Just read this tweet from Thomas Dekker. He officially comes out as gay after he was outted by a "prominent gay man" in an acceptance speech. Thomas married his husband in April. Anybody know who outted him in a speech?
He has gay face. I could tell he was gay when he was on the Sarah Connor Terminator tv show.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | July 14, 2017 1:08 AM |
Who?
by Anonymous | reply 2 | July 14, 2017 1:08 AM |
It was never a secret and very few will be surprised.
I had no idea he'd gotten married. I was under the impression that he and Louis Hunter were an item.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | July 14, 2017 1:10 AM |
It was show runner Bryan Fuller (Heroes, Pushing Daisies, etc.). I remember all the drama surrounding Heroes because his management didn't like that his character was going to be gay. Not a secret but, as he said in his tweet, he never actually publicly came out and Fuller did it for him (not maliciously, but still).
by Anonymous | reply 4 | July 14, 2017 1:12 AM |
I liked him in Backstrom. Sad to see that show cancelled.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | July 14, 2017 1:13 AM |
Never heard of him, took a look at a pic,from 2010. I sure never would have guessed he's gay!
by Anonymous | reply 6 | July 14, 2017 1:16 AM |
He was the gayest child actor ever in the Honey I Shrunk the Kids tv show.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | July 14, 2017 1:16 AM |
Has any coming out ever been a surprise?
by Anonymous | reply 8 | July 14, 2017 1:18 AM |
Who?
by Anonymous | reply 9 | July 14, 2017 1:46 AM |
Never heard of him. At first I was hoping it was a Republican congressman!
by Anonymous | reply 10 | July 14, 2017 1:49 AM |
What did Bryan Fuller say?
by Anonymous | reply 11 | July 14, 2017 1:51 AM |
His case is one of the most absurd in Hollywood's attempt to keep actors pretending to be straight so they could play major straight roles. No matter how much they tried to butch him up on camera, he was always Chris Colfer with a lower voice. It was the proverbial case of even Stevie Wonder from space could see that he was gay.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | July 14, 2017 1:52 AM |
He played a gayling on the shortlived 90210 spoof Grosse Pointe. Whatever happened to his crush on the show?
Let's not respond with a chorud of "duh!". His letter doesn't contain the word "Surprise!".
And who's his blatino husbear?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | July 14, 2017 1:53 AM |
Why the hell do people start threads about obscure people and then don't post a picture. I have never heard of him so not sure if this is a average picture of him or not. OP you should have been the one posting a picture.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | July 14, 2017 1:53 AM |
I'm sorry, who are you?
What acceptance speech were you outed in?
Does anyone care?
by Anonymous | reply 15 | July 14, 2017 1:54 AM |
Bryan Fuller has a speech on the outfest youtube channel. It's 9 minutes, though. Listen and report back, thankyouplease.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | July 14, 2017 1:55 AM |
He's worked more than Chris Colfer, hasn't he?
by Anonymous | reply 17 | July 14, 2017 1:56 AM |
If you watched the first season of Heroes, then you probably know the well-known controversy of Dekker's management not wanting his character on the show to be gay, even though it was clear that the character and the actor were.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | July 14, 2017 1:57 AM |
Who?
by Anonymous | reply 19 | July 14, 2017 1:57 AM |
He's not obscure if you keep up with possibly gay celebrity twinks š
He also played gay in Araki's Kaboom, btw. Cute film.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | July 14, 2017 1:58 AM |
For R11
"I had a brief stint onĀ HeroesĀ whereĀ the gay character was 'hetwashed' after the actor's management threatened to pull him from the show if he ā the character, not the actor ā were gay. The character became straight and the actor came out as gay." (He was referring to Thomas Dekker, who hasn't said he's gay. He confirmed complications surrounding his character's sexuality in a lengthyĀ blog postand later toldĀ OutĀ magazine that heĀ was openĀ to relationships with men and women.)
by Anonymous | reply 21 | July 14, 2017 2:00 AM |
Ah, so Dekker's playing semantics. He came out as bi before Fuller's speech, and gay after it.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | July 14, 2017 2:04 AM |
[quote]the gay character was 'hetwashed' after the actor's management threatened to pull him from the show
Why is it not publicized who these behind the scenes people are who do this so that we can boycott everything they are associated with?
by Anonymous | reply 23 | July 14, 2017 2:05 AM |
R23 Because that all happened years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | July 14, 2017 2:07 AM |
It's not like the reps are the really powerful ones. Look to the money.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | July 14, 2017 2:07 AM |
Oh Fuller š
by Anonymous | reply 26 | July 14, 2017 2:08 AM |
It continues to happen r24. It's pretty stupid to think it doesn't.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | July 14, 2017 2:08 AM |
I'll wait for it to come out of his mouth.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | July 14, 2017 2:08 AM |
R17 - what makes you say that?
Colfer: actor: television and TV, wrote a produced a movie, plus New York Times bestselling author.
27 Years old.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | July 14, 2017 2:09 AM |
It's interesting though, a bit like TR Knight, one has to wonder if they would have come out if they were not 'outed'.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | July 14, 2017 2:11 AM |
R24 I thought you were talking about the people involved in the "Heroes" incident.
It does still happen, not as much as it used to.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | July 14, 2017 2:14 AM |
DL fave Nico Tortorella has spoken about how he's had to have long phone conversations with his team over what he posts on his IG. They were the ones who probably flipped when Kyle Krieger posted a pic with text claiming Nico as his boyfriend. The post was then deleted. That doesn't absolve Nico of complicity, of course.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | July 14, 2017 2:18 AM |
A new gay to hate.
I hate gays.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | July 14, 2017 2:19 AM |
And, trannies.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | July 14, 2017 2:19 AM |
He is not known to me.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | July 14, 2017 2:21 AM |
I am happy for his husband. I can't imagine being married to someone who wasn't out.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | July 14, 2017 2:22 AM |
He has been discussed on the DL before, so I'm surprised about all these people claiming they haven't heard of him
by Anonymous | reply 38 | July 14, 2017 2:23 AM |
The next step is for Thomas and his man to appear in public together.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | July 14, 2017 2:24 AM |
Wow. Thomas Dekker's IG is very gay. His Pride shoutout was a vid of Valerie Chetish singing I Will Survive. He's sparing with pics of this Louis person, though.
He did a drag Witches of Eastwick with Chad Michaels and Coco Peru recently.
What's less than glass closeted?
by Anonymous | reply 40 | July 14, 2017 2:27 AM |
I've always thought he was hot.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | July 14, 2017 2:28 AM |
If it's this Louis person, he's a former co star and presumably not out either...
One of the recent pics of them is taken in bed. Dekker just refers to Louis as his lead actor in a side film project.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | July 14, 2017 2:30 AM |
R38 , he's no Jeff Self.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | July 14, 2017 2:31 AM |
Yes, DL has historically reported on Thomas and his glass closet, but it's still cool that he's made it official šš½
by Anonymous | reply 44 | July 14, 2017 2:33 AM |
[quote]He has been discussed on the DL before, so I'm surprised about all these people claiming they haven't heard of him
It's a good indicator of people who are not longtime DLers. I knew about it from the threads here 10 years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | July 14, 2017 2:41 AM |
I thought Bryan Fuller was talking about Zach Quinto when I saw that speech but I guess Dekker makes more sense since Sylar was always supposed to be straight.... right? God I remember so very little about Heroes now
by Anonymous | reply 46 | July 14, 2017 2:47 AM |
I only know him from the Sarah Connor Chronicles. He must have butched it up convincingly on this show, because I did not suspect that he was gay when I watched it; I did not notice any gay voice or anything. I only learned of the gay rumors when I read his Wikipedia page. To change the subject a bit, I did suspect that Cheyenne Jackson was gay when I saw him on 30 Rock, but every time I mention this on the DL you people come after me with torches and pitchforks.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | July 14, 2017 3:29 AM |
That's because Cheyenne was already out when he was on 30 Rock.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | July 14, 2017 3:30 AM |
r48 But he played a straight dude and I still could tell that he was gay, in other words, Cheyenne can't play straight for shit. But DLrs don't like to hear that.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | July 14, 2017 3:33 AM |
So what R49? What is your point?
by Anonymous | reply 50 | July 14, 2017 3:35 AM |
LOL, like I said, DLrs don't like to hear that.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | July 14, 2017 3:36 AM |
Just come out and say he's a fucking f-ggot? Why skirt around the issue? Just be honest with your homophobia-you'd for right in here, you stupid asshole.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | July 14, 2017 3:39 AM |
Wasn't he molested as a child or something? He had some fucked up childhood.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | July 14, 2017 3:40 AM |
I'm happy for him. Loved TSCC.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | July 14, 2017 3:40 AM |
R47, how did you manage to miss his rabid gay face?
by Anonymous | reply 55 | July 14, 2017 3:47 AM |
Im actually happy for him. While he's not A-list, he's certainly known. He was one of the few bright spots in the Nightmare on Elm Street remake. Its funny how you hoes complain you dont know who these people are but knew all about fuckin Colton Haynes before he was on Teen Wolf.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | July 14, 2017 4:39 AM |
I love him in the horrorc comedy "All About Evil" starring Natasha Lyonne, Cassandra Peterson (Elvira!), and Mink Stole.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | July 14, 2017 4:47 AM |
Can't wait to see to see him in Do You Take This Man with fellow gayboy Jonathan Bennett!
by Anonymous | reply 58 | July 14, 2017 4:49 AM |
Colton Haynes is a Gay Icon!
by Anonymous | reply 59 | July 14, 2017 4:50 AM |
When you look up the word gay in the dictionary, you'll see a picture of Colton
by Anonymous | reply 60 | July 14, 2017 4:52 AM |
You could kind of tell he was gay even back when he was on the Honey I Shrunk The Kids series
by Anonymous | reply 61 | July 14, 2017 4:58 AM |
[quote]He has been discussed on the DL before, so I'm surprised about all these people claiming they haven't heard of him
[quote]It's a good indicator of people who are not longtime DLers. I knew about it from the threads here 10 years ago.
And it's a good indicator of people who have lives and don't spend all of theirs on DL.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | July 14, 2017 4:59 AM |
r52 LMAOOOO
by Anonymous | reply 64 | July 14, 2017 5:13 AM |
I never thought of his face as gay face. His face is cute and boyish but not feminine. Also, I think of gay face as more of an expression - that look of exaggerated happiness. And his character in the TSCC show was often quite broody.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | July 14, 2017 5:22 AM |
his first acting credit was Philllip Chancellor IV on Y&R, so....like father, like son?
by Anonymous | reply 66 | July 14, 2017 5:26 AM |
I knew he was a pencil dialer way back in 1995.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | July 14, 2017 6:15 AM |
He even seemed gay in this clip from Grosse Pointe (starting at 3:45)
by Anonymous | reply 68 | July 14, 2017 6:25 AM |
[quote] Wasn't he molested as a child?
Yes, he was. He wrote about it in a post about Prop 8.
"If you really want to know the truth, and no, I have never spoken of this publicly, I was molested for a long period of time as a child by a retired marine who was happily married with two children"
by Anonymous | reply 69 | July 14, 2017 7:13 AM |
So can none of the IG sleuths of DL dig up some photos of his hubby? TIA!
by Anonymous | reply 70 | July 14, 2017 9:23 AM |
I thought my teenage John Connor baby was out since years, my bad. Good for him, I wish him happiness.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | July 14, 2017 9:29 AM |
I didn't know he was gay watching him on The Sarah Conner Show, either.
I also didn't know his forehead was so huge.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | July 14, 2017 11:32 AM |
Can someone find a picture of the retired Marine?
by Anonymous | reply 74 | July 14, 2017 12:50 PM |
Are we supposed to know who she is?
by Anonymous | reply 75 | July 14, 2017 12:52 PM |
He's one of those guys who has a very good looking face, but insists on allowing his poor choice of hairstyles to completely ruin his look. This kid could be hot as fuck, but oh well. Another one lost to the machinations of some incompetent stylist.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | July 14, 2017 12:56 PM |
Yep, I remember the drama where they wanted his Heroes character to be gay but Thomas Dekker refused.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | July 14, 2017 12:56 PM |
I'm another person who never picked up the gay vibes every else seems to be seeing from space. Even when the rumors were flying hot and heavy about this guy, he never blipped MY radar.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | July 14, 2017 3:35 PM |
What are you, R78, headless?
by Anonymous | reply 79 | July 14, 2017 5:42 PM |
Dekker's emo-ness has always been flak in my gaydar...
by Anonymous | reply 80 | July 14, 2017 6:59 PM |
I don't see how anyone could have missed his gay face. He didn't "act" gay in the Sarah Connor show, but his face was unmistakably gay to me.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | July 14, 2017 7:03 PM |
I think he was very gay in TSCC. The emo kind of gay.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | July 14, 2017 7:12 PM |
I was hoping Douglas Booth would come out.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | July 14, 2017 8:30 PM |
Dekker is an idiot if he thinks Fuller outed him. Dekker is married to a man and his social media is gay. What the fuck is there to out when you are already living as a gay person?
Thomas Dekker must be using this to get some publicity. I also remember the whole Heroes' scandal and what a homophobic move it was to pull that on the tv writers. The writers had crafted a good gay character and team Dekker sabotage that plan.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | July 14, 2017 8:43 PM |
Dekker's take on the Heroes mess.
According to Dekker, whoĀ here elaborates on the subject, he played the character for 12 episodes with no direction other than that his Zach had a crush on Claire (Hayden Panattiere). And then a few hours before filming, he was given a script that had Zach matter-of-factly stating he was gay.
āI went through the f*cking roof!ā Dekker says. āIf youāre going to have a gay character on your show come out and be a pioneer for kids, I wouldāve liked to play that from the get-go from my perspective. I went to set and said to the writers, āI really wish that it wouldnāt have been five hours before I come into work that I get this news that [the character] Iād been playing for the last 12 episodes knows and is comfortable with the fact that he is gay. Because I wouldāve played this very differently.ā But I said Iād do it, and then a couple hours later the creator, Tim Kring, showed up and said, āNo, no, no. Weāre going to change it [back to him being straight].ā ā
by Anonymous | reply 85 | July 14, 2017 9:01 PM |
Me too R83.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | July 14, 2017 9:25 PM |
[quote] He's one of those guys who has a very good looking face, but insists on allowing his poor choice of hairstyles to completely ruin his look. This kid could be hot as fuck, but oh well. Another one lost to the machinations of some incompetent stylist.
This describes so, so many gay men.
by Anonymous | reply 87 | July 14, 2017 9:31 PM |
[quote] Dekker is married to a man and his social media is gay
How come? He doesn't even appear to have a picture with his husband.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | July 14, 2017 9:32 PM |
Can you be in the closet if you're married to a man? Aren't marriage licenses of public record?
by Anonymous | reply 89 | July 14, 2017 9:52 PM |
The Thomas Dekker I know is a former professional cyclist. He's Dutch and every time I see his name on DL--he's who I picture.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | July 14, 2017 10:05 PM |
The American Dekker is not my type but he's definitely cuter.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | July 14, 2017 10:07 PM |
[quote]He's one of those guys who has a very good looking face
This must have been posted on the wrong thread.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | July 14, 2017 10:10 PM |
If you follow r92's posts in this thread, it's clear he thinks gay = repulsive, ugly.
by Anonymous | reply 93 | July 14, 2017 10:13 PM |
You're confusing me with someone else, dumbass.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | July 14, 2017 10:20 PM |
100% agreed re: Douglas Booth. One day, hopefully.
by Anonymous | reply 95 | July 14, 2017 10:37 PM |
[quote]He was the gayest child actor ever in the Honey I Shrunk the Kids tv show.
Excuse me?
by Anonymous | reply 96 | July 14, 2017 10:42 PM |
Does he even have a career to worry about anymore?
by Anonymous | reply 97 | July 14, 2017 10:49 PM |
Is he Garrett Clayton's homegurl too? Gay by association...
by Anonymous | reply 98 | July 14, 2017 11:21 PM |
From the way he worded his letter it sounded like he labeled himself "sexually fluid" and never felt the need to identify as anything. But at some point in time he became more comfortable and felt that it was important to have more gay representation.
What I want to know is what brought on this conclusion. Was his "no labels" mantra inspired by insecurity or did his attraction go beyond male and female? Was he ever truly bisexual or did his "I'm open to dating men and women" statement come from conflicting emotions about accepting who he really is? It's interesting that if he really was that timorous about his sexuality then how was he able to bond and marry a man? Is it possible to find love halfway in the closet?
I linked 2011 interview for reference NOTE I'm not doubting that people can change in 6 years, I'm asking if he did change and if so how much of a change was it? Basically, is his coming out the first time he's acknowledge he's gay to himself or is it a label he's attached to make the "gay lifestyle" easier?
by Anonymous | reply 99 | July 14, 2017 11:28 PM |
Oh look datalounge right yet again on an actor being gay, come out come out George, Henry, Zack, Bradley, hugh etc. Wherever you are!
by Anonymous | reply 100 | July 14, 2017 11:59 PM |
R88 There is an actor that Dekker sometimes poses with on his Instagram account and they've known each other for years. In one pic, they appear to be cuddling while Dekker flips the bird to the camera. Not saying he's the husband, but there's reason to believe he is.
by Anonymous | reply 101 | July 15, 2017 12:07 AM |
R46 I thought the same thing. Zachary Quinto came out but was super closeted at the time of Heroes.
I saw this post on EW. Thomas claims he wasn't out yet, but he's married to a man. How is that not out? Aren't marriage licenses a matter of public record?
I watched Heroes and remembered the character vaguely, but I would have never realized he was who Bryan Fuller was referring to had he not made this big public post claiming he was outed.
by Anonymous | reply 102 | July 15, 2017 12:33 AM |
Don't be obtuse. He's talking about being out as gay professionally.
When did he give the interview saying he could be swayed by both sexes?
by Anonymous | reply 103 | July 15, 2017 12:38 AM |
From the statement it sounds to me like he wouldn't have come out if Fuller didn't allude to him.
Fuller probably didn't even think he wasn't out by now.
From an Out interview in 2011:
'I've only really had relationships with women, but I'm certainly not closed to it. If there are possibilities of being able to do anything in life, why would you say you would never take any up? In the later chunk of my teen years I was so all over the place with sex. It was terrible. I never really had a real relationship at all. During puberty, it's all about sex, and it's all about figuring yourself out. I think I overdid it when I was younger.'
by Anonymous | reply 104 | July 15, 2017 12:42 AM |
Suffering sexual abuse could have thrown a real spanner in the work for his sexual and romantic development.
DL fave Nico Tortorella has trust issues with males because of an absent father and an uncle who acted as a father substitute but up and disappeared.
by Anonymous | reply 105 | July 15, 2017 12:42 AM |
Come on... Lance Loud. The lead in a Gregg Akari movie. And he wouldn't "play gay" in a series?
He was always out. He just didn't know it.
I found him sexy as hell though, I must admit.
by Anonymous | reply 106 | July 15, 2017 12:47 AM |
SO who is his husband gurl?
Is his friend Gary Clayton secretly married to his man too, giving us Janet Jackson tease circa 1991?
by Anonymous | reply 107 | July 15, 2017 12:57 AM |
Wait, does sexually fluid mean gay now? Wouldn't that more likely fall under bisexuality?
by Anonymous | reply 108 | July 15, 2017 1:24 AM |
sexually fluid = whore
by Anonymous | reply 109 | July 15, 2017 1:26 AM |
Wow. They found Richard Simmons!
by Anonymous | reply 110 | July 15, 2017 1:31 AM |
He did frontal nudity in Kaboom, but it was very distant.
by Anonymous | reply 111 | July 15, 2017 1:31 AM |
Are marriage records immediately put online?
by Anonymous | reply 112 | July 15, 2017 1:32 AM |
[quote]He did frontal nudity in Kaboom, but it was very distant.
There's some good nudity by Chris Zylka in that film.
by Anonymous | reply 113 | July 15, 2017 1:35 AM |
Look, we can spend our time focusing on how out is out or we could enjoy his vocal stylings.
by Anonymous | reply 114 | July 15, 2017 2:40 AM |
Can't find anything for a marriage license with a simple search. Would probably need to know at least some details, like where they were married and when.
by Anonymous | reply 115 | July 15, 2017 2:42 AM |
R115 He says he married in April of this year. I don't know where but am guessing either New York or LA.
by Anonymous | reply 116 | July 15, 2017 2:44 AM |
He is a god-awful actor. Really, really bad.
by Anonymous | reply 117 | July 15, 2017 3:03 AM |
He can't be that bad if he fooled some people on DL that he was straight
by Anonymous | reply 118 | July 15, 2017 3:04 AM |
R118 He only fooled people who wanted to be fooled... not unlike how Trump is fooling the deplorables.
by Anonymous | reply 119 | July 15, 2017 3:36 AM |
Really, who didn't see this coming?
by Anonymous | reply 120 | July 15, 2017 6:59 AM |
r119 = hurr durr
by Anonymous | reply 121 | July 15, 2017 8:59 AM |
dunno who he is
by Anonymous | reply 122 | July 15, 2017 9:06 AM |
[quote]dunno who he is
He's the guy who made you check out a thread about him without knowing who he is.
by Anonymous | reply 123 | July 15, 2017 9:14 AM |
[quote]The next step is for Thomas and his man to appear in public together.
As much as some people complain about Quinto and Miles or Stephen Fry and his young husband, at least they are fully open with their relationship. Only insecure gay actors still hedge with their personal lives. Their straight counterparts may not give details but they rarely hide their significant others, especially their spouses. Robin Lord Taylor of Gotham has been married forever and prior to Gotham discussed being gay in an interview with Billy Eichner. He booked Gotham and an interview mentioned his wedding ring and he quickly shut it down by saying he was married but didn't want to discuss it. It took the Pulse tragedy for him to discuss being gay on Twitter and that was just to post a picture of him holding his husband's hand. Now he posts pictures of his husband with the comments disabled.
Al this to say Dekker talks about being out but where is his pride about it. Hiding something as important as his marriage from his social media is weird.
by Anonymous | reply 124 | July 15, 2017 9:39 PM |
Colton Haynes said he cried and trembled for three days after coming out. I guess Dekker needs a few days to prepare as well.
by Anonymous | reply 125 | July 15, 2017 11:58 PM |
Dekker plays a sexually fluid character in "Kaboom".
by Anonymous | reply 126 | July 16, 2017 12:00 AM |
[quote] Only insecure gay actors still hedge with their personal lives
Can you blame them? There are more penalized for being public gay than, for example, lesbian actors or gay men in most other professions.
by Anonymous | reply 127 | July 16, 2017 12:04 AM |
He played a sexually fluid character in "Lost In The White City" and showed his naked ass.
by Anonymous | reply 128 | July 16, 2017 1:56 AM |
Bisexual not sexually fluid
by Anonymous | reply 129 | July 16, 2017 2:15 AM |
R128 Did he do a gay scene in that film?
by Anonymous | reply 130 | July 16, 2017 2:16 AM |
Yes, R130.
Here are the screencaps.
Scroll down for the gay scenes.
by Anonymous | reply 131 | July 16, 2017 2:26 AM |
Drugs will do that to ya
by Anonymous | reply 133 | July 16, 2017 2:37 AM |
r133 As does pushing 30.
by Anonymous | reply 134 | July 16, 2017 2:41 AM |
He's played gay almost as much as James Franco.
by Anonymous | reply 135 | July 16, 2017 4:10 AM |
So does that mean James will be coming out soon?
by Anonymous | reply 136 | July 16, 2017 4:11 AM |
R136 LOL, perhaps one day he'll bottoming in bareback porn asking "You think I'm gay?"
by Anonymous | reply 137 | July 16, 2017 4:15 AM |
I'm pretty sure we all already knew he was gay around the time of Heroes (no, not just the character... we were pretty sure right here he was really gay).
We were right about another one... and that's why this doesn't seem like news to me. I feel like I've already known forever.
by Anonymous | reply 138 | July 16, 2017 4:34 AM |
He has a spectacularly unimpressive body and ass, R131
by Anonymous | reply 139 | July 16, 2017 5:21 AM |
R139, his ass looks decent to me.
by Anonymous | reply 140 | July 16, 2017 7:03 AM |
Why is he blaming Fuller? That whole thing was so vague and convoluted that most people wouldn't have guessed he was talking about Dekker.
by Anonymous | reply 141 | July 16, 2017 7:16 AM |
Will a sex tape soon follow?
by Anonymous | reply 142 | July 16, 2017 3:31 PM |
R142 I hope so.
He's probably at home preparing himself for his first public appearance since coming out. That can be stressful. I'm wondering when we'll find out who the hubby is?
by Anonymous | reply 143 | July 16, 2017 3:34 PM |
Is his acting career essentially over? He's had a decent run, but now that he's lost his youthful looks and come out as gay, are there much acting opportunities for him out there?
by Anonymous | reply 144 | July 16, 2017 6:46 PM |
Why did he lose his looks so fast?
by Anonymous | reply 145 | July 16, 2017 7:12 PM |
[quote]Why did he lose his looks so fast?
You can tell he's lived pretty hard and he confessed to it. Drugs and too much alcohol will do that. He is still young enough to revive himself though.
by Anonymous | reply 146 | July 16, 2017 10:53 PM |
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by Anonymous | reply 147 | July 16, 2017 10:56 PM |
DAMN r147!
by Anonymous | reply 148 | July 16, 2017 10:58 PM |
I wanted nothing more than to taste Aaron Carter's but when I was a teen.
by Anonymous | reply 149 | July 17, 2017 3:01 AM |
R147 Poor ex-teen idol, discarded like old toys.
by Anonymous | reply 150 | July 17, 2017 3:37 AM |
That pic of Aaron Carter is haunting.
by Anonymous | reply 151 | July 17, 2017 4:07 AM |
Aaron looks like he's about 50 in that pic.
Thomas Dekker is still kind of attractive.
by Anonymous | reply 152 | July 17, 2017 4:14 AM |
Thomas is definitely still attractive. I really want to see what his husband looks like though.
by Anonymous | reply 153 | July 17, 2017 4:16 AM |
What is he coming out of R132? A tub of butter?
by Anonymous | reply 154 | July 17, 2017 4:19 AM |
R154 Butter -- the real white man's burden.
by Anonymous | reply 155 | July 17, 2017 4:22 AM |
Bruce Willis needs to stage an intervention for Aaron Carter!
by Anonymous | reply 156 | July 17, 2017 11:25 AM |
Aaron Carter seems to have taken over Thomas Dekker's thread.
by Anonymous | reply 157 | July 17, 2017 5:58 PM |
Good point, Thomas Dekker hasn't made any statements since coming out and I'm not aware of him being out in public in the past few days.
by Anonymous | reply 158 | July 18, 2017 2:23 AM |
I think he's really straight and is feather boa-ing
by Anonymous | reply 159 | July 18, 2017 2:37 AM |
Is Dekker in seclusion? There have been no sightings or interview of him since he came out.
by Anonymous | reply 160 | July 19, 2017 1:35 AM |
Dekkers desperate pr r159
by Anonymous | reply 161 | July 19, 2017 1:42 AM |
Maybe he'll be at the next awards ceremony.
by Anonymous | reply 162 | July 19, 2017 4:16 AM |
Bump
by Anonymous | reply 163 | July 19, 2017 5:57 PM |
No one has seen or heard from him in a week.
by Anonymous | reply 164 | July 20, 2017 4:50 PM |
r164 Why is that weird?
by Anonymous | reply 165 | July 21, 2017 8:10 PM |
Not weird, but I thought he'd be making a public appearance given how this has raised his profile.
by Anonymous | reply 166 | July 22, 2017 12:56 AM |
Our Thomas, he's a ghey man now!
by Anonymous | reply 167 | July 22, 2017 1:06 AM |
When will he make a follow up statement?
by Anonymous | reply 168 | July 24, 2017 12:53 AM |
Funny that there was that whole gay controversy over the character in Heroes when he played that character opposite actor Matt Lanter for quite a few episodes.
by Anonymous | reply 169 | July 24, 2017 1:30 AM |
Fucking finally, I've known about his sexuality for years. Like I said, a poster on AfterElton talked about him walking into a shop in Vancouver with his boyfriend. I know the poster could have been lying, but I believed him and I still believe him.
by Anonymous | reply 170 | July 27, 2017 9:53 AM |
Ugh.. too many gaylings on this website now. Never heard of him? Have you never heard about Heroes either?
by Anonymous | reply 171 | July 27, 2017 9:55 AM |
[quote]Ah, so Dekker's playing semantics. He came out as bi before Fuller's speech, and gay after it.
Not really, he said he had only dated women in the past but that he was open to dating guys.
by Anonymous | reply 172 | July 27, 2017 9:59 AM |
[quote]Why is it not publicized who these behind the scenes people are who do this so that we can boycott everything they are associated with?
I agree. What I can't stand is the hypocrisy though, they never have any problems with lesbian characters, they only freak out about gay male characters.
by Anonymous | reply 173 | July 27, 2017 10:01 AM |
[quote]I am happy for his husband. I can't imagine being married to someone who wasn't out.
Literally what I was thinking. This is a good thing for the both of them, they don't have to hide anymore. His husband must have put up with a lot of shit to agree to get married to someone in the closet (at least publicly closeted). He must really love him to accept that.
by Anonymous | reply 174 | July 27, 2017 10:05 AM |
R38 Like I said, too many gaylings here now. These people have never heard about Heroes either.
by Anonymous | reply 175 | July 27, 2017 10:07 AM |
[quote]I also didn't know his forehead was so huge.
It looked better before the receding hairline.
by Anonymous | reply 176 | July 27, 2017 10:16 AM |
Amen, R124. I'm sick of actors coming out and saying they're proud of being gay all while hiding huge chunks of their personal lives.
by Anonymous | reply 177 | July 27, 2017 10:29 AM |
R132 It's obvious that he's gained weight. He has a really bloated face and the receding hairline isn't helping.
by Anonymous | reply 178 | July 27, 2017 10:31 AM |
Same, R138.
by Anonymous | reply 179 | July 27, 2017 10:33 AM |
Is he pulling a Luke Evans, R164? Do you think he regrets coming out?
by Anonymous | reply 180 | July 27, 2017 10:37 AM |
R166 True, but it's not like he was that much in the spotlight even before coming out. Isn't he basically a has been at this point?
by Anonymous | reply 181 | July 27, 2017 10:38 AM |
I wonder who his husband is.
by Anonymous | reply 182 | July 27, 2017 10:40 AM |
r175 Who the hell are these idiots who've never heard about Heroes? I haven't watched it but I've heard more about than I care about.
by Anonymous | reply 183 | July 27, 2017 11:09 AM |
There is a very large rock, I understand r183, which a great many people live under.
by Anonymous | reply 184 | July 27, 2017 11:12 AM |
Has Thomas Dekker appeared in public or made a statement since he came out?
by Anonymous | reply 185 | July 28, 2017 3:08 AM |
Who the fuck cares
by Anonymous | reply 186 | August 14, 2017 8:18 AM |
You do apparently R186 since you obviously searched for a thread that hadn't been posted in since July 27th...
by Anonymous | reply 187 | August 14, 2017 2:19 PM |
Has Dekker been seen in public since announcing? His social media has been silent since then.
by Anonymous | reply 188 | August 14, 2017 11:50 PM |
He's been in hiding for the last month, probably wherever he hid his husband.
by Anonymous | reply 189 | August 14, 2017 11:51 PM |
Why don't you check it on google, r188? You've asked that 90 times already.
by Anonymous | reply 190 | August 14, 2017 11:52 PM |
R190 I already have.
by Anonymous | reply 191 | August 15, 2017 12:07 AM |
So Thomas finally posted something on his Instagram... and it's this
by Anonymous | reply 192 | August 25, 2017 6:26 PM |
Odd looking boy.
by Anonymous | reply 193 | August 25, 2017 10:09 PM |
Will he ever post a picture of the husband?
by Anonymous | reply 195 | August 27, 2017 12:18 AM |
I'm heading to Seattle next weekend. Maybe we'll hook up!
by Anonymous | reply 196 | August 27, 2017 12:24 AM |
The new husband is named Jesse. Not who I thought he would be.
by Anonymous | reply 199 | September 23, 2017 4:05 AM |
Who did you think he would be, R199?
by Anonymous | reply 200 | September 23, 2017 7:30 AM |
Probably the friend mentioned upthread.
by Anonymous | reply 201 | September 23, 2017 1:52 PM |
Any comment from his siblings, Brooklyn and Double?
by Anonymous | reply 202 | September 23, 2017 1:55 PM |
I can remember when he tried to shove himself back in the closet, unsuccessfully, ten years ago. Anyone with a brain knew then he was a closet case jamming cocks up his hole behind closed doors.
He is a fucking cunt cretin though for lying about it for years. He lied around Heroes, he lied around Sarah Connor and pretty much every year publically.
by Anonymous | reply 203 | September 23, 2017 4:45 PM |
The guy he married is Jesse Haddock, a Canadian actor Dekker met when he guest-starred on Backstrom a few years back.
by Anonymous | reply 204 | September 23, 2017 8:45 PM |
[quote]The guy he married is Jesse Haddock, a Canadian actor Dekker
So Thomas likes Canadian cock?
by Anonymous | reply 206 | September 24, 2017 12:24 AM |
[quote]So Thomas likes Canadian cock?
Who doesn't?
by Anonymous | reply 207 | September 24, 2017 12:57 AM |
[quote] So Thomas likes Canadian cock?
This is the least sexy thing ever written, anywhere.
by Anonymous | reply 208 | September 24, 2017 12:59 AM |
Jesse is ugly as fuck. Looks like a sewer rat. Who's the bottom? I can't even tell.
by Anonymous | reply 209 | September 24, 2017 10:40 AM |
They're cute together. I'm happy he's happy. Yes, he should have come out earlier and yes, it was pathetic how he denied it for so long when it's obvious he was gay. I think it's important to at least recognize that he did come out. He didn't have to, but he did. Hollywood is still very very very homophobic. I'm sure he was given advice about not coming out. It's not always easy. I think we should blame the homophobic industry instead of him. Ask yourself why it was so hard for him to come out. Lesbian actresses come out all the time, there is still a huge stigma against gay male actors, even the "obvious" ones, like Thomas Dekker and Garrett Clayton.
by Anonymous | reply 210 | September 24, 2017 12:29 PM |
He's not the best looking, but he's obviously Thomas's type
by Anonymous | reply 211 | September 24, 2017 4:26 PM |
I'd watch their sex tape.
by Anonymous | reply 212 | September 24, 2017 4:33 PM |
I wouldn't be surprised if there was a sex tape. Dekker had a nude selfie a few years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 213 | September 24, 2017 5:25 PM |
Didn't know who he was. Looked up his IMDB and saw he was on a couple of Seinfeld eps. Love Seinfeld and I knew exactly who he was in those eps. and when I saw him as a little kid in those eps, as God as my witness I swear I said to myself "Gay."
by Anonymous | reply 214 | September 24, 2017 5:36 PM |
Wow.
by Anonymous | reply 215 | September 24, 2017 5:37 PM |
God as your witness? He was cast to type as a fruity kid back then.
by Anonymous | reply 216 | September 24, 2017 5:44 PM |
He played his Satan on Touched By An Angel as real queeny when he stalked that pregnant latina. He couldn't have been more than 11 or 12 back then.
by Anonymous | reply 217 | September 24, 2017 7:30 PM |
He was on this show called "The Secret Circle." He played straight, but I thought he was gay, and I so much wanted the show to have him going for the girl to be close to her father played by Gale Harold.
by Anonymous | reply 219 | September 24, 2017 8:26 PM |
[quote]Dekker had a nude selfie a few years ago.
Link please.
by Anonymous | reply 220 | September 24, 2017 11:39 PM |
R220 It's not been accessible for years.
by Anonymous | reply 221 | September 25, 2017 2:49 AM |
I think he lied when he said he was straight. There is no way in hell he was confused and just now at 30 realized he was gay. I think he was deeply closeted. He shouldn't have lied, and he should have come out long ago while he still had a career, it's typical to come out once your career tanks. I don't really blame him though, because it's a very homophobic industry. I hope he's finally happy and at peace with himself.
by Anonymous | reply 222 | September 29, 2017 10:43 AM |
Is Jesse a Scientologist? One of his instagram postings implies that he is.
by Anonymous | reply 223 | October 7, 2017 10:05 PM |
Well he's going to look like frog very soon.
At least fat-faced De Caprio has some acting ability.
by Anonymous | reply 224 | October 7, 2017 10:11 PM |
Who?
by Anonymous | reply 226 | January 16, 2018 11:20 AM |
Aww
[Quote]Almost a year in. And I swear. I love my husband more than ever.
by Anonymous | reply 227 | March 18, 2018 9:34 AM |
never heard of him. some tv flavor of the week? big deal.
by Anonymous | reply 229 | March 18, 2018 10:03 AM |
what a lovely couple.
by Anonymous | reply 231 | April 14, 2018 9:34 PM |
I hope he has some high profile roles coming soon.
by Anonymous | reply 232 | August 17, 2018 4:28 AM |
Whever he is...he looks like Ally Sheedy, or someone.
by Anonymous | reply 233 | August 17, 2018 4:50 AM |
Unfortunately, he has passed his peak beauty years.
He's hot in "KABOOM", where he plays a bisexual guy who lusts after Chris Zylka.
And he's also worth checking out in "LOST IN THE WHITE CITY" where he lusts after an Israeli guy:
by Anonymous | reply 234 | August 17, 2018 5:04 AM |
What is Thomas Dekker? Sounds like a household appliance.
by Anonymous | reply 235 | August 17, 2018 5:29 AM |
His husband is so meh-looking
by Anonymous | reply 236 | August 17, 2018 5:41 PM |
R233 that's an old pic of him.
by Anonymous | reply 237 | August 18, 2018 3:12 AM |
He was actually one of the few engaging actors in the Nightmare on Elm Street remake
by Anonymous | reply 238 | August 20, 2018 2:25 AM |
I blocked that garbage from my memory R238
by Anonymous | reply 239 | August 20, 2018 2:44 AM |
Is he any relation to Black & Decker, the tools people?
by Anonymous | reply 240 | August 20, 2018 2:46 AM |
He celebrated his first wedding anniversary a few months ago.
No one was surprised by this. The same goes for Colton Haynes and Garrett Clayton (who hangs out with Thomas and his hubby a lot).
by Anonymous | reply 241 | September 1, 2018 8:51 PM |
I miss Backstrom where he was phenomenal as the hustler with the heart of gold
by Anonymous | reply 242 | September 2, 2018 5:58 PM |
It must be love because his husband is meh.
by Anonymous | reply 243 | September 2, 2018 6:25 PM |
He played a former prostitute in that series with Rainn Wilson, and he looked so...FRUMPY.
by Anonymous | reply 244 | September 2, 2018 6:27 PM |
There wasnāt anything former about the prostitution
by Anonymous | reply 245 | September 2, 2018 6:29 PM |
Oh, OK, R245. I really don't remember much about the show other than Thomas looked and carried himself like a 40 year old frau.
by Anonymous | reply 246 | September 2, 2018 6:34 PM |
R243 He's made it clear it's love. The hubby also might be packing.
by Anonymous | reply 247 | September 2, 2018 6:41 PM |
Are you sure you ate thinking of the right role?
He had more of an emo Twink vibe in backstrom
He mentions being an āex prostitute and junkieā in the clip, so maybe thatās why you thought that. However, it was clear in the episodes that he still dabbled in both as needed.
He also wore a scarf quite a bit due to the rainy PNW setting, so maybe thatās where you got frumpy Frau?
by Anonymous | reply 248 | September 2, 2018 6:44 PM |
[quote]He also wore a scarf quite a bit due to the rainy PNW setting, so maybe thatās where you got frumpy Frau?
I think it's because of the few episodes I've seen his character comes down the stairs walking with a cup in hand like Tyne Daly or Bea Arthur.
by Anonymous | reply 249 | September 2, 2018 6:50 PM |
Ha ha
Very true!
by Anonymous | reply 250 | September 2, 2018 6:53 PM |
I had a feeling that little boy in āthe winkā seinfeld episode I just watched was a faggot and I looked him up and yep.
by Anonymous | reply 252 | February 20, 2020 12:23 AM |
Die in a grease fire, r252!
by Anonymous | reply 253 | February 20, 2020 12:29 AM |
R253 Why? Iām a faggot Also....
by Anonymous | reply 254 | February 21, 2020 5:10 AM |
Little Tommy has been obviously on the team for some time.
by Anonymous | reply 255 | February 21, 2020 5:15 AM |
R255 There was a reason he wanted two homeruns from Paul Oāneill, what gayling bottom wouldnāt?
by Anonymous | reply 256 | February 21, 2020 5:33 AM |
R257 He wears his eyeliner better than you, Screech.
by Anonymous | reply 258 | February 21, 2020 6:39 AM |
Holy shit, R251! That's the dykey-est looking fag I ever saw.
Sing yoo-hoo to the hoo-hoo, march that penguin, ya-ya the sisterhood, find Nemo!
by Anonymous | reply 259 | May 20, 2020 8:14 PM |