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Do You Personally Know A Porn Performer?

Does anyone here know someone who does porn and knows them well?

by Anonymousreply 161March 11, 2021 5:31 PM

Not real well. Dated him a few times. Great lay and sorta sweet but dumb as a dairy cow

by Anonymousreply 1April 21, 2017 9:00 PM

I've known two of them. . . . Haven't spoken to either in years.

by Anonymousreply 2April 21, 2017 10:51 PM

I've slept with a few.

I didn't end up being hot or crystal-compatible enough for the two I knew the best.

90s porn star Jordan West needed a more powerful bottom, I think. I wish I could power bottom his lengthy cock, but I just wasn't flexible enough. He gossiped a lot and love to tell stories about other porn stars, but when I would gossip about people in our city, he would get all offended and preach against gossiping.

So I stopped seeing him/chatting with him online.

by Anonymousreply 3April 22, 2017 12:07 AM

I know four of them; two of them are former boyfriends (one before he started doing porn and the other after he gave it up). Two of them were in bear porn, one a Titan porn actor, and one was in black and interracial porn. None of them are still in the business, although I believe one of them still does an occasional escorting gig on the side.

by Anonymousreply 4April 22, 2017 12:14 AM

I'm a good friend of a former porn actor - straight porn - from the 70s and 80s. He was one of the most well-known male stars of the "golden age" of porn.

by Anonymousreply 5April 22, 2017 1:44 AM

Most of you probably don't know of Annette Haven, but she was one of the most beautiful and popular female porn stars in the late 70's/early 80's. We got to know each other VERY well when we were neighbors in the same apt bldg. in SF around '81-'83. We still communicate and had lunch together when I was in LA last year. I love her, very funny and earthy.

by Anonymousreply 6April 22, 2017 1:59 AM

R6 I know who she is, and so does my good friend that I mentioned in my R5 post. Annette lives up in Marin County now. She has an active Facebook page. She still looks good, but is a little whacky.

by Anonymousreply 7April 22, 2017 2:00 AM

I know Matt Rush - know him for years. Super nice guy, great friend, shitty bf.

by Anonymousreply 8April 22, 2017 2:20 AM

R8 Wasn't Matt Rush recently arrested for beating up his boyfriend?

by Anonymousreply 9April 22, 2017 2:21 AM

Yes but charges were dropped. LIke I said Shitty BF.

by Anonymousreply 10April 22, 2017 2:23 AM

Johnny Hazzard. Old friend/fuck buddy from Boston.

Had no idea he would become what he has become.

by Anonymousreply 11April 22, 2017 2:23 AM

a cum dumpster?

by Anonymousreply 12April 22, 2017 2:29 AM

sex workers are sociopaths

by Anonymousreply 13April 22, 2017 2:31 AM

I knew Kevin Williams briefly.

by Anonymousreply 14April 22, 2017 2:32 AM

I knew Kristian Brooks (his porn name). Sweetest guy in the world. So kind, good-hearted and good-looking. But he fell deep into porn, contracted AIDS and declined. He eventually rallied and just wanted to live a quiet life away from porn and be healthy. When he finally wanted to live a normal life, he couldn't believe how the world had changed, skyrocketing rents, the cost of living. He was shocked and didn't se all this coming through his porn gaze. He lasted a while, but his body couldn't hold up. I still think about this sad situation. He was also living doll, a kind, gentle soul. But the end of his life several years ago was heartbreaking. He spiraled to a dark place during his porn days.

by Anonymousreply 15April 22, 2017 2:37 AM

I knew JT Denver briefly before he got into porn. We used to talk quite a bit at 3.2 bar in Denver The Grove in the early 80's. He was more stunning in person (and very friendly) than on film. I ran into him in the mid 90's at The Foxhole and he looked roided out.

by Anonymousreply 16April 22, 2017 2:45 AM

R16 OMG, The Grove and the Foxhole! The Grove was the first gay bar I ever went to - the ONLY one I could go to when I was 19. I got to graduate to the Foxhole - and Tracks across the parking lot - when I hit 21!

by Anonymousreply 17April 22, 2017 2:47 AM

r16 we probably ran into each other. LOL

by Anonymousreply 18April 22, 2017 2:49 AM

R18 We might have!

by Anonymousreply 19April 22, 2017 2:51 AM

I know Dirk Caber from college

by Anonymousreply 20April 22, 2017 2:51 AM

I saw Rod Garetto with his shirt off on the street in Greenwich Village once. Does that count?

by Anonymousreply 21April 22, 2017 2:54 AM

I knew a porn actor (not a star by any means). Despite being in porn, escorting, and fucking guys on Grindr, he'd be at sex clubs and orgy parties.

Obviously he was a sex addict. Are they all?

by Anonymousreply 22April 22, 2017 3:03 AM

You might say I knew one... but not that well. I was pretty much a stranger to myself, back when I was doing porn.

by Anonymousreply 23April 22, 2017 3:05 AM

Aren't all porn performers at least a little messed up.

by Anonymousreply 24April 22, 2017 3:08 AM

I know Ethan from Sean Cody--very nice guy, works as a stripper in Portland, very into smoking pot. Pretty bright, and likes to read. Extremely heterosexual in behavior. Much better looking in person than in his videos. Doesn't seem psychologically damaged, but doesn't seem to have much of a future.

I also used to know Chris Steele--an incredibly sweet guy, but damaged the way most guys in porn are. Used to take a lot of shit from the Prada and lip gloss set in Dallas, whose opinion he bizarrely cared about. I think once he gave up porn performing and escorting and gained weight he actually became much happier.

by Anonymousreply 25April 22, 2017 3:13 AM

Almost all, R24... some (admittedly, a small number) are just saddled with a high libido, but not particularly bright.

by Anonymousreply 26April 22, 2017 3:16 AM

I also know Gus Mattox (Tom Judson). Very cool guy--one of the brightest and most capable guys I know, with an encyclopedic knowledge of films and musicals and the ability to sing, dance, compose, play the piano, make art, and build things. Very friendly and kind, though a bit sexually aloof (of course he's out of my league, even though he's ten years older). Has an interesting job now that he's retired from porn as Charles Busch's accompanist and sometimes duet-partner (which means he has to carry Charles since Charles has no voice to speak of, although Charles is hilarious and provides a wonderful show).

by Anonymousreply 27April 22, 2017 3:17 AM

R5 Ron Jeremy?

by Anonymousreply 28April 22, 2017 3:20 AM

R28 Not Ron Jeremy, no. But he's co-starred with Ron.

by Anonymousreply 29April 22, 2017 3:31 AM

Was good friends​ for years with someone who has since gone on to a career of porn and escorting. His life has been spiraling downward ever since he made the choice to go this route. My contact with him is very limited, now. I MAY hear from him when he's back home. I try to keep up with his life by checking in on his Twitter. I tend to find what he posts disturbing so I don't do it very often. He's been taking steroids for years and now he's gotten into drugs, too. He claims to me that he hasn't, but he's never been all that close with the truth and I have it on good authority from mutual acquaintances that he does have a problem.

I know it's only a matter of time before I read somewhere that he's been jailed - or died.

I find the whole situation immensely sad. He had so much potential. Unfortunately, he could never overcome his insecurities. His whole self worth is predicated on others validating his attractiveness and desirability.

It will not end well for him.

by Anonymousreply 30April 22, 2017 4:10 AM

Derek Cameron - He was a great friend but is mentally ill. Huge family issues and honestly, he has not aged well. Very bitter and has numerous arrests for battery, drugs - He's a fucked up mess and we do not speak any longer

by Anonymousreply 31April 22, 2017 4:43 AM

I was good friends with Chris Duffy in Tampa FL , crazy guy , kinky as hell. Nice guy but smoked way too much weed , he is Ft Lauderdale now, retired, he was on Facebook briefly and he was toying with becoming a woman. I hope he gave that idea up.

by Anonymousreply 32April 22, 2017 4:44 AM

Tom Judson's a great guy! I've seen him perform with Lypsynka many times. I don't like to watch his porn, however. I keep waiting for him to break into a show tune.

by Anonymousreply 33April 22, 2017 4:47 AM

I've known quite a few in Chicago. All of them except one were major druggies. All are show offs, which is no surprise.

by Anonymousreply 34April 22, 2017 7:01 AM

He sounds like great boyfriend material R27. What's his mate like? I always did appreciate his "handsome salesman" looks.

by Anonymousreply 35April 22, 2017 7:34 AM

R14, was he also a Republican back then?

by Anonymousreply 36April 22, 2017 6:14 PM

R29, I think you mean that very hairy guy from Deep Throat. Isn't he a reborn Christian, or something ?

by Anonymousreply 37April 22, 2017 6:59 PM

Gus Mattox's dick size was average at best - I never understood how he got away with being an exclusive top.

by Anonymousreply 38April 22, 2017 7:00 PM

What's the point in commenting about knowing a 'guy' in porn without mentioning the porn name?

by Anonymousreply 39April 22, 2017 7:27 PM

R30 please share this disturbing Twitter account. And pics before and after steroids. TIA.

by Anonymousreply 40April 22, 2017 7:44 PM

I knew Brock Masters when he lived in New Orleans. He was fun to hang out with (charming, intelligent, that magnificent dick), but he was also a big-time player and bullshit artist. I remember he always made a big deal about how he was working on a DOUBLE major at Tulane, but oddly enough, he never had a single textbook at his apartment!

A few years ago, I read on here that he was in Florida and his life was a complete disaster (domestic violence charge, hit and run, probation violations).

by Anonymousreply 41April 22, 2017 7:54 PM

Ted Matthews was a neighbor back in the day , and Ray Harley a friend when I lived in Toronto.

by Anonymousreply 42April 22, 2017 8:03 PM

I knew many in my younger days through work and nightlife connections, mostly in the '90s; had sex and friendships with about a dozen, but I won't name names, because I have no interest in anonymous bitchy DLers' opinions of them, and prudish presumptions about STDs, none of which I contracted from sex with any of them.

by Anonymousreply 43April 22, 2017 8:04 PM

Didn't Gus Maddox leave porn once it became widely known he was HIV positive?

by Anonymousreply 44April 22, 2017 8:11 PM

Does Colt model Mike Betts count? He was big way back in the 70s.

by Anonymousreply 45April 22, 2017 8:40 PM

I've fucked several, but I wouldn't say I "know" them.

by Anonymousreply 46April 22, 2017 8:42 PM

Mike Betts counts EXTRA!

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by Anonymousreply 47April 22, 2017 8:43 PM

know, as in the biblical sense?

by Anonymousreply 48April 22, 2017 8:49 PM

I knew Mike Betts in the 90s. He lived in Venice, CA. He was really crazy, certifiably nuts. But in a good way. One of the most brilliant people I'd ever met, exceptionally high IQ. Also a major meth problem. We met on a phone line. He was late 40s, I was 26. He had a very sexy voice so I didn't mind making the trek to Venice. When I got there, I was met by this disheveled long-haired guy who obviously hadn't slept in days. He had all this pics out from his Colt days claiming he was Mike Betts. He looked nothing like him and I assumed he was full of shit. But he was so fucking funny and charming. He insisted I come back the next day.

When I returned, he had made the effort to clean himself up and cut his hair. It was then I noticed how handsome he really was, and yes, he WAS Colt's Mike Betts. (His real name was Bob). We stayed good friends for many years until he moved back to Chicago. He died a few years later.

by Anonymousreply 49April 22, 2017 8:51 PM

How sad. Here's a link to pics of him older, but not awful-looking.

That famous Colt duo with Rick Wolfmeier was one of my first porn viewings. An older guy had the Super8 films!

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by Anonymousreply 50April 22, 2017 8:58 PM

Last I heard, Kenny aka Rick Wolfmeier, is working as a nurse and living in Kansas. I suspect he'd be retired now.

by Anonymousreply 51April 22, 2017 9:03 PM

R37 If you're referring to Harry Reems, he died a few years ago.

by Anonymousreply 52April 22, 2017 9:14 PM

Most straights don't know any pornstars. How is that but most of you gays commenting have had sex with some pornstars.

by Anonymousreply 53April 22, 2017 10:10 PM

People lie. I'm not saying everyone here does, but people do.

For instance, Sebastian Kross is eating me out right now. He's one of the brightest guys I know. Exceptionally high IQ, and best of all we are [italic]very[/italic] crystal compatible.

by Anonymousreply 54April 22, 2017 10:12 PM

I've often wondered about the Sean Cody/Corbin Fisher guys, how many of them go back to their "normal lives", how many of them get outed, if they wind up living in fear of getting outed or if they just accept that it's inevitable and a part of their past, like being a drug addcit, that they figure most people will forgive.

by Anonymousreply 55April 22, 2017 10:18 PM

Chandler, who used to bust fat loads for Corbin Fisher, actually went back to a relatively normal life. He's working some ordinary job and dating a girl.

by Anonymousreply 56April 22, 2017 10:43 PM

R37 You're thinking of Harry Reems, and no, not him. Harry passed away four years ago, too.

by Anonymousreply 57April 22, 2017 10:57 PM

I knew Annie sprinkle. She pissed on me.

by Anonymousreply 58April 22, 2017 11:14 PM

Actually I hear Chandler is in law school.

by Anonymousreply 59April 22, 2017 11:58 PM

[quote]Most straights don't know any pornstars. How is that but most of you gays commenting have had sex with some pornstars.

Cities have gay communities where people meet through friends or at bars/clubs or online. Seeing a guy who did porn isn't exactly like spotting a rare great gray owl.

by Anonymousreply 60April 23, 2017 12:20 AM

[quote]But he fell deep into porn...

That's an odd way of describing someone doing their job. If someone fell deep into accounting, retailing, or porn, does that mean that they took their work seriously, or does it mean something else?

by Anonymousreply 61April 23, 2017 12:31 AM

I was good friends for a few years with Richard Locke in California. Nice guy, a little "out there" with some new age-y sort of stuff. But a nice guy.

by Anonymousreply 62April 23, 2017 12:36 AM

R57, see R52

by Anonymousreply 63April 23, 2017 1:06 AM

[quote] Gus Mattox's dick size was average at best - I never understood how he got away with being an exclusive top.

He had a great body, a handsome face, and he was excellent at sex--very dominating and aggressive.

by Anonymousreply 64April 23, 2017 1:12 AM

I worked with Jeff Stryker for a few months in the late 90s in a show. I swear to God, why would I make that up. Zero ego that I saw, possibly functional drunk at the time? Could be those are related. I wish I could tell you any stories but I don't have any!

by Anonymousreply 65April 23, 2017 1:14 AM

I wouldn't say personally know, but . . . I had a fully clothed role in a Ryan Idol solo scene back in 1990. After it wrapped I gave him a late-night ride from Santa Monica to West Hollywood. He was nice; I was really hungry and he fed me part of his chicken dinner using his fingers while I was driving on the Santa Monica freeway.

Shortly after that, I worked designing the box covers for a string of cut-rate gay porn production companies that cranked out something like three or four new movies a week. I met numerous b-level porn stars from back then, none of the names come to mind, partly because porn names are so generic and fake. I designed something like 150 boxes before I moved on to more legit design work. I did know one of the directors, the Asian guy who was murdered in West Hollywood whose killer was never caught. Also my boss was into Aiden Shaw, the handsome/popular 90s era British porn actor who wrote books about his hustling past and acted here and there, so he was around a lot when he was in LA. Not a bad guy, just sort of dark and brooding. Also paid a visit to Jeff Stryker's house back then for work reasons.

Marco Rossi, I got to know him a little when I moved to NYC, after he'd lost his looks and was still using an old pic of his former body to attract business via escort ads.

by Anonymousreply 66April 23, 2017 2:03 AM

"Marco Rossi, I got to know him a little when I moved to NYC, after he'd lost his looks and was still using an old pic of his former body to attract business via escort ads."

How bad did he look?

by Anonymousreply 67April 23, 2017 4:08 AM

Thanks R56

I was thinking of Gabe, the guy from CF who wouldn't kiss but wound up fucking a bunch of guys

Someone here found photos a while back, he's married and an architect and has two kids.

He posed for Playgirl under his real name and Google leads an easy trail from there to CorbinFisher.

I guess he just deals with it and wife must know.

by Anonymousreply 68April 23, 2017 4:14 AM

I was friends with one in the '90s while we were attending ASU. He was a stunning muscle twink. He performed in sexually oriented situational video features on behalf of Chi Chi Larue. I went with him to a taping. I was offered work but declined. He was intelligent, charismatic, and very horny. He had time for studies, sex with his frat mates, sex with his escorting clients, and time for a boyfriend and the occasional random fuck (he also did parties for hire). And we'd go out. He was slightly more sexual than I was.

He used anabolic steroids to prevent the wasting concomitant to AIDS. This was about 2 years before the rollout of antiretrovirals. We made trips to Tijuana to stay supplied, smuggling or brazenly carrying huge amounts of drugs across the border each couple months. As a shameless total bottom and with the widespread use of condoms - even in porn then - he was no risk to anybody. His beauty and boundless energy were nourished on a steady diet of steroids, muscle builders, herbal and vitamin supplements, prophylactic antibiotics, cocaine, pot, speed, and alcohol. Benzos were for sleep.

Then one day he suddenly died. He was fine on Wednesday. Thursday he was in the hospital with a fever. Friday they diagnosed him with pneumonia. He died early Sunday morning.

LOL I remember when he died people who knew about the breadth of his interests started talking more openly about him. Many of his classmates and even classmates and study partners were not aware that he was a rising gay porn star.

Many of them refused to believe it and claimed anybody who suggested it was maligning the reputation of a dead man. His fraternity brothers, most of whom had had a piece of that, had to feign shock, horror and disbelief. In my bookbag, I kept a copy of a glossy porn video outtakes magazine, covered in a manila envelope. In these moments of his acquaintances' shocked bereavement, I attempted to lighten things up by showing them pages 2, & 26-28, where there were several large, high-res stills of Tyler bending over for cock, sucking cock, doing etc. for cock. This usually cleared the student union table pretty quickly.

Had he survived HIV I think he would have been pretty successful in life. He was good at many things other than porn. And his long list of professional contacts and clients would have provided him with many nonporn opportunities after college.

by Anonymousreply 69April 23, 2017 4:27 AM

r69, given that he's actually dead, why would you not post his name? You're not going to get sued for libel--you cannot libel the dead.

If you're not going to bother to post their names, what's the point?

by Anonymousreply 70April 23, 2017 5:29 AM

You're no fun, R70. I gave you lots of clues. Some of you enjoy figuring this stuff out. I provided the time period, the producer, the location, and even his first name.

by Anonymousreply 71April 23, 2017 7:10 AM

They rarely come to a good end, even the smart and educated ones seem to end up losing to their base appetites.

by Anonymousreply 72April 23, 2017 7:33 AM

gay porn is my life.

by Anonymousreply 73April 23, 2017 7:36 AM

It's hard to manage my gay porn addiction, man...I need help!!!!

by Anonymousreply 74April 23, 2017 7:56 AM

My first cousin, who is an intelligent and gorgeous woman. Making straight and lesbian porn paid for her college degree, masters and Phd. She has no student loan debt!

by Anonymousreply 75April 23, 2017 7:59 AM

And, apparently, no morals, either . . .

by Anonymousreply 76April 23, 2017 8:08 AM

R76-so what about morals! She thinks it's immoral to be in debt above and beyond the stratosphere and she doesn't give a flying fuck about what you and others think, and neither do I. She is an electrical engineer.

by Anonymousreply 77April 23, 2017 8:14 AM

Blue Blake. Always a laugh, always very generous and spirited.

by Anonymousreply 78April 23, 2017 8:18 AM

If you're an out gay man in a major US city with any kind of active social life and/or media connections, it's not that weird to know a porn star or two. Gay people are a rather small minority...we're all not that many degrees of separation from each other.

by Anonymousreply 79April 23, 2017 8:20 AM

I have a question for all of you ANONYMOUS people on an ANONYMOUS message board....why even bother claiming that you know a porn performer if you don't mention his/her name? Did I mention ANONYMOUS? Do you actually think that you're sooo unforgettable that they'll recognize your ANONYMOUS post?

by Anonymousreply 80April 23, 2017 11:35 AM

This guy.

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by Anonymousreply 81April 23, 2017 11:47 AM

I once hooked up with a guy I later saw in a porn film. Oddly he was a really boring lay--almost prudish

by Anonymousreply 82April 23, 2017 11:54 AM

R70: Maybe Tyler Regan?

by Anonymousreply 83April 23, 2017 12:08 PM

Michael McQuaig. He's out of porn now because it's become so dangerous with barebacking. He's an asshole and thinks his ideas are fact and will argue with a brick wall.

by Anonymousreply 84April 23, 2017 12:17 PM

I knew a straight porn performer in the 90s. For a while I saw him a lot socially because he was the cousin of a good friend although I didn't really like him. I'd name names but I can't remember what it was. Anyway he did porn for free. He claimed it was because there were so many straight guys offering to do it, they didn't have to pay the guys but did have to pay women. I have my doubts, I think they didn't pay him because he was ugly as sin and he was lucky women were letting him be anywhere near them. His girlfriend, who was far better looking than he was, was lovely but miserable. He would openly brag about doing porn and she'd want to die of shame. Her friends thought he was repulsive and made it clear that having sex with him would be worse than death, so I have no idea how the porn actresses who actually had to have sex with him must have felt.

by Anonymousreply 85April 23, 2017 12:24 PM

Hadrian, r84? Yeah, he thinks his shit don't stink.

by Anonymousreply 86April 23, 2017 1:26 PM

I have a friend who was a cam boy and occasional escort while he was in college in Tennessee. He made enough money to pay for school, get a computer degree, and lives in a nice loft downtown with his husband. Sometimes over brunch he tells us all the weird things repressed married gay men in Tennessee would pay him to do on camera or to them in person.

by Anonymousreply 87April 23, 2017 1:44 PM

R67, to the point that he looked like another person. His muscles had gone soft, his wavy hair was shorter and it no longer waved, and his face looked pinched and a bit weasal-ish.

But he was a nice guy and he just wanted to connect with people.

by Anonymousreply 88April 23, 2017 1:49 PM

[quote] Sometimes over brunch he tells us all the weird things repressed married gay men in Tennessee would pay him to do on camera or to them in person.

God, I miss brunch.

by Anonymousreply 89April 23, 2017 3:24 PM

[quote] You're no fun, [R70]. I gave you lots of clues. Some of you enjoy figuring this stuff out. I provided the time period, the producer, the location, and even his first name.

Oh for fuck's sake, Cindy Brady: we're not here to play cheap guessing games with you.

by Anonymousreply 90April 23, 2017 3:27 PM

R86 yeah Hadrian though that's just a made up name. How do you know him? Ever listened to his rants about how Apple is the savior company?

by Anonymousreply 91April 23, 2017 4:50 PM

As a straight female I don't watch porn so I have no interest in knowing any porn actors. Now french erotic movies are interesting, nc 17 movies are much more complex that require acting talent and dialogue.

by Anonymousreply 92April 23, 2017 5:06 PM

r92 = Jennifer from "Valley of the Dolls"

by Anonymousreply 93April 23, 2017 6:06 PM

NUDIES R92!

by Anonymousreply 94April 23, 2017 8:32 PM

Humble-bragging....

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by Anonymousreply 95April 23, 2017 8:36 PM

*ding ding ding ding ding* R83

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by Anonymousreply 96April 23, 2017 9:23 PM

Ron Jeremy? I just threw up in my mouth. I just saw him on the street in Hollywood posing for some impromptu pics. I guess he needed the attention. He is shorter, fatter and older in real life. Woman were all over it posing with him. Which just goes to prove how breeders are worse than gays when it comes to dick.

by Anonymousreply 97April 23, 2017 9:32 PM

I always thought Brock Masters was G4P, r41?

by Anonymousreply 98April 23, 2017 9:47 PM

I know a guy who did amateur porn in the bear genre. He's a fat little man who is kind of a loser professionally. Yet in the bear scene he's treated like a minor celebrity. I've known people who have never met the man to swoon over the mere mention of his name. I hate to break it to them that he's a wee little man and he's gained a significant amount of weight in the last few years. He's really not all that at all. And he's a crashing bore on top of that.

by Anonymousreply 99April 23, 2017 9:49 PM

r86.

Because there's only ONE barebacking asshole in the world. And his name is Hadrian.

by Anonymousreply 100April 23, 2017 10:01 PM

I know a guy who will never let you forget he is the ultimate porn bear. I've known him for a while, since before he became an icon. He was a nice enough guy then, a co-worker in a more conventional workplace. We fooled around and he was always a big hairy fat bottom. I liked the fur.

His stardom was brief, mostly because he was expected to be a top.

His real first name is Frank.

by Anonymousreply 101April 23, 2017 10:46 PM

The only transgender female delegate of color to the Democratic National Convention was a porn actress and escort who used the names Mistress Soleli and Mistress Soleil.

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by Anonymousreply 102April 23, 2017 10:57 PM

Bear porn actors Jeff Wells and Steve Ellis. Partnered with the former for five years before he got into porn and knew the latter after he was no longer doing porn.

by Anonymousreply 103April 23, 2017 10:59 PM

R101: I'm thinking it's either Blake Nolan or Jack Radcliffe.

by Anonymousreply 104April 23, 2017 11:02 PM

Yes r104

by Anonymousreply 105April 23, 2017 11:18 PM

Most bear porn stars are into nasty unsafe stuff.

by Anonymousreply 106April 23, 2017 11:19 PM

He and I are no longer friends. He's an alcoholic, butwe used to have a martini together

by Anonymousreply 107April 23, 2017 11:20 PM

You could say that about most porn stars, R106, not just the bear porn.

by Anonymousreply 108April 23, 2017 11:22 PM

I knew a couple of bear porn stars and they were both heavy into group and anonymous activities, they're both PrEP whores now so no condoms of course...like they were using them before PrEP came along.lol

by Anonymousreply 109April 23, 2017 11:22 PM

Which one, r107? Nolan, or Radcliffe?

by Anonymousreply 110April 23, 2017 11:30 PM

[quote]I always thought Brock Masters was G4P, R41?

Noooope!

by Anonymousreply 111April 24, 2017 12:00 AM

The one without the chest implants r110.

by Anonymousreply 112April 24, 2017 1:23 AM

Bear porn star?!

by Anonymousreply 113April 24, 2017 5:58 AM

BEAR porn star?

BLECH!

by Anonymousreply 114April 24, 2017 6:17 AM

I had an acquaintance who did a few porn scenes a couple of years ago. It was interesting to see that he wasn't lying/exaggerating about his dick. He seems kind of a floater so doing porn wasn't really surprising. I don't think he's a parTy boy, though he does like sex clubs and piss play. He tweets a lot about tea.

by Anonymousreply 115April 24, 2017 5:01 PM

You gotta see Hadrian McQuaig ranting and raving about the Coachella set. How dare they not be up to his standards!!

by Anonymousreply 116April 26, 2017 9:41 PM

[quote]He performed in sexually oriented situational video features

That's the best kind of porn.

by Anonymousreply 117April 26, 2017 9:49 PM

I really CANNOT believe you all watch porn. What is wrong with you????????? Golly Gee Willikers.

by Anonymousreply 118April 26, 2017 10:01 PM

Obviously, R101 is referring to Jack Radcliffe, the alias of Frank Martini. The clues aren't even slightly subtle.

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by Anonymousreply 119April 26, 2017 10:31 PM

Yeah, that guy is a douche bag R119. I was leaving Steamworks in Berkeley one day (circa 2007) when he was coming in. I was dressing in the locker area and he and one of his sister bears were undressing. I guess I lingered on a glance of him too long (trying to figure out where I knew him from) and he gave me the nastiest hiss and then started guffawing with his friend as if I were cruising him. Whatever. And what if I WAS cruising him? It's a fucking bathhouse... Typical San Francisco psycho-fag mean girl behavior.

by Anonymousreply 120April 26, 2017 10:57 PM

To [R62]: I always liked Richard Locke. Hot man who seemed very down-to-earth. When he got AIDS, he became a public educator, speaking to groups.

I'm sorry he's gone.

by Anonymousreply 121April 26, 2017 11:21 PM

Mischa Brooks?

Chloe Amour?

Dava Foxx?

by Anonymousreply 122April 26, 2017 11:22 PM

I did a few porn films back when. It was fun and I still enjoy the occasional recognition. But most, if not all of the men I filmed with were positive, and I'm still negative. So I let myself get interested in other things. I realized that if I continued, I'd probably end up positive as well.

A year or so ago, I was approached by a gay porn producer from Ft. Lauderdale who wanted me to make some kind of comeback. However, he insisted that I go on PreP, and do bareback. I declined.

PreP may hold HIV at bay, but it has no help for any other disease or infection. It is by no means the Great Shield people seem to bray about.

And I can live without doing porn.

by Anonymousreply 123April 26, 2017 11:35 PM

Thanks, R123. Good decision. We'd love a hint about your nudies! A title at least?

by Anonymousreply 124April 26, 2017 11:51 PM

[quote]I knew Kevin Williams briefly.

Can you please tell us about him? I'm beyond obsessed with Kevin Williams. God has never made a more beautiful bottom, IMO.

by Anonymousreply 125April 30, 2017 11:41 PM

I knew Nathan Sommers back in the mid 2000s. He was cute, friendly, and slightly awkward. We hooked up once. For someone who gave great head, he was not a good kisser.

He told most people at the time that he worked in the business office of a porn studio but never did films. After a brief stay in LA, he moved back to Florida to be closer to family. A few months after he left, I found some of his videos online.

by Anonymousreply 126May 1, 2017 1:55 AM

I did a play with both Ryan Idol and Blue Blake. Ryan was a trip and thought very highly of himself as an actor. Sadly, he was the only one. Blue was a pig. Period.

by Anonymousreply 127May 1, 2017 2:28 AM

Bump.

by Anonymousreply 128May 14, 2017 3:16 PM

Isn't Ryan Idol in prison? I mean a real prison, not a prison movie or someone's basement.

by Anonymousreply 129May 15, 2017 1:44 AM

my cousin-making porn paid for her college degree, masters and Phd in electrical engineering. She had some plastic surgery done on her face, colored her hair and no one would recognize her. Smart woman-does not owe a penny on student loans

by Anonymousreply 130May 15, 2017 1:55 AM

R129, Yes

[quote]A Sacramento Superior Court jury convicted Idol on September 20, 2011 of attempted murder for smashing his girlfriend over the head with a toilet tank lid. He was also convicted of battery, assault with a deadly weapon and "corporal injury on a spouse or cohabitant".[10] Sentencing was scheduled for December 9, 2011;[11] however when he appeared, his attorney requested to withdraw from the case. The request was granted. Idol then appeared in court on January 13, 2012 requesting a retrial "citing ineffective assistance of counsel". He was sentenced to 12 years in state prison September 27, 2012.[12] He is housed at the Valley State Prison in Chowchilla, California, sensitive needs yard (protective custody).[13]

by Anonymousreply 131May 15, 2017 1:56 AM

I knew the now notorious Blu Kennedy.

by Anonymousreply 132May 15, 2017 2:02 AM

I know a few of the guys associated with the Don Burns matter. One is very well connected, albeit not respected.

by Anonymousreply 133May 15, 2017 2:27 AM

Are you surprised abou Blu Kennedy's... collection?

by Anonymousreply 134May 15, 2017 3:07 AM

I met Tayte Hanson from CockyBoys at a party in NYC about a year or two ago.

There was something off about him, like "pay attention to me" off, though he was friendly enough. Was sort of odd to talk to him (albeit briefly) knowing that I'd seen him get fucked on camera.

by Anonymousreply 135May 15, 2017 3:15 AM

[quote]Are you surprised abou Blu Kennedy's... collection?

very

by Anonymousreply 136May 15, 2017 3:16 AM

[quote]I knew the now notorious Blu Kennedy.

Did you know him in the Biblical sense? What did you think of him?

by Anonymousreply 137May 15, 2017 3:40 AM

R125, I saw him occasionally after his first retirement from porn. Nice guy. We did jerk each other off in the men's room at a bar.

by Anonymousreply 138May 15, 2017 5:29 AM

I feel like sex with porn performers must be great, because they want to prove to others how sexy they are. I imagine that the performers that have lost popular have sex out of a sense of desperation.

by Anonymousreply 139May 15, 2017 5:40 AM

More...

by Anonymousreply 140December 21, 2017 4:22 PM

[quote]What's the point in commenting about knowing a 'guy' in porn without mentioning the porn name?

Especially on an anonymous board.

Seriously, this drives me crazy here on the Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 141December 21, 2017 4:33 PM

This doesn't qualify as 'know' - but my bf and I were eating latenight at a Norm's in the valley - and our waiter was a [red head] gay porn star from the 90's. (don't know his name). He did not look good.

by Anonymousreply 142December 21, 2017 4:36 PM

I ended up knowing a few porn actors through my rugby playing days. There are a few porn actors who have played rugby in their day. Two of them are still in porn.

by Anonymousreply 143December 21, 2017 4:39 PM

I somehow dated several porn stars over the years. It shocks me to think about it now. They were all so needy and oversexed. Not really boyfriend material, obviously.

--Ted Matthews--I can't remember his real name, but he's Jewish. He groped me within the first three minutes of meeting him.

--Melchor Diaz--He was in Falcon's Night Flight. When I dated him he was in much better shape than when he was in porn. His body at the time was insane. I was shocked to find out he died of AIDS a few years later. Sweet guy, but very needy and insecure.

--Joe Romero--He picked me up on the street in San Francisco. He was very shy.

There were a few others but I can't remember their porn names.

by Anonymousreply 144December 21, 2017 4:50 PM

It's always interesting to me how many porn stars also show up at sex clubs and parties. They really are sex-addicted.

by Anonymousreply 145December 21, 2017 5:33 PM

[quote] I somehow dated several porn stars over the years

Well smell you. I feel dirty just reading about your past.

by Anonymousreply 146December 23, 2017 10:18 AM

What did Blu Kennedy do? I don't even know who he is, let alone what he did.

by Anonymousreply 147December 23, 2017 11:09 AM

Yes, but most are now dead from drugs.

by Anonymousreply 148December 23, 2017 11:12 AM

Yes, you all know him.

His name is ^%*@slurp^%*@gag^%*@slurp

by Anonymousreply 149December 23, 2017 12:00 PM

R69, if this video is any indication (check out 51:00), Tyler must have frequently awakened many of the fellow frat brothers at ASU.

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by Anonymousreply 150December 23, 2017 5:32 PM

I chat with one on Facebook, he's a cute ginger chub that does bear videos, unfortunately the company he works for does only bareback and they employ a Huge number of HIV+ performers and their testing practices have been called into question. A friend of mine was contacted by the owner of the same studio who had seen his photos on Facebook to ask him is he would like to be a performer but when my friend asked about their testing practices and his preferring not to do bareback scenes with HIV+ costars, the owner flipped his shit and started calling my friend prejudiced against guys with HIV...needless to say after that my friend wisely told the guy to fuck off.

by Anonymousreply 151December 23, 2017 10:17 PM

My cousin did one of those spring break films around 2004 or so. It was something like Panama City Spring Break Girls 23. She took her top off and fondled herself on a couch in a motel near Panama City, Florida so she said. She announced this at thanksgiving 5 years later. Very awkward.

by Anonymousreply 152December 23, 2017 10:20 PM

I'm also convinced that R69 is talking about Tyler Regan. The physical description and timeline seems to fit. He died around '93, apparently from Valley Fever. It's often mistaken for the flu, but it's actually caused by airborne fungus. His compromised immune system must've left him vulnerable.

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by Anonymousreply 153June 1, 2018 9:30 PM

Know one? I married one.

by Anonymousreply 154June 1, 2018 9:58 PM

[quote]I've known quite a few in Chicago.

r34 Brad Hunt?

by Anonymousreply 155June 1, 2018 10:20 PM

We have appeared in certain movies that we owned but always with our face covered!

by Anonymousreply 156June 2, 2018 8:22 AM

Pornstars are interesting in a social studies sense but I wouldn't advise getting involved with one as most seem to be a bit how shall we say...nuts.

by Anonymousreply 157June 2, 2018 9:06 AM

I've just figured out Blue's Clues, because I have the AIDS

by Anonymousreply 158March 11, 2021 4:16 PM

Yes. I know one who regularly performs with a "traditional" studio, and he's a nice, smart guy.

I know a few Sean Cody guys as well, but have lost touch somewhat.

by Anonymousreply 159March 11, 2021 4:19 PM

Rocco Siffredi, François Sagat, Michel Lucas

by Anonymousreply 160March 11, 2021 4:25 PM

Most of them seem really needy and often are not the most stable people.

by Anonymousreply 161March 11, 2021 5:31 PM
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