Straight Women Accusing Straight Men of Being Gay

Frau homophobia. I pity the straight men having to deal with them.

A lot of straight women are secretly scared if they are being duped by a closet case. I've had female friends who've asked me if I thought a guy they were dating is gay.

It is a thing that happens, even now in 2017, so it isn't like it is a made up fear.

Women are just like gay bottoms: They want their top to be 100% straight. Nothing less will hit the sweet spot.

Straight women are the biggest homophobes. It's especially prevalent in black women who are always online accusing any gay black man of having been "turned" by evil white gays.

Is that Ivanka in OP's picture?

Some Kinsey 1 or 2 guys are like cat mint to me. I've fooled around with a few and the reality is many of them don't see themselves as bisexual at all. Dude, if you get an instant hard-on if I brush your crotch with my hand you're not totally straight. And that's awesome.

Some women are very strict about gender rules, and if a man even slightly shows something they think is a feminine or gay trait they get upset. However people generally do have a functioning gaydar to a point and some women are spot on about their men being bi. It is a complicated issue, and I totally get why it worries some girls.

I'm Kinsey 5 and I used to date girls when younger. Some were absolutely turned on by my bisexuality, although yes, the most serious relationship of them ended up in tears when I fell in love with a man.

1000 WW for R3

Usually they are not accusing straight men but closet cases

I mean think about it. What she wants is to manly denial by fucking her. But only someone really insecue about his sexuality would do that, so they end up getting porked by someone who really is gay.

Its just homophobic bullying. If her man makes gay slurs or beats up a fag for her she’ll be happy.

The only time I "accused" a man I was dating of being gay, he WAS in fact gay. How he could have not realized it I will never know. I'm talking Easter Parade gay, voice and all. He was a Boyfriend, just someone I went out with a few times.

He came out 2 years later, Was I homophobic in telling him what I thought?

R11 Hi Heir Fraulein, did you accuse him for voice and pop culture likes or because you caught him buttfucking?

FWIW "is my husband gay" is one of the most popular searches on Google, particularly in the deep South.

Women can emasculate men in a way only they can do. Women know this and use it to humiliate and subjugate men. Calling a man a wimp, sissy, effeminate, “suspect,” impotent, or gay is one of the most potent weapons a woman has against men

R13

"Google searches for “Is my son gay?” are still about twice as common in July 2017"

Sometimes I am truly ashamed of some of my straight fellow females.

If a woman doesn't get romantic attention from any man she's seeking it from, she accuses him of being gay.

Sometimes straight guys just aren't interested in particular women or they fall out of love/lust.

That should read NOT a boyfriend @R11.

R12 No it was not because of his cultural interests and I certainly did not catch him having sex with a man. He was a bit more effeminate than Mario Cantone and Nathan Lane in The Birdcage put together. I could not understand why he wanted to date me, but his sister said he had crushed on me for several years so I thought I would do a good deed for her, and possibly help him at the same time.

A growing number of men are swearing off serious involvement with women and this is one of the reasons why.

Your source?

R20 are you asking for OP source? I very obviously stated personal experience in the OP.

Most hot stuff married to fish are also smoking pole on the side.

The fish should be grateful that they are getting to tap at least some of that.

r19 I can at least attest to hearing quite a few of my straight male friends talking horribly about their women, for much of the reasons you are alluding to and real frustrations with their drama, esp. this time of year

they are so envious of penises,it drives women crazy. they know they cannot compete and that we have plenty of warm holes. and we're not always ruled by our emotions.

I have a female relative who was married to a gay man. Sometimes it's said for good reason not spite. Their gut feeling is telling them that thinks aren't as they have been led to believe.

*things

I am one of very few on DL who actually like Erna but why she is being ridiculous and sexist on DL for past few days ? Is some one else pretending to be Erna or there are multiple Erna ?

Well, obviously any man who doesn't want their pussies HAS to be gay. Right?

Ugh. Women are disgusting. Like fly traps always trying to devour what passes their way.

r14 a guy could just tell a girl her pussy stinks and she would sob to mama. fragile weird beings.

Women who marry gay men do so knowingly at some level. The men are considered safe, won’t pressure them endlessly for sex, and can be the BFF the women never had.

lol.

R30 that is one of the stupidest things I've ever read on dl, and that's saying something. Please tell me you're not a gay man, because I'd hate to think any of us are walking around with double digit IQs.

This, allegedly, used to happen with JFKjr and Carolyn Bessette. Apparently, during their many fights, he’d call her a “coke head” and she’d scream “fag” back at him. I wonder if she intended it as an insult or maybe she was privy to some personal information

R32 got issues

I don’t think r30 is completely nuts - I’ve suspected that in couples from highly religious communities (Mormon/Evangelicals). I expect when they’re young and newly married, women who’ve grown up with the “sex is only for babies and only whores like it” like their man leaving them alone. Once the kids start getting older and the women matures, she is probably miserable- but in the beginning, kids, a man who leaves her alone at night, is a good dad and provider is probably a big win in her mind.

Yes r34, my issue is I can't stand idiots.

R35 do you realize how small a portion of the population women like that would be?

Besides the flaw in your logic is when they're young, that is when woman's sex drive would be high... it's when they're in middle age and up that they want men to leave them alone.

[quote]I am one of very few on DL who actually like Erna but why she is being ridiculous and sexist on DL for past few days ? Is some one else pretending to be Erna or there are multiple Erna ?

You must be new here if you think Erna is not normally ridiculous and sexist.

Accusing someone of being gay in an argument makes no sense unless there are lots of items backing it up — and I’d think a sane woman who really suspected that would realize a calm, honest discussion would go further than a yelling match.

That being said, I have a few women I know I can picture doing that —- but my money would be that in their warped mind their husband wanting nothing to do with them is easier to handle if it’s another man, not another woman, he is interested in.

R37 A repressive cult spoonfeeding someone from birth is much more powerful than sex drive.

We agree with Nan Michiganwomyn that fish should be forbidden from having sex with men!

Wow, R32, that really hit a nerve with you! Something tells me you are a jilted frau who had this scenario play out in her own life.

R39 85% of women are insane pre-menopause

R37, you've got no idea about women's sex drive. Which is ok since you're probably a man, so there's nothing wrong with not knowing the fact that the sex drive of men and women do not correspond.

Domestic violence (perpetrated mostly against women by men) is more prevalent and worthy of discussion.

But bitchery is reactionary by nature...so have it it bitches!

R45 Men are less likely to report it and in my life I've seen more women be violent to men than the reverse.

R28 So right you are sir!

If nothing else, the past 2 weeks have shown how shockingly bold and hungry women are in devouring every male she comes into contact with.

R16, I totally agree. Difficult to have straight women as friends and not cringe at their behavior and language at times. Just like some straight men put down women for having small breasts, now some women retaliate by calling their boyfriends gay. Run away as fast as you can from such angry, negative people.

Insecurity. I'm a bisexual girl who mostly has sex with girls, and yet I get this kind of jealousy when being with a bi guy too. How do you satisfy a guy who wants cock, if you don't have any? Yeah, I know, strap-ons (so much xd not being straight and all), but how many of you would think a plastic cock could ever replace the real deal?

The closet cases are the worst, actually, because of the forbidden fruit effect.

[quote]How do you satisfy a guy who wants cock, if you don't have any?

You can't really satisfy the gay part of the man but that obviously depends how gay he is. Kinsey 1s and 2s don't necessarily need to be with other men but might scratch the itch sometimes. Many or most Kinsey 1s don't necessarily even realize they are bi.

[quote]Yeah, I know, strap-ons (so much xd not being straight and all), but how many of you would think a plastic cock could ever replace the real deal?

It's not just the cock. It's the whole package. Some guys get it from their close male friends, even if there isn't any sex involved.

Women are petty and vindictive when they want to wound. They go for the feelings and ego and want to stew for a few days. Men are physical and violent when they get mad. They want to inflict physical pain and then act normal again.

[quote]are like cat mint to me...

Cat mint? Is that what you put in a Feline Mojito?

I hope you realize you meant "cat nip".

R33, That's exactly what I was referring to in my previous post. IMHO Robert Kennedy Jr did not know how to deal with his beautiful, well dressed, glamorous wife's coke addiction. Likely he himself used coke but was not negatively affected to the same extent. Still he either lacked compassion or felt trapped and powerless.

Worse coke was always seen as a way for women of a certain social strata to stay thin. But how could CBK have had healthy babies? Reports are that CBK was still in love with her far less financially successful ex-boyfriend and model with whom she was the dominant partner.

CBK was demonstrating her extreme emotional immaturity by trying to degrade her husband in an obvious power struggle. It's the equivalent of calling a slightly overweight spouse "fatty." Marriage counselors will tell you that couples who act in this manner when fighting are headed for divorce.

I think it is a type of mint though.

R42 no, but like I said, it happened to a relative of mine and she didn't know he was gay. She lives in another state, but we used to be close and I hate that she had to go through this, I also can't stand closeted cowards who would involve others in their craven homophobia.

I know it doesn't fit the stereotype but men are pretty good at being petty and vindictive, too. Don't sell them short.

R35, Many of these women remain reasonably happy devoted to their children, families, church, belief in Christ. Why? Their sexually inexperienced husbands are poor lovers, and marital sex is therefore very unfulfilling. Religious women have low expectations in the 1st place.

Therefore many marriages with axexual or gay men have always been long-lasting as long as the husbands are relatively quiet about their preferences. It's been this way for centuries when marriage was seen as an economic partnership for necessity.

R37, Once women have had multiple kids sometimes their sex drives change. Other women get married due to societal expectations but never had much of a need for male companionship. However it's dangerous to over generalize as women are definitely not the same.

What has changed over the years is women expecting their husbands to be sole mates in a changing world. That creates a lot of friction and an imbalance of power of who makes household decisions. If both work there are even more opportunities for affairs.

Well sometimes its also true. Married men will cheat on their female spouses with other men. Sometimes its just a fact and its fair to want to know. Why such gas lighting and anger about this?

[quote]What has changed over the years is women expecting their husbands to be sole mates in a changing world.

That’s because the wonders of capitalism has made shoes to fit every size and spouses no longer have to share them.

R59 we're talking about psycho bitches throwing it out as an insult

I'm a straight woman. My first "lover" was older by 20 years and had been in marriage that was "over", so he said he had two kids and was living the bachelor lifestyle although under the same mansion's roof as his wife. He had gone through a major loss in his life when I met him. This was my freshman year. Because I was sexually inexperienced, I had no idea but my older self nags at me that this guy who I though I was in love with and dated for many years was probably gay 1. Sex wasn't good, never had anything even resembling an orgasm. He had no clue how to please a woman. He told me that the sex with me was the best of his life,. I faked orgasms and he got really mad when I told him at the end lol. 2. After a while, it turned into pull out (he didn't want me to get pregnant even though I was on the pill) 3.His anus was his main source of pleasure, early on he purchased a lot of toys. He would ask me to orally pleasure his anus while he jerked off. 4. He wanted anal sex 5. He had a close male friend who was extremely effeminate who he relied on emotionally for advice. They would go on outings to bars and restaurants for deep conversations all the time. It was important to him that his friend met me and approved of me early in the relationship. Friend said I was charming . Friend was also friends with his wife. Friend advised him not to leave wife for me although he had told friend he was in love with me. He listened to friend. Almost from the day he started telling me our relationship had no future. Up to that point he CRIED to me about how much he loved me. Friend married a lady and my "lover" had a thing with her twin sister. 6. They still went on vacations together ten years after I broke up with him 7. My older self made a comment to him in a phone call years later when he told me he was with above friend in Europe that I had suspicions about their relationship and he was so shocked that my older self said it but didn't deny it, started to laugh, 8. He worked in women's clothing. He had a fantastic larger than life personality and women loved him. 9. He dressed like Rod Stewart or Mick Jagger which is totally cool if you are Mick Jagger but kinda not if you are not. 10. Gay guys found him very attractive na had crushed on him.

I have long ago accepted that I was used and abused by above person as a young girl and honestly believed we would be together forever. What bad luck. My reputation took a real beating for dating his sorry ass. he was lying to me or privately admitting to me that his marriage was over and saying that he needed me. To the rest of the world he was happily married and doing his high society thing with his wife.. He also told me our relationship was secret but was then telling assholes about me and then said assholes would ask me "are you screwing so and so?" It became public knowledge. I I would say no and look like a homewrecking liar.

Being the mature woman I am, I realize I did above due to my own issues but yes, I do say now that he was probably gay but I will never be able to prove iy. He poses in friendly pics with a guy on Facebook now who looks very gay to me but who is in the closet.

Yes, straight women do it when they feel needy and neglected. It's bullshit and something I've never done through two marriages and several relationships.

I did have to ask, once, and it didn't include any drama, but was over lunch and after I noticed how much he was flirting with the male waiter. Turned out I was right and he was relieved he didn't have to fake it anymore, though he did ask me to keep it secret. We were seniors in HS, so we just kept up the bearding charade, went to prom together and had a blast. He moved away from home and is a yoga teacher in CA somewhere. And married to a man. I'm super happy I asked him. Changed his life for the better and we still send each other holiday cards.

My second husband turned out to be bisexual, deeply closeted and duplicitous. He later admitted to cruising pick up spots near our home and really loving gay porn. That's how I found out. He got pretty violent, when I told him I'd found the account he was using and asked if he preferred men. It wasn't an accusation or a slur, though he took it that way. We divorced almost immediately and I moved out the next day. There was no reason to get physical because I found the porn and was curious. Hell, I would have had no problem with it and tried to make arrangements to make him happier, but the violent outburst convinced me that he had problems with it. He later married a woman with a loose reputation and if I know him, he's happy with her getting some on the side while he still cruises. I think hiding it and sneaking around was the real attraction, though I could never confirm it.

R62 & R63 the notorious and lengthy Frau posts.

We'll bill you both for the session.

Sorry, R64, I'm usually pithy, but felt the topic deserved some depth. Sometimes I think women say it as a way of trying to figure out why the relationship isn't working as opposed to tossing it around like a slur or accusation. Things haven't always been so open for gay men and women, so I get why straight men get so damned mad, but it's not a slur to me.

don't blame them, blame closet cases

R66 NO, I'll blame them. I witnessed enough yelling "Fuck You, Faggot!" at their man or dropping "He's probably a fag..." in a gossipy conversation, in self-righteous way to justify it.

Bitch, you didn't see this shit except at the trashiest trailer park. Shut the fuck up.

To this day, there are a lot of closet cases

R68 Oh, Fraulein! I've seen it multiple times in upper middle class America.

Don't you have a sign in the kitchen to dust? ...

White frau jihad!! Oooo loooo loooo loooo looooo loooo loooo loooo loooo loooo!!

No, dearie, but I've lived in those upper crusty places and have NEVER witnessed this sort of behavior. Like wate finding its level, you found yours with the trash of society.

Water ^^^^

R72 Don't you have tickets to the Ballet tonight? Or are you just sitting home in comfy PJs licking your wounds with Ben & Jerry?

Yeah and those Cunts I witnessed are Trash, no debate on that.

R74, this is not about personal attacks. I've had the experience, directly. You, on the other hand, relate second hand gossip and trash talk. I don't think asking a man if he's gay is an insult, but totally depends on where and how you do it.

BTW, I haven't seen the ballet since a school trip in 1970. Get over your frau bashing, hunty. I'm not the one.

R75 Agreed, hopefully you can find a straight man to legitimately love you in the future. Though it seems there is probably not much time left ("1970") and too many issues concerning Father to overcome.

Tick-Tock.

Wounds? R74, you funny as hell. I divorced that fool pronto and we were both happier for it. I did ok in the divorce, too, sweets, and never did need a man to 'love me' - straight or otherwise - which is why I had the confidence and compassion to ask my husband why he was unhappy and if he wouldn't be happier living his truth. I live mine, bitch, thanks.

Why are gay men engaging with straight women here, let alone the bedroom?

R77 Jesus Fucking Christ, I have no doubt he was happier after that divorce!

Damn straight, cunt. I own my bitch.

R80 Oh okay, good thing there is a prime example of a Cunt in the prior posts.

Cunt? Better get used to it. Lingua franca around here.

R83 Tell me about you...

Ah, some of their husbands are gay.

R86 Yeah, they have a repressed cross to bear against gay men, so they come here to work it out. They'd probably be better off to get into therapy and realize they subconsciously chose to marry a non-threatening gay man because he was unlike the Father that fucked them.

You are vile, R87. How could you? How could you say something so hurtful? Have you got no considertation for anyone's feelingz at all? Some people have suffered from being molester by their fathers for years ! FOR YEARS! Shame on you!

As a straight woman I heard about some situations a woman can call a straight man gay.

-She is upset the man doesn't want to date/sleep with her then she calls him gay to make him furious. -A few women think a straight man never deny himself to a woman,therefore they genuinely believe he may be gay if he does. There are married women who think this if their husbands don't want sex with them often or seems not interested. It's crazy ,what about the problem being simply another woman? -Straight men who ask for being pegged by them and the woman think anal stimulation in a man is a signal of being gay

R63 It's known to the scientific community that men now produce less testosterone than they did even 30 years ago.

Thanks very much for your contribution, R83, now please accept the shipload of FFs on their way to you as our way of saying “you’re special.”

Around the turn of the century, it seemed that every gay chat room I found was really filled with married men. It was disgusting hearing them laugh about working tea rooms and truck stops without their wives finding out. And they were mostly in their 50s & 60s. Virtually every one of them were in small towns far from the big city.

Who cares OP? I mean, seriously this is the kind of banal shit I come to DL for?

[quote] [R30] that is one of the stupidest things I've ever read on dl, and that's saying something.

Most gay men can be seen from space. And she says it as an insult to the man, because HE is the homophobe, and would be insulted. You know, like most straight men. Christ, you people are dumb.

most of my life, my mother put my older brother ahead of me, coddled him, tried to prop him up when there was nothing really special about him (save book smarts which led to an Ivy League education)

she and I finally have my coming out talk -- holidays never seemed to be the time to do it so it happens when she visited me in LA on a vacation -- and I don't even tell her, she tells me, only puts a question mark at the end, and I said, 'well, I think you know the answer.'

there's a long, long pause and she says, 'I think your older brother is gay.'

true story.

R95 So both of you are gay? Wow, that's a lot for a mom to take in.

This is one of the few subjects where lesbians have absolutely nothing to offer, and only one idiot tried.

[quote] [R63] It's known to the scientific community that men now produce less testosterone than they did even 30 years ago.

How's the egg situation?

Straight women pulling out all these statistics about male fertility, the same straight women who call the boyfriend "FAG!" When he loses interest in the ugly money-grubbing shrew.

R96, well, Dad died young so....

the youngest brother married a bitch, of course

It's just straight sex shaming. Guys call girls sluts and girls call guys fags.

[quote][R62] & [R63] the notorious and lengthy Frau posts. We'll bill you both for the session.

They are the only interesting posts here.

Selfish, fucked up closet cases have left many ruined lives (wives and children) in their wake. Some have even come here to brag about it. I don't blame any woman for calling it when she sees it, as they say....."from space". She's just being smart and self protective.

[quote] Selfish, fucked up closet cases have left many ruined lives (wives and children) in their wake. Some have even come here to brag about it. I don't blame any woman for calling it when she sees it, as they say....."from space". She's just being smart and self protective.

Most times it has nothing to do with that.

Fish neither want nor need sex and physical affectia and they do quite well without it. Men DO need sex and physical affectia and do NOT do well without it.

Fish are totally disgusting and are interested only in what financial benefits they can rip off from a man.

Most of these posts seem to be from stinkfish.

So many Bi guys on gay dating apps now, and they were the tiniest, almost insignificant percentage a decade ago. It seems like at least 60 percent of the interest I get now is from "'Bi'" guys, they have practically doubled from 5 years ago.

The woman who wrote this (R63):

[quote]He later married a woman with a loose reputation

also wrote this (R81):

[quote]Damn straight, cunt. I own my bitch.

From school marm to hood rat. Poo Shoes must be in the house.

R62, you act like a victim who was "used and abused", like you said, but at the same time you admit you were lying through the relationship as well

[quote]I faked orgasms and he got really mad when I told him at the end lol.

How the hell men are supposed to know they are not doing a good enough job when women lie about being satisfied?

It's akin to the 'you're too much of a wimp to punch me' jibe.

R106, she was young.

Most women fake because men aren't really interested in anything but getting off themselves. Faking speeds up the process. She didn't really want to be chafed by a 20 years-older guy all night. Women don't get a lot out of fucking usually, they teach themselves how to get off with a man over time (it's mentally solitary), despite the man taking little interest in really pleasing her.

Seriously.

Face it, Hags! We gonna FUCK your Man and we'll do it better than you do!

R108, yes I do understand how much women fake in the bed but they should just come clean about it. I'm a Kinsey 5 man myself and I dated women in my teens. I had a girlfriend who readily admitted she didn't get orgasms with me and was normally only satisfied masturbating in the shower. However she said our lovemaking was satisfying enough and even though I was ready to do more she said I didn't need to. Obviously we were more friends than lovers so we both felt relaxed about the whole thing. We enjoyed the closeness and we both knew we'd find true passion with other people.

And yes I realize satisfying women sexually is not that easy. Men can be stupid or lazy enough to not know what to do, and some just don't give a fuck about it anyway. However I'm sure most men who care about their girlfriends and wives most certainly would like to satisfy them and not be lied to. No need to treat the men like they were small boys with fragile egos, even if some really are like that.

R110, you are assuming most straight men are as self-actualized as you seem to be. This has not been my experience.

I did ask my husband if he is bi or gay once as his bipolar sister showed up at our house while manic and talked for 20 hours straight. She mentioned he may have dabbled with guys before me and I must have suspected/known. When she left, I asked. My husband said the sister lived with a woman in her twenties before going back in the closet and having four kids. He denied interest in men and I've only found bbw porn on his computer (fat women, I'm thin), but nothing gay.

People like other people to be miserable. People project. Sometimes women sense they are with a closet case. I don't hear it as a slur.

The OP specifically wrote ‘ACCUSED’ which is much different than ‘ASKED’.

Asked = legit conversation

Accused = shit-stirring slur

Asking=an accusation

Few straight or pretend straight male appreciates be asked that question.

"Most gay men can be seen from space."

Stfu you brainless homophobic piece of pig shit.

well if they are fighting about his refusal to have sex, he could just be gay.

r24, get over yourselves. Women are NOT envious of penises. As you have recent observed from all the recent scandals - women everywhere are getting dick thrust upon them all the time. Tired of all this dick we are.

Very common "accusation." I know a lot of women who have questioned their man's sexuality at one point or another, usually in the beginning of a relationship. Most guys just laugh it off. But it is definitely a "thing."

I only thought 2 men I had dated were gay initially. It was because they were going very slow and wanted to wait before having sex. Not the typical straight man that wants to jump your bones.

Turns out they both had micro-penis.

Dude doesnt want to have sex: Gay, micro-penis, having sex with another woman

If you are dating a gay man, it should be flushed out within the first 3 months. If old married couples think husband is gay, she is likely wrong, he just doesn't want to have sex with YOU anymore. I don't know how anyone could get faked into marrying a gay guy. A bi-guy yes but unless she has zero experience or some sexual hangup. Dude should be going nuts on her in the beginning. If not chuck his ass don't marry it.

Lord, this thread is hilarious. Unintentionally so, but still hilarious. 😂

R18. You sound ridiculous. You dated a guy you suspected of being gay to 'help his sister....and him out'? Gawd no wonder there are so many women in bad relationships.

My observation, based upon several examples, has been that many women are FAR more upset if they discover their man is fucking another/other women. In such cases, there is a basis for comparison (what does SHE have that I don't?)

With another man, they KNOW what he has that she doesn't.

^And they aren't threatened by it.

Child bye. Any woman who calls her man gay in the heat of the moment knows it might be close to the truth.

Thats why so many of these young women out here are sucking more dick, eating their man's ass, and strapping on. They know they will have to do these things to keep him. A lot of these guys like vagina, but they don't like dealing with lady and wife drama. And don't mind dick every now and then!

All those who are shrieking about homophobic fraud should realize that the blade cuts both ways: Many straight men accuse their wives/girlfriends of being gay if they're not wanting to have sex as much as the man wants it. Yes, straight men want to pierce on lesbians having sex, but when/if they realize that true lesbians don't want a dick coming between them , straight men get VERY angry. He'll hath no fury like a MAN scorned in favor of a WOMAN.

[R46] Yes that's right. But more women suffer violence in and out of relationships by men. Including rape and sexual assault, which is actually the more pertinent point. And a lot of it is also unreported.

More women are killed by their partners and male family members in every country.

There's also abuse in same-sex relationships as well which is probably the least reported. But, your point still stands.

Those activities were never gay-exclusive, R123, and a lot of women have been tossing salads and pegging for many years before you were born.

Fact: straight men don't harass bitches. If you're a reasonably attractive woman in the workplace, this is the reality. It's also outside the workplace, in the home, etc. So fuck you with your pigeonholing misogyny. I'm a professional, earn my living on my own, and have a loving relationship with a great guy. Being authentic to yourself has its rewards.

R105 is just another fucking asshole trying to make a woman feel bad who disagrees with him. Sorry, dearie, but you don't intimidate me by: implying I have 'daddy' issues, or that I'm a notorious DL troll, or that I'm a hood rat.

We come from a generation where repressed sexuality was the norm. I grew up in the seventies and the second husband grew up in the 50's. It was a huge, impassable gulf of difference as to our attitudes around male sexuality. He told me about his bisexual desires before I married him. I didn't care. It was only when he got sneaky that the truth became obvious: he couldn't come out as gay. He hated the charade. He hated me for going along with it. Instead of being welcome to the idea of coming out, he got violent. This, sadly, is very typical of men who grew up in that era. To be considered 'gay' was the ultimate insult, the worst thing you could be as a man. How fucking sad is that?

I've never accused anyone of being 'gay' as if it was some crime, and especially when they didn't want to fuck me. How fucking silly is that when I can do the job myself? In my experience, and as told to me directly by a straight man, straight men don't 'mess with their pussy'. They will do most ANYTHING to make their woman happy and keep her putting out. I find it hard to believe that women throw the term 'gay' around as a way to humiliate their man. I've never seen or heard anything like it and I've been around quite a while. In fact, women do not talk to other women about the possibility of their man being gay. This is not what women do because it would be tantamount to admitting they can't satisfy them or that they are less than in the sack. NO woman admits that to another woman. So OP, I think you are full of shit and a shit stirrer.

R100, exactly. People here just can't seem to grasp that women don't want their relationship to be a huge lie.

R109, please. Half this commentariat doesn't screw. Frottage and anal fingering is not fucking. It's petting.

And finally, EXACTLY r116. Women have to fight their way through men grabbing at them and hitting on them CONSTANTLY. They are not even a little envious of penis, except you get hire salaries and get away with on the job incompetence if you have one.

But it's fun to see gay men try to figure out straight women. This thread is hilarious.

*higher. Ugh.

R127

R65, I know. It's usually me who's guilty of length posts. Ignore those that dis and who don't have the common sense to skip posts they dislike. They've got nothing better to do with their time then to micromanage DL threads. You'd think they could at least find some charity work to do to occupy their life.

[quote]What has changed over the years is women expecting their husbands to be sole mates

Oh, dear.

Mansplainin to a whole new level.

Gay men hate women it seems.

R13

There was a book published recently by a former google exec detailing nationwide trends in google searches. There were some good articles discussing it earlier this year.

"Most tellingly perhaps, searches questioning a husband’s sexuality are far more prevalent in the least tolerant regions. The states with the highest percentage of women asking this question are South Carolina and Louisiana. In fact, in 21 of the 25 states where this question is most frequently asked, support for gay marriage is lower than the national average."

R30 = Vivian Vance

R62=Poo Shoes.

[quote]Thats why so many of these young women out here are sucking more dick, eating their man's ass, and strapping on. They know they will have to do these things to keep him.

Oh honey, no. We don't do any of that. Ew. We're married. We have all the perks without the drudgery. So glad we can rely on you to take care of those ghastly chores. Bless your heart..

[quote]I have long ago accepted that I was used and abused

Yeah we know, Poo Shoes R62. It's a common theme of yours. Always abused. Did you call the police on the guy? Did you contemplate arson, or utilize any of the tricks you described on another thread? Was this the guy? Is that why you're at DL so much? Because you still think of he gay man who hurt you?

^^ the gay man who hurt you

Tiresome Trolltard @ R137

Some real psychos on this thread

All men are Fags once they no use to use to you anymore

They know the best way to psychologically wound a straight man is to accuse him of being gay. Straight men are such idiots.

So common. There were tons of deluded girls in college who'd say stuff like "he pays no attention to me he must be gay." Or he just thinks you are (insert your own insult here)

I suggest fat, ugly, bitchy, dumb.

This may be the best bitch fest thread on DL EVER!!

Money in the bank for Susan.

3 replies

7 minutes ago

Nothing prepares you for the revelation, one minute you LOVE him unconditionally, the next moment is so empty —Anonymous

reply 1

5 minutes ago

I'm with [R1]. He has said horrible things about women, Mexicans, people with disabilities. Why does this matter now? —Anonymous

reply 2

4 minutes ago

To calm yourself, imagine that he develops a 377% blockage in the anterior vena cava just as a bloodclot expodes in his brain. He will suffer a massive internal haemorrhage and collapse, projectile bleeding from *every* orifice, including eyes and ears.

ALL HOT GUYS ARE GAAAAAYYY!!!

"Its just homophobic bullying"

Wondering if someone might be gay isn't "bullying" - unless you think there's something wrong with being gay.

And water is wet R148

Seems pretty clear it's being used as an insult because they think there's something wrong with it.

I’m so glad I’m gay and don’t have to deal with women’s constant drama and emotional bullshit.

This shit would make a guy considering turning gay

Fishes are pretty homophobic, there's I've heard some family members talk down to their husbands with shit like "you're acting like a little faggot" or "don't be such a faggot" etc.

God this is a stupid thread. Women who use "gay" as an insult are ignorant and trashy just like men who do. It's not like women have a monopoly on vicious behavior. I personally don't know any women who talk like that. If someone I knew did I'd call them out and stop associating with them.

Also, women's sex drive peaks in middle age, not when they are younger.

Married ladies, here’s sage advice:

Borderline bitches do this.