Gay men: Have you ever had a bi male partner leave you for a woman?

Anyone with stories to tell either way?

all I know is three guys I dated (fucked) in college all are married to women now. But I was long gone from their scene when I found out. Actually Facebook clued me in ,decades later.

Does it count if the woman was his mother?

r3 Ofc not.

He didn't leave me FOR a woman, but left me and then hooked up with a woman.

It was awful.

& he married a woman.

He left me, became straight thanks to the power of GOD despite being bi since we were in high school and got enagaged to a 6 foot tall 6 foot wide 600 lb. bird faced woman who's a few years younger than me but looks old enough to be his grandmother. I'm 29, 5'8", 155 lbs. and average looking.

I don't date them but a gay friend of mine was with one and he left her for a woman and then had a son with her. This happened back in 2009 and my friend was left really destroyed.to console my friend I told him that his ex was gonna be sorry for the rest of his life and that he was going to find somebody else better than that loser. Since we are hispanic, we were constanly singing to make fun of his wife a song by la india, that says mi mayor venganza sera que te quedes con el ( my greatest revenge will be that he will be with you) cuz she didn't know the piece of shit that she happened to get. Years later after my friend met a nice guy older than him but very wealthy, he noticed that his ex visited his profile on LinkedIn, so perhaps he was trying to find out what life was like for my friend after all these years.

every time we fucked, he left me for a woman, he went home to his wife....but he always came back for more

r8 That's not exactly what the question is about.

Met a "straight guy with girlfriend" thru CL. Actually, he pursued me for 2 years before meeting. First date, he informs me that he's pansexual, 10% gay and did I know any rich women on the UES he could date. We proceeded to have any affair and I ended up helping him out with a monthly allowance and presents. During our 21 months together, there were constant reminders that he's "basically straight" and likes to fuck women. His main relationships have been with women and the occasional trannie. Of course, I fell in love with him. And, he turns out to be a pussy bottom boi with me as his Daddy. Would tell me over and over that he was enjoying his bachelorhood while work prevented him from finding the time to date women. Snooped on his phone a few months ago and found on-line dating site matches. Asked me if I would stay in his life if he started dating a woman down the road. Dumped him 8 weeks ago so that he would be free to find the woman of his dreams. Big pothead too. And, friend chatted him up last September in The Townhouse bar on East 58th. My pansexual boyfriend was looking for a richer Daddy. Quelle suprise!

Yes, my lover, who said he was gay when with me, left me for a very famous female movie star, and is still with her to this day. She shall go unnamed, because she is actually a nice person and I think he really loves her.

Yes, OP...after nearly three and a half years together in a supposedly monogamous relationship, I discovered he had been shagging his out of town ex gf the entire time. I don't discriminate against bi blokes for sex partners, but am awfully hesitant to seriously date them. They are not all this way though, as I have been platonic close mates with two who are completely honourable gents.

Dated a guy for several months who up and dumped me, no reason given. I see him about a year alter with a woman and a baby. Turns out he had left his GF when we met but the last time they had sex she got pregnant and he felt he to "do the right thing" and marry her.

Don't date a bi guy unless he's obviously gay. The ones who appear straight to everyone will end up with a woman.

NO ONE will date or fuck the bi troll.

Bisexual or Gay men always end up with a woman (see famous men like actors etc...) and they marry her, have children......By the way, Gay men have always dated and married women so why Bi men wouldn't do the same ???? (and I think Bi are more legitimate, no ?).

Dated 4 males in my life. First one is gay and in a relationship. Second one is gay and in a relationship. Third is... fuck him, whatever, but he's gay afaik. Fourth is current, gay and I can tell his particular tastes.

I *seem* to attract bi or closeted guys and I'm more of 'another guy' they can be more safe with those matters with, but I don't/rarely/barely play with that. The most prominent bi man in my life may or may not have been interested in more with me, but I didn't want the potential chaos without him being more upfront (if this is even true), so nah. He met a woman a few years ago and this year they seem like they may be on the road to marriage and/or children within the next year or two. He was one that had a life that guided him through what we widely term as 'heteronormitivity' so he didn't rock the boat and try too hard to find guys. Well, either that or he has a whole secret life etc - we're not close friends who see each other regularly, so I can't tell. What I do know is that he had public passion for his vision of masculinity including successfully making and raising children, so that was possibly very big on his decision to go with women. However he is also publicly very supportive of sexual minorities, even to his blue collar and sometimes homophobic peers. The narrative of this guy seems to be one guided by straighthood but always having a part of himself that could be jarred open, but likely not by himself and I'm too comfortable where I myself am, to bother. Also a part of me thinks that if I'm right about such a narrative, I don't really find it attractive to be with someone still so fearful. My current partner is someone I admire in that he lived with relatively more homophobia in his family (immigrants), and a teenage time of near-asexuality for whatever physical/psychological reasons, but still with the self-care and self-awareness to actively discover himself, and gradually come out to people, once his therapist suggested he may be homosexual. Helped him immensely over the years. I worry about the opposite being possibly the case for my bi friend, but again, we're not too close of friends.

Yes. It was a casual relationship, to be sure, but he introduced me to his fiancé in the street. She was very nice.

Love at first sight with this hot red headed soldier. We quickly became inseparable, and sure we fucked like animals non stop. We were in our 20s. At that age, you can convince yourself that intense, frequent sex is love.

I did love him but it was intense frequent sex for him. One day, in his barracks room he told me he was going to start dating girls so he could get married and have kids. I was so damn hurt, I walked out without a word. I barely spoke to him for the lady of my tour overseas before returning to the US.

Many years later, I tracked him down on Facebook. He was happy to hear from me and we talked on the phone. He married, had kids and was happy. There was that connection between us still, but it’s in the past.

Knowing he’s happy means a lot to me.

My first Bf. Just out of college. He left me for a woman because he reasoned that his family wouldn't ever fully accept him being with a man.

Sad thing was that he was a 90% bottom (and a really good one). He's married to her now and we follow each other on instagram. I know he sleeps around with guys though I hope he does it with his wife's knowledge and consent.

What about all the gay men who left you motherfuckers for other gay men? Or cheated with other men? Why is it such a big deal when a bisexual guy does the same thing with women?