So, I'm Now My Straight Friend's Boyfriend? Huh?

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This will end in tears...

What a Nifty story, OP!

Cute story, OP. If it's true (which I think it is...) just take it slow - but you probably should ask him how he's feeling about you, etc. Can't wait to hear the first sex story

Oh, for fuck's sake, suck his dick already. And don't report until he's sucked yours.

merry christmas

"Then around 10-ish my buzzard rang."

Oh dear, what happened when your buzzard rang? Did the buzzard dish the latest gossip? Did the buzzard rag on your new b/f?

Inquiring minds want to know.

r7, ...it is possible, Fred Flinstone had a buzzard as a door bell.

Why should the straight friend buy the cow (i.e. OP, no offense), when he can get the milk for free? Friend needs to put a ring on that hoof.

Sounds great. The part cannot wrap my head around is two guys sleeping together and NO SEX? This never happened.

Your friend has Extremely Sensitive Timing

He just broke up with his "girlfriend", and he uses the office Christmas Party to come out of the closet. Is this a Hallmark Channel rejected script?

Tomorrow night: He introduces you as his fiance to his political aspiring ex-boyfriend and proposes to you after the boyfriend leaves. It'll be raining.

OP? I hope your screenplay is better than this shitty treatment.

True or not. It is fun to imagine

R2, I'm crying already.

OP - can you give us a really detailed description of your str8 boyfriend? Who famous dude does he look like? Have you seen him nekkid?

the guy was NEVER straight. and this story sounds silly & not true.

[quote]Then around 10-ish my buzzard rang. It was my friend with his gym bag. His building had a major pipe burst and he needed to crash with me.

See, if you had started with this guy already being your roommate then you wouldn't require these extra silly details to make the story work.

Fun story OP. I hope your characters achieve the fulfillment they long for.

[quote]Have you seen him nekkid?

HELL, YES!!!! My boyfriend...LOL! You see? Anyway, he looks like Channing Tatum. Hmm... I wonder if I can develop this into something R12?

Which scene takes place in front of the Hallmark Channel gazebo?

Please describe his anus in vivid detail

You expect us to believe that you managed to get what every gay man has wanted since the dawn of time?

Ur so annoying it won’t last

How big is his cock, OP? Have you sucked it yet?

Oh brother! Everything but the dogs, nipping at his rear end!

Cut or uncut confirmation, or it didn't happen.

Add the part about how you aren't out to your conservative parents yet and they show up unexpectedly to spend the holidays with you and now you and your newfound love have to pretend to be just friends again. You are so much in love you can't help but be affectionate and your parents catch you snuggling and they tell you that they knew you were gay all along, they say they love you and they are just thrilled that you are happy and found such wonderful man and it really is a Hallmark movie.

R28 knows what really matters.

Someone call Logo. They love stories with gay men who don't actually do anything too sexual or too graphic. Maybe they'll greenlight this...

I know someone who is going through Exactly the Same Thing.

[quote]and your parents catch you snuggling and they tell you that they knew you were gay all along,

Isn't it always that way? "Frank! FRANK! You owe me $50 bucks! I told you!!!!"

This never happened, did it?

This is a much nicer use of one's imagination than Nephew In Distress.

Ok here’s my take. You need to broach the subject of sex with him. Tell him you want to have sex. I’d say it’s 80% likely he will be into this idea immediately, but not known how to instigate it.

If he recoils from sex, cool this right off as it’s set to become a weird hiding to nothing.

But seriously, you have to know for sure if this could become a full relationship and that includes sex. If not go back to being just friends.

The best part of this thread is seeing that some people here actually believe this really happened.

This has happened a couple of times to me. I have found that these guys were uncomfortable with their sexuality, and any mention of being gay, love, relationship, etc. turned them away. If you can handle walking on eggshells about what is really going on, it’s fun while it lasts, but it inevitably ends in heartbreak.

This is why I go to Datalounge.

At least they're adults and not related by blood. That's a step up from the usual sub-nifty.org weirdos.

WE HAD SEX!!!! YIPEE!

It was on Christmas morning--don't go there... just don't. But, he had his usual morning hard-on. But, that morning while he was hugging me in bed he started rubbing roughly against me. I just put him on his back and gave him a blow job. That didn't take very long at all. Anyway, we've been having sex and lots of it. It's like a whole new world has opened for him. His attitude? Hmm... he's actually closer to me than I've ever seen him or known him to be. I'm also seeing and feeling a vulnerability with him.

BUT....LOL! We have still not had a talk about all of this. Maybe we don't need to now. It just is.

Welcome 2018!

OP, did he fuck you and did you fuck him? Anal that is.

I think Gomer says it best ...

Haha, that was funny.

People are so desperate for attention.

Oh good!

I've been waiting for the next chapter to drop.

OP, are you sure he doesn't look like Tom Hardy with some scruff? Let's do that. Yes, I'll have him look like that!

[quote]BUT....LOL! We have still not had a talk about all of this. Maybe we don't need to now. It just is.

Wait until the kids are in college. Or just casually mention it when you're old and close to death. You know, for closure.

[quote]t was on Christmas morning--don't go there... just don't.

Why? Are you both fundies, who consider Christmas morning sacred?

And whatever happened to your buzzard?

Next year OP's car wii break down in a small town where he will get stuck but run into his childhood crush...

[quote] WE HAD SEX!!!! YIPEE! It was on Christmas morning--don't go there... just don't. But, he had his usual morning hard-on. But, that morning while he was hugging me in bed he started rubbing roughly against me. I just put him on his back and gave him a blow job. That didn't take very long at all. Anyway, we've been having sex and lots of it. It's like a whole new world has opened for him. His attitude? Hmm... he's actually closer to me than I've ever seen him or known him to be. I'm also seeing and feeling a vulnerability with him BUT....LOL! We have still not had a talk about all of this. Maybe we don't need to now. It just is. Welcome 2018!

NextUp

Act 3:

The Return of the Villainous Girlfriend

Unless he's willing to eat dick and ass, return him to the straights

These ESTs are getting longer and more detailed by the day.

Weird post. Sounds like BS.

We're still waiting for details on size and c/uc status of the meat.

Anal for both of you? How did he like his ass being fucked? Details, OP.

DL has been invaded with Tumblr writers. Thanks for the laugh.

OP, Will the the bride wear white?

[quote]OP, did he fuck you and did you fuck him? Anal that is.

I'm the happy bottom but he wants to experiment.

^^^^ Dick details.....

Well did he enjoy anal with you r59/OP? What did he say?

OP, did you both laugh as you told your straight boyfriend about your sister and her silly gift receipt policy?

[quote]Well did he enjoy anal with you [R59]/OP? What did he say?

Ohhhhh, yes! What did he say? Can we do it again!

Gotta go! I'm needed.

You'll have a serious talk about it when he sits you down to tell you that he is marrying his ex-girlfriend.

OP you've come back several times and haven't given us size or cut status.

Right I would recommend the next step to be you book a vacation together. You need to get him for a prolonged period of time out of his regular environment.

Don’t worry about talking to him about stuff this early on. But be mindful that at some point he is going to have a melt down and say he doesn’t think he’s gay and is confused. I’ve seen this one go horribly wrong when the out gay one of the pair starts reinforcing to the “previously straight” one that he is gay and he has to tell everyone. If the guys head has never been here, it will take him a while to get used to the feelings he has for you and readjusting to who he is. If you start trying to make him go public too soon he’ll bolt. The terrible thing about the two or three times I have heard this above scenario, is on each occasion - the guy didn’t go on to marry a woman. He ended up going out as a single on the gay scene, coming out and then pairing up with another guy. All they wanted was a bit of time to get used to everything, but the first Male love jumped ahead and tried to hurry then along and scared them off.

Thanks, R66. I know that all of the stuff at the Christmas party was mostly for show and to stop his boss from harassing him. but, since that time things have been very different. I'm happy. I really am very happy but I'm scared too. I don't want to do anything to push him away and I think that's a problem, or going to be one, because I feel as if I have to walk on egg shells. I would agree with those who think that I should end all of this but that ain't happening! I guess I should someway prepare myself for the eventual letdown? I don't know, This is my only outlet. I want to tell the world (Don't do it. Don't go there. I know it was corny) but I know that I can't do that right now. Anyway...

R65, he's cut and has an average nice sized cock that stays very hard for a LONG time!

Funny, I'm the straight guy's "fag that he fucked" that he laughs at with his friends upon passing, but is always nice to "the fag that is me" when he's by himself.

Reasons why I'm going to start ignoring casual greetings unless I'm being paid.

(wry smile) I get that R68. I totally get that. The things that we gays go through...

Oh dear.. this is SO adorable. But bitch, you are fat. I hope this made up story makes your self esteem issue less pressing. Happy Holidays hon! Love ya.

[quote]I'm happy. I really am very happy

Being in love releases chemicals in your brain that make you happy. Once the novelty wears off your brain goes back to normal and you'll be back to your miserable old self.

Happy new year!

Except for the office Christmas party, having a straight-ish boyfriend, does happen. And it has happened twice with me. Both divorced (from a woman) men and wanted to have sex, spend a lot of time together, but not talk about the sex. So OP's story has some truth to it, but whether his post is true or not, guess we'll never know for sure. If true, hope he enjoys it for a little or a long time.

[quote]Oh dear, what happened when your buzzard rang? Did the buzzard dish the latest gossip? Did the buzzard rag on your new b/f?

Still laughing about this — especially funny because in the uk when someone “rang” they came by for a visit. (We don’t use that idiom hrrr in the US.)

[quote]I'm the happy bottom

The one thing OP has written that is actually true.

If this were the least bit true, in the deeply closeted South, just before you thought you had a lifetime of commitment (in gay years- 5 to 10), he would suddenly go back to his old girlfriend, get married and spit out around 3 kids in quick succession.

You would be polite when meeting on the street and that would be it.

I don't care which cable network you pitch this to, OP. But you better insist that the goddamn buzzard stays. It's the best part.

Bull Sheeeitt. Cute story though, esp. the buzzard part.

I'm still waiting for OP's straight boss to make another appearance and sleep with the boyfriend, inspiring a conflicted story arc in which OP must choose between confronting his boss or staying employed.

[quote]If this were the least bit true, in the deeply closeted South, just before you thought you had a lifetime of commitment (in gay years- 5 to 10)

Just as proof of what bullshit gay stereotypes are - but we buy into them anyway.

It's quite well established in a lot of Western countries that gay male unions are ones that last the longest, r74.

OP, has he had your cock in his mouth yet? He’s not just trade, is he?

and then he hit me and it felt just like a kiss.

So you can 'choose' to be gay. The 'bible thumper' haters were right after all.

And then I woke up in a huge wet spot.

R78, some stories are DOA....

Something is missing from this story. Like booze to make it even remotely plausible.

[quote]Anyway, he looks like Channing Tatum.

OF COURSE he did. We wouldn't have expected any less!

Well, I've enjoyed this thread. Thanks, OP.

[quote]We wouldn't have expected any less!

Really. Did any of us think he would have said Elton John, Divine, or JImmie Walker?

Is he wearing your caftan yet?

I'm not so confident OP's story is a lie. If you've visited bisexual men's spaces more than once, you'd know straight men seeking gay experiences with their gay friends does happen and doesn't of necessity involve alcohol. On Reddit, I've seen some men claim they were perfect Kinsey 0s and then all of a sudden -- after watching group sex or gay porn, or after having a sex dream about a male friend -- they started to become curious and tried to have gay sex to figure out whether they like it or not. At least some of those men now identify as Kinsey 3s, a few are even on the predominantly-gay spectrum now.

I miss cousin lover and the door whore.

Aka Jamie Doorman asked me out ?

Is this more like Tales of the City or Queer as Folk?

Anyone know about or heard about where such a relationship ever worked out?

R90 I agree. I’ve not met quite a few men through Grindr who are in their 40’s and either are or were married to women. They are into very passionate gay sex and when I’ve had conversations with them, they have all said the same thing. They started feeling attraction to men in their late 30’s early 40’s and truly didn’t have anything before.

I questioned how this could be possible and these four (separate) guys all gave almost identical answers. They said the only gayish thing they had experienced was a kind of crush on a particular Male at school or in their life as teenager. But other than this, their attractions were 100% to women.

Then in their late 30’s early 40’s something changed. They either found themselves being hit on by a male friend or started finding gay porn. Then from here they ended up sailing head on into gay sex. I couldn’t understand how you could be this age and not think about it before then start doing it. But they all claimed the initial dabbling did not bode well with them. However, after the first time the curiosity built and subsequent sexual encounters started becoming so good they couldn’t stop thinking about it.

I think it’s ultimately about men who were probably fluid living in an era where they just thought sex was only with women. Years ago to get gay porn or hook up was an effort. But today, men are stumbling across new things on their phones and this seems to be the Trojan horse that unlocks them sexually.

[quote]But today, men are stumbling across new things on their phones and this seems to be the Trojan horse that unlocks them sexually.

I know so many "straight" men who know what Grindr, Scruff, and whatever else is, AND who it is for, that it's scary.

[quote]Oh dear.. this is SO adorable....

R96 I agree, I’m noticing more and more of those blank Grindr and Scruff profiles with “married” on them. I think they are start off just being straight guys who are plain nosy, then become fascinated by how blunt and simple the sex requests are. Before they start engaging with profiles themselves.

Why is it "scary"?

Ride it OP. Get it while its good.

Yeh R96 - what R99 said. I don't get why "it's scary?"

I would say that it could be scary because you have emotions involved. You have those who just view sex as sex-an act to do to relieve pressure or to have some fun and that's it. Then you have those that are having their own internal conflicts and are looking to experiment to learn more about themselves. But, what about the other person? What if they are more emotionally involved or ruled by their emotions? Where do they fit in on this individual's chart in finding their own personal whatever?

Update?

Stop bumping old threads, R103 you idiot.

OP when you try to sell this story, use a picture of a couple of twinks, not a couple of bears. You need to appeal to the larger market.

Twinks are not the mass market ideal. Ripped muscled fitnesss model bros are.

HaHa! I had forgotten that I had reached out to you guys about this.

We're still together. There's a difference.

He moved in. It was not because of the bad plumbing but because he was struggling to pay his rent. Once I found that out, (and he told me), I was a bit disheartened and started going on alert. I believe I told you guys that we were having lots of sex. It was all brand new to him and so... Anyway, about a couple of months in, he wasn't as attentive as before and so I started preparing myself for the big let down. It wasn't like he came home late or not at all. It was just different. And yes, I cried a bit. I never cried in front of him. But, I was reconciling myself to move on without him (LOL! That was dramatic, eh?) Anyway... he came home one day and I was packing my bag and he asked where I was going. I just told him I was going on vacation. He stupidly asked where we were going and that's when I told him that I was going by myself because I needed to get away. That's when I told him that I didn't think that this was going to work, that I felt lonely, and that this wasn't his fault because this was something that had just happened.

To make a LONG story shorter, he was calling me on my phone constantly (I was in South Beach for those who are interested) to the point that I stopped answering my phone. But, it was his sister's call that caused me to pick up the phone. Anyway, she convinced me that his feelings for me were honest and sincere and that he missed me. Well, when I returned home things just got better. He's become much more freer and more attentive towards me. Some of his friends know about us (which means that they all know) and many of them seem to be cool with this. Especially, two of his female friends. One of them wants my boyfriend to impregnate her and the other (she's married) is already ready to donate an egg and carry our child.... Oh, boy... A lot has happened.

Things that stick out the most are:

-When his sister came to visit, (she's a real treat), and picked up within 15 minutes that we were more than room mates. "You two are fucking" was her loud proclamation and demanded that we sleep together (her not included, of course), while she was there. She was just thrilled by the whole thing which leads me to believe that his family knows. She's not one to keep secrets and is very outspoken.

-When we out at some club, (I believe it was Industry), and this girl was hitting on him and he told her that she was being disrespectful to his boyfriend. I was ready to pull my pants down and bend over right then.

-When I knew I was hooked when he woke me up one Sunday morning and said it was time for my yoga class AND THEN came and took the class with me!!

-His new job. I was the first person he called... OH!!! When he thought I was cheating! Or, going to cheat! He did get a bit rough then (pushing me around, yelling, etc "Do you know what I'm giving up for you?") but... lots of stuff.

And, that's what I mean by "we're together". We're a couple now.

3.2/10

I just caught up with the thread. As for what R72 said, I also had a couple of straight-ish boyfriends and we never talked about our relationship or the fact we were having sex. I could tell they just enjoyed our time together and perhaps didn't want to face the fact that they were also attracted to guys, or at least me. In both cases at some point we saw less and less of each other. I'm glad to hear that OP and he boyfriend are still a couple. As for me, I now only want to be with guys who are comfortable with being gay and we can talk about openly about our time together.

Haha! I should have kept up with you guys. Some of you had some very good questions. I just read though this and let me give you your answers:

[quote]he is going to have a melt down and say he doesn’t think he’s gay and is confused.

He still doesn't think that he is gay. He says that he is in love with me and that I just happen to be a guy. He says that he has never ever had an attraction for another guy and don't believe that he ever will. He doesn't even want to experiment with another guy. He said that he is attracted to women but has no desire to sleep with any of them (we'll see..)

[quote]OP, has he had your cock in his mouth yet?

Yes! And he loves it! He says that it's not so much that he likes sucking cock (and boy! has he gotten good!) he loves and gets off on how I react to his sucking my cock.

[quote]Anal for both of you? How did he like his ass being fucked? Details, OP.

He does it and has come to like it but he is THE TOP and REALLY loves drilling my ass.

[quote]The Return of the Villainous Girlfriend

He said that he thinks that she sensed something already. She was always trying to get him to do threesomes but he never did.

[quote] I would recommend the next step to be you book a vacation together.

Only long weekends so far. Boston, Miami, Dallas. I have friends in those cities. Maybe we should do a cruise?

[quote]Anyone know about or heard about where such a relationship ever worked out?

I have to admit that I'm becoming more and more hopeful about that.

Dang Op!

Now you just need to befriend Joel, the neighbor boy, and introduce him to the household.

[quote]OH!!! When he thought I was cheating! Or, going to cheat! He did get a bit rough then (pushing me around, yelling, etc "Do you know what I'm giving up for you?")

Aww... he's gonna knock the shit out of you one day, OP.

Op, Did the newBF give it to you extra hard after you agreed to co-sign for the use Pontiac Fiero? Don't lie now, girl.

There's one aspect of this story that is strange to me. If the OP's friend was not out prior to their relationship, why would he bring OP to his Christmas party and pretend he was his boyfriend? Does that mean he already presented himself as gay at work? Or he decided to "come out" as gay at the party?

If he wasn't already presenting as gay, wouldn't it make more sense to bring a fake girlfriend to ward off his gay boss? Because then he would know for certain there was no possibility.

It's just strange because usually work is the last place closeted men come out due to co-worker homophobia, fear of career setbacks, etc.

Frautastic EST. You writing amateut porn, toots?

Why does this sound like an EST.

Im sure his name is George...Tropicana, um...no GLASS. GEORGE GLASS.

None of this happened.

So Poo is back, I see.

It's all so nifty.

Aw, this sounds so sweet.

How vanilla.

I think for true Harlequin appeal, OP, you need some trials to go with all this tribulation. How about introducing BF's staunchly conservative father who wants BF to take an executive role in his Fortune 500 company, but BF is so conflicted he's heartsick because it'll mean keeping your blazing love a secret from Dad and the board of directors. Of course, BF will choose you and still be fabulously rich, in addition to looking like Channing Tatum, natch, and his gruff old pa will eventually welcome you as the bottom-in-law he always wanted.

I’m curious about the part where the b-friend moved in because he couldn’t pay the rent. For an assortment of reasons.

Update

[quote]stays very hard for a LONG time!

When did you turn 50, OP?

Bump