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Anyone into voyeur stuff?

I REALLY REALLY want to watch my boyfriend get fucked. He's into it, but we can't find someone. He's 32, great (natural) ass, and a wonderful bottom. He's good looking and in shape, but in our town, I guess there's no one into being watched. Too bad for us!

Anyone else into this? Is this really even voyeurism, or is it called something else? (besides being a perv, in general)

by Anonymousreply 67January 12, 2018 3:40 AM

What’s a “natural” ass?

by Anonymousreply 1December 18, 2017 9:38 PM

Is this what he wants after catching you looking through his Iphone?

by Anonymousreply 2December 18, 2017 9:56 PM

I like it too.

I especially like watching in mirrors too.

by Anonymousreply 3December 18, 2017 9:58 PM

ROP sounds like you're into cuckolding. Look up gay cuckold on tumblr, see if it's wjat you and your bf have in mind

by Anonymousreply 4December 18, 2017 10:09 PM

Love it. Done three threesomes with my ptr and I love watching him do stuff and have stuff done to him. Love it.

by Anonymousreply 5December 18, 2017 10:20 PM

R1 - you're that stupid? An ass without implants

by Anonymousreply 6December 18, 2017 10:46 PM

Not really but I used to like listening to my neighbors in the apartment next to me, fight, years ago. I would put a glass to the wall for better volume.

by Anonymousreply 7December 18, 2017 10:48 PM

Lol at R7

And O/P - sounds hotttttttt. I'd do your bottom and you could watch.

by Anonymousreply 8December 18, 2017 10:50 PM

OP you must live in a small town. Any major city you'd have plenty of offers.

by Anonymousreply 9December 18, 2017 10:52 PM

R8 👬+🐂=❤

by Anonymousreply 10December 18, 2017 10:58 PM

R7 Will& Grace did that

by Anonymousreply 11December 19, 2017 11:19 AM

I like watching too

by Anonymousreply 12December 19, 2017 11:34 AM

[quote]An ass without implants

This needs to be specified? Really? Okay...

by Anonymousreply 13December 19, 2017 11:48 AM

apparently for R1 it did

by Anonymousreply 14December 19, 2017 12:16 PM

👵 👴 We Are !

CALL US @ 1-800-PEEK-A-BOO

by Anonymousreply 15December 19, 2017 1:25 PM

Its hot OP, and a lot more people are doing it. But what you want is to be cuckolded.

by Anonymousreply 16December 19, 2017 1:48 PM

I’d love to watch you watching your boyfriend get fucked. But I want you tied to a chair with duct tape wrapped around your mouth, your boyfriend tied to the headboard and the top wearing a ski mask holding a knife to your boyfriend’s throat, taunting you as you helplessly watch him get pounded.

by Anonymousreply 17December 19, 2017 2:11 PM

I don't understand how a top could want to watch their bottom get fucked without wanting to hurt or worse the other guy.

by Anonymousreply 18December 19, 2017 2:25 PM

Are you a top r18?

by Anonymousreply 19December 19, 2017 2:27 PM

Yes

by Anonymousreply 20December 19, 2017 2:28 PM

I guess you have to be a special kind of freak to find it hot

by Anonymousreply 21December 19, 2017 3:41 PM

R16 is right. It's long been a popular fetish with straight guys and is on the rise with gay guys.

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by Anonymousreply 22December 19, 2017 4:21 PM

This must be OP...

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by Anonymousreply 23December 19, 2017 4:27 PM

r18 some bottoms love their partners but they want a bigger dick or more masculine man sometimes so they can feel sexually satisfied.

And many guys get immensely turned on by seeing their partners be a hoe and get want they want. A lot of guys, gay and straight, get turned on because its so taboo. Its a win-win if everyone plays their part. There are also couples out their that are two bottoms and they both want to get topped occasionally.

by Anonymousreply 24December 19, 2017 6:10 PM

Getting caught is the best!

by Anonymousreply 25December 19, 2017 6:10 PM

R24 and don't forget shame! Many cucks eroticize shame and get off on it.

by Anonymousreply 26December 19, 2017 7:06 PM

90% of all 3-ways I've been in with a couple has always ended in jealously from one of them. It's most awkward when it plays out WHILE you're having the 3-way, but that's when it usually happens.

by Anonymousreply 27December 19, 2017 7:15 PM

Agreed R27 There’s always one who is more into it than the other, making it awkward. Threesomes are overrated

by Anonymousreply 28December 19, 2017 7:21 PM

I love watching a dude squirt cum onto another dude's face. Especially when it really stings his eyes. I enjoy watching his pain.

by Anonymousreply 29December 19, 2017 7:23 PM

R27 R28 cuckolding is not the same as threesomes. Jealousy is factored in and fetishized. Sounds like that's what OP is talking about

by Anonymousreply 30December 19, 2017 7:30 PM

R30 is right. I'm not wanting to take part, really. I want to mostly watch. I'm not looking for an actual threesome.

by Anonymousreply 31December 19, 2017 7:34 PM

What video is that from R23?

by Anonymousreply 32December 19, 2017 7:37 PM

R26: Heard of that. Don't get it. How does one eroticize shame?

by Anonymousreply 33December 19, 2017 7:37 PM

Does the guy fucking your bf have to be black?

by Anonymousreply 34December 19, 2017 7:42 PM

R33 people eroticize lots of different emotions. Shame is a pretty strong one, it makes a certain amount of sense.

by Anonymousreply 35December 19, 2017 7:47 PM

R32 men.dot.com "watching my husband"

by Anonymousreply 36December 19, 2017 7:48 PM

Thank you R36!

by Anonymousreply 37December 19, 2017 7:57 PM

R34 - I don't get what that has to do with anything? I never said that, but ok.

by Anonymousreply 38December 19, 2017 8:02 PM

Jeez, OP. Where do you live???

We can't give you good information without tailoring it to your locale.

by Anonymousreply 39December 19, 2017 8:08 PM

R38 i think what R34 is saying is that in straight cuckold culture there is often (but not nearly always) a raceplay element. I don't think it's nearly as prevalent with gay cuckolds.

by Anonymousreply 40December 19, 2017 8:08 PM

I live in Austin, TX (sadly)

by Anonymousreply 41December 19, 2017 8:09 PM

Try getting a joint Grindr account with your boyfriend. And advertise what you're looking for. Cuckolding is becoming more well-known with gay guys and I'll bet you'll have tons of guys interested in fucking your boyfriend while you watch.

by Anonymousreply 42December 19, 2017 8:10 PM

R35: Is it just a matter of, for example, wanting to be overpowered? Because a lot of bottoms would be into that with no shame involved, whatsoever, whereas tops might experience shame. Or is it specifically that shame is attached to something for whatever reason?

by Anonymousreply 43December 19, 2017 8:11 PM

R43 for a lot of cucks, I don't know about OP, it's shame about having another man fuck your partner better than you can. Sometimes it shame associated with penis size or fucking ability. Sometimes it's Shame about non-monogamy or breaking of commitments. It's almost a humiliation BDSM kind of thing. It's jealousy and shame at seeing another person satisfying your partner, or overpowering them.

by Anonymousreply 44December 19, 2017 8:21 PM

O/P here - for me, it's not about shame, or at least I don't think it is. It's about being able to see it all. When I'm fucking him, I see his face, mostly, or the back of his head, etc. But, I want to see all of what his body looks like when he's in intense pleasure like that. I want to watch his face from a distance when he's cumming, etc.

by Anonymousreply 45December 19, 2017 8:26 PM

Do you want the other guy to cum in your bf, OP? Or does he really not matter (just a dick) and it's really just about seeing your bf fucked?

by Anonymousreply 46December 19, 2017 8:29 PM

No, not cum inside him. I don't want raw stuff. He can pull the condom off when he's ready to cum, and then cum on his back or chest, but not inside him. I'm less concerned with the other dude, and just want to watch my guy having fun.

by Anonymousreply 47December 19, 2017 8:31 PM

R45 you might be a "stag" then, and into your bf being a "hotboyfriend" So many terms! Lol. It's the same basic idea of cuckolding without the shame. It's more about getting off on watching your boyfriend being pleasured and satisfied.

by Anonymousreply 48December 19, 2017 8:32 PM

R48 that sounds accurate. I'm not familiar with all the words!

by Anonymousreply 49December 19, 2017 8:39 PM

I'm a peeping tom. Nobody knows I'm watching. And I get an extra thrill from that.

by Anonymousreply 50December 19, 2017 8:41 PM

R49 LOL It's all popular terms in straight Kink communities and straight porn, but hasn't really caught on with gay guys. Cuckolding is starting to though

by Anonymousreply 51December 19, 2017 8:41 PM

R50 - I know. You just think I don't know.

by Anonymousreply 52December 19, 2017 8:45 PM

OP so basically you like the idea of watching your boyfriend being a slut? That's hot!

by Anonymousreply 53December 19, 2017 8:45 PM

It takes two to tango.

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by Anonymousreply 54December 19, 2017 8:57 PM

OP, whatcha gonna do if your boyfriend likes fucking the third party better than fucking you?

by Anonymousreply 55December 19, 2017 9:28 PM

OP. Communication is key! As are boundaries and rules.

by Anonymousreply 56December 19, 2017 9:30 PM

I prefer 3ways with a couple, because things are more intense than when with two unrelated individuals. I especially love to fuck a guy while his boyfriend watches, but can’t join in. Talk about power. Lots of fun. The hardest part is to find a couple where you are interested in both, or both into you.

by Anonymousreply 57December 19, 2017 9:44 PM

R57  "I especially love to fuck a guy while his boyfriend watches, but can’t join in." That makes you a bull. And that's hot!

by Anonymousreply 58December 19, 2017 10:09 PM

R55 - well, then that's the way it'll have to be, I suppose! We've got a fun relationship, we've established rules about this encounter (no real names, this person leaves once we're all done, etc.).

by Anonymousreply 59December 20, 2017 2:05 AM

Is there ANY real porn online with legit, homemade videos of this? All I can ever find is some stupid somewhat produced crap. I've searched everywhere. O/P if you really do this, video it, and show us.

by Anonymousreply 60December 20, 2017 11:51 AM

R60 if u find any post it here!!!

by Anonymousreply 61December 20, 2017 12:02 PM

Love your honesty OP.

Good luck!

by Anonymousreply 62December 20, 2017 12:06 PM

bump

by Anonymousreply 63January 12, 2018 1:12 AM

Start by recording your bf with your phone or a camera when you’re together and see if it’s in the right direction for you when you watch it later?

by Anonymousreply 64January 12, 2018 1:59 AM

Used to live in a historic residence with housemates. One was hot and I would watch his long, involved masturbation sessions through the old style keyhole.

Had an ex who was afraid his boyfriend who cheated on him during the day. He rigged hidden cameras in the apartment. I never met the guy, but I got off watching tapes of his hookups.

by Anonymousreply 65January 12, 2018 2:12 AM

OP, I found myself in the situation you described with my then boyfriend. We were in our early 20s and were not really established as a couple - only about 3 or 4 months together. It wasn't planned, just happened spontaneously with my best friend. I watched for a few minutes and then promptly freaked out. I suppose it should have been hot...I was wrong. Had it been a threesome with 2 different people, that I would have enjoyed.

by Anonymousreply 66January 12, 2018 3:30 AM

We did a threesome once. It soon became obvious the guy was into me and not my S.O, Not good and never again.

by Anonymousreply 67January 12, 2018 3:40 AM
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