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When In A Relationship, Do You Prefer A Bf Who is More Protective of You, Or Do You Prefer To Be More Protective Of Him?

I know it's an awkward question and one that might make most men feel a little uncomfortable to discuss. But if we are being really honest most gay relationships one guy is at least a little more protective of the other.

I've been in relationships where boyfriends wanted me to be protective of them and I've been in relationships where guys wanted to be the more protective partner and to be honest I think I prefer when the guy wants to be more protective of me. It's funny how weird and uncomfortable it is to even admit that to myself and it's something I'd never be able to talk about with anyone, but it is definitely something I feel, I think we all do if we allow ourselves to but so many other issues come into play

by Anonymousreply 6January 2, 2018 6:38 PM

These are mutually exclusive?

Together 38 years. We protect each other to the death.

by Anonymousreply 1January 2, 2018 5:53 PM

As a 6’3 230 lb dominant top who loves short bottoms, I’m of course the protective partner. I don’t need protection from anything other than a stove (I can’t cook for shit) and my credit cards whenever new Apple products come out.

by Anonymousreply 2January 2, 2018 5:57 PM

I tend to be the more protective partner. I'm just made that way. To be honest, when I've had guys be protective of me, it's brought out my bitchy, selfish side, which I'd rather not admit to.

by Anonymousreply 3January 2, 2018 6:02 PM

More protective of me I guess. It's nice to be fretted over

by Anonymousreply 4January 2, 2018 6:05 PM

Neither, stupid fuck. Men are not bitches, we can take care of ourselves.

by Anonymousreply 5January 2, 2018 6:17 PM

Odd question. I don't expect anyone to protect me and someone who feels the need for me to protect him isn't the kind of guy I want to be with.

by Anonymousreply 6January 2, 2018 6:38 PM
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