What's it like to have a big dick?

overall, it's great; mine is huge, but not monstrous to where it can't be taken.

I've had guys say to me: you need to share it with the world and call it a 'billy club'

I suppose if I didn't have a big one, I'd obsess about wanting a big one, but when I'm in bed with a guy I really am not that into size.

I prefer to have a connection. I'm much more into pecs and arms.

Overall, I have an 'eh' body, but I know I can change that. Dick size, pretty much stays the same.

I wish I knew.

But outside of the bedroom/sex, it has little impact (except most likely on self confidence)

I know someone my age (53) who has nothing to show for himself (besides a big dick). Has a gambling and drinking problem, always with his hand out, etc.

I'd rather have a small dick and a big bank account. Makes most of life easier.

[quote]Please post your dick

I'd like to, but the Postal Service has size limits.

You can never be too thin, too rich, or have a big enough dick.

I'm blessed to have 2 out of the 3 must haves. My money can be funny at times honey. But on the sunny side of things...I'm a skinny guy with a pretty big dick.

Not too bad looking, in case money word has me hooking. -- Now booking Johns. Rich ones to the front of the line. Because I'm kinda fine, and my big dick promises a real good time. I accept Visa, M.C., EBT, SNAP, WIC..Monopoly bucks..

Hell if I know.

R4- Money woes^ (misspelling ho's :-) gotta go!

My first "real" boyfriend had a big, beautiful cock, but he kind of had a hang up about it--he thought it was all he had to offer, and that it was all anyone wanted from him. I couldn't take all his insecurities, eventually, so we parted. I think he finally got over that, and seems happy now, from what I see on Facebook and the few times a year we communicate.

I'd never be in a relationship with him again, but God do I miss that beautiful cock.

[quote]Does it make up a large part of who you are?

Stupid question, not worth answering.

[quote] Are you always aware of the monster between your legs?

SUPPORT is absolutely necessary >>>

I'm a small guy 5'6" with a big dick, growing up I never thought I had a big dick I always thought being a small guy I had an average dick at best. When I started having sex with guys my partners always said I have a big dick. I was in a bookstore on Christopher St playing in the backroom 2 hot guys came over and I started playing with them one put his hand in my pants and felt my hardon he looked at his friend and said "he's got a big dick" thats's when it sunk in. My partner has a big dick too so we are both size queens. I love sucking on a big dick!

^^^ When you you hook up with a guy and he finds out you have a big dick he always presents hole.

^^^ Not always. Not everyone wants to be ripped apart by a monster peen.

OP-- isn't it easier to just go on Grindr, find the guys who say they're hung and ask to trade pics with them?

It's wonderful. But you'll never see it!

I've got a big one, and am always appreciative of the attention it would get me in the gay world. I was actually underdeveloped when I was a young teen, smaller than the other guys in the locker room (used to feel a mix of lust, envy and shame towards them), but after 14/15 I went into a mutant growth phase and was way more massive than any of them within a year. I actually started experimenting with enlargement techniques a few years back and once pumped my dick to be the same size and thickness as a wine bottle.

It was a real burden. You gay boys never let me forget it.

It's a mixed bag like everything else in life. I'm circumcised - a grower not a shower - so I grew up thinking I was pretty average. When I got to be an adult and started having gay sex, I slowly realized I was big - longer than average and particularly thick. A woman I know says it's all about girth.

It's nice at first - you like the attention, the compliments, the adoration you get from some guys - sometimes you feel like it's all about your dick. Some guys get so tense they can't take it or they can only take a small part of it. Some guys take it all but immediately say that it hurts too much or it makes them too sore. That leads to some aborted anal sex - so what else can we do now? There have even been times when all the attention on my dick made me too anxious or too self-conscious to really enjoy the sex.

It's great when you find a guy who takes it well and seems to really get into having it inside him. He doesn't make a big deal about it - you can just tell he's enjoying the feeling and the experience. Some guys can take it for hours and want it in them over and over again - that's good.

There are small annoyances - rubbers break easily or disappear while you're fucking. Some of the same guys who have just been worshiping your dick like its the Baby Jesus go psycho when they find out a rubber has broken. It's like most things in life - it's a trade off. Having a big dick will not generally make you rich or smart or even particularly good in bed, especially if you take it too seriously.

And there have been a few times I've been with guys who have been as big or even bigger - that helps put it all in perspective. And I hope it keeps me from being a douche about it.

I'm more than a big dick, thank you. I'm a total person who happens to be blessed with a beautiful cut cock. If that's all you're interested in get lost.

Does your dick hang low?

Does it wobble to and fro?

Can you tie it in a knot?

Can you tie it in a bow?

Can you throw it o'er your shoulder?

Like a continental soldier

Does your dick hang low?

The average erect dick is 5.1 inches.

I have a pretty big one, but it curves left. (not, like, peyronies disease. but I've always been flattered by other guys in bed regarding the size, but it still makes me very self conscious because of the bend. I'd say the bend is like, 80-75 degree angle

"Does it make up a large part of who you are?

Stupid question, not worth answering."

R8 I am not the OP, but why is it a stupid question?

And you - R17 - "If that's all you're interested in get lost. " WTF??

Both of you, this is an anonymous board - you can really brag and tell us the truth!

5.1 is small.

7 inches is small by DL standards

I have a big dick. A real 9 x 6. Bottoms love it and often come within seconds of my fucking them.

I used to think it was a blessing but realized that men often want me just for my dick. So I stopped advertising its size on hook up Apps. I love seeing their surprise now.

Often Inconvenient.

Big dick and balls here. Yes I'm always aware of them both. Or thrice. Can be a real pain in the ass sometimes and sometimes a downright nuisance if I really need to adjust in public.

I have yet to find the perfect underwear as in compression.

I walked into my gym once with a small bottle of water and a hottie there makes a (false) correlation between my small water bottle and what he assumes is me having a small dick (I'm r1, it's huge)

I regret not saying to him: Tell you what big guy; I'll come over to your place some night with a six pack of beer or a bottle of wine; we'll measure; if you're bigger, I'll blow you. If I'm bigger...I'll still blow you but then we spoon till dawn. Me into you.

Wasn't there some guy on this board a while back whining about his big dick? Life was so hard because when he could not sit down on a toilet seat without the tip of his dick hitting the water.

I think that has more to do with the cheap shallow toilets some builders were using in the 90s and the 2000s - i replaced my toilets and I don't have that problem anymore.

Why hasn't Anonymous in Kansas City been here to brag about his construction crane member?

I'd like to show a bulge. That would be nice.

Having a big dick doesn't mean you'll always show a big bulge - it depends on what you're wearing, how big you hang flaccid, your balls...a lot of variables.

I guess here's something I can bitch about; I'm huge, but I'm a grower, not a shower; flaccid, I got nothing.

So it's not like guys see a bulge and we can go from there.

It's tiresome. People constantly want photos of my crotch, even though I do absolutely nothing to lead them on.

Big dicks are like big tits. Those things are power! Until you get old, then it's just gross when you that that topped with an old face.

R30 You rang? Want me to brag about my thang and how it hang? Dang. You've missed my other witt-icisms ^ R4-R6.

Perhaps that's why I'm forever yammering about my hammer. Over compensating from shared experiences like other posters. I was a very late bloomer and usually one of the smaller guys in the lot. I was extremely self-conscious about changing in the locker room after swimming and would usually put on my street clothes on over my still wet trunks. I know, right? I'd be a miserable mess until they dried.

My growth spurt didn't kick in until the Summer before my Junior year of HS. Before this, I looked like a 7th grader everywhere on my puny body. My dick was definitely child sized. I would go to extremes to never ever be seen nude in public. I was teased and bullied unmercifully and was almost the victim of a potential life defeating prank.

The older kids played a cruel prank. I was the only Catholic school kid on my block. Everyone knew I was a virgin. This was when I was 14 or 15. So the girls lied to me and said they would take my virginity and "make a man of me." They lured me into the den of one of their homes. They tried to get me drunk and high. Then they attempted to get my clothes off. There were 4 of them. All 11th or 12th graders. Really pretty chicks, popular, cheerleader types. I should've known something was awry.

So, after group hugging, and swarming me, they had my shirt off, and were unbuckling my belt. When my Mom shows up, knocking on their door. It was 10pm and my curfew. But in reality, one of their little sisters went up the street, snitching and laughing at the humiliation about to be unleashed on me. Saved from a life scarring event. Thanks lil big mouth sis and Mom.

After my I grew 2 years later, stuff like this lurked in the back of my mind. Making me very self-conscious and fearful to show my body. Lifting weights to fight back against bullies, and suddenly being taken seriously changed everything. I didn't realize until FB's would remark on my bigger than average size. Girls would say stuff like, is it really that big or just looks that way because you're skinny. (One way to find out huh? :-)

The guys I first slept with were older and closeted. I didn't receive much feedback or commentary from them. It was kinda wham bam thanks Sam. See ya'. Don't tell anybody...I'm not gay. Around 20, I obtained the inner confidence to know that 8 1/3 in. by 6 in. was undeed a hole pleaser. I'm still more of a grower than a shower. Just enough flaccid size to make a nice bulge. An indicator of what's in store. So know this DLers, my bragging comes from insecurity still to this day. Even after all the streaking, flashing, selfies...I'm a B+ if we're grading. Not the biggest or fattest, but I made peace with my nice piece decades ago. For the most part.

Well alright AIKC.

It pleases the "ladies" and I get everything I want. Story old as the hills.

The British have a word for it.

[quote]Big dick and balls here. Yes I'm always aware of them both. Or thrice. Can be a real pain in the ass sometimes

LITERALLY!

Thank you for clarifying thrice.

Doesn't count if it's a "twisty."

I'm extremely well hung (shower and grower) and see absolutely no negatives. I get a compliment from almost every guy I hook up with. I love showing it off in the lockerroom. I'm also a top which helps because 95% of guys want me to fuck them when they see it.

One (none too smart) guy I dated a bit told me he assumed I'd had an implant because it was out of proportion with my body. I am also very well built.

R43 is what this thread is all about.

Oh for me AIKC is like my new favorite poster - I just assumed he was a midwestern Trump voter so I initially paid no attention to him but his well-written story - and his insight are what the thread is all about. Bravo!

Why do I never see guys like R43 in the gym? All balls, no cock, bottom, bottom, bottom.

I have a big dick and huge balls. The older I get, I need to wear a jockstrap or it aches all day.

There are four cock sizes: micro, average, big and horse. I'm big, and guys have called my cock 'quintessential' and 'the perfect dick for fucking.' In my teen years I thought it was small. I would sneak away and look at my dad's Penthouse mags, which for a while in the '70s included the occasional naked male (with of course a very photogenic cock) that mine didn't measure up to. But soon after, the older 22 year old guy who broke my virginity told me I had a "great future" ahead of me as he peered at my hard-on. But big is relative, and I'm definitely a grower/not a shower which I would prefer not to be. Plus my balls are a handful, which makes my cock look more average side had I had smaller balls. So the bravado that one would think would accompany my size has never been part and parcel.

btw, ever notice how these days with the younger crowd, escorts and trade, 10 is the new 8?

Those are called internet inches R48.

I love a big cock but had hate overly large balls.

R47 Your symptoms sound like you have a hernia.

The average length of a anus+rectum is 15-17 cm. Say, 6.5". Taking a longer cock than that means finding the way to push into the sigmoid colon. Both the top and the bottom need some skill and experience.

When excited, the average length of woman's vagina is maybe 4.5" but it can stretch to accommodate size meat.

F.Y.I.

R43, I would mostly agreed with you that there are no downsides to having a big dick. I'm 9" and both a grower and a show-er. I had my share of guys over the last 40 years and never had a guy with a bigger one. (Until just recently but that's another story.)

The first time I realized there was a downside to being well endowed was when, as a young man exploring the bar scene, I figured out some guys only liked me for my appendage. Some guys would approach me in bars because I had a big package and really weren't interested in me as a person. I guess women with a big rack have the same problem. I know there are worse problems to have in life than guys trying to get into your pants, but it can sometimes make you feel like an object and not a person. Over time I grew to resent the attention and now avoid tight jeans and boxer shorts as a result. My dates now get a pleasant surprise when the action moves into the bedroom.

And the other downside - about two years ago an overzealous BF who was new to bottoming and extremely tight decided, without warning, to just slam his ass down on my dick to get it in there. Unfortunately he so tight and my dick so long that my dick bent at the base. Permanently. It looks normal when soft or semi erect but when I'm hard, my dick now distinctly bends to the left. Fortunately everything still functions as it should. (Whew!) My most recent partner said my dick is "distinctive". (Now you know why in porn flicks the top often grips his dick at the base as he penetrates the bottom dude.)

Thanks for sharing gents

Well the downside stories are kind of a buzzkill.

I'm more of a hoover/deep throat oral bottom. I love a big dick.

My dorm roommate in college had a HUGE dick. I discovered this in about the first week that we roomed together when I walked in the door and there he was on his bed, desperately trying to stuff his giant hard cock back into his pants because I had caught him in the middle of jerking off.

I didn't know what to say - I'd never seen a dick that big and hard in "real life" before. I think I said, "Oh, sorry," and I just remember him cursing and struggling to get that big thing back in his pants. After that little "icebreaker," he was totally comfortable walking around naked and letting that dangling dick hang out. He was a shower and a grower and the envy of all the guys in our floor's shower room.

sophomore year in prep school my roommate was a blond skinny guy with a huge dick. I was pre-gay and so was a buddy of mine. When we realised how huge he was we total shits about it and tortured him in various ways but of course what we didnt realise was that we WANTED his dick so desperately. I transferred to another school and I never heard from that roommate again. Freshman year in college I was still in the closet and again, I got a lovely tall built redhead roommate who was horse hung. He was really cheeky about it, must have seen my desire cause after we were friendly he would tease me in so many ways. I would see him on campus and he would be wearing my clothes and he would wink. One time he was wearing my jeans and he said does it bug me and I said no be my guest and he said well you know I'm not wearing underwear, and winked. I was a damned fool cause obviously he would have given that dick to me but I refused to leave the closet for another year and just got it on with strangers off campus.

I know guys who are growers and showers whose flaccid dicks can tend to hang down into the toilet bowl water when they're sitting down. That's a problem i'd like to have.

For more discourse on the pros and cons of the large cock, check out the Large Penis Support Group at lpsg.org.

Somehow, when I first became sexually active I encountered a spate of big penises ranging from 8 1/2" to over 11". Apparently, according to my bf,my run of big cock encounters are rare as he's says(despite his considerable experience) he's never been with a guy over 8 so the odds of having so many in such a short period of time were pretty steep. The first guy I ever performed oral on was probably 8 1/2 and THICK. I probably would have been better at it had I had a "starter dick."

Anyway, big penises are a joy to look at but frankly, I'd rather a man have a handsome face and average cock than an average face with a huge one.

Honestly, it is not the length -- it is the girth. Makes the world of difference.

well no, r61. you are talking oranges and bananas. Sometimes the length is great if the guy knows how to open the second door, its a real thrill. Also long, curved down hard cocks are fun to deep throat, on ones knees.

And long ones that curve up are better at hitting the prostate.

Hubby has huge nuts. Yum

I've talked to great looking guys with perfect muscle bodies and just average cocks who've said they would easily trade in what they have if they could have a really big cock.

R65, I've heard that, too; and I can get a better body; the great dick I have will always be what it is.

I would never have traded my face and body for a huge dick. My face and bod got me a lot more than sex, and it got me plenty of sex and more big dicks than I could manage.

It's great--it grants me access to guys way out of my league.

True R68 a big dick is a great equalizer R9

That's from Sidney Sheldon or Hatikd Robbins?

I mean Harold

r68, so true, I'm a normal, average if a somewhat a quasi-handsome guy, tall, nice body etc. But if I lived anywhere other than LA, NYC or SF, I'd be the bomb.

but I DO live in LA where being handsome is just not enough, so many guys in WeHo are model gorgeous. but, I'm a grower and a shower, so me in tight low cut, expensive jeans, you can see what I'm packing. so I've had guys waaaaaay out of my league (yippee for me!) just because they love a big cock.

but I'm also REALLY THICK (which lucky for me drives tops and bottoms crazy.) The most avowed TOP, when he sees what I'm packing, immediately wants it up his ass - and I'm super happy to oblige. This used to happens all the time (I have a BF now.)

but like others noted, and yes I have the same poor, poor, poor me (sarcasm) big dick problems -- guys can't take it up their ass because I'm not only big but thick. condoms don't fit, my dick hits the water in some toilets (totally grosses me out.) I've had size queens stalk in real life and in the cyber world. Most embarrassing, also I've been reprimanded at work by HR for not wearing underwear because of the size of my bulge, but truth be told I always wear underwear, I have no choice or the bulge would be much more apparent. but I'd never change it for a second. I love my big dick and then attention garners!

Lastly, I found my current boyfriend on adam4adam, and on his profile he only had a dick pics posted, and he was really big. so I contacted him because I rarely meet another guy as big as me.

we've now been together for 6 years now. and the sad part -- he's a total bottom. I've asked for him to fuck me with his massive tool and he's done it after a couple of strong drinks, but after a few minutes into it, we stop because I can tell he's not into it so we flip and I fuck him once again. It's getting boring.

Oh, one more thing, having a big dick precedes you. when I was young and going out to bars and clubs, complete strangers would come up to me and say, my friend, such and such says you've got a big dick... if they were cute, or we had some connection I'd be totally ok. but often it would be some drunk asshole, who thinks just because he knows what's between my legs, it's my obligation to fuck him, I'd say no. And that's one of the reasons for a long time I only dated top/versatile men, no matter what size (currently BF notwithstanding ). total bottoms can be so annoying. AND PLEASE KNOW I'M NOT BOTTOM SHAMING anyone, I LOVE GETTING FUCKED (and that fact may play into me and my BF's eventually breakup), but it is not my obligation to fuck you just because I have a big dick.

Sidney Sheldon. The Other Side of Midnight.

r73 No! Stranger in the Mirror!

This thread is a bunch of lies without pics.

I love a versatile hung man.

R72...marry me!

Has anyone ever turned down a guy because he was too hung?

Yes I turned down 2 guys for second dates. I dont regret the first dates - so enormous that it was freaky fun and exciting. But there is too big to deal with - can't fit in the mouth, can't fit in the ass.

Just once.

"Too hung" is not in my vocabulary.

I let myself go to seed because the eye never stays too long on my face, and the ladies throw themselves at me no matter how grubby I get.

R77, I have. I went home to with this cute blond curly-haired grad student. We made out for a while and I'm on top of him and exploring "down there" and I felt a horse cock. It was the biggest thing I had ever felt. I didn't even want to take it out, lest he get ideas! I had no idea what he planned on doing with it so we just made out and went to sleep. He seemed resigned to his fate as he didn't try to top me and didn't indicate he wanted to bottom. He was sweet though!

[quote] it is not my obligation to fuck you just because I have a big dick.

OH, YES IT IS, with great power comes great responsibility!

[quote]Has anyone ever turned down a guy because he was too hung?

Yep, I have. I am used to normal sized guys and an extra huge would tear me up. Plus I don't want to end up with a sloppy prolapse hole. I know a guy that actually tore his sphincter trying to take a big dick, rushed to the hospital, very painful for months after surgery.

R9 Here, I had a guy beg me not to fuck him because he thought I was too big I gently slipped it in and fucked him. There were many repeat performances after that time. If you take it slow and let the bottom relax it can be great for both parties.

the 2 times I came no hands was with a 10 inch firm but flexible brazilian way up my colon. he knows how to hit the spot and open the 2nd door no problem. if the huge dick is too hard, i believe only a genuinely practiced holland tunnel bottom can take it all.

What do you consider big? I see guys say they are "Hung" and then say it's 7'. I always considered 8" the minimum ( or possibly 7.5 but thick. for "hung" status

8" or 20cm. 19cm is often quite big feeling. nobody complains about 7 though, right? party size. huge dick is 9" or 8 and SUPER fat. exciting freak is 10

Throwing it over your shoulder when you want to run.

Having over 9 inches and thick is too big. I have met guys with huge dicks and I was disgusted and avoided them. Cannot suck or be fucked by a huge dick.

Wish to hell that I knew....

I've been several 9+. Sometimes at that size, they dont' get fully hard. A few years ago I lived in CA and a guy I wanted to hook up with so bad, 9+, very thick. We finally made it happen, and he never got hard-hard. I spent a lot of time sucking him, and after a while, I literally got bored!! (and I love to suck). Finally I was like, "I gotta go". A big let down. Though I was glad to do it and actually see the reality was nowhere near what I thought it would be.

Also, I like a good, proportionate dick. Head ideally slightly wider than that the shaft, although a thick middle is nice. I dont' like when the head narrows a lot (torpedo dick) or is grossly larger than a thin shaft, even if it it's 8-9.

In my case I think my self perception of my dick size "dick-tated" if I saw myself as a top or bottom. When being a late bloomer and smaller in dick size, also sleeping with guys older than my teen years, I was a young bottom. As I grew, my dick too, I began to think of myself as more of a top. Bottoming also became more painful and definitely less pleasurable to me. It's like my ass re-virginated. Instead of stretching to accommodate a guy, my anus did the opposite and remained tight, seemingly tighter than ever.

After my early years of being a bottom-boy and getting plowed by my FB's, my new increased growth was being acknowledged and appreciated by the older dudes. They actually wanted me to top them now. Not always, but enough for me to reclassify myself as a top. A former skinny nerd becomes a tall, hunky top guy... A John Hughes real life movie moment for a Midwest 'mo. I made the transition quite seamlessly and haven't looked back.

R45, me a Trump voter? Now that's some funny shit. The Midwest part I totally own, but a Trump supporter? I think not. I was also bullied for being biracial. So, no to the Trumpster. I grew into my looks and body and turned a perceived liability into a great asset. I'm different, exotic, and one unique Scorpio freak, who knows exactly what to do when fucking. I'm a savant (but not the idiot kind :-)

R72, I laid some AMAZING guys in LA. Thank God for all those size-obsessed LA model bottoms!

Big dicks rule!

Thick gerthy cocks rule

Honestly, it's pretty cool. I'm 8 inches bone pressed, 7.5 visually, with slightly above average girth (apx 5.5 erect) and a big ol' mushroom head. So, not the very biggest, but most definitely above average. Caucasian male, standing 5" 9.5' tall (average height), size 11 shoe, with slightly above average hands. Big balls, big bubble are and hairy, but not too hairy, all over. Naturally decent upper body, but am working to expand my physique. I'm also told that I'm "really goodlooking" or "really cute" quite often. Not being boastful, just stating facts as they may scientifically correlate to penis size. I'd say the best part of having a big dick are the stares/smiling faces I see when I show it to people who haven't seen it yet. And the adoration that cums with it as they tell me how much they love it and what not as they're blowing me. I've never topped, but would love to fuck a cute virgin.

I'm average length but way above average girth. I came out late so didn't realize I was that different from most until a couple of guys told me I had the fattest cock they'd ever seen. It's been a problem for some people because they haven't been able to take it anally. It is kind of funny because word spread and I had some obnoxious queens who'd always been rude or dismissive when I saw them out and about (I'm otherwise average cute) start hitting me up. Uh, no thanks.

It’s a shame that some guys with a big dick have indicated they don’t know how to use it to their advantage. It’s something that would open so many doors and opportunities by making sure others are aware of it. The world is your oyster in your big dick hands.

What R78 said. Big dicks aren't compatible with regular sized anal crevices, or mouths for that matter. I feel sorry for these guys, although I know they could give a shit.

And PULEAZE, 8" x 6" is a small loaf of bread, not a cock size. No one really has a diameter that big unless their cock is 10+ inches.

R100, that happened to me too when it got around I have a big dick.

There was also a phase were a number of muscle Mary's from the gym found out and for awhile there I was quite popular, but I'm glad that is out of my system now - what I learned very quickly is that there is a type of very selfish bottom who really just wants to use a big dick to get off. I slept with most of them, but rarely did they actually help me cum too.

My favourite thing though is to be right up to the hilt inside a guy, when he arse hits my pubic bone, I love that. Not everyone is will to take me like that though unfortunately.

8 x 5.5 here, don’t believe me if you want. I’d say it can impress hookups but at the same time sometimes sex gets tricky. I’d say the best sex I had was definitely one offs and it was great because I didn’t have to stop or try to not go all the way in. I always need to be careful when topping. I also can tell when someone has not prepped adequately, let that be a warning!

And after all this, the average erect penis is still 5.1 inches.

my deal is that im such a grower ,not shower, that i think of myself as having a small dick. The other night, though, i gagged a guy and we had to abort anal as well due to size.

Bea never shut up about it.

I've got a big one and had no idea until I went through my slutty phase and saw to compare it to.

Honestly, having a big dick isn't all it's cracked up to be. Guys are all "ooo" and "ahh" about it when they first discover it, and tell you how big it is, and look all surprised and excited... but when it come to actually bottoming for you, they all shy away pretty fast.

And when you're big, a lot of guys aren't particularly good at oral, either. (Sorry fellas, it's true.)

R108 but when they are like dayum!!!!!!

I never realized it was big until at a certain stage when I had heard it repeated many times. One GF i had would cum immediately upon insertion. Another time, when I was only occasionally experimenting with guys and I was in abs closed door and some dude was peeking in. He offered me $50 to suck “that big dick.” So i gradually realized it was true, and measured 9 1/2 inches.

R109 (different poster with a big dick) not really. I can’t get off from a bj and find it kind of boring. I’d rather fuck.

[quote] Big dicks are like big tits. Those things are power! Until you get old, then it's just gross when you that that topped with an old face.

Big dicks are great until you can no longer get fully erect. Which starts in or around mid-30s.

It’s not the size of the wand, but the magic within.

I would just like a long flaccid one to get casually naked in gyms and nude beaches. Guess it would be like a woman wanting big breasts.

I'm a shower who grows a bit. I'm also a fat guy. I get stares in the locker room. I am, of course, a bottom.

My tender and tight lady poosie does accommodate the larger ones too.

Wow, necrothread!

I have a big, though not huge, dick and honestly it's great - there are no downsides when it's big but not freaky huge. If I ever feel a bit insecure about other physical attributes I can always say to myself "Hey, at least I have a big dick!" and it makes me feel better.

I don't think it makes up a large part of who I am, and I think I'd be predominantly a top regardless of size. I never even really thought I was big until I lost my virginity to a much older man and he made a comment about the fact most guys don't have big dicks and I would be disappointed if I assumed everyone had one the same as mine or bigger. Until then the only hard dicks I'd seen were mine or in porn.

Oh R102 it appears you are confusing DIAMETER with CIRCUMFERENCE - when people say a dick measurement of for example, 8" x 6" they are not saying their dick is 6" wide, it's 6" circumference, i.e. girth.

It’s more or less like being handsome or wealthy- luck and something to be grateful for- seriously. I was actually slow to realize it probably because I grow and don’t show. It was only when I had a certain amount of sex and feedback that I knew I was lucky down there.

A hypnotized look comes over faces.

It's no guarantee of success (though it should be, if you play your cards right). There are hung homeless men. And prisons are full of sizemeatus.

I knew that R118, but thanks anyway as I just got out a measuring tape, and a 6" girth isn't really very big. Or not as big as it seemed.

[quote]I love powerful, dominant men including those with the smaller mushroom-headed dicks.

Shut up, Senatrice.

6 inch girth isn't big compared to a fucking tree but IRL they are not that common. So fuck you, 6 girth is big.

Is R36 trying to sound like Joe Buck or is that just coincidence?

R122 6" of girth is definitely on the thick side, trust me! Unless you have a hole that's looser than a wizard's sleeve, you're going to really feel a 6" girth.

6" diameter club.

Generic white guy here. I can’t speak about having a big dick. I’m 6 inches hard with medium size balls. I’m happy to be average and never get turned down by a bottom. So while giant cocks are fun to look at, they clearly can be an onus in the anus.

It was....wonderful.

A two inch punisher is more painful than an eight inch stretcher!

You never know if someone likes you or just your cock. But, it's fun to carry a big stick.

[Reply 131] you could say the same thing about someone who is handsome or rich. "Well, you'll never know if they like you or just your pretty face/bank account". 🤷

R103 I missed your comment before about selfish bottoms that just want to use a big dick to get off - totally relate to that, I fucked a guy once in multiple positions and he came, and then was completely not interested in helping me get off too. He said to me, "You can cum if you want but not in me or on me" so I just packed my big dick up and left.

Everybody expects you to be a dominant top. Well, I need to be pounded too!!

I hooked up once with a guy who had a muscular, worked out body and an ok dick. I had an ok body, but my dick was definitely bigger than his. When asked, he said he'd rather have a big dick than a great body.