Dan Savage and His Wannabe Twink Have Been Together for 23 Years

He's 46 the Man Boy

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Terry is looking a bit rough in that photo.

This hair color does nothing for him.

He must have done something wrong for Dan to punish him with that haggard-looking photo like that. Perhaps public humiliation is their next kink? Lord knows they'll never stop with that embarrassing crap.

Of course DL hates them. They’re a happy, out gay couple who’ve been together for over 20 years and raised a well-adjusted child.

Meanwhile, the average Datalounger bemoans the presence of urinal dividers in public restrooms while picking Cheeto crumbs from the folds of his threadbare caftan.

I see no hate just the usual DL bitchiness.

It's easy to be happy R5 when you're wealthy and fucking a 20 something Australian instead of your husband.

I don’t dislike Dan Savage because he’s a successful gay man. I dislike him because he’s cude, strident and, above all, humorless. He’s shrill and charmless. A very unpleasant person no matter his persuasion.

His little friend looks like the type to frequent bus stations.

Personally, I find you pretty cude yourself r8.

There are few things trashier looking to me (especially on a man) is dyed blond hair. At least hair dyed brown is usually hard to detect. Blond dyed hair is just common.

R5's "the average Datalounger" = obvious ESTs that he knows are fake but likes to pretend they are real so he can feel "above it all" even though he reads and won't stop posting on the site every day. Treating outliers as normal let him feel superior to the rest of us plebs because God knows in real life she's a shoe salesman in Detroit.

Dan Savage is great, because he gets under the conservatives', and the alt right trolls', skin like no other. He's a hero for what he did with Santorum alone.

He hates monogamy, he is bigoted against fat people, and he recently told a lesbian to have sex with a trans-identified male. He told a lesbian to have heterosexual sex. He is no hero. His advice is damaging to gay people.

His advice is food for thought. If you think you know it all already, why bother listen to him anyway?

Oh, but think of the poor gay children! They can't think for themselves they need someone to tell them that Savage is their enemy! It's our duty to demonize him!

[quote] His advice is junk food that has allowed the degradation of gay culture, enabled the transcult usurpation of our institutions and heritage, and made it harder to stop the spread of HIV.

Fixed.

He's a prude-shaming asshole who has hindered attempts to build bridges between the gay community and the rest of America.

Miss Savage must be a masochist to spend so much time with that tiresome cunt. But then again, he IS a tiresome cunt, so....

Other than that Santorum thing, which was BRILLIANT, he’s kinda like stinky cheese.

[quote] He's a prude-shaming asshole who has hindered attempts to build bridges between the gay community and the rest of America.

My stars and garters!

He's why there are gay Republicans: to show the rest of the world that gays aren't as stupid, reckless and irresponsible as he is.

Prudes shouldn't be shamed?

Listen to Dan Savage, end up like Danny Pintauro.

Are some gays still on the "please straights, please like me! I swear I'll be a good gay and denounce every filthy gay thing there is!" trip? Either that or it's just trolls being trolls.

[quote] He's why there are gay Republicans: to show the rest of the world that gays aren't as stupid, reckless and irresponsible as he is.

Uh, no. You can be responsible and moral and not be part of the malignant tumor that is the Republican party.

Yeah, if you're a Libertarian.

No, R24, I'm on the "please gays, stop cheating on each other! How can you call it love if you still feel the need to go elsewhere for sexual gratification?" trip. That trip has no end date.

Well, smell Miss R27

[quote] That trip has no end date.

And you will have few dates of any kind.

[quote]Uh, no. You can be responsible and moral and not be part of the malignant tumor that is the Republican party.

Only a self-loather would choose the party of John Wilkes Booth over the party of Lincoln.

R27 just because someone doesn't love you the way you want to be loved doesn't mean they don't love you the way they know how. Get off the cross, we need the nails.

[quote][R27] just because someone doesn't love you the way you want to be loved doesn't mean they don't love you the way they know how.

That's something cheaters say to rationalize cheating.

r30. Mary! or dementia, much?

Dan has great biceps.

[quote][R30]. Mary! or dementia, much?

You rang?

R32 Your therapist would not agree.

When it's between Dan and that pedo friendly Milo I pick Dan every single time. What kind of losers does the conservative have. Thiel, Milo, Ken Mehlmann, that other alt right dweeb Lucian Wintrich, Log Cabin Republicans, GoProud ... yikes! Total horror show.

Dan's the man.

Is the Australian in the gimp mask still tied up in the attic?

Is anyone filling her dog bowl?

I’m worried.

We are not made for "til death do us part". Marriage is a trap to make us feel bad for drifting apart and wanting something different in life. Once upon a time it was a big plus for the gay community that we didn't fall for it. But we had to be just like them to get accepted.

[quote]He's why there are gay Republicans: to show the rest of the world that gays aren't as stupid, reckless and irresponsible as he is.

R32 Is so busy trying to satisfy his definition of a "relationship", the other person is irrelevant. He's having a relationship with his "concept" of a relationship, not a relationship with another person.

Peter Thiel is one of the richest men in the country and you're sitting here projecting your own failures onto him. You need to rethink your definition of loser.

r42, he most certainly is one. He endorsed Donald Trump and then had to quit the oh-so exclusive Trump's American Technology Council, because Trump didn't care for him after all.

R42 count me out of any definition of success that is tied to the treasonous, corrupt, childish, toxic mess at the White House

Lol, there sure are some posters in this thread taking criticism of this has-been awfully personally...

He is an anachronism.

[quote]Lol, there sure are some posters in this thread taking criticism of this has-been awfully personally...

Right back at you.

[quote]Peter Thiel is one of the richest men in the country and you're sitting here projecting your own failures onto him. You need to rethink your definition of loser.

[quote]Lol, there sure are some posters in this thread taking criticism of this has-been awfully personally...

Indeed.

WE won.

This thread is making me want to go Asian.

I don't hate Dan. I just don't love Dan as much as Dan loves Dan. But then, who on Earth could?

I can say definitely, if I have to be a soulless, blood sucking, vampire like Peter Theil to be "successful" keep your wealth. I'm OK being poor.

Poor people can be soulless bloodsuckers as well. I know this from personal experience of actually trying to help them and getting nothing in return for it. R52, your attitude is the only thing holding you back from getting what you want.

"your attitude is the only thing holding you back from getting what you want." I have what I want. Not everyone is a shallow, materialistic, narcissist that thinks being as wealthy as Peter Theil is the only definition of "success."

[quote]Poor people can be soulless bloodsuckers as well. I know this from personal experience of actually trying to help them [bold]and getting nothing in return for it.[/bold]

Wow. Just, wow.

R55 Kind of frightening when the true caliber of the people we are talking to revels itself, isn't it?

You're a jerk for thinking poverty is something to aspire to, R54, and I'll be damned if I let future generations of gays stay held back by the likes of you.

I'm going to guess "helping people" isn't that person's calling in life. Stick to sucking the life out of everyone.

You cannot help people who do not want to be helped. Part of growing up is learning that.

Yeah. I'm single handedly holding back an entire generation of gays by suggesting that there are other things in life to enjoy other than literally sucking the lifeblood out of youth.

I pity Peter Thiel's husband

I pity you, R61.

There is no reason for gays to stay on the sinking ship that is the Slaveocrat Party.

Yeah, the tragedy is that some people really believe that in order to be successful you must be a crazy sociopath who screws over everybody and everything in order to be super rich. Of course young gays are supposed to emulate that, because there is nothing more worthless than a poor, socialist liberal gay.

And as for that blond dye job: [italic]Saved by the Bell[/italic] was cancelled 25 years ago. Act your age.

Cops, fireman, teachers! All total losers, wasting their lives at low paying jobs.

No one is paid lower wage than our troops. TOTAL LOSERS!

[quote]There is no reason for gays to stay on the sinking ship that is the Slaveocrat Party.

Sure there is, if only for the sane policies, not to mention support our fundamental civil rights.

R64 Keep dancing and explaining. You've almost convinced us all of Thiel's superiority.

Dan Savage is one of the best the LGBT Community has to offer. The alt right and conservative gay bigots and their high almighty representatives can suck it ... or suck the remainng blood out of the almost emtpy blood vials of Peter Thiel's stash. It's all yours.

r69, you've convinced us that you're a braindead homocon

Like the right not to be turned into a medical experiment for playing in mom's clothes at a young age?

Matt, you're welcome at any time to get off of disability and join us in the working force. Hell, you could be the next Peter Thiel if you apply yourself!

[quote] No one is paid lower wage than our troops. TOTAL LOSERS!

Democrats hate the military unless they can use troops to score political points against Republicans.

And the Repbulicans hate nothing more than the poor. Not even the gays come close to that, because some gays do have money.

R71 is yet another example of psychological projection brought to you by the Regressive Left, who are rightly called the Regressive Left because they regress to ad hominem attacks after losing the argument, which they always do.

Still, how can you respect the troops when they are poor? 23,000 of them are on FOOD STAMPS! LOSERS!

r76, you can't lose an argument with a braindead Republican who thinks that money is worth selling your soul for. And that's what (gay) Republicans do every single second.

[quote]Dan Savage is one of the best the [bold]LGBT Community[/bold] has to offer. The alt right and [bold]conservative gay bigots[/bold]

Once again the Regressive Left reveals its homophobia in its choice of words. Note the attempt to equate homosexuality with bigotry by saying "gay bigots" right after saying we should be part of a community with a bunch of self-loathing self-mutilators by reducing us to part of an acronym.

The bigot here is you.

R76 says the name-calling Thiel apologist

[quote]r76, you can't lose an argument with a braindead Republican who thinks that money is worth selling your soul for.

Yet you still managed to anyway.

"Soul"? It was the Regressive Left that waged war on religion, and once again you only use it not for its own sake but to score points against straw men of your own construction.

Republicans: SUPPORT OUR TROOPS!

....

Republicans: Veterans, GET A JOB, you fucking losers!

Dyed blonde?? I thought his color was real!!

I'm a natural blond and that's a dye job if ever I saw one.

r82, the Republican losers do religion in order to overestimate their soul and think they can get a bigger price for it that way. Whores, all of them.

[quote] [R76], you can't lose an argument with a braindead Republican

[quote]Yet you still managed to anyway.

Typical Trump logic. "You can't dump me! I dump you! I win! Winning!"

It's not name-calling when you live up to that. Gay liberals are losers just like your hetero counterparts. You fetishize loserhood and you make excuses for it. You enable parasites to destroy everything of beauty and value until there is nothing left to destroy. If you don't like Trump, then you're partly responsible for him because it was the Left that encouraged and celebrated the culture of coarseness that made him possible.

Sure, Jan.

LOL, Theil's Paypal fortune is the "beauty and value" you idolize in life? LOL.

Of course it's a dye job. Are you blind and don't see the dark roots shining through?

R88 Any more insights you'd like to share while you're baring your soul? I'm not sure which is sadder his attempt to convince us or his attempt to convince himself.

Oh r88: you are such a little bundle of charm!

Nobody can cry better and louder "victim" than Republicans. Gay or Straight.

[quote] Poor people can be soulless bloodsuckers as well. I know this from personal experience of actually trying to help them and getting nothing in return for it.

I can't beat flawless logic like that!

I wish those Gay Republican losers would just take their money and their sorry asses and leave the gay community. The Gays are better off without these vipers in their midst.

Lazy white liberal soyboy losers are undateable.

Real men vote Republican, wear briefs, eat meat, practice the Jewish faith, and only have sex with men.

Matt, when was the last time you had sex with ANYBODY?

i enjoy watching the GOP take their money and then smack them across their mouths. Gay opportunists deserve abuse as much as straight.

I imagine Dan Savage and Terry Miller live a better life than all these bloodsucking gay Republicans trying to wash the shame and blood stains out of their precious, white linen shirts.

R100, when was the last time you got tested?

So you admit like to see gay people get hurt.

The only mistake the "Drop the letter between the S and U" movement made was they didn't use the letter "R" as in (gay) Republicans or "C" as in (gay) Conservatives. Those are the ones who need to be dropped ... on their asses.

You don't get to keep your "gay card" when you work to elect people who don't believe we deserve civil rights and want us destroyed.

[quote]I can't beat flawless logic like that!

You could try actually using it instead of beating it.

Can we get back to this improbably sexy mid-life crisis couple and their slave boys in the attic, please?

Yeah, back to the "He's in the Attic!" shrieking.

I wish Dan and the gay Courtney Stodden many more years together. Far away from me.

Terri Miller has his own pic to commemorate their long relationship on his instagram.

[quote]

If they've been together for 23 years, they must be doing something right.

Sure, they might be into leather and S&M. It's also an open relationship which is expected--Savage is a sex columnist afterall.

Good for them!

"Just a preference" right? It couldn't be that he's just another racist gay white liberal, is it?

[quote] You don't get to keep your "gay card" when you work to elect people who don't believe we deserve civil rights and want us destroyed.

You mean like the Iranian regime Obama made a deal with? Gay Republicans are here to stay, bunky.

23 Years? Wow. Of course the bigots are pissed about that. It totally makes conservative pundits like Bill O'Reilly or Rush Limgaugh look like total sleazes with their several marriages and divorces.

Dan Savage has lowered the bar for gay culture. He's a sick sleazy pig and he doesn't stand for me or the majority of gay men who recognize that infidelity is a sin no matter how many logical fallacies are invoked in defense of the indefensible. Only doormats let their men cheat on them.

The "slut-shaming" (more like concern for her physical health) of Blanche Devereaux by the other Golden Girls probably saved countless gay male lives.

[quote]Thou Shalt Not Commit Adultery

Thou shalt not tell me what to do.

[quote]Dan Savage has lowered the bar for gay culture.

I disagree. He gave us a sassy voice when most voices were "please straights, like me! I do whatever you want! Please like me!".

Might have been a tad ableist too. Good.

Another thread where one click makes much of the thread go away.

R114 MARY! Hail MARY!

R119 who do we block. what number?

Tad Ableist is my drag name r118.

r114, the religous right can suck my dick after they gave Trump a pass for cheating on his model whore wife with a common whore.

[quote] Might have been a tad ableist too. Good.

So you admit you are a bigot. I was right.

" It couldn't be that he's just another racist gay white liberal, is it?"

Yeah, it's liberals who are racist - that must be why 90% of black voters vote for Democrats

[quote]I wish those Gay Republican losers would just take their money and their sorry asses and leave the gay community.

We ARE the gay community whether you like it or not. We're here to stay.

[quote]Yeah, it's liberals who are racist - that must be why 90% of black voters vote for Democrats

The last person to call me a faggot was a black man. The black church is a hotbed of anti-gay bigotry and Democrat propaganda. There are people in CA who voted for both Obama and Prop 8.

[quote]We ARE the gay community whether you like it or not. We're here to stay.

No, you are PART of the gay community which is indeed unfortunate. Nobody likes you and even your money can't save you from nasty looks and attitude these days.

So Matt, it's acceptable for you to call people bigots but not for people you don't like to do the same? Got it.

R112, Obama's deal with Iran averted a nuclear buildup and potential war . It was a crowning achievement.

So, shut the fuck up.

You actively said you can only be gay if you're a Democrat. You're the bigot here. Gay Republicans aren't the self-loathing ones. Gay Regressive Leftists are and they project it onto the rest of us gays who don't share your idiotic worldview.

[quote]So you admit you are a bigot. I was right.

Actually, it only means that your repetitive, mindless posts are ridiculously easy to spot.

Matt, shouldn't you be at work? Oh wait.

Gay Democrats are literally like Jews for Hitler if they refuse to acknowledge how the Regressive Left has enabled trans, Islam and pedophilia at the expense of the safety of gays and Jews.

Democrats have been killing gays since they killed Lincoln and haven't stopped since.

"Whatever else it is, homosexuality is not a contagious disease like the measles. Prevailing scientific opinion is that an individual's sexuality is determined at a very early age and that a child's teachers do not really influence this.” - Ronald Reagan

Republicans. The poor victims of socialist liberals who force them to have a conscience. What a world.

It's better to be a Gay Republican than a hetero Democrat sex offender like Bill Cosby or Harvey Weinstein. And I don't recall ever hearing of any right-wing sympathies on Kevin Spacey's part.

Regressive Left. Makes me dismiss the one saying or witing it immediately.

[quote]It's better to be a Gay Republican

zzzzzzzzz

There are gay Republicans. There are black Republicans. There are Jewish Republicans. There are Asian Republicans. There are Latino Republicans. Those numbers are just going to keep growing, and you won't be able to use the specter of the "Southern strategy" to scare us because the South became MORE integrated once the Democrats lost their stranglehold over it.

r140, every group has its fair share of idiots and black sheep. Case in point: Gay Republicans.

[quote]r114, the religous right can suck my dick after they gave Trump a pass for cheating on his model whore wife with a common whore.

Then Dan Savage should be thanking Donald Trump for lowering the moral standards for heterosexuals so he could use the worst of them to justify rights for gays rather than the best of us: i.e. gay couples who make the commitment to be monogamous and keep it.

"It's better to be a Jew who lit the ovens at Auschwitz."

r142, since you are so religious let me give you this:

[quote]For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.

- [italic]Matthew 7:2 (new international version)[/italic]

Can't you take your bitch fight elsewhere? We are here to discuss shit like this:

The goyim were the ones who belonged in the ovens at Auschwitz.

Eh, Matt's already fucked the thread. First action he's got in years.

The New Testament doesn't apply to Jews. Sorry. Goyism is racism.

r145, if with shit you mean hot, I agree. That's hot.

"You're all just JEALOUS!"

No, really, we're not.

Homophobe says what:

[quote]Gay Lead of NBC's Musical Theater Series, Rise, Rewritten as Straight

[quote]Sucking cock is also a choice.

[quote] he doesn't stand for me or the majority of gay men who recognize that infidelity is a sin

Mary! You are a boldly moral Christian woman!

[quote]Republicans. The poor victims of socialist liberals who confiscate money they earned while claiming it's for their own good, then running out of it and needing more and more until there is no more left. Then you end up like Venezuela.

Fixed.

Do you know who else believes gays can't commit? Anti-gay bigots who used that to deny us our rights to join together in marriage.

Harvey Milk's biggest mistake was selling out the GOP. If it wasn't for Barry Goldwater, he never would have had a political career in the first place.

Gay Republicans are the moral conscience of the gay community.

Dan Savage rocks, American Nazis and Puritans make life boring and miserable for everyone else around them.

The hate all stems from envy and the irrational fear of Bronze Age superstition worship.

It’s not about disease, which can be prevented.

It’s about ugly creeps who can’t get laid so they reach for any way to feel better about themselves, including the stone tablets of a 3,000-year-old fraud and con artist named Moses.

How dare they call anyone else a “cuck?” They’re the biggest bitches in society!

Anniversaries must be a bitch when you're in a triad. Is it insulting to the Third partner if you celebrate the anniversary with your initial partner?