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What is a "non-binary femme"?

I am not trolling and genuinely want to know.

Are "femmes" usually biological women? Does that mean they identify with their biological gender? If so, why are they "non-binary"? Isn't that a contradiction? Or do biological males also identity as "femme"?

Most people I have met with the "femme" label are biological women, by the way. And usually they've been "femmes of color." I don't now how many males identify as "femme."

Many questions.

by Anonymousreply 1412/07/2017

Isn't a "femme" a feminine lesbian? As opposed to "butch".

by Anonymousreply 112/07/2017

To ask this question is literal violence on my body.

by Anonymousreply 212/07/2017

R1 But no lesbian I know really identifies as "butch." Ie, "I am a non-binary butch of color"

by Anonymousreply 312/07/2017

It's what you feel it to be.

by Anonymousreply 412/07/2017

I am still confused by this ...

by Anonymousreply 512/07/2017

non-binary femme = a busty woman who wears lipstick and high heels who doesn't identify as female or male

by Anonymousreply 612/07/2017

That big as a house fibromyalgia victim in the wheelchair(she has a whole thread devoted to her) describes herself as "Binary as fuck."

She has boobs bigger than Texas, and she's very pretty even with the fat. I cannot see what is non=binary about her.

She's also a sex worker.

by Anonymousreply 712/07/2017

Non-binary anything translates to "attention whore" in most languages.

by Anonymousreply 812/07/2017

Did someone summon my presence?

by Anonymousreply 912/07/2017

As far as I'm concerned, "femme" is a word from lesbian culture but males like Travis Alabanza, Alok and similar middle-class spoilt braTs have decided they'll take that as well. So now the word is also used to mean: Man who wears a stupid blue shade of lipstick, and dresses like a toddler. Because T is all about cultural kleptomania.

by Anonymousreply 1012/07/2017

A kleppermaniac!

by Anonymousreply 1112/07/2017

Yeah, R10, I only heard that term in the context of lesbians, but then I started seeing queeny gay guys like Alok identifying as that. Now it's used by talentless women who are bereft of a personality and think that it makes them stand out from the crowd.

Alok tried saying "women and femmes" in a video and was thoroughly roasted by the godsend Magdalen Berns.

by Anonymousreply 1212/07/2017

When I see a dating profile with ANY of the new words the kids are using, I move on. I don't have time to sit and look up terms. You're either a lesbian, gay, trans or bi. Anything else is stupid.

by Anonymousreply 1312/07/2017

Let me explain something to you. There is no non-binary. You either suck dick, or you do not suck dick.

by Anonymousreply 1412/07/2017
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