Do Bottoms Care About Getting Their Dicks Sucked?

yes!!

Some do some don’t. I face fucked a hot guy recently and then said I’d get him off. He said “not necessary” which was fine with me.

"I’m a dom top ..."

R2 did “not necessary” mean he absolutely didn’t want it? Would he have rejected your offer if you pushed?

If they're there to be a service bottom, then no, most will prefer to remain fully clothed.

But a guy you like and are dating who is a bottom will likely appreciate sex that feels like a mutual endeavor.

I hear they also like getting rimmed before you fuck them OP

No, OP, bottoms do not like to be pleasured orally,😡

No r4 he didn’t seem the least bit interested.i think He got off on the dom/sub aspect of it.

Of course they like rimming, R5. I don’t mind rimming. But fellatio just isn’t my thing. And I make sure it feels like a mutual endeavor by giving them good dick. Shouldn’t that be enough?

For a casual fuck R8 they're just expecting to get fucked and nothing more

If you want to have boyfriend sex, you'll have to negotiate. Depends on how into you the guy is

It's called sexual compatibility. Some people just aren't into certain sex acts; just be sure to communicate these needs and desires and limits and reach a compromise. If a compromise can't be met then the relationship shouldn't persist.

If I'm sucking a guy and he cums in my mouth, I don't expect him to finish me off. I get so turned on by sucking dick that I usually cum without touching myself at the point he cums in my mouth. If I'm getting fucked I'm there for his pleasure but pic he fucks me just right, I can cum without touching my cock.

My husband is a bottom and he loves when I suck him off

I'm with you, OP. I hate sucking and like to make sure any oral bottom I am with doesn't think that act is coming up. It ain't!

Bottoms are complicated, glad I'm a top.

Maybe he just wanted to get away from you, OP, and go gargle.

If the sizemeat is sufficient (8+ long and 6+ around) then nothing else should be necessary!

Are you a selfish 15 year old that you have to ask? Useless twat.

well as a total bottom I luv to be rimmed, and luv making out but i personally do not need to be sucked..I prefer a top who is somewhat one sided in terms of his needs...but ONLY in the bedroom.

Fuck that. I am not tonguing any dude's butt. I will fuck it and you can suck me til my toes curl.

Not at all. I don't really even like it. It's too much sensation.

On the other hand, I LOVE LOVE LOVE sucking dick. I love sucking a hot dude's dick and feeling his abs and body while I do it.

I agree with what R10 said. R19 has a point in that while I do love to rim a sexy ass - I tend to be both cautious and picky for obvious reasons. Tonguing a hot butt is either one of life's greatest pleasures or biggest horrors - depending on the hygiene of the man attached to said butt.

Only once did a top refuse to suck my cock in the '70s or '80s. I sent him packing. Literally. He carried his shoes and socks and coat out. I never heard of this "I don't suck dick" bullshit until I read about it here.

r22 = tinymeat?

If they are hard while getting fucked they prob. would like a suck. I love sucking a hard bottom while fucking him.

Personally, I'd be fine never having my dick sucked.

I'm all bottom and rarely want my dick sucked.

Yes, r23, my dick shrunk for that one guy.

I’m a top who likes to suck but I’ve met many bottoms who are turned off by that. They only want to get fucked by someone who wouldn’t suck them. So if I’m fucking them I wait for a sign from them that they want their dick sucked. I don’t initiate that. But, honestly, I’d prefer a bottom who also likes to get sucked.

My bottom partner loves receiving head, and I'm happy to oblige since I can't get fucked (too painful and he's too large for me). It's a fun, mutually-satisfying partnership.

[QUOTE]well as a total bottom I luv to be rimmed, and luv making out but i personally do not need to be sucked..I prefer a top who is somewhat one sided in terms of his needs...but ONLY in the bedroom.

That’s my kinda bottom.

The worst things are sizemeat bottoms or tinymeat tops!

DO THEY EVEN KNOW ITS CHRISTMAS??

[quote]Do Bottoms Care About Getting Their Dicks Sucked?

This is when you know OP is not a gay man and he is just trolling.

What about my thread title makes you say that, R33? I don’t get it.

I’m a bottom and I’ve never been fucked by a top that didn’t want to suck my dick. My dick is big and when I get fucked well it basically turns into stone it gets so hard. I like it since it gives me a break before continuing getting fucked.

What r35 said.

What I will/won't do with one time tricks is markedly different than what I'll do with a guy I'm into and dating or even a regular fuck buddy.

Seems like many of you don't have those boundaries.

There are also lots of bottoms who are only looking to service and don't care about getting off. They like being used, so you can invite a friend or two over, turn on some porn and have the bottom service all of you, bring you beers, even serve as a coffee table.

Those types of bottoms don't want you to even see their penis-- they stay fully clothed or keep a jock on if they're getting fucked-- let alone blow them.

Strange question, OP. How can you be fucking these guys and not have learned what they want? Are you actually a hetero dude who's just curious about what 'the gays' do?

Glad (or hope) I don't know r37.

[QUOTE]Strange question, OP. How can you be fucking these guys and not have learned what they want?

Most of the bottoms I’ve been with haven’t expressed an interest in it. And I do do it, sometimes, but not with any enthusiasm.

But I guess I wanted to see one, how important it is and two, if maybe my boyfriends secretly wanted it more but never expressed it to me because they knew how much I disliked it. Sort of like fraus who wish their boyfriends ate them out more.

Try sucking their cock while you are fucking them...it can be done of one is flexible enough.

[quote]Try sucking their cock while you are fucking them...it can be done of one is flexible enough.

Or three feet tall.

Nah R39

I bet I just hit on a major fantasy of yours though.

r43 As tone deaf as he sounds in r37.

Stop talking R44 and get back on my cock.

[quote] Strange question, OP. How can you be fucking these guys and not have learned what they want?

He's already declared himself a "dominant top" which means he's most often a selfish partner who concentrates on his own pleasure rather than the nameless trick he's fucking.

R30?....R18 here what are you stats?? lol

I am an exclusive top (not always dominant, but I certainly CAN be...). Many, many bottoms that I have fucked over the years were not interested in being sucked whatsoever. They were very clear about the fact that they wanted both their throat and asshole raped hard and that was it. I love to eat ass, suck balls and for a limited time suck dick - so I LOVE a bottom who likes a bit of back and forth enjoyment of each other's bodies. Again, it really comes down to the perimeters that you both set before meeting up. When it comes to fuck buddies or guys that I date, a one-sided sexual relationship is not ideal for me and would likely not work. For random hook-ups I am just fine with quickly fucking some ass and leaving after I nut. Sex is a multifaceted and fascinating world; sometimes you just go with the flow..

I used to love to be able to suck a guy while I was fucking him, but I’m no longer limber enough to do that. Unless the guy is short, has a small waist, and a long dick. Then it might happen. But I’m just not as bendy as I used to be. 8-(

So do bottoms cum without dick stimulation?

I’m not even a hookup type dude. I’m talking about sex within the confines of a monogamous relationship here—I don’t even have a Grindr profile or anything. But I never really had a boyfriend complain about the lack of fellatio.

If the top is good R50

nice sizemeat!

Good top or not it’s still extremely rare for a male to cum without having his genitals stimulated.

R52 Hot clip. Thanks!

Why would any man not want to get his dick sucked? It defies logic.

My partner, who is primarily the top, has issues with getting sucked. He loves to suck me but when I suck him, he says it is too intense. He's ok with 69 and we do that a lot, but if it is him just being sucked he gets a little crazy. Too bad, I love to suck him off.

[quote]I love sucking a hard bottom while fucking him.

The logistics of this are beyond most eldergays' capabilities at this point. Just offer to reciprocate.

how can any gay guy not like sucking dick? the notion is bizarre to me.

Hell I’m far from an eldergay and it’s beyond my capabilities, too. Are these gymnasts saying such things? It seems awkward.

You’re either sucking or fucking with me.

What R56 said.

My bf is a bottom. I suck him off often. Granted, when we're fucking, he usually cums while my dick is in him, so it's either me jerking him or him jerking himself. But, if it's just a casual quick thing, we just suck each other off.

Being able to suck a guy's dick while you're fucking him has nothing to do with the top but everything to do with how big the bottom's dick is.

Well unless we’re talking about foot long hung bottoms, I’m not bending that far down to suck it while he’s riding me. I’ve got a bad back as it is.

And is that the hottest gif ever or what? Jesus. I remember when Jaden first showed up on Fratmen and he took my breath away. I’ve been in love with him ever since.

I love sucking my bottoms. Makes them more appreciative of me.

I don't consider myself a top or bottom, since I don't have lots of partners. In real life, I've pretty much been a top, but I've done more sucking than being sucked. I find getting blowjobs to be boring, but I like sucking dick.

I love sucking my bottoms and they def love getting head.

R4 Fuck off. No means no. You move on.

I'm a bottom, and I expect to get my dick sucked.

[quote]I’m a dom top

MARY!

Who is the blond in your gif, OP? Someone above said it is Jaden from Fratmen, but there's no one named Jaden on the Fratmen site.

Personally, I have no interest in getting my dick sucked. If a Top wants to, that's OK, but I'd rather be fucked.

You don’t suck my dick, you don’t fuck my ass. No exceptions.

Total Bottom here. LOVE being rimmed, not being sucked at all really. Only do if the guy really wants to.

I don't care about getting sucked. Ideally, I finish myself off with my partner's cummy cock in my mouth and two of his fingers up my ass.

[QUOTE]Who is the blond in your gif, OP?

It’s Jaden from Fratmen. They might have scrubbed him from the site (assuming it’s even still up). He also has his own site now: Voyeur Boys.

No, bottoms are essentially women who happen to have cocks.

no, I love servicing the man, I never expect or want reciprocality

I’ve been with quite a few bottoms who don’t even get hard. Do you bottoms who demand to be sucked get erections or is your top sucking on a piece of spaghetti?

REAL men eat the pussy BEFORE the fuckfuck.

r51, what a nice situation, sadly never had that

Woman speaking and this thread is facinating. When women talked about their dislike for fellatio all the gay men have been like women, you crazy, the dick so good, etc.. I guess all were bottoms. Had no idea that tops didn't like to suck a dick.

What about versitile men? Don't they like to suck and be sucked?

I love to suck a bottom's dick before I plow him. Totally>

I don't. I worship tops. I don't need to be touched. I don't even like it. Get me on my knees with one or more cocks in my mouth. Preferably in public. I come just like that. Same with bottoming

I'm not a bottom, but I don't care one little bit about getting my dick sucked. I like to take care of the other guy, and he doesn't need to worry much about taking care of me.

Bottoms are only good for fucking or sucking the top's dick.

Not usually OP, in my experience. Since tops exist to pleasure bottoms, I'm happy to do it when asked or expected.

R86 Tops exist to pleasure bottoms? Same way there is no butt plug big enough to shut your stupid mouth.

If you have a dick, it's safe to assume the guy wants his dick sucked.

What a silly thread.

As a Versatile, when I am fucking a guy, if his dick is limp, I just fuck him. Limp dick bottoms are just sloppy fuckholes.

But if I am fucking a guy and his dick is hard and he is clenching down on my dick with his hole, I will usually double over and suck him off as I cum inside of him (condom on). Nothing beats a throbbing sphincter when you orgasm.

Simultaneous orgasm is amazing.

R88 Wrong. The consensus is most bottoms dicks are useless limp appendages. Like David Gest.