[quote]My friend said Joan was cool to hang with, but they had a falling out over Joan's drinking. My friend is a recovering alcoholic, they really couldn't be around heavy drinkers. I have no idea if Joan has stopped drinking, but she was really messed up when they knew each other.
r187 Thank you for sharing that. Much appreciated.
May I ask what year it was that your friend and Joan knew each-other?
It sounds like Joan had a relapse. Because in the early 80s, she had quite her heavy drinking. So, depending on what year this was that your friend knew her, she either relapsed or was not yet sober to begin with. I hate it, but Joan may be one who is in denial of her own problem too. Cause in interviews from as recently as like 4 years ago, she says she stays away from alcohol, except on occasion and that she doesn't drink to excess. But, multiple comments from people seem to contradict that statement. It's sad, cause she can't recover if she isn't willing to admit her own problem to herself.
All this makes me wonder about her drug use too. Drugs are not uncommon to rockers, and Joan was a light user in the 1970s, far as I know. But, she never got as heavy with her substance abuse as say, Debbie Harry. And again, in her later interviews, she says that because of what she saw, she stays away from drugs. But, does she really, or is she in denial about that as-well? Are you aware of her doing any drugs? I know she does pot, but any others? Some people have made snide remarks that her gravely voice suggests she's a coke user- and I really hope that's not true!
Well, if there's one thing to be said about her problems- she handles them pretty well, considering. With the grind of her tour schedule, she doesn't even have time for rehab if she wanted to. And I suppose the fact that she can handle such a schedule is a testament to her competence in some way. Yet, I really want her to get clean. Hey, if her pal, Miley Cyrus, can quit pot at least, so can Joan! And I want her to. I'm not saying it's bad per say, but I get the impression that she's come to rely on it too much, and that's not good. So when I say I want her clean, I don't mean she has to give it up cold turkey, but she needs an intervention of some kind to restore her balance, so that she sets real boundaries for herself and her poisons of choice.
It's funny- when I hear Joan talk, I get a real sense of maturity and wisdom from her. But then, some of her styles and some of her actions send another message. I love to listen to her speak though, like on the radio or even in interviews. She has a very thoughtful, fair, understanding side to her nature that impresses me a lot. It doesn't really come across by just looking at her though- ya have to hear her. Yeah, I'd never thought I'd say this about anyone, but with Joan, her looks aren't the best thing to me. It's something else about her that I like, which I can't quite put my finger on... that, and the fact that she has great taste in music!