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Approaching Arab men?

How exactly does one approach a Middle Eastern guy and find out if he's interested in being an item/getting it on/etc? Considering Middle Eastern attitudes towards gay men, it seems very likely you could end up in a lot of hot water.

Share advice, success stories and cautionary tales here.

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by Anonymousreply 134August 24, 2020 12:33 AM

Present

by Anonymousreply 1October 8, 2017 3:34 PM

Can I have your stuff, OP?

by Anonymousreply 2October 8, 2017 4:44 PM

Sex tourism, especially in fanatically religious countries, is always a good idea, OP.

by Anonymousreply 3October 8, 2017 4:51 PM

My sole experience: Scope an Arab who is having a drink. Mine was in a hotel bar during an academic conference/convention. If he is drinking alcohol, he is a rule-breaker. I invited him to join me at my table, since the bar was busy and he was standing. He obliged. I bought a round for us. One more round on him. We chatted for about 30-40 minutes, when I made my move. I told him I was going to my room in the same hotel and asked him if he'd like to come up for a nightcap. After explaining what a nightcap was, we went to my room.

We had a couple drinks with the TV on, and I excused myself to use the bathroom. I turned on the shower, took off my clothes, and ducked my head out to say that I was going to take a quick shower. Five minutes later, I came back into the room, dressed in shorts and a t-shirt, and explained casually that I had felt dirty after a long day at the conference, and that I now felt much better. Without missing a beat, he went into the bathroom and took a shower. He came out wearing his underwear and dress shirt. From there, it was smooth sailing.

This was in a hotel in Boston, not overseas. Having had platonic, gay Arab friends might have given me an advantage. I knew to be neither too aggressive nor too coy, be super clean, especially my genitals and feet, and not talk too much about what we were doing or not doing. I knew to expect shaved pubic hair (which I hate, btw) and a lack of tenderness. He was shaved down below, but he was quite tender. He was, of course, circumsized. No kissing on the lips, but lots on the neck, ears, face, chest. He touched me a lot, but did not go down on me. I went down on him, though. I nearly came after maybe a minute, but we slowed down, sipped drinks for a few minutes before we fucked. Hands down, one of my five most fapped to experiences of my life.

by Anonymousreply 4October 8, 2017 5:00 PM

The direct approach works best. Walk up to him--anywhere--and shout, "Yum!" Never fails.

by Anonymousreply 5October 8, 2017 5:13 PM

You sound smooth, R4

by Anonymousreply 6October 8, 2017 5:45 PM

Hot story. What words did you use when you were inviting him to your table? I assume he was a total stranger. It's always those first few words that can trip you up.

I get the sense that Arab guys, coming from a hyper-masculine culture, would be especially concerned about appearing gay.

Of course in my experiences with them socially, they often appear very affectionate with their friends, going so far as to hug, kiss on the cheeks and constantly remain in physical contact when drinking and having fun. There is a Brotherhood there...but I don't know if that typically extends to people of different ethnicities.

Being in North America, how does one get to know an Arab guy well enough to know that fooling around with him won't lead to him turning scary religious on you and wanting revenge for bringing shame to him or something?

by Anonymousreply 7October 8, 2017 6:47 PM

There are lots of gay and out Arabs in the US R7. I used to date one.

by Anonymousreply 8October 8, 2017 6:48 PM

[quote]I get the sense that Arab guys, coming from a hyper-masculine culture, would be especially concerned about appearing gay.

Then why would you want a guy like that? I mean good lord.

by Anonymousreply 9October 8, 2017 6:48 PM

R4, you left out details of the most important part of your story. Ok, so he's up in your room for a drink. You are now both in shorts. But then you just say "From there, it was smooth sailing." Someone had to make a first move.

by Anonymousreply 10October 8, 2017 7:03 PM

OPs dude is hot!

by Anonymousreply 11October 8, 2017 7:06 PM

My few experiences suggest that lack of affection, aggression and a holy fear of contamination (including touching) was part for the course. No more.

by Anonymousreply 12October 8, 2017 7:15 PM

Just like America, go out at 3am and loudly sing,

“Clang, clang, clang went mine sweeper”

The first, “ding, ding,ding I.E.D.” you hear is your arabian prince for the night

by Anonymousreply 13October 8, 2017 7:31 PM

Don't touch a hip in Dubai....you go to jail.

by Anonymousreply 14October 8, 2017 7:50 PM

My homophobic, Arab ex-boyfriend was occasionally approached by guys. He thought it was funny. Just one reason he is an EX. But there was some genuine confusion on his part about what was friendly and what was romantic behavior between men in the US.

Based on what I know about Arab guys, I think r4's method is good. If they don't drink alcohol, I wouldn't bother even trying.

by Anonymousreply 15October 8, 2017 8:00 PM

R4 here. The context was a crowded bar full of conference attendees. Most people were grouped at tables or the bar or standing around talking to each other. The Arab guy just got his drink and was standing between the bar and my table, which was in a row about ten feet away from the bar. He was scanning the room, probably looking for familiar faces?, and our eyes met. I just lifted my head and said nobody was sitting there, waving at the empty chair at my table. He asked if I was sure, and I said, of course. I introduced myself, he did the same, and we shook hands. We made small talk about conference presentations, our own presentations, and talked a bit about work stuff. We both were drinking liquor. When I offered another round and he accepted, then we talked about general stuff. I told him I am from the West Coast, love cold weather, and found Boston to be lovely. He was from Saudi, but lived and worked in Connecticut. Neither of us was married etc.

This was several years ago when one could still smoke in bars, but not other public places. The bar was very smoky. That was why I told him I was going to go up to the room and asked if he'd like to join me. There was also a football game on the TV I wanted to watch, but could barely see through the crowd.

Details once we settled in R10? I knew Hitch's advice long before Will Smith and Kevin James taught us about The Kiss. Keep in mind this was a regular hotel room, with a king bed, desk and wheeled chair, night stands, and small table next to the chair. My clothes were on the chair, so where else does one sit? The bed. When he came out of the shower, I was sitting/lying with my head propped up on the headboard watching the game. He sat on the other side of the bed for a minute before stretching out on the other side. After I got up and poured two more drinks, I sat down on my said and reached over him to set his drink down on the other nightstand. That's when I went in. It seemed natural at the time. I was leaning over him, and as I went back to sit on my side, I stopped in front of him for a second or two, and leaned in. He didn't move, so I rubbed my beard against his cheek and just said, sorry, I couldn't help myself. And, as I said before, then it was smooth sailing.

Further context: I am one of those guys who never considered myself attractive at all. I was never satisfied with my face, hair, body, clothes, etc. However, I thought I was somewhat better looking than average. I am 6'6" and was always HWP until my late 40's. When I now see photographs of myself then, I realize that I was much more attractive than I gave myself credit for. On some levels, I wish I had recognized this then. But then I would not have my personality or character now if I had. No regrets, just acknowledgement that we can be our own worst critics.

by Anonymousreply 16October 8, 2017 8:03 PM

Most Arab men outside of their country are open to things to happen because it will never get back home. I knew a saudi guy who went to school in the us and fucked every guy he could find, went home after graduation and got married

by Anonymousreply 17October 8, 2017 8:03 PM

[quote] I knew a saudi guy who went to school in the us and fucked every guy he could find, went home after graduation and got married

I doubt we knew the same guy but the guy who came to me was a minor Saud family princeling. I was a pretty, fuckable twink. Got offered a lot of cash by a visiting friend of his. I mean wads fanned under my nose. Naturally, a polite no. We remained friends.

by Anonymousreply 18October 8, 2017 8:10 PM

Dear Allah in Heaven!

by Anonymousreply 19October 8, 2017 8:52 PM

In an Arab cities, you take your cues from the locals. Be careful which city, of course. Take your time. In the west, you just do it your own way. The most you will get is a refusal.

Arab guys like charm of face and gesture. They respond to warmth and friendliness.

When I lived in an Arab city, my male hetero Arab friends were so warm and lovely and intimate with me that I realised that having sex wasn't all that interesting if you got all that good stuff without sex. I even had a crisis of identity a few times because, well, being gay in the west can be a little too much about sex and not as much about kindness and friendship.

by Anonymousreply 20October 8, 2017 8:57 PM

You don't need to do a thing. I got picked up in an Arab city. Two days of great sex. First his place then in my hotel.

by Anonymousreply 21October 8, 2017 9:02 PM

1. You approach them by giving them five goats.

by Anonymousreply 22October 8, 2017 9:16 PM

R16 hot story, glad it worked fine

by Anonymousreply 23October 8, 2017 9:16 PM

R4, they’re all shaved??

I’m genuinely shocked at that. WTF?

by Anonymousreply 24October 8, 2017 9:17 PM

Be very careful.

Do not approach them at a nude beach.

One guy did so in my city.

The Arab replied. "You show me your penis, I cut off your head!"

by Anonymousreply 25October 8, 2017 9:20 PM

Arab guy from Saudi I met on grindr in USA while I lived there wanted to do nothing but rim me, he was younger and hotter than me, I would have married him if he asked....but of course he didnt ask, he mode dot fucking Paris to be a layer and I never heard from him again.

by Anonymousreply 26October 8, 2017 9:27 PM

R24 It's a Muslim thing. Shaved pubes, taint, hole, pits.

by Anonymousreply 27October 8, 2017 9:29 PM

Im sorry about the typos....too much sunday Gin.

by Anonymousreply 28October 8, 2017 9:30 PM

and then another i met in Turkey was the most affectionate gut I've been with, lots of tongue action and caressing....but he did warn me not to go anywhere near his hole, and had a crazy look in his eye. Even though I'm a bottom this made me want to touch his hole all night lol.

by Anonymousreply 29October 8, 2017 9:32 PM

All of the Arab men I've been with are very very much into rimming, mostly all about getting rimmed.

by Anonymousreply 30October 8, 2017 9:35 PM

OP's guy would almost be worth the trouble, but if you're in his league there are many other fish in the sea without the Muslim baggage.

by Anonymousreply 31October 8, 2017 11:07 PM

Has anyone ever gotten with an Arab and had it turn ugly? Either a one-nighter or an ongoing thing....

by Anonymousreply 32October 9, 2017 12:05 AM

I once had a dear friend who approached Arab men for sex, and then she died.

by Anonymousreply 33October 9, 2017 12:19 AM

Size verificatia?

by Anonymousreply 34October 9, 2017 12:25 AM

Why do they shave? What's that about? Some sort of religious practice?

by Anonymousreply 35October 9, 2017 12:27 AM

I don’t like the shaving.

by Anonymousreply 36October 9, 2017 12:34 AM

[quote]“The fitrah is five things – or five things are part of the fitrah – circumcision, shaving the pubes, cutting the nails, plucking the armpit hairs, and trimming the moustache.”

R35, Because the Prophet said so.

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by Anonymousreply 37October 9, 2017 12:42 AM

My next door neighbor is Muslim from Morocco and kind of hot, but the thought of him being plucked like a chicken is a total turnoff.

by Anonymousreply 38October 9, 2017 12:48 AM

I could care less if they are shaved, it makes no difference when they are face down, ass up!

by Anonymousreply 39October 9, 2017 12:50 AM

I don't think they all shave.

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by Anonymousreply 40October 9, 2017 12:53 AM

The HORNIEST guys I have ever met was when I was on vacation in Istanbul. Seriously.

by Anonymousreply 41October 9, 2017 12:54 AM

turks, though very hot, are not arabs

by Anonymousreply 42October 9, 2017 12:55 AM

No need to approach them. If you are a smooth-skinned Asian, they will approach you, befriend you and proposition sex to you. They are very persistent and will not stop until they get what they want..

by Anonymousreply 43October 9, 2017 12:59 AM

Did do a very cute young waiter in Morocco. Not very

by Anonymousreply 44October 9, 2017 1:01 AM

R47 here.

I am referring to Arab in their home countries like Saudi Arabia, UAE, Dubai, Qatar, etc.

by Anonymousreply 45October 9, 2017 1:03 AM

r43, lucky for smooth-skinned Asians, I guess, until they decide to enslave you.

by Anonymousreply 46October 9, 2017 1:05 AM

[quote] I could care less if they are shaved, it makes no difference when they are face down, ass up!

I prefer smooth shaved holes.

by Anonymousreply 47October 9, 2017 1:12 AM

The shaving and depilation is not necessarily OCD-like or creepy like the plucked-capon millennial turn-off look.

In Islam you don't go over 40 days without a "treatment." How fastidious you are depends on you. If you're stupid or unfortunate enough to live in a place where anyone criticizes, well, that's like living in the Bible Belt or among the ultra-orthodox. You don't live in such places if you can avoid it.

by Anonymousreply 48October 9, 2017 1:13 AM

I have a "friends with benefits" thing with a Saudi. Met him online when we were both in London (him living, me on business) a few years ago. He's younger and exclusively into older hairy white daddies (while not quite a daddy I have had s+p hair since my 20's). I had not been with an Arab up to that point, but he ticked my boxes - athletic, moderately hairy, hung, smart, funny. We've enjoyed ourselves for a few years now. He's here in the States now so that helps. He does go home every year for Ramadan and keeps his "Western life" and his "home life" very separate. He is gay and I know he's worried about the future and what's expected of him (return home, get married, have children, etc) but it's not a topic he likes to talk about.

I never knew about the shaving thing - tho he did used to trim down below but I asked him not to - he now has a glorious bush! Now that I'm thinking about it, he does trim it all back every time he goes home and comes back fairly trimmed back too. Ha! I'm going to ask him later if this is why!

by Anonymousreply 49October 9, 2017 1:13 AM

[quote] No need to approach them. If you are a smooth-skinned Asian, they will approach you, befriend you and proposition sex to you.

They want to fuck you.

by Anonymousreply 50October 9, 2017 1:15 AM

Have a field day (NSFW)

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by Anonymousreply 51October 9, 2017 1:22 AM

Slow-witted town, population, r50.

by Anonymousreply 52October 9, 2017 1:25 AM

R13 I love you!

by Anonymousreply 53October 9, 2017 1:26 AM

EEEEEEEE! GREETINGS!

DO YOU LIKE THE HOMOSEX, WHERE THE MAN GO UP INTO THE MAN?

by Anonymousreply 54October 9, 2017 1:27 AM

There was a guy of Arab descent who was the security guard at my West Hollywood apartment building. Lots of friendly banter over a month and then one night he told me I had a "very nice ass". He was exciting. Gorgeous. But would never let me kiss him. He just wanted to fuck me. He loved to pump me for like 30 mins, cum and then go. I then saw him with one of the women in the building and decided he was probably doing everyone there. The sex was one sided but soooo good, in part because he was so in charge.

by Anonymousreply 55October 9, 2017 1:30 AM

I once worked at a convenience store where the manager was Turkish. He was so sexy and hairy,and within a month of my starting there we were fucking. he made it very clear it was fun only,as he was married,and I was okay with that. A couple of months into it,and I notice that we seemed to have an increase in middle eastern men customers,and I was getting hit on left right and sideways. I took up quite a few offers,then I realized he had told some of his friends about our arrangement ! Hence the increase ! I was sleeping with 5 different men at the same time,it was glorious.

by Anonymousreply 56October 9, 2017 1:38 AM

This thread is making me horny.

by Anonymousreply 57October 9, 2017 1:40 AM

I've been fucked by an Iranian man (the second to ever fuck me), a guy from Saudi man and one from Jordan, all hairy as the day is long, all total tops and all pretty much as R55 described.

No kissing and no romance. Just fucking. The Iranian loved to fuck me on my back, one of those that kept calling my ass a cunt. The others always wanted me on all fours or standing up so they could take me from behind.

Loved the sex initially - all hot hung dudes - but a bit clinical after a while.

by Anonymousreply 58October 9, 2017 1:50 AM

I first moved to Cairo in 1991 and have lived there on four different occasions. I suspect I will be moving back early next year for good. The gay life has changed so much since 1991. Back in those days guys cruised the parks and squares as well as the cafes. Cruising was done as it was in the West with eye contact then a polite conversation regarding ones role and a place to go. When the internet happened lots of us used Criagslist to meet online but still cruised the square too. Next came dating sites like Manjam and Planer Romeo. Manjam was very active. And finally there is Hornet which seems to be the most active App in Cairo. Most of the details are already worked out on the App so no need for much discussion. One thing that is very different in Cairo is the number of straight men who are willing to fuck gay guys being women are not often available. Egyptian men marry very late. Cairo is the one place I have been told I need to gain weight. Those who are a little chubby will find themselves pretty popular. Also older guys do better than they would in the West. Cairo has a very large and vibrant gay life which all takes place underground.

by Anonymousreply 59October 9, 2017 2:42 AM

[quote]Loved the sex initially - all hot hung dudes - but a bit clinical after a while

my experience with two different iranians, hot, hung, trimmed (not plucked) but very mechanical and totally dispassionate

by Anonymousreply 60October 9, 2017 2:45 AM

Homosexuality is a crime that’s as terrible as terrorism

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by Anonymousreply 61October 9, 2017 3:07 AM

Funny that I just came across this thread. I had an odd experience two nights ago.

I was in my local Whole Foods around 8pm. I had one item and needed to get in and out quickly as I was late for an appointment. I saw the express line was empty and was about to run to it when I noticed the actual line started a few feet behind. There was only one guy in it. An Arab engrossed in his iPhone. I wasn't sure if he was actually in line so I asked. He was too distracted so I stepped up to move to the cashier just as he did (without looking). so my free hand awkwardly touched his butt, and I mean barely. And he wasn't hot, (not that it matters). I muttered "sorry" as I quickly pulled my hand away. So this Arab guy who was so engrossed in his iPhone that I didn't think he even noticed me, suddenly becomes enraged screaming "you just tried to molest me". (huh?). I was calm. I said, "I barely touched you as i tried to ask if you were in line". He continued, "I'm calling the police!". It was really ridiculous. There were enough people around as witnesses, and they clearly had dumbfounded expressions. I ignored him and stepped to the opening at the next cashier.

But WTF?

by Anonymousreply 62October 9, 2017 3:27 AM

R62 Are you sure he was Arab, not Persian? Iranian men can be total fuckwads, especially if they feel that you have disrespected them.

by Anonymousreply 63October 9, 2017 3:32 AM

R63 No, I'm not.

by Anonymousreply 64October 9, 2017 3:33 AM

Depending on where you are... If you're in Detroit, probably Arab. If you're in LA, west side, probably Persian, unless you're south of Santa Monica Blvd, when it's a coin flip.

by Anonymousreply 65October 9, 2017 3:37 AM

Santa Monica Blvd/Fairfax, R65. haha

by Anonymousreply 66October 9, 2017 4:01 AM

They're really hott. a lot of them work out and have abs.

by Anonymousreply 67October 9, 2017 4:02 AM

^^ But seeing as you mentioned it, I especially thought it strange and disturbing considering it's a very gay populated neighborhood. Almost like it was some kind of a set-up, (but just the guy himself).

by Anonymousreply 68October 9, 2017 4:02 AM

Most of the Egyptian men I have hooked up with have average-size cocks. Is that the norm? Are they the Irish of the Arab world?

by Anonymousreply 69October 9, 2017 4:34 AM

Are Iranian men more spooked/defensive/angry about it?

I have a new Iranian circle of friends now and wasn't sure if I should be hoping to meet someone within it, or should look elsewhere. One guy I'm friends with is fine with gay people but says they're often arrested back home. He's not of interest to me....but one of his pals might be.

by Anonymousreply 70October 9, 2017 4:15 PM

I am German and I would love to fall in love with a cute Arab man. Thanks to Mama Merkel I might have the chance to get to know more of them... But it is still hard...

by Anonymousreply 71October 9, 2017 5:14 PM

Fascinating thread!

by Anonymousreply 72November 12, 2017 3:06 PM

R20 I have never heard a truer phrase on Data Lounge !!!

"being gay in the west can be a little too much about sex and not as much about kindness and friendship"

by Anonymousreply 73November 12, 2017 3:57 PM

Don’t.

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by Anonymousreply 74November 12, 2017 4:02 PM

My experience is, there is no in between. Many who live in the US who are gay enjoy the freedom of being able to be open without fear of being stoned or whatever the hell else they do there. The straight acting ones that live in this country are more discreet if not closeted entirely. Like anyone with issues with expressing they are gay, these folks need time and it all depends on how you get to know them from the start. A work friend or something like that, where they can take their time getting a grip on dealing with their feelings. The extreme example is the Orlando shooter who had serious conflicts dealing with his homosexuality based on the way his culture looks down on gays. I think the best way to approach it is to keep an open mind and use your common sense. If they give off a strange vibe when their sexuality becomes into play, I say move on. It isn't worth the drama.

by Anonymousreply 75November 12, 2017 4:10 PM

R74 Disturbing yet typical outcome for that situation when you read the details.

by Anonymousreply 76November 12, 2017 4:16 PM

Been with Lebanese (aka "WE'RE NOT ARABS!") for several years. Okay, he was born there and then went back and forth with Canada over the early years.

We met from barely 'lucking out' on Plenty of Fish and hanging out in his car and listening to video game music.

When I met him he was more casually conservative and barely out. He's now pretty deliberately liberal (at least comes off that way) and is nearly totally out, even to one of his best friends from Lebanon that ended up totally accepting it.

At Pride parades, especially the first time, he brightened up so much at the Helem (LGBT Lebanese) float. :)

by Anonymousreply 77November 12, 2017 10:17 PM

Keep it coming guys

by Anonymousreply 78November 12, 2017 10:43 PM

Offer them drinks and grab them by their balls, easy!

by Anonymousreply 79November 13, 2017 2:31 AM

Persians (Iranians) are NOT Arabs, and you will annoy them by not making that distinction!

by Anonymousreply 80November 13, 2017 5:50 AM

Met an Arab bloke in a bar in London. He was 50s, short but built. Swarthily good looking etc. Almost as soon as we were in his room he undoes his trousers, hard cock out and tries to pull my head down, saying ‘Suck it, suck it.’

I’m not good with any form of coercive bullshit and can look after myself so immediately told him to back off. He clearly wouldn’t or couldn’t. Any interaction was obviously going to be basic and with him dominant. I wasn’t there to be his coxksucker. I like things on a more mutual footing so, in the end, I told him to go fuck himself and left. Luckily hadn’t even had a chance to undress.

Thinking about it afterwards I wondered if it was a cultural thing and posts here seem to confirm that.

by Anonymousreply 81November 13, 2017 8:16 AM

Duh, R81

by Anonymousreply 82November 13, 2017 10:46 AM

In strict Islam countries fish are unavailable outside of marriage.

Therefore it is a FEAST of hot young stuff needing the oral 'relief' that sisters are happy to provide!

by Anonymousreply 83November 13, 2017 11:15 AM

And that’s great if you see yourself as nothing more than a couple holes. “Suck it, suck it.” That’s all you’ll be to them.

by Anonymousreply 84November 13, 2017 11:20 AM

Stay in your own back yard, OP?

by Anonymousreply 85November 13, 2017 11:31 AM

R81 You're lucky you left with your heads still attached ...... The one on your shoulders AND the one between your legs.

by Anonymousreply 86November 13, 2017 11:33 AM

r84, you say that like it is a bad thing

by Anonymousreply 87November 13, 2017 3:38 PM

It’s only a bad thing for men with dignity.

by Anonymousreply 88November 13, 2017 3:42 PM

Thanks for proving what I always suspected: All the ardent apologists aren't posting from some misguided humanitarianism but merely due to a fetish.

by Anonymousreply 89November 13, 2017 4:36 PM

The best way to approach and Arab guy is on Grindr or similar app. This way you know they are receptive to gay sex

by Anonymousreply 90November 13, 2017 4:38 PM

I find Iranians (they are not arabs) to be among the most boring lays ever. They are so stuck up and feel they are God's gift to the world. Israeli's are similar.

by Anonymousreply 91November 13, 2017 4:39 PM

[quote]All the ardent apologists aren't posting from some misguided humanitarianism but merely due to a fetish.

A fetish they seem to share with the Islamophobes.

by Anonymousreply 92November 13, 2017 4:41 PM

That made no sense R92 but crusaders for the Crescent Cutthroat rarely are sensible.

by Anonymousreply 93November 13, 2017 11:06 PM

Can someone translate R77's post, please?

TIA.

by Anonymousreply 94November 13, 2017 11:08 PM

They smell funny. So... no.

by Anonymousreply 95November 13, 2017 11:09 PM

Any American males that try this in Arab countries are courting death. Have some common sense - even in so called “moderate countries” like UAE - which they arent. If they would put ex-pats in prison for bad debt - have no doubt what would happen with us. Save it for the European countries or the US.

by Anonymousreply 96November 13, 2017 11:21 PM

[quote]That made no sense [R92] but crusaders for the Crescent Cutthroat rarely are sensible.

Quite a compliment, coming from an ignorant bigot like you.

by Anonymousreply 97November 13, 2017 11:23 PM

Since you're on a gay site defending people who punish homosexuality with death, I'd say you're the bigot.

by Anonymousreply 98November 15, 2017 12:59 AM

I’d like to fuck a Mohammed.

by Anonymousreply 99November 15, 2017 3:43 AM

I'm Jewish and go for dark men. I dated a middle easterner who happened to be a Saudi. He lived in the States since he was 10 so he was very Americanized. He was always very worried his family would not only find out he was gay, but with a Jewish boyfriend. He was seriously worried that family members would travel here and perform and honor killing if the news got out. He was very intelligent and worked in the medical research field. He still remained close to his family which meant pleasing them by eventually raising a family. We parted ways, but I did hear about 2 years ago he got married, to a woman. She was Muslim- I'm not sure where she was from. I wasn't invited to the wedding, God forbid he had an ex lover there. It will be interesting to see how this unfolds. I given another 3 -4 years tops. I would imagine he will pump a child or two out just to make things look legit.

by Anonymousreply 100November 15, 2017 5:18 AM

[quote]Since you're on a gay site defending people who punish homosexuality with death, I'd say you're the bigot.

Defining all members of a group by the actions of a few is the dictionary definition of prejudice. Since you're assuming that every Muslim on the planet would kill gay people, you're the definition of a prejudiced bigot.

by Anonymousreply 101November 15, 2017 5:34 AM

Grab his crotch through his robe and announce loudly, "This designates ownership" in Arabic!

by Anonymousreply 102November 15, 2017 6:01 AM

[R101] Not all, but is 77-99% of a given population enough to make broad generalizations? The fact that this thread exists is evidence that enough do.

Question for your virtuous self: In what Islamic country would you openly state your desire for dick? We’re waiting....

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by Anonymousreply 103November 15, 2017 8:48 PM

[quote]The extreme example is the Orlando shooter who had serious conflicts dealing with his homosexuality based on the way his culture looks down on gays.

It's been disproven that he was a closet case but many apologists still like that explanation, in order to deflect away from his real motivation.

[quote]On June 25, The New York Times reported that after exhaustive investigation with help from the FBI, the gay dating network Adam4Adam concluded that Mateen had never used its app. With regard to reports of Mateen using its and other dating sites and apps for gay men, an Adam4Adam spokesman said, "I think it was a hoax." Furthermore, the article stated that after 500 interviews, the FBI has not found any evidence of homosexuality "through (Mateen's) web searches, emails or other electronic data".[80] The FBI, however, "has found evidence that Mateen was cheating on his wife with other women".

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by Anonymousreply 104November 15, 2017 9:44 PM

he'll either introduce you to his "snake" or stone you to death.

by Anonymousreply 105November 15, 2017 9:55 PM

I live in the Midwest very islamaphobic. I was in a restaurant with an Arab man and his daughter. A table of rednecks was loudly talking about how all arabs should be shot or jailed. Finally the manager asked the rednecks to leave who of course had to get in the last digs. The daughter was sobbing and the man was very upset. I went up to them and expressed as best I could in Arabic that most Americans wish them no harm. The man took my hand and cried and was so greatful. He was Iraqi and could speak English. He insisted on my number. He called two days later and wanted to bring over a dish in appreciation. He had two huge boxes of all kinds of things, after I put them away he started crying again and hugged me super tight. After a minute or so I felt his bulge and his hands started to my ass. He asked if he could make love to me and I agreed. He was super thick and he came almost right away. I hadn't so he kept on fucking until I did. from then on we met once a week. I broke my ankle and insisted he needed to stay with me, he was loving and kind.

by Anonymousreply 106November 17, 2017 12:12 AM

I'm half Arab, my father was a Palestinian Muslim and I came out to my mom who is a Brazilian Catholic at the age 14. I knew that my dad would not take me being gay very well so I asked my mother to not tell my dad. but of course she did and he, of course, did freak out.

but the thing that I remember most from that time, was my mom telling me that when she told my dad he replied that boys my age back in the "old country" fooled around with each other but outgrow it and end up marrying and having kids, which to me sounded like he pretty much had gay sex before marrying my mom. I never looked at his teenaged photos with his male friends the same way again.

Luckily neither of my parents were too religious so after the initial shock, I didn't get too much shit from them. I also declared that I'm an atheist around the same time. Again shock, and then acceptance.

by Anonymousreply 107November 17, 2017 1:00 AM

How come no one molested me when i went to egypt.

by Anonymousreply 108November 17, 2017 3:02 AM

R106 where did you learn how to speak Arabic?

by Anonymousreply 109November 17, 2017 3:13 AM

They mutilate.

by Anonymousreply 110November 17, 2017 3:22 AM

R106 - wow, what an experience!

by Anonymousreply 111December 13, 2017 2:57 PM

Muslim men of Middle Eastern extraction are so hot to me. I would LOVE to sexually pleasure them and then have them ejaculate all over me.

by Anonymousreply 112December 13, 2017 3:22 PM

[quote]R106 I broke my ankle and insisted he needed to stay with me, he was loving and kind.

Did you break your own ankle?

If you did, I admire this approach.

by Anonymousreply 113December 13, 2017 3:26 PM

In my NYC neighborhood there are a lot of Arab guys on Grindr. A lot of them are discreet or have no photo and other such nonsense that turns me off. Some will send a photo only of their dick and I have a rule about needing to see a face.

by Anonymousreply 114December 13, 2017 3:51 PM

There is (or was) a gay arab party in NYC. I think it was called Habibi. Not sure if it's still active or how welcome non-Arabs are.

by Anonymousreply 115December 13, 2017 3:55 PM

Do Middle Eastern guys generally prefer fems and twinks, or is that more of a thing in Turkey vs. the Arab world? I've read that in Istanbul guys will hit on you like horny dogs if you're obviously gay.

by Anonymousreply 116December 13, 2017 4:00 PM

Did he kiss, R106?

by Anonymousreply 117December 13, 2017 4:02 PM

Dear Allah in Heaven!

by Anonymousreply 118December 13, 2017 4:25 PM

Yeah R106 story had eveything except a pack of dogs nipping at his behind.

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by Anonymousreply 119December 13, 2017 4:30 PM

Rihanna’s billionaire boyfriend Hassan Jameel is hot....that’s all I got!

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by Anonymousreply 120December 13, 2017 4:39 PM

r4's method is good, but tinged with American ignorance about Arabs. Just because an Arab is drinking alcohol doesn't mean he is a Muslim drinking alcohol. Not all Arabs are Muslims. You could see a Christian Arab drinking alcohol (not at all a big thing compared to a Muslim Arab drinking alcohol) and make a big mistake in assuming he is a rule breaker.

by Anonymousreply 121December 13, 2017 4:47 PM

I'm dating a guy from Kuwait right now. Met him at an upscale gym here in NYC. We fooled around a little in the steam room and then he surprised me by actually wanting to talk afterwards. We exchanged numbers and that was that. He is in his late 40s, silver haired. Huge arms and legs. Former polo player (he went to school in London). The works.

He is married with two kids in Kuwait but works for his family's firm and is in the city every two weeks for two weeks at a time.

It's weird. He owns a pretty sick apartment in Tribeca and that's where we meet. Every time we hook up he goes NUTS. Like its the first sex he's had in years. He plays the whole "top" role but I gotta be honest, it's fucking hot. He is absurdly passionate and really gets into kissing. It's clear that he is gay but just can't live his life due to shit back at home. I don't really care because I'm not in love with him. He thinks he's in love with me but I know that's just the crazy-unstable lust that drives him to say that stuff.

Friends joke that if I ever met someone else and told him, he would kill me. Heh.

Anyway, this guy turned me out and its hot for now. He says he is buying an apartment that he wants me to live in but I just can't go that far.

I'm off topic here, sorry. My experience is not typical by any stretch of the imagination. As for meeting Arab men, friends have told me that they have hooked up with hot Middle Eastern Uber drivers by calling for a car outside gay bars like The Eagle.

by Anonymousreply 122December 13, 2017 4:48 PM

As long as you keep it private and between the two of you any Arab will fuck you. Don't expect anything more.

by Anonymousreply 123December 13, 2017 7:01 PM

[quote]Muslim men of Middle Eastern extraction are so hot to me. I would LOVE to sexually pleasure them and then have them ejaculate all over me.

This statement is the assumption of why gay men are so forgiving Islamic brutality against gays, which has long been my belief. I don’t hear this about Christians, however—I have seen threads here about hot white supremacists. Not sure if it was deleted but I’ve seen threads like that on Datalounge. White supremacists usually are Christians, I believe.

by Anonymousreply 124December 13, 2017 11:23 PM

*of.

by Anonymousreply 125December 13, 2017 11:23 PM

Yeah I find skinheads hot.

by Anonymousreply 126December 14, 2017 9:04 PM

I’d love to meet one.

by Anonymousreply 127December 16, 2017 12:46 PM

Do act predatory

by Anonymousreply 128March 21, 2019 9:55 PM

Don’t act

by Anonymousreply 129March 21, 2019 9:56 PM

Where I used to live in TX of all places this Arab family owned a pizza place that was good and they delivered.

Every time I would get pizza delivered from there the drivers, who were all Arab would hint around that they were down for whatever. I’m out, no way to hide my fabulousness so I can see why they thought I would be down with that, unfortunately none of them were ever remotely hot so I just gave them a good tip and sent them on their way.

So I think Arab men especially if they are immigrants aren’t shy about being on the DL.

by Anonymousreply 130March 21, 2019 10:24 PM

Nice

by Anonymousreply 131March 21, 2019 10:47 PM

BUMP!!!

by Anonymousreply 132April 6, 2019 2:55 AM

How about muscular Moroccans?

by Anonymousreply 133April 6, 2019 7:25 AM

What do you think of this guy? Wearing skinny jeans? Gay?

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