From what I’ve seen, the OP’s statement is very accurate – although I would also like answers from an anthropologist as to why this occurs so often.
To the people saying “mind your own business” - well, we would, if they would. When somebody is talking loudly on the phone in a public place, it becomes everybody’s business. Most people have the common sense and manners to avoid making a spectacle out of their phone calls. There seems to be very little regard for their fellow humans with people who loudly out-talk everybody in the room, and show no remorse. I don’t know if it’s a severe lack of self-awareness? Or maybe they just don’t give a damn. Of course it isn’t exclusively Indian people who do this, there are culprits in any race. But the fact cant’ be ignored that Indians don’t seem to care about the giant production they make during loud phone calls.
For a few months I was transferred to Cupertino CA for work, and my main form of transportation was via cab (because the company paid for it). Then, I was transferred for a month to Las Vegas – also took cabs everywhere. I’m not exaggerating when I say that 95% of the drivers were Indian, and 100% of them were loudly talking on a Bluetooth device during the entire cab ride. I’m not really one for small talk, so I didn’t care. But I did find it unusual that ALL of them did this exact same thing. Now the other 5% of drivers I had that were other races – they were never on their phones at all.
Also, I would like to mention that the company credit card was hijacked no less than 3 times over a few months, and each time was directly after I’d taken a cab ride. Two of them were to bail someone out of Jail in India. The other was to purchase a big-screen TV (in India).
Next comes the convenience store, gas station, and liquor store owners. In these areas (as well as where I live now), many of the workers / owners are Indian… and they are ALWAYS on the phone, talking very fast and nonstop. Is it all an act so they don’t have to interact with customers? Now again, it’s not that I care so much about them blabbering… it’s that while they blabber, they completely neglect their stores and their customers. Stock will be low or empty, coffee not made, shelves and floors dirty. At what other jobs could you expect to get away with something like that, while you talk on the phone? It’s negligent, and it isn’t good business.
And last but not least, all the ones calling the OP racist… Are you completely oblivious to the fact that stereotypes are very often CORRECT? And since when does stating the obvious about a group instantly mean someone is “against” them? The OP’s question did not in any way imply they “hate” Indian people because they’re always talking on the phone. It was a simple statement and question from their observations in life!! Why do people feel the need to turn it around and imply it was racist? That’s just laughable.
Personally, I hate the word stereotype, because people fly off the rails when the word is mentioned. Dear linguists, please work on a word that sums up the phrase “statement that applies to the majority of a group, but excludes a few”.