Older guys bottoming

So, older 50 are exclusive tops??

Yes there should be an age limit, and I'm prepared to enforce it. "You're under arrest - for being sexy."

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Yes, an age limit on older gays if younger gays can't have sex until they're 25. That work for you, OP?

Does it get harder to bottom when you're old?

Of all the cockamamie....

Ageist bullshit. I'm 53 and do NOT seek fuck buddies under 40. I might power top a 30 something however...

Older guys should be sent to the farm in the country where they can live out their final days in peace and quiet and without assaulting our senses with their decrepit old selves.

Older guys are natural bottoms. What else are they good for?

Mmmm....

Depends.

I'm not saying older guys can't top. I like a hung daddy. But should they still be throwing their legs in the air at 60?

I love how sloppy older bottoms can be

Supposedly penetrative receptive anal sex is wonderful for prostate health - and in men over 50 the prostate is starting to go. So I say bottoms up boys - its good for ya!

If you like tossing a hot dog down the Holland Tunnel....

If there are two consenting adults, OP...

I'm near 50, so not an ageist, but there are pros and cons to this:

Pro: Older guys tend to understand how to keep their mussy clean. They douche, like a good bottom should. Younger guys, not so much. Con: With wisdom and experience comes a looser mussy.

Ageism- just like all prejudices, ugly and unfunny. Of course men have sex, oral, anal etc well into older adulthood and more power to them. No reason not to- and if it freaks out idiots like the OP- then let them hang themselves on their pearls- until they too are over 50 or over 60 or over 70 and someone younger thinks they should stop living too.

Top when you're hard and randy, before 50

Bottom when it's getting more difficult to get hard, after 50

I'm not freaked out by it. I'm just asking if there are physical limitations as we get older.

This is why I hate us.

I continue to be fascinated by average looking guys in their 60's who are looking for hung bottoms in their 20's. I wonder if they actually manage to score every once in a while? Maybe the size of their wallet helps a bit.

*hung tops, not bottoms

R20 -- they do wind up "scoring" often enough and it's not the size of their wallets ... it's the size of the bottom.

Fat boys in their 20s are only too happy to bottom for Olds.

Cover for every pot and all that.

And top them too, R20.

And a lot of these old men get killed by their younger mates

Fucking guy's brains and asses out is something that is not relegated to age, if the guy in question has kept himself well preserved. Good genes and lifestyle choices help.

I know several other still handsome older guys who hook-up as often as they feel inclined, or feel the need to, without money ever changing hands. I was being cruised by a guy born in '97, who just celebrated his 20th birthday last week. People are attracted to a person, not a number. Maintain your looks and keep up your pretty, and you'll still be fucking, like me...Anonymous in Kansas City.

It's a monstrosity.

Despite popular opinion, tops are just as desperate for sex as bottoms

Somehow I think anonymous in KC is quite old looking and gets with ugly guys he calls hot.

I tend to read anything from AIKC as cartoony fiction.

[quote]Maintain your looks and keep up your pretty, and you'll still be fucking, like me...Anonymous in Kansas City.

Reminds me of, "I'm strong to the finish, cause I eats me spinach, I'm Popeye the sailor man!"

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To actually answer your question OP. No there are no physical limitations as long as a man is healthy (same as any age).

It's not like they are capable of much else.

TY R31. I wasn't trying to be offensive.

No Country For Old Bottoms

^LOL! I'll be 40 soon so naturally I'm concerned how middle age will affect my sex life.

[R7} The solace I get from such careless statements is ...we are all soon to bes we just don't know it...until then (and its closer than you think) have fun with your thoughtless, careless self.

Yet, R13, there are threads after threads by DLers wanting the biggest cock they can imagine to plow/pound their asses. Are you one of them?

Do they fall asleep on you, OP? You must be doing something wrong.

After a certain age, like around 50, you no longer have the energy, or desire, to go through all the prep required to bottom.

OP - maybe focus instead of the fact that you're still a snot-nosed, likely morbidly obese virgin and will remain so with your cunty attitude rather than worrying yourself into an early grave about what others are or aren't doing in the privacy of their own bedrooms.

Momma's mussy has no age, no limit, and no death.

Momma's mussy contains all qualities and tempers them, Momma's mussy is in her place and moves with perfect balance, Momma's mussy is all things duly veil’d, she is both passive and active,

Momma's mussy sings the body electric, The armies of those Momma loves engirth me and I engirth them, They will not let me off till I go with them, respond to them, And discorrupt them, and charge them full with the charge of my mussy.

I love it. mix it up

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Is there any way to tighten up your mussy?

"All the prep required for bottoming."

What prep is that?

"To tighten..."

Alum. Apply liberally with a trowel.

Bravo, R41!

I do think it is a bit sad to see older guys still trying to be a total bottom. Those years are over, embrace topping.

As a 63 year old elder gay, I could be an exception. I can still top, in fact I get calls and texts from a nice guy in his 30's who likes to be topped every so often - also someone closer to my age who likes me to top. (No money exchanges hands.) Recently, I employed a driver when outside of the U.S. and we eventually had sex and I bottomed - and he was paid for his time as my driver (no pun) - though he got a good tip. The point being is that some of us older guys are in good shape and are physically able to enjoy sex. I'm writing this to give hope to future elder gays to let them know that not all is lost after you pass some key age milestones. Just take care of yourselves. And know that there are some younger guys who are turned on by an older man. Sure surprised me!

I would think that with Viagra R49, most 63 year-olds can still top.

And can you Olds explain to this Millennial just who you're supposed to fuck if you're all going to be tops?

I mean shouldn't you all be fucking each other?

It's pretty gross. I have this (irrational) fear that if I fuck a guy 48-ish and older, their insides will spill out.

Response from R49: I'd like to think R50 that age is just another factor when two people get together. Yes, Viagra helps, but if I really like the guy I don't need it. Also, to be honest, I find younger guys more attractive sexually - mainly because guys my age are not in good shape and can't finish. And no, R51, when I bottom my insides (or anything else) does not spill out because I know how to make sure I'm clean before sex.

R52 I mean intestines spilling out. Ewwwwwwww

Thanks R49! I hope you have many years of good sex ahead of you.

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[quote] I do think it is a bit sad to see older guys still trying to be a total bottom.

I do think it is a bit sad to see older guys thinking anyone wants to have sex with them.

Fixed it for you.

[quote] I mean intestines spilling out. Ewwwwwwww

That better not be directed at me!

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Illegal

How old are you, OP?

Jokes and wisecracks about older men and their sexuality contribute to depression, alcoholism and sexual addictions in senior gay males. Datalounge, by allowing these jokes to run rampant, is culpable as well.

Stop the ageism and age related bullying on Datalounge.

It's killing us.

#eldergaylivesmatter

I'm an elder gay, age 54. About 99% of the time, I top. I've fucked older male bottoms and I'll continue to do so. It's hot! They are always clean, well groomed, have manners and are so uninhibited. They know how to please a top and I relish fucking them.

25 into 50 goes 2 times

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All men, if healthy, should e required to bottom regularly, regardless of type or predilection.

R65, what else should they be required to do? Do you have a list?

Wouldn't you like to throw this silver daddy's legs over his shoulders?

Over HIS shoulders? Is he double jointed?

You don't want to break his hip, R67.

Looks like Pence.

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Young vs old.

A self-limiting issue, OP.

I bottomed for my 23 year old this morning.

Just masturbate laying next to each other

I'm getting plowed in a couple of hours by a favourite horse hung partner of mine, from Togo. Yes, dear, for FREE. He's 45 and I'm 55. Who cares about OP's stupid stereotypes. Get it as long as you can. When you're 80, you probably won't be getting it, nor interested.

Old people are gassy and fart a lot. Sorry gays, sex in the shitter is gross.

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Uh, there are straight people who have "sex in the shitter" - are they gross, too?

I guess all bottoms over 50 should provide an ID as proof of age?

Im 57 and had a Craislist hook up this weekend, the guy was 51, sexy and nicely hung. I hadn't bottomed in a couple of years but the guy wanted to top me so who I am I to say no to some nice hard cock. He seemed to enjoy because he came like a champ, and it felt great to be riding a nice hard dick again.

Fuck yea, I love older bottoms, they are grateful for the cock and really love taking it.

When life gives you lemons, throw a lemon party!

I'm almost 50, so eldergay myself. Sorry, but whenever I've topped guys my age or older, it's like a hot dog in a hallway. I'm nicely endowed too. Younger bottoms, though less experienced, are tighter and make me cum easier.

Im over 50 and my hole is still tight, perhaps thats because I haven't spent every weekend being pounded out. Still hurts at first to take a big cock but no one ever has any trouble cuming.

People have trouble cumming in banged-out sloppy holes? I think they feel great.

I’m a top with a big cock; I’m 54. I stay within my league. I often fuck older bottoms and it’s still hot. If they’re loose or tight, it’s still enjoyable. The bottoms relish my topping skills and I’m very flattered. Older bottoms are very clean, too.

If Eldergays would just be content to fuck each other, 80% of the anti-Millennial posts on Datalounge would disappear.

Do their ancient holes whistle or does it sound like someone is punching a bowl filled with jello?

R87 - pick me!

I’m an eldergay, a top and I have a big cock. I stay within my league. I’m happy to fuck bottoms within my age range. I don’t approach much younger men, or even the so called gorgeous ones with great bodies. On occasion, they approach me and I was lucky enough to pound their asses. I’m grateful!

R88 is correct

Gross, the age limit for bottoming should be 40. Who wants to fuck rusty pipes?

How do you get it up for an old guy? I would be so turned off.

55 going to be bottoming in about an hour.

I've had an occasional fuckbbuddy for 15 years. I was 27 when I met him. He was 44.

I'm now 42, and he's 59.

Sex with him is great. His hole has gotten a bit sloppy over the years, but he has a velvety backcunt that I like to fuck bare (we're both negative 15 years later). Older bottoms can be utter whores in bed.

I'll fuck him raw in his sloppy hole. Then he'll suck me. I can shoot in his mouth or ass - he's willing either way.

Yay for older bottoms.

(My one has stayed in shape - that probably helps.)

Older bottoms tend to have stretched out buttholes from many years of use. They end up in diapers early because they can no longer control their sphincter muscle. It's a tragedy all the way around. There is an expiration date for bottoms.

R50 you're lol funny - even if you meant to be serious.

Can someone please confirm, I've heard that ElderBottoms don't even know when they fart. The air just slips out unbeknownst to them. I was actually told this by an ElderBottom.

Why are people being so nasty to OP? He just asked a question. Then, later on said he's concerned because he is reaching middle age. Is it really necessary to call him names?

r94, your younger friends who enjoy sex with with older guys will never tell you so -- as long as you keep on judging. I'm a vers 57 yo ghey who has sex with guys as young as 30s and old as 60s.

I can't think of anything more disgusting than a sloppy old manhole.

R75 a solution for that would be not to read threads that have the words "eldergay" or "older guys" in the title. Everyone gets old, gay, straight, men, women. You can choose to be sad about it or live a life of happiness.

CORRECTION: The above post was meant for R61 !

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Never bottomed

I'm 55 and I don't know what I would do if I couldn't bottom. That's my "me" time while I lie on my stomach and catch up on my messages and twitter while I'm being plowed.

I think R61 makes a fair point about the destructive nature of ageism in our gay community. I often hear the statement 'there's nothing sadder than an old queen', and I reject this completely. I know some fellow gays in the 80s and they are wonderful examples of gay lives well lived. Respect those of us worthy of respect regardless of age. x

If they are in shape, clean and not too lose I will happily fuck them.

Just suck dick. It's just easier.

I'm 22 and regular top a daddy I see who is 63.... He's a great bottom. Amazing huge cock, but he has no interest to top

Huge cocks always seem so wasted on guys who won't top.

Who would put their penis into an old fool's shitter? -Only fools do!

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Hey, the poonanny wants what it wants, no matter how old it is.

[quote] I would think that with Viagra most 63 year-olds can still top.

Viagra turns them into insensate ramming rods who can’t cum.

You sound like a CUNT OP!

[quote] Viagra turns them into insensate ramming rods who can’t cum.

You know absolutely nothing. I'm 67 years old. I have never once needed any artificial help in getting and maintaining an erection or ejaculating. I may not want to do it as much as I did when I was young, but when I do I'm quite capable of getting the job done quite nicely.

Average looking mega hung fit fat black bottoms. How do you feel about this?

Providing they undergo anal rejuvenation, ok for me.

More ignorance. The anal sphincter is one of the strongest muscles in the body. Unless it has been severely damaged in some way it does not loosen with age.

r124 Oh hunny. You're so cute. But you haven't met my anal sphincter. I used to be able to uncork a champagne bottle in my youth! Sadly, now my ass is only good for holding my spare golf balls when on the course.

I am 55 and get fucked by a very sexy 24 year old. I met him when he was 22. I see him whenever he is in town and staying with his grandmother who lives in the same building. He visits her a couple of times a year and usually stays for a week or 10 days. I am lucky that he is a horny dude and fucks the hell out of me like a true stud. He is amazing.

50? I was only starting to get into bottoming at 50. I didn't take my first fist until I was 60.

OP is ridiculous.

There's tons of 'daddy bottom' vids on the free sex sites. I think as they experience erection dysfunction, it's an alternative way to have fun in bed.

Are there proctologists that have predominately gay practices? Or does a typical bottom have one on call? Are there issues that develop over the years? I am a straight woman who has internal hemorrhoids and was wondering if a man had this condition would it prevent being a bottom? I have received such an education and in addition had so much good reading with a group of erudite guys on this site. Thanks.

Of or chrissakes honey. Don't get your info about bottoms and tops on the DL. They are all convinced men who take dick end up in diapers and riddled with diseases.