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10 Things Every Intersectional Feminist Should Ask On a First Date

Why would anyone want to date such a humorless troll? It begins:

"As a queer femme of color, I keep close relationships with people who go beyond allyship; they’re true accomplices in the fight against white supremacy, queerphobia, and misogyny. If you’re not going to support marginalized folks, then we can’t be friends, let alone date. The personal is political.

Beyond the lovely cushioning, happiness and support that we receive from our platonic relationships (which are, in all honesty, soul-feeding and essential), feminists also date! But there are questions we have to ask before we get close to someone.

The following list of questions is applicable to all relationships — certainly not just cisgender, heterosexual ones: " ...

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by Anonymousreply 256December 19, 2018 2:39 PM

The annoying bit is she has some good points. But dating that bundle of opinions? Sounds exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 1December 11, 2017 4:52 AM

fuck this

fuck them

fuck you

by Anonymousreply 2December 11, 2017 5:00 AM

Yea lets ask all these questions on a first date...if you never want to see anyone for a second.

by Anonymousreply 3December 11, 2017 5:18 AM

"As a queer femme of color--"

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by Anonymousreply 4December 11, 2017 5:30 AM

Holy shit. I read the paragraph thinking it was a spoof. Unbelievable! I’m so exhausted I need to go lie to down.

by Anonymousreply 5December 11, 2017 5:38 AM

So fucking pretensious. She basically wants to world overrun by Muslims. She won't care because they're Brown and thus infallible. All the gays will be forcibly and violently mutilated into trans, but that's okay because gays were just "queer" to begin with and this way those transphobic gays will learn a lesson. And we crush capitalism and replace it with a local, organic, free range, anarchic communist caliphate.

by Anonymousreply 6December 11, 2017 5:41 AM

Before I take the time to read it. Is this more jigaboo drama?

by Anonymousreply 7December 11, 2017 5:44 AM

It's too much, too soon and too intellectually invasive.

by Anonymousreply 8December 11, 2017 6:31 AM

[quote] What Every Intersectional Feminist Should Ask On a First Date

Why do I never get a second date?

by Anonymousreply 9December 11, 2017 6:43 AM

She's probably too narcissistic to understand that the "others" she's dating are also asking themselves questions about her and finding her tedious and nuts.

by Anonymousreply 10December 11, 2017 6:48 AM

Everyday Feminism has got to be a parody site.

by Anonymousreply 11December 11, 2017 6:51 AM

Jesus fucking Christ

by Anonymousreply 12December 11, 2017 6:55 AM

The lovely authoress:

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by Anonymousreply 13December 11, 2017 7:04 AM

You like?

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by Anonymousreply 14December 11, 2017 7:05 AM

Ew.

by Anonymousreply 15December 11, 2017 9:54 AM

Her existence makes a compelling case for post-natal abortion.

by Anonymousreply 16December 11, 2017 9:59 AM

Lara is hardly any eyesore, she just has a terrible personality.

by Anonymousreply 17December 11, 2017 11:22 AM

Too much work

by Anonymousreply 18December 11, 2017 11:55 AM

She has a knack for taking perfectly valid and laudable view points and turning them into insufferably smug and pretentious rants, as if she was the one who invented basic human decency and wanted to whack all of us savages with it.

by Anonymousreply 19December 11, 2017 12:14 PM

Nailed it, R19. She appears to be a young white woman. Is she appropriating the struggles of queer femme WOC?

by Anonymousreply 20December 11, 2017 12:18 PM

Wtf does intersectional mean?

by Anonymousreply 21December 11, 2017 12:46 PM

She looks white to me. Attention whore.

by Anonymousreply 22December 11, 2017 12:47 PM

Well at least this heap of baloney would weed out R6, so there's that.

by Anonymousreply 23December 11, 2017 12:58 PM

Intersectional feminism equals the destruction of feminism. You can’t talk about workplace equality anymore because those are whites women’s priorities and we all know white women are privileged. So now feminism is all about how minorities and men in dresses are oppressed. In other words feminism isn’t about women anymore.

by Anonymousreply 24December 11, 2017 1:06 PM

What does "femme" mean these days?

by Anonymousreply 25December 11, 2017 1:12 PM

She lost me with the trans and cis bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 26December 11, 2017 1:14 PM

[quote]The annoying bit is she has some good points.

No. No she doesn’t. Not one.

To be considered worthy of her attention you must pass this ridiculous litmus test full of post modern academic glossolalia. Meanwhile the author is a white girl from Switzerland who thinks it’s her perogative to lecture others on the plight of Native Americans and the scourge of white colonialism. Oh, but she “educated” herself! And yet she’s still the arbiter of whether or not you make the grade? Bitch please.

by Anonymousreply 27December 11, 2017 1:29 PM

Generally I just want someone I'm going to date to be a decent person. I think a lot of people can be pro human rights without being excessive about it. I judge people by their actions and not their preaching because I've met a lot of people who act like they're into human rights but when it comes down to it, they're just as racist/homophobic/sexist as anyone else, they just know how to talk to talk when it doesn't involve actually doing anything good.

by Anonymousreply 28December 11, 2017 1:38 PM

[quote] I keep close relationships with people who go beyond allyship

Haha!

by Anonymousreply 29December 11, 2017 2:33 PM

"Intersectionality" starts from a common sense notion, namely that oppression can take many different forms, i.e., sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, classism, xenophobia, etc., and therefore the experiences and perspectives of a rich, black, gay male will be different than a poor, white, disabled lesbian, for example. Since most of the social justice movement is comprised of white, cis-gendered, heterosexual females, and usually congregates in places of privilege (college campuses and Tumblr), the idea behind intersectionality is that more of an effort should be made to give voice to the underrepresented and oppressed. This is good.

However, as it is practiced by most of the young people in the modern social justice movement, intersectionality usually means that the person who can claim the most "intersections" is automatically afforded the most adulation and given the loudest megaphone during any conversation, regardless of whether their ideas warrant it.

This is especially problematic because it makes the social justice movement a magnet for narcissists who like getting preferential access to a soapbox without having to rigorously defend any of their ideas.

Also, since white, cis-gendered, heterosexual females (again, the bread and butter of the SJ movement) are immediately outclassed as soon as a person of color enters the room, this has led bored, privileged millennials to actively seek out ways in which they can claim oppression and therefore jockey for a position at the SJ table. Trans-genderism, trans-racialism, trans-ablism, and trans-cognitive are now officially recognized ways for people who were born male, white, healthy or intelligent to appropriate the struggles of women, the non-white, the disabled, or the retarded.

Before you claim this is hyperbole, I once volunteered at a place where a person with two fully functional legs had to be pushed around in a wheelchair by other volunteers because she identified as a paraplegic in order to be on an ADA advisory and activist committee.

by Anonymousreply 30December 11, 2017 3:32 PM

When is Everyday Feminism going to go tits up already? No one normal takes it seriously at this point.

by Anonymousreply 31December 11, 2017 3:35 PM

[Quote] Before you claim this is hyperbole, I once volunteered at a place where a person with two fully functional legs had to be pushed around in a wheelchair by other volunteers because she identified as a paraplegic in order to be on an ADA advisory and activist committee.

That's just wrong.

by Anonymousreply 32December 11, 2017 4:01 PM

Everyday Feminism is probably supported by the alt-right to discredit a larger population with more mainstream feminism beliefs. "Let's make a large population look disturbed by focusing on extremists and lampooning them!"

by Anonymousreply 33December 11, 2017 4:10 PM

R30 just talked me into bed.

by Anonymousreply 34December 11, 2017 6:43 PM

Thanks R30 for your wise post. You nailed it.

by Anonymousreply 35December 12, 2017 4:14 AM

A lot of old-time Catholics will recognize this addiction to suffering - if we flog ourselves long enough, deny ourselves in every way, and marinate in our pain, then we will know the sufferings of Christ and will be closer to God.

While the SJWs are virulently anti-Christ they engage in the same purity rituals by collecting their "intersections" and sufferings in order to feel closer to transcendence.

by Anonymousreply 36December 12, 2017 4:22 AM

[R36] This is a common religious/philosophical/occult practice. Namely, in order to reach enlightenment or Transcendence one needs to deny the physical or fleshly and embrace the spiritual or intellectual. The Gnostics, a school of Greek philosophy which eventually morphed into an early sect of Christianity, which became a major influence on Catholicism, was big on this.

by Anonymousreply 37December 12, 2017 4:52 AM

I've often wished it was socially acceptable to present a questionnaire like that on a first date, or just hand over a list of absolute dealbreakers and just tell the guy not to waste his time if he meets any of them.

But you can't actually do that, because it's self-righteous and obnoxious and incredibly fucking rude to the other person. You've actually got to let the other person talk about themselves, anything else and it's a harangue rather than a date.

by Anonymousreply 38December 12, 2017 6:38 AM

I don’t think “allyship” is a real word.

by Anonymousreply 39December 12, 2017 6:47 AM

The other reason that intersectionality is bullshit, R30, is that it's all about who has the most hurt feelings, and ignores all the genuinely important issues, the ones that hurt billions of people or destroy millions of lives.

Millions about to lose health insurance? They care more about making sure trans prisoners of color can get hormones at the taxpayer's expense. Tax plan about to destroy the middle class? Something that white cis people worry about. Natural disaster destroys homes and livelihoods? Who cares when Muslim immigrants don't feel welcome. Oceans being destroyed by toxins and garbage and the planetary ecosystem being undermined? Well, how does that affect transwomen of color?

by Anonymousreply 40December 12, 2017 8:26 AM

I'm exhausted reading this. It's a decent primer on how super liberal socially conscious millennials think about the world.

It's amazing how the Palestinians get dragged into every list of complaints. Americans have their own problems. I'm cool with the BDS movement if people want to support it, but trying to connect that to other left wing causes (like the women's march/dyke march earlier this year) is fucking ridiculous. There's seven billion people on this planet, more LITERAL HUMAN SLAVES on Earth than any point in history (look it up), and they're wasting energy on this--a problem that isn't getting solved anytime soon. And this girl is suggesting it be brought up during a first date.

Sorry, I'm just frustrated because I see this becoming a bigger wedge issue inside the Democratic party and its such small potatoes compared to the issues Americans are dealing with.

by Anonymousreply 41December 12, 2017 11:57 AM

Trump is going to be president forever.

by Anonymousreply 42December 12, 2017 12:05 PM

TRUE R24

Nobody talks about misogyny in minority groups. Who normalized “ho,” which is now synonymous with woman?

How was “The Color Purple” received by the black community back in the 80s? iirc, many thought Walker should not have aired the black community’s dirty laundry about male violence against women & children.

by Anonymousreply 43December 12, 2017 12:12 PM

How do the gays rate?

by Anonymousreply 44December 12, 2017 12:13 PM

Stuck in traffic yesterday I gave in & turned on npr.

It was a report from a young woman (with vocal fry) talking about how East Asians now identify as “people of color” because they are not white.

Fine.

But how do POC feel about that? I predict conflict between the SJWs who refer to people only as black, brown or white. Because Asians don’t “identify” as white, and they’re not black or brown. (Or at least other brown people don’t think so. )

Eventually these kids will need to learn that people aren’t colors, things are. People are not things. And, literally, no person is “white.” Not even elbinos.

I’m done with that generation. I look forward to the pendulum swing from the next generation....the ones who will suffer real consequences from a Trump White House and will see this BS for what it is.

by Anonymousreply 45December 12, 2017 12:24 PM

Her poor boyfriend. Run for the hills sweetie!

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by Anonymousreply 46December 12, 2017 12:31 PM

The comments on this post from her SJW friends are fucking hilarious... puts it in perspective:

"I hate white people but love white dick." "Wait what the fuck? Ur dating a white man?! I'm so confused"

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by Anonymousreply 47December 12, 2017 12:39 PM

These SJW types lose me at “folks” every single time.

by Anonymousreply 48December 12, 2017 12:53 PM

What an utter pile of wank. She's done nothing more than find a more "woke" method of sifting out anyone who's not in the same social class as herself.

by Anonymousreply 49December 12, 2017 12:54 PM

Let the parody articles begin!

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by Anonymousreply 50December 12, 2017 1:41 PM

Ha - she made her Instagram private. Typical.

I *guarantee* that she didn't ask that guy pictured with her in R46 those 10 questions when they went on their first date. Yet here she is, lecturing her straight SJW friends to do just that, almost guaranteeing that they won't get a second date.

by Anonymousreply 51December 12, 2017 2:03 PM

'Straight' should say 'single' instead. ^

by Anonymousreply 52December 12, 2017 2:04 PM

RUN!

RUN!

by Anonymousreply 53December 12, 2017 2:14 PM

R45 I am white, full disclosure.

One problem I have with the term "POC" is that is sets everyone into one of two categories: white and POC.

So ... white people are again the standard by which everyone else is judged. isn't that what they're (the people who encourage usage of POC) trying to get away from? Also, the differences among POC themselves are as great, if not greater, than the differences between whites and POC.

by Anonymousreply 54December 12, 2017 2:19 PM

She's a fake bisexual sex addict who has a dick in her at all times isn't she?

by Anonymousreply 55December 12, 2017 2:20 PM

I'm a feminist. Straight. White. And I find this woman repulsive. This is what people in blue collar jobs think of as the Hillary-supporting elite.

by Anonymousreply 56December 12, 2017 2:25 PM

"I'm not anti-semetic! I have Jewish friends!"

My, what an astounding lack of self awareness.

by Anonymousreply 57December 12, 2017 2:29 PM

Absolutely repellent woman. She's so desperate to impress black people and be validated by them.

by Anonymousreply 58December 12, 2017 2:33 PM

A white girl from Switzerland lecturing others about their "privilege." Oh the irony, I love it!

by Anonymousreply 59December 12, 2017 2:54 PM

[quote]I *guarantee* that she didn't ask that guy pictured with her in [R46] those 10 questions when they went on their first date.

From the look of him, the only thing on her mind was how fast she could get his dick in her. Screw the questionnaire!

by Anonymousreply 60December 12, 2017 3:00 PM

My ten answers to her questions:

1. I

2. don't

3. have

4. any

5. interest

6. in

7. dating

8. someone

9. like

10. you.

by Anonymousreply 61December 12, 2017 10:25 PM

People lose me at: "I am white, full disclosure" and "problematic". Sure signs of a cunt. Run. Run. Run. If they say things like that, wear a fanny pack, and have multiple tattoos make sure they don't know where you live. If they do you better move.

by Anonymousreply 62December 12, 2017 11:12 PM

[quote]femmefeministeAmerica doesn’t deserve Black women. By @amy_sall / via @museummammy

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by Anonymousreply 63December 13, 2017 9:33 PM

Yes, America doesn’t deserve black women.

by Anonymousreply 64December 13, 2017 9:44 PM

Look at this post of her gloating about having no children... because she's too narcissistic to concentrate on anything other than herself:

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by Anonymousreply 65December 13, 2017 10:18 PM

Well it would be in everyone's best interests if she doesn't procreate.

by Anonymousreply 66December 13, 2017 11:15 PM

Oh God, that ridiculous site, the one where most of the articles are about how women can ignore their own needs and support everyone else's, especially trans women of color.

On today's leader, there are two particularly amusing headlines next to each other: "Healing from Toxic Whiteness" is right above "Everyday Self-Love Course"! Yeah, feel horrible that you're white, so horrible you need a self-love course.

by Anonymousreply 67December 13, 2017 11:41 PM

Not interested in trafficking the site; what is "toxic whiteness" R67?

by Anonymousreply 68December 13, 2017 11:54 PM

"On a date with someone who uses ableist slurs? Walk away." Does the author not realize the problem with that statement?

by Anonymousreply 69December 14, 2017 12:01 AM

lol r69!

by Anonymousreply 70December 14, 2017 12:36 AM

She supports BDS which has been proven to be anti-Semitic. Even Abbas said not to support it becasue it actually hurts Palestininans.

by Anonymousreply 71December 14, 2017 1:20 AM

R30 - "trans-cognitive"

That's a new one. I'm almost afraid to ask what it means.

by Anonymousreply 72December 14, 2017 1:27 AM

Please god, someone tweet her what R69 wrote.

by Anonymousreply 73December 14, 2017 1:33 AM

R71. But it makes the SJWs feel pure and that's all that matters.

by Anonymousreply 74December 14, 2017 2:11 AM

These freaking people are bat-shit crazy. All of them. Just totally freaking nuts. Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 75December 14, 2017 3:37 AM

Heaven forbid they should talk about hobbies or favorite music on a first date.

by Anonymousreply 76December 14, 2017 6:40 PM

R76 - Or who's picking up the dinner check. Bitch better not expect me to anymore.

by Anonymousreply 77December 14, 2017 11:42 PM

That bitch needs to be shoved back into the kitchen.

by Anonymousreply 78December 14, 2017 11:58 PM

"Honestly, cis men in general. Most of you are exhausting. I can't tell you how nice it is not work with cishet men anymore, I'm so lucky to work with BIWoC/femmes/NB folks."

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by Anonymousreply 79December 15, 2017 12:01 AM

They're not the least bit crazy, R75, they're just young and well-intentioned and self-righteous and can't see any sort of big picture. The want nothing more than to tell the world everything, yet they've embraced a philolosphy that says that privileged people like themselves shouldn't speak. They want to help the oppressed, yet they'll embrace people with oppressive belief systems if they make a show of victimhood. They say they're feminists, and that feminism is all about women ignoring their own needs and helping every cause but their own.

They're not crazy, they're fools.

by Anonymousreply 80December 15, 2017 12:02 AM

All Lara Witt does is lecture people... now she's telling light skinned black women they have to take a backseat to darker skinned black women. She is so up herself.

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by Anonymousreply 81December 15, 2017 12:13 AM

How exactly is she a POC?

by Anonymousreply 82December 15, 2017 12:18 AM

This gal is a deranged lunatic

by Anonymousreply 83December 15, 2017 12:28 AM

[quote]All Lara Witt does is lecture people... now she's telling light skinned black women they have to take a backseat to darker skinned black women.

Ok, now I think she’s a troll and this is some performance art take on a SJW.

by Anonymousreply 84December 15, 2017 12:28 AM

Her nostrils frighten me.

by Anonymousreply 85December 15, 2017 9:52 PM

These people have only one purpose. To make everyone as miserable as they are.

by Anonymousreply 86December 16, 2017 12:01 AM

I resent her nostril privilege. She could fit three African-American nostrils in her nostrils (plus a Vietnamese family of eight.)

by Anonymousreply 87December 16, 2017 3:39 AM

"All Lara Witt does is lecture people... now she's telling light skinned black women they have to take a backseat to darker skinned black women."

So now, both the right AND the left have disavowed judging people by the content of their character!

I hate humans.

by Anonymousreply 88December 16, 2017 3:59 AM

Many of the points are representative of my own values - but still R19 speaks for me.

Also one thing so many are unaware of - while I deeply resent and aim to see the wealth of this country shared far more equitably there is at least one time pressing issue that will not wait for that cultural shift - Climate Change. The most desperately needed innovations will require massive funding with or without a SCIENCE/FACT BASED reality. This will require wealth and capitol investments from that 1% - even more after this corrupt tax bill. Alienating progressive Americans inclined to actually DO SOMETHING to help humanity combat climate Change via investments in R&D will Be vital to our survival.

by Anonymousreply 89December 16, 2017 4:22 AM

R89 here should read “With or without a SCIENCE/FACT BASED US Government leadership founded on reality.

by Anonymousreply 90December 16, 2017 4:24 AM

[quote]By tweeting #ThisIsNotUS, Lady Gaga and other white progressives ignore just how very much this is the United States. This is a country which still holds territories like Guam and Puerto Rico, and routinely destroys the lands belonging to Native Americans for the sake of oil and other resources. This is a nation which forced more than 100,000 Japanese Americans into internment camps and dropped an atomic bomb on Nagasaki and Hiroshima.

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by Anonymousreply 91December 16, 2017 5:15 AM

So what's the alternative, R69?

Roll away?

Limp away?

Drag yourself away on your stumps?

You see the poor girl's dilemma?

by Anonymousreply 92December 17, 2017 9:19 PM

No one wants to date an "intersectional feminist."

by Anonymousreply 93December 17, 2017 9:20 PM

[quote] This is a nation which forced more than 100,000 Japanese Americans into internment camps and dropped an atomic bomb on Nagasaki and Hiroshima in response to the unprovoked attacks on Pearl Harbor, Wake Island and Guam, the Bataan Death March and atrocities perpetrated by the Japanese on American POWs, the over 100,000 Americans killed in the Pacific Theater, the additional quarter million Americans wounded--to say nothing of the civilian casualties of other nations like China, Korea and the Philippines suffered, all in the war that was initiated by the Japanese.

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by Anonymousreply 94December 17, 2017 9:31 PM

[quote] She appears to be a young white woman. Is she appropriating the struggles of queer femme WOC?

Looking her up the lady isn't even close to what I expected.

My mother is black: half Kenyan, half Indian. My father is white. My skin varies from being a light olive to 3-4 shades darker when I am tan. My hair is brown and naturally wavy-curly. My eyes are brown. I have somewhat non-caucasian features, but my heritage is pretty indecipherable.

On paper I am a minority, but you wouldn’t necessarily know that when you see me. I come from a upper middle class family, I grew up in Switzerland, I got to travel a lot and I speak fluent english and french. In person, I can perform whiteness. I portray European-ness. But I know nothing else.

For years I have struggled with my mixed ethnicity because I don’t feel either Kenyan or Indian at all...

My mother made me white, she denied me half of who I am.

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Educated, cute, travelled. But batshit nuts outweighs it all. The waste of such potential is sad. And western universities are cranking them out like her as fast as they can.

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by Anonymousreply 95December 17, 2017 9:46 PM

Intersectional feminists don't want to date male feminists.

by Anonymousreply 96December 17, 2017 9:47 PM

This thread is making me...

by Anonymousreply 97December 17, 2017 9:49 PM

"My mother made me white, she denied me half of who I am."

At least mother stuck around. Where did black dad jaunt off to?

This bitch will use all available privilege then stick a knife in your back. I'd say disown her and cut her off financially, but she desperately needs surgery to fix her grossly deformed nostrils. So maybe write her a check for $10,000, then cut off all contact with this cunt.

by Anonymousreply 98December 17, 2017 10:07 PM

^^^her dad is white. Her story is ridiculous, her brown mother made her white? What does that even mean?

by Anonymousreply 99December 17, 2017 10:51 PM

Thank you r94.

by Anonymousreply 100December 18, 2017 12:08 AM

"But I know nothing else. "

She's so close to self-awareness!

I'm rooting for ya, Crazy Jane!

by Anonymousreply 101December 20, 2017 6:49 PM

There's nothing more vomit inducing than the spectacle of a heterosexual, white, educated, upper middle class, cis-female taking on the mantle of the oppressed.

by Anonymousreply 102December 20, 2017 11:53 PM

That site is full of phonies and morons

by Anonymousreply 103December 20, 2017 11:59 PM

Her latest think piece for NY Daily News:

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by Anonymousreply 104January 17, 2018 12:09 PM

A counter-argument:

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by Anonymousreply 105January 17, 2018 12:09 PM

[quote] Ignoring trans-misogynoir would be to deny one of the biggest, most despicable problems that we face.

OK.

by Anonymousreply 106January 17, 2018 12:58 PM

I get that she has some varying DNA in her bloodstream, but to BE a POC don't you need to HAVE some color?

I know that dark skin sistas really resent light skin women sharing in the mantle of POC. I imagine this chick would send them right off the cliff.

As for her "queerness," I bet she kissed another girl while drunk in college.

by Anonymousreply 107January 17, 2018 1:03 PM

Ask this question!

Don't say this!

Shut up and let trans and queer bodies talk about their lived experience!

Don't be offensive.!

Listen and learn!

Do better!

Now, is it just me or do all these imperative sentences seem a little bit, well.......................

rapey?

by Anonymousreply 108January 17, 2018 1:27 PM

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by Anonymousreply 109January 17, 2018 1:40 PM

ok, I just saw the term "womxn" - what is that?

by Anonymousreply 110January 17, 2018 1:42 PM

[quote]ok, I just saw the term "womxn" - what is that?

Postmodern, neo-Marxist propaganda and cultspeak. Please don't use the term. Don't cede linguistic territory and abet them in their ideological mind fuck.

by Anonymousreply 111January 17, 2018 1:52 PM

The common but unstated intersectional belief is that women should sit back and let everyone else "speak about their experience", work to make everyone happy but themselves, and say that their own needs aren't important.

Is it just me, or is that deeply sexist?

by Anonymousreply 112January 17, 2018 6:41 PM

All this listed pseudo-new age social warrior crap and identifying as the black her mother denied her, and she ends up hooking up with a white cis- heteronormative tall cute guy, two inches away from being a full blown All American jock/frat guy.

So full of shit.

I had a blonde beautiful female friend in college (whom I actually thought was and still think is a pretty cool lady) date and fuck every radical on campus ... but she ended up marrying a fifth generation heir with a family name so recognizable I cannot print it because she and her husband (all college friends) would instantly know who wrote this.

by Anonymousreply 113January 17, 2018 11:35 PM

Lara and dear hubby:

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by Anonymousreply 114January 17, 2018 11:52 PM

[quote]femmefeministeMy heart is full ❤ whiteneck.enamoredMy hands are cold. My heart is full. unpolishedmanBut white people are EVIL! baad_s0ul@unpolishedman fuck off

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by Anonymousreply 115January 17, 2018 11:56 PM

[quote]Like Comment 115 likes femmefeministe😍💕❤️ A huge thank you to @cathalyse for capturing this moment ✨✨✨ jphoran😍 rozzyboxqtttttt cathalyse💜💜💜 winnie_sidhartaBeautiful couple!❤️ mikeambron✨😍✨ andylydickLove this christo.lifeI hate white people but love white dick vnsnipe_Wait what the fuck? Ur dating a white man?! I'm so confused baad_s0ul@christo.life fuck y

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by Anonymousreply 116January 17, 2018 11:58 PM

unpolishedman is very clearly a DLer

by Anonymousreply 117January 17, 2018 11:58 PM

I found her a friend finally. Lets hook'em up and her little Ginger too!

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by Anonymousreply 118January 18, 2018 12:04 AM

Everyday Feminism was started by some cheeky right wingers as a parody site. Sadly, far, far, far too many people took them seriously. At this point the founders have flat out stated that they just keep it going to see exactly how far the crazy has spread.

by Anonymousreply 119January 18, 2018 12:05 AM

[quote]Is it just me, or is that deeply sexist?

It is deeply sexist. So is Trans and Islam which is also "intersectionalist.". The big progressive message now is: Be sexist, homophobic, anti-science, anti-free speech (i.e. censor intelligent people), start a race war and try to look as ugly as possible.

by Anonymousreply 120January 18, 2018 12:05 AM

[quote]Everyday Feminism was started by some cheeky right wingers as a parody site

Are all the left-wing sites parody now, too? They say the same thing. Are university courses parody? They say the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 121January 18, 2018 12:06 AM

It reminds me of a fundamentalist church's advice for choosing a mate.

by Anonymousreply 122January 18, 2018 12:13 AM

"Womxn"- Woomksn? Is she a 'Latinks' woomksn?

by Anonymousreply 123January 18, 2018 8:17 AM

Appropriating "femme", which is a label by and for lesbians, is just one of the many nasty things that 'queers' do.

Everyday Feminism can't be taken seriously, didn't Riley Dennis work there at some point?

by Anonymousreply 124January 18, 2018 8:21 AM

Proof r119?

by Anonymousreply 125January 18, 2018 8:25 AM

She grew up upper middle class in one of the richest European countries and married a blonde white boy, but nobody knows she's queer. Tragic.

by Anonymousreply 126January 18, 2018 8:37 AM

I'm not so upset that we gave women the vote, but we should never have given them computers.

by Anonymousreply 127January 18, 2018 8:42 AM

I doubt most intersectional feminists are going on dates. That's something the pretty girls do.

by Anonymousreply 128January 18, 2018 8:46 AM

I'm going to watch Season 2 of The Handmaid's Tale with more sympathy for those poor men.

by Anonymousreply 129January 18, 2018 9:14 AM

I may not be the sharpest knife in the drawer, but will someone please confirm: is this actually a parody?

I get it that Everyday Feminism was said to be a parody site by someone up thread, but isn't her site Femme Feministe or something like that?

by Anonymousreply 130January 18, 2018 9:30 AM

Sorry, she's purple?

by Anonymousreply 131January 18, 2018 9:55 AM

The Brahmin piety is strong in this one.

by Anonymousreply 132January 18, 2018 10:04 AM

Have you ever noticed how females reply to Instagram post with lots of exclamation marks!!!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 133January 18, 2018 10:07 AM

“Don’t waste your time and energy on dating someone who thinks that Islam is inherently violent or misogynistic. Instead, read some Huda Sha’arawi or Mona Eltahawy to educate yourself further on Muslim feminism.”

And the disproportionately high number of Muslim women in women’s shelters in Europe are due to what exactly ?

by Anonymousreply 134January 18, 2018 10:08 AM

Does she keep her husband's testicles in the jar of honey she keeps by the bed?

by Anonymousreply 135January 18, 2018 10:09 AM

All you alt-right, neo-fascist, Republican voting trolls who have a problem with altruism or humanity and especially the ones who hate social justice (SJWs)...

It must be very difficult for you when an SJW is celebrated nationally, like Martin Luther King. It must be so confusing for you.

What do you do? Stick your fingers in your ears and close your eyes and wait for it to away?

What if you're a Christian or a Catholic? Jesus was the most famous SJW of all time, how do you deal with that? It must be ghastly.

If you see a photo of Gandhi, do you start hyperventilating? (Always carry a paper bag around with you.)

I know a very good therapist - just say the word.

by Anonymousreply 136January 18, 2018 10:46 AM

Martin Luther King, Gandhi and Jesus weren't "SJWs." You don't get it.

by Anonymousreply 137January 18, 2018 10:52 AM

[quote]ll this listed pseudo-new age social warrior crap and identifying as the black her mother denied her, and she ends up hooking up with a white cis- heteronormative tall cute guy, two inches away from being a full blown All American jock/frat guy

Remember, all this "gender and sexuality is a social construct and there's no such thing as evolutionary biology" bullshit only matters when SOMEBODY ELSE'S dick or pussy preferences are on the line.

by Anonymousreply 138January 18, 2018 11:18 AM

Something tells me she probably doesn't get to go out on very many dates.

by Anonymousreply 139January 18, 2018 12:25 PM

I seriously doubt that anyone here who is mocking this insanity is either alt-right, neo-fascist, or a Republican voter. This nonsense represents the point where the loony left goes to such extremes of absolutism ("do this," "don't do that," "protest here") that they are about to cross the line and meet the loony right.

by Anonymousreply 140January 18, 2018 12:53 PM

[quote]What if you're a Christian or a Catholic?

Catholics are Christian, you idiot.

by Anonymousreply 141January 18, 2018 1:01 PM

^^^yes, of course. But I know some Protestants what don’t consider Catholics true Christians because of their worship practices and because they aren’t born again.

by Anonymousreply 142January 18, 2018 3:17 PM

The Q-word is not only homophobia, it is a form of misogyny against lesbians and misandry against gay men.

by Anonymousreply 143January 18, 2018 4:01 PM

The main question would be 'do you have a big dick?'

by Anonymousreply 144January 18, 2018 4:11 PM

[quote] Catholics are Christian, you idiot.

Everyone who believes in Jesus is a Christian.

I'm Jewish. I cut out all the middlemen and just worship the Jewish God the Jewish Way.

by Anonymousreply 145January 18, 2018 4:14 PM

This bitch is a joke but she does have good taste in dick...

by Anonymousreply 146January 18, 2018 4:28 PM

These women are why deplorables hate all feminists.

by Anonymousreply 147January 18, 2018 4:30 PM

[quote]Martin Luther King, Gandhi and Jesus weren't "SJWs." You don't get it.

Don't bother, R137. R136 believes all labels. She's sure that governments with "Democratic Republic of..." mean they really are democracies.

by Anonymousreply 148January 18, 2018 5:40 PM

Dear hubby was seriously triggered by train delays:

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by Anonymousreply 149January 19, 2018 12:58 PM

Tribute to wifey:

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by Anonymousreply 150January 19, 2018 12:59 PM

[quote]baad_s0ulsepta. i fucking hate you. you want your passengers to commit suicide, don't you? how the fuck is it that every time i ride your regional rail, the train just doesn't fucking ever arrive? seriously, you are the worst pile of fuck in the universe. you are a joke in the world of public transportation. your bus drivers are dumb bricks of fart, your train "conductors" are pompous ass sniffers, your ticket office people are vacant soulless puke bags, your upper management are squished turds in a syphillitic's mouth. everyone involved in your garbage organization should commit seppuku in apology to the people of philly for all the bullshit you put them through. fuck you. #septa #philadelphia #die

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by Anonymousreply 151January 19, 2018 1:01 PM

[QUOTE] seppuku

That’s cultural appropriation and THAT’s NOT OK!!!!!

by Anonymousreply 152January 19, 2018 1:03 PM

R130: no it’s not a parody site; she’s deadly serious.

by Anonymousreply 153January 19, 2018 1:03 PM

Jesus, R151. Can you imagine the fights these two have? I give it two years, tops.

by Anonymousreply 154January 19, 2018 2:10 PM

"Can I borrow $20 for cab fare?"

by Anonymousreply 155January 19, 2018 7:42 PM

OMG she has a husband? What man could actually be married to that shrieking, holier-than-thou cunt?

by Anonymousreply 156January 19, 2018 8:59 PM

Sorry, [R125] - carry on with the crazy woman. I was thinking of Medusa Magazine, not Everyday Feminism.

by Anonymousreply 157January 20, 2018 11:38 PM

[quote] your bus drivers are dumb bricks of fart, your train "conductors" are pompous ass sniffers, your ticket office people are vacant soulless puke bags.

Oh, bless. Her husband thinks he's so witty in his elitist, faux-anger outburst against the lower class.

by Anonymousreply 158January 21, 2018 1:39 AM

Lara has spoken:

[quote]femmefeministeThis painting makes yt people angrier than what they themselves actually did (& do) to Black people. Art by Kehinde Wiley

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by Anonymousreply 159February 13, 2018 7:54 PM

^ ‘yt people’ = whitey people

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by Anonymousreply 160February 13, 2018 7:56 PM

All about loving yourself, and your pet:

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by Anonymousreply 161February 13, 2018 7:58 PM

What a fucking piece of shit. That painting is grotesque, it isn't somehow okay just because it depicts a black woman. And I'm as liberal as they get. Obviously as art it has a right to exist, but let's not pretend it is anything but an act of hatred.

by Anonymousreply 162February 13, 2018 8:02 PM

Fabulous painting. Brilliant. Unforgettable.

by Anonymousreply 163February 13, 2018 8:04 PM

Lit Woke Loving Couple:

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by Anonymousreply 164February 15, 2018 6:53 AM

This bitch is insufferable.

by Anonymousreply 165February 15, 2018 7:11 AM

Shocker, FemmeFascista here has about the same amount of melanin as printer paper. Rachel Dolezal 'passes ' more successfully.

by Anonymousreply 166February 15, 2018 7:25 AM

This thread should be called “yt whiny femme trying to appropriate the struggle of every minority on Instagram”

by Anonymousreply 167February 15, 2018 7:45 AM

Give her 5 years and she'll turn into this

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by Anonymousreply 168February 15, 2018 9:26 AM

Her husband must be one of those weirdos who likes being dominated/humiliated. How could a normal, sane man stand this bitch for more than two minutes?

by Anonymousreply 169February 15, 2018 2:30 PM

Spreading Peace and Love:

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by Anonymousreply 170February 16, 2018 3:11 AM

Disgusting, is that hubbys chest hair in the background?

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by Anonymousreply 171February 16, 2018 6:22 AM

I'm trans-ghost!

by Anonymousreply 172February 16, 2018 6:24 AM

She’s the the SJW equivalent of a Trekkie—they live in this artificial world where fantasy supercedes reality.

by Anonymousreply 173February 16, 2018 6:26 AM

Does this look like a womny of color to you?

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by Anonymousreply 174February 16, 2018 6:31 AM

Instagram Struggle Appropriator. What is she doing for oppressed groups besides bitching in the media and posting hashtags?

by Anonymousreply 175February 16, 2018 6:50 AM

Well I don't imagine it's hers, R171.

by Anonymousreply 176February 16, 2018 6:55 AM

This stupid girl is why people stop paying attention to real issues. She’s a SJW borg - your struggle is my struggle

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by Anonymousreply 177February 16, 2018 7:04 AM

Watching these "queer" (hetero attention seeking) twats greedily elbow gays/lesbians out they way as they force themselves to the front and centre of things, it's been quite sad seeing the gay community meekly stare at their feet while these idiots take over things.

She's playing with fire trying to pretend to be black as well though. I can't see black Americans tolerating any of this shit like the gay community has, not for one second.

Hopefully this cunt is on the verge of a Rachel Dolezal style backlash, well deserved too.

by Anonymousreply 178February 16, 2018 7:07 AM

This is what teenagers do but they’re immature so it makes sense.

Adults that do this are just virtual signaling attention whores.

by Anonymousreply 179February 16, 2018 7:16 AM

Break out the fucking violins for this one:

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by Anonymousreply 180February 16, 2018 11:43 AM

I love when they say shit like “You don’t get to tell me______” which when I listen deeper is actually the same rap an 8-year old says on the playground “you’re not the boss of me!”

by Anonymousreply 181February 16, 2018 2:48 PM

Amazing how good this chick is at auto fellatio on Instagram and in her articles. Narcissistic tripe.

by Anonymousreply 182February 16, 2018 3:01 PM

Dumb twat even your attempt at humility is arrogant and self-aggrandizing

by Anonymousreply 183February 16, 2018 3:30 PM

"As a queer femme of color...."

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by Anonymousreply 184February 16, 2018 4:03 PM

“Lara Witt is an intersectional feminist writer, the managing editor of Wear Your Voice Magazine and a digital media consultant based in Philadelphia. She writes about self care, pop culture and deconstructing systems of oppression.“

by Anonymousreply 185February 16, 2018 8:03 PM

Says the Blue Hair: You don't get to say...(etc)

Says me: Yes I do. I've just said it.

by Anonymousreply 186February 17, 2018 4:52 AM

Lara Witt is an intersectional faux-men-ist writer, the managing editor of Wear Out Your Voice (And Your Welcome) Magazine, and yet another digital media puritan Queer based in selfies. She writes about herself and her ideological superiority.

by Anonymousreply 187February 17, 2018 5:03 AM

She's also got a side gig churning out this tat. #Suport WOC Artists

"Not a single woman of color owes you her kindness, patience lenience, body or he time. LARA WITT"

I assume she is also a woman of 'color' given she's incorporated her own name into the design.

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by Anonymousreply 188February 17, 2018 6:53 AM

WOC don't need to be decent person according SJWs.

I wonder what black women think about that.

by Anonymousreply 189February 17, 2018 6:57 AM

I’m sure they love having a white woman pretend to be a person of color to avoid the white savior complex, which is clearly what she has...

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by Anonymousreply 190February 17, 2018 7:16 AM

I agree that it's a tired narrative in movies and tv shows.

But this gurl also says that white people shouldn't be humanitarians or interacting with black people cause it victimizes them.

Go say that to Doctor without Borders when there's some Ebola epidemic in Africa. Black people don't need doctors, it would victimize them and be hurtful. Let them die in their black skin dignity.

by Anonymousreply 191February 17, 2018 7:30 AM

"I made this video with everyday feminism is a website that helps breakdown oppression..."

20 seconds later

"White saviour complex is a situation were a white person comes along and saves people of colour from oppression..."

by Anonymousreply 192February 17, 2018 7:51 AM

How much do you want to bet Lara's tees were made by 'woc' for slave wages in Bangladesh?

by Anonymousreply 193February 17, 2018 8:31 AM

I think being an ally of an oppressed group is good but when you take over and it becomes more about you than the members of the oppressed group itself you’ve crossed a line.

Once I went to a retreat for GBT men within a larger men’s group. Straight men were allowed to participate and attended as well. While the intent was to focus on the GBT men and their struggle and empowerment, the weekend somehow became more about these straight men dealing with their own homophobia and us helping them feel OK with the gay.

It was really odd feeling marginalized but I think it’s an example of how as allies we can helpful and supportive, but not to take over and make it more about us than them.

by Anonymousreply 194February 17, 2018 8:50 AM

I think that in this kind of events straight people should speak at the end, when GBT people have said what they have to say.

It's good that they feel concerned about their prejudices but they should organize special events for this where they could discuss it with gay people without monopolizing other events.

by Anonymousreply 195February 17, 2018 9:03 AM

I think it’s a lot more convenient to discuss homophobia among straight people than it is examine common issues in the gay community.

Anytime someone addresses an issue that is detrimental to the gay community, such as ageism, racism, transphobia, narcissism, etc. someone says, “Well straight people are also——-, so why is that our problem?” Very little is seen as worthy of examination and usually written off as internalized homophobia by whoever brings it up.

by Anonymousreply 196February 17, 2018 9:20 AM

It’s always easier to talk about the other than focusing on ourselves and what we can do to affect change in ourselves and in the world.

by Anonymousreply 197February 17, 2018 9:25 AM

Not always but when we do want to discuss certain issues within our own gay and lesbian communities, it's none of straight people's business. So they can show how 'woke' they are by getting out of our 'space' and go maybe work on their homophobia without requiring us to babysit them through it.

[And by not pretending to be us...]

by Anonymousreply 198February 17, 2018 9:34 AM

Yes - another one of my pet peeves are guys who are married with 3.5 kids and live full het lives, but claim to be “bi” because they once fooled around with a buddy when they were 13 - or found someone of the same gender on TV attractive. That doesn’t make you “one of us”.

by Anonymousreply 199February 17, 2018 9:43 AM

[R199] I've never seen men do that, it's always women who do this and refer to themselves as 'queer' or some other bullshit knowing full well they never have or will have any sexual or romantic encounters with their own sex.

This Witt dope being a prime example.

by Anonymousreply 200February 17, 2018 10:34 AM

I stopped taking feminists seriously when they began putting trans women above biological women, and when they started licking the ass of Islam.

No liberal/progressive group should support any religion of any kind, but especially Islam. I wonder how feminists who are atheists feel about it, maybe they're too afraid to speak up in fear of being labeled a racist.

Also, I don't hate trans women but they are NOT real women. They need to form their own movement instead of making feminism all about themselves. One of the many reasons feminism was started was because women had to fight for their reproductive rights, something that does not affect trans "women".

by Anonymousreply 201February 17, 2018 6:17 PM

Don’t hate me because I’m Beautiful:

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by Anonymousreply 202February 17, 2018 11:12 PM

I’m no SJW fan but you all can’t see that she’s clearly mixed race?

by Anonymousreply 203February 18, 2018 2:18 AM

Throw down to Cis Men:

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by Anonymousreply 204March 8, 2018 8:05 PM

What'd her hot boyfriend say?

by Anonymousreply 205March 8, 2018 8:28 PM

r203 her earlier pics don't look as ethnic. She seems more tan in the most recent ones, or she's using a new filter, or something.

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by Anonymousreply 206March 8, 2018 8:32 PM

"hit up our PayPals" - DO THESE PEOPLE EVER STOP THE SHAMELESS GRIFTING?

Man she's insufferable.

by Anonymousreply 207March 8, 2018 8:34 PM

[quote]R30 Before you claim this is hyperbole, I once volunteered at a place where a person with two fully functional legs had to be pushed around in a wheelchair by other volunteers because she identified as a paraplegic in order to be on an ADA advisory and activist committee.

You want us to believe there was something wrong with her arms, too?

by Anonymousreply 208March 8, 2018 8:48 PM

I can't believe I've finally turned into my father, but this idiot and all the other idiot SJWs with their privileged problems should be drafted and sent to a third world country for a while.

by Anonymousreply 209March 8, 2018 8:53 PM

The SJWs seem in the main to be white women scolding other white women for being white, all in the name of currying favor with black women who in truth don't GAF.

by Anonymousreply 210March 8, 2018 9:07 PM

No person ever really does this on a date...even the author.

It's just supposed to get people talking.

by Anonymousreply 211March 8, 2018 9:10 PM

But she said you should ask this if you're an intersectional feminist. Was she lying??

by Anonymousreply 212March 8, 2018 9:12 PM

What the fuck is an intersectional feminist? A woman on Tuesdays and Thursdays?

by Anonymousreply 213March 8, 2018 9:19 PM

[quote]But she said you should ask this if you're an intersectional feminist. Was she lying??

Yes.

by Anonymousreply 214March 8, 2018 9:24 PM

For R213

[quote][bold]Intersectionality[/bold] is a term that was coined by American professor Kimberlé Crenshaw in 1989. The concept already existed but she put a name to it. The textbook definition states:

[quote][italic]"The view that women experience oppression in varying configurations and in varying degrees of intensity. Cultural patterns of oppression are not only interrelated, but are bound together and influenced by the intersectional systems of society. Examples of this include race, gender, class, ability, and ethnicity.”[/italic]

[quote]In other words, certain groups of women have multi-layered facets in life that they have to deal with. There is no one-size-fits-all type of feminism. For example, I am a black woman and as a result I face both racism and sexism as I navigate around everyday life.

by Anonymousreply 215March 8, 2018 9:30 PM

The way it's used is sort of a point system - like, she's more oppressed than me because she's disabled Latina transgender and was molested by her father. Whereas another might be white and blonde and therefore isn't REALLY oppressed.

by Anonymousreply 216March 8, 2018 9:33 PM

You have to admit, a disabled black lesbian has some serious cards stacked against her. She’s got four degrees of oppression, gender race sexuality and ableism. Throw in Muslim and Communist and she’s completely fucked.

by Anonymousreply 217March 8, 2018 9:38 PM

I love when they talk about self care. They are all about reminding each other to self care.

As if they actually cared about others instead of their performative bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 218March 9, 2018 12:30 AM

When I hear "self-care" I think of douching and other forms of maintenance for the lady parts.

by Anonymousreply 219March 9, 2018 1:11 AM

When I hear "self-care" I scratch my head.

These clowns seems to get off on collecting stamps for their oppression bingo cards. They marinate in their victimhood. They love the attention of being hard done by.

If they really wanted to be good to themselves they would seek out ways to be strong and accept their weaknesses as part of living in an imperfect world.

by Anonymousreply 220March 9, 2018 3:13 AM

Lara doesn't have "coworkers." Her job is sitting around tapping on the laptop all day and e-panhandling.

by Anonymousreply 221March 9, 2018 3:18 AM

[quote]R220 When I hear "self-care" I scratch my head.

That's because you're male. Females are conditioned from an early age to be caregivers...to be nice and neat and pick up after others, to not rock the boat, to be the peacemakers. "Self care" is about what men do automatically; ie, put themselves first.

by Anonymousreply 222March 9, 2018 3:22 AM

Does anyone else find it weird that most of these SJW types who are white women of privilege?

It's weird that none of my trans friends or friends of color seem to care about any of this junk or think it's even worthy of discussion. It's always these little white girls who post on Tumblr and make big deals out of nothing. It's like they want people to congratulate them for being oh-so-open minded and holier than thou.

by Anonymousreply 223March 9, 2018 3:32 AM

They're mostly homely white girls. The ones who are getting fucked and have active social lives don't have time for this shit.

by Anonymousreply 224March 9, 2018 3:34 AM

So her dog is a French bulldog? Of COURSE she would have one of those dogs.

Someone needs to send her the link to this thread. So many good points were made here. She deserves to get DRAGGED. What a clueless, nauseating phony she is.

by Anonymousreply 225March 9, 2018 3:54 AM

If I met this bitch IRL I would SOOO read her for filth! She needs to take her sorry ass home because honey the only time ur the smartest person in the room is when YOU ARE ALONE.

by Anonymousreply 226March 9, 2018 4:06 AM

R225 R226

Gosh, so much rage here...

by Anonymousreply 227March 9, 2018 4:09 AM

[quote]The SJWs seem in the main to be white women scolding other white women for being white, all in the name of currying favor with black women who in truth don't GAF.

R210 summed the whole phenomenon up correctly in one sentence.

by Anonymousreply 228March 9, 2018 7:19 AM

As an intersectional feminist.....blah blah....white privilege....blah blah.....colonialism....blah blah.....problematic....blah blah....woke....blah blah.....you don't get to tell me....blah blah fucking blah....

by Anonymousreply 229March 9, 2018 12:42 PM

[quote]femmefeministeI need to make more money so that I can hire an assistant while I finish writing my book. Working + organizing + socializing + trying to take care of myself is a difficult balance to maintain. If I didn’t have to write/answer 20+ emails per day my life would be easier. Emails make me anxious.

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by Anonymousreply 230March 17, 2018 5:50 AM

So privileged!

by Anonymousreply 231March 17, 2018 12:21 PM

"allyship"

ALLIANCE?

by Anonymousreply 232March 17, 2018 12:36 PM

This bitch is more privileged than many white males.

by Anonymousreply 233March 17, 2018 1:03 PM

This obsession with identity is getting to be too much. See:

"I write from the life experiences of a most of the time male-appearing bisexual, genderqueer, skeptic Queer Intersectional Feminist."

"I speak as a black queer non-binary intellectual activist."

" I write and teach from the life experiences of a culturally Jewish, agnostic, able-bodied, sex-positive, intersectional feminist and as a bisexual cisgender woman."

by Anonymousreply 234May 14, 2018 9:05 AM

Religious cultists...the lot of them.

by Anonymousreply 235May 14, 2018 9:12 AM

How is a white woman from Switzerland a WOC? Why is she all preachy about white privilege and such when she is white and annoying?

by Anonymousreply 236May 14, 2018 9:57 AM

She's from Switzerland, lives quite comfortably in NYC and has never apparently held a real job in her life. OMG cry me a fucking river about being "marginalized."

So many of these navel-gazing SJW "activist" twats have very cushy lives that most people could only dream of.

by Anonymousreply 237May 14, 2018 12:51 PM

R237, surely you don't mean ME!

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by Anonymousreply 238May 14, 2018 12:58 PM

I miss the Chryssy threads

by Anonymousreply 239May 14, 2018 1:02 PM

Per r234:

I speak as a lifelong out & proud lesbian feminist, but my voice is silenced re: privacy in women’s bathrooms, dressing rooms, dorms, clinics, athletic events & dating apps.

by Anonymousreply 240May 14, 2018 1:08 PM

xhes's still bringing the HOTNESS r239.

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by Anonymousreply 241May 14, 2018 1:48 PM

Is Chryssy back at Brown? Or is xhe still reclining on her chaise?

by Anonymousreply 242May 14, 2018 2:37 PM

I thought zhe finally got kicked out, R242? Or am I thinking of Meredith?

by Anonymousreply 243May 14, 2018 2:40 PM

I am calling the police, there's a middle aged albino sleeping in the common area. He's wearing a hat that says "so you lost your dick?"

by Anonymousreply 244May 14, 2018 2:53 PM

Lol 244

by Anonymousreply 245May 14, 2018 3:22 PM

Couldn’t remember if xhe was granted additional mental health leave or was expelled, but yeah, I think you’re right. Gone for good.

by Anonymousreply 246May 14, 2018 6:02 PM

She's looking BEAT!

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by Anonymousreply 247December 18, 2018 2:14 PM

"of color" usually means "I'm not black but I'm trying to glom onto the suffering of black people in this country."

by Anonymousreply 248December 18, 2018 2:16 PM

[quote]"Intersectionality" starts from a common sense notion, namely that oppression can take many different forms, i.e., sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, classism, xenophobia, etc., and therefore the experiences and perspectives of a rich, black, gay male will be different than a poor, white, disabled lesbian, for example.

"Intersectionality" starts from the idiotic notion that we're competing in an oppression olympics and in order to be validated, you have to assert that you've been just as oppressed as other people.

It screams for attention where none is deserved. It hectors people with self-aggrandizing awareness, yet fails to recognize the underlying hypocrisy of such claims.

by Anonymousreply 249December 18, 2018 2:24 PM

As a practical matter, intersectionality says, "unless you are talking about racism, you're not a feminist."

The SJWs who assert this meanwhile have the voting rights, reproductive rights, and other hard-fought rights that were obtained by feminists who were talking about sexism, not racism.

by Anonymousreply 250December 18, 2018 2:32 PM

I should add that intersectionality is progressivism for our narcissistic social media age. It's been determined that, unless you are an oppressed trans woman of color, you have lost the oppression Olympics and so your voice should not be listened to. But in the social media age, all we care about is our voice being heard, so shouting the intersectional creed permits one to speak and be heard.

This callout culture. If you are a white girl and want to hold forth about wrongs, intersectionality gives you a bullhorn, and permits you to show yourself not like those other horrible white women who are not as woke as thou.

by Anonymousreply 251December 18, 2018 2:35 PM

This = Thus ^

by Anonymousreply 252December 18, 2018 2:36 PM

Yes, r251. See also: TERF

And I am still waiting for someone to explain to me why one can self-identity as the opposite sex -- and demand society treat them as the opposite sex -- and yet one cannot do the same in regards to race. I'd argue that race is a far more nebulous category than gender.

by Anonymousreply 253December 18, 2018 2:43 PM

EXHAUSTING.

by Anonymousreply 254December 19, 2018 2:20 PM

>> Before you claim this is hyperbole, I once volunteered at a place where a person with two fully functional legs had to be pushed around in a wheelchair by other >>volunteers because she identified as a paraplegic in order to be on an ADA advisory and activist committee.

>That's just wrong.

Not wrong. Hilarious.

by Anonymousreply 255December 19, 2018 2:27 PM

Yes, r251.

This whole thing about white women being racist in the 1970s is a myth. Second Wavers revered & championed Barbara Jordan, Shirley Chisholm, Alice Walker, Maya Angelou, Sojouner Truth, etc.

White women did enjoy more access to education & money, of course, because of our racist society. But they used their education & money to help ALL women...poor, black, middle-class, immigrant, white, rich, disabled, etc.

Second Wavers outlawed domestic violence & legalized abortion, among other things. They weren’t perfect ...who is? But at least they valued learning...and helping others.

White women still have to deal with being devalued by white men. It’s not like straight white men are mean to everyone except white women. They’re mostly awful to their wives.

by Anonymousreply 256December 19, 2018 2:39 PM
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