Bottoms, do you tend to prefer only-tops over vers guys?

I've noticed when I touch water, it feels strange, it almost appears to be wet,.

Do you think water is wet?

Sometimes, when an only-top tells me they've never bottomed before but will make an exception for me because I'm special, I feel honored and somewhat confused. My penis and hips somehow find a way to relieve the only-top of his burden and I feel very butch afterwards.

Then I put on my crop top and jeggings to go back to studying Williamsburg textiles and remember that my anus is tight enough to make any man feel like a giant so it's ok.

it is a sad truth

People responding yes are just insecure.

most say they never but its bshit anyways

Depends from what region of the world you are, OP

I swear bottoms are stupider than chicks.

Guys will say whatever it takes to get you to spread your legs. Including "I never suck dick" and "I never bottom"

[quote]Guys will say whatever it takes to get you to spread your legs. Including "I never suck dick" and "I never bottom"

This is true. I've both pretended I'm "straight" and was just curious about experimenting before.

"I lie all the time but if I pretend all guys do it, I don't have to think about what a horrible piece of shit I am"

Ditto R8

When I was traveling a lot for work it was the best tactic. "Curious straight jock, 25, horny in hotel room." You'd get all sorts of super closeted dudes who or very masc guys pretending to be super closeted... was just looking for some one-off fun, so it didn't really matter what their real back story was.

And not to worry R9. Guys like you got eliminated immediately.

In my experience, their dicks wilt if asked to top. As a turn-on, it's like asking them to meet your parents.

and you top them or they top you, r10?

when you go on grindr it seems the gay community has more tops than bottoms, but it turns out those tops "right guy" turns out to be "any guys available"... info no top will ever disclose to any bottom

so the speach everyone preach is not what were actually thinking... big surprise

I'm a total top. I've had guys on the apps try to talk me into bottoming, trying to trick me. I have never taken the bait, and I've never bottomed.

R10 What happens when they get to your hotel room and find you're 56?

so you spent your whole life not doing something you really wanted, r15? was it worth it?

In todays age, just being able to get hard is a green light LOL

Tops make the best bottoms. As a versatile bottom turned top, I'd like to say it works the other way round too.

How so, r19?

Um, R20 I didn't want to say it so baldly, but most of my bottoms have said Ive been their best top.

so the veredict is out... people equally like only-tops and vers?

I never wanted it R17.

I want to bottom but ive estabilished myself as a power top and feel this would wound my reputation! Help?

Reputation! Reputation? Tell us more R24.

[QUOTE]I want to bottom but ive estabilished myself as a power top and feel this would wound my reputation! Help?

You fucking fem. Once word gets out that you’ve bottomed like a sissy, you’ll automatically forfeit your membership in the Power Tops club and be known as a bottom bitch for the rest of your life.

Yeah, r25, my reputation as the lord of the rings... but r26 has a very good point about this being kind of stupid

In your face, r1. This poll shows our community is not that bad!

R28, those are “versatile” bottom boys voting and skewing the results. If polling was restricted to true bottoms, they’d prefer pure tops.

r29, by pure top you mean never-bottomed-top or also tops that may have bottomed here and there?

A pure top is only allowed a single instance of bottoming—that’s what it should take to know that it isn’t appropriate for him. And even then I’m being generous. Some would say that this top could only reclaim his dominant status by killing the man who topped him, thereby absorbing the top power that was stolen from him. However I find this is a tad extreme.

But if you bottom “here and there” then you’re a bottom, honey.

I don't care if they lie to me. As long as they are a believable total only top, that's all I need. I don't want you to suck my dick and be loving and sweet. I just want you to fuck me and do a convincing and satisfying job of it. I don't care what you do when you aren't with me, just be able to pull off an Oscar winning portrayal as a total top or expect to suck my cock and we're all good.

The thing about vers guys is that the majority are bottoms trying to increase their chances of getting fucked by tricking other "vers" guys to top them. Ask a vers guy to top and you will find their dicks instantly wilt. Vers tops are probably closest to being truly versatile. Vers bottoms and regular ol' vers guys? LOL! Good luck.

[QUOTE]I don't want you to suck my dick and be loving and sweet. I just want you to fuck me and do a convincing and satisfying job of it.

I’m a pure top who’s never bottomed but come on, must it be a porn movie drill and fill? What’s wrong with a little passion? I like to be rapey yet sweet with my bottoms.

[quote] Sometimes, when an only-top tells me they've never bottomed before but will make an exception for me because I'm special

Oh, you're special all right. I have a bridge to sell you.

So the truth is 1 out of 4 guys have an extremist and bizarre expectation from partners and will probably end up alone.

Bottoms' preferences do not matter.

r37 i matter

The best bottoms make it to the top.

Most bottoms love only-top guys because they know they won't be asked to top (which they don't like)

The guys that say they bottom "only for the right guy", bottoms who can't admit it to themselves.

For the newbies: Bottom = I will never top ever Vers/bottom = I pretend I will top but never will feel like it Vers/top = I can top if forced but I'd rather Bottom Mostly top = Can actually be versatile Total top = mostly top. Some total tops exist

r40 i disagree, i think bottoms love only-tops because of their prejudice patriarcal view of the world where they want the more straight version of a man they can get

There is no such thing as a Total Top.

There are only Not-Yet Bottoms.

I prefer those who'd gladly and thoroughly fuck me, either though they might enjoy getting fucked by others.

[quote]As long as they are a believable total only top, that's all I need. I don't want you to suck my dick

I don't think sucking cock makes you less of a total top so long as you've never been fucked (and have no desire to get fucked). Topping and sucking cock are two completely separate acts.

R32 One of my first boyfriends could fuck me WHILE sucking me.

I'd take that over your version of "total top" any day.

Of course they do op

R46 you dredged up this dumbass, illiterate, pointless post for that comment? I'm assuming you are OP.

Hey, R44. I’m a top - I never bottom and have zero interest in bottoming - but I love to suck. I find for many bottoms my desire to suck is a total turnoff. So unless they openly express a desire to be sucked I’ve learned I’m supposed to hide that I like to suck. Seems ridiculous but if I’m with a bottom I’m really into then I deal with it.

I'd never have sex with an "exclusive top". Or an "exclusive bottom", for that matter. I don't have time for boring people in my life, sorry not sorry.

As an ignorant straight guy can I just clarify something.... Speaking in generalities... Are gay guys more attracted to straights than gays??? That makes no sense to me.

As long as you can pull off a convincing total top who only wants to fuck and nothing else, then I'm good.

R50, many gay men are just attracted to masculinity.

R50 - don't mistake datalounge's obsessions with the general population. There are a handful on here who obsess in that way, but most do not. Sexy is sexy - doesn't matter straight or gay. If you're hot, we prefer you "on our team."

Not really R50, but this is a gossip weird site, so nothing on here is particularly normal

I'm a total top as far as fucking goes, but I LOVE sucking dick, also. I can get my bottom boyfriend's dick in my mouth a little bit while fucking him - he loves it, but it makes him cum super fast, so I don't do it unless we're both ready.

Total top/Total bottom, boring as hell. I don't get that obsession. I'd rather find a man that is into mutual oral and likes to flip-fuck. That's a helluva lot of fun and that's the best way for two men to sexually communicate.

Yeah a lot of bottoms find tops who suck to be a turn off because they want a total dominating Alpha

I've never understood bottoms who insist that tops not suck cock. Has it ever occurred to them that a top -- even a "total top" -- is still a gay man? That means their sexual interest lies with people who have penises, not vaginas. Shocking, I know.

But yes, R57, I think you nailed it.