine constantly wears dress pants/shoes with no socks. Does that mean he's a basic gay??
by Anonymous | reply 171 | February 23, 2018 3:18 AM |
Always travels in packs of 6-10 best friends to gay destinations but is completely lonely and dead inside.
by Anonymous | reply 172 | February 23, 2018 3:38 AM |
R171
Do the math
by Anonymous | reply 173 | February 23, 2018 3:40 AM |
Sophia Lamar gave us a pretty good list in her song Shitty Faggot years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | February 23, 2018 3:41 AM |
R171 Have you heard of loafers socks before? They are VERY common.
by Anonymous | reply 175 | February 23, 2018 3:46 AM |
Those look like aqua socks
by Anonymous | reply 176 | February 23, 2018 3:47 AM |
Loafers socks are basically the same as no socks with dress pants/dress shoes.
by Anonymous | reply 177 | February 23, 2018 3:50 AM |
r175, gurl, we do not need you show off your ankles while you have pants on. That strip of skin is not turning anyone on. Just put on some real socks.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | February 23, 2018 3:58 AM |
[quote]The honest and sad truth is at 21 years old in 1980 I was guilty of these same crimes . —Karma and Age gets you in the end
So this.
by Anonymous | reply 179 | February 23, 2018 4:24 AM |
So the guys in the OP’s pic are just randos? (Is it basic to say ‘rando’?) The one on the left looks vaguely familiar.
by Anonymous | reply 180 | February 23, 2018 4:34 AM |
They are homoclones we all know at least ten guys who look just like this
by Anonymous | reply 181 | February 23, 2018 7:52 AM |
Posting gifs of yourself twerking or yelling/typing YASSS QUEEN!!! as a response to anything
by Anonymous | reply 182 | February 23, 2018 9:40 AM |
Who is this Dockers troll doling out fashion dos and don'ts? I mean, really.
by Anonymous | reply 183 | February 23, 2018 9:45 AM |
His pussy stinks, too.
by Anonymous | reply 184 | February 23, 2018 10:32 PM |
HAIR TIP FROSTING. It looked ugly then, and it still looks ugly now.
Flitting about. Never in the here moment.
Terrible taste in music. But, MOST gays have terrible taste in music.
by Anonymous | reply 185 | February 23, 2018 11:31 PM |
R185? Most people have terrible taste in music. But gays are over represented in most things having to do with great music.
by Anonymous | reply 186 | February 24, 2018 12:23 AM |
Love this thread. It should be dedicated to Billy Graham. RIP, good sir.
by Anonymous | reply 187 | February 24, 2018 12:27 AM |
[quote]MOST gays have terrible taste in music.
This has been true since I came out in the '70s. I wonder why gays supposedly have better taste than the population at large.
by Anonymous | reply 188 | February 24, 2018 12:35 AM |
[quote]Terrible taste in music. But, MOST gays have terrible taste in music.
MOST straight people have terrible taste in music.
by Anonymous | reply 189 | February 24, 2018 12:37 AM |
r187 we can critique within our own group. I suggest you go on Youtube and watch Chris Rock's classic "Black People vs. Nig----" routine to get the picture.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | February 24, 2018 12:38 AM |
I haven't worn socks when not required since childhood.
by Anonymous | reply 191 | February 24, 2018 12:39 AM |
I thought no socks with shoes was a Florida/California thing and not a "gay thing."
by Anonymous | reply 192 | February 24, 2018 12:41 AM |
God bless Billy Graham, R190!
by Anonymous | reply 193 | February 24, 2018 12:42 AM |
It's not a gay thing, r192. And I'm from North Jersey.
by Anonymous | reply 194 | February 24, 2018 12:44 AM |
Fran Lebowitz explained that AIDS wiped out so many gay men of discerning taste and culture that it left a void, and gave rise to so much of the pop culture garbage we have today. She argued that not only did AIDS decimate the arts, but it also wiped out a discerning audience of tastemakers who not only shaped the culture but were also not around to mentor younger generations of gay men. We have never recovered from that loss.
Exhibit A: Andy Cohen.
by Anonymous | reply 195 | February 24, 2018 12:53 AM |
It was a preppy thing R192, strictly New England.
by Anonymous | reply 196 | February 24, 2018 1:11 AM |
Frankly, Frannie was right.
by Anonymous | reply 197 | February 24, 2018 1:32 AM |
R168, You’re very wrong about the CW shows. They are fantastic and all my friends watch them.
R186, sometimes you bump into a gay guy with bad music taste, but overall we like MUCH better music than straight people. How many straight people do you know that can sing the entire scores of Follies, Sunday in the Park, Caroline or Change, Most Happy Fella, The Rink and Mack and Mabel?
by Anonymous | reply 198 | February 24, 2018 9:44 AM |
[quote]Paints when he bottoms, they love to do that!
I don't understand this.
by Anonymous | reply 199 | February 24, 2018 10:38 AM |
[quote]How many straight people do you know that can sing the entire scores of Follies, Sunday in the Park, Caroline or Change, Most Happy Fella, The Rink and Mack and Mabel?
I don't know any people, period, who can do all of that.
by Anonymous | reply 200 | February 24, 2018 11:51 AM |
They shriek "Damn that autocorrect!" ten times a day, as if it is the one making mistakes, but they don't turn it off.
by Anonymous | reply 201 | February 24, 2018 12:03 PM |
I thought painting while you bottom is a scat fetish reference
by Anonymous | reply 202 | February 24, 2018 3:58 PM |
Enough ^^.
by Anonymous | reply 203 | February 24, 2018 4:02 PM |
100% support the khaki and the full sock trolls. Please, for the love of god, dress your age. Trying to look younger is extremely unattractive. No one ever says it out loud, but people 100% make fun of old guys in tight jeans, with tall hair, and stinking of excess cologne (or worse yet perfume).
by Anonymous | reply 204 | February 24, 2018 4:15 PM |
Probably already brought up but I feel like every time I see a Midwest gay he has frosted tips
by Anonymous | reply 205 | February 24, 2018 4:18 PM |
Not wearing socks has nothing to do with age. And no one of any age should "stink of cologne (or worse yet, perfume)."
by Anonymous | reply 206 | February 24, 2018 4:21 PM |
You don’t have to wear dockers to dress your age
by Anonymous | reply 207 | February 24, 2018 4:31 PM |
You’re right R207. I’m sure you look great in your Diesel jeans.
by Anonymous | reply 208 | February 24, 2018 4:38 PM |
I wear neither dockers nor jeans...
by Anonymous | reply 209 | February 24, 2018 4:41 PM |
the anti-jeans trolls are crazy. Jeans look good on everyone
by Anonymous | reply 210 | February 24, 2018 8:10 PM |
Miss R148, I have a PhD from a school you'd NEVAH get into. I graded literally hundreds of social science papers from undergrads at that school as well. Organized, detailed, well-phrased thoughts (without run-ons, repetition, or wordiness) was rare to see, even at a school requiring the top 5% in SAT scores. Now eat me.
by Anonymous | reply 211 | February 24, 2018 8:15 PM |
Listens to Lana Del Rey
by Anonymous | reply 212 | February 24, 2018 8:30 PM |
[quote] You’re very wrong about the CW shows. They are fantastic and all my friends watch them.
The collective IQ in that room must be, oh, around 100?
by Anonymous | reply 213 | February 24, 2018 8:46 PM |
Spikey hair of any kind. It is now 2018. Ditch it, basic bitches.
by Anonymous | reply 214 | February 24, 2018 8:56 PM |
They look to Lance Bass for lifestyle and fashion guidance.
by Anonymous | reply 215 | February 24, 2018 9:05 PM |
Anyone who was in a relationship with Reichen.
by Anonymous | reply 216 | February 24, 2018 9:05 PM |
[quote]the anti-jeans trolls are crazy. Jeans look good on everyone
It really is rather bizarre. They might have a point about someone always insisting on wearing the latest fashionable jeans. But it's pretty silly to pretend that an older guy wearing a pair of Wranglers because that's what he wore to work year after year is somehow just too, too terrible. And suggesting that he switch to Dockers?! Really? That's just bizarre.
As for me, I still wear the same style of jeans I've been wearing for a few decades and I will continue to wear them, not because I think they make me look young (god knows, nothing could do that) but because they're comfortable, because I have no desire to go buy an "old man's" wardrobe, and because I don't really give a rats ass what people like that think.
If that makes them less likely to want to get to know me, that's a plus, as far as I'm concerned. We both dodged a bullet.
by Anonymous | reply 217 | February 24, 2018 9:12 PM |
Clearly, this guy didn't get the memo. I'm sure our jeans troll above will recoil in horror. The rest of us will be just fine, as will he.
by Anonymous | reply 218 | February 24, 2018 9:18 PM |
Thank you r218. The jeans troll is now clutching her pearls on his fainting couch.
by Anonymous | reply 219 | February 24, 2018 9:31 PM |
Is that couch upholstered in denim, r219?
by Anonymous | reply 220 | February 25, 2018 12:46 AM |
R217, you said it. I agree with every word. And thank you, R218 for the visual.
by Anonymous | reply 221 | February 25, 2018 4:24 AM |
The guy on the left reminds me of Aaron Schock, and looks like he may have had a hair lip.
by Anonymous | reply 222 | February 25, 2018 6:21 AM |
Dockers are hideous and no one should ever wear them.
by Anonymous | reply 223 | February 25, 2018 6:29 AM |
It's true, gay men have really bad taste in music. More of my straight friends have way better taste in music.
Yes, Dockers are gross.
by Anonymous | reply 224 | February 25, 2018 10:11 AM |
I have never worn a Docker. What is hideous/gross about them?
by Anonymous | reply 225 | February 25, 2018 11:34 AM |
J Crew everything!
by Anonymous | reply 226 | February 27, 2018 1:02 AM |
iPhone user for life
by Anonymous | reply 227 | February 27, 2018 1:30 AM |
Andy Cohen and anybody associated with him.
by Anonymous | reply 228 | February 27, 2018 1:31 AM |
Constantly posting solo selfie pics on Facebook like you are a 17 year old girl, but you are actually a 45 year old man! Knock it off, you are embarrassing yourself!
by Anonymous | reply 229 | February 27, 2018 1:36 AM |
Aren’t Dockers for people such as Jake from State Farm?
by Anonymous | reply 230 | February 27, 2018 2:00 AM |
Trying to define the notion of a "basic bitch" is akin to trying to define porn - virtually impossibly to pin down precisely but you know it when you see it.
by Anonymous | reply 231 | February 27, 2018 2:06 AM |
My favorite from r232:
[quote](10) Making a Big Deal Out of Being Into Sports, Especially Outdoor Sports
by Anonymous | reply 233 | February 27, 2018 3:13 AM |
Foreign Travel (highly influenced by beaches and electronic music): Barcelona, Ibiza, Mykonos, Gay Caribbean cruise
Never: Trekking in the Himalayas; Archeological sites in Central and South America; Wildlife Safaris in Africa; or cultural tours of Europe.
by Anonymous | reply 234 | February 27, 2018 4:30 AM |
I was never rich or thin enough to be a basic gay bitch.
by Anonymous | reply 235 | February 27, 2018 8:41 AM |
basic gay bitches are not rich neither thin, R235
by Anonymous | reply 236 | February 27, 2018 11:15 AM |
And they have really shitty grammar skills.
by Anonymous | reply 237 | February 27, 2018 11:22 AM |
english is not my first language. Sorry, cunt R237!
by Anonymous | reply 238 | February 27, 2018 11:33 AM |
No shit, R238.
by Anonymous | reply 239 | February 27, 2018 11:34 AM |
R231 may be confusing porn with obscenity
by Anonymous | reply 240 | February 27, 2018 2:30 PM |
In my experience, people who use this term to describe others are usually not that interesting or sophisticated themselves.
by Anonymous | reply 241 | August 12, 2019 12:05 AM |
Dredge alert.
by Anonymous | reply 242 | August 12, 2019 12:09 AM |
The #1 giveaway is to watch regularly and enthusiastically a scripted reality TV show with high drama, like any of the "Real Housewives" shows.
by Anonymous | reply 244 | August 12, 2019 12:21 AM |
Any sort of obsession with retail brands--especially to the point of (***shudder***) sporting an easy-to-read brand name on your person.
Going on a gay cruise.
Going regularly to brunch with the same group of gay male friends (faghags included), especially if you've over 30.
by Anonymous | reply 245 | August 12, 2019 12:26 AM |
I own this thread.
by Anonymous | reply 246 | August 12, 2019 12:29 AM |
The guys in r243 look okay to me, especially compared to the turds some of you revere, cherish, and adore. What am I missing?
by Anonymous | reply 247 | August 12, 2019 1:00 AM |
Umm, the one on the left is disgraced former Congressman Aaron Schock. The one on the right is a basic InstaHo.
by Anonymous | reply 248 | August 12, 2019 1:03 AM |
Ohhhhhhhhh...I had no idea. Thanks, r248. The instaho on the right is the one I prefer.
by Anonymous | reply 249 | August 12, 2019 1:06 AM |
Being sickly thin, having a pallor of someone who rarely gets up before noon, having ugly girl friends from the Mac store that have skid mark “contoured” cheekbones and those awful painted on Instagram eyebrows. Yes, screeching “gurl” when you see these colleagues. Being highly uneducated.
by Anonymous | reply 251 | August 19, 2019 9:16 PM |
Reads Foucault and Derrida, collects records by 20th century composers like Stockhausen and Xenakis, is an expert in French New Wave cinema and it's relation to the 1968 Paris riots as well as No Wave music and its relation to the early 80's downtown NYC art scene. Donates to WFMU and Bernie. Despite being handsome is intellectually brilliant, but poor, and dresses like it.
Did I get it right?
by Anonymous | reply 252 | August 19, 2019 9:42 PM |
R252 LOL
by Anonymous | reply 253 | August 19, 2019 10:50 PM |
Foucault was a circuit queen, wasn't he?
by Anonymous | reply 254 | August 19, 2019 11:04 PM |
They probably support Pete 2020, because YASSS GURL, HE GAY!!!!
by Anonymous | reply 255 | October 17, 2019 6:53 PM |
They that Instagram photo where they playfully straddle a flamingo, swan or unicorn pool float.
by Anonymous | reply 256 | October 17, 2019 7:26 PM |
*they have that
by Anonymous | reply 257 | October 17, 2019 7:27 PM |
Still goes out to clubs that are full of 23 year-olds when they are getting old enough to be the father of a 23 year-old, or are already there.
by Anonymous | reply 258 | October 17, 2019 7:33 PM |
As if following those Real Housewives shows isn't basic enough, but talking about the individual housewives as if they know them personally. Just sad.
Also sad - still talking about Sex and the City as if it's a current show and not something from 20 years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 259 | October 17, 2019 7:49 PM |
They sound like fun, c’mon you cunts.
by Anonymous | reply 260 | October 17, 2019 11:09 PM |
Loudly and frequently hating on trivial things enjoyed by most gays such as Sex and the City and Real Housewives
by Anonymous | reply 261 | October 17, 2019 11:49 PM |
R261 nice try, but you’re basic.
by Anonymous | reply 262 | October 17, 2019 11:57 PM |
They are obsessed with brunch.
by Anonymous | reply 263 | October 17, 2019 11:59 PM |
R263 the Brunch is also BOTTOM-less (hardly) mimosas.
by Anonymous | reply 264 | October 24, 2019 5:18 AM |
Definitely tattoos - it's almost impossible these days to find a gay without at least one tattoo and MOST of them are shit. Then inevitably they get more and more until they look like some sad artist's sketchbook, like Francois Sagat.
by Anonymous | reply 265 | October 24, 2019 10:11 AM |
Mask their self-loathing by focusing on other obvious gays and lesbians.
by Anonymous | reply 266 | October 24, 2019 3:02 PM |
One of the first pieces of advice I got from an eldergay, in the early days of my gay youth was, "Take everything in the LBGT community with a grain of salt. I assume he'd include, "gay basic bitches".
by Anonymous | reply 268 | February 22, 2020 7:49 AM |
They pretend to be arty, wearing scarves and blouse with ruffles, even though they work as sales executives.
They mix styles, crazy colours and fabrics, beliving in their own good taste. After all they end up looking like retired peacocka.
by Anonymous | reply 269 | February 22, 2020 8:02 AM |
Check out the “Circuit Royals” group on Facebook. Tried to link it, but it won’t work if you’re not logged in.
While browsing through ridiculous posts about “best place to store your drugs on at Atlantis cruise” and “the pros and cons about getting fucked in the middle of the dance floor at White Party”, please keep in mind these people take themselves deadly serious.
by Anonymous | reply 270 | February 22, 2020 12:04 PM |
R269 are you posting from The Celluloid Closet?
by Anonymous | reply 271 | February 22, 2020 1:12 PM |
I guess I’d be considered a “gay basic bitch.” Lol. I only travel to gay destinations (PV, Palm Springs, Sitges, Mykonos, SF, and FLL.) I attend 3-4 circuit parties/prides per year. I’ve taken two Atlantis all male cruises. I have been told by my best girlfriend that my only identity/interest is being a gay man! And it’s true. I wouldn’t want to do anything outside of work that’s not “gay-themed.” I’ve tried and it’s not enjoyable. I have to also admit I am single so it’s a way to “connect” with other guys. I figure I’ll do this until 50 and then “gay retire.”
by Anonymous | reply 272 | February 22, 2020 1:19 PM |
Owning a jockstrap in 2020.
by Anonymous | reply 273 | February 22, 2020 2:18 PM |
R273 lol yeah automatically STD suspect
by Anonymous | reply 274 | February 22, 2020 2:39 PM |
Wearing baseball hats backwards well into your 50s while wearing tight-fitting t-shirts and being obsessed with dieting and the gym. It's an attempt to project masculinity. Nobody is buying it.
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